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Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the

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Speaker 1: Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present

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Speaker 1: and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and

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Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson,

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Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Concer podcast. This is

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Speaker 1: the podcast where we ch have mindset, self development and

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Speaker 1: becoming your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs,

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Speaker 1: plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses

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Speaker 1: and being among Think of us as the perfect combo

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Speaker 1: of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No

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Speaker 1: matter where you are in your journey, we're here to

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Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical

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Speaker 1: self awareness. If you're ready to get into the driver's

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Speaker 1: seat of your own life and stop letting life pass

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Speaker 1: you by, then you're in the right place.

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Speaker 2: Hello everyone, and welcome back to the podcast. Today's episode

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Speaker 2: is another solo pep talk from g and she is

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Speaker 2: talking to us about becoming the drivers of our own life.

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Speaker 2: Often we can stop ourselves from going after our goals

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Speaker 2: because we're waiting for something or someone or just something

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Speaker 2: this episode. It is the pep talk you need, and

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Speaker 1: Stop waiting for the man, the client, someone else to

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Speaker 1: save you. Stop waiting like, I really want you to

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Speaker 1: check in with yourself and what part of your dreams

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Speaker 1: else's responsibility. Maybe it's like if I just had that

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Speaker 2: I've always said you might not get what you want,

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Speaker 1: the Rise app, you get fifty percent off the project,

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Speaker 1: which is wild, including the live round. If you've already

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Speaker 1: you guys so much, and I'll catch in the next episode. Bye.

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