WEBVTT - Would You Get A QR Code Tombstone? ⚰️ ☠️ 0:00:01.520 --> 0:00:04.440 Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex 0:00:04.480 --> 0:00:10.960 and Frooms catch Up podcast. It is Flex and Frooms 0:00:11.000 --> 0:00:15.040 on Cada. And I've had one of the coolest experiences 0:00:15.080 --> 0:00:17.480 in the whole wide world. Long story short, I went 0:00:17.520 --> 0:00:20.000 to a dinner party with a friend I haven't seen 0:00:20.079 --> 0:00:23.680 in so long. It was me, my friend, her boyfriend, 0:00:23.760 --> 0:00:26.680 and her. Is it a coworker when you're both actors? 0:00:26.880 --> 0:00:29.720 I guess so yeah, Pier Pier Peer peer Pier. 0:00:31.280 --> 0:00:36.480 And I brought up Divergent because I really do enjoy 0:00:36.640 --> 0:00:40.479 young adult dystopian novels because I think they create this 0:00:40.600 --> 0:00:43.200 really amazing framework for us to see where we're going. 0:00:43.680 --> 0:00:46.519 Why is dystopia so popular for younger doctors. 0:00:46.520 --> 0:00:49.120 I don't know, but I don't read it now, But 0:00:49.159 --> 0:00:51.440 when I was younger, like in high school, it's a 0:00:51.479 --> 0:00:53.360 lot of what I read was like dystopian novels. And 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:57.080 so I was thinking about how I remember I told 0:00:57.080 --> 0:00:59.280 you that all of digital data are stored in a 0:00:59.320 --> 0:01:02.240 physical place. Talk to travel long about it, and it's 0:01:04.560 --> 0:01:06.640 and we were saying that one of two things are 0:01:06.640 --> 0:01:09.080 going to happen. It's going to become really really expensive 0:01:09.080 --> 0:01:11.039 to store data. Right now, it's a couple of dollars 0:01:11.080 --> 0:01:14.160 on iCloud per month, So it's going to be limited 0:01:14.160 --> 0:01:16.319 to those who are you know, really rich, or those 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:18.160 who can afford it, or we're going to get to 0:01:18.160 --> 0:01:20.039 a point of maximum saturation where you just have to 0:01:20.080 --> 0:01:21.839 delete the data. And I was like, oh my goodness, 0:01:21.880 --> 0:01:23.920 we're gonna have another burn the books moment. We're gonna 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:26.080 have another burn the books. When like, it's you're the information, babe. 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:28.319 You want to save the world, so you are the information. 0:01:28.880 --> 0:01:33.200 And then together we well, basically I started talking about 0:01:33.200 --> 0:01:34.800 a book concept that I want to write, and they 0:01:34.880 --> 0:01:36.880 kept asking me questions about the book and I was 0:01:36.959 --> 0:01:37.800 ideating with them, and. 0:01:37.760 --> 0:01:38.680 Now I have a manuscript. 0:01:39.440 --> 0:01:43.360 Amazing, So I'm going to be an amazing dystopian fiction author. Babes, 0:01:43.400 --> 0:01:44.360 I'm cooking, I'm cooking. 0:01:44.360 --> 0:01:46.000 I'm cooking. I'm cooking. I'm cooking and cooking. It's going 0:01:46.040 --> 0:01:48.520 to change my life. I look forward to it. It's sick. 0:01:48.680 --> 0:01:52.520 Any updates to me. Nah, I'm chilling. Okay, let's get 0:01:52.560 --> 0:01:52.720 to it. 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:57.640 Okta, Flex and Frooms. You're listening to Flex and Frooms. 0:01:57.720 --> 0:02:00.120 What the frick? I'm not sure about you. Flex, But 0:02:00.160 --> 0:02:03.640 when I'm thinking about the topic of babies. You have 0:02:03.960 --> 0:02:08.079 sex with somebody, or perhaps you have artificial insemination, and 0:02:08.120 --> 0:02:09.559 together it's possible. 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:09.919 To create a baby. 0:02:09.960 --> 0:02:13.280 Okay, correct, This has occurred through time, immorial. I think 0:02:13.280 --> 0:02:15.760 the first baby was created in a tube, a test 0:02:15.760 --> 0:02:18.520 tube baby in the nineties in Australia. Thank you to 0:02:18.560 --> 0:02:22.079 Monash IVF the first and it's kind and since then 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:24.920 leaps and bounds have been made when it comes to 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:31.200 assisted reproduction. But of course as technology continues to evolve, 0:02:32.360 --> 0:02:35.400 there's the ability to edit the genes and edit your baby. 0:02:35.440 --> 0:02:38.600 So I subscribe for a newsletter called New World, Same Humans. 0:02:38.600 --> 0:02:41.840 What are you going about? You just about this break? 0:02:43.800 --> 0:02:48.200 And this guy writes about like new technologies and then 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:50.280 gives his two cents every week and it's really great. 0:02:50.600 --> 0:02:53.040 It's called New Week, Same Humans. 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:53.760 Substack. 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:54.800 You can google it and. 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:57.359 You can google it and sign up. 0:02:57.760 --> 0:03:00.840 He was talking about a peace that was published in 0:03:00.880 --> 0:03:03.200 the Journal of Science this week, and the study asked 0:03:03.240 --> 0:03:06.200 respondents if they'd use embryo selection and or gene editing 0:03:06.240 --> 0:03:09.239 technologies to create children who are smarter and more likely 0:03:09.280 --> 0:03:12.040 to get into a top ranked college. The respondents were 0:03:12.040 --> 0:03:14.480 told to imagine that these techniques are free and safe, 0:03:14.760 --> 0:03:17.120 neither of which is currently true, and a full thirty 0:03:17.160 --> 0:03:20.560 eight percent said they'd use embryo selection and twenty eight 0:03:20.639 --> 0:03:26.880 said they use gene editing, Which means that our data 0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:28.880 suggests that it would be unwise to assume that the 0:03:29.000 --> 0:03:34.000 use of PGTP, which is gene editing, even for controversial traits, 0:03:34.040 --> 0:03:36.920 will be limited to idiosync critic individuals, or that it 0:03:36.960 --> 0:03:40.320 has little potential tocourse or contribute to society wide changes 0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:43.440 in inequities. In other words, gene editing humans may be 0:03:43.640 --> 0:03:45.720 just around the corner. So get ready for some seriously 0:03:45.760 --> 0:03:48.360 weird and terrifying implications. 0:03:49.640 --> 0:03:50.960 I want to talk about this more on the podcast. 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:53.000 I want to ask you, FLEXI, if you had the 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:56.280 ability to edit your child, you would be spawn and 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:59.880 make it smarter, cleverer, hotter, insert quality that you want here. 0:04:00.320 --> 0:04:01.680 Would you do it? It's a big question. 0:04:01.920 --> 0:04:03.800 So, despite the fact that it was a real struggle 0:04:03.840 --> 0:04:06.120 for me to get that last few sentences out. 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:12.200 First time you read the article, you know I have. 0:04:12.160 --> 0:04:20.000 Busy weeks, I'm busy rollerblading. So do you think that 0:04:20.080 --> 0:04:22.000 you would edit your baby if you have the chance. Okay, 0:04:22.279 --> 0:04:23.920 let's start with like the first what do you think 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:25.480 of this? Let's sart with the first hear of this? 0:04:26.360 --> 0:04:29.000 If you wanted your baby no, okay. 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:31.719 You go, no, you go. I'm doing this thing where 0:04:31.720 --> 0:04:33.320 I make rooms form her own thoughts. 0:04:33.800 --> 0:04:37.320 That's not true and that's not nice. I'm literally doing it. 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:40.200 You'll notice every day today, You'll you'll for all of 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:41.520 your breaks that it's a question. 0:04:41.640 --> 0:04:43.599 You'd be like what do you think? Flex? Like what 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:44.479 do you think for me? 0:04:44.640 --> 0:04:47.760 And then answer a question because I love to hear 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:49.920 you speak, because usually just default to what do you think? 0:04:49.920 --> 0:04:51.640 Flex? And then you're like, okay, I agree. 0:04:51.600 --> 0:04:55.039 No, I don't, that's untrue. You are biased. And you 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:59.599 also think before made me do that? Fucked would you bother? 0:04:59.680 --> 0:05:03.600 And then you didn't answer it? So yeah, checkmate, that's 0:05:03.720 --> 0:05:07.520 how the game goes, respectually. Checkmate. Well, I'm asking you, 0:05:07.560 --> 0:05:10.000 would you choose a gene editor to baby if you 0:05:10.000 --> 0:05:10.479 had the option? 0:05:10.680 --> 0:05:10.760 No? 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:13.520 Why? Because I don't think it's smart to play god. 0:05:13.560 --> 0:05:14.280 It never works. 0:05:14.320 --> 0:05:17.800 And I also think that these things with the best intentions, 0:05:19.920 --> 0:05:22.880 I think evil always prevails, and I think we get 0:05:22.920 --> 0:05:25.000 to the slippery slope quicker than we think that we're 0:05:25.000 --> 0:05:27.839 going to It's like we talked before about deep fakes. 0:05:28.120 --> 0:05:32.040 It's ha ha ha funny until you know you're now implicated. 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:34.920 And it's not just Donald Trump being deep faked Robert 0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:37.560 Pattinson in a funny way, it's you being put in 0:05:37.600 --> 0:05:40.279 precarious situations, or your voice or your likeness being put 0:05:40.279 --> 0:05:43.239 in a situation where you can't defend yourself or opt out. 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:48.560 I think that, you know, people have talked about how 0:05:50.200 --> 0:05:52.400 people have spoken for years and years and years how 0:05:52.400 --> 0:05:55.000 you can have the best intentions with eugenics and like. 0:05:54.920 --> 0:05:57.000 Oh, you know, but I'm just gonna give my baby 0:05:57.000 --> 0:05:57.480 blue eyes. 0:05:57.520 --> 0:06:01.400 Why why I'm just gonna make sure my baby doesn't 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:05.040 have any diseases, which ones I'm just gonna be my 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:07.440 best baby, the best fighting chance of being you know, intelligent? 0:06:07.520 --> 0:06:10.360 How how you know? 0:06:10.480 --> 0:06:13.640 And now we're gonna quote unquote breed out qualities or 0:06:13.640 --> 0:06:17.400 we're gonna create homogenized race. And also the people who 0:06:17.400 --> 0:06:20.160 are gonna have access and the resources and the money 0:06:20.800 --> 0:06:23.480 to be able to do this does mean the same 0:06:23.520 --> 0:06:31.360 white people, the same like hectic uh Nazi fucking Ariyan 0:06:32.120 --> 0:06:35.000 community being like we're just gonna breed more of ours. 0:06:35.400 --> 0:06:38.039 I was reading about because there's this new philosophy called 0:06:38.040 --> 0:06:40.000 long termism. 0:06:40.080 --> 0:06:46.640 Let me find the Google place the Google definition. 0:06:46.760 --> 0:06:49.440 So, long termism is the ethical stance which gives priority 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:51.880 to improving the long term future. It's an important concept 0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:55.200 in effective altruism and serves as a primary motivation for 0:06:55.240 --> 0:06:58.359 efforts that claim to reduce existential risks to humanity. So 0:06:58.400 --> 0:07:01.520 there's this group of billionaires who've created this elite club 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:06.680 of basically encouraging other billionaires and elite to procreate and 0:07:06.760 --> 0:07:11.040 to commit to giving birth to at least ten children 0:07:11.680 --> 0:07:16.400 to essentially nurture and create and raise the type of 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:18.200 people who be able to save the world. They're kind 0:07:18.200 --> 0:07:20.240 of like, you can't rely on the common man. We 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:25.920 elites need to commit to extending our bloodline and being 0:07:26.040 --> 0:07:27.920 here and not falling to the trap of not wanting 0:07:27.960 --> 0:07:30.040 to have kids for whatever reason. It's not about us, 0:07:30.080 --> 0:07:34.520 it's about the future, etc. So No, I don't want 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:37.240 to play god. I just don't think it's good, and 0:07:37.880 --> 0:07:40.200 I think that a lot of us are, and I 0:07:40.200 --> 0:07:42.320 would take even me, like, I'm not at the place 0:07:42.480 --> 0:07:45.760 where I've fully decolonized my mind and what I think 0:07:45.800 --> 0:07:48.000 and how I feel enough to be parenting let it 0:07:48.000 --> 0:07:50.080 alone enough to be choosing what I want my kid 0:07:50.200 --> 0:07:54.480 to look like and be made up of facts. 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:55.360 What do you think? 0:07:56.640 --> 0:07:59.160 I guess, yeah, Like it's I just immediately think of 0:07:59.200 --> 0:08:01.840 like the funny things about it. But of course it's 0:08:01.960 --> 0:08:04.040 it's like AI, how it has all of these un 0:08:04.600 --> 0:08:07.280 what funny things like the idea of being like in 0:08:07.320 --> 0:08:09.400 the sims, like picking what your baby looks like, like 0:08:09.400 --> 0:08:10.920 I imagine in a funny way. I don't think of 0:08:10.920 --> 0:08:14.400 it in an actual practical way. But yeah, you're so 0:08:14.560 --> 0:08:17.280 right about how, like we talked about with AI, it's 0:08:17.320 --> 0:08:19.800 like a particular type of person that's making it so 0:08:19.800 --> 0:08:22.480 they're going to have like unconscious bias that bleeds into it, 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:23.600 et cetera. 0:08:23.720 --> 0:08:24.960 That's why I, like you. 0:08:24.880 --> 0:08:28.600 Say, even with like us talking to smarter child on 0:08:28.760 --> 0:08:31.880 MSN and ow like how I'm not very nice to 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:35.640 my Siri. I don't actually use Siri because I don't 0:08:35.640 --> 0:08:38.679 find that it works very effectively. Like the other day 0:08:38.720 --> 0:08:40.800 I was messaging flex and it put us in a 0:08:40.800 --> 0:08:42.800 group chat with another random chick that I haven't spoken 0:08:42.840 --> 0:08:43.640 to in ten years. 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:44.960 You can't blame. 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:51.920 That's so funny, Yeah, gene editing, it's shocking to me. 0:08:51.960 --> 0:08:53.720 I mean, it's not really shocking that it's happening, Like, 0:08:53.960 --> 0:08:56.560 I guess people are always going to be playing with 0:08:56.600 --> 0:08:57.160 that kind of stuff. 0:08:57.240 --> 0:08:57.760 So which. 0:08:59.720 --> 0:09:03.200 No, I think as well, because I wouldn't say I'm superstitious, 0:09:04.120 --> 0:09:07.040 but I think if you did that and intervened, well, 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:09.000 I've got no issue with. Like, I think it's cool 0:09:09.000 --> 0:09:11.760 to see technology like this happen, Like if people didn't 0:09:11.760 --> 0:09:14.280 start going down this route, then they wouldn't be like 0:09:15.000 --> 0:09:17.960 egg freezing and insemination all that kind of stuff like that. 0:09:18.160 --> 0:09:20.240 Even that back then I think was considered a bit 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:22.840 like is this even like ethical to be making a 0:09:22.880 --> 0:09:25.720 baby in a lab? 0:09:25.840 --> 0:09:26.280 Per se? 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:30.840 So I think it's like interisting from a technological point, 0:09:30.880 --> 0:09:33.880 but it's very dystopian and I can imagine. Yeah, they've 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:38.880 obviously been problems with different things being preferential, and it's 0:09:38.920 --> 0:09:42.480 not really like how humans were designed, right, it's not regular. 0:09:42.559 --> 0:09:46.040 We'll watch this space. We are every day a step 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:48.720 closer to Black Mirror. And once I watch too much 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:50.440 Black Mirror in the school holidays that it sent me 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:52.080 into a exidential crisis. 0:09:52.120 --> 0:09:52.760 So real. 0:09:53.040 --> 0:09:56.480 Yeah, I'll maybe just pick other things from this newsletter 0:09:56.679 --> 0:09:57.720 that aren't super scary. 0:09:57.840 --> 0:09:59.640 It's literally going to cost us millions of dollars to 0:09:59.640 --> 0:10:01.320 have a kid, and I plan to have a spoiled 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:04.040 nepotism baby. I just can't afford to also be doing 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:05.520 tweaks before it evening exists. 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:06.880 I don't even know if I like it. 0:10:06.960 --> 0:10:12.560 We'll do tweaks on the ground, post production, tweaks, after care, 0:10:12.720 --> 0:10:13.240 after care. 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:17.200 Add on tin. You're listening to Flex and Frooms on Cada. 0:10:17.679 --> 0:10:19.560 You're on Cada. It's Flex and Froomes. We're with you 0:10:19.600 --> 0:10:22.400 from three to five pm. Welcome back. Something that we 0:10:22.440 --> 0:10:25.199 talk about on the show, whether I like it. 0:10:25.200 --> 0:10:26.000 Or not, is dating. 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:28.320 And I have a love line someone who sent in 0:10:28.320 --> 0:10:30.800 this dilemma to us, and we're going to listen to 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:33.320 it and perhaps provide answers that are either illuminating or 0:10:33.320 --> 0:10:36.800 totally ridiculous. True you decide. This title is Queen of 0:10:36.800 --> 0:10:38.720 the lead on. I went off for dinner and drinks 0:10:38.720 --> 0:10:40.360 with the guy for the first time and had a 0:10:40.360 --> 0:10:43.160 really good night. Normally on the type to chat with 0:10:43.200 --> 0:10:45.440 them a little more before meeting up straight away, but 0:10:45.520 --> 0:10:48.120 we had mutuals and he seemed normal enough. That's fair, 0:10:48.559 --> 0:10:50.480 I guess it. It can the badly, but we'll go 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:52.880 with that. Things were going so well, so I invited 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:55.240 him back to my place for the night overall good night, 0:10:55.480 --> 0:10:57.720 so we know the deed was done. Fast forward a 0:10:57.720 --> 0:10:59.600 week later and I hung out with him again, same 0:10:59.600 --> 0:11:01.920 good vieb and good time, and he said he had 0:11:01.960 --> 0:11:04.280 a surprise for me. It was something that I'd mentioned 0:11:04.320 --> 0:11:06.079 I was going to buy myself but never got around 0:11:06.120 --> 0:11:08.840 to it. I was shocked and it was really sweet. 0:11:08.880 --> 0:11:12.000 I've since been looking up gifts online, ah, because it 0:11:12.040 --> 0:11:13.920 was an antique and it's possible that he spent up 0:11:13.960 --> 0:11:15.319 to three hundred dollars on them. 0:11:15.679 --> 0:11:17.079 Oh. 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:20.560 I'm touched that he potentially spent quite a fair amount 0:11:20.600 --> 0:11:22.439 of money on me so early on, and I get 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:24.360 the vibe he may not be on the same page 0:11:24.360 --> 0:11:27.000 as me, although I thought I'd been pretty honest. I'm 0:11:27.040 --> 0:11:29.000 keen to see where things go, but don't know if 0:11:29.000 --> 0:11:31.160 I ready to jump into the deep end with anything 0:11:31.160 --> 0:11:35.200 too serious. Am I overthinking this or do I have 0:11:35.240 --> 0:11:37.040 to keep stating that I'm a casual girly. 0:11:38.240 --> 0:11:41.760 As stated during our previous hangout. 0:11:43.120 --> 0:11:45.360 We have since messaged her to ask her what it 0:11:45.520 --> 0:11:47.400 was that the gift would be because I'm thinking this 0:11:47.480 --> 0:11:49.920 is jewelry, sis, you gotta run for the hills, Okay, 0:11:50.200 --> 0:11:53.120 but if it's maybe something a little bit more like 0:11:53.400 --> 0:11:59.600 I think buying jewelry is like bfgfgfgf bfbf status. Apparently 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:03.960 it was a set of Lee Lee Crusette, those like 0:12:04.040 --> 0:12:11.600 beautiful Dutch ovens, and he sounds a lead French Lee Crusette. Continue, Okay, Okay, 0:12:11.679 --> 0:12:19.200 deer lingo secret sidekiing and it was sentimental with her 0:12:19.440 --> 0:12:22.760 for her because her grandmother loved to use la croquettes. 0:12:22.800 --> 0:12:24.520 Okay, do you. 0:12:24.440 --> 0:12:25.360 Think that it's too much? 0:12:25.440 --> 0:12:26.000 What do you think? 0:12:27.080 --> 0:12:28.480 I think that if you've said that you want to 0:12:28.520 --> 0:12:32.840 keep things casual, if we're going by the law of 0:12:33.200 --> 0:12:36.079 like what books tell you to do to make it 0:12:38.520 --> 0:12:41.280 look nothing like I'm either all in or all out 0:12:41.320 --> 0:12:42.920 if I'm not into you, and then you start doing 0:12:42.960 --> 0:12:45.760 real sweet stuff like I'm freaking out, I'm feeling trapped, 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:49.280 I'm feeling claustrophobic, and it sounds like you're not into 0:12:49.320 --> 0:12:51.320 this guy, like you're looking for something casual, which you've 0:12:51.360 --> 0:12:54.079 been very clear about, and he's taken that as a 0:12:54.080 --> 0:12:56.400 sign of need to win this chickover. I would say, 0:12:56.400 --> 0:12:59.640 take the la crusette. Okay, they're expensive and you've got something. 0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:05.000 Once a guy gave me a Shane Warn cricket ball 0:13:05.840 --> 0:13:08.520 whoa and I am a big Shane Warn fan. So 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:11.520 it was a really beautiful moment. But of course, like 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:13.360 if you break up with the person, what do you 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:15.120 do with it? Does it have to do you have 0:13:15.160 --> 0:13:17.360 to keep it? Do you have to change the story up? 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:19.280 I say, just accept. 0:13:19.000 --> 0:13:19.640 It for what it is. 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:22.359 I know that gifts do not equate to ownership. 0:13:22.920 --> 0:13:26.120 Yeah, I'm I'm likely to agree. I have been thinking 0:13:26.160 --> 0:13:28.680 recently that a lot of us don't allow ourselves to 0:13:28.840 --> 0:13:31.760 enjoy the benefits of romance for fear of it coming 0:13:31.760 --> 0:13:34.560 across as wanting more. So it's like you're only in now. 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:37.040 You're only allowed to be really intimate with a person 0:13:37.080 --> 0:13:39.920 and buy gifts and be romantic if you're going to date, 0:13:39.960 --> 0:13:42.920 and I just feel like you're going to date more 0:13:42.920 --> 0:13:45.760 people than you You're going to casually see more people 0:13:45.840 --> 0:13:48.640 than you end up partnering with, And so why can't 0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:54.720 you enjoy the experience of extreme intimacy without the title 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:58.560 like your gift, make it fun, take the gift, enjoy. 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:02.560 I don't say you have to keep emphasizing you've already 0:14:02.640 --> 0:14:04.960 done more than en half, which is, you know, set 0:14:04.960 --> 0:14:07.680 your intentions early on. But I think if you start 0:14:07.679 --> 0:14:09.440 getting uncomfortable with it because you feel as that this 0:14:09.480 --> 0:14:14.160 person's not respecting your boundaries, then obviously be like, hey, babe, back. 0:14:13.920 --> 0:14:17.400 Off, happen. Something's gonna happen. Yes, something's gonna give. This 0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:19.680 is flex and firms on Kata. 0:14:20.240 --> 0:14:23.360 Has technology gone too far? Some might say it's not 0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:27.000 gone far enough, considering that back in my day when 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:30.680 we were talking about the future, we expected keyless entry. 0:14:30.760 --> 0:14:33.160 Why do we have keys in twenty twenty three? Why 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:35.360 isn't everything I need my doors to be pushed to 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:37.400 start and good pook open? 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:39.840 Where are the flying cubs? 0:14:40.160 --> 0:14:42.960 But even then, like I just feel like there's not 0:14:43.040 --> 0:14:46.800 a lot of cyber anything. The fact that I don't 0:14:46.880 --> 0:14:49.280 know what don't know what my vitals are by just 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:51.880 like scanning the chip in my wrist, it feels our cake. 0:14:52.320 --> 0:14:54.960 Why do you want us to be caven so badly? 0:14:55.720 --> 0:14:58.200 But in good news? Because we are making progress in 0:14:58.320 --> 0:15:00.800 the death industry when it comes to so thank you 0:15:00.840 --> 0:15:04.360 for stepping up, you know, the overlords of the funeral 0:15:05.720 --> 0:15:11.400 environmental anyway, the digital anyway. According to Body and Soul, 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:16.240 the digital eulogy era is here thanks to tombstone QR codes. 0:15:16.320 --> 0:15:20.120 Did a gen z write that headline? Someone over the 0:15:20.120 --> 0:15:21.920 age of forty did not pen that one, and I 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:24.640 appreciate that they've said. A new way to learn about 0:15:24.640 --> 0:15:27.640 your ancestors could become commonplace. Thanks to the merging of 0:15:27.680 --> 0:15:32.040 technology and grave sites, gravesite QR codes are officially becoming 0:15:32.080 --> 0:15:34.520 a way to pay tribute and share the stories of 0:15:34.560 --> 0:15:37.400 a person's incredible life beyond the grave. This idea came 0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:41.520 to be by this US based engineer and inventor, Michael 0:15:41.680 --> 0:15:45.960 bork bourk b o u r Que, who decided to 0:15:46.000 --> 0:15:48.160 make a QR code for his late father's headstone as 0:15:48.200 --> 0:15:50.480 a way to honor his dad's incredible life with others 0:15:50.560 --> 0:15:53.360 who may be passing by the grave. So he was like, 0:15:53.400 --> 0:15:54.920 there's so much to know about my dad. He lives 0:15:54.920 --> 0:15:58.240 such a rich life, and nobody knows that aside from 0:15:58.280 --> 0:16:01.880 me and the people who lived with him. I want 0:16:01.880 --> 0:16:03.920 to do this small thing so people can honor him 0:16:03.920 --> 0:16:04.960 in the way that he deserves. 0:16:04.960 --> 0:16:05.560 To be honest. 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:08.800 So, if you scan the QR code on Michael's dad's grave, 0:16:09.080 --> 0:16:12.360 it'll link to a website that goes through his life bio, 0:16:12.680 --> 0:16:14.480 the fact that he lived through the Great Depression, and 0:16:14.480 --> 0:16:16.880 he served in the Korean War and he worked on 0:16:17.000 --> 0:16:20.000 nuclear testing sites in the Cold War. Like, okay, that's CVCV, 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:24.080 my Kay's king and so it's just a modern take 0:16:24.120 --> 0:16:26.560 on keeping the memories alive for loved one. Sounds great 0:16:26.560 --> 0:16:29.720 in theory. In practice, I'm a bit confused. If something 0:16:29.760 --> 0:16:33.720 happened to you through me untimely of course, and someone's 0:16:33.720 --> 0:16:36.520 gonna make a digital gravestone, I'm very concerned about what 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:40.680 they would gather and put front and center, because even 0:16:40.680 --> 0:16:42.960 though you're not living a double life, I'm pretty sure 0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:47.280 like you're gonna want a few professional accolades, not you 0:16:47.320 --> 0:16:52.280 doing like Shrek cosplay and talking about ghosting on CATA. 0:16:52.760 --> 0:16:54.520 It's like, could we nominate and is this something that 0:16:54.560 --> 0:16:58.200 you need to like self curate before you die, because 0:16:58.800 --> 0:17:02.280 I don't know were like the main image updating that. 0:17:03.960 --> 0:17:07.240 So my current Instagram picture is weak of me with 0:17:07.280 --> 0:17:09.600 a Karen haircut, and honestly, people say that it looks 0:17:09.640 --> 0:17:11.640 like Balahad did, so that's why I've kept it there. 0:17:12.640 --> 0:17:14.800 I have like a lot of future proof things that 0:17:14.840 --> 0:17:19.760 I've done, like on Facebook, my best friend like gets 0:17:19.760 --> 0:17:23.320 it if I die in an untimely manner. Also, digital 0:17:23.359 --> 0:17:25.240 wheels are happening, and my mum just added me to 0:17:26.400 --> 0:17:26.960 her will. 0:17:27.200 --> 0:17:28.800 Damn your mom's text savvy. 0:17:29.040 --> 0:17:30.960 Literally, and I just thought, I don't know how she 0:17:31.000 --> 0:17:31.240 did that. 0:17:31.280 --> 0:17:31.760 So what it did? 0:17:31.800 --> 0:17:35.320 I got this email saying you've just been added to Xyza. 0:17:35.680 --> 0:17:37.040 You don't have to do anything with this, but this 0:17:37.119 --> 0:17:39.600 is the email that's on file, And I'm like, that's crazy, 0:17:39.640 --> 0:17:41.879 Like we're really making this stuff digital, which feels so 0:17:41.920 --> 0:17:44.000 antithetical to what death is. 0:17:44.280 --> 0:17:46.480 I can't access that email account. 0:17:46.200 --> 0:17:49.840 Literally, what if my internet's down? But yeah, it's good 0:17:49.840 --> 0:17:53.280 to know that we're making how do you say? We're 0:17:53.320 --> 0:17:55.560 making waves in the death industry, which is very important? 0:17:55.960 --> 0:18:00.680 Okita flex and fromes flex and froms. Everybody thinks they 0:18:00.680 --> 0:18:04.360 have the capacity to participate in hypergamy. That is the 0:18:04.359 --> 0:18:11.399 act of dating or marrying up, marrying rich, marrying successful, capitalistic. 0:18:12.280 --> 0:18:13.960 And here's the thing. I'm not gonna say you don't, 0:18:14.640 --> 0:18:18.199 but I will say, have you ever seen a prenup 0:18:18.240 --> 0:18:22.600 of a billionaire? Have you ever seen what's required? Because 0:18:22.640 --> 0:18:25.720 I managed to get my hands on. Mark Zuckerberg's through 0:18:25.720 --> 0:18:27.520 a friend with a friend, and I want you to 0:18:27.560 --> 0:18:30.480 listen to this and tell me if you have the capacity. 0:18:30.840 --> 0:18:32.879 This is a TikTok from Hello, prenup. 0:18:33.400 --> 0:18:36.359 What does someone like Mark Zuckerberg put in their prenup? Well, 0:18:36.359 --> 0:18:38.960 from what we've heard, he's got some pretty interesting clauses, 0:18:39.640 --> 0:18:41.760 like the alleged clause that mandates the two of them 0:18:41.840 --> 0:18:43.800 spend of one hundred hours of a long time per. 0:18:43.680 --> 0:18:44.800 Week outside of the office. 0:18:45.320 --> 0:18:48.199 But outside of those more quirkier terms, what are the 0:18:48.240 --> 0:18:51.040 financial terms we think he has in the prenup. Well, 0:18:51.080 --> 0:18:53.240 to no one's surprised, it's likely that he's kept his 0:18:53.280 --> 0:18:56.440 interest in Facebook separate, and the majority of Facebook assets 0:18:56.480 --> 0:18:59.680 are said to be in intellectual property. This includes designs, 0:18:59.760 --> 0:19:03.320 this processes, algorithms, and more. So we believe it's highly 0:19:03.560 --> 0:19:05.920 highly likely that he's included a clause to protect his 0:19:05.960 --> 0:19:08.359 intellectual property to ensure that it's stays separate in the 0:19:08.359 --> 0:19:09.240 event of a divorce. 0:19:09.920 --> 0:19:12.560 He really said hands off my pokes, sis. 0:19:12.200 --> 0:19:13.320 Said, I want quality time. 0:19:13.359 --> 0:19:14.000 That's my level. 0:19:14.320 --> 0:19:16.800 One hundred hours that's more than a full time job, 0:19:17.040 --> 0:19:20.880 and it's contractual that we do two and a half 0:19:20.920 --> 0:19:23.359 full time jobs of quality time together a week. You 0:19:23.400 --> 0:19:24.080