WEBVTT - Poor Me, I Get to Make Money 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.160 I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:06.600 land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboo 0:00:06.680 --> 0:00:10.520 Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present 0:00:10.600 --> 0:00:14.319 and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and 0:00:14.360 --> 0:00:22.639 Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, 0:00:22.760 --> 0:00:30.200 and this is the Rise and Conquer podcast. This is 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:33.199 the podcast where we ch have mindset, self development and 0:00:33.240 --> 0:00:37.120 becoming your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs, 0:00:37.240 --> 0:00:40.360 plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:43.800 and being among Think of us as the perfect combo 0:00:43.920 --> 0:00:47.479 of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No 0:00:47.520 --> 0:00:49.839 matter where you are in your journey, We're here to 0:00:49.920 --> 0:00:53.800 help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical 0:00:53.920 --> 0:00:54.800 self awareness. 0:00:56.680 --> 0:00:58.120 If you're ready to get into. 0:00:57.920 --> 0:01:00.680 The driver's seat of your own life and stop letting 0:01:00.720 --> 0:01:02.880 life pass you by, then you're. 0:01:02.760 --> 0:01:03.520 In the right place. 0:01:09.920 --> 0:01:13.080 Hello, my loves, and welcome back to the potty. Today's 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:16.360 episode is a bit of a tough love one. I 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:18.759 wrote this on the plane when I was coming back 0:01:18.800 --> 0:01:19.679 from Europe. 0:01:19.880 --> 0:01:22.880 Honestly a bit of a different It was a bit of. 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:26.160 An alter ego moment and I read my notes out 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:29.839 to a tr and we were like, oh, she's being 0:01:29.840 --> 0:01:31.039 a bit brutal, and. 0:01:31.680 --> 0:01:33.000 It's what I needed to hear. 0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:35.600 Personally, though, well, I feel like it's very much old 0:01:35.640 --> 0:01:39.119 Georgie who just used to say whatever she wanted. And 0:01:39.520 --> 0:01:41.120 I am a bit brutal, but I say it with 0:01:41.160 --> 0:01:43.360 so much love, and I feel like this is for 0:01:43.440 --> 0:01:46.040 the people. If you ever, you know, if you catch 0:01:46.040 --> 0:01:49.160 yourself saying I don't have enough money, money is really 0:01:49.160 --> 0:01:52.000 hard to come by. If only I had a bit 0:01:52.000 --> 0:01:53.720 more money for this or that. 0:01:53.480 --> 0:01:55.400 This episode is for you. 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:59.400 It's basically just a solo pep talk about how important 0:01:59.440 --> 0:02:03.280 our mind'st is around money and around like attracting and 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:07.160 holding wealth and abundance. Guys, I have been on such 0:02:07.360 --> 0:02:11.640 a journey, but your mindset and the words you speak like, 0:02:11.680 --> 0:02:14.120 I love this saying like the words you speak are 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:15.120 honestly spells. 0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:16.519 Like what you're. 0:02:16.320 --> 0:02:19.720 Saying out like and you're projecting that's what comes to life. 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:22.120 So if you're constantly saying like I don't have enough money, 0:02:22.520 --> 0:02:25.760 you're complaining about certain things, I just would be so 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:29.840 careful listen to this episode because it just might open up. 0:02:30.000 --> 0:02:32.600 I truly believe because in this episode I do talk 0:02:32.600 --> 0:02:36.160 about how much people can be a victim by money, 0:02:36.680 --> 0:02:38.800 and it's how we're brought up, it's you know, it's 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:39.959 how we're taught by society. 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:42.440 So I get it. But I truly believe that. 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:47.240 If you are being a victim somewhere, you are not 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:49.760 reaching your full potential and you're playing small. 0:02:50.320 --> 0:02:51.880 So if you do feel like you're. 0:02:51.720 --> 0:02:54.880 A victim to money, the great moment of having that 0:02:54.919 --> 0:02:59.600 realization is you're not in your full potential with abundance 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:00.799 with money, So you. 0:03:00.760 --> 0:03:02.160 Get to change, you get to evolve. 0:03:02.320 --> 0:03:06.239 Also, guys, a special announcement, we are running a really 0:03:06.320 --> 0:03:10.239 fun promo to celebrate the restock of our Goddess Energy 0:03:10.280 --> 0:03:14.120 Self Love Journal in collaboration with Kate Jones. 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:15.240 Aka Dedicated Kate. 0:03:15.919 --> 0:03:19.000 Guys, these sold out as like a couple weeks after 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:22.520 they launched, and we had so many dms saying, you know, 0:03:22.800 --> 0:03:26.120 we missed out, we want them restocked. So of course 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:29.960 we're restocking them, and it is July, and so we 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:32.440 thought we'd do a fun little Christmas in July celebration, 0:03:33.040 --> 0:03:36.320 and so for every order, we're giving away a free 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:42.000 Christmas and h dessert Honestly, they're delicious. They're so delicious, 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:46.240 so fun. So get your restock of your journal. Also 0:03:46.960 --> 0:03:49.320 if you want to stock up on another journal, such 0:03:49.320 --> 0:03:52.840 a great time and you get you get a free 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:54.760 little cute and h gift. 0:03:55.240 --> 0:03:57.320 So that is going live this week. What data to 0:03:57.320 --> 0:03:58.240 here yesterday? 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:03.080 It went live yesterday, And before we get into it 0:04:03.120 --> 0:04:05.720 our weekly recommendations tt. 0:04:06.200 --> 0:04:11.880 Mine is so biased the rise app money content. 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:16.720 I was gonna say the same thing, you can't steal mine. 0:04:17.040 --> 0:04:20.400 I've been going through it and honestly, because I edited 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:23.240 it all, I did watch it. But then I've been 0:04:23.320 --> 0:04:26.680 rewatching it and I've written like another three pages of 0:04:26.720 --> 0:04:29.960 realizations of things I need to work on, and. 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:31.440 It's just so good. 0:04:31.560 --> 0:04:34.479 And I have been working on my money mindset a lot, 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:37.000 so even just having the meditations to listen to and 0:04:37.040 --> 0:04:40.680 go to every day so quickly and easily has been amazing. 0:04:41.560 --> 0:04:45.840 And I'll give a second recommendation, and that is if 0:04:45.839 --> 0:04:49.560 you're after like a silly, little fun movie a family 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:53.400 Affair on Netflix, it's Zach Efron and Nicole Kidman. 0:04:53.680 --> 0:04:55.920 Oh yeah, what a vibe. 0:04:56.640 --> 0:04:59.200 It is just like a really silly one though, So 0:04:59.560 --> 0:05:02.680 if you're want something of subsistance. I wouldn't watch that, 0:05:02.760 --> 0:05:05.480 but just like a bit of like, you know, when 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:07.880 you really just want to be entertained in tune. Now, Yeah, 0:05:07.920 --> 0:05:10.880 it's one of those Oh yeah, what about you? 0:05:10.920 --> 0:05:11.760 What is your reck? 0:05:12.080 --> 0:05:12.279 Well? 0:05:12.320 --> 0:05:15.760 I was going to also recommend rise because such a 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:19.080 fun month, and I have been doing the meditation on 0:05:19.120 --> 0:05:23.120 the way to work, and it's really about setting myself 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:27.280 into the frequency of being this. 0:05:27.440 --> 0:05:29.799 Really, you know, my most abundant self. 0:05:30.160 --> 0:05:33.600 So then throughout the day I'm making decisions in that 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:36.920 same frequency, you know. And I love that I'm matching her, 0:05:37.320 --> 0:05:40.760 so that comes to me quicker. So that's what I've 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:44.520 been doing and loving. And then other recommendations. I listen 0:05:44.680 --> 0:05:47.360 to this podcast episode let me. 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:47.920 Just get it off. 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:52.920 So it is a Grace Beverley working hard, hardly working 0:05:53.040 --> 0:05:57.600 ep and it is genius is more about habits than genetics. 0:05:57.880 --> 0:06:01.440 How to Find Your Five Am Club with Robin Sharma. 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:04.760 So I've never read that book, The Five Am Club. 0:06:04.960 --> 0:06:07.320 And then I listened to this episode and it was 0:06:07.640 --> 0:06:12.040 so good. He's amazing, And now I'm gonna go listen 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:12.520 to the book. 0:06:12.560 --> 0:06:15.680 But just that episode I got so much out of highly. 0:06:15.440 --> 0:06:18.400 Recommend Love I'll give that a listen, definitely do it. 0:06:18.400 --> 0:06:19.800 Shall we get into the episode. 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:27.360 Yes, you know it's gonna be a good episode when 0:06:27.360 --> 0:06:29.400 Georgie has her journal out to read from. 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:34.440 I wrote this episode when we were coming back from 0:06:34.720 --> 0:06:40.359 Dubai and guys, I was on a bit of a 0:06:40.839 --> 0:06:44.760 different vibration because I read my notes back and I 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:47.480 was like, oh, she was a bit spicy. 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:49.960 I read some to a tea and she was like, 0:06:50.040 --> 0:06:51.720 holy shit, I know. 0:06:52.040 --> 0:06:55.280 And I was like, oh, okay, so this episode is 0:06:55.360 --> 0:06:58.960 going to be a bit of tough love. But I 0:06:59.040 --> 0:07:02.840 feel like, really just it channeled through, so it's obviously 0:07:03.080 --> 0:07:08.200 meant to be for you know, specific people. So if 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:11.239 it's not for you, that's absolutely fine. But I feel 0:07:11.240 --> 0:07:14.560 like this is either going to trigger you or really 0:07:14.640 --> 0:07:16.760 kind of like wake you up to be like, Okay, 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:20.120 this is somewhere I need to look, which is basically 0:07:20.480 --> 0:07:24.760 what all self development should do. If every single like 0:07:24.840 --> 0:07:28.480 self development podcast or training or whatever just makes you 0:07:28.520 --> 0:07:33.280 feel like good, excited and motivated, you're not doing it right. 0:07:33.720 --> 0:07:37.640 Like you should be triggered, because when you're triggered, it's 0:07:37.680 --> 0:07:40.520 showing you areas where you do need to work on, 0:07:40.720 --> 0:07:44.080 where you do need to up level. So that's a 0:07:44.080 --> 0:07:44.880 little disclimer. 0:07:46.240 --> 0:07:49.080 Okay, if you get mad, it's your fault. 0:07:50.080 --> 0:07:53.600 It's you, not me. Yeah, I'm just gonna take no responsibility. 0:07:54.120 --> 0:07:56.880 No I do you know. I do take a bit 0:07:56.880 --> 0:07:59.560 of responsibility. But no, it's funny games. 0:07:59.640 --> 0:08:05.120 It is you'll get my life reaction to this pep 0:08:05.160 --> 0:08:06.000 talk that I need. 0:08:06.160 --> 0:08:10.360 Okay, So basically, you know, this whole month, we're really 0:08:10.480 --> 0:08:13.680 chatting about money. We have our money month in the 0:08:13.800 --> 0:08:16.800 Rise app, and we also do have a money course coming. 0:08:17.080 --> 0:08:19.840 So I keep telling everyone and then it is like, 0:08:20.160 --> 0:08:22.440 no one actually knows that. I'm like, oh, now they do. 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:24.520 There's no secrets on the podcast. No. 0:08:24.920 --> 0:08:29.200 And I was thinking about this the other day and 0:08:29.240 --> 0:08:33.840 it's a very niche texture with money mindset, and I 0:08:33.880 --> 0:08:36.439 feel like it might be a blind spot quite a 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:40.439 few people. And if you can look at this and 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:44.840 change this, this will be such a catalyst for you 0:08:45.160 --> 0:08:51.040 attracting more wealth in easier and in a better way. 0:08:51.320 --> 0:08:54.760 So yeah, let's just do it. I really want you 0:08:54.840 --> 0:08:58.959 to think about in this episode where you are being 0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:02.960 a victim to money, So where you're in a victim 0:09:03.080 --> 0:09:08.320 mindset to money, it might be very obvious where you're 0:09:08.480 --> 0:09:12.200 just like, oh, I never have enough money, it's never 0:09:12.320 --> 0:09:15.720 coming to me. Or my friends have money, my friends 0:09:15.800 --> 0:09:19.559 have trust funds, my boyfriend's got money, blah blah blah. 0:09:19.600 --> 0:09:22.160 Like that's a very obvious. You're in a victim mindset. 0:09:22.320 --> 0:09:26.920 I want you to even go a layer deeper where 0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:32.080 you have become a victim to money. So let's just 0:09:32.200 --> 0:09:35.319 say you work for someone, you get to work from 0:09:35.320 --> 0:09:38.360 home a couple of days, and you know you're in 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:41.240 this victim mindset. No, sorry, you're in this mindset where 0:09:41.240 --> 0:09:43.160 you're like, oh, I want more money and it's not 0:09:43.240 --> 0:09:47.880 coming to me. But you're having thoughts like oh, I 0:09:48.000 --> 0:09:51.120 have to, you know, do this job to get money, 0:09:51.600 --> 0:09:54.160 or I have to do this certain thing, and I 0:09:54.200 --> 0:09:56.400 want to flip that on its head. And like I 0:09:56.440 --> 0:09:59.800 wrote here, poor you forgetting to make money. 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:01.480 Poor you. 0:10:01.040 --> 0:10:04.160 You get to sit at your computer at home, in 0:10:04.200 --> 0:10:08.240 your comfy you know, sweats, tap on your computer and 0:10:08.280 --> 0:10:16.559 make money. Tear scringe, so literally, you know, like we 0:10:16.840 --> 0:10:21.080 are so privileged, so privileged, we are so privileged. Like 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:24.520 even like me, I get to sit on this microphone 0:10:25.240 --> 0:10:27.440 talk about what I believe in, and I get to 0:10:27.520 --> 0:10:30.840 make money and sometimes I'm such a victim to money. 0:10:31.320 --> 0:10:34.840 Like if you get to work from home and make money, 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:39.360 what a fucking privilege. And there's people who complain about that, 0:10:40.960 --> 0:10:44.920 and I'm like, and that's even another thing, is like 0:10:45.080 --> 0:10:47.800 if you get to work from home, not only can 0:10:47.840 --> 0:10:51.080 you get paid for that, but you also have a 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:54.040 lot of privilege to do a side hustle, you know, 0:10:54.360 --> 0:10:57.760 like you have the means if you have your own computer, 0:10:58.360 --> 0:11:00.840 you have a means to make money. Like the amount 0:11:00.880 --> 0:11:03.800 of money you can just make on social media, on 0:11:04.280 --> 0:11:07.199 you know, with tech is actually ridiculous. 0:11:07.240 --> 0:11:08.440 Like we have never. 0:11:08.400 --> 0:11:12.680 Been in a time where it is so easy to 0:11:12.920 --> 0:11:17.200 make money, and there's so many people complaining about it. 0:11:18.400 --> 0:11:20.040 Like poor me, I get to go to work and 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:21.720 make TikTok's and get paid for it. 0:11:22.120 --> 0:11:23.720 Literally, Oh my. 0:11:26.040 --> 0:11:26.520 I die. 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:28.480 Sorry to all social media. 0:11:30.120 --> 0:11:33.520 Love you if I love you, I know, like poor you. 0:11:33.520 --> 0:11:36.079 You get to like poor me. I got a cake 0:11:36.240 --> 0:11:40.000 thrown out my face and that's something that made me money, 0:11:40.240 --> 0:11:42.800 you know. I mean, like, imagine if I was an 0:11:42.800 --> 0:11:47.040 invictive mindset about that. I know, and so many people are. 0:11:47.200 --> 0:11:50.400 And it's because maybe you're not in your dream job, 0:11:51.000 --> 0:11:55.440 maybe you don't make money in like the best way. 0:11:55.720 --> 0:11:59.720 But if you are not grateful for what you currently 0:11:59.840 --> 0:12:03.679 have or even grateful for what you could have and 0:12:03.720 --> 0:12:08.120 the means you could have, you are blocking yourself for 0:12:08.200 --> 0:12:11.760 more money to come in because you are in a 0:12:11.880 --> 0:12:16.640 victim mindset and such a like yeah, like you actually 0:12:16.720 --> 0:12:20.280 have so much more privilege than so many other people, 0:12:20.720 --> 0:12:21.960 and you're like, oh poor me. 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:26.439 Like, to be honest, if you live in Australia, you 0:12:27.280 --> 0:12:30.640 have nothing to be worried about to an extent, like 0:12:30.800 --> 0:12:33.880 what other country do you have the privilege to maybe 0:12:33.920 --> 0:12:37.200 get CENTERINGK if you lose your job? True, there's so 0:12:37.280 --> 0:12:39.760 many things that we take for granted that we expect 0:12:39.920 --> 0:12:43.280 as like the bare minimum that isn't. 0:12:43.080 --> 0:12:48.199 That's actually something Tim said after our euro trip. He's like, wow, 0:12:48.440 --> 0:12:53.000 I it has really illuminated how much privilege I have 0:12:53.360 --> 0:12:56.760 and how much For example, you know, if Ivy has 0:12:56.760 --> 0:13:00.520 a tantrum or something happens during his day, he will 0:13:00.559 --> 0:13:02.880 then let that affect his whole day and be in 0:13:02.920 --> 0:13:07.520 a victim mindset. And he's like, I am so privileged 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:11.960 and I've let the smallest things affect my mindset and mood, 0:13:12.400 --> 0:13:15.640 which is such a privilege. And he's like, I can't 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:18.560 believe I've you know, let myself do that. And I 0:13:18.559 --> 0:13:22.320 think it's really easy to get into a victim mindset 0:13:22.679 --> 0:13:25.680 when you do have more privileges. Absolutely, could you just 0:13:25.760 --> 0:13:27.640 expect it? And that's what he said. He's like, I 0:13:27.760 --> 0:13:31.559 just expect things to be amazing twenty four to seven. 0:13:31.720 --> 0:13:35.400 So when they're not, I'm grumpy and I'm like I 0:13:35.440 --> 0:13:36.080 could have Todd. 0:13:39.160 --> 0:13:40.680 But glad this trip illuminated it. 0:13:40.840 --> 0:13:44.200 Yeah, I'm like, we're doing shadow work right now. This 0:13:44.320 --> 0:13:49.079 is amazing. So that's even the first, you know, thing 0:13:49.120 --> 0:13:52.400 I want you guys to start thinking about is where 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:56.160 are you even not like you're like, oh, I want 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:59.520 to earn more money. You're not even letting your mind 0:14:00.160 --> 0:14:04.920 go to places where you could earn more money. For example, 0:14:05.240 --> 0:14:07.520 I'm someone who has a seven and. 0:14:07.520 --> 0:14:08.600 Eight figure business. 0:14:08.760 --> 0:14:10.640 I still sell clothes on deepop. 0:14:11.520 --> 0:14:13.760 I love that, and that comes from. 0:14:13.600 --> 0:14:17.720 A value of I hate waste. So if I have 0:14:18.040 --> 0:14:21.000 some beautiful outfits in my closet that I'm not gonna 0:14:21.000 --> 0:14:24.080 wear that are super valuable, I have this and I 0:14:24.120 --> 0:14:27.640 also buy things on deepop and I have this thing 0:14:27.720 --> 0:14:30.240 about like I really want someone to have it. Who's 0:14:30.280 --> 0:14:33.200 going to value it and love it and love it? 0:14:33.240 --> 0:14:36.000 Obviously if it's you know, it's not a designer outfit, 0:14:36.040 --> 0:14:37.320 Like I would just give a lot of things to 0:14:37.360 --> 0:14:40.680 friends and you know, my mum and whatnot. But if 0:14:40.680 --> 0:14:43.680 it is something I'm like, someone would love this and 0:14:43.760 --> 0:14:45.560 not only love it because I got it for fifty 0:14:45.600 --> 0:14:49.080 percent off. You know, that's like a value of mine. 0:14:49.520 --> 0:14:53.280 But there would be people who are you know, they 0:14:53.280 --> 0:14:55.760 possibly work full time or whatnot, and they're like, well, 0:14:55.800 --> 0:14:57.960 I'm not doing that because I have, you know, a 0:14:57.960 --> 0:15:03.200 big girl job. Or even like you can literally walk 0:15:03.280 --> 0:15:07.520 dogs and get paid. Like you're walking anyway, Maybe you 0:15:07.640 --> 0:15:10.160 go for an afternoon walk every afternoon for an hour 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:13.280 to get in your steps. You could literally be a 0:15:13.280 --> 0:15:17.360 paid dog walker and get paid to walk. I used 0:15:17.400 --> 0:15:21.720 to love cooking healthy recipes, so I made a healthy 0:15:21.760 --> 0:15:23.480 recipe ebook and got paid for it. 0:15:23.680 --> 0:15:24.120 Yeah. 0:15:24.280 --> 0:15:27.120 Do you mean there's so many things that you're probably 0:15:27.600 --> 0:15:30.480 already doing now that you're like, I could actually get 0:15:30.480 --> 0:15:30.920 paid for this. 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:33.000 Yeah, Like if you like going to the gym, maybe 0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:35.880 considering a p T shirt on the side, Yeah, and 0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:38.000 run a class on a Saturday morning or something. 0:15:38.280 --> 0:15:41.560 Yes, Like even stuff like that I guarantee you. 0:15:41.600 --> 0:15:44.280 There's so many people are like, oh, I never would 0:15:44.320 --> 0:15:46.800 have thought of that, But I'm complaining that I don't 0:15:46.840 --> 0:15:47.800 have much money. 0:15:47.880 --> 0:15:49.480 Yeah, but you're not willing to do anything. 0:15:49.720 --> 0:15:52.640 No, That's what I'm talking about, being at a victim mindset. 0:15:52.720 --> 0:15:54.920 Like I even saw this TikTok the other day and 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:57.760 this girl was like, do you know there's something happening 0:15:57.760 --> 0:16:00.560 in Australia right now where they're doing tests on like 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:02.800 it was something to do with like females, so only 0:16:02.840 --> 0:16:05.320 females could do it. But she's like, I literally just 0:16:05.360 --> 0:16:07.320 had to give them my blood and I got paid 0:16:07.320 --> 0:16:09.960 three hundred and fifty dollars and it was for like 0:16:10.000 --> 0:16:12.600 a test they're doing. I think it's to do with 0:16:12.680 --> 0:16:15.000 like a varian cancer. I don't know, something like that. 0:16:15.440 --> 0:16:17.680 And she's like, there's actually so many things like this, 0:16:17.880 --> 0:16:20.840 but like just no one sorts it out. And I 0:16:20.880 --> 0:16:25.480 was like smart, very And that's even like I have 0:16:25.600 --> 0:16:28.800 this like what kind came to light of just you know, 0:16:29.320 --> 0:16:34.560 money mindset. And on our trip I on our euro trip, 0:16:34.680 --> 0:16:38.160 I bought a designer handbag and so we have this 0:16:38.240 --> 0:16:41.760 thing in all the countries where basically you can get 0:16:42.040 --> 0:16:44.960 if you buy something overseas and go back to your country, 0:16:45.240 --> 0:16:47.520 you can get the tax back because you're not a 0:16:47.560 --> 0:16:50.320 residence so you should be paying tax there. So I 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:53.200 bought my bag in Paris, and so when I left 0:16:53.200 --> 0:16:55.800 to come home, you have to just like go to 0:16:55.920 --> 0:16:59.120 this like duty free place in the airport, show them 0:16:59.160 --> 0:17:02.160 the receipt, show them the bag, and then you get 0:17:02.200 --> 0:17:06.200 refunded like ten to fifteen percent. So my bag was 0:17:06.320 --> 0:17:09.000 very expensive, so like I was getting refunded like nine 0:17:09.080 --> 0:17:12.480 hundred dollars and it was like we had to like 0:17:12.520 --> 0:17:14.600 find this place and like sort it out. And Tim 0:17:14.720 --> 0:17:16.520 was like, why are we even doing this? 0:17:16.640 --> 0:17:17.359 Like who cares? 0:17:17.400 --> 0:17:21.600 Like just don't worry about it, Like, Tim, you are 0:17:21.800 --> 0:17:25.760 so free, like this is he did not say that. 0:17:26.280 --> 0:17:28.520 His was like he just like couldn't be bothered. Oh 0:17:28.680 --> 0:17:31.639 but that's like tired, yeah, And no. He even like 0:17:31.840 --> 0:17:35.159 made a joke about basically me being stingy, and I 0:17:35.200 --> 0:17:38.639 was like, no, yes, Tim, this is like three weeks 0:17:38.640 --> 0:17:43.840 of Ivy's daycare or like a pair of designer shoes. 0:17:43.160 --> 0:17:45.199 Exactly, Oh of that. 0:17:45.880 --> 0:17:48.480 And that's the thing is like it's even a reflection 0:17:48.600 --> 0:17:51.680 of like are you willing to take extra steps, are 0:17:51.680 --> 0:17:53.720 you willing to do extra things? 0:17:54.160 --> 0:17:54.680 And that's the. 0:17:54.640 --> 0:17:58.520 Beautiful thing is like blessed him. He honestly would be 0:17:58.640 --> 0:18:02.480 so fine with no money, like the simplest life. Yeah, 0:18:02.480 --> 0:18:05.600 it very much reflects his mindset. So that's not like, 0:18:05.720 --> 0:18:08.720 you know, bagging him out or anything, but it really 0:18:08.760 --> 0:18:12.480 just illuminated to me of my mindset. I'm like, if 0:18:12.480 --> 0:18:15.480 I can get nine hundred dollars back of specimply going 0:18:15.480 --> 0:18:17.280 to this place in the airport where we've got to 0:18:17.320 --> 0:18:20.320 wait three hours, anyway, of course I'm going to do it. 0:18:20.720 --> 0:18:23.480 But so many people are like, oh, poor me, I 0:18:23.480 --> 0:18:26.439 don't have money, but they're not willing to do the 0:18:26.680 --> 0:18:31.240 extra steps to let the money come in because often 0:18:31.440 --> 0:18:35.200 we get really stuck in the well. I want more money, 0:18:35.280 --> 0:18:37.639 so it has to come through my job, so it 0:18:37.720 --> 0:18:40.920 has to come through this specific way. But I have 0:18:41.080 --> 0:18:44.080 this belief that money is coming to me, like money 0:18:44.119 --> 0:18:47.800 is circulating through If you think about the amount of 0:18:47.840 --> 0:18:53.560 money circulating this earth is wild and it is honestly, 0:18:53.840 --> 0:18:56.600 it's just it's trying to come to you. It's trying 0:18:56.680 --> 0:18:59.000 to support you and protect you. 0:18:59.080 --> 0:19:00.520 It's like this mass skill. 0:19:00.320 --> 0:19:04.159 And energy that wants to be there for you, and 0:19:04.480 --> 0:19:08.160 so often we block it. So often we're like, oh 0:19:08.240 --> 0:19:10.800 I just I can't be bothered. But then we winch 0:19:10.840 --> 0:19:11.840 about not having it. 0:19:12.480 --> 0:19:15.639 And it's almost like a bit silly of us to 0:19:15.760 --> 0:19:19.000 think that we're just going to get all this extra 0:19:19.080 --> 0:19:21.199 money without putting any more work in because you're not 0:19:21.240 --> 0:19:22.520 exchanging energy then, But. 0:19:22.560 --> 0:19:25.000 It's that's the thing, is it? 0:19:25.080 --> 0:19:27.439 Apps money can actually come to you by you not 0:19:27.440 --> 0:19:29.480 putting in work, and like you know, people win the lotto, 0:19:29.640 --> 0:19:32.480 it can actually come to you in those ways. 0:19:32.760 --> 0:19:35.600 It's just if you it's almost. 0:19:35.359 --> 0:19:37.560 Like an ego thing to be like, oh, well I'm 0:19:37.600 --> 0:19:40.879 not dog walking or like yeah, I'm not selling my 0:19:41.160 --> 0:19:44.320 clothes on deep pop. Like that's embarrassing yea, you know, 0:19:44.440 --> 0:19:48.160 like it's an ego sort of move, even tim being 0:19:48.200 --> 0:19:51.240 like oh why you're so stingy? You know, Yeah, that's 0:19:51.320 --> 0:19:55.280 even something to look at. Where is your ego blocking 0:19:55.359 --> 0:19:59.439 you for more money to come in? That's interesting And 0:19:59.480 --> 0:20:04.760 that's even like I consider myself a very wealthy person, 0:20:05.320 --> 0:20:09.920 but I'm also highly resourceful. Yeah, if I can get 0:20:09.920 --> 0:20:13.879 something cheaper, I will. If I can get money back somehow, 0:20:14.240 --> 0:20:17.560 I will. Obviously I'm not ever crossing my boundaries or 0:20:17.600 --> 0:20:19.919 crossing integrity, Yeah. 0:20:19.640 --> 0:20:20.800 To get more money. 0:20:21.000 --> 0:20:24.040 But it's like, I am so willing to do those 0:20:24.200 --> 0:20:26.760 extra steps for that money to come in. 0:20:26.960 --> 0:20:29.080 Yeah. And it's as simple as like, if you're buying 0:20:29.080 --> 0:20:31.680 a camera, make sure you get a receipt and claim 0:20:31.680 --> 0:20:33.920 it on tax if you work in content. And it's 0:20:33.960 --> 0:20:37.240 like some people I know that working content have like 0:20:37.280 --> 0:20:38.840 bought the cameras and stuff and I'm like, well, you 0:20:38.880 --> 0:20:40.720 should claim it on tax because you use it for work, 0:20:40.760 --> 0:20:42.880 And they're like, oh, but I can't be bothered. Yeah, 0:20:42.960 --> 0:20:45.000 I can't be bothered keeping the receipt. I can't be bothered. 0:20:45.000 --> 0:20:47.359 And how much money they have coming in. 0:20:47.520 --> 0:20:53.760 Yeah, you're like, yeah, that's interesting, Yeah exactly. Okay, So 0:20:54.280 --> 0:20:57.120 I and this is you know, a lot to do. 0:20:57.440 --> 0:20:59.920 I'm kind of talking about a shadow work lens here, 0:21:00.440 --> 0:21:04.040 which is basically just thinking about And that's the thing 0:21:04.119 --> 0:21:08.080 is often this story we have around money or how 0:21:08.119 --> 0:21:11.959 we feel stuck in money, it's not because logically we 0:21:12.240 --> 0:21:15.760 don't want more money to come in. It's because we 0:21:15.880 --> 0:21:21.200 are gaining something by staying where we are by having 0:21:21.720 --> 0:21:25.199 this specific money story. So, for example, let's just go 0:21:25.320 --> 0:21:28.960 to that deep hop example of mine, maybe you're like, oh, 0:21:29.000 --> 0:21:31.000 I'm not you know, I refuse to sell my clothes 0:21:31.040 --> 0:21:35.520 on deep hop because it looks cheap or scrappy, crappy, 0:21:35.960 --> 0:21:39.440 and so it's like, Okay, that's your story. What are 0:21:39.440 --> 0:21:42.200 you gaining by having that story? 0:21:42.760 --> 0:21:43.320 What it like? 0:21:43.440 --> 0:21:47.280