1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboo 3 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present 4 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:14,319 Speaker 1: and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and 5 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:22,639 Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, 6 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Conquer podcast. This is 7 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 1: the podcast where we ch have mindset, self development and 8 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: becoming your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs, 9 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses 10 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: and being among Think of us as the perfect combo 11 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 1: of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. No 12 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 1: matter where you are in your journey, We're here to 13 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: help you be curious, pull yourself out, and embrace radical 14 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 1: self awareness. 15 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 2: If you're ready to get into. 16 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: The driver's seat of your own life and stop letting 17 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 1: life pass you by, then you're. 18 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 2: In the right place. 19 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: Hello, my loves, and welcome back to the potty. Today's 20 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: episode is a bit of a tough love one. I 21 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:18,759 Speaker 1: wrote this on the plane when I was coming back 22 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 1: from Europe. 23 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 2: Honestly a bit of a different It was a bit of. 24 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 1: An alter ego moment and I read my notes out 25 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:29,839 Speaker 1: to a tr and we were like, oh, she's being 26 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 1: a bit brutal, and. 27 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 2: It's what I needed to hear. 28 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: Personally, though, well, I feel like it's very much old 29 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:39,119 Speaker 1: Georgie who just used to say whatever she wanted. And 30 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 1: I am a bit brutal, but I say it with 31 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: so much love, and I feel like this is for 32 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:46,040 Speaker 1: the people. If you ever, you know, if you catch 33 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: yourself saying I don't have enough money, money is really 34 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: hard to come by. If only I had a bit 35 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: more money for this or that. 36 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 2: This episode is for you. 37 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: It's basically just a solo pep talk about how important 38 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 1: our mind'st is around money and around like attracting and 39 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 1: holding wealth and abundance. Guys, I have been on such 40 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 1: a journey, but your mindset and the words you speak like, 41 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: I love this saying like the words you speak are 42 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 1: honestly spells. 43 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:16,519 Speaker 2: Like what you're. 44 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: Saying out like and you're projecting that's what comes to life. 45 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: So if you're constantly saying like I don't have enough money, 46 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: you're complaining about certain things, I just would be so 47 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: careful listen to this episode because it just might open up. 48 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: I truly believe because in this episode I do talk 49 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 1: about how much people can be a victim by money, 50 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 1: and it's how we're brought up, it's you know, it's 51 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:39,959 Speaker 1: how we're taught by society. 52 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 2: So I get it. But I truly believe that. 53 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:47,240 Speaker 1: If you are being a victim somewhere, you are not 54 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: reaching your full potential and you're playing small. 55 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 2: So if you do feel like you're. 56 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: A victim to money, the great moment of having that 57 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 1: realization is you're not in your full potential with abundance 58 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 1: with money, So you. 59 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 2: Get to change, you get to evolve. 60 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:06,239 Speaker 1: Also, guys, a special announcement, we are running a really 61 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:10,239 Speaker 1: fun promo to celebrate the restock of our Goddess Energy 62 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 1: Self Love Journal in collaboration with Kate Jones. 63 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 2: Aka Dedicated Kate. 64 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: Guys, these sold out as like a couple weeks after 65 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 1: they launched, and we had so many dms saying, you know, 66 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 1: we missed out, we want them restocked. So of course 67 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 1: we're restocking them, and it is July, and so we 68 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 1: thought we'd do a fun little Christmas in July celebration, 69 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: and so for every order, we're giving away a free 70 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: Christmas and h dessert Honestly, they're delicious. They're so delicious, 71 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: so fun. So get your restock of your journal. Also 72 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: if you want to stock up on another journal, such 73 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 1: a great time and you get you get a free 74 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 1: little cute and h gift. 75 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 2: So that is going live this week. What data to 76 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 2: here yesterday? 77 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: It went live yesterday, And before we get into it 78 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 1: our weekly recommendations tt. 79 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 3: Mine is so biased the rise app money content. 80 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 1: I was gonna say the same thing, you can't steal mine. 81 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 3: I've been going through it and honestly, because I edited 82 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 3: it all, I did watch it. But then I've been 83 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 3: rewatching it and I've written like another three pages of 84 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 3: realizations of things I need to work on, and. 85 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 2: It's just so good. 86 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:34,479 Speaker 3: And I have been working on my money mindset a lot, 87 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 3: so even just having the meditations to listen to and 88 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 3: go to every day so quickly and easily has been amazing. 89 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:45,840 Speaker 3: And I'll give a second recommendation, and that is if 90 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 3: you're after like a silly, little fun movie a family 91 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 3: Affair on Netflix, it's Zach Efron and Nicole Kidman. 92 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, what a vibe. 93 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 3: It is just like a really silly one though, So 94 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 3: if you're want something of subsistance. I wouldn't watch that, 95 00:05:02,760 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 3: but just like a bit of like, you know, when 96 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 3: you really just want to be entertained in tune. Now, Yeah, 97 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 3: it's one of those Oh yeah, what about you? 98 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 2: What is your reck? 99 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:12,279 Speaker 3: Well? 100 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 1: I was going to also recommend rise because such a 101 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: fun month, and I have been doing the meditation on 102 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 1: the way to work, and it's really about setting myself 103 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 1: into the frequency of being this. 104 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:29,799 Speaker 2: Really, you know, my most abundant self. 105 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:33,600 Speaker 1: So then throughout the day I'm making decisions in that 106 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 1: same frequency, you know. And I love that I'm matching her, 107 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 1: so that comes to me quicker. So that's what I've 108 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: been doing and loving. And then other recommendations. I listen 109 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 1: to this podcast episode let me. 110 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 2: Just get it off. 111 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 1: So it is a Grace Beverley working hard, hardly working 112 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:57,600 Speaker 1: ep and it is genius is more about habits than genetics. 113 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 1: How to Find Your Five Am Club with Robin Sharma. 114 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 1: So I've never read that book, The Five Am Club. 115 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 1: And then I listened to this episode and it was 116 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 1: so good. He's amazing, And now I'm gonna go listen 117 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 1: to the book. 118 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 2: But just that episode I got so much out of highly. 119 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: Recommend Love I'll give that a listen, definitely do it. 120 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 2: Shall we get into the episode. 121 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 3: Yes, you know it's gonna be a good episode when 122 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 3: Georgie has her journal out to read from. 123 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 1: I wrote this episode when we were coming back from 124 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:40,359 Speaker 1: Dubai and guys, I was on a bit of a 125 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: different vibration because I read my notes back and I 126 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:47,480 Speaker 1: was like, oh, she was a bit spicy. 127 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 2: I read some to a tea and she was like, 128 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:51,720 Speaker 2: holy shit, I know. 129 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:55,280 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, okay, so this episode is 130 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 1: going to be a bit of tough love. But I 131 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:02,840 Speaker 1: feel like, really just it channeled through, so it's obviously 132 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: meant to be for you know, specific people. So if 133 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:11,239 Speaker 1: it's not for you, that's absolutely fine. But I feel 134 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 1: like this is either going to trigger you or really 135 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 1: kind of like wake you up to be like, Okay, 136 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: this is somewhere I need to look, which is basically 137 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 1: what all self development should do. If every single like 138 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 1: self development podcast or training or whatever just makes you 139 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 1: feel like good, excited and motivated, you're not doing it right. 140 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 1: Like you should be triggered, because when you're triggered, it's 141 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: showing you areas where you do need to work on, 142 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: where you do need to up level. So that's a 143 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 1: little disclimer. 144 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 3: Okay, if you get mad, it's your fault. 145 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 2: It's you, not me. Yeah, I'm just gonna take no responsibility. 146 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 1: No I do you know. I do take a bit 147 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 1: of responsibility. But no, it's funny games. 148 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 3: It is you'll get my life reaction to this pep 149 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 3: talk that I need. 150 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 1: Okay, So basically, you know, this whole month, we're really 151 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 1: chatting about money. We have our money month in the 152 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 1: Rise app, and we also do have a money course coming. 153 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 1: So I keep telling everyone and then it is like, 154 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 1: no one actually knows that. I'm like, oh, now they do. 155 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 2: There's no secrets on the podcast. No. 156 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 1: And I was thinking about this the other day and 157 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 1: it's a very niche texture with money mindset, and I 158 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:36,439 Speaker 1: feel like it might be a blind spot quite a 159 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:40,439 Speaker 1: few people. And if you can look at this and 160 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 1: change this, this will be such a catalyst for you 161 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 1: attracting more wealth in easier and in a better way. 162 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: So yeah, let's just do it. I really want you 163 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:58,959 Speaker 1: to think about in this episode where you are being 164 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 1: a victim to money, So where you're in a victim 165 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 1: mindset to money, it might be very obvious where you're 166 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 1: just like, oh, I never have enough money, it's never 167 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 1: coming to me. Or my friends have money, my friends 168 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:19,559 Speaker 1: have trust funds, my boyfriend's got money, blah blah blah. 169 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 1: Like that's a very obvious. You're in a victim mindset. 170 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 1: I want you to even go a layer deeper where 171 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 1: you have become a victim to money. So let's just 172 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:35,319 Speaker 1: say you work for someone, you get to work from 173 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 1: home a couple of days, and you know you're in 174 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 1: this victim mindset. No, sorry, you're in this mindset where 175 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, I want more money and it's not 176 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 1: coming to me. But you're having thoughts like oh, I 177 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: have to, you know, do this job to get money, 178 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: or I have to do this certain thing, and I 179 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 1: want to flip that on its head. And like I 180 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 1: wrote here, poor you forgetting to make money. 181 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 2: Poor you. 182 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 1: You get to sit at your computer at home, in 183 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 1: your comfy you know, sweats, tap on your computer and 184 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:16,559 Speaker 1: make money. Tear scringe, so literally, you know, like we 185 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 1: are so privileged, so privileged, we are so privileged. Like 186 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 1: even like me, I get to sit on this microphone 187 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:27,440 Speaker 1: talk about what I believe in, and I get to 188 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 1: make money and sometimes I'm such a victim to money. 189 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 1: Like if you get to work from home and make money, 190 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: what a fucking privilege. And there's people who complain about that, 191 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 1: and I'm like, and that's even another thing, is like 192 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 1: if you get to work from home, not only can 193 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:51,080 Speaker 1: you get paid for that, but you also have a 194 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 1: lot of privilege to do a side hustle, you know, 195 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 1: like you have the means if you have your own computer, 196 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:00,840 Speaker 1: you have a means to make money. Like the amount 197 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 1: of money you can just make on social media, on 198 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:07,199 Speaker 1: you know, with tech is actually ridiculous. 199 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 2: Like we have never. 200 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:12,680 Speaker 1: Been in a time where it is so easy to 201 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 1: make money, and there's so many people complaining about it. 202 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 3: Like poor me, I get to go to work and 203 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 3: make TikTok's and get paid for it. 204 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 2: Literally, Oh my. 205 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:26,520 Speaker 3: I die. 206 00:11:27,280 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 2: Sorry to all social media. 207 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 1: Love you if I love you, I know, like poor you. 208 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:36,079 Speaker 1: You get to like poor me. I got a cake 209 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 1: thrown out my face and that's something that made me money, 210 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 1: you know. I mean, like, imagine if I was an 211 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 1: invictive mindset about that. I know, and so many people are. 212 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: And it's because maybe you're not in your dream job, 213 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 1: maybe you don't make money in like the best way. 214 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:59,720 Speaker 1: But if you are not grateful for what you currently 215 00:11:59,840 --> 00:12:03,679 Speaker 1: have or even grateful for what you could have and 216 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 1: the means you could have, you are blocking yourself for 217 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 1: more money to come in because you are in a 218 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: victim mindset and such a like yeah, like you actually 219 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 1: have so much more privilege than so many other people, 220 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:21,960 Speaker 1: and you're like, oh poor me. 221 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:26,439 Speaker 3: Like, to be honest, if you live in Australia, you 222 00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 3: have nothing to be worried about to an extent, like 223 00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 3: what other country do you have the privilege to maybe 224 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:37,200 Speaker 3: get CENTERINGK if you lose your job? True, there's so 225 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 3: many things that we take for granted that we expect 226 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 3: as like the bare minimum that isn't. 227 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:48,199 Speaker 1: That's actually something Tim said after our euro trip. He's like, wow, 228 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 1: I it has really illuminated how much privilege I have 229 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 1: and how much For example, you know, if Ivy has 230 00:12:56,760 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 1: a tantrum or something happens during his day, he will 231 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 1: then let that affect his whole day and be in 232 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 1: a victim mindset. And he's like, I am so privileged 233 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:11,960 Speaker 1: and I've let the smallest things affect my mindset and mood, 234 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 1: which is such a privilege. And he's like, I can't 235 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 1: believe I've you know, let myself do that. And I 236 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:22,320 Speaker 1: think it's really easy to get into a victim mindset 237 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:25,680 Speaker 1: when you do have more privileges. Absolutely, could you just 238 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 1: expect it? And that's what he said. He's like, I 239 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:31,559 Speaker 1: just expect things to be amazing twenty four to seven. 240 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 1: So when they're not, I'm grumpy and I'm like I 241 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:36,080 Speaker 1: could have Todd. 242 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:40,680 Speaker 3: But glad this trip illuminated it. 243 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, we're doing shadow work right now. This 244 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:49,079 Speaker 1: is amazing. So that's even the first, you know, thing 245 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 1: I want you guys to start thinking about is where 246 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 1: are you even not like you're like, oh, I want 247 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 1: to earn more money. You're not even letting your mind 248 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 1: go to places where you could earn more money. For example, 249 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 1: I'm someone who has a seven and. 250 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 2: Eight figure business. 251 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 1: I still sell clothes on deepop. 252 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 2: I love that, and that comes from. 253 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:17,720 Speaker 1: A value of I hate waste. So if I have 254 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 1: some beautiful outfits in my closet that I'm not gonna 255 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 1: wear that are super valuable, I have this and I 256 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: also buy things on deepop and I have this thing 257 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 1: about like I really want someone to have it. Who's 258 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 1: going to value it and love it and love it? 259 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 1: Obviously if it's you know, it's not a designer outfit, 260 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 1: Like I would just give a lot of things to 261 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 1: friends and you know, my mum and whatnot. But if 262 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 1: it is something I'm like, someone would love this and 263 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 1: not only love it because I got it for fifty 264 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 1: percent off. You know, that's like a value of mine. 265 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 1: But there would be people who are you know, they 266 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: possibly work full time or whatnot, and they're like, well, 267 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:57,960 Speaker 1: I'm not doing that because I have, you know, a 268 00:14:57,960 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 1: big girl job. Or even like you can literally walk 269 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 1: dogs and get paid. Like you're walking anyway, Maybe you 270 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 1: go for an afternoon walk every afternoon for an hour 271 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 1: to get in your steps. You could literally be a 272 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 1: paid dog walker and get paid to walk. I used 273 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 1: to love cooking healthy recipes, so I made a healthy 274 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 1: recipe ebook and got paid for it. 275 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. 276 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:27,120 Speaker 1: Do you mean there's so many things that you're probably 277 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 1: already doing now that you're like, I could actually get 278 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 1: paid for this. 279 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like if you like going to the gym, maybe 280 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 3: considering a p T shirt on the side, Yeah, and 281 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 3: run a class on a Saturday morning or something. 282 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 2: Yes, Like even stuff like that I guarantee you. 283 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 1: There's so many people are like, oh, I never would 284 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 1: have thought of that, But I'm complaining that I don't 285 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:47,800 Speaker 1: have much money. 286 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you're not willing to do anything. 287 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 1: No, That's what I'm talking about, being at a victim mindset. 288 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 1: Like I even saw this TikTok the other day and 289 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 1: this girl was like, do you know there's something happening 290 00:15:57,760 --> 00:16:00,560 Speaker 1: in Australia right now where they're doing tests on like 291 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 1: it was something to do with like females, so only 292 00:16:02,840 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 1: females could do it. But she's like, I literally just 293 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 1: had to give them my blood and I got paid 294 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 1: three hundred and fifty dollars and it was for like 295 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 1: a test they're doing. I think it's to do with 296 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 1: like a varian cancer. I don't know, something like that. 297 00:16:15,440 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 1: And she's like, there's actually so many things like this, 298 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 1: but like just no one sorts it out. And I 299 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 1: was like smart, very And that's even like I have 300 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 1: this like what kind came to light of just you know, 301 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 1: money mindset. And on our trip I on our euro trip, 302 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 1: I bought a designer handbag and so we have this 303 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:41,760 Speaker 1: thing in all the countries where basically you can get 304 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 1: if you buy something overseas and go back to your country, 305 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 1: you can get the tax back because you're not a 306 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 1: residence so you should be paying tax there. So I 307 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 1: bought my bag in Paris, and so when I left 308 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 1: to come home, you have to just like go to 309 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:59,120 Speaker 1: this like duty free place in the airport, show them 310 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 1: the receipt, show them the bag, and then you get 311 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:06,200 Speaker 1: refunded like ten to fifteen percent. So my bag was 312 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 1: very expensive, so like I was getting refunded like nine 313 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 1: hundred dollars and it was like we had to like 314 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 1: find this place and like sort it out. And Tim 315 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 1: was like, why are we even doing this? 316 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 2: Like who cares? 317 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 1: Like just don't worry about it, Like, Tim, you are 318 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 1: so free, like this is he did not say that. 319 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: His was like he just like couldn't be bothered. Oh 320 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:31,639 Speaker 1: but that's like tired, yeah, And no. He even like 321 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:35,159 Speaker 1: made a joke about basically me being stingy, and I 322 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:38,639 Speaker 1: was like, no, yes, Tim, this is like three weeks 323 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:43,840 Speaker 1: of Ivy's daycare or like a pair of designer shoes. 324 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:45,199 Speaker 3: Exactly, Oh of that. 325 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 1: And that's the thing is like it's even a reflection 326 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 1: of like are you willing to take extra steps, are 327 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:53,720 Speaker 1: you willing to do extra things? 328 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:54,680 Speaker 2: And that's the. 329 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 1: Beautiful thing is like blessed him. He honestly would be 330 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 1: so fine with no money, like the simplest life. Yeah, 331 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 1: it very much reflects his mindset. So that's not like, 332 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 1: you know, bagging him out or anything, but it really 333 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 1: just illuminated to me of my mindset. I'm like, if 334 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 1: I can get nine hundred dollars back of specimply going 335 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 1: to this place in the airport where we've got to 336 00:18:17,320 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 1: wait three hours, anyway, of course I'm going to do it. 337 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:23,480 Speaker 1: But so many people are like, oh, poor me, I 338 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:26,439 Speaker 1: don't have money, but they're not willing to do the 339 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 1: extra steps to let the money come in because often 340 00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:35,200 Speaker 1: we get really stuck in the well. I want more money, 341 00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:37,639 Speaker 1: so it has to come through my job, so it 342 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:40,920 Speaker 1: has to come through this specific way. But I have 343 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 1: this belief that money is coming to me, like money 344 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:47,800 Speaker 1: is circulating through If you think about the amount of 345 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 1: money circulating this earth is wild and it is honestly, 346 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:56,600 Speaker 1: it's just it's trying to come to you. It's trying 347 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 1: to support you and protect you. 348 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 2: It's like this mass skill. 349 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:04,159 Speaker 1: And energy that wants to be there for you, and 350 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:08,160 Speaker 1: so often we block it. So often we're like, oh 351 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:10,800 Speaker 1: I just I can't be bothered. But then we winch 352 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 1: about not having it. 353 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:15,639 Speaker 3: And it's almost like a bit silly of us to 354 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 3: think that we're just going to get all this extra 355 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:21,199 Speaker 3: money without putting any more work in because you're not 356 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 3: exchanging energy then, But. 357 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 2: It's that's the thing, is it? 358 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:27,439 Speaker 1: Apps money can actually come to you by you not 359 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 1: putting in work, and like you know, people win the lotto, 360 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 1: it can actually come to you in those ways. 361 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:35,600 Speaker 2: It's just if you it's almost. 362 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 1: Like an ego thing to be like, oh, well I'm 363 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:40,879 Speaker 1: not dog walking or like yeah, I'm not selling my 364 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 1: clothes on deep pop. Like that's embarrassing yea, you know, 365 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:48,160 Speaker 1: like it's an ego sort of move, even tim being 366 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 1: like oh why you're so stingy? You know, Yeah, that's 367 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:55,280 Speaker 1: even something to look at. Where is your ego blocking 368 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:59,439 Speaker 1: you for more money to come in? That's interesting And 369 00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 1: that's even like I consider myself a very wealthy person, 370 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:09,920 Speaker 1: but I'm also highly resourceful. Yeah, if I can get 371 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:13,879 Speaker 1: something cheaper, I will. If I can get money back somehow, 372 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 1: I will. Obviously I'm not ever crossing my boundaries or 373 00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:19,919 Speaker 1: crossing integrity, Yeah. 374 00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 2: To get more money. 375 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 1: But it's like, I am so willing to do those 376 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 1: extra steps for that money to come in. 377 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. And it's as simple as like, if you're buying 378 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:31,680 Speaker 3: a camera, make sure you get a receipt and claim 379 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:33,920 Speaker 3: it on tax if you work in content. And it's 380 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 3: like some people I know that working content have like 381 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:38,840 Speaker 3: bought the cameras and stuff and I'm like, well, you 382 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:40,720 Speaker 3: should claim it on tax because you use it for work, 383 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:42,880 Speaker 3: And they're like, oh, but I can't be bothered. Yeah, 384 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 3: I can't be bothered keeping the receipt. I can't be bothered. 385 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:47,359 Speaker 2: And how much money they have coming in. 386 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like, yeah, that's interesting, Yeah exactly. Okay, So 387 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:57,120 Speaker 1: I and this is you know, a lot to do. 388 00:20:57,440 --> 00:20:59,920 Speaker 1: I'm kind of talking about a shadow work lens here, 389 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 1: which is basically just thinking about And that's the thing 390 00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 1: is often this story we have around money or how 391 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:11,959 Speaker 1: we feel stuck in money, it's not because logically we 392 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:15,760 Speaker 1: don't want more money to come in. It's because we 393 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:21,200 Speaker 1: are gaining something by staying where we are by having 394 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:25,199 Speaker 1: this specific money story. So, for example, let's just go 395 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 1: to that deep hop example of mine, maybe you're like, oh, 396 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 1: I'm not you know, I refuse to sell my clothes 397 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:35,520 Speaker 1: on deep hop because it looks cheap or scrappy, crappy, 398 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:39,440 Speaker 1: and so it's like, Okay, that's your story. What are 399 00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 1: you gaining by having that story? 400 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 2: What it like? 401 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 1: What's the thing that you think you get by having 402 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:51,320 Speaker 1: that story, because you wouldn't have that story unless you're 403 00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:56,480 Speaker 1: getting something or even you know, ask yourself. Maybe you 404 00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:59,920 Speaker 1: have the story of like, oh, well, I'm not good 405 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 1: with money because my parents had a shit relationship with money. 406 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:06,240 Speaker 1: They never showed me how to use money, and so 407 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 1: anytime I get it, I just like spend it. And 408 00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:11,400 Speaker 1: it makes sense because my parents have a shit relationship 409 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 1: with money. That is completely valid. And look, we can 410 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 1: go into limiting beliefs. We can do that work, and 411 00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 1: I absolutely do that work. But let's just go one 412 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:25,480 Speaker 1: step further. What are you actually gaining by having that story? 413 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 1: What I can see straight away is you don't have 414 00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:32,520 Speaker 1: to take responsibility. You can lose money and then let's 415 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 1: just say your partner pays for things and you can 416 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:37,720 Speaker 1: blame oh, I'm shit with money because of my parents, 417 00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 1: and you actually get to gain You never have to 418 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 1: be a big girl and actually look at your finances 419 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 1: and actually take responsibility. 420 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 2: So that's what you're. 421 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:50,159 Speaker 1: Gaining by having that money story. 422 00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 3: You don't have to make big purchases or investments like 423 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,600 Speaker 3: buying a house because your parents bad with money, So 424 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:57,520 Speaker 3: how how would you even get there? 425 00:22:58,000 --> 00:22:58,680 Speaker 2: Exactly? 426 00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:01,719 Speaker 1: And a lot of people think, no, no, I have 427 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:05,120 Speaker 1: this story. This is just my reality and it sucks. 428 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,920 Speaker 1: And yes I'm not saying it doesn't suck, like your 429 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 1: experience is so valid, but you would not have this 430 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:16,680 Speaker 1: story or belief unless you are gaining something from it. 431 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:20,480 Speaker 1: So let's almost like bypass the ego stuff and go 432 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:24,919 Speaker 1: straight to oh what am I actually gaining from? Not 433 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:28,760 Speaker 1: ever looking at extra income streams. Maybe it's like you 434 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:33,040 Speaker 1: actually just don't want to do anymore, Like not that 435 00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:36,159 Speaker 1: you're being lazy, but it's like maybe you actually don't 436 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,919 Speaker 1: want to earn more money because that would mean you 437 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,120 Speaker 1: get into a higher tax bracket you have to pay 438 00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:44,439 Speaker 1: more tax, and that's scary to you, you know, like 439 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:47,879 Speaker 1: it can be something so much deeper. And when we 440 00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:51,440 Speaker 1: shine a light on these things and really illuminate them, 441 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 1: it's such an amazing moment to be like. 442 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:56,879 Speaker 2: Oh, this is the real story. 443 00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 3: And I think as well with being scared to diverse 444 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,480 Speaker 3: fire your income streams, so like look at other ways. 445 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:04,600 Speaker 3: Sometimes it just comes down to like it's a bit 446 00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 3: of an ego fluff. Like if you look at someone 447 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 3: who's working multiple jobs, you go, oh, my gosh, well 448 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 3: they're obviously not earning enough from their regular day job, 449 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:13,640 Speaker 3: or it's not as good as mine or all these things. 450 00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 3: But it's like maybe they're earning more than you from 451 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,439 Speaker 3: their regular day job, but they want an abundance of 452 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 3: money so they can spend however they please and be 453 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:24,120 Speaker 3: a bit more willingly with their finances so they make 454 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,840 Speaker 3: sure they get that. So like maybe they're earning one 455 00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:29,400 Speaker 3: hundred thousand dollars from their full time job, but they 456 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 3: still work it like I don't know, mecha or something 457 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,520 Speaker 3: on the weekends because they like make up and that 458 00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:37,879 Speaker 3: gives them a discount and money to spend. So like 459 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 3: you can't really judge. But also if you're having that 460 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:42,919 Speaker 3: judgment on yourself and go, oh, well, I wouldn't want 461 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,199 Speaker 3: to work a retail job on the weekend, look at 462 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:46,720 Speaker 3: where that's coming from. 463 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:50,600 Speaker 1: Totally, And I think, also, yeah, like what are you 464 00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:54,119 Speaker 1: gaining from that story, I was even thinking back to 465 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:58,840 Speaker 1: when I first started on my money mindset. And so 466 00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 1: when I was doing my law degree and I was working, 467 00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:06,359 Speaker 1: it was probably a little bit more than part time. 468 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:08,919 Speaker 1: It was like a good three to four days a week. 469 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:12,840 Speaker 1: But I really leant into this story that I was 470 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:16,400 Speaker 1: always broke and I was always poor and I was always. 471 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:17,560 Speaker 2: Living week to week. 472 00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 1: And I like, when I was prepping this episode, I 473 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:22,760 Speaker 1: was thinking, Oh, what was I gaining from that? 474 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 2: And so I wrote down I. 475 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:28,919 Speaker 1: Was gaining the story of like, oh, I worked so hard. 476 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 1: Not only am I studying, but I'm also working basically 477 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:33,479 Speaker 1: full time. 478 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:37,199 Speaker 2: Poor me. I got to say that to everyone. I 479 00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 2: got to feel better. 480 00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 1: That's a dopamine hire Like, not only that I did that. 481 00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 2: Poor me. 482 00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:47,320 Speaker 1: We love being victims, Yeah, we absolutely love it. And 483 00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 1: that's the thing is my my parents would absolutely indulge 484 00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:50,919 Speaker 1: me in that. 485 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:52,879 Speaker 2: They'd be like, oh, she's such a hot worker. 486 00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,800 Speaker 1: Not only that, like, for example, because I wasn't working 487 00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:02,640 Speaker 1: for time in a new part time tim would pay 488 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:05,360 Speaker 1: for extra things. Again, he would indulge me, and he 489 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:07,920 Speaker 1: would be like, Oh it's right, babe, I've got it. 490 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:10,719 Speaker 1: You know, you work so hard. And don't have much money, 491 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,879 Speaker 1: so I could I could lean into that story. I 492 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 1: could not take responsibility. I actually remember this, this, This 493 00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 1: is a key moment where my mindset changed around money. 494 00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 1: So I was only working part time, I was working 495 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:28,159 Speaker 1: my law degree, and I got a speeding fine. I 496 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:33,760 Speaker 1: got my red Joe and some some other bill came 497 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,480 Speaker 1: in and it was like twelve hundred dollars and I 498 00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:38,640 Speaker 1: had only like six hundred dollars to my name. 499 00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 2: And I remember winging to Tim and being. 500 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:46,480 Speaker 1: Like, oh, I got this speeding fine and this happened, 501 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:48,359 Speaker 1: and I'm so shit with money. 502 00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:49,679 Speaker 2: And I remember him. 503 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:52,119 Speaker 1: Like turning around and being like, Georgia, you earn like 504 00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 1: eight hundred dollars a week, Like sort it out, like 505 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:57,760 Speaker 1: sort it out. And I was like, pop off. 506 00:26:57,640 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 2: Tim shot. 507 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:04,160 Speaker 1: I was shocked, and it was like, yeah, you're actually right, 508 00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:07,800 Speaker 1: And I actually gained so much by leaning into I'm broke. 509 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,400 Speaker 2: I actually gained so much, So no. 510 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:15,440 Speaker 1: Wonder why I keep creating scenarios where I'm broke. Yeah, 511 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:18,200 Speaker 1: And that was such an epiphany moment. And that's honestly 512 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 1: when things changed. When I became aware of my money 513 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,679 Speaker 1: story and what I was gaining from staying in that 514 00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 1: victim mentality and also another thing I was gaining again, 515 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,359 Speaker 1: I got to plan to the I'm a poor student story, 516 00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:35,879 Speaker 1: and I don't have to make the next step. I 517 00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,800 Speaker 1: didn't have to start saving for a house. 518 00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:42,840 Speaker 2: I didn't have to even think about bigger things. 519 00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,880 Speaker 1: Because I'm like, I'm the poor student again. 520 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:45,960 Speaker 2: It's a responsibility. 521 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:50,120 Speaker 1: I wanted to stay a kid, which is fine. Yeah 522 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:51,520 Speaker 1: I was actually quite young. 523 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:55,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's like just being aware of that rather 524 00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:58,879 Speaker 3: than like almost being avoidant with it, I think, because 525 00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:00,520 Speaker 3: I think I did a similar thing where I was 526 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 3: earning like a decent amount of money while I was 527 00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:04,960 Speaker 3: working while studying, but I told myself, oh, I'm so young, 528 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:08,200 Speaker 3: I'm a student, and I didn't really save for a house. 529 00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:11,760 Speaker 3: And that's fine because I chose to spend my money 530 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,000 Speaker 3: on other things that filled my cup. But I should 531 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,880 Speaker 3: have come from a place of like ownership rather than 532 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:21,479 Speaker 3: avoidance in going Yeah, I'm owning money, but I'm choosing 533 00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:23,639 Speaker 3: it to spend. I'm choosing to spend it on travel 534 00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:25,720 Speaker 3: right now, because I'm never gonna be in my early 535 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:28,760 Speaker 3: twenties again with the flexibility to go away for six weeks. 536 00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:32,560 Speaker 3: Because once I start working full time, pending your style 537 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 3: a job like a six week holidays bit more rare, 538 00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:38,240 Speaker 3: Like it's so fine to do whatever you feel with 539 00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 3: your money, but just do it from a place of like, 540 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,640 Speaker 3: I have the privilege to choose to do this with 541 00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:47,640 Speaker 3: my money, rather than I'll pull me. I don't have 542 00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:49,720 Speaker 3: enough to do the big things, so I'm gonna do 543 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:52,000 Speaker 3: this instead, Like, be proud of your choice. Be proud, 544 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:54,840 Speaker 3: like I'm choosing to travel right now because that's what's 545 00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 3: gonna make me feel amazing. And I know a house 546 00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:58,280 Speaker 3: is there when I come back. 547 00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 1: Yes, And that's kind of the point. It's what you 548 00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:06,479 Speaker 1: do actually doesn't matter. It's your mindset the way you 549 00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:08,360 Speaker 1: do it, And that's all I'm talking about. I'm not 550 00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:11,840 Speaker 1: trying to like shit on certain people doing certain things, 551 00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:14,960 Speaker 1: because I do actually believe you can do anything and 552 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:18,560 Speaker 1: it can be amazing. But I'm yeah, I'm talking about 553 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 1: when you're in a victim mindset around money, around certain things, 554 00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 1: but you're making choices, yeah that propel that victim mindset. 555 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,520 Speaker 1: And see I see stuff on you know TikTok. It's 556 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 1: very trendy to be like you won't always be twenty 557 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,720 Speaker 1: three traveling the world, like you can just earn more 558 00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,959 Speaker 1: money when you get back, and I'm like, yes, I 559 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,840 Speaker 1: love that because I remember I did want to travel 560 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 1: when I was younger, but I had all like my 561 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:51,560 Speaker 1: parents for very much like no at this age, you 562 00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 1: say for a house and you do this, and so 563 00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:56,360 Speaker 1: I did it. But it wasn't like my choice. I 564 00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:58,360 Speaker 1: was just doing because I had to do it. 565 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:00,480 Speaker 2: So I do look at those people and I'm like, 566 00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:01,520 Speaker 2: good on you. 567 00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:06,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's absolutely the truth. But as long as you're like, yes, 568 00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 1: this is what I want to do, and it's coming 569 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 1: from a very empowered space. 570 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,239 Speaker 3: Because I actually saw a TikTok the other day of 571 00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:15,720 Speaker 3: this girl who was like, all I want to do 572 00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 3: right now is be on a beach in Europe, but 573 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:23,080 Speaker 3: I bought a house last year and now I can't. 574 00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:26,840 Speaker 3: And there were people in the comments going, hey, I'm 575 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 3: someone in Europe would much rather be in a house 576 00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:34,680 Speaker 3: I own right now. So I think, recognize the privilege 577 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 3: you have and make your decisions, but make them for 578 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:40,720 Speaker 3: you and not for anyone else. Like if you're going 579 00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:44,120 Speaker 3: to buy a house, amazing, but don't buy your house 580 00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,040 Speaker 3: and then be like poor me, I have a house, 581 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:47,400 Speaker 3: I can't go to Europe. 582 00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:52,640 Speaker 1: Like, well, I even think this is such an interesting 583 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:58,480 Speaker 1: topic that we always want what we don't have, and 584 00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 1: again our brains wired this way. But the grass is 585 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:06,400 Speaker 1: always greener, like you think, the grass is always greener 586 00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:07,400 Speaker 1: on the other side. 587 00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:08,520 Speaker 2: And that's like. 588 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:12,720 Speaker 1: When people ask me, oh, do you regret doing a 589 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:15,640 Speaker 1: six year law degree and then not using your degree, 590 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,480 Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, I gained so much from that. 591 00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:22,400 Speaker 1: Why would I regret that? Whereas it's so easy because 592 00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:26,720 Speaker 1: of society being like, oh yeah, that if I didn't 593 00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:28,800 Speaker 1: have this house, I could be going to Europe. It's 594 00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 1: so easy to want the other thing. But again, take 595 00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:38,560 Speaker 1: some responsibility, even if it is a choice that you don't. 596 00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:42,040 Speaker 1: And this is actually reminding me. I made the choice 597 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:45,120 Speaker 1: that I probably wasn't going to practice law six months 598 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:49,000 Speaker 1: before I finish, and I it then got harder to 599 00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:50,840 Speaker 1: show up for my law job, to show up for 600 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,400 Speaker 1: my PLT, and you know, to do the study because 601 00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:54,920 Speaker 1: I was like, fuck, I'm probably not gonna do this. 602 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:59,120 Speaker 1: But I really had to sit in the well. I 603 00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:03,080 Speaker 1: made this decision and I'm going to see it through 604 00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,960 Speaker 1: because I am someone who finishes. I am someone who 605 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 1: stays consistent. I am someone who is committed and I. 606 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:12,800 Speaker 2: Choose to be that person. 607 00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,560 Speaker 1: So even though I'm probably not going to finish a 608 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:19,240 Speaker 1: practice law, I'm going to be so grateful that I 609 00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 1: gain these skills that I get my law certificate, Like 610 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:26,040 Speaker 1: what a proud achievement. And I had to really mentally 611 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:30,440 Speaker 1: challenge myself in those moments, which can be hard because 612 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:32,640 Speaker 1: it is it's like the grass always does look greener 613 00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,880 Speaker 1: on the other side, yeah, but it honestly rarely is. 614 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 1: So it's like, if you've made a certain decision take responsibility. 615 00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:42,240 Speaker 1: You can always change it down the track, but it's 616 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:44,600 Speaker 1: like sit in it and be like, Okay, where can 617 00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:48,360 Speaker 1: I actually take responsibility and have awareness for how privileged 618 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:52,760 Speaker 1: I actually am in this responsibility. And that's what even 619 00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:55,920 Speaker 1: if you're currently have a side hustle and you work 620 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 1: full time, you have a side hustle, you want to 621 00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 1: make the side hustle your full time thing. If you 622 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:05,640 Speaker 1: do not have gratitude for your full time thing, it 623 00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 1: is going to be so hard to make that, you know, 624 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:14,800 Speaker 1: side hustle full time because you're not in the appreciation, 625 00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:17,800 Speaker 1: You're not in the high vibration of gratitude, it's going 626 00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:21,120 Speaker 1: to be hard to shift that, and so again it's like, 627 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:24,680 Speaker 1: can you actually have so much gratitude for where you're 628 00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:31,120 Speaker 1: currently are and illuminate where am I actually gaining from 629 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:34,600 Speaker 1: staying in this place if you are feeling like a victim. 630 00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 3: And Guys, once you shift into gratitude, it's literally a 631 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 3: life changing as someone who's recently done that, because it 632 00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:45,920 Speaker 3: was hard and like, I've had a lot of tests 633 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,760 Speaker 3: this year and money tests, and I was just like, 634 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:51,520 Speaker 3: oh my god, poor me, poor me, poor me? Why me? 635 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 3: Why me? Why me? And I was like at some 636 00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:55,720 Speaker 3: point you just got to like accept it and be like, well, 637 00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:58,120 Speaker 3: this is the situation. What am I going to do 638 00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:00,640 Speaker 3: about it? What choices am I going to make? And 639 00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:02,960 Speaker 3: I'm gonna be grateful for it because I'm gonna be 640 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:06,040 Speaker 3: grateful for the fact that present me is looking after 641 00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:09,640 Speaker 3: future me by making these decisions and sacrifices because it's 642 00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:12,960 Speaker 3: not always all roses. But you can enjoy every single moment, 643 00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:14,839 Speaker 3: Like you can get up every day and go, oh 644 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:17,360 Speaker 3: my god, how amazing and how grateful am I to 645 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:19,960 Speaker 3: have a fun job to go to or if you 646 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,120 Speaker 3: don't love your job, like I'm so grateful I have 647 00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:24,400 Speaker 3: a job to go to and I get paid every 648 00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,640 Speaker 3: week or every month without a doubt that money comes 649 00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,200 Speaker 3: into my account, Like already that like what have you 650 00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:34,320 Speaker 3: normalized already that you're taking for granted. Because some people 651 00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:36,640 Speaker 3: they work casually and they haven't been able to get 652 00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:40,400 Speaker 3: a full time job and they don't have a guaranteed 653 00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:41,319 Speaker 3: paycheck coming in. 654 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:45,160 Speaker 1: There is always a mindset shift for anyone that's like, yeah, 655 00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:47,279 Speaker 1: you should be so grateful if you have a full 656 00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:50,279 Speaker 1: time job at the moment, because there's so much going 657 00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:53,280 Speaker 1: on in the economy where people are losing their jobs, 658 00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,520 Speaker 1: you know. And then maybe if you did lose your job, 659 00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:59,239 Speaker 1: is this the best thing that happened to you, because 660 00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:01,880 Speaker 1: now maybe you get job that you've really wanted, or 661 00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:03,719 Speaker 1: that is going to be the job where you're like, 662 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,800 Speaker 1: oh my god, thank god that happened, so I got 663 00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:10,920 Speaker 1: this job. You know. Like there's always a mindset shift 664 00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:14,160 Speaker 1: that is always a higher vibe available to you. 665 00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 2: It's just if you're willing. 666 00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:18,760 Speaker 1: To take it and take responsibility. 667 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:20,719 Speaker 3: And if you are in that high vibe, you'll be 668 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:22,439 Speaker 3: surprised at what comes your way. 669 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:24,719 Speaker 1: It's going to be better than you could have imagined. 670 00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:29,240 Speaker 1: As we like to say, yes it's our favorite. Well 671 00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:31,680 Speaker 1: you know that started tough love, but I feel like 672 00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:32,919 Speaker 1: it ended on a really great note. 673 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:36,520 Speaker 2: Me too, we did. 674 00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,600 Speaker 1: I hoped you loved this episode, guys, and we will 675 00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:46,799 Speaker 1: catch you in the next one. Thank you so much 676 00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:50,680 Speaker 1: for listening to another episode of the Rise and Conquer Podcast. 677 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,719 Speaker 1: If you enjoyed it and want more, come connect with 678 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:58,879 Speaker 1: us on Instagram at Riseinconquer dot podcast and join our 679 00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:03,359 Speaker 1: Facebook discussion a Rise and Conquer podcast community. 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