WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - We Judge and We Don’t Listen 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:12.600 This episode was recorded on Cameragle Land. Hi guys, and 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:14.440 welcome back to another episode of Life Uncut. 0:00:14.560 --> 0:00:18.320 I'm Laura, I'm Brittany and producer Keisha keep that in 0:00:18.360 --> 0:00:19.759 what Laura just did at the start? Do you know 0:00:19.800 --> 0:00:24.680 what it sounded like, whiteladus. It was whiteloadus, wasn't and 0:00:24.680 --> 0:00:25.760 then it was the start of it. 0:00:25.800 --> 0:00:27.600 That's what all we need on a Monday, Okay, we 0:00:27.640 --> 0:00:28.560 all need the white list. 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:30.440 Do you know what Britt used to do before we 0:00:30.440 --> 0:00:32.560 would start episodes. Britt just to slap herself in the 0:00:32.600 --> 0:00:35.800 face to get herself in a mood back in the day, 0:00:36.000 --> 0:00:38.520 when you know, you would be tired, it was late 0:00:38.560 --> 0:00:40.639 at night. We would record at all hours to try 0:00:40.680 --> 0:00:41.639 and get this podcast out. 0:00:41.720 --> 0:00:41.960 And it was. 0:00:42.000 --> 0:00:43.879 Especially when I was still working at the hospital and 0:00:43.880 --> 0:00:45.600 sometimes you'd been like on a twelve hour shift and 0:00:45.640 --> 0:00:47.760 it was eleven pm at night. I would literally slap 0:00:47.800 --> 0:00:49.600 myself in the face, not hard. I don't want people think. 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:51.920 You know, like waking, Like yeah, it was a ritual, 0:00:52.040 --> 0:00:55.480 pre record ritual. Brit would slap herself. I would laugh 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:57.000 at her, and then we were in the mood. 0:00:57.120 --> 0:00:58.840 It was like I was psyching myself up. You'd think 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:01.160 that I was like, say, about to go and performing 0:01:01.160 --> 0:01:02.720 in front of thousand of people. I was like, come on, 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:04.840 you can do it, or like a football match or something, 0:01:04.840 --> 0:01:07.600 because like I was really pumping myself up like a fighter. 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:09.840 I'm not sure if there's any Olympics or there was 0:01:10.319 --> 0:01:13.080 a coach that did that to the fighter and people 0:01:13.160 --> 0:01:15.640 all across the world were like, that's not okay, Well 0:01:15.720 --> 0:01:16.360 a coach. 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:19.120 The coach slapped the fighter. Yeah, but it probably is. 0:01:19.520 --> 0:01:21.440 It is okay if your job is about to be 0:01:21.440 --> 0:01:23.360 punched in the face, that's different. It's not like they're 0:01:23.360 --> 0:01:25.920 going in for promotion and then boss slaps across the face. 0:01:26.120 --> 0:01:27.480 That's just part of the warm up. 0:01:27.560 --> 0:01:31.640 It's not Britt slapping me in the facesha edit better 0:01:31.760 --> 0:01:34.479 slap you Like if you're a fighter, that would get 0:01:34.520 --> 0:01:36.560 you psyched because you want them to be angry and 0:01:36.600 --> 0:01:37.800 you want them to be fired up. 0:01:37.959 --> 0:01:40.200 Not saying that any violence is okay, but when your 0:01:40.280 --> 0:01:42.160 job is violence, it hits different. 0:01:42.360 --> 0:01:45.000 So just so you guys do know, we are having 0:01:45.080 --> 0:01:48.560 a holiday very shortly, and this episode has been recorded 0:01:48.840 --> 0:01:51.000 in the EFFA. Actually it's just been pre recorded because 0:01:51.040 --> 0:01:53.560 Britt is on her way to Italy to go and 0:01:53.600 --> 0:01:54.600 spend some time with Bed. 0:01:54.640 --> 0:01:57.880 I'm not on my way, I'm there. I'm Orgasmine as 0:01:57.920 --> 0:01:58.960 we speak, I hope. 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:01.200 So why is that where you always take it. 0:02:01.160 --> 0:02:03.160 To Because I don't have sex for three months at 0:02:03.160 --> 0:02:05.520 a time, and then that's what I'm going to be doing. 0:02:05.600 --> 0:02:07.800 And we're all about having an unfiltered chat here. If 0:02:07.800 --> 0:02:10.600 you guys think I'm doing anything other than that, you cook. 0:02:10.760 --> 0:02:12.960 We'll also just keep in mind that whilst you're listening 0:02:13.040 --> 0:02:16.720 to this brute is mid orgasm, I'm having a home likely. 0:02:16.560 --> 0:02:20.200 Not just I also am not for what I will say, 0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:23.320 it's I'm a very family person. I can't wait. I'm 0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:25.360 looking forward to it. But my sister Sherry Jay and 0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:27.200 baby Maya are going to come and visit. 0:02:27.400 --> 0:02:30.640 The family shouldn't be included in that bridge. Y, Well, what. 0:02:30.400 --> 0:02:32.880 The problem is. Ben's always had like a two bedroom 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:35.760 apartment with two bathrooms, and it's quite big and it's 0:02:35.800 --> 0:02:38.440 been great, but he's now moved into a one bedroom 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:41.280 apartment because he had no time to find it. One bedroom, 0:02:41.480 --> 0:02:44.760 one bathroom, and the spare room is just a sofa 0:02:44.800 --> 0:02:46.840 bed in the lounge. The lounge pulls out. So this 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:51.160 is a very small, intimate apartment. So now I'm like, 0:02:51.639 --> 0:02:53.840 do I just shout them in airbanb Do I put 0:02:53.840 --> 0:02:54.519 them up somewhere? 0:02:54.639 --> 0:02:56.600 Surely if they're coming for a holiday, they can get 0:02:56.600 --> 0:02:58.600 themselves in it. It just they don't have to stay 0:02:58.639 --> 0:03:01.360 in the apartment if the apartment not adequately sized. Also, 0:03:01.560 --> 0:03:03.200 they have a baby, they probably don't want to stay 0:03:03.200 --> 0:03:03.800 in the apartment. 0:03:03.880 --> 0:03:06.760 It's just really expensive over there. So you always offer, right, 0:03:06.800 --> 0:03:08.720 I'm always like, of course you guys can, Like they're 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:10.920 already paying one thousand bus sea don't. I was like, 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:13.200 you guys are so welcome to stay on the tiny 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:14.760 pullout sofa in the one bedroom apartment. 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:17.480 Come would you give up the main room for them? 0:03:17.639 --> 0:03:21.359 Would be ridiculous? How would I do that? I think 0:03:21.400 --> 0:03:23.120 that I think that they're going to do half half 0:03:23.480 --> 0:03:26.240 because Sheridan was like, look, we won't stay. We know 0:03:26.680 --> 0:03:28.200 what you guys are going to be doing and no 0:03:28.240 --> 0:03:29.720 one needs to hear that, And I was like, no, 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:32.920 that's ridiculous. Family comes first. No, actually I come first, 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:35.119 then the family comes second. But I was like, why 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:36.760 don't we do half half? Stay a couple of days 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:39.080 with us? Because I also want maybe mightac to be 0:03:39.160 --> 0:03:41.480 at my disposal twenty four to seven, Like I want 0:03:41.560 --> 0:03:43.840 to have access to it whenever I want. But I 0:03:43.840 --> 0:03:45.280 was like, why don't you do three days with us 0:03:45.320 --> 0:03:47.440 and then three days in and their baby? So I 0:03:47.440 --> 0:03:48.800 think that's the happy medium. 0:03:48.920 --> 0:03:50.760 Well, this is I mean in terms of what we 0:03:50.800 --> 0:03:52.200 have coming up for you guys. So we still have 0:03:52.200 --> 0:03:54.800 an episode coming out on Wednesday, and then we are 0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:57.320 taking one week off for Easter break and we'll be 0:03:57.320 --> 0:04:00.240 back to normal programming after that. So I mean, is 0:04:00.240 --> 0:04:04.280 a way having a wonderful time. I hopefully, if things 0:04:04.320 --> 0:04:06.600 work out and stars align, will be able to spend 0:04:06.600 --> 0:04:08.800 my first week down at the house we've been renovating 0:04:08.800 --> 0:04:11.560 down the South coast. So that's cross Yeah, I'm really like, 0:04:11.560 --> 0:04:13.600 I'm so looking forward to it. It all depends on 0:04:13.640 --> 0:04:16.680 furniture deliveries, so like fingers crossed, that freedom comes through 0:04:16.720 --> 0:04:18.000 with like the delivery on time. 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:19.599 Well, you can't just go and lay on the ground, 0:04:19.720 --> 0:04:20.520 Well yeah, that's. 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:22.359 Kind of what we'll be doing otherwise. So oping in 0:04:22.360 --> 0:04:25.280 a house yeah, but you kind of need at least 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:28.560 a couch or a bed or something like a chair. 0:04:28.680 --> 0:04:30.840 There's literally the house is barren and we have all 0:04:30.880 --> 0:04:33.200 the furniture arriving at one time, so it's still touch 0:04:33.240 --> 0:04:34.520 and go at the moment as to whether that's going 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:36.360 to happen. But that is the plan for our little 0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:36.880 easter break. 0:04:36.920 --> 0:04:38.599 Do you know what my parents told me all the 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:41.160 time growing up? These are these stories that come from 0:04:41.200 --> 0:04:43.359 your parents where they're like, I walked three kilometers in 0:04:43.400 --> 0:04:46.120 the snow to get to school. I all will never 0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:48.040 forget my dad and my mum saying that they had 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:50.960 a ladder in their house for nearly two years and 0:04:51.000 --> 0:04:54.360 that they had like camp furniture because they were building 0:04:54.360 --> 0:04:56.840 a house and they couldn't afford furniture as well. And 0:04:56.880 --> 0:04:59.039 I guess times have changed so much because now we 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:00.400 can get furniture for so cheap. 0:05:00.440 --> 0:05:02.320 It just might not be good furniture totally. 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:04.680 But I always picture them and I'm like, how did 0:05:04.720 --> 0:05:06.360 you live for two years like that? 0:05:06.480 --> 0:05:07.440 Like, surely you've. 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:09.840 Added so much mayo to it? You know that's an exaggeration. 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:11.839 It's like when yeah, exactly like you said, and I 0:05:11.880 --> 0:05:14.160 walked to school with no shoes. Yeah, thanks mum. 0:05:14.240 --> 0:05:16.479 So maybe you can just have camp chairs for two 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:17.680 weeks and teach the. 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:19.800 Girls what it's like to live in a little bit 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:21.120 less comfortable situation. 0:05:21.320 --> 0:05:23.920 They like, yeah, we'll tell them that we're glamping. But anyway, guys, 0:05:23.920 --> 0:05:26.599 we're here to answer your questions for asking. Cut before 0:05:26.640 --> 0:05:29.240 we do that. It is vibes and unsubscribes. Britt, What 0:05:29.320 --> 0:05:30.360 is your Vibe for the Week? 0:05:30.600 --> 0:05:32.760 My Vibe for the Week is a podcast. It's a 0:05:32.760 --> 0:05:36.320 podcast by BBC. It's hosted by two people, one girl 0:05:36.400 --> 0:05:40.840 named Hannah and she's the victim and then coincidentally her 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:44.479 stepmom growing up like her parents are split, but her 0:05:44.480 --> 0:05:48.279 stepmum but a stepmum's a journalist and the podcast is 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:52.720 called Stalked and it's her Hannah telling the story herself 0:05:52.760 --> 0:05:56.400 about her experience with exactly that this stalker but it 0:05:56.480 --> 0:06:00.240 is so extreme and went for so many years, is 0:06:00.720 --> 0:06:04.520 and completely infiltrated her life, like this person that stalked 0:06:04.520 --> 0:06:06.560 her and she was trying to figure out who it was, right, 0:06:06.640 --> 0:06:09.360 she had this guy that became a bit obsessed with her. 0:06:09.760 --> 0:06:13.760 But then stalkers came separately and they were presented to 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:17.400 her as people that were hacking into her phone, following 0:06:17.400 --> 0:06:20.000 her around, writing to her like they know everything about 0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:22.280 her and she's trying to piece together who it is, 0:06:22.400 --> 0:06:24.240 and she's trying to piece together in her life who 0:06:24.279 --> 0:06:26.960 it could be. And it's her trying to figure out 0:06:27.160 --> 0:06:30.680 if these people that are stalking her online the same 0:06:30.720 --> 0:06:32.760 people that she had issues with in real life, but 0:06:32.800 --> 0:06:37.400 it's different because she's telling the story from her experience. 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:40.080 Does this have sort of like a hybrid between being 0:06:40.120 --> 0:06:42.280 catfish and stalk because it sounds like it has some 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:44.800 similarities to Sweet Bobby sort. 0:06:44.560 --> 0:06:46.520 Of she knows this, and I don't want to give 0:06:46.520 --> 0:06:49.760 too much away. She knows the person very intimately over years, 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:54.599 they're actually friends. But the catfishing comes from eventually him 0:06:54.640 --> 0:06:57.200 not being who he said he was, but that takes 0:06:57.320 --> 0:07:00.840 years to discover, and the lengths that he goes to 0:07:00.839 --> 0:07:03.160 to pretend his life is one thing when it's not 0:07:03.360 --> 0:07:06.560 is so extreme, But it's them figuring out over the 0:07:06.600 --> 0:07:09.960 years and putting the pieces together. But hearing the story 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:12.280 from her point of view, she's very educated, she's very 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:15.400 well spoken. Her showing how the wool was pulled over 0:07:15.440 --> 0:07:17.920 her eyes and how extreme it was. I just found 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:21.040 it really fascinating, and I liked that their two hosts 0:07:21.280 --> 0:07:24.600 had this connection as well. It was a great listen. Yeah, 0:07:24.640 --> 0:07:27.560 so that's BBC podcast anywhere you get your podcasts, but 0:07:27.560 --> 0:07:28.400 it's called stalk. 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:29.840 How many episodes is it? 0:07:29.840 --> 0:07:30.880 It's seven episodes? 0:07:31.440 --> 0:07:33.880 Awesome, Yeah, my vibe this week. 0:07:34.960 --> 0:07:37.520 I feel like sometimes my vibes can be really like 0:07:37.600 --> 0:07:40.320 thought provoking, and then for a couple of weeks in 0:07:40.320 --> 0:07:42.360 a row, I fall into these categories where they are 0:07:42.400 --> 0:07:45.200 just such simple, basic things that I'm like, I don't 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:46.320 know if this is too low bra. 0:07:46.680 --> 0:07:50.920 I like the pendulum between really really insightful to totally basic. Bitch. 0:07:50.920 --> 0:07:51.760 I think we're all here for. 0:07:51.720 --> 0:07:53.560 It, but there's no I think there's no right or wrong. 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:58.280 We can be basic, we can be well smart, not 0:07:58.440 --> 0:07:59.520 right now insightful. 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:05.040 We can It is a contour legacy, cool gel leg pillow. 0:08:05.240 --> 0:08:06.600 What the hell key shark? 0:08:06.960 --> 0:08:09.280 I got it from? Just got from the post I 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:10.520 got it from the post office. 0:08:10.680 --> 0:08:12.600 When you go to the post office, they have so 0:08:12.680 --> 0:08:15.600 many knickknacks that I am like, never ever thought I 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:16.360 would need that. 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:18.880 That's the best thing I've ever purchased the post office. 0:08:19.040 --> 0:08:22.080 The shopping experience at the post office has no rhyme 0:08:22.200 --> 0:08:24.360 or reason. I find it the most confusing thing that's 0:08:24.360 --> 0:08:26.680 ever existed. It's like there'll be some sort of neck 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:29.520 massage pillow next to a moneybox, yes, next to a 0:08:29.560 --> 0:08:31.440 plate that's got Peter Rabbit on it, and you're like, 0:08:31.480 --> 0:08:33.920 what is going on here? I use all of those items, 0:08:33.960 --> 0:08:35.920 but I bought every single one. I didn't know I 0:08:35.960 --> 0:08:36.320 needed that. 0:08:36.320 --> 0:08:37.520 That's exactly what happens to me. 0:08:37.520 --> 0:08:39.600 It's such a lottery and I get so excited by 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:42.160 the randomness of it. So I saw this one when 0:08:42.200 --> 0:08:44.360 I was in line for you know, the post office. 0:08:44.360 --> 0:08:46.880 I was returning a package and it was thirty five 0:08:46.960 --> 0:08:48.880 dollars and I was like, you know what, I really 0:08:48.960 --> 0:08:51.520 reckon that my back could do with a leg pillow and. 0:08:51.440 --> 0:08:55.480 It is fan tass, Please describe me what it is again? Sorry, 0:08:55.679 --> 0:08:57.480 be cooling. What It's a. 0:08:57.480 --> 0:09:01.400 Cool gel leg pillow. She has a very hot house. 0:09:01.920 --> 0:09:02.439 It's hot. 0:09:02.679 --> 0:09:03.400 It's shaped. 0:09:03.679 --> 0:09:06.160 I want you to imagine like the size of your head, 0:09:06.200 --> 0:09:09.120 but in like a kind of a triangle, and one 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:12.160 side of it is higher than the rest, so it's 0:09:12.200 --> 0:09:15.920 contoured downwards, but it's also contoured so that it goes. 0:09:15.760 --> 0:09:17.200 In between your knees. 0:09:17.640 --> 0:09:19.960 If you're a side sleeper, so it kind of like 0:09:20.000 --> 0:09:21.800 you sleep on the side and It goes in between 0:09:21.800 --> 0:09:23.520 your knees so that your hips are kept in a 0:09:23.559 --> 0:09:24.480 good position, and. 0:09:24.440 --> 0:09:26.840 It's really good if you get lower back page. How 0:09:26.880 --> 0:09:28.720 come you do because I just I do that every night. 0:09:28.760 --> 0:09:30.079 But I just put a pill in my legs. Do 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:33.760 you need a cooling triangle inclined whirl leg? I have 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:34.600 all of the above. 0:09:34.720 --> 0:09:37.079 I have tried so many different variations of this. I've 0:09:37.080 --> 0:09:38.160 tried like a body pillow. 0:09:38.760 --> 0:09:41.079 I even looked into getting a maternity one at one point, 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:42.360 but they're really expensive. 0:09:42.520 --> 0:09:45.880 Yeah, but maternity pillows are lit. They are absolutely lit, 0:09:45.920 --> 0:09:47.640 and once you've had one, you will never go back 0:09:47.640 --> 0:09:48.400 to normal sleeping. 0:09:48.480 --> 0:09:50.920 That's how I feel about a knee pillown now. So 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:53.800 this one with thirty five dollars it is. The brand 0:09:53.840 --> 0:09:57.120 is Contour. They've got different variations. Some have cooling gell 0:09:57.160 --> 0:09:58.720 in them, some don't. I don't know if you're a 0:09:58.720 --> 0:09:59.560 hot sleeper or not. 0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:01.199 Mine has the cool gel. 0:10:01.440 --> 0:10:04.559 It goes in between my knees and it is fantastic. 0:10:04.760 --> 0:10:06.800 This to me is the type of thing. It's so 0:10:06.960 --> 0:10:09.000 nicknacky that I would buy it, use it for a week, 0:10:09.080 --> 0:10:10.760 and then it would sit on my side table. I'd 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:13.120 never use it again. Yeah, Like I'm the queen of 0:10:13.160 --> 0:10:16.200 buying gadgets that then get discarded, and that, to me 0:10:16.320 --> 0:10:17.000 is what this. 0:10:16.920 --> 0:10:19.080 Is, even the good gadgets. Like we both did it. 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:20.400 Remember when we bought the face mask. 0:10:20.520 --> 0:10:22.680 I was literally about to say the omni Lux, the 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:26.800 Omnilux red light mask is actually amazing. It works really well. 0:10:26.800 --> 0:10:28.600 The problem is that you have to be consistent with it. 0:10:28.800 --> 0:10:30.720 I go hard for like a couple of months, then 0:10:30.720 --> 0:10:31.760 don't use it for six months. 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:34.000 I am not consistent with anything in my life that 0:10:34.080 --> 0:10:37.240 requires any iota of effort. I just bought this this 0:10:37.280 --> 0:10:39.800 thing recently. It's called a body sculpt because I was 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:42.760 getting slammed by the ads. So you go in the 0:10:42.800 --> 0:10:46.160 shower and you massage. It's like for your cell. Yeah, 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:48.200 so you have to, but the problem is you've got 0:10:48.200 --> 0:10:51.080 to do it each body part for five minutes a day, and. 0:10:50.960 --> 0:10:52.040 I want that time. 0:10:52.120 --> 0:10:54.120 As soon as I read the instructions on the back, 0:10:54.200 --> 0:10:55.400 I was like, oh, I'll never do that. 0:10:55.440 --> 0:10:57.280 And you only usually shower your feet. You don't even 0:10:57.280 --> 0:10:58.160 get in the shower. 0:10:57.960 --> 0:11:00.480 So literally only have a five minute shower. That would 0:11:00.480 --> 0:11:02.760 be like spending twenty five mini footbath. 0:11:02.840 --> 0:11:05.960 That's about it. You're screwed. But those feet have no 0:11:06.080 --> 0:11:07.040 cellul had on them. 0:11:07.280 --> 0:11:08.920 My feet are great. All right. Look, I have a 0:11:08.960 --> 0:11:11.600 recommendation for all of the people who are really into 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:13.960 their plant content. I'm back in my plant era. 0:11:14.320 --> 0:11:17.040 Even that wasn't consistent, so you didn't leave it. 0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:19.320 I have never left it, but I did shut up 0:11:19.360 --> 0:11:21.280 about it on the podcast for a while. But I'm back. 0:11:21.360 --> 0:11:21.880 I over. 0:11:22.120 --> 0:11:25.480 I'm here for anyone who wants help with keeping their 0:11:25.559 --> 0:11:29.680 indoor plants alive. There is a genuinely fantastic Instagram account. 0:11:29.720 --> 0:11:32.520 It's called Sydney Plant Guy. He has five hundred and 0:11:32.559 --> 0:11:35.600 forty three thousand followers, So there's a lot of people 0:11:35.640 --> 0:11:39.280 out there who like plants. Basically, if you are wanting 0:11:39.320 --> 0:11:41.880 to grow like marijuana. 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:45.320 Yeah, is that why he's so popular. 0:11:46.679 --> 0:11:50.080 He's got a whole farm if you want to grow hydroponics. No, 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:54.560 Like sometimes indoor plants are very very hard to grow 0:11:54.640 --> 0:11:56.800 in terms of like having them look as flourishing as 0:11:56.840 --> 0:11:59.439 what they do when they're outside where a plant should 0:11:59.480 --> 0:12:01.240 be right, Like, a plant will grow in a crack 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:03.160 in the sidewalk better than what it will grow inside 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:03.600 your house. 0:12:03.640 --> 0:12:07.400 My olive tree inside is thriving yeah, the plastic one. 0:12:08.280 --> 0:12:10.680 But this is like, I mean for anyone who has 0:12:10.720 --> 0:12:13.480 like this sounds so niche, but I'm going to lean 0:12:13.520 --> 0:12:16.520 in if you have a variegated monsterra or you have 0:12:16.640 --> 0:12:20.520 plants that are expensive that are really hard to take 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:23.959 care of but really also challenging to flourish. I found 0:12:24.040 --> 0:12:26.319 this instagram. I came across it and like, he is 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:29.840 so helpful with ways in which to better like structure 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:31.240 them so that they can grow in a way that 0:12:31.280 --> 0:12:34.160 they would naturally, but do it indoors and it's fantastic, 0:12:34.240 --> 0:12:38.240 Like it's really easy plant care tips, and I highly 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:39.760 recommend it if you're a plant galley. 0:12:40.320 --> 0:12:43.880 You know, you never really pinpoint the moment that you're old, 0:12:43.920 --> 0:12:45.599 do you Like, there's not a moment. 0:12:45.360 --> 0:12:49.040 But all the cooling gel nice, I'm sane. 0:12:49.200 --> 0:12:51.200 It's like all of a sudden, it just happens. Like 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:54.320 even a couple of days ago, I couldn't believe how 0:12:54.400 --> 0:12:56.000 much I got off on the fact that I changed 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:58.040 my living room around. I moved my lounge and I 0:12:58.080 --> 0:12:59.719 was like, oh, this is so good. And I was 0:12:59.760 --> 0:13:01.160 like this, she's the most exciting thing that happened with 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:03.120 this week. You've got a leg cooling pillow and you're 0:13:03.120 --> 0:13:05.520 fur offing a plant. I was like, when did it happen? 0:13:05.800 --> 0:13:08.520 When was the transition where we were like, oh, we're 0:13:08.559 --> 0:13:09.600 in this era now. 0:13:09.960 --> 0:13:12.319 Yeah, I don't hate this era though, I'm okay with that. 0:13:12.320 --> 0:13:13.840 I don't hate it off and my house plans are 0:13:13.840 --> 0:13:14.760 really happy about it too. 0:13:14.840 --> 0:13:17.480 Guys, Okay, let's give him to the questions, Oh, what's 0:13:17.480 --> 0:13:18.160 his instagram? 0:13:18.760 --> 0:13:20.840 Sydney plant guy, Sydney plant guy, go and give him 0:13:20.840 --> 0:13:26.760 a follow, Okay. Question number one, Hi, ladies, my husband's 0:13:26.840 --> 0:13:30.720 mum has his location settings on, so basically she's able 0:13:30.800 --> 0:13:34.479 to track him at all times. She isn't necessarily controlling 0:13:34.920 --> 0:13:36.760 or making a big deal about it, but I often 0:13:36.840 --> 0:13:38.760 hear us saying things like, oh, I saw you were 0:13:38.800 --> 0:13:40.880 at the pub the other night, or why will you 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:43.800 work on a Saturday. It makes me feel a certain way. 0:13:44.120 --> 0:13:46.319 Question mark, question mark, question mark. I just find it 0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:49.000 super odd. But it feels like I can't really just 0:13:49.080 --> 0:13:51.120 ask him to turn off, because then she's gonna ask 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:53.360 questions and I don't want it to come back on 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:56.040 to me. I guess my question is am I being 0:13:56.120 --> 0:13:58.520 ridiculous to be annoyed by the fact that my husband 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:00.520 shares his location settings his mother. 0:14:01.600 --> 0:14:05.240 This is funny. I have like two feelings about this one. 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:08.480 I'm a true crime girl. I think it's important that 0:14:08.520 --> 0:14:10.800 someone knows where you are at all times. 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:12.320 Just in case her husband shows up in a bin 0:14:12.559 --> 0:14:13.800 if his disappears. 0:14:13.880 --> 0:14:15.240 Yep, I think it's important. 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:18.000 That everyone grim Sorry, that's terrible to take that. 0:14:18.600 --> 0:14:21.000 I really like, is that how you would end someone's life. 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:21.640 Put it in a bin? 0:14:21.840 --> 0:14:24.400 My brain was like el No, I do think it's 0:14:24.400 --> 0:14:26.240 important and it's not the end of the world. Do 0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:29.040 I think it's strange that he shares his location with 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:32.480 his mom? Probably not normal, not out of control. Do 0:14:32.560 --> 0:14:35.520 I think it's weird that she constantly checks it? Yes, 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:37.240 the fact that she knows he was at the pub 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:40.520 or at work. Like Ben and I share location, I 0:14:40.560 --> 0:14:43.080 have not checked it once. I know it's there, I 0:14:43.200 --> 0:14:45.840 do not check it. The fact that she's like tapping 0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:47.800 in and out on the daily to see what he's 0:14:47.840 --> 0:14:50.040 doing where he's at is a bit of a like 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:52.400 there is something that needs to be let go. 0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:54.920 My question here is is does your husband share his 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:57.640 location settings with you or only with his mom? Is 0:14:57.680 --> 0:14:59.560 he like h He's like nah, babe, I'm not going 0:14:59.640 --> 0:15:01.320 to share this, but hey, mummy, I'm going to be 0:15:01.320 --> 0:15:03.640 at the pub on Friday, hear me out. I think 0:15:03.680 --> 0:15:05.360 the reason why he shared it is because it's so 0:15:05.560 --> 0:15:07.640 not a big deal to him, Like he just doesn't care. 0:15:07.760 --> 0:15:10.120 Obviously she's asked for it, It's been shared at some 0:15:10.280 --> 0:15:13.520 point for whatever reason. He's never turned off, and he 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:15.360 just doesn't care that his mom can see where he 0:15:15.440 --> 0:15:17.800 is because it's not a big deal to him. It is, 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:20.560 And I agree with you, brit super weird. She checked 0:15:20.600 --> 0:15:23.640 that she checks, and that she could going. You've got 0:15:23.680 --> 0:15:25.720 to actively choose that. You're like, hey, let's see where 0:15:25.720 --> 0:15:26.280 he is at. 0:15:26.160 --> 0:15:28.120 The moment, and then you go into the setting. 0:15:28.240 --> 0:15:31.080 But also it's weird, but it's also could be just harmless, 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:34.000 Like she might be bored, she might be lonely, Like 0:15:34.040 --> 0:15:36.760 that might be her way of creating conversation. You know, 0:15:36.800 --> 0:15:38.640 he might not caller enough, and it's her way of 0:15:38.640 --> 0:15:40.440 being like, oh, I saw that you were at the 0:15:40.440 --> 0:15:42.240 pub on Saturday, Like how was your night? You know, 0:15:42.240 --> 0:15:44.600 it might be her way of trying to stimulate some 0:15:44.640 --> 0:15:47.360 sort of deeper connection with him. 0:15:47.440 --> 0:15:50.200 I think we know what her attachment style is, which 0:15:50.240 --> 0:15:51.240 what is it attached. 0:15:53.680 --> 0:15:57.280 But I mean, I understand that you feel a certain 0:15:57.280 --> 0:15:59.040 way about it because it is a bit weird that 0:15:59.120 --> 0:16:02.080 I don't think that you should necessarily be annoyed by it. 0:16:02.200 --> 0:16:04.800 No, it's one of those it will cause more harm 0:16:04.840 --> 0:16:07.880 than good. If you say, hey, turn your location settings 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:10.400 off your mum because she checks it every day, obviously 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:11.720 she's going to be like, why did you turn your 0:16:11.720 --> 0:16:14.600 location settings off? There's no answer other than I don't 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:16.440 want you to know where I am or it's weird, 0:16:16.480 --> 0:16:20.000