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<v Speaker 1>Laura, come on, we.

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<v Speaker 2>Are I know everyone, ladies back again. Yes we are,

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<v Speaker 2>we are, Laura are Do you know what I have today? Guys,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited. It's like a really big parenting milestone.

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<v Speaker 2>This afternoon we have our very first orientation as parents

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<v Speaker 2>for Marley's news school, because she starts school next year,

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<v Speaker 2>big school, big school, she starts kindergarten. Surely that is

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<v Speaker 2>a monumental day, purely because in the nicest way possible,

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<v Speaker 2>like you get rid of all, like you don't have

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<v Speaker 2>to have it all day, No, isn't it. Dope, parents

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<v Speaker 2>get excited when they actually get their life back a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit. I feel the opposite. Also, Marley already goes

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<v Speaker 2>to daycare. I think I'm going to be really, really

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<v Speaker 2>emotional next year when she starts big school. It's such

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<v Speaker 2>a huge shift, Like I can't believe we're there already.

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<v Speaker 2>But tonight is basically it's kind of it's not orientation

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<v Speaker 2>for the kids. It's all the parents get together in

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<v Speaker 2>the school hall and the principle like presents to the parents.

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<v Speaker 2>It's really cute. I can't believe we're at this point already.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you're emotional?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I feel really up. I'm just excited. I think

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<v Speaker 2>like we're ready. She's ready for that next part in

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<v Speaker 2>that X phase, and I feel like we're ready to Well, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>I do want to have an important conversation about breast

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<v Speaker 2>check Day, but not just any boobs.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to talk about my boobs.

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<v Speaker 2>I love talking about your boobs, Brit. It's weird anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>well gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a showy every month we conduct breast check Day,

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<v Speaker 3>and then you've got some personal asside to it.

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<v Speaker 1>Britt.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I have boobs and I want to talk about them.

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<v Speaker 3>How many do you have?

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<v Speaker 4>Too?

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<v Speaker 3>Two of them? Good on you? All right, that's next

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<v Speaker 3>on the pickup. Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey guys.

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<v Speaker 2>It is the first of the month today, which means

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<v Speaker 2>it is breast check Day, something that we've started in

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<v Speaker 2>our own little family to bring awareness to get you

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<v Speaker 2>guys that are listening to pay attention to your own bodies.

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<v Speaker 2>But today I want to talk a little bit about

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<v Speaker 2>my own breasts.

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<v Speaker 1>Was waiting for some people get excited about that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm joking. This is something that's serious, though, Britt. Now

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<v Speaker 2>we also know how serious it's been for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, So let me just set this up.

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<v Speaker 1>I have started since, just particularly since we've been talking

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<v Speaker 1>about it more here as well, I've started to do

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<v Speaker 1>my own breast checks constantly, and a couple of months ago,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm ashamed to say months, but a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>months ago, I felt this lump in my breast, in

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<v Speaker 1>my left breast, and I was like, that's weird, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, breasts are so fatty and lumpy anyway, so

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, it's probably nothing, start on it for

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<v Speaker 1>a little while, and then felt it again a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of weeks later, and kept feeling it, but then I

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<v Speaker 1>was touching it so much that it started to hurt.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I couldn't figure out if I was getting

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<v Speaker 1>breast pain or if I was getting pain from like

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<v Speaker 1>poking it.

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<v Speaker 3>And you said that to us too here in the studio.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And it's just so annoying because I advocate for,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, looking after your own health all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>I worked in a hospital for thirteen years. I know,

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<v Speaker 2>I know how important it is. Yet I just kept

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<v Speaker 2>putting it off.

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<v Speaker 4>And I went and stayed over with a friend and

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<v Speaker 4>another city, and.

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<v Speaker 1>It just came up in conversation and she's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>have you had your boobs checked yet and I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't. I need to get to it. She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>how long's it been there, I'm a couple of months.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, you need to go and get that check,

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<v Speaker 1>like you should know better. And she's like, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>message you every single day until you get it. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>bless her, she did, and it took me another week

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<v Speaker 1>or so. She messaged me every day and I said, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't checked yet, and I haven't checked. Finally, purely

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<v Speaker 1>because of her, I was like, oh my god, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>go and get it checked. So I went and got

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<v Speaker 1>it checked at the GPE specialist woman's doctor like women's

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<v Speaker 1>health doctor. And immediately she was like, oh, yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>can feel that, and she's like I can actually feel

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<v Speaker 1>some stuff on the other side as well, like on

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<v Speaker 1>the other boob, and I was like wow, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>She's like you need to go and get it checked

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like sure.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, now, and I don't want anyone to

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<v Speaker 1>think that I have breast cancer.

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<v Speaker 2>I do not, but you think that. You always think

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<v Speaker 2>it's not gonna happen to you, so you don't put

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<v Speaker 2>the urgency on it. So I went straight to get

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<v Speaker 2>the ultrasound, and long story short, I'm absolutely riddled with

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<v Speaker 2>cysts in both breast, like so many cysts, and I

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<v Speaker 2>had to wait a few days to find out if

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<v Speaker 2>anything was going to be nasty in there or if

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<v Speaker 2>there's anything hiding because there were so many cysts that

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<v Speaker 2>they can cover if there's anything bad in the tissue.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was like a really scary couple of days,

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<v Speaker 2>being like I'm thirty seven, There's definitely been things that

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<v Speaker 2>I've felt my breast, they've seen them, and those couple

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<v Speaker 2>of days waiting was really scary, and I'm very grateful

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<v Speaker 2>to say it came back as all normal cys. But

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<v Speaker 2>now I have to get checked every single twelve months

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<v Speaker 2>because things can change very drastically. But also like it's

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<v Speaker 2>one of those things where if you don't advocate for

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<v Speaker 2>your own health, I mean, you're so lucky that you

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<v Speaker 2>had a friend who reminded you every day and everested,

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<v Speaker 2>but not everybody has that person in their life. And

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<v Speaker 2>if you're not going to take responsibility for your own health,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're not going to book the appointment for that

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<v Speaker 2>thing that's been niggling that you've been concerned about, or

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<v Speaker 2>that you notice what there was a change with, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>that's on you. You have to do those things. And

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<v Speaker 2>we spoke about it earlier in the year. My stepdaddy

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<v Speaker 2>passed away from prostate cancer and he hit there were

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<v Speaker 2>signs for so long, Yeah, and he gnored going and

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<v Speaker 2>getting those screening tests done. And I mean, that's just

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<v Speaker 2>one thing. You don't ever want to live with the

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<v Speaker 2>regret that you waited too long because you're too busy

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<v Speaker 2>or other things took priority. If there is something to

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<v Speaker 2>be reminded about from this, it's it's to check your

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<v Speaker 2>breast and if you've something changes, go and booking your

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<v Speaker 2>health screening. Well, that's what I want to say, because

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<v Speaker 2>you think that you're wasting people's time, in doctor's time,

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<v Speaker 2>but you're absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't want to be dramatic, but the difference

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<v Speaker 1>in a couple of months. If mine was nasty, I

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<v Speaker 1>put that off for nearly three months. Like if that

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<v Speaker 1>was nasty, that would have become nasty. So if you're

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<v Speaker 1>in the car right now, if you're at home, grab

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<v Speaker 1>your breast, have a feel, have a poke.

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<v Speaker 3>Grab men too. Men can happen to men as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me the first of every month. Let it be

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<v Speaker 2>the day that you remind yourself put it in your

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<v Speaker 2>calendar to check your breast.

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<v Speaker 3>Yep, agreed, all right. Next on a liner, note not

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<v Speaker 3>that boobs aren't light, because.

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<v Speaker 2>They're very Actually unless your breast fed a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>kids and then feel it ad.

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<v Speaker 3>Break, I'm actually should I compare the pair?

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<v Speaker 2>No, let's no, thank you, that's not.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, don't shame me. You're all happy to talk about boobweite.

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<v Speaker 2>I would like to speak to HR now that you've

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<v Speaker 2>brought that up.

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<v Speaker 3>We have a show. We have to have HR here.

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<v Speaker 2>MIT's what they'll doing break you know what?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know who? No, I do know exactly when

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<v Speaker 3>did you get revenge on someone you work with. We've

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<v Speaker 3>all worked in, you know, customer facing jobs and we've

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<v Speaker 3>all had those annoying customers or coworkers that really get

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<v Speaker 3>under your skin. And it's the little moments that you

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<v Speaker 3>can take to get back at them. It's the petty stuff,

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<v Speaker 3>so sweet. And there's a story that's happen in Australia

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<v Speaker 3>that you're gonna love. That's next after your traffic. A

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<v Speaker 3>story that came across my desk is so petty. It

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<v Speaker 3>is so us. It is perfect for the show. A

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<v Speaker 3>woman in Australia. She's young, she's seventeen, she's working a

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<v Speaker 3>casual job. She's trying to make ends meet. She's going

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<v Speaker 3>to Uni. She's going to this ice cream shop on

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<v Speaker 3>her weekends and after school to make some money. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>good on her.

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<v Speaker 4>Hang on, So she works at an ice cream shop.

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<v Speaker 3>Correct, she's young, she's making money.

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<v Speaker 2>This is We're seventeen.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, it's Friday afternoon. I'm a boy. We all have

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<v Speaker 3>worked in customer facing jobs or had coworkers that we hate.

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<v Speaker 3>She shared this story on TikTok of this real bastard

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<v Speaker 3>of a customer who'd come in and was blatantly rude,

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<v Speaker 3>no eye contact, wasn't giving her anything, wasn't nice, just

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<v Speaker 3>had that aura of like rude. Yeah, just like a

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<v Speaker 3>real rudy. So she said, this happens a lot. Her

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<v Speaker 3>only form of rebellion and empowering herself back is when

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<v Speaker 3>she scoops the ice cream for bad customers. You know

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<v Speaker 3>how there's like ice cream sized with heaps of toppings

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<v Speaker 3>and you can kind of see it that it's full

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<v Speaker 3>of bits and chunks and chocolate.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like all the good bits the cookie dough.

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<v Speaker 3>Yep, yep. So say they order like a cookie dough,

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<v Speaker 3>she will purposely make a scoop that dodgers all the

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<v Speaker 3>chunks and all the cookie and all the chocolate and

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<v Speaker 3>give them just a scoop of vanilla ice cream.

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<v Speaker 2>She gives them exactly what they deserve. See when I

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<v Speaker 2>used to work in cafes, if I had someone who

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<v Speaker 2>was rude, I would always just choose the smallest of

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<v Speaker 2>the things. So if it was like a piece of brownie,

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<v Speaker 2>or if it was a muffin or whatever it was,

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<v Speaker 2>I would always pick the one that was the littlest one,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's what they got.

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<v Speaker 3>See when I used to work at Cole's, when I

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<v Speaker 3>was a checkout check I had the highest scan rate

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<v Speaker 3>in the Southern region. I was very good. I if

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<v Speaker 3>someone was really rude while I was checking them out,

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<v Speaker 3>this is bad, but I would double scan, like protein.

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<v Speaker 2>Items, but you would, you would change them twice. Yep, me,

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<v Speaker 2>But I can see that on a receipt, no one

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<v Speaker 2>checks the receipt.

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<v Speaker 3>And also they're boomers. They're confused that I know. So

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<v Speaker 3>you just do a double scan. Amanda message and said, hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 3>I work at a deli when rude customers would buy

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<v Speaker 3>mixed chicken pieces, I would only give them the wings.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, you'd be devoted if you got home and you

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<v Speaker 2>wanted a breast zero legs. So sad. Oh Grace has said,

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<v Speaker 2>I am a barista and I will give rude customers

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<v Speaker 2>decaf coffee even if they haven't asked for it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god. That is manipulation because you don't realize

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<v Speaker 3>someone's got ashes Ashwicks. Oh, Ashwicks's called oh celebrity podcast

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<v Speaker 3>or ash week.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I know this man, Hi.

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<v Speaker 5>Ash, Hello, guys. I'm more of a psychological revenge sort

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<v Speaker 5>of guy.

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<v Speaker 4>What did you do?

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<v Speaker 5>I used to work in a tubia to shout out

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<v Speaker 5>to them, they said, if they are listening? And I

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<v Speaker 5>used to share a desk with a guy so so

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<v Speaker 5>side by side with a pole in the middle of

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<v Speaker 5>it underneath just to hold the desk up. And over

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<v Speaker 5>the three years that I worked there, because he drove

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<v Speaker 5>me crazy. The whole time, I slowly moved, I'd undrill

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<v Speaker 5>or unscrew the leg and I would slightly move it

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<v Speaker 5>closer and closer to him so that his workspace got

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<v Speaker 5>smaller and smaller.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so much dedication. It's a real long game, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 5>It was three years. I used to do it. I

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<v Speaker 5>used to do it like I used to work on

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<v Speaker 5>a Saturday morning and he wasn't there, so I was like, perfect,

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<v Speaker 5>get in under there, unscrew it, move it just a

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<v Speaker 5>tiny bit. And then on the day that I left,

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<v Speaker 5>I finally broke the news to him, And then he'd

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<v Speaker 5>realized that how cramped he was on this tiny desk,

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<v Speaker 5>And if you looked underneath the desk, he would see

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<v Speaker 5>all of the screw holes from when I started when

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<v Speaker 5>I finished three years later.

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<v Speaker 1>So not only you're committing for three years, you're also

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<v Speaker 1>clocking extra hours. You've also got to go into work

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<v Speaker 1>early before he gets there.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, yeah, I was dedicated to the game.

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<v Speaker 2>Guy.

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<v Speaker 5>I actually used to. I used because you can set

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<v Speaker 5>an alarm on someone's iPhone without a lock, and he

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<v Speaker 5>at the time he had three kids under three, and

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<v Speaker 5>I used to set his alarm for two am.

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<v Speaker 2>That is way worse than making his workspace smaller. You're

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<v Speaker 2>a bud, that's so bad.

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<v Speaker 3>You're listen to him so proud of his work.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing I'm more worried about is the fact that

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<v Speaker 2>Ash now works alongside my husband, probably with him right now,

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<v Speaker 2>So like now I know, now, I know what's going

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<v Speaker 2>to happen in.

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<v Speaker 5>Your house like two or three times a week because

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<v Speaker 5>it's that workspace. I know.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, please don't do any more than your hit.

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<v Speaker 4>That's true.

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<v Speaker 3>That's another topic, right, doting dads, give it a thank you,

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<v Speaker 3>no worries, Ash, I got your buddy.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, coming up, I want to talk about micro cheating. Now.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you guys see what happened in the on the

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<v Speaker 2>Block earlier this week?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I didn't, but I read some gossip. All right.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, look there was a little bit of a cheating scandal.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I don't know whether you call it cheating or not,

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<v Speaker 2>because nothing actually happened, but what you might call it

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<v Speaker 2>is micro cheating. And we're going to talk about how

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<v Speaker 2>you can figure out whether or not your partner's doing

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<v Speaker 2>the dirty on you. All right, next on the pickup, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>I am a blockhead, right, I love the Block. I've

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<v Speaker 2>watched every episode this season. I didn't think that what

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<v Speaker 2>you meant by blockhead, there's not much going on up there.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, what, No, I'm a blockhead. I love

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<v Speaker 2>the Block and this week, something huge happened. There was

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<v Speaker 2>a well, I don't know whether you'd call it cheating,

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<v Speaker 2>but there was an almost cheating scandal. If you missed it.

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<v Speaker 2>This happened on The Block earlier this week. I was

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<v Speaker 2>flirting with Mimy. Kylie overheard them, and D's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, i'd follow your only fans.

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<v Speaker 3>I read about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, if you missed it. Basically, Kylie and Brad

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<v Speaker 2>are in a relationship together, Mimi has an entirely different partner.

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<v Speaker 2>She's building another house, and Brad said to Mimy that

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<v Speaker 2>he would follow her only fans if she had one,

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<v Speaker 2>and his wife, who he has four children with, overheard it. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't understand why you would go on a show

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<v Speaker 2>as big as The Block and then act like that

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<v Speaker 2>and think that it's not going to come out. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it kind of happened when they thought it

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<v Speaker 2>was off Mike, and they thought it was off camera

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<v Speaker 2>because like the camera angles and stuff made it look

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<v Speaker 2>like it was really not supposed to be filmed how naive,

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<v Speaker 2>and Kylie was asleep at the time, but she woke

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<v Speaker 2>up and overheard it. So it's an absolute just mess

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<v Speaker 2>of a situation right, But there's been lots of articles

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<v Speaker 2>coming out and lots of questionings as to weather or

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<v Speaker 2>not this is actually cheating. You know, obviously it's not

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<v Speaker 2>the right thing to do. But can you get away

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<v Speaker 2>with a bit of flirting in your relationship?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's not cheating, it's not cheating cheating. It's pretty

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<v Speaker 3>close too, No, it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>It comes under a term of that people call micro cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>Micro cheating is those little things that it deemed inappropriate

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<v Speaker 1>for whatever you and your relationship deems inappropriate. What are

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<v Speaker 1>your relationship boundaries that constitute cheating? Because for some people,

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<v Speaker 1>cheating is only physical, but for other people, cheating is

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<v Speaker 1>formula an emotional relationship. I don't think this is classified

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<v Speaker 1>as cheating. It's inappropriate and it's disrespectful.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but for me personally, I'd be shattered, especially because

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<v Speaker 2>they everyone knows each other and it's embarrassing on national television.

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<v Speaker 4>But for me, it's not cheating yet.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think if you're in a long term relationship,

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<v Speaker 3>you and your partner need to have had the discussion

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<v Speaker 3>about what these things mean to you.

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<v Speaker 1>What chet?

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<v Speaker 3>What is cheating? Can you flirt? Can you some couples,

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, gay couples do it very well. They're

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<v Speaker 3>very open in these discussions and a lot a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of my friends are happy to have a party kiss

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<v Speaker 3>on a dance floor, And that doesn't mean the relationship's

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<v Speaker 3>over because it means a lot to one person, but

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<v Speaker 3>it doesn't to the other. So you have to if

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<v Speaker 3>you communicate it. You can't get into these issues.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I know, but I reckon. There'd be so many

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<v Speaker 2>people if they heard their partner do this, and also

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<v Speaker 2>the humiliation of it being on national live TV.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's what I said.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, it's humiliating, disrespectful. But that's not the question.

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<v Speaker 1>The question is is it cheating or is it micro cheating?

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<v Speaker 3>Like if you were Matt. Laura spoken about what micro

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<v Speaker 3>cheating would be if Matt was it an event. Matt

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<v Speaker 3>is a very popular, a well known person in his country.

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<v Speaker 3>If he's at a red carpet, Mattie j oh my husband,

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<v Speaker 3>and he is it a red carpet and you see

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<v Speaker 3>footage of him complimenting, I don't know a model and

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<v Speaker 3>an actress and he's like, God, you look gorgeous tonight.

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<v Speaker 3>If I don't know, what would micro cheating for you

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<v Speaker 3>and Matt look like, is what I'm trying to ask.

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<v Speaker 2>If it's something that he can't say in front of

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<v Speaker 2>me to another woman and he says to another woman, Oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I would love to follow your only fans account, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I would feel like there would be a real level

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<v Speaker 2>of me. I wouldn't call it cheating, but I absolutely,

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<v Speaker 2>as you said, Britt would feel so disrespected and I

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<v Speaker 2>would feel so humiliated, which I'm not sure which is better?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what i mean? Like they're both just

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<v Speaker 2>as bad as each other in some ways.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, But then also is Matt going to the pub

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<v Speaker 3>with his boys and talking about things like that he

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<v Speaker 3>wants to do if you are other women? Is that

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<v Speaker 3>micro cheating? But you've just never heard it Matt never.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I think everyone has a different benchmark,

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<v Speaker 2>and I do think that sometimes it's important to pay

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<v Speaker 2>attention to those things that could be deemed micro cheating,

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<v Speaker 2>things like why won't your partner ever post photos off

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<v Speaker 2>you on social media? Why won't they like say they're

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<v Speaker 2>in a relationship on social media? Why are they texting

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<v Speaker 2>their work colleague all the time, and and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>confiding in them all your relationship problems.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, why is there red panties in their sports band?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean that might be more akin to actually cheating,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think with micro cheating there are lots of

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<v Speaker 2>little signs that can sometimes add up to be something

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<v Speaker 2>that's much bigger and more of a problem. Praying for you,

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<v Speaker 2>for the people in the block you made, for people,

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<v Speaker 2>for Matt, Matt as well.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just praying for Shelley Kraft, poor thing that would

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<v Speaker 3>have broken her heart.

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<v Speaker 2>She's okay. I think Kylie, the woman who had happened

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<v Speaker 2>to is a bit more upset, but anyway. Yeah, look

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<v Speaker 2>that's it from us. Guys. Will and Woodie will be

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<v Speaker 2>driving your home.

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<v Speaker 3>Yep, they're on next We'll see you all Monday. Have

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<v Speaker 3>a good weekend, see guys,