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Speaker 1: This is a Will and Woody podcast, Nimmi.

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Speaker 2: I tried to tell you something really interesting on the

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Speaker 2: show a couple of days ago, Will, Yeah, and you

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Speaker 2: and you swatted me away like I was a mere fly.

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Speaker 2: Do you know why kids lie? No, it's a bit

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Speaker 2: of an explanation, but I think it find it interesting.

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Speaker 2: We'll have the time. Honestly, take this tomorrow on the.

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Speaker 1: Podcast, on the podcast, better than that pus podcast. It

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Speaker 1: might be a podcast. It might be a podcast, Chad.

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Speaker 1: And the genius of that was it by the end

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Speaker 1: of the show, you'd forgotten that I'd pushed it to

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Speaker 1: the podcast, and we didn't do it at all.

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Speaker 2: At the beauty of that is that now we're on

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Speaker 2: radio and I get to share this amazing little nugget

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Speaker 2: of knowledge that I've learned. So it's about why kids lie?

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Speaker 2: And you said, yes that you have no idea what

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Speaker 2: so apparently kids lie because all kids care?

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Speaker 1: Did you read this and amongst your mountain of self help?

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Speaker 1: But gonna have to reference it if you continue. It's

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Speaker 1: not I'm not going to allow. It's not going to

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Speaker 1: allow to rambants here.

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Speaker 2: This is it's a grim name of a book. I

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Speaker 2: want to let everyone know it's okay. I'm okay. There's

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Speaker 2: a book I've read called It's Not Always Depression. Wow,

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Speaker 2: fascinating book, Jesus fascinating right, and absolutely I highly recommend it.

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Speaker 2: The lady's name is Hillary Swank. No, Hillary Swank did

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Speaker 2: not write the book. Oh, I emailed her.

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Speaker 1: Emailed her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I wanted to let her know how much I

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Speaker 2: loved her book.

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Speaker 1: Anyway.

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Speaker 2: She says in her book, the reason kids lie is

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Speaker 2: because all they care about is whether they get in

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Speaker 2: trouble or not. Okay, So a kid doesn't really have

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Speaker 2: any idea of what's right or what's wrong, and they

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Speaker 2: don't really care about that. All they care about is

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Speaker 2: am I going to get in trouble for this? So,

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Speaker 2: for example, for a kid, if they go and get

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Speaker 2: some ice cream out of the freezer, they don't care

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Speaker 2: that that's the wrong thing to do. All they care

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Speaker 2: about is will I get away with this?

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Speaker 1: And he's otherwise I'll get because if I get trouble

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Speaker 1: for it.

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Speaker 2: And that is why they lie, because they will openly

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Speaker 2: lie to your face because then they don't get in trouble.

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Speaker 2: I don't care whether what they've done is right or wrong.

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Speaker 2: They just care about not getting in trouble. One of

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Speaker 2: the most important steps that happens when you go from

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Speaker 2: being a child to an adult is learning that it

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Speaker 2: doesn't matter if you do get in trouble or not

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Speaker 2: getting in trouble.

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Speaker 1: It's lying.

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Speaker 2: You should know what's right and what's wrong right, and

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Speaker 2: if you don't start doing that as an adult, it

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Speaker 2: can be a big problem for you.

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Speaker 1: Really well, that's really interesting. So is that? Like yesterday

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Speaker 1: when we had this pecan pie in here and you

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Speaker 1: came in here eating a peacan and I was like,

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Speaker 1: did you just take that peacan off the top of

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Speaker 1: the pecan pie that everyone else is looking forward to eating?

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Speaker 1: On you to bring your own bag of peacans in

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Speaker 1: and you said, I brought my own peacans. I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: do that. And then when I walked outside, the pecan

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Speaker 1: pie looked like an ancient Egyptian artifact where somebody had

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Speaker 1: just badged it for its for its jewelry, and there

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Speaker 1: was just these gaping it's in the top of the pie.

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Speaker 2: Have you I've had a slight problem transitioning to adult line.

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Speaker 2: I am very much still a child.

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Speaker 1: Will that was atrocious? I mean, as I said before,

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Speaker 1: it was like a badged car. What kind of what

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Speaker 1: kind of scum badges a car? And what kind of

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Speaker 1: scum takes a peacan off a pecan pie? And as

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Speaker 1: I said to you, that's like taking fruit from a pavlova. Now,

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Speaker 1: hang on, that's not fair everyone else, that's the best

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Speaker 1: part of the pan.

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Speaker 2: Chance, give me a chance. Answer me this, where's that

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Speaker 2: pecan pie? Now?

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Speaker 1: Well, no one on to eat it because you took

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Speaker 1: the pecans off.

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Speaker 2: We had to throw it out.

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Speaker 1: We had to throw it out, drastically devalued it because

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Speaker 1: he took the best part of it.

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Speaker 2: This is dow fired. Did the pecan pie still have

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Speaker 2: pecans on it?

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Speaker 1: Peacan pie was notless. It was Are you done with that?

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Speaker 1: Why not?

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Speaker 2: Check out more from Women Woody on the Full Show podcast.