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Speaker 1: This is the Will and Woody podcast.

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Speaker 2: Will is on holiday.

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Speaker 3: Woody is in the I'm a celebrity, Get me out

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Speaker 3: of here jungle. So it is button push of Tom

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Speaker 3: looking after you for the next couple of hours as

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Speaker 3: I play some of the best bits of the boys.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, if you missed it last night on Channel ten,

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Speaker 3: Woody entered the jungle vortually. We don't have access to

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Speaker 3: any ingredients like sugar.

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Speaker 4: Coffee, salt, pepper, or anything like that that's been brought

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Speaker 4: into the camp by Woody.

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Speaker 2: Follow beefstock. Oh my god, yeah right, he's got the contravers.

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Speaker 3: Make sure your head to tenplay dot com dot au

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Speaker 3: if you missed it. That's also we can vote to

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Speaker 3: put Woody into Tucker Trials or save.

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Speaker 2: Him from being eliminated.

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Speaker 3: But coming up in this show, we want to know

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Speaker 3: if there was an accidental nude in the photo.

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Speaker 2: But up next, wood.

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Speaker 3: He has an actual condition that makes it not be

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Speaker 3: able to remember song lyrics. We'll get to the bottom

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Speaker 3: of that next as well.

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Speaker 2: What do you do?

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Speaker 3: You can talk, you can talk, you can talk talk

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Speaker 3: talk talk.

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Speaker 4: So I'm surprised you haven't brought this up yet, Will,

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Speaker 4: because I'm immaculate at this Oh getting diggy with it?

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Speaker 5: Alrighty, You're awful lyrics, comfortably the worst person lyrics I've

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Speaker 5: ever encountered. You sit here in the studio sometimes and

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Speaker 5: you just sing, and I just love listening to what

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Speaker 5: comes out.

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Speaker 4: You don't know why or is it going to be

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Speaker 4: really boring?

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Speaker 5: Might be boring fair enough, But I can.

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Speaker 2: Come back to you.

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Speaker 5: I can go back to you if you're like, because

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Speaker 5: Jackie's gonna play you right now.

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Speaker 2: And you know I'm going to put a Holts Extreme

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Speaker 2: Screen double pass on the table here, so I get that.

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Speaker 6: I know you get.

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Speaker 5: You can have, of course you can. You get a

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Speaker 5: doult trip to the movies. Just gonna lot come for

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Speaker 5: your hoys, pook your re kinda sets now. God, he's tight,

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Speaker 5: it's a free all of a sudden.

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Speaker 2: Sud's a little bit kick about him, Jackie. Welcome to

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Speaker 2: the show.

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Speaker 1: How I guys, How are you doing with your lyrics?

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Speaker 2: Jack I think so okay, all right, let's get into it.

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Speaker 3: You're playing for a Holts Extreme Screen double pass, and

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Speaker 3: I have to give it to woodyus.

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Speaker 2: I will give it to him.

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Speaker 4: New Holts pass. Every person I take on right sure,

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Speaker 4: all right, first song, like Woods, Am I going first?

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Speaker 2: You're going to go first? Okay?

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Speaker 4: How's this working?

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Speaker 5: Well, I'll play the song. It'll drop away. As soon

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Speaker 5: as it drops away, you have to continue with the song. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 5: are you ready?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Sing it?

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Speaker 2: Okay? First song? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: And each.

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Speaker 7: Somewherey you.

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Speaker 4: Mean like a gecko here on the Land of the people, Celestial.

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Speaker 2: Celeste. How bad that was? Like a gecko in the

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Speaker 2: land of the people, Jackie.

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Speaker 8: Make.

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Speaker 4: Jackie, you don't know it?

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Speaker 3: You come on, Jackie, sh.

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Speaker 9: I can hear you.

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Speaker 10: Somewherey young.

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Speaker 3: Him ming?

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Speaker 8: My job?

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Speaker 4: Hot?

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Speaker 11: Is it mirring away?

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Speaker 2: Nice?

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Speaker 5: Ver?

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Speaker 11: Wow?

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Speaker 8: Or even close?

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Speaker 4: Usually I'm close. Usually it's like, okay, you've got the sound.

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Speaker 2: The Land of the Lost People and the get goos.

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Speaker 2: I mean, there's a biblical story and then I hope

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Speaker 2: that someone ends up in with it. Let's go the

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Speaker 2: next one, shall we?

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Speaker 9: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Come on? You want to go first again? Woods?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I reckon go first? Okay, because it's like JACKI anti

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Speaker 2: hero Tyler Swift, You're up. I'm on the branches of life.

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Speaker 4: Got got go again? Sorry, had a bit.

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Speaker 1: Of a.

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Speaker 3: Skiming.

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Speaker 4: It's I'm undercover.

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Speaker 2: A coup.

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Speaker 5: What you can't remind every one that you hear these

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Speaker 2: It's on the background all the way through work, all

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Speaker 4: I'm under something.

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Speaker 9: No you're not.

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Speaker 2: It's to Jackie, Jackie.

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Speaker 10: Here you go.

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Speaker 6: I'm tired of.

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Speaker 1: Scheming him problems.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, fair enough, very good, I'll give it to you.

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Speaker 12: It is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm the problem. It's name. What are you the problem?

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Speaker 8: Say?

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Speaker 4: Undercover? Under problem? Under cover?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely doesn't make it right. Do you want to

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Speaker 2: try one more final one?

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Speaker 12: Not?

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Speaker 8: Really?

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Speaker 2: Come on, I think you should because you are pulling

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Speaker 2: out some stuff. But this is astounding.

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Speaker 4: These are hard. I think there's a hard you would hear.

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Speaker 2: You would have heard these songs five hundred times.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we'll give me. What's the next one?

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Speaker 7: See cold?

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Speaker 4: Because I'm not ready.

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Speaker 3: To fight the demons off my life?

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Speaker 4: It's I'm not ready.

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Speaker 2: It is Jackie will tell you what it is.

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Speaker 3: It's right from He's right, Jackie for the Holts, pass yours, Jackie.

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Speaker 1: Because I'm not ready.

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Speaker 3: Just find out you know how to fuck me?

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Speaker 4: Jackie. Well, because I said I'm not ready, I got

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Speaker 4: that bit. Yeah, to find out, I said, fight, fight,

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Speaker 4: let's don't.

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Speaker 2: Break it down, Jackie.

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Speaker 5: You next time to the movie's gonna holder Comfort and

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Speaker 5: Holt ten along Holts extreme screen double pass ingrats mate,

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Speaker 5: Oh yours very good.

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Speaker 2: Easiest double bass you ever live in your life. We

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Speaker 3: Right now.

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Speaker 5: You can get involved with Tyran's body positivity movement by

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Speaker 5: heading to the Embrace hub dot com Tarrant. When you

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Speaker 5: look at yourself in the mirror in the morning, like

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Speaker 5: everybody does, you're about to get in the power. Every

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Speaker 5: single person would have something about themselves where they would

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Speaker 5: go I wish that was better, or I wish it

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Speaker 2: What do you think? Like, I know it's probably a

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Speaker 5: A lot of the people get a lot of therapy

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Speaker 5: about this over many years, but practically, what do you

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Speaker 5: think is the best advice to change that voice or

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, we can't ignore our feelings. I don't

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Speaker 6: know if you've tried, but they always catch It's quite slucky. Actually,

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Speaker 6: it's like, no, no, I don't feel that. I'm just

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Speaker 6: going to keep going, But they catch up with us.

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Speaker 6: So I think it's not about ignoring it. I think

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Speaker 6: how we look. All the clients tells us that if

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Speaker 6: compassion is key. So embracing your body is good for

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Speaker 6: your health. But I think it's all about the reframe.

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Speaker 6: I can't show you. It's really disappointing on radio, but

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Speaker 6: in my way, well, after I've finished waving, my arms

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 6: Well, it's frame is I hate them, but now without though,

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Speaker 6: I'm grateful for those arms because.

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Speaker 1: They hug my kids.

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Speaker 4: I am Tara, and I have quite skinny legs, and

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Speaker 4: a couple of people may have referred to my legs

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Speaker 4: all a bit of fun, and I do it doesn't

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Speaker 4: hurt me too much. But I did then start skipping

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Speaker 4: what point does that become like a problem there? Like,

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Speaker 6: and I'm going to be happier, it's a slippery slope.

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Speaker 6: But if you're thinking, I want to go to the

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Speaker 5: know not necessarily just for my sister, but for loads

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Speaker 5: of other women growing up, their parents commenting about their

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Speaker 5: weight led to really bad conditions in their like how

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Speaker 5: at what stage as a parent do I go from

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Speaker 5: you know, having fun about the fact that my daughter's

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Speaker 5: a bit porky, which is like what I call it,

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Speaker 5: like my little porky pie, to Wow, that's actually something

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Speaker 5: that's going to have a negative.

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Speaker 2: Impact on you going forward.

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Speaker 3: How old is she?

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Speaker 12: Did you say?

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Speaker 2: She's like, she's like seven months old.

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Speaker 6: So I tell you what I'm going to do. Yes,

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Speaker 6: we've got to be really careful of what we say

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Speaker 6: in front of our kids, and we spent a lot

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Speaker 6: of time with clinicians and psychologists when these kind of

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Speaker 6: lovely comments and well meaning can actually turn into lifeless

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Speaker 6: issues for some people. It's not always a joke.

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Speaker 1: We actually doctor.

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Speaker 6: Zalie Jay and myself. He's the co founder of the

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Speaker 6: embrace hub dot com. All the free resources you need

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Speaker 6: in the world for all your listeners. You know, what

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Speaker 6: do I do to help my kids? It's all there.

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Speaker 6: We talk about this a lot, We wrote a book

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Speaker 6: on it, and we covered this off in a chapter

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Speaker 6: because as parents were kings and queens to our kids

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Speaker 6: and they're listening to everything. I would highly recommend your

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Speaker 6: listeners for anyone who goes, oh what do I do

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Speaker 6: how do I raise body confident kids? To go to

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Speaker 5: more about the wonderful work that Tarren Brumfit's doing and

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Speaker 4: More after this, it's when what is I want to

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Speaker 5: You don't have to be nerdy or can it just

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Speaker 2: Who doesn't wear pants in the car. You've done that.

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Speaker 4: I don't appreciate that anyway. Thirty one I sixty five

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Speaker 11: So? I joined the weight loss Facebook page, you know

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Speaker 6: My Apple watch was going off flat out blah blah blah.

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Speaker 11: Has commented you've got a message, and tryingly looked at

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Speaker 11: No, they're all telling me that the scales being black,

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Speaker 5: Yes, oh my god, that's not a standard nerd right on, nobody, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: interested to hear about your follow up question here, I am, well,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, who?

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Speaker 7: You know, no one knows my full name.

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Speaker 3: Now, oh my god, Tanya's down the phone. I've got Elsa,

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Speaker 4: Do you have a do you have a message to

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Speaker 6: Look, you know I could relations on the weight loss.

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Speaker 4: Just remember next time to wear some underwear.

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Speaker 11: Exactly, say lesson Land.

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Speaker 2: Now that might have been.

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Speaker 5: They're both just headed out of a marriage counseling office,

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Speaker 5: It's now painted with all the all the blood that

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Speaker 4: And that's why that's the story. The fact that they're

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Speaker 5: Yes, I think it is the opposite regon if you

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Speaker 4: That's a positive sign.

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Speaker 5: And the fact that they're crying, I mean, I think

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Speaker 4: Why would you make the effort you get out of there.

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Speaker 4: I don't sound like a Titus, but they're not cheap.

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Speaker 5: I just want to double down on this, And I've

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I can. I don't think we would have

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Speaker 5: Don't understand each other for some reason, there's something blocking it.

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Speaker 5: And I've got permission for her to share with you

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Speaker 4: And if it's a like if it's say it's a

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Speaker 4: It's amazing what that third person does to go like,

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Speaker 5: That's one hundred percent right. I remember going into the

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Speaker 4: And hearing it from a third party is so different

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Speaker 5: the point where she knew that she could rely on

453
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Speaker 5: me to do that. And I'm a fixer. I'm like

454
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Speaker 5: Christopher Pyne, I like I can't help myself. If there's

455
00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:01,320
Speaker 5: something that needs it's my help and attention, I will

456
00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:03,639
Speaker 5: pour myself into that, to the point that it was

457
00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:08,240
Speaker 5: suffocating her. It wasn't letting her be herself and stuff up,

458
00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:12,040
Speaker 5: and and ultimately by letting go of her and actually

459
00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:14,960
Speaker 5: accepting the fact that maybe things were broken and she

460
00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:18,320
Speaker 5: was going to fall away from me, that that gave

461
00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:20,439
Speaker 5: her the independence and the freedom to fall.

462
00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:21,080
Speaker 2: In love with me again.

463
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:24,040
Speaker 5: But before that, I was just this overbearing person who

464
00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:25,720
Speaker 5: was trying to like look after it too much and

465
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Speaker 5: fix him anything for it.

466
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Speaker 10: Wow.

467
00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:28,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I needed somebody else to tell me that.

468
00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:30,560
Speaker 4: But also you think you do being the right thing

469
00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:31,200
Speaker 4: that's fixing.

470
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Speaker 5: Yeah, so that was the that But and the reason

471
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Speaker 5: I share that insight with you is because I could

472
00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:39,000
Speaker 5: never have come to that conclusion by myself. It's a

473
00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:43,560
Speaker 5: really complex thing to understand, and I needed another person

474
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Speaker 5: in the room.

475
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Speaker 2: And that was that was that was that was the

476
00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:46,840
Speaker 2: problem with her at the time.

477
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Speaker 5: And so yeah, I really really want to urge other

478
00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:53,840
Speaker 5: people to, yeah, try and see a relationship counselor if

479
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:54,400
Speaker 5: you can't, mean.

480
00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:57,040
Speaker 4: No, no, I saw a relationship counselor. There really wasn't

481
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Speaker 4: a big problem. We just needed to unders standard situation

482
00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:04,480
Speaker 4: and we were We got through it so quickly as well.

483
00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:05,960
Speaker 4: It was just like, oh, how do we I don't

484
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:07,480
Speaker 4: know how we didn't figure this out before, But it

485
00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:09,960
Speaker 4: just needed that third person and it was like, this

486
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:11,960
Speaker 4: is great, Yeah, we can now move forward.

487
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,399
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, exactly right, And you walk out of that

488
00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:16,680
Speaker 2: and you actually feel like you're in a new relationship.

489
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Speaker 4: Totally right now.

490
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Speaker 2: It's do you think that people who don't pee in

491
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Speaker 2: the pool should just give up the war. No, you're losing.

492
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:30,399
Speaker 3: Okay, fight the good fight, because I think they just

493
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:32,879
Speaker 3: need to give in, like it's it's over. It's kind

494
00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:34,840
Speaker 3: of like, you know where the Olympics is at with drugs.

495
00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 3: As far as I'm concerned, you just need to accept

496
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:38,840
Speaker 3: everyone dopes and carry on.

497
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Speaker 5: Well, you know, they just need to have a drug Olympics.

498
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Speaker 5: As far as I'm concerned, it'd be great Olympics as well.

499
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Speaker 4: It'd be quick, it'd be.

500
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Speaker 2: Fast, be high.

501
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:47,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, you'd watch it.

502
00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 2: You definitely high and are ways than one. But the

503
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 2: same thing with the p and the pool thing. We

504
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Speaker 2: carry on.

505
00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 3: We carry on as if we don't. We all act

506
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Speaker 3: as if you know, there's some sanctity there. I've even

507
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 3: done a dummy run to the toilet once to make

508
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 3: people think that I don't he just.

509
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:08,399
Speaker 4: Walks to the toilet.

510
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

511
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:11,040
Speaker 4: So if you're if you bother to do a dummy run,

512
00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:12,920
Speaker 4: why don't you actually go to the toilet rather than.

513
00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 2: Pean in the pool because it would have taken too long.

514
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:16,440
Speaker 4: How long do you pee?

515
00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:18,400
Speaker 3: Well, I was taking I was I was actually teaching

516
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Speaker 3: a swimming class at the time, and I was like,

517
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Speaker 3: I've been in this water for four hours.

518
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:24,640
Speaker 2: I need to act like I've gone to the toilet.

519
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Speaker 4: I will say, if you're if you're teaching kids how

520
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:27,680
Speaker 4: to swim, I think you can pee in the pool.

521
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 4: There's there's seventy percent in that pool at that point.

522
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 4: It is to adult pools.

523
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Speaker 2: I like to live. I taught kids in adult pools.

524
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Speaker 2: They swimming adult pools.

525
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Speaker 4: But if you're doing it, do they don't they have

526
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Speaker 4: a kiddie pool.

527
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, but then they's like they swim laps as well.

528
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Speaker 2: This is this is my point. So you're you're obviously

529
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Speaker 2: not a pool payer.

530
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Speaker 8: I know.

531
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Speaker 4: I would like to live in a world where the

532
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Speaker 4: sanctity of pools is protected.

533
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Speaker 2: I think you just need to give it up.

534
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 3: Like the fact that you think that kids aren't peeing

535
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:57,240
Speaker 3: in adult pools already, Like, do you lie to yourselves?

536
00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 2: That's what I think. I think you lie to yourself.

537
00:23:59,200 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 3: No.

538
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:01,879
Speaker 4: No, I'm accepting that there are people that pee in pools.

539
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:04,879
Speaker 4: Just I just disrespect those people. Why can't you just

540
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,879
Speaker 4: hold hold it while you swim, get up, go to

541
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 4: the bathroom, have a little whiz, even going go on

542
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 4: wizz in a bush. I'm okay with bush whizzards.

543
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 3: Totally fine, Yeah, no, and I understand that, but your

544
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,440
Speaker 3: argument's erroneous, Like because they're not going to do it,

545
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:20,400
Speaker 3: they're going to continue to pee in the pool.

546
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:22,399
Speaker 2: You're not going to change You're not going to change them.

547
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 2: So the point is for a non pool pr why

548
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Speaker 2: do you not? Why don't you do it? Do you

549
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:29,159
Speaker 2: know what I mean?

550
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Speaker 3: It's like, I'll tell you why because I was on holiday.

551
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 3: I was in Mexico with my with my brother in law.

552
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 2: We're in the pool.

553
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 5: We're beat in the pool for a long time. Sure,

554
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Speaker 5: I pissed in the pool six times at that stage. God,

555
00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:42,880
Speaker 5: we're drinking beer.

556
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Speaker 4: Okay, look at you.

557
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 2: That wasn't bad. That wasn't a drinking beer.

558
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:49,399
Speaker 4: I've still got it.

559
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Speaker 5: It wasn't a flex but we but you know, like

560
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,239
Speaker 5: it's a it's a diretic alcohol. So anyway, so I'd

561
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Speaker 5: peed in the pool a few times. He got out

562
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Speaker 5: to go and pee in the pool, good Man, to

563
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Speaker 5: go go and pee in the toilet.

564
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:02,560
Speaker 4: Say good Man, And I was like, mate, a gentleman

565
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:03,399
Speaker 4: and a scholar. Good Man.

566
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:05,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a lovely guy. So he comes back and

567
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:06,800
Speaker 2: I was like, well, where'd you go?

568
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 13: Guys.

569
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 2: I just went to it and I was like, mate,

570
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 2: you're you're in it right now? Oh Will Well he's

571
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 2: so this, don't you think this?

572
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 5: Like, I just I don't understand why people who don't

573
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 5: pay in the pool don't just now pee in the pool,

574
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 5: given that they know they're already swimming in everybody else's pee.

575
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 4: Mahart, my gandhi, will my hut my gandhi. An eye

576
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 4: for an eye and the whole world is blind.

577
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I ain't.

578
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 4: The same argument applies here if you're if your argument

579
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Speaker 4: here is like if some people are peening them with

580
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:38,160
Speaker 4: all pe then pools will become pee, but they will

581
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 4: be swimming in urine. If everyone's been on the size

582
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 4: of the pool though, well that's actually a good point

583
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:44,400
Speaker 4: if you're swimming in like a If it's a huge

584
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 4: pee in the ocean, yes, I peen the ocean a lake.

585
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 2: You do in the ocean as well.

586
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 4: Casey said that before, No need to bring that to

587
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:53,159
Speaker 4: this argument. If it's a lake, I'll pay it. If

588
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:53,920
Speaker 4: it's an ocean.

589
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:56,960
Speaker 2: Lake, how big, what's the rate is?

590
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Speaker 4: I wouldn't do a pond.

591
00:25:58,560 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 2: You wouldn't peen a pond.

592
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:01,640
Speaker 4: I wouldn't pee in a pond, that is, I would.

593
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:04,440
Speaker 2: I would do like no one believes that I would

594
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 2: do lake.

595
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 4: I would do sound. I would do sound. Yes, you'd

596
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 4: hit a sound, I'd hit a sound.

597
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 2: Reservoir, I'd do a reservoir.

598
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 4: But as soon as it's a as soon as it's

599
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:14,919
Speaker 4: a man made pool, I think that's where I draw

600
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 4: the lie. I'm not kind of paying that thing. Wow, Okay,

601
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 4: if I can see the bottom, I'm not paying it.

602
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 2: If you can see the bottom, you're not paying it.

603
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:25,359
Speaker 2: You can't see the bottom of a lot of ponds.

604
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 2: You know, I'm gonna put down the pond thing. I

605
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:28,119
Speaker 2: think you regret saying it.

606
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:31,440
Speaker 5: Third and one and six five. I love to hear

607
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,199
Speaker 5: from some of the people here. Do we give up

608
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:36,719
Speaker 5: on the not peeing in the pool thing? I think

609
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 5: the game's over. Woody seems to think some weird principled fashion,

610
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 5: which I've not seen on him in any other topic.

611
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 5: All of a sudden, the police, he's drawing the line,

612
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 5: he's stuck a flag.

613
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 2: In the ground.

614
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 4: I'm passionate about it.

615
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:53,160
Speaker 2: Third and one six five.

616
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 13: Should we give up on not being like, let's just

617
00:26:56,560 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 13: all pee in the pools and people we're talking peeing

618
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 13: in pools, and.

619
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 3: It seems like a worn debate woods. It feels like

620
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 3: a debate that's been going on for a very long time.

621
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 3: And it might seem and I use this word before,

622
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,880
Speaker 3: I'll use it again erroneous in a lot of different ways.

623
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,679
Speaker 2: But I'm still flabbergasted.

624
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 3: That there are people that don't WI in pools because

625
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 3: I just take it as exiomatic that everybody whee's in

626
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 3: the pool.

627
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 4: We're not animals, will We're not animals. We are we

628
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 4: are we are highly sorry civilization. And I think at this,

629
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,199
Speaker 4: at this level that our society is at, we can

630
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:38,639
Speaker 4: hold it while we're going for a.

631
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 3: D We can definitely hold it. We can definitely hold it.

632
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 3: But but I'm at the point where if you can't

633
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 3: beat them, join them, like if you just.

634
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 4: But then there's gonna be so much pea in the pool.

635
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:48,880
Speaker 2: The chemicals nullify the WII.

636
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 4: What about those saltwater pools or the magnesium pools for

637
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 4: those that are so lucky.

638
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 2: Mitchell's called.

639
00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 5: Engage in magnesium pool into the chemistry debate on the pools.

640
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 2: Mitchell, you used to work at a pool?

641
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 8: Yes, I sure, did, and I personally peeing pools myself

642
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 8: as well. And look, to be completely honest with you guys,

643
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 8: the amount of stuff that I used to see that

644
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 8: actually used to go in the pool we is probably

645
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:22,360
Speaker 8: the best outcome of what could be in there.

646
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 4: What do you mean him?

647
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 8: Look, I've personally seen kids throw up in the pool

648
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 8: and it kind of just gets washed away. I've seen

649
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,120
Speaker 8: young kids hop in the pool.

650
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 7: With poo still in their pants and float away.

651
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 6: And also, look the amount of actual chemicals.

652
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 5: In the pool, Mitchell, You've seen a kid. You've seen

653
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 5: a kid with poo in his pants jump in the

654
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 5: pool like the gun was loaded before he jumped in.

655
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 2: He didn't do it either, It.

656
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 8: Was ready to go.

657
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 4: Pretty much.

658
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 8: You're right, You're exactly right. Look, and also the amount

659
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 8: of actual chemicals that get put through the pool itself.

660
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 6: You know, that stuff away just like a.

661
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 2: Pretty much it does, right, just dissolves immediately.

662
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 4: Sorry, you got one question for you, Mitch. At what

663
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 4: point do you drain the pool? Like you're saying, you

664
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 4: just barrel on when all this happens.

665
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 2: I'm sorry you did this.

666
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,240
Speaker 4: Barrel on when all these things end up in your

667
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 4: pool or at some point. Do you drain the bull?

668
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 8: Yeah, so pretty much. You kind of well, we personally,

669
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 8: I won't name the pool, but we were personally instructed

670
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 8: just to kind of wash it away and.

671
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 1: Just don't play a thing.

672
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 2: That's what happens. Really, Yeah, yeah, I think so unbelievable. Yeah,

673
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 2: and shame on that kid. By the way, I just

674
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 2: like my parents.

675
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,280
Speaker 5: That's smuggling a couple of buns into the pool. What

676
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 5: a filthy little grut.

677
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 4: That's a dad direction. I reckon, Dad's lazy and go mate.

678
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 2: Francis, what do you think of the pool being debate?

679
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 10: Yeah, no, definitely not.

680
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 8: Yeah.

681
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 10: There's been two occasions where I've been to a pool, Yeah,

682
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 10: and we have to evacuate twice because bulls were dangerous

683
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:01,239
Speaker 10: to Hi.

684
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 2: Wow, where were you swimming? That's outrageous. Where are you swimming?

685
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 10: I'm not going to name the plan an actual pool pool?

686
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 2: Was it one of those magnesium pools? La point?

687
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 1: You're where your eyes were burning outside of the pool?

688
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 5: All right, frances Can I ask you a question because

689
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 5: I asked this question to Woody off air, and I

690
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 5: think this is what it comes down to. You don't

691
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 5: pee in pools, right, No, the place that you know

692
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 5: of Now, now you know that everybody else peas in

693
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 5: the pool.

694
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 8: Don't you?

695
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 2: You know that? Okay?

696
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 3: Unfortunately, Okay, So hypothetically, Francis, take it away from the pool.

697
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 3: If someone if someone's peeing on you, physically peeing on you, right,

698
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 3: because that's effectively what they're doing, do you then just

699
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 3: let that person walk away?

700
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 2: Or do you pee back on them? Do you then

701
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 2: take I mean it's sort of golden shower, is it.

702
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 1: You've got into a public pool to swim, But.

703
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 5: Just answer the question, may are you peeing back on

704
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 5: the person? You're letting them walk away after they've pissed

705
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 5: on you.

706
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 6: I'm probably just going to walk away.

707
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 4: And it's incredible.

708
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 10: Why would you pee back on them?

709
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 13: Yes?

710
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 4: Good, You're like a like a Buddhist monk, Francis.

711
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 10: Long ping monk.

712
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, more Will and Woody.

713
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 4: Goodness after this it's the Will and Woody podcast.

714
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 5: The most important fight I've ever had with my partner

715
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 5: Sam on the weekend. And I genuinely think if you

716
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 5: haven't had this fight yet with your partner, I think

717
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:28,000
Speaker 5: you're missing out.

718
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 4: Brilliant.

719
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, it wasn't fun. I'll give you a little bit

720
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 5: of context. We've just come back from holiday. We've been

721
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 5: in Mexico for nearly four weeks together. Yeah, and we're

722
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 5: in seventh Heaven. So it's quite normal that when you

723
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:41,680
Speaker 5: come back and you hit the ground running, that you know,

724
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 5: gets ectic when you've got a kid anyway.

725
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 2: Particularly as well.

726
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,480
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, but I think it was also going back

727
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 5: to this situation where I'm the breadwinner and she's stay

728
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 5: at home with baby. That's that's the situation that we're in.

729
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 5: I'm the only one who's working and she's the only one. Well, actually, no,

730
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 5: I'm going to rephrase that she's the only one staging

731
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 5: at home with the kid. Which, yeah, sure, I've had

732
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 5: a couple of days with Max one on one and

733
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 5: I reckon after two of them.

734
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll check out anyway.

735
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 4: Isn't it.

736
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, yeah, I think we're just stuff to do.

737
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 4: We don't want to have his argument. But I think

738
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 4: it's a lot easier what we do.

739
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 2: I mean, at the end of the day, mate, I

740
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:23,959
Speaker 2: think I know it's a lot easier.

741
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 4: We come in here, Yes, we make a few jokes, Yes,

742
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 4: over a couple of hours, yeah, get paid for most

743
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 4: of the math, and then we go home and then

744
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 4: the real work begins.

745
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

746
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, well and you just fingers across the jods already.

747
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 5: And anyway, there's no doubt that I felt that Sem

748
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 5: had a much harder job for me coming back.

749
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 2: And there's no doubt. Well, this is the interesting thing.

750
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:49,080
Speaker 2: She thought I had it a lot tougher than her.

751
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, because because of what you like mentally and

752
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 4: physically had to do, or because it's harder for.

753
00:32:56,440 --> 00:33:00,360
Speaker 2: You to yeah, leaving the baby going into work. So

754
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 2: what was going on is that we were.

755
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 5: Subconsciously compensating for the other person and we weren't communicating that.

756
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 5: So both of us were kind of doing a lot

757
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 5: of what we deemed as extra sort of stuff to

758
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 5: make the other person feel okay because we both thought

759
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 5: we were working really hard, and then simultaneously, both of

760
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 5: us thought that we weren't getting appreciated for what we

761
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 5: were doing because.

762
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 4: You were doing both doing extra ye.

763
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 2: Yes, And it was this like standoff to the point

764
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 2: where it's Sam's Dutch.

765
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 5: So you know, as soon as there's a fly in

766
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 5: the ointment, she just kind of tools down and says,

767
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 5: what's the what the F's going on?

768
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 2: And then we just have to have a conversation about it,

769
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 2: and it was intense.

770
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 5: I think ultimately we realized that we were really resenting

771
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 5: each other at the same time at the same time

772
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 5: because we were both doing this extra work to make

773
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 5: the other person feel better about themselves.

774
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 4: Didn't you run out of jobs?

775
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 2: What do you mean, well, if you're both.

776
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 4: Doing extras, Yeah, it's a washing machine.

777
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 2: Like no, no, no, It wasn't necessarily jobs. It was time.

778
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:08,720
Speaker 4: Okay.

779
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 2: It wasn't the jobs we were doing. It was the

780
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:12,719
Speaker 2: time we were allowing each other.

781
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, So we were both going, hey, i'll take

782
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 3: the baby here, I'll take the baby here, I'll take

783
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 3: the baby here without without going I need some time out, yes, yes, gotcha,

784
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:26,800
Speaker 3: yeah or I Neither of us said that.

785
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 2: We're both like, I've got it. I've got it. I've

786
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 2: got it.

787
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:30,399
Speaker 4: Because you've been at work all day, so I'll take

788
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 4: the baby. Exactly on the other side, you're going, I'll

789
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:37,239
Speaker 4: take the baby because yes, yeah, wow, yeah, totally wild. Yeah.

790
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:39,480
Speaker 5: Anyway, Look, I think what it came down to is

791
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 5: that I think, and maybe this is you know, this

792
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 5: is just learning about parenting, is that we need to

793
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 5: make a timetable, which really clearly delineates that's.

794
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 2: Your time with the kid.

795
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:55,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, And as a result, the other person has guilt

796
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 5: free time because it's agreed that's your time, which means

797
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 5: in your time, I'm off, enjoy your time off.

798
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:02,399
Speaker 7: Yeah.

799
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:04,440
Speaker 5: Right now the time off that we're getting, both of

800
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 5: us are just spending our time feeling guilty that.

801
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 4: We're not with the baby. Him and I like literally

802
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 4: trying to organize that now or I'm going there's in

803
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 4: a lot of time every morning where I'm like, this

804
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:14,359
Speaker 4: is the time I can I can look after the baby. Yes,

805
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 4: I'm not at work at that time, and I want

806
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 4: you to go and do something. But the best thing

807
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 4: is I want to hang out with you. Yes, I

808
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 4: want to hang out with you. And I'm like, yeah,

809
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:23,839
Speaker 4: but not with the baby. Yeah, well but I've got

810
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:25,480
Speaker 4: the baby, so I want you to have your own.

811
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 4: So we're trying to figure out, like, well she's trying

812
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 4: to figure out, like what can I go and do effectively.

813
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:31,800
Speaker 5: I think it's an age. I think it's a debate

814
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 5: which a lot of couples have had. Yeah, and I

815
00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:36,239
Speaker 5: think it's a development step with having a kid. But

816
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 5: the funny thing was when I spoke to Sam about

817
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 5: this if we take it away from kids here, because

818
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 5: I know there are lots of people that don't have

819
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 5: kids as well.

820
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 4: Yeah.

821
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 5: I actually called Sam before we started talking about this

822
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 5: on radio, and I said, Hey, can I talk about this?

823
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 5: And she said yeah, But I don't think it's a

824
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:58,719
Speaker 5: good idea that you suggest that relationships should compare what

825
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:02,320
Speaker 5: they're putting in. Yeah, because that's a really, really toxic

826
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 5: way to have a relationship.

827
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 2: I did this, you did that. I get this time,

828
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 2: you get that time.

829
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 5: Sam actually joins us now, So Sam, welcome to the

830
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 5: show for the first time in six years.

831
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 2: Well that it's great to.

832
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 1: Have you on.

833
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:21,279
Speaker 4: When you don't use your phone for six years.

834
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 2: I'm going to have to get it in a good spot.

835
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,440
Speaker 2: I'll get I'll get reception.

836
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 5: Is it healthy to talk to your partner to compare

837
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 5: with your partner what you're putting into your relationship. I

838
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 5: feel like it's something we all subconsciously do, you know,

839
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:41,840
Speaker 5: Like if they have a big night on the weekend

840
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 5: and you know you've sort of been around to clean

841
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 5: up the house and whatever else the next day, there

842
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 5: is you cannot help a subconscious sense of reciprocity creeping

843
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 5: in there, I said, so New Center. On the weekend,

844
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 5: I cooked and cleaned for you. Yeah, you're asking for

845
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:59,439
Speaker 5: a couple of days back there. The reason I'm asking

846
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 5: this is I had a huge fight with my partner

847
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 5: Sam on the weekend about this massive blow.

848
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:03,880
Speaker 2: Up, big blow up.

849
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 5: It wasn't a lot of fun, but I do think

850
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 5: it was the most important, one of the most important

851
00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 5: fights we've ever had, because we weren't talking about what

852
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 5: we were putting in, and we both felt like we

853
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 5: needed some sort of respect or recognition for what we

854
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 5: were putting in, particularly in and around the baby, and

855
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 5: it just made us spoke resent each other silently.

856
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 2: We're both hating each other. It was hilarious.

857
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 5: We weren't even talking, and then she was just like,

858
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 5: can we talk about this because we're in a bad spot.

859
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:30,960
Speaker 4: Isn't the baby a wild buffer for that though? Yeah,

860
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 4: if you and your partner aren't seen, I to I,

861
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 4: the baby's there. You give all your love to the baby,

862
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 4: you know what I mean, And then it's like you're

863
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 4: able to operate, not really interacting anyway.

864
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:45,439
Speaker 5: Look, Sam joins us. Now, Sammy, welcome to the show. Hey,

865
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 5: we've got a connection. First, time on the show in

866
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 5: six years.

867
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 4: For Sam's been.

868
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:54,879
Speaker 2: Hard to track you down.

869
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:57,320
Speaker 4: I'll tell you what it doesn't.

870
00:37:57,560 --> 00:38:01,800
Speaker 12: The reception out of the house is perfect. Yeah, works

871
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:06,320
Speaker 12: with me great anyway, This is why.

872
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:10,440
Speaker 2: We don't have a reception that a reception updated. It's amazing.

873
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:15,920
Speaker 2: Let's uh, let's talk. English is a second language.

874
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 5: Everyone don't worry, so we uh, let's talk a little

875
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 5: bit about this fight on the weekend. Because when I

876
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 5: when I said to you before and to everybody else

877
00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:24,920
Speaker 5: listening right now, that I wanted to talk about this,

878
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 5: you said to me, I don't think it's a good

879
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 5: idea to compare what we're putting in to the relationship

880
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 5: or to the baby.

881
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:32,759
Speaker 2: Why do you think that?

882
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 4: I don't really know why that is.

883
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 12: Actually, I just feel like it's just unhealthy way to

884
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 12: go about, like, because I think relationship is not based

885
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 12: on this is what I give is what you give?

886
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:50,800
Speaker 12: And you know, with with that, it's almost seems like

887
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 12: you always have to be imbalanced, and a thing that

888
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 12: in a relationship you don't always have to be in balanced.

889
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 12: You know, there's moments where one gives a bit more

890
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:00,200
Speaker 12: than the other. And you know you were to thing

891
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:02,359
Speaker 12: about having big nights on the weekend, will I mean

892
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 12: you have no trouble sleeping the whole day the next day.

893
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:12,080
Speaker 4: That's okay, fired I like it whether it's nights out

894
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 4: or just like one of the two in the relationship

895
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 4: going through a bit of a tough time, Like you know,

896
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 4: when your partner is going through a tough trot, and

897
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:21,879
Speaker 4: I think it's healthy then just naturally obviously to take

898
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 4: up a bit of the slack, as opposed to then

899
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:25,760
Speaker 4: expect something in return.

900
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:28,280
Speaker 12: Yeah, like it's not for tending a relationship.

901
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 2: That's awful.

902
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:32,840
Speaker 5: And yet and yet it's undeniable that the conversation that

903
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 5: you and I had on the weekend about what we

904
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 5: were putting in was incredibly.

905
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 2: Helpful to how we both felt about each other.

906
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:46,200
Speaker 12: I sort of was listening, but I wasn't great.

907
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 4: Hang on to the conversation on the weekend or just now, No, just.

908
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 12: Now, Max is trying to get kemp.

909
00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:00,479
Speaker 2: You zone out when I talk and I this sons

910
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:00,839
Speaker 2: all the time.

911
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 3: By the way, we go to a restaurant together, she

912
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:07,759
Speaker 3: cannot face the rest of the room because.

913
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 2: She just loses me and I have to wave at her.

914
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:18,400
Speaker 4: Mim and I welcome off the show, him and I

915
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 4: had the conversation. I don't know if you guys can

916
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:21,840
Speaker 4: relate to this, either of you can relate to this, but.

917
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 3: I really need to.

918
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:28,839
Speaker 2: Because this is your way out of conversations as well.

919
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:30,280
Speaker 2: This is the selective hearing.

920
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 3: It is undeniable that the conversation that you and I

921
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 3: had on the weekend about the time.

922
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 2: That we're back, we're I'm back, God, because there's people

923
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:43,880
Speaker 2: of mind. She says, I'm not listening, and I'm like.

924
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 7: How can you not listen?

925
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:46,000
Speaker 10: Oh my god?

926
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 2: No, no, no, that that was helpful to our relationship.

927
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 12: Yeah, but I think for us it was more. Yes,

928
00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 12: it was about putting in a lot into the really

929
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 12: jumping into the care for Max. But I was going

930
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 12: to get to a point here and I forgot it.

931
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 9: I stopped listening anyway, So Sam, thanks for coming on.

932
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 13: You're welcome.

933
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 3: I feel like Djokovic in the Australian Open and you're late, one.

934
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 2: Of those early people. You're some foreign enough.

935
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 9: We hate you.

936
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 13: Know.

937
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:28,959
Speaker 8: She's in the game.

938
00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 2: I love you, love you.

939
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:36,240
Speaker 3: Bye.

940
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 9: There you go.

941
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:38,920
Speaker 6: That's how you do it.

942
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 2: That's how you do it. Everyone, absolute masterplass.

943
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:46,800
Speaker 4: All right, I don't mind the Sorry I wasn't listening radio.

944
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:53,759
Speaker 2: Should you sleep with your dog in the bed?

945
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:54,439
Speaker 8: Oh?

946
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:54,879
Speaker 4: Much?

947
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 13: Is that.

948
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 5: An interesting study that's been done by a reputable source.

949
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 5: I'm not sure which one, but very reputable and effectively.

950
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 5: I know how polarizing this is for couples that it

951
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 5: is split. So on the one hand, definitely comfort and security,

952
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 5: improved immunity as well, Yeah, reduced stress and low blood

953
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 5: pressure you're getting from sleeping in the dog. On the

954
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 5: other hand, allergic reactions, disrupted sleep, raised wis risk of

955
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:25,840
Speaker 5: worms and infections as.

956
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 4: Well, and ticks will because you in your bed.

957
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 2: That's an infections. You sleep with your dog occasionally?

958
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:35,239
Speaker 5: I do, Yes, I've got friends, actually friends of ours,

959
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 5: very good friends of ours.

960
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:36,320
Speaker 2: Woulds.

961
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 5: The guy told me on the weekend that every time

962
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:45,840
Speaker 5: that they decide to yeah, they, the dog has to

963
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 5: be in the bed. The dog has been in the

964
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 5: bed every time because the dog hates it so much

965
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 5: when they're both in another room that it cries out

966
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 5: in the front of the door and they can't continue

967
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 5: to do it while the dog's out the front of

968
00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:55,120
Speaker 5: the dogs.

969
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 4: In the bed every time, ruined the mood. Have the

970
00:42:57,040 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 4: dog crying it on the bed.

971
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:00,440
Speaker 2: The dog's seen some things totally.

972
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 5: Why Natasha thirty one and six five, have you got

973
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 5: a sick relationship with your dog?

974
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 7: I do sleep with my dog, but I also i've

975
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 7: dogged myself in. I sniffed my dog's feet as they

976
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 7: smell like cornship and I highly encourage all really.

977
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 4: All dogs smell like cornships. They do.

978
00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:22,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, thanks the call they do.

979
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:24,919
Speaker 4: They taste like corn chips.

980
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 5: That's up for you to figure out how you had

981
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 5: a call it this recently lay is totally about a

982
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 5: woman that worked in a bank. Rat people will put

983
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:35,399
Speaker 5: a line through in general have listened to this call.

984
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:38,160
Speaker 1: When I was about twelve or thirteen years old, I

985
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 1: was in a bank and there was a big lady

986
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 1: there and she kept putting her hands down her bra

987
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 1: and feeling around, and I was big. I'm looking out

988
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 1: her wondering what's going on. Next thing, she pulls out

989
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 1: a mouse and looks at land says, Oh, they like

990
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:50,399
Speaker 1: it down there.

991
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:51,440
Speaker 6: It's nice and warm.

992
00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 2: What about that a lot?

993
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 4: It actually would be pretty nice down there, right if

994
00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 4: you're a little mouse nestled in there.

995
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:01,359
Speaker 3: Jess On Thurday and one of six five, we're talking

996
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:03,240
Speaker 3: about sick relationships with pets.

997
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:03,759
Speaker 2: What you got?

998
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,800
Speaker 10: So I work in that clinic and we had a

999
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 10: client to take her freshly deceased cat home with her.

1000
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 10: We later found out she put her cat into the

1001
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 10: bed with her to sleep at night.

1002
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:20,359
Speaker 2: Oh my god, did she sorry?

1003
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 4: Did she get it m stuffed?

1004
00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:23,840
Speaker 10: And like what?

1005
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 4: It was just the dead cat. Nothing was preserving that

1006
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 4: little pussy, and it was.

1007
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:30,000
Speaker 3: Just all.

1008
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 2: How did you know? How this went on forward?

1009
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 4: Did she keep doing that?

1010
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 10: I don't know. It was a very long time ago,

1011
00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:39,480
Speaker 10: and it's the only flash of memory that I remember

1012
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 10: someone telling me at work that they found out this

1013
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:43,320
Speaker 10: client had done that.

1014
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 2: Oh how old was she? Yess? Yeah, older than.

1015
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:52,319
Speaker 10: Middle aged, A bit of an old little woman.

1016
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, okay, truth, I get a new cat. Yeah,

1017
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 4: well yeah, let's go to jesh. Suggest you're dobbing in

1018
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 4: your husband's here with the pan.

1019
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right. So my husband is trying to getting

1020
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 1: ingrown toenails, and he had one once that got a

1021
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:16,480
Speaker 1: little bit infected, and our German shepherd liked to lick

1022
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:18,800
Speaker 1: his toenail, and we made a joke that it was

1023
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 1: his lollipop because he would actually seek out to go

1024
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:25,799
Speaker 1: and lick it. And one day, I guess worse. One

1025
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 1: day met our dog had hurd. He's poor. He was

1026
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:31,719
Speaker 1: feeling really sorry for himself and was sulking, and my

1027
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:34,399
Speaker 1: husband proceeded to go up and present his toady hymns

1028
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 1: that he can lick his dolly.

1029
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 2: Didn't cheer up.

1030
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 1: It sure did. He was very happy after that