WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: What did you BAN your partner from doing? 💸 0:00:12.640 --> 0:00:21.080 Laura, come on, Oh my god, we're all changed people today. 0:00:21.320 --> 0:00:24.760 Hello, everybody. Life will never be the same. I'm still 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:28.280 living in my Taylor Swift moment. I've worn my bedazzled 0:00:28.480 --> 0:00:31.000 hair gems. I've brought them into studio today, so I've 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:31.680 worn them all day. 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:34.199 You just look like you haven't showered yet since the concert. Oh, 0:00:34.240 --> 0:00:35.040 I should thank you. 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:37.080 You're like, I don't want to rub the tailor off me. 0:00:37.200 --> 0:00:38.599 What are you saying? I don't look like I've gone home. 0:00:38.680 --> 0:00:39.320 I look great. 0:00:39.400 --> 0:00:41.680 I've done a shower and my makeup. I just left 0:00:41.680 --> 0:00:42.680 my hair bedazzles in. 0:00:42.960 --> 0:00:44.920 The three of us went to Taylor Swift, which, in 0:00:44.960 --> 0:00:46.839 the weirdest way possible. We all went, but none of 0:00:46.920 --> 0:00:49.200 us went together. We all went Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. 0:00:49.280 --> 0:00:51.760 We really wanted to split out the experience. We were 0:00:51.800 --> 0:00:53.960 on completely separate nights. I went on Friday, you went 0:00:54.000 --> 0:00:55.480 on Saturday. Brit was there on Sunday night. 0:00:55.560 --> 0:00:57.520 We see each other every day of the week. I 0:00:57.560 --> 0:00:59.600 was like, let me have some experiences on my own. 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:02.200 We needed a break. Did we all have a life 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:03.520 changing experience? Yeah? 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:06.160 I am legally changing my name. I will now be 0:01:06.319 --> 0:01:07.640 Taylor Hockley. 0:01:08.480 --> 0:01:10.200 That's terrible for your career if you really want to 0:01:10.200 --> 0:01:10.360 make it. 0:01:11.680 --> 0:01:14.560 It was like nothing I could have ever imagined. And 0:01:14.600 --> 0:01:15.600 I've been to Taylor Swift. 0:01:15.680 --> 0:01:18.959 I went to her reputation concert was like twenty eighteen, 0:01:19.120 --> 0:01:21.360 so a long time ago, so I know how amazing 0:01:21.400 --> 0:01:23.080 she is and I had high expectations. 0:01:23.160 --> 0:01:25.880 But it blew my expectations out of the water. 0:01:25.959 --> 0:01:28.800 Yeah, I thought it was a bit much. He did 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:30.080 know a lot. 0:01:31.760 --> 0:01:34.600 Of you rocking out. That is an absolute lie. 0:01:34.640 --> 0:01:36.399 But there are I reckon, there's two types of people 0:01:36.400 --> 0:01:38.840 in Australia right now. There's everyone who went to the 0:01:38.880 --> 0:01:41.760 Tailor Swift concerts who cannot get over how amazing it is, 0:01:42.000 --> 0:01:44.240 and then everyone else who wishes those people would stop 0:01:44.280 --> 0:01:46.600 talking about it. Yeah, and that's us, That's who we're 0:01:46.600 --> 0:01:48.320 the other ones, the one that people want us to 0:01:48.320 --> 0:01:49.480 stop talking about today. 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:51.440 We're both we went and we're obnoxious and we're going 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:53.240 to keep talking about it. 0:01:52.480 --> 0:01:52.520 Was. 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:54.720 It was life changing, It was amazing. 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:57.280 It was it was we're actually going to discuss next 0:01:57.400 --> 0:01:59.960 pick up, put down his back the Australia's face. 0:02:00.240 --> 0:02:01.360 It afternoon, pick me up. 0:02:01.560 --> 0:02:02.960 Tell me that you tried to pick some things that 0:02:03.040 --> 0:02:04.600 a non Taylor related though. 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:06.120 There's a couple tailor in there, and there's a couple 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:07.800 non Taylor, but I can edit on the fly in 0:02:07.880 --> 0:02:08.160 the song. 0:02:08.760 --> 0:02:12.320 But we also have some more Taylor Swift flights. 0:02:12.400 --> 0:02:14.880 Yeah we do so if you missed out, Yeah, we're 0:02:14.919 --> 0:02:17.119 throwing a Taylor Swift encore in Singapore. 0:02:17.160 --> 0:02:18.239 So that's where she's heading. 0:02:18.480 --> 0:02:20.519 And we're going to give you accommodation and an entire 0:02:20.639 --> 0:02:23.160 row of tickets to see the errors tour in Singapore 0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:23.720 coming up. 0:02:23.760 --> 0:02:25.120 Before the end of the show today. 0:02:24.880 --> 0:02:26.799 Some of you thought it was over, but it's absolutely 0:02:27.040 --> 0:02:29.839 all right. 0:02:30.000 --> 0:02:31.320 That's on the way. Welcome to pick Up. 0:02:31.320 --> 0:02:35.240 Happy Monday everyone, it's Monday. We need to do this 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:37.520 pick Up classic. People in the street yell at me 0:02:37.560 --> 0:02:39.960 on the weekend Mitch on Monday? Are you going to play? 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:41.880 And I say the pickup put down? 0:02:41.919 --> 0:02:43.359 Yeah, of course we're gonna play. 0:02:45.360 --> 0:02:48.280 It has been a classic for a solid eight eight weeks. 0:02:48.880 --> 0:02:50.600 Yeah about that since we came back. 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:53.000 It's really sticking, isn't it. I like it. I'm here 0:02:53.000 --> 0:02:53.200 for it. 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:55.200 I bring you the big topics from the weekend and Britain. 0:02:55.240 --> 0:02:57.120 Laura, it's your job to either pick it up, carry 0:02:57.120 --> 0:02:59.040 on the conversation or put it down, put it to bed. 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:01.800 We never discussed it again. Are we ready to play today? 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:02.359 Yeah? 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:02.799 All right? 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:07.000 Today we are discussing the moon landing that happened this weekend. 0:03:08.280 --> 0:03:10.800 What pick it up? 0:03:10.800 --> 0:03:12.560 But I'm embarrassed to say it didn't this happen because 0:03:12.560 --> 0:03:13.880 I was engulfed in Taylor Swift. 0:03:13.919 --> 0:03:14.359 I didn't. 0:03:14.680 --> 0:03:16.320 I don't even know how to answer this because I 0:03:16.520 --> 0:03:17.280 literally did. 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:18.480 How does somebody land. 0:03:18.320 --> 0:03:21.800 On the Moon and it goes unknown? Taylor Swift is 0:03:22.040 --> 0:03:23.359 touring just bigger than the Moon. 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:23.880 She is. 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:26.040 The United States bulled off its first moon landing in 0:03:26.040 --> 0:03:28.400 more than half a century. They had a spacecraft built 0:03:28.400 --> 0:03:31.200 and operated by a Texas based private company. The last 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:33.760 time it happened in nineteen seventy two. But yeah, we 0:03:33.840 --> 0:03:35.000 landed on the Moon on the wed. 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:38.160 How disappointed would you be for the lack of pr 0:03:38.240 --> 0:03:41.200 that is received across the world when Taylor Swift is touring. 0:03:41.440 --> 0:03:43.480 She just overtook the fact that you landed on the moon. 0:03:43.640 --> 0:03:44.760 What's the astronaut's name? 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:48.400 We don't know? Neil Armstrong? Neil is that. 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:51.280 Funny TAYLOR'SWS backup dancer that says one word is named cam, 0:03:51.600 --> 0:03:52.800 but we don't know who The man had just. 0:03:52.800 --> 0:03:54.720 Landed on the Neil Armstrong was the first person to 0:03:54.720 --> 0:03:55.000 walk on. 0:03:55.680 --> 0:03:58.480 That's the only one like. Name me, one other astronaut 0:03:58.760 --> 0:04:00.920 name me. The second guy who there as well, no 0:04:01.000 --> 0:04:01.839 one knows the name. 0:04:02.120 --> 0:04:03.800 The second guy was buzz aldron. 0:04:03.880 --> 0:04:05.560 Oh there we go. Okay, I'm glad you knew. But 0:04:05.560 --> 0:04:07.119 everyone again buzz buzz. 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:08.880 And then there was that dog that went out. All right. 0:04:09.000 --> 0:04:13.400 Question two, what about this taking off your heels on 0:04:13.480 --> 0:04:15.520 a night out before you get home? 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:19.280 Pick up? 0:04:19.320 --> 0:04:21.719 But I'm also curious as to how this made headline 0:04:21.760 --> 0:04:22.479 news this week. 0:04:22.640 --> 0:04:27.320 Well, actress Elizabeth de Becky she won her SAG speech, 0:04:27.520 --> 0:04:28.760 like you know how they win, the may go to 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:30.480 the press room after to talk to the media. 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:32.520 She pulled off her heels to thank. 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:33.400 You for Yeah, completely fine. 0:04:33.400 --> 0:04:34.720 When you say she pulled off her heels, did you 0:04:34.800 --> 0:04:35.679 just rip them off a shoes? 0:04:35.880 --> 0:04:37.640 She took her shoes off. This is the moment I 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:40.160 don't have any shoes on sexy. 0:04:40.320 --> 0:04:47.039 Hello, truly, I was not expecting this people say that, 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:50.679 and I really am not barefoot at the SAgs. 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:53.320 It's all right, we wear we wear high heels. 0:04:53.320 --> 0:04:53.800 For other people. 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:56.159 Don't we We were made to wear them by probably patriarchy. 0:04:56.279 --> 0:05:00.160 I'm going to do it, got deep real quick, Yes, 0:05:00.240 --> 0:05:02.760 Mitchell does. I'm all for it. 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:05.240 But I do think that there's something a little bit rogue, 0:05:05.240 --> 0:05:07.240 Like after the races, for example, when you see all 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:09.040 the girls walking around they're a bit boozed up and 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:09.800 they've got no shoes on. 0:05:09.839 --> 0:05:12.000 I'm like, it's not good, but it's actually super scabby. 0:05:12.040 --> 0:05:14.200 And I say that because the things that you walk, 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:16.239 if you're in the city some or not even the city, 0:05:16.279 --> 0:05:18.000 but like the things that you are on the ground, 0:05:18.200 --> 0:05:21.840 spit who it's just not putting them in your round? 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:23.800 Where are you walking? Were you in New Delhi on 0:05:23.839 --> 0:05:27.159 the weekend? There was a there was a cow bell, 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:28.039 and there was a donkey. 0:05:28.360 --> 0:05:29.400 Okay, what's the next one, Mitch? 0:05:30.120 --> 0:05:33.479 Reclining your seat on an airplane. 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:36.800 Pick up? 0:05:37.279 --> 0:05:39.920 As soon as that, literally the second I can recline, 0:05:39.960 --> 0:05:41.680 I'm reclining and going to sleep with my mouth open. 0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:44.039 All right, Well, this video went viral on socials on 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:46.560 the weekend. This a woman was venting about a passenger 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:49.400 that shoved her seat after reclining it. 0:05:49.720 --> 0:05:51.440 She was on a ten hour flight. 0:05:51.480 --> 0:05:52.520 Ah harror flight. 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:54.240 I kept pushing the button and pushing my seat back 0:05:54.240 --> 0:05:56.200 because she was like inching it forward the entire plate. 0:05:56.200 --> 0:05:56.960 It was so annoying. 0:05:57.080 --> 0:05:58.520 I'm sorry, but I think that you should be able 0:05:58.520 --> 0:06:00.600 to reclaim your seat on a tower fly. I told her. 0:06:00.600 --> 0:06:01.039 I was like, if you. 0:06:01.000 --> 0:06:02.640 Want to be comfy, you get first class, but bebe 0:06:02.720 --> 0:06:04.320 like everyone's doing it, I'm gonna do it. 0:06:05.320 --> 0:06:07.960 I completely agree. That's so stupid. If you're in a 0:06:07.960 --> 0:06:10.279 ten hour flight, reclimb your seat like that's. 0:06:10.160 --> 0:06:12.279 One hundred percent. Anyone that says you're not allowed to 0:06:12.279 --> 0:06:14.120 do it do a fart on that. 0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:17.360 I think it's please don't fight on people, don't go 0:06:17.440 --> 0:06:19.480 to assault, which I'm pretty sure is what that'd be 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:20.120 classified as. 0:06:20.120 --> 0:06:21.080 But I think, Okay, if it's a. 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:23.360 Short flight, you're just flying from Sydney to Brisbane or something, 0:06:23.720 --> 0:06:25.920 it's the middle of the day, there's no need to 0:06:25.960 --> 0:06:27.720 recline your flight. But if it's an overnight or a 0:06:27.760 --> 0:06:30.640 long haul flight, you reclined that baby, no need. 0:06:30.520 --> 0:06:33.400 Laura, But you're still entitled to it if you choose to. 0:06:33.560 --> 0:06:33.640 No. 0:06:33.720 --> 0:06:36.040 But I say, during meal service, you're up that chair. 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:38.760 Yes, yes, I agree with that decorum here respect. We're 0:06:38.760 --> 0:06:39.159 not animals. 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:41.360 Yeah, now we're not walking through the main street walking 0:06:41.360 --> 0:06:43.480 in ow and Doug p and they we're not a. 0:06:43.440 --> 0:06:48.960 Monkey on the moon. Hey, talking about RSPCT. Yeah, Travis Kelsey, 0:06:49.120 --> 0:06:50.240 I mean have you heard about this? 0:06:50.279 --> 0:06:53.680 Okay, So Taylor Swift, she's just banned Travis kelcey from 0:06:53.680 --> 0:06:56.160 doing something in Las Vegas, And I wanted to know 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:59.240 is there anything that you guys have banned your partners 0:06:59.240 --> 0:06:59.680 from doing? 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:01.560 Right, we'll take your calls next here at the pickup. 0:07:04.560 --> 0:07:06.680 All right, well, thirteen one oh six five, I want 0:07:06.680 --> 0:07:09.240 to know have you ever banned your partner from doing something? 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:13.280 Put rules and regulations into your relationship? Now, the reason 0:07:13.320 --> 0:07:15.360 why this has come up is because and I know 0:07:15.440 --> 0:07:17.040 everyone's talking about Taylor Swift. 0:07:17.080 --> 0:07:18.880 Oh that's just a lot of Taylor chops. 0:07:18.880 --> 0:07:20.640 Okay, we'll bear with me for a little bit longer. 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:24.000 So Travis Kelsey, Taylor's boyfriend was here, he was in 0:07:24.040 --> 0:07:27.840 Sydney at her concerts. He's just flown from here to Vegas. 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:31.040 Apparently she's put some rules and regulations in place as 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:32.880 to how he's allowed to behave when he's over there 0:07:32.880 --> 0:07:34.960 in Vegas. So he's not allowed to go to any 0:07:34.960 --> 0:07:39.200 strip clubs. Strip clubs have been strictly banned. He's also 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:42.720 not allowed to pose in any photos with female fans 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:45.600 because she's worried about the types of headlines that might 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:45.960 come out. 0:07:46.000 --> 0:07:48.560 Now, obviously this is all just speculation. It's very old. 0:07:48.600 --> 0:07:51.480 I don't and I kind of don't either, Like I don't, 0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:54.600 I can't imagine someone like Taylor Swift is so insecure 0:07:54.640 --> 0:07:57.080 that she needs to put rules in her relationships. But 0:07:57.320 --> 0:08:00.280 maybe she's been burnt so many times by boyfriend RAN's 0:08:00.280 --> 0:08:02.320 behaving badly that she's just at the point where she's like, 0:08:02.360 --> 0:08:03.800 do you know what, if you want to be with me, 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:04.880 you can't do X, Y and Z. 0:08:04.960 --> 0:08:07.400 He's also a world class football his management would be 0:08:07.440 --> 0:08:09.720 saying the exact same thing. Don't be spotted out with 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:11.360 a girl, don't be spotted in a strip club. 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:13.480 But also, we're just making this sound I say, we 0:08:13.800 --> 0:08:16.280 the media making it sound like Taylor Swift has like 0:08:16.280 --> 0:08:19.400 a stranglehold. Yeah, which is why I would like to 0:08:19.400 --> 0:08:21.640 say that I disagree with it. The media making it 0:08:21.720 --> 0:08:24.360 sound like Taylor Stift has a stranglehold on him and 0:08:24.400 --> 0:08:26.360 she's imposing all these rules and regulations there are a 0:08:26.360 --> 0:08:29.400 lot of people out there that don't like their partners 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:30.200 going to strip clubs. 0:08:30.200 --> 0:08:32.160 Whether you're uber famous or not, that. 0:08:32.200 --> 0:08:34.480 Is just what your boundary is in a relationship, let 0:08:34.520 --> 0:08:36.720 alone making her look like an idiot when he jets 0:08:36.760 --> 0:08:37.360 off and goes to. 0:08:37.360 --> 0:08:39.120 Strip club totally and Britt, I agree with this. 0:08:39.200 --> 0:08:41.600 So I mean my husband that he's just gone over 0:08:41.640 --> 0:08:42.800 to Vegas for the same thing. 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:44.679 So he's over there to strip club to go to 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:45.320 a strip club. 0:08:45.840 --> 0:08:48.040 We made you text him in the songs. Britt and 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:49.880 I were like, wait, have you put these rules on 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:51.880 Maddie too, and tell him that read the texts. 0:08:51.920 --> 0:08:54.920 No, he's there currently for the footy as well, and 0:08:54.960 --> 0:08:56.200 I was like, are you going to go to any 0:08:56.240 --> 0:08:57.440 strip clubs while you're over there? 0:08:57.679 --> 0:09:01.200 And he wrote no, like Paul's asking you. 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:00.920 No, I was. 0:09:00.960 --> 0:09:02.439 I made it clear that it was for radio and 0:09:02.480 --> 0:09:04.160 that I wanted to know because I don't want him 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:06.040 to think that I'm telling him what he can and 0:09:06.080 --> 0:09:08.760 can't do. But he firstly he said no, and then 0:09:08.800 --> 0:09:11.360 he wrote back a couple of messages later after discussing 0:09:11.400 --> 0:09:13.760 a few other things, and he was like, look, if 0:09:13.800 --> 0:09:17.520 other people from Ko and stuff are going and everyone's going, 0:09:17.559 --> 0:09:19.280 then maybe I'll go. He's like, I don't want to 0:09:19.320 --> 0:09:21.240 say completely a knowing case. That's the thing that we 0:09:21.280 --> 0:09:21.920 all do to. 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:23.480 Leave it open. So I was like, wait, wait, are 0:09:23.520 --> 0:09:25.520 we now having a discussion about you going to strip club? 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:26.200 Is that well? 0:09:26.200 --> 0:09:27.240 About him going to a strip club? 0:09:28.440 --> 0:09:30.240 Part of me felt like I didn't need to lay 0:09:30.240 --> 0:09:31.640 it down as it a rule because I kind of 0:09:31.640 --> 0:09:32.640 didn't expect that he would go. 0:09:33.000 --> 0:09:36.280 Would I care? I don't know. I think I would 0:09:36.280 --> 0:09:37.640 care a little bit if he was going to strip 0:09:37.640 --> 0:09:38.280 clubs in Vegas. 0:09:38.320 --> 0:09:40.760 Wait, Laura, he's going as it with Ko Ko Sports, right, 0:09:40.800 --> 0:09:42.560 they're paying for the trip for his podcast. 0:09:42.679 --> 0:09:44.280 Well, I mean they're not paying him for his trip 0:09:45.440 --> 0:09:46.240 of course presenting. 0:09:46.320 --> 0:09:47.719 Yeah, that's my point. So if he goes to a 0:09:47.720 --> 0:09:49.120 strip club, he's going to have to post it and 0:09:49.120 --> 0:09:50.120 write hashtag. 0:09:49.720 --> 0:09:51.720 Gifted hashtager tax deductible. 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:53.360 Yeah, he's going to have Sabrina on his lap and 0:09:53.360 --> 0:09:55.080 he's going to go with the hashtag gifted things At 0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:56.120 Ko Sport, he. 0:09:56.080 --> 0:09:57.760 Gets a lap dance and it's going to be, yeah, 0:09:57.760 --> 0:09:58.280 a tax deduction. 0:09:58.480 --> 0:10:02.560 I asked Ben, my partner, this same thing, and I 0:10:02.600 --> 0:10:04.800 genuinely he's he was like, no, I don't really like them, 0:10:04.840 --> 0:10:06.559 to be honest, But I was like, look, I genuinely 0:10:06.600 --> 0:10:08.800 wouldn't care if you were going to them on a 0:10:08.840 --> 0:10:10.760 Bucks party or something. But if you were just going 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:13.040 because you're like, it's bored on a Tuesday night, then 0:10:13.040 --> 0:10:13.720 it's a problem. 0:10:13.920 --> 0:10:16.319 Ellie's called us. What did you aband your partner from Ellie. 0:10:17.160 --> 0:10:18.760 From wearing final shirts? 0:10:18.840 --> 0:10:21.240 I hate them, I started. 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:26.400 It's awful, Like wait is it because they're like, I mean, 0:10:26.400 --> 0:10:27.880 what kind of final shirts are we talking about? 0:10:27.920 --> 0:10:30.120 Because I like a man lumberjack? 0:10:30.480 --> 0:10:32.679 No, like that lumberjack Like check it. 0:10:33.320 --> 0:10:36.840 I just wore my partner Ben a lumberjack like jacket 0:10:36.840 --> 0:10:40.520 and he looks so in it. Not for me. 0:10:40.800 --> 0:10:46.520 I had a bad experience with the lumberjack perhaps Allly. 0:10:45.040 --> 0:10:45.520 Not at all. 0:10:45.559 --> 0:10:47.920 It's just a look. I just it's not a vibe. 0:10:48.000 --> 0:10:48.880 It's just not for me. 0:10:49.120 --> 0:10:52.360 Wait, have you brittle, Laura? Have you banned anything that's 0:10:52.400 --> 0:10:54.040 like not strip coup? Like, what weird bands do you 0:10:54.080 --> 0:10:55.199 have in your relationship? 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:59.880 I've discussed this in my vicinity, Like you just have 0:10:59.920 --> 0:11:01.720 to leave the room, but just don't lift your butchet 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:02.400 and let it rip on me. 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:03.960 But if you still not fight in front of Ben, 0:11:04.000 --> 0:11:04.440 your partner. 0:11:04.480 --> 0:11:08.640 I accidentally let one slip. Yeah, well I accidentally let once. 0:11:08.679 --> 0:11:10.000 That was and then what did he do? 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:14.240 He just thought it was the greatest thing ever. He 0:11:14.320 --> 0:11:16.559 had a field day because he thought closer to you, No, 0:11:16.720 --> 0:11:18.640 he did not. He thought it was funny because my 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:20.240 rule is not to do it, and I did it. 0:11:20.240 --> 0:11:22.160 He just thought it was hilarious. But I was like, sorry, 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:24.080 it's okay if it's an accident. 0:11:24.240 --> 0:11:27.040 I think when you're in a healthy relationship, you don't 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:29.280 need to set rules on your partner and tell them 0:11:29.320 --> 0:11:32.120 what they're what they're things they can completely agree, yes, 0:11:32.200 --> 0:11:34.439 But when you're in a terribly toxic relationship, that's when 0:11:34.440 --> 0:11:35.920 you find yourself setting a lot of rules. 0:11:36.040 --> 0:11:39.160 You don't even let Matt have chewing gum or toothpaste 0:11:39.160 --> 0:11:41.280 that smells like mint, Laura. 0:11:40.920 --> 0:11:45.400 Coming, I hate when you're in a healthy relationship, there's 0:11:45.440 --> 0:11:45.880 no rules. 0:11:45.920 --> 0:11:48.360 Yet Matt has to wear green undies only, he has 0:11:48.360 --> 0:11:49.560 to use a certain shampoo. 0:11:49.640 --> 0:11:50.480 He's got a curfew. 0:11:50.559 --> 0:11:52.160 All right, I'll eat my own words. 0:11:52.200 --> 0:11:52.600 That's true. 0:11:52.640 --> 0:11:53.760 Okay, there's lots of rules whatever. 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:54.640 All right. 0:11:54.679 --> 0:11:56.440 Next on the show, we got our big brothers on 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:59.040 the show. They're beloved, Will and Woody. They're going to 0:11:59.040 --> 0:12:00.760 be joining in us. We're going to talk about some 0:12:00.800 --> 0:12:01.760 pretty hot topics. 0:12:01.800 --> 0:12:05.040 Well, everyone's loving Taylor Swift tickets, but they've got tickets 0:12:05.080 --> 0:12:07.720 to the next hot event in town, Like Taylor's leaving 0:12:07.760 --> 0:12:10.400 the country, the next celeb's in town, Will and what 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:11.280 are you going to look after you with? 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:12.320 So they'll announce that way and. 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:14.920 They're big celebs coming to town too. Even I was like, 0:12:15.160 --> 0:12:18.920 who's coming Laura Hanson? 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:21.760 Tell us now, Laura, let's go to some ads. We'll 0:12:21.760 --> 0:12:23.560 come back. Willhelm, what are you on with us next? 0:12:24.720 --> 0:12:25.040 Guys? 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:28.920 I saw possibly the I don't even know how to 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:30.559 describe this because as it was happening, I was like, 0:12:30.600 --> 0:12:33.720 surely this isn't happening. Possibly the craziest thing that I 0:12:33.760 --> 0:12:36.920 have seen a mother with a newborn baby experience. And 0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:39.600 this happened like right next to me at the beach. Okay, 0:12:39.600 --> 0:12:41.600 So to set the scene, I was sitting there, I 0:12:41.640 --> 0:12:43.439 had my two kids and they're you know, they're a 0:12:43.480 --> 0:12:46.040 bit older now, they're running around like crazy. Matt was 0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:49.080 next to me, and then sitting on the same wooden 0:12:49.160 --> 0:12:53.040 seats was this mum who had her newborn baby, tiny 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:55.960 tiny little thing, and her husband had just gone down 0:12:56.000 --> 0:12:58.200 to the water, down to the pools, right. So she's 0:12:58.200 --> 0:13:00.400 there and she's just putting sunscreen on, and you can 0:13:00.440 --> 0:13:02.079 tell she's a new mum. You can tell that she's 0:13:02.120 --> 0:13:04.440 her first time mom. She's thinks so gentle with this 0:13:04.440 --> 0:13:07.160 little baby, and she's fussing over him. And then she 0:13:07.280 --> 0:13:10.520 stands up, and as she stands up, this woman approaches. 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:13.200 She was kind of an older lady, and she walks 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:16.480 up and she just out of nowhere takes the baby 0:13:16.559 --> 0:13:18.480 out of the mother's arms. And I thought it must 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:21.280 have been like her mother in law or a relative. 0:13:21.880 --> 0:13:24.120 Anyway. I was kind of this is all happening by perifery. 0:13:24.280 --> 0:13:26.720 She picks up the baby and she's cuddling the baby, 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:28.480 and then she starts joking like. 0:13:28.480 --> 0:13:31.120 Hah, I'm not going to give him back. And then 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:33.040 I can tell the mother is getting a little bit more. 0:13:33.960 --> 0:13:38.160 She's being very, very polite, but she's obviously uncomfortable by 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:40.600 what's going on there. And that's when it dawned on 0:13:40.640 --> 0:13:43.200 me that she had no idea who this woman was whatsoever. 0:13:43.280 --> 0:13:44.880 She'd never seen her before in her life, and this 0:13:45.480 --> 0:13:47.440 older woman just came up and took her baby. 0:13:47.480 --> 0:13:49.320 It was a random woman, A completely. 0:13:48.960 --> 0:13:51.040 Random woman came up, took her baby and wanted to 0:13:51.080 --> 0:13:52.120 hold it because she thought it. 0:13:52.120 --> 0:13:53.679 Was so cute. And then what happened. 0:13:53.920 --> 0:13:55.880 Well, I sat there and I was like, do I 0:13:56.120 --> 0:13:58.240 say something? And this was as I was unfolding. I 0:13:58.240 --> 0:14:00.520 was about to interject myself. Then I was like, I 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:02.640 don't want to be the one that's overbearing. And I 0:14:02.640 --> 0:14:04.880 could tell that she was just being so so polite, 0:14:04.880 --> 0:14:07.240 Like the mum was being so polite. Anyway, it would 0:14:07.240 --> 0:14:12.120 have lasted like not long, but in totally maybe four minutes, right, 0:14:12.120 --> 0:14:14.280 but for not long when you just stood there. 0:14:14.800 --> 0:14:18.720 No, I guess I stood there, Flora in life. 0:14:19.520 --> 0:14:23.240 Four minutes of this mum being uncomfortable and like wanting 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:25.280 to get her baby back, and this woman not reading 0:14:25.280 --> 0:14:27.400 between the lines and pretending she's like, ha haha. 0:14:27.200 --> 0:14:28.360 I run away with the baby. 0:14:28.400 --> 0:14:30.040 I don't think you need to be diplomatic if a 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:31.840 woman has come and kidnapped your child. I think you 0:14:31.840 --> 0:14:33.280 can just ask. You don't have to beat around the bulls. 0:14:33.320 --> 0:14:35.280 You can excuse me, give me my child back. I 0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:36.960 don't know who you are, but I think for me. 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:39.640 This was a real example of how sometimes people want 0:14:39.680 --> 0:14:41.880 to be polite not to offend someone. And it wasn't 0:14:41.920 --> 0:14:43.480 until I mean, like I said, it took me a 0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:45.840 little while to even realize what was going on. And 0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:48.800 then once it was I realized what was happening was unfolding, 0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:51.640 I was like, do I interrupt here? Do I say 0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:53.560 something and tell this woman to give the baby back? 0:14:53.760 --> 0:14:53.920