1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: Just before we get started, we'd like to acknowledge and 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: pay respect to Australia's Aboriginal and torrest Rate islander peoples. 3 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: They're the traditional custodians of the lands, the waterways and 4 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 1: the skies all across Australia. We thank you for sharing 5 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 1: and for caring for the land. 6 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:16,639 Speaker 2: On which we are able to learn. 7 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 1: We pay respects to elders past and present, and we 8 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:21,640 Speaker 1: share our friendship and our kindness. 9 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:45,519 Speaker 3: She's on the Money, She's on the Money. Hello, and 10 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 3: welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast for millennials 11 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 3: who want financial freedom. Welcome back to another one of 12 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 3: our shot back Money Diary mondays, where we get to 13 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 3: chat to one of our beautiful community members, learn about them, 14 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 3: their money, their life, and ask all the juicy details 15 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 3: that Victoria Vine you love to know them. 16 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 2: I am so pervy. 17 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:05,480 Speaker 3: Well, let me tell you all about our diarists, so, 18 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 3: she said. My dad is the son of Polish refugees. 19 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 3: I am one of ten children and we grew up 20 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 3: in an overcrowded working class home. I have always had 21 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:16,759 Speaker 3: social justice in my heart. I worked three to four 22 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 3: hospital jobs while studying political science and was the first 23 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 3: of my siblings to earn a degree. In my mid twenties, 24 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 3: I had a daughter in a relationship which has long 25 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 3: since ended. When I was thirty three, my daughter was 26 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 3: six years old, I landed my first CE equivalent role. 27 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 3: The job was a non for profit membership organization of 28 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 3: fifty two thousand and when I left two weeks ago, 29 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 3: it was almost eighty two thousand people strong. It was 30 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 3: my dream job and aligned completely with my values. I 31 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:43,960 Speaker 3: also had taken up roles on a number of different 32 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,039 Speaker 3: boards and have been honing my skills and have a 33 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 3: growing interest in good governance. Five years ago I met 34 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 3: a climate change campaigner who I married and had a 35 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 3: second baby with, and my story continues to grow. 36 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 2: I love this. 37 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 1: How cool you're literally living your own dream. 38 00:01:58,640 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 2: Welcome to the show. 39 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 4: Hi, thanks for having me. 40 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, now, thank you for coming on. I'm 41 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: really excited to hear about your journey. Congrats on being 42 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 1: the first of your siblings to get a degree. 43 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 2: How cool. 44 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,079 Speaker 5: Yeah, well it was really great, but it was because 45 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 5: it was so drummed into us to never accumulate ditch 46 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 5: that no one else wanted to get a student loan. 47 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:20,079 Speaker 1: So oh yeah, that makes so much. Ye, I'll take 48 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 1: it right, Well, you'll take it. 49 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: I love that. 50 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 1: Let's get straight into this because I want to learn 51 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 1: all about you. The first question is can you tell 52 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 1: us a bit more about your money story? 53 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:30,360 Speaker 4: Yeah? Sure. 54 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 5: So I was raised one of the metal children of 55 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 5: ten and a family of twelve, and we grew up 56 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 5: in a neighborhood kind of closely with our grandparents and 57 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 5: some aunties and uncles and so on, and so money 58 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 5: was always really tight in our family. 59 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 4: We had a lot of Vidgy's grown in the backyard. 60 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 5: My mum sowed our clothes and mended them and adjusted 61 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 5: the hand me downs and that sort of stuff. But 62 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 5: it was something my parents kind of argued about a 63 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 5: little bit, and like I. 64 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:56,639 Speaker 4: Said, we were taught dick was a bad thing. 65 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 5: However, I went off and got a student loan right 66 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:02,640 Speaker 5: after all, and my twenties were kind of a mixed 67 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 5: bag of you know, living worth quite low wages, having 68 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:09,080 Speaker 5: my daughter trying to paid down my student loan, et cetera. 69 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 5: And then eventually I worked my way into a senior 70 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 5: role in a kind of four purpose not for profit area, 71 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 5: which is where I always wanted to work. 72 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 4: I always knew I would work for something that related 73 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 4: to my values, whether that was paid or not paid. 74 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 5: And I was very fortunate that that was paid work 75 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 5: because it's allowed me to also have a great time 76 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:29,920 Speaker 5: in my thirties and then now going into my forties 77 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 5: as well. 78 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it sounds like as much as money 79 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 1: was a little bit tight growing up, that sounds really wholesome. 80 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 1: Like I don't know, just the idea that you know, 81 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: you had veggies growing in the backyard and your mum 82 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 1: fixed things. It just sounds like it was a house 83 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: full of love by the way that you are explaining it, 84 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: And obviously everyone can't see your face, but like you 85 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 1: just glowed when you said that. 86 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 2: I was like, how sweet. 87 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 5: And I love my siblings, which is not you know, 88 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 5: something that's always the case in a large family. But yeah, right, upbringing, 89 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 5: I didn't have a lot, but we were happy. 90 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, that is so sweet and I definitely got 91 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 1: that vibe for him when you were explaining it, I 92 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: was like, oh, like, I love this. I wish i'd 93 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 1: don knew then. All right, next question, I want to 94 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 1: know more about your work. What do you do for 95 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 1: work and how much money do you earn? 96 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 5: So I've been an underutilized worker or unemployed for the 97 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 5: last two months. 98 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 4: I left my role back in March. 99 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:24,800 Speaker 5: And I was leading New Zealand's largest trade union at 100 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 5: the time, WOW, which was a great honor. It was 101 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 5: amazing to work with such an incredible bunch of people. 102 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 5: And like I said, it was a dream job. Just 103 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:34,159 Speaker 5: a job you can't really do forever, I would say. 104 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:37,039 Speaker 5: And I had set myself a seven year goal and 105 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:38,839 Speaker 5: I reached about seven and a half years. 106 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 4: I didn't anticipate COVID. 107 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 5: That made it a little bit harder, but I was 108 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:45,600 Speaker 5: earning when I left one hundred and seventy thousand dollars 109 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 5: for annim WOW. Which I've got to say, it feels 110 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 5: very uncomfortable still for me to say out loud. I 111 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 5: know that guilt about your own income. It doesn't remedy 112 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 5: the inequalities and hero and capitalism and stuff like that. 113 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:03,720 Speaker 5: But it's difficult to say that knowing how much other 114 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 5: people are struggling, especially right now. 115 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, but there it is. 116 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: I totally get that. But I also look at it 117 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 1: and go, well, your role was so impactful. That's absolutely 118 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 1: worth it. And the time and the energy and the 119 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 1: effort you put into it. I think there's a lot 120 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: of guilt, but it's more because there's a level of 121 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: comparison that you're drawing when you look at that, instead 122 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 1: of looking at your own achievement where you're at. I 123 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:28,480 Speaker 1: think that when it comes to our own salaries really 124 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:31,040 Speaker 1: shouldn't be comparing it. We should just be looking at 125 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 1: our own situations and what that means for us, and 126 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: how that means that you can pour from an even 127 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 1: more full cup. Right, Like, you're only able to do 128 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 1: what you can do because you can look after your 129 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 1: kids and look after your world. And I don't know, 130 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: I feel like you deserve every cent of that. So 131 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 1: I hate hearing that You're like, oh, but other people 132 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 1: are doing badly. I'm like, yeah, that's why you do 133 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 1: what you do, my love, that's why you're working in 134 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:57,039 Speaker 1: that industry, so you can change the world. 135 00:05:57,240 --> 00:06:00,080 Speaker 4: To lift all the boats, you know, with your fide rises. 136 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:04,040 Speaker 2: Exactly, exactly, all right. I want to know what is 137 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 2: your big money goal. 138 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 5: I would have called this a lifestyle goal, but of 139 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:10,359 Speaker 5: course I need money to do it. So when I 140 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:12,719 Speaker 5: think of myself in twenty years time, in my six days, 141 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 5: I want to work half of the year. I want 142 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 5: to be obviously mortgage free, but I'd like to work 143 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 5: six months of the year and then spend the other 144 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 5: six months volunteering or doing some sort of passion project 145 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 5: or visiting the grandchildren. 146 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 4: I hope I'll have. 147 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 5: Or you know, just traveling to meet friends overseas, you know, 148 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 5: if that ever happens again. I don't want to have 149 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 5: to work every day all day, and I want to 150 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:38,919 Speaker 5: enjoy my health while I have it. 151 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that. How are you working towards that 152 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 1: at the moment? 153 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,160 Speaker 5: Well, I mean I'm pain obviously more than I have 154 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 5: to off my mortgage, and it's sort of chipping away 155 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 5: at it to help us to get mortgage free and 156 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 5: maintaining our physical and mental health as well, so that 157 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:58,159 Speaker 5: we can play the long game. Because when you do 158 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 5: work in kind of for purpose spaces and your activists, 159 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:04,359 Speaker 5: that can be quite easy to kind of work. 160 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 4: Yourself until you burn out. 161 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, and so I think taking you know, being a 162 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 5: bit more mature about our approach to say hour, I mean, 163 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 5: mine and my husband, we're both in the space to 164 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 5: sort of focus on, yeah, twenty years from now rather 165 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 5: than next week. 166 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: I think that's really smart because people who are in 167 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 1: these spaces are so wildly driven and it ends up 168 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 1: being to their own demise because you burn yourself out. 169 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 1: You need to make sure that you are looking after 170 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 1: you so that you can look after the world. 171 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 2: I love it. 172 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: I feel like your mindset around that is so important. 173 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 1: Next question I have do you have any investments? If so, 174 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 1: what are they? 175 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 5: Yes, it currently have twenty thousand dollars in a managed fund. 176 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 5: I did have more last year, but when I planned 177 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 5: to take a year off work, we kind of reconfigured 178 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 5: stuff when we could see that interest rates would be rising, 179 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 5: and like I said, we're focusing on paying down the mortgage, 180 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 5: so we took some of our investments and paid that 181 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 5: down off the mortgage. So I'm interested in what you 182 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 5: have to say about that, whether there was a good 183 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 5: decision or not. But it could make me feel a 184 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 5: little bit more comfortable about then stepping out of paid 185 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 5: work for it. 186 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 1: For there, I feel like that's an important decision that 187 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 1: you made that was in line with making you feel comfortable, 188 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 1: and just the financial side of things doesn't make it 189 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 1: the right decision. 190 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 2: A lot of people always like what's the best. 191 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 1: Outcome or what's the best investment Victoria, and it's like, well, 192 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 1: it's actually very easy to work out what the best 193 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 1: quote performing asset is because you can look up historical 194 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:35,679 Speaker 1: performance and you can see what that might look like. 195 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 1: But that doesn't mean that for your situation, that's the 196 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 1: right asset or the right decision to make sure that 197 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 1: you're comfortable and thriving and doing everything that you want 198 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 1: to do to achieve your goals. And that's where it's 199 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 1: so hard to go, well, I don't know if that 200 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 1: was the right decision, but if you're really excited about 201 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 1: it, it made you feel super comfortable and now you're doing 202 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 1: what you said you were going to do. Like, that's 203 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 1: not a bad decision, is it. 204 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 4: No? Yes? 205 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: Sorry, Sorry about the personal finance twist there, but it's 206 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 1: one of those things. I don't know your entire personal 207 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 1: financial situation. I am endeavoring to learn more on this 208 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 1: episode of Money Darries. I promise we will dive a 209 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 1: lot deeper than I would on a Facebook post in 210 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:15,680 Speaker 1: our group. But it's really important to understand that if 211 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 1: that's the thing that made you super comfortable with taking 212 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 1: a year off, then arguably that was the best decision 213 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 1: for you. 214 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, because also not working, I wouldn't be contributing as 215 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 5: much to the fund. So I just sort of thought 216 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 5: if we had to refix at a high mortgage rate, 217 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 5: and I'm not feeding my investments, and maybe that's just 218 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 5: something I can sort of sit and forget for the year. 219 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:39,600 Speaker 5: I don't know, I'll poke it back up when I'm 220 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:40,720 Speaker 5: in paid employment. 221 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that is absolutely fair. All right. 222 00:09:43,720 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 1: Next question, you mentioned a mortgage. The answer is yes, 223 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 1: but do you have any debts? If so, what are they? 224 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 4: Yeah? 225 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 5: So currently three hundred and fifty thousand dollars mortgages. 226 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 2: Yep, that's a house. 227 00:09:57,480 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 1: No credit card, no credit cards, no student, don't loan anymore. 228 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 4: No go rid of bit when I was thirty two. 229 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, how cool. All right? 230 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:10,160 Speaker 1: Next question, I know you're over in New Zealand, you're 231 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 1: across the ditch, but do you shot back? 232 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 4: No? I don't think we can you shot back over here. 233 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 2: We'll rally for it. 234 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 5: I do know of an app over here called Bennie, 235 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 5: which is a similar idea to shop back, but it 236 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 5: has an obligatory portion of it goes to a charity. Oh, 237 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 5: co nominate your charity and so you can sort of 238 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 5: accumulate your little fund of savings. 239 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:34,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, that is cool. 240 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, so it's called Bennie and they're just starting out. 241 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 5: But I really like the idea of the ethos behind it. 242 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:42,079 Speaker 4: Yeah. I'm not much of an online shopper. 243 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, how cool. 244 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 1: All right, next question, I feel like you probably have 245 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 1: a couple of these. What is your best money habit? 246 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 5: Oh, I have to say it's that I'm a saver, 247 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 5: you know, it's just boring. 248 00:10:57,559 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 4: I've been saving for either. 249 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 5: I do want to say though, that when I was 250 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:03,840 Speaker 5: in my minimum waged work, I wasn't supporting another human beings, 251 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 5: it was a little bit easier. 252 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 4: But I've always put. 253 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 5: Aside money, even when I was in hospitality work. And 254 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:12,079 Speaker 5: occasionally it's been a bit rough and I haven't been 255 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 5: able to, but as my income's crept up or jumped up, 256 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 5: as it has over my life, I've tried to put 257 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:21,959 Speaker 5: it away more so that I'm ahead of the kind 258 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 5: of lifestyle creep. 259 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 4: Yeah. 260 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:26,320 Speaker 5: So I've always been putting into superannuation, a little bit 261 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 5: of investments, as you know, and a savings account if 262 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:30,079 Speaker 5: I can. 263 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 2: So, Yeah, where did that come from? 264 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 1: How did you know when you were younger that that 265 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:39,200 Speaker 1: was a priority because so many of us just don't 266 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 1: have that level of financial literacy to go, this is important, 267 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 1: and we end up just spending everything that comes into 268 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 1: our accounts. Like, where do you think that came from? 269 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 5: I think it really did come from that hard message 270 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:52,240 Speaker 5: from my parents that you should never get into get 271 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 5: if you can help it, that if you. 272 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 4: Want something, you should pay for it outright. 273 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:56,320 Speaker 5: And then the first thing I ever wanted to do 274 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:58,679 Speaker 5: was to travel overseas as a teenager. 275 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 4: So it's not something you can hire purchase, right. I 276 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 4: had to save up. 277 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:04,559 Speaker 5: My money and pay for that ticket, and I just 278 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 5: sort of got into the habit of if I wanted something, 279 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:09,200 Speaker 5: I would save for it and I would make it 280 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 5: happen that way. So it is a bit weird because 281 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:14,720 Speaker 5: when I started retirement savings, it was before there was 282 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 5: a compulsory superannuation scheme in New Zealand. So I kind 283 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:20,680 Speaker 5: of thank my younger self a little bit for having 284 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 5: the foresight to go, Okay, I'm in a job, I 285 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 5: should be putting something away for when I'm in my sixties, 286 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 5: because that's not I think what most teenagers are. 287 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 2: No, absolutely not, that's why. I'm like, where is this 288 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 2: coming from? Because that's actually crazy. 289 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 1: Smart, but not something that a lot of us do 290 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:40,679 Speaker 1: or even prioritize, because even I know when I was 291 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 1: first working, there's no chance, like you could have told 292 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:46,679 Speaker 1: me exactly what it was. And we're in Australia, so 293 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 1: superannuation from my entire career has been compulsory. And I 294 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:52,200 Speaker 1: still was like, that's waste money. I don't know why 295 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 1: we're doing that. 296 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:53,679 Speaker 2: That's joke. 297 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:56,199 Speaker 1: And now I'm like, you put more in your super, 298 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: my friend, you get it. So I think it's really 299 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:02,079 Speaker 1: important to talk about these things because it's funny when 300 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 1: we compare ourselves to people like you Money direst. We'll go, well, 301 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 1: she's doing so well. We're like, well, that's of course 302 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:09,839 Speaker 1: you started so long ago. And you said, oh, it's 303 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:12,560 Speaker 1: pretty boring. I'm just a really good saver. Like, yes, 304 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 1: that's the best part of financial literacy. It can be 305 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 1: really boring. There's no like magic wand or super exciting 306 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 1: outcome that we have to discover. It's actually just a 307 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: spend less than you earn and save regularly and consistently 308 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 1: and think about investing and talk about super or talk 309 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:33,599 Speaker 1: about keyway saver or talk about whatever is going to 310 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 1: put you in the best possible position, and people. 311 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 2: Like that can't be it. No, no, no, no, sit down. 312 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 2: That's all we've got. 313 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: So it is really exciting when you talk about it 314 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 1: and people are it's boring. I'm like, no, no, actually 315 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 1: that's the answer, Like that's perfect. Let's flip this though, 316 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 1: what's your worst money have it? 317 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 4: Okay? 318 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 5: So I thought of two. In case you roll my 319 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 5: first one out of order, I pull you out. 320 00:13:55,880 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 4: My first one is that I'm not a risk taker. 321 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 5: And this kind of goes to the whole boring plotting 322 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 5: along saving, you know, dollar after dollar thing, which you know, 323 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 5: was how I got into my first property and all 324 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:08,679 Speaker 5: of that sort of stuff. But when I think back 325 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 5: to saving for my superannuation, as you know, in my 326 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:16,200 Speaker 5: early twenties, I was still going for like kind of 327 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 5: balanced investments instead of and now I look back and 328 00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 5: I think that's the one time in my life I 329 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:23,560 Speaker 5: could have been a little less risk averse, you know, 330 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 5: I mean, maybe then I wouldn't have had as much 331 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 5: when I withdrew it to pay for my first property, 332 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:30,120 Speaker 5: you know, the deposit on my first property. 333 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 4: But I don't know. I just there are a few. 334 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 5: Decisions I've made over time that I look back on 335 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 5: and think, maybe I could have been a little bit 336 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 5: more you know, risk taking. I almost bought a studio 337 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 5: apartment straight out of university that was going cheap in 338 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 5: my neighborhood. I was a single woman and my first 339 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 5: you know, full time job, and I talked to myself 340 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 5: out of that going. I know, I will never resell 341 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 5: a studio apartment. It's too small. You know, it's on 342 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 5: a main. 343 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 4: Road, blah blah blah. And of course, you know the 344 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 4: way that Auckland. 345 00:14:57,680 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 2: Property, no property would have been. 346 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 1: Like a studio apartments basically all people can afford now 347 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:06,840 Speaker 1: in Auckland, So that makes sense. 348 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, it would have been a great investment for me 349 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 5: at that time and a place to live. Of course, 350 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 5: I had some dodgy flat mates been there. Made a 351 00:15:14,880 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 5: bad decision, but yeah, so I mean maybe I could 352 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 5: have taken a few more risks. 353 00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 1: I find that super interesting as well, because hindsight's twenty twenty. 354 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 1: Imagine if the flip happened and you were like, I'm 355 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 1: so glad that I was really risk averse because it 356 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 1: saved my butt. If something bad had happened in the 357 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:34,440 Speaker 1: economy financially, Like, I just think that you would have 358 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 1: been really grateful for that. So I think that looking 359 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 1: back at past decisions that we've made, it doesn't help us, 360 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 1: but it means that you can actually look at it 361 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 1: now and go, how does this shape the decisions I 362 00:15:44,560 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 1: make tomorrow or the decisions I make for future me 363 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 1: Because I think too many times we reprimand past selves 364 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 1: by being like, oh, I could have just been more risky, 365 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 1: or I could have done that better, or I wish 366 00:15:55,360 --> 00:15:57,800 Speaker 1: I just saved more. Like I think we all look 367 00:15:57,840 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 1: at it like I look at it. Sometimes I'm like, 368 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:02,440 Speaker 1: I wish that I just wasn't an idiot with my 369 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 1: money in right, I just wish I made good decisions. 370 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 1: But you do what you can with the tools and 371 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 1: resources that you had at the time. And I'm so 372 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:15,600 Speaker 1: beyond impressed that you even thinking about retirement while you 373 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 1: were working in your hospital job and at UNI, Like, 374 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 1: absolutely not on my radar. So you're miles ahead of 375 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 1: me in when it comes to mindset next question, because 376 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: I do want to deep dive into that dodgy flatmate 377 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 1: you had and how that impacted you financially. But I 378 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 1: want to ask you, what grade would you give yourself 379 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 1: if you were forced to give your money habits? 380 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 2: A grade A B. 381 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 5: Why Well, I think I'm fairly literate and good at 382 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 5: managing my own finances. 383 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:47,480 Speaker 4: But I think it's about you know, you don't know 384 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 4: what you don't know. 385 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 5: But when I go to board meetings, I print out 386 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 5: the financials and I read them three times and I 387 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 5: put knots on the margins and I have to go 388 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 5: through it carefully. And I'll get into these meetings and 389 00:16:57,320 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 5: there'll be people who can just read financial reports and 390 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 5: see the trends like it's spot stuff, like it's nothing, 391 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:05,520 Speaker 5: and it's like it's natural to them. 392 00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 4: It's not natural to me. 393 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 5: So I know that there's a lot for me to learn, 394 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:11,919 Speaker 5: which is why I listen to your podcasts, and so 395 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:16,359 Speaker 5: I think there's always room to grow and learn. 396 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:18,680 Speaker 4: So I would say a BEE because there's a room 397 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 4: for improvement. 398 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 1: I love that, and I love that You're like, I 399 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 1: don't understand why people are just natural at this. This 400 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:27,720 Speaker 1: is so rude, but you're there going, you know what, 401 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 1: I'm going to pour over this and really get it. 402 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 2: And that's just tenacity. That a lot of people lack. 403 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 1: My friend, I have a lot of questions for you 404 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:38,679 Speaker 1: after we go to this quick break. Yeah, up, next on, 405 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 1: she's on the board meeting. All right, let's get back 406 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 1: to it. I want to understand a little bit more 407 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 1: about the imposter syndrome that you seem to be suffering from, 408 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 1: because you are fierce, you are so wildly passionate about 409 00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:59,600 Speaker 1: what you do, You're on boards, you are so impressive, 410 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:01,679 Speaker 1: and you're sitting in a room of people who are 411 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 1: arguably being paid exactly what you're being paid, or very 412 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 1: similar because these things in your industry are quite quite 413 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:12,200 Speaker 1: set out. From my understanding, where's this imposter syndrome come from? 414 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:14,359 Speaker 1: And why are you still struggling with it when you 415 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:15,640 Speaker 1: are so wildly powerful? 416 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 4: Hey, that's a very frank question. 417 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:19,639 Speaker 2: Thanks, I'm very frank. 418 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 4: Sorry, No, no, it's a great question. 419 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:24,560 Speaker 5: So for all of us, whether where work can they're 420 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:28,119 Speaker 5: not for profit space or in the private sector or wherever. 421 00:18:28,359 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 5: You know, every room of decision making has come from 422 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:37,199 Speaker 5: a kind of patriarchal, colonial background, right, so the composition 423 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:39,159 Speaker 5: of that room will probably not look like you, r I. 424 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 5: They probably won't have refugee backgrounds. They may not have 425 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:46,159 Speaker 5: brown skin, they're probably not woman, and so that feeling 426 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 5: of never seeing yourself and the spaces can make it 427 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,359 Speaker 5: a bit of an awkward space to enter and to 428 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 5: stay in. And I think that we have to together 429 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:56,679 Speaker 5: support each other to either pull up a chair to 430 00:18:56,720 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 5: those tables or to get somebody to give up their 431 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:03,359 Speaker 5: chair for the voices that aren't in the room, because 432 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:06,640 Speaker 5: if we don't change that composition, we will just continue 433 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 5: to have people feel like outsiders into the future as well. 434 00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 4: So, yeah, if I'm. 435 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 5: Showing you I have a bit of imposter syndrome, maybe 436 00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 5: it's because when I started in my first equivalent role, 437 00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 5: I was a thirty three year old woman, and a 438 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:22,679 Speaker 5: lot was made of my youth in particular, but probably 439 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:25,440 Speaker 5: my gender as well. And I certainly had a unique background, 440 00:19:25,480 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 5: so there weren't others like me, and. 441 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 4: I was aware that I wasn't fitting the mold. 442 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:32,560 Speaker 5: And I really hope that what I've done over the 443 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 5: years in those spaces is to try to normalize having 444 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:39,880 Speaker 5: new voices and new ways of thinking, and new ideas 445 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 5: and new ways. 446 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:42,119 Speaker 4: Of expressing your thoughts as well. 447 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 5: Coming up in those decision making forums, I hope that 448 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 5: makes sense. 449 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, it does. 450 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 3: Have you seen that shift over the time that you've 451 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 3: worked in their space, because obviously as a society, we've 452 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:56,040 Speaker 3: definitely shifted to be more vocal about the need for 453 00:19:56,119 --> 00:20:00,400 Speaker 3: diversity across all industries and the need for representation can 454 00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:02,680 Speaker 3: see themselves in those rooms and can get a seat 455 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:06,199 Speaker 3: at the table. Have you seen any change happen in 456 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:07,760 Speaker 3: the time that you've worked in this space. 457 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:09,040 Speaker 4: Yeah? Absolutely. 458 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:11,440 Speaker 5: I mean in the Union movement where I was working, 459 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 5: there were some very deliberate changes and constitutional changes being 460 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:17,880 Speaker 5: made within organizations to make sure that we could never 461 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:20,200 Speaker 5: have a lack of diversity again, which is kind of 462 00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:24,199 Speaker 5: impressive to see. But there are still other kind of 463 00:20:24,560 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 5: you know boards where it's still very dominated by men, 464 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:34,120 Speaker 5: older men, and men who are from European backgrounds. So 465 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:36,880 Speaker 5: it's a mixed bag. I'll say, there's some really good 466 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:38,400 Speaker 5: advances being made, and. 467 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 4: I have to say that even though I want to get. 468 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:42,680 Speaker 5: Into that governance space a lot more and I really 469 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 5: do love it, and I say importance of good governance. 470 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 5: I think everybody who goes onto that space needs to 471 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:49,919 Speaker 5: ask themselves, if I get that seat, who am I 472 00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:53,480 Speaker 5: getting it in spite of what other voices, maybe even 473 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:55,400 Speaker 5: more marginalized, aren't going to be heard if I pick 474 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 5: that set up. And unfortunately, I think there are certain 475 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:03,440 Speaker 5: people who aren't really born or have not accrued that 476 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 5: mindset over their lifetime, who sort of feel more entitled 477 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:07,440 Speaker 5: to that space. 478 00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:08,919 Speaker 4: And that's still the case. 479 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:10,800 Speaker 5: In ol Tito, in New Zealand, it's probably as well 480 00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 5: as Australia, i'd expect. 481 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:13,480 Speaker 2: I agree. 482 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 1: I sit on a board as well, and this is 483 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:19,720 Speaker 1: a conversation that we as a board have all the time. 484 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:22,240 Speaker 1: I sit on a board for a charity called TLC 485 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 1: for Kids and I'm their treasurer. So I talk about 486 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:27,399 Speaker 1: the financials all the time. And just to let you know, 487 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:29,719 Speaker 1: it's not that easy. You're right, like you do have 488 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 1: to pour over the financials to like pull out the 489 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 1: story and see what's going on the people. Honestly, I 490 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,240 Speaker 1: don't know between you and I the people that just 491 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:40,399 Speaker 1: get it. I'm like, no, you researched this before you 492 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 1: came into the room, Like there's no way, there's no 493 00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:44,880 Speaker 1: way that you just saw that story and the financials, 494 00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:46,679 Speaker 1: Like I had to spend two and a half hours 495 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:49,240 Speaker 1: looking at these to pull that out, there's no way they. 496 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:52,360 Speaker 4: Just it makes me feel so good to know that. 497 00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:56,080 Speaker 1: Nope, nope, I have to literally pour over the financials 498 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,760 Speaker 1: and you can obviously see just really clear things. 499 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 2: Right, you can be like loss impressive. 500 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 1: But when you're trying to drag out the story and go, Okay, 501 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 1: well what does this mean and how has this been 502 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:08,600 Speaker 1: flowing and how long has this been happening and what 503 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 1: are the impacts? Like we've been doing a lot of 504 00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:13,960 Speaker 1: impact research on what does this mean for our charity 505 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: having gone through COVID and we've been supported a little 506 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 1: bit through having job keeper and things like that, but 507 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: what are the actual impacts and what can we see 508 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,440 Speaker 1: them becoming? Like that takes a lot more time than 509 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 1: just having a quick look at the P and L. 510 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 1: Anyway back to this, I feel like boards aren't often 511 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 1: discussed in our community, and when they are, it's about 512 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 1: gender diversity. But let's step back a little bit because 513 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:40,120 Speaker 1: this is a really important conversation, or I believe it's 514 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:45,200 Speaker 1: a really important conversation. Let's define money diarist, what's the 515 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 1: purpose of a board, Like, let's share with us she's 516 00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,400 Speaker 1: on the money community exactly what that means. And then 517 00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:53,679 Speaker 1: exactly why diversity is so important on a board. 518 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:56,960 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, So the board is at a high level 519 00:22:57,160 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 5: checking that the organization has everything in order for that 520 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:04,760 Speaker 5: organization to fulfill its purpose. So the purpose is normally 521 00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,359 Speaker 5: set out and like a constitution if it's not for 522 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:11,160 Speaker 5: proper or in some kind of strategy somewhere, if it's 523 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 5: for profit, and the board is tasked with making sure 524 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 5: that the money, the decisions, that everything is geared to 525 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:20,359 Speaker 5: make that happen. 526 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,960 Speaker 1: And there's a lot of responsibility with a board. It's 527 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 1: not just a room full of floody duddies who just 528 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:29,159 Speaker 1: talk about the business stuff filters down from the board. 529 00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 1: And I genuinely believe that the dynamic of a board, 530 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:34,119 Speaker 1: and I'm sure you're the same is what impacts the 531 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:36,919 Speaker 1: culture of an organization and the way that they step 532 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 1: forward and actually lead change. So from my perspective, having diversity, 533 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:46,399 Speaker 1: having different voices, having different people in that board means 534 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 1: that everything is going to be taken into consideration. 535 00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:51,920 Speaker 2: And I think it's it's you know, like my opinion 536 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:53,639 Speaker 2: on the Minister for Disability. 537 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,919 Speaker 1: I genuinely believe that Minister should have a disability Like 538 00:23:57,000 --> 00:24:01,480 Speaker 1: you need to understand that circumstance deeply to bring to 539 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:05,439 Speaker 1: the table things that can facilitate good and solid and 540 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:09,439 Speaker 1: sustainable change. And you know, as we see, you know 541 00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 1: in Australia and obviously in New Zealand. 542 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:13,520 Speaker 2: We are making changes. 543 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:16,040 Speaker 1: But what do you think that we can do as 544 00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:19,480 Speaker 1: a community to demand that that is taken more seriously? 545 00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:22,240 Speaker 1: Because board roles are often quite you know, don't want 546 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:25,160 Speaker 1: to use the word elitist, but they often are. How 547 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 1: do we, you know, as the shees on the money 548 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 1: community support that change positively because we know how much 549 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:31,600 Speaker 1: of an impact it can have. 550 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,639 Speaker 5: I think that's a really good point to raise up 551 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:37,719 Speaker 5: in these discussions that you're having and with your audience. 552 00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:39,879 Speaker 5: I mean, first of all, on the point you made 553 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:43,359 Speaker 5: about culture, I think that's so important. And if the 554 00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:47,240 Speaker 5: culture is if it's a monoculture, that's going to sense 555 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:50,880 Speaker 5: you know, reports throughout the organization as well and sort 556 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:53,639 Speaker 5: of reinforce that idea about what a decision maker looks like, 557 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,960 Speaker 5: if you know what I mean. So yeah, board positions 558 00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 5: are of course quite tightly held. I fell into a 559 00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:01,119 Speaker 5: few by virtue of them, position that I held for 560 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:04,080 Speaker 5: my day job, you know, So it was because of 561 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 5: that that I was asked to participate in different things. However, 562 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 5: I then kind of expanded because I wanted to learn 563 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:13,480 Speaker 5: how different organizations worked. I think there are In New 564 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 5: Zealand we have groups like the Institute of Directors where 565 00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:18,199 Speaker 5: you can pick up training and you can learn some 566 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 5: governance skills. I know that the ACTU in Australia does 567 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 5: some really great governance training and resources for at least unions, 568 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:27,240 Speaker 5: but there must be other places that you can go 569 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:32,639 Speaker 5: to for training and even starting out. I want to 570 00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 5: say small, but it is really significant stuff. It's usually 571 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 5: the unpaid board roles. Like in New Zealand we have 572 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:41,760 Speaker 5: boards associated with our schools, with boards associated with sports 573 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,359 Speaker 5: clubs and so on. There might be other parts of 574 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:48,440 Speaker 5: your community that people can just start practicing and learning 575 00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:51,439 Speaker 5: and watching what it's like. And often they're desperate for 576 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:55,000 Speaker 5: volunteers as well, because these aren't roles that people necessarily want. 577 00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 4: Because maybe those first roles aren't paid roles. 578 00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, absolutely, but I do think they're still with and 579 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:04,440 Speaker 5: you'll learn from operating on boards with other more experienced 580 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:09,000 Speaker 5: governors as well or directors, and yeah. 581 00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:09,440 Speaker 4: Soak it up. 582 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 5: And the other point I wanted to make because I 583 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:13,320 Speaker 5: think I gave the you know, the white men I 584 00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:16,520 Speaker 5: had time before is that some of my best mentors 585 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:18,960 Speaker 5: have been white men, and that's exactly what's happened. I've 586 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,280 Speaker 5: got to sit around tables with them and watch and 587 00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 5: learn and ask questions of them outside the room if 588 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,119 Speaker 5: I think they're too stupid to say across the table. 589 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:30,239 Speaker 5: And I've been really grateful for that kind of you know, 590 00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:33,239 Speaker 5: confidence and mentorship that they've given me. 591 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:35,720 Speaker 1: And I think that that's important as well, because I'm 592 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 1: exactly the same, Like I work in financial services, like 593 00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 1: it's all white men. I went to a conference the 594 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 1: other day and I was sitting around a bad room 595 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 1: table and I kind of just put my head in 596 00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 1: my hand and I was like, oh my gosh, like 597 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:50,440 Speaker 1: this is everything that I. 598 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:51,639 Speaker 2: Tell my community. 599 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,720 Speaker 1: I dislike I was the only woman in the room 600 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 1: who was a financial advisor, and I was just so 601 00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:01,960 Speaker 1: shocked that that was circumstance. But then I reframed my 602 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,359 Speaker 1: thinking and I was like, actually, all these people champion me, 603 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 1: all these people have my back, all these people want 604 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,520 Speaker 1: to see me flourish. All these people want diversity and inclusion, 605 00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 1: and they understand the difference between equality and equity, and 606 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:17,040 Speaker 1: that's so important, and I think too many times we 607 00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:21,200 Speaker 1: give you know, white men a really hard time when 608 00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,680 Speaker 1: so many of them want to champion us and push 609 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:26,880 Speaker 1: us forward. So I think it's about embracing that change, 610 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 1: not crucifying what exists, because what exists has always been 611 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:33,119 Speaker 1: for the greater good as well. 612 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:34,680 Speaker 2: We just can do better. 613 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:38,160 Speaker 1: We now know that diversity is incredibly important. It always 614 00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,959 Speaker 1: has been, but it's never been embraced, and now it is. 615 00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 1: I think we have a job to make sure that 616 00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:45,960 Speaker 1: that happens. And I think so many of these people 617 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:49,199 Speaker 1: on boards see that as well. I've had conversations with 618 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:51,040 Speaker 1: people being like, if someone came along and they were 619 00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:53,200 Speaker 1: better suited for my position, I would give it up. 620 00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 2: In a heartbeat. 621 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:56,800 Speaker 1: And I think that that's so powerful because often you 622 00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 1: think of board members as people who are there because 623 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 1: it's the power trip, and some people are there for 624 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,359 Speaker 1: that reason, and that's absolutely the wrong reason to be 625 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:08,000 Speaker 1: on a board. So I think that you're right embracing 626 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:11,240 Speaker 1: it's really important, and I think asking questions of businesses 627 00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,919 Speaker 1: to make sure that you know their boards are inclusive 628 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:17,240 Speaker 1: and diverse in when they're not asking why that's the case, 629 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 1: because it could be for exactly the same reason as 630 00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 1: the conference. 631 00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:22,120 Speaker 2: I was at the other day. 632 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:25,359 Speaker 1: It's that that is what the industry is saturated with, 633 00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:28,879 Speaker 1: and there are so few female voices that all of 634 00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:31,439 Speaker 1: us are jumping up and down about it. But we 635 00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:33,919 Speaker 1: need the other roles to be filled too, So I 636 00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,160 Speaker 1: think it's important to not just crucify and go, oh 637 00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:38,520 Speaker 1: my gosh, I cannot believe they don't have a fifty 638 00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 1: percent female board, Like, let's understand why that's the case 639 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,959 Speaker 1: first before crucifying it, and then if there's good reason 640 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:47,640 Speaker 1: understanding that, and how do we move forward? 641 00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:49,719 Speaker 5: Can I too, you that a few head listeners who 642 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:53,479 Speaker 5: are on board and that example you just gave, you know, 643 00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 5: where there aren't other men about and in a space 644 00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:00,400 Speaker 5: opens up and we get another woman or or somebody 645 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 5: who's voice hasn't been heard there to make sure that 646 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 5: they feel supported and I'm mentored as well by you, 647 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 5: because that's been something I found a little bit difficult 648 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 5: over time, because there was always the young one in 649 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:14,760 Speaker 5: the room is realizing that in some spaces, I've got 650 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:17,240 Speaker 5: more knowledge than others and can act to better mentor 651 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:20,160 Speaker 5: and help other people feel comfortable, and that's how you 652 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:21,600 Speaker 5: kind of keep. 653 00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,840 Speaker 4: The ladder down and keep pulling everyone up. 654 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so important. 655 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:29,800 Speaker 1: I could talk about mentoring for ages, and I will 656 00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:32,280 Speaker 1: talk about mentoring on the podcast at some point because 657 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 1: just like you, I went to use your name, Money Diarrest. 658 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:38,400 Speaker 1: Just like you, I'm a very firm believer that mentoring 659 00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:41,240 Speaker 1: isn't about age or tenure. It's actually about skill sharing 660 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 1: and if you've got a skill, then you can be 661 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 1: a mentor. Like it's absolutely not about how old you are. 662 00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:50,120 Speaker 1: In fact, I've learned so much, especially in my online business, 663 00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 1: from people who are significantly younger than me, and it 664 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,920 Speaker 1: humbles me every day exactly. But I think that this 665 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,480 Speaker 1: has been a really powerful chat. Definitely hasn't gone down 666 00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:02,000 Speaker 1: the route that I thought it Money Diarist, but I'm 667 00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 1: really grateful for it because I feel like these are 668 00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:06,960 Speaker 1: the conversations I want to be having with our community 669 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:09,959 Speaker 1: so that they understand that roles like yours exist and 670 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 1: what that does and how that works, and how important 671 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 1: it is for companies to have a board of governance 672 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:17,680 Speaker 1: to make sure that companies are doing the right thing, 673 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:21,280 Speaker 1: because ultimately it's for you, like it's for the community, 674 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,040 Speaker 1: like it's to keep you safe and secure and happy, 675 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:27,800 Speaker 1: and yeah, I'm just I'm really passionate about this area. 676 00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:29,480 Speaker 2: So I'm glad we got to have this chat before 677 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:29,760 Speaker 2: we go. 678 00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 3: I just wanted to ask you mentioned that your last 679 00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:35,440 Speaker 3: role was your dream role, and obviously you've stepped away 680 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:35,760 Speaker 3: from that. 681 00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,040 Speaker 2: What's your plan going forward? 682 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 3: Are you planning on taking a bit of a significant 683 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,200 Speaker 3: leave of absence. Are you setting yourself up to kind 684 00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:45,760 Speaker 3: of do that hybrid six month in six month out? 685 00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:47,280 Speaker 3: What are you looking to do now? 686 00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:49,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, the six month and six month out was 687 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:53,000 Speaker 5: longer time plan for twenty years or so. I think 688 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,480 Speaker 5: I will have to get back into full time work. 689 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,680 Speaker 5: It's some sage or will want to. My son's three, 690 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 5: and he's had health issues over his life so far, 691 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 5: short life, so I'm really happy to take the rest 692 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,600 Speaker 5: of the year. So I planned from March till November 693 00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:09,600 Speaker 5: without work and just to sort of take that time 694 00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:12,480 Speaker 5: to figure out what to do next and just feel 695 00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:15,240 Speaker 5: so just so happy that I'm in the position to 696 00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,000 Speaker 5: be able to do that. You know, it's a bit 697 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:18,840 Speaker 5: of a dream just to say I'm going to take 698 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,480 Speaker 5: some time out and sit back and see what comes 699 00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 5: or what drives me after that. 700 00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:25,600 Speaker 4: But every day is a bit different. 701 00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:27,360 Speaker 5: At the moment, I know it's going to be something 702 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:30,240 Speaker 5: that relates to social justice, and that is for the 703 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:34,560 Speaker 5: good of the environment, for women, for people, and for 704 00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:38,680 Speaker 5: economic justice. Probably, I know that that's what drives me. However, 705 00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,400 Speaker 5: what shape or format takes, I don't know. I work 706 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:42,960 Speaker 5: up a few days ago and decided I wanted to 707 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 5: go to. 708 00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:45,000 Speaker 2: Med school, so oh my god. 709 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,600 Speaker 5: I mean, you know, I dismissed that after I realized 710 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:50,160 Speaker 5: I'd be like fifty by the time I was in 711 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 5: general practice. 712 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:55,040 Speaker 2: So that's that's all right, No such things too late. 713 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:56,960 Speaker 4: I'm just having some wild ideas about what I'm not 714 00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:57,760 Speaker 4: doing next secually. 715 00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,120 Speaker 3: To be honest, the world is your oyster, though, and 716 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:02,560 Speaker 3: I think that that's something that's really good to see, 717 00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:05,360 Speaker 3: is being like, there's not an age limit on deciding 718 00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:07,160 Speaker 3: that you want to change your path. You could be 719 00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:09,160 Speaker 3: seventy years old and go, oh, actually I want to 720 00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:11,360 Speaker 3: learn a new skill or I want to try something different, 721 00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 3: and we get really set. I think in the idea 722 00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:16,520 Speaker 3: that your career path is direct and linear, and I 723 00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:18,920 Speaker 3: know for me personally that hasn't been the case at all, 724 00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:21,520 Speaker 3: And I think it's really refreshing to be like, oh 725 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:22,800 Speaker 3: my god, I woke up one day and I wanted 726 00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,360 Speaker 3: to do this thing and that's valid, Like that's not 727 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 3: a whim. Maybe it just means that you've awoken a 728 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 3: passion that you hadn't recognized before, and now that you 729 00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,120 Speaker 3: know that it's there, why not pursue it? 730 00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 2: Why not? 731 00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:36,800 Speaker 5: H thank you, thank you for not saying it's my 732 00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 5: midlife crisis. 733 00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:38,120 Speaker 4: No. 734 00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:44,280 Speaker 1: No, I think that it's interesting as well, because you 735 00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:46,600 Speaker 1: were probably looking at that and going all right, well 736 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:49,840 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be in practice until I'm fifty, and you go, wow, 737 00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:52,720 Speaker 1: like imagine how many years after that, Like you will 738 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 1: probably still be in practice another twenty years after that, 739 00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:58,200 Speaker 1: plus like if you've got your health now, like why 740 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 1: would that not be the case? Like that's twenty years 741 00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,520 Speaker 1: of really impactful work that you would be doing. 742 00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:06,040 Speaker 2: That it's absolutely worth it. 743 00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 1: But I'm very much embrace what you want to do, 744 00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 1: because there's no such thing as too late. 745 00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,400 Speaker 5: Stop at you all encouragement to do it, do it, 746 00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:14,760 Speaker 5: go to medical, go to meds. 747 00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 1: But it's one of those things where if that's your passion, 748 00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:20,400 Speaker 1: do it, follow it because it's not about what you earn, 749 00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:23,560 Speaker 1: it's actually about how you feel. And there's a lot 750 00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:26,000 Speaker 1: of research to say, you know, as much as we can, 751 00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:27,880 Speaker 1: you know, loop back to what you said before, like 752 00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,440 Speaker 1: you had a really high income, that's not the thing 753 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 1: that sparks joy. There's research to say that that actually 754 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:37,840 Speaker 1: caps out after about eighty thousand dollars, your happiness doesn't increase. 755 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 1: So what can we do to fulfill our lives in 756 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,200 Speaker 1: every other way? And obviously we didn't get time to 757 00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:45,240 Speaker 1: talk about your son today, but like if you're saying 758 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:48,480 Speaker 1: he's not well, like, it's really important to be embracing 759 00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:50,800 Speaker 1: the things in our life that really spark joy and 760 00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:52,560 Speaker 1: that make us happy and make us feel like we're 761 00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:54,720 Speaker 1: having an impact. And I just think that you're doing that. 762 00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:56,920 Speaker 1: And I'm really proud to say that you're a part 763 00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 1: of our community. So thank you for sharing your story 764 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 1: and hanging out with us today and ranting about boards 765 00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 1: with me. 766 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:05,320 Speaker 4: Thank you so much. It's been such a pleasure. 767 00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 3: It's been incredible. And if you want to have more 768 00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:09,400 Speaker 3: of those conversations, you can join our Facebook group. We 769 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,960 Speaker 3: have conversations like that every week. Search She's on the 770 00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:14,760 Speaker 3: money and we're on Instagram and TikTok now as wow. 771 00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,040 Speaker 1: Gosh, don't talk about a day. Dan still on TikTok 772 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:17,960 Speaker 1: the other day in that. 773 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:21,040 Speaker 4: Ce fantastic, thank you, thank you. 774 00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,320 Speaker 2: So it was terrible. It took a lot of shots 775 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:24,520 Speaker 2: and then it wasn't even right. 776 00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,480 Speaker 1: I was like, we're just calling it, We're just putting 777 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:27,560 Speaker 1: it out, we're calling it. 778 00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:30,319 Speaker 3: So so she's on the money, aus. But don't forget, guys, 779 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 3: that the advice shared on shees on the money is 780 00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:35,280 Speaker 3: general in nature and just not consider your individual circumstances. 781 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,319 Speaker 3: She's on the money exists purely for educational purposes and 782 00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,560 Speaker 3: should not be relied upon to make an investment or 783 00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:43,799 Speaker 3: a financial decision. And we promise Victoria divine and She's 784 00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:47,240 Speaker 3: on the Money. 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