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<v Speaker 1>Guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, welcome to Life on Cut and Ask Uncut edition.

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<v Speaker 2>It's our favorite little edition of the week.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Brittany and I'm Laura. Britt Why don't you just

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<v Speaker 1>let everyone know the song you were just singing?

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<v Speaker 2>I just made it up on the spot, Laura said.

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<v Speaker 2>Laura said, I'm so tired, and I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>let's get some big lurk energy, get some big energy

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<v Speaker 2>or something that's worse than what it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So this is our very uplifting podcast with some

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<v Speaker 1>big dick energy thanks to Brittany.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know I've never heard that term big dick

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<v Speaker 2>energy until you said it in one of our pots.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you actually coin the term or is it a term?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't take credit for it, although I would lie

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<v Speaker 1>to because it is such a good saying. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what big dick energy is, right, I No, I had

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<v Speaker 1>never heard of it. I've just rolled with it, pretending

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<v Speaker 1>on you.

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<v Speaker 3>But well, for.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyone who doesn't know, it is when a man walks

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<v Speaker 1>in a room and you're like, hmm, that man has

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<v Speaker 1>got something, some aura about him, and it's because he

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<v Speaker 1>has the aura of a man with a big dick.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh see, I would have just called that swagger.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's exactly what it is. Some swagger.

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<v Speaker 2>Baby better because it's not a swear word.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. I feel like we' first started this podcast

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<v Speaker 1>with a really this is a really crass intro.

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<v Speaker 2>I thin we're gonna have to take the song out.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry about that, guys. Anyway, Britt, how's your weet been

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<v Speaker 2>so far?

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<v Speaker 1>Yep?

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<v Speaker 2>I have just eaten my way through the week. To

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<v Speaker 2>be honest, I'm carrying a little bit of weight this week.

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<v Speaker 1>This is just Isolation's been good to your honey.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm car bloating. I'm getting ready to hibernate through the winter,

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<v Speaker 2>and I feel like I can't well. I hope I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not the only one.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we were talking about this on the way to

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast studio. I haven't been eating my way through isolation.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been drinking my way through isolation. Matt even said

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<v Speaker 1>to me yesterday. He was like, Laura, I think we

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<v Speaker 1>need to talk. You've been drinking wine every single day

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, it's just one or two glasses, Like

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>What do we need to talk about it?

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, what's your problems? What's the point is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Because we're running out of wine. We should go go

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<v Speaker 1>get more.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't want bottles still open and put an express order

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<v Speaker 2>in there.

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<v Speaker 1>Coming Oh anyway, it's because I get to dinner time

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm cooking dinner, and then and now it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Just become a little ritual.

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<v Speaker 1>I open a bottle of wine, I pour myself a glass,

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<v Speaker 1>and I have my glass of win wine cooking. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not an alcoholic. I honestly I have having two

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<v Speaker 1>glasses of wine. But I know that even two glasses

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<v Speaker 1>of wine a day is probably a bit excessive.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, the benefit of not isolating with a partner aka me,

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<v Speaker 2>is that no one polices my drinking, so I don't

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<v Speaker 2>necessarily stop it too.

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<v Speaker 1>When I endorsing this or encourage this. But you know

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<v Speaker 1>what it's got as good so far. Do you know

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<v Speaker 1>what gets me through?

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<v Speaker 2>I put a splash.

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<v Speaker 3>So you're a big dig energy song, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Not that, but I put a splash in like whatever

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<v Speaker 2>I'm cooking that I'm like, I'm cooking with the wine.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm drinking it. Bit of wine for the pasta bit

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<v Speaker 2>of wine.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, otherwise it's gonna go off and then you're just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have vinegar so you just really it's saving and

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<v Speaker 1>in these crisis times, we can't have any waste, can

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<v Speaker 1>we breading?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I need to be serious. I actually I'm not just

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<v Speaker 2>saying this. I'm not being like cutesies. I can't stop eating.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't stop eating.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm an animal. I'm like an animal that has been

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<v Speaker 2>locked up. It's like I need to think. It's like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm thinking I need to eat all the food now

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<v Speaker 2>and store it up in case the world runs out.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people are stockpiling in their pantry, and Brittany is

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<v Speaker 1>just stockpiling inside. I I'm self stockpiling.

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<v Speaker 2>It's really bad. But you know what, I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just gonna roll with it. I'm gonna be motivated

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<v Speaker 2>later on in my life and for once in my life,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, Okay, I'm just gonna stuck up a few layers.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, if there's ever gonna be a time to go

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<v Speaker 1>ham for choice of a better word, on this whole situation, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Insurance to go donut.

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<v Speaker 1>It's now, it's now.

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<v Speaker 3>It's now.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not gonna see any guys. You're not dating like

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<v Speaker 1>you're in isolation. You don't have to like front up

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<v Speaker 1>or look good or do anything. You can be the

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<v Speaker 1>ugliest that you've ever been and just go wild.

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<v Speaker 2>You do your thing, thinking and putting a little photo

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<v Speaker 2>up and just sending the Daily Mail wild that because

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<v Speaker 2>I actually I bloat. I have been bloating because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>alleged to gluten too, But all rules out the window

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<v Speaker 2>right now. I've been eating everything else thinking putting a

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<v Speaker 2>photo up and just look, I look pregnant sometimes, so

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<v Speaker 2>I was thinking of just running with that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think it's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>We can send some photos to Daily Mail and really

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<v Speaker 1>start some conspiracy theories.

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<v Speaker 2>It actually mean some more money in this time, so

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<v Speaker 2>I could try and sell it. I am. I am

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<v Speaker 2>just more.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys, if you see an article that comes out in

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<v Speaker 1>the next couple of weeks about Brittany being pregnant, it's

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<v Speaker 1>because she's sold it to the Daily Mail instead of

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<v Speaker 1>having to hog some skincare products on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know what doesn't help the situation, Laura, what

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<v Speaker 2>your skinny little ass sitting across from me?

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 1>I posted a video yesterday of Matt and I like

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<v Speaker 1>trying to entertain ourselves during this whole thing of self

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<v Speaker 1>isolation and everyone was like, why are you so thin

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<v Speaker 1>after having a baby. Guys, I'm not thin. I am haggard.

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<v Speaker 1>I am so tired. This is the skinniness of someone

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<v Speaker 1>who is exhausted. I mean, it has got nothing to

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<v Speaker 1>do with exercise. It is this is this is exhaustion.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what that is. One of the most positive things

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<v Speaker 1>that has come out of this whole self isolation thing

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<v Speaker 1>is that. And Guys, for anybody who wants to get

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<v Speaker 1>on board with this, I highly recommend Sam wood is

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<v Speaker 1>doing a nine am free live exercise twenty eight days.

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<v Speaker 1>There you go, there's his plug. Because I've been jumping

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<v Speaker 1>on board sponsored, not not sponsored.

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<v Speaker 3>Just really fucking good.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been jumping on every morning nine am. I clear

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<v Speaker 1>the coffee table out the way I put Maley in

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<v Speaker 1>the high chair, give us some banana bread. She's also

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<v Speaker 1>stockpiling inside.

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<v Speaker 3>And I do like Maali Weill, Sam would work out.

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<v Speaker 1>So if anyone's been sitting at home thinking I hate that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know my routine's gone out the window, Well I've

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<v Speaker 1>got a new routine for you. Come and do a

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<v Speaker 1>live twenty eight days workout with me.

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<v Speaker 2>I did put a poet stuff the other day a

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<v Speaker 2>few days ago as well, because I think this is

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<v Speaker 2>really important to highlight. I'm so in my health and fitness.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't know someone more motivated than me. I'm addicted.

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<v Speaker 2>I exercise every day. I froth it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I wish you wouldn't use that word, but yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you really do. I don't know anybody who exercises as

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<v Speaker 1>frequently as you.

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<v Speaker 2>Do, but I genuinely love it. Great legs, thank you,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you. But my point of this, that's not my point.

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<v Speaker 2>My point of the post is I've never been less

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<v Speaker 2>motivated in my life than what I am in this isolation.

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<v Speaker 2>So everyone's going the opposite. Everyone's like, I'm so motivated,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing all this stuff at home. I'm the opposite.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not working out. My health when I'm eating, when

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<v Speaker 2>I watch has gone out the window. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what it is. I don't know if it's because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>still working a lot and I'm stressed. I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>there might be some emotional eating involved. But I just

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to put it out there too. If you're struggling

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<v Speaker 2>in that and you're feeling down and you're feeling unmotived,

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<v Speaker 2>that's totally fine as well. Because there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people on Instagram right now that are like OTT with

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<v Speaker 2>their exercise and their encouragement, which is fantastic. But also

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<v Speaker 2>if you happen to down day and you don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to get out of bed, that's also okay. You can

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<v Speaker 2>lay in bed and eat chocolate and watch movies because

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<v Speaker 2>there are no rules in isolation.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like Netflix. When Netflix says to you, are you

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<v Speaker 1>still watching this? You're like, yes, Netflix, of course, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>fucking still watching that for the fourth time today. What

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<v Speaker 1>else could I possibly be doing? Netflix, I haven't forgotten.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to watch the entire series now. It's four

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<v Speaker 1>I am It's been seventeen hours that you've been watching it.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the smilet. But also I think, like what

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<v Speaker 1>you just said, there is the whole spectrum at the moment,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think every emotion is completely valid. Maybe you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to use this time to be super productive, read

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<v Speaker 1>lots of books, FaceTime your friends, and maybe you've gone

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<v Speaker 1>the other end of the spectrum where you're kind of

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<v Speaker 1>just like in a bit of a self isolation hole.

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<v Speaker 3>All of that is fine, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I think at some point we have to kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like rebalance and figure out what our new normal is

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<v Speaker 1>in this situation, because if this is going to be

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<v Speaker 1>going on for god who knows, like three months, two months,

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<v Speaker 1>six months, then I think we just have to adapt

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<v Speaker 1>and figure out what is like a comfortable and sustainable

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<v Speaker 1>lifestyle in this And for me it's nine am workouts

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<v Speaker 1>for twenty eight days. And for me, I'm almost through

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<v Speaker 1>my emergency snacks, so it'll end soon.

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<v Speaker 2>I did want to ask you something, what what have

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<v Speaker 2>you been watching? What's something you can recommend if you

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<v Speaker 2>watched anything good on Netflix?

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<v Speaker 1>For the people I saw people, Oh, the only thing

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<v Speaker 1>that I can recommend is something that everybody has already seen.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I was late to the party. You've seen

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<v Speaker 3>Target King.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like Joe Exotic Joe exactly. I was gonna ask

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<v Speaker 2>you that it's trending. I watched one episode. I've only

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<v Speaker 2>watched one episode.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so good.

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<v Speaker 2>It was so slow.

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<v Speaker 1>What Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, Okay, I like, when does something happen?

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<v Speaker 2>The first episode so long and it's like I love

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<v Speaker 2>tigers and that's all he says, and I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>like what else happens?

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<v Speaker 3>And the tag is still on me.

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<v Speaker 1>I have the tag that is definitely not how it groes,

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<v Speaker 1>but I know it's That's what I've been watching. The

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<v Speaker 1>Morning Show? Is that the other one? Is it called

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning Show?

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<v Speaker 3>Like the News?

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<v Speaker 1>No, not the Morning Jennifer Aniston's shitty morning show that's

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<v Speaker 1>on our TV.

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<v Speaker 2>The Jennifer tuning in in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, is he even on the Morning Show?

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<v Speaker 2>He is? Yeah, that was terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway. No, I've been watching the one Reese Witherspoon and

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<v Speaker 1>it's really good.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, but I'm only a few episodes into.

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<v Speaker 2>That one, so I just binge watched Elite. Have you

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<v Speaker 2>seen Elite?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so guys, given it's dubbed because it's Spanish, but

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<v Speaker 2>it's like the modern day Spanish version of gossip Girl,

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<v Speaker 2>and once you get past the fact that it's dubbed,

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<v Speaker 2>you'll love it absolutely.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if I could.

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<v Speaker 1>I tried to watch another series quite a while ago

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<v Speaker 1>that was like a voiced over, like voiced in English,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was obviously like another language. That was just so.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>I really shouldn't have had that half bottle of wine

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<v Speaker 3>before I came.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I couldn't. I couldn't get into the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that it was the voicing was out of sick like

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<v Speaker 1>that really really irked me and I couldn't get over it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I couldn't get into it.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you will in this one, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>I might.

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<v Speaker 3>Give it a try.

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<v Speaker 1>Although your last recommendation of Love is Blind, I still

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<v Speaker 1>haven't gotten on board with that. So there's another guys,

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<v Speaker 1>if you haven't seen Love is Blind. Britt was raving

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<v Speaker 1>on about it. It's one of the only reality TV

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<v Speaker 1>shows that actually makes sense in isolation at the moment.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So, well, speaking of that, so we mentioned in

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<v Speaker 2>the last episode that the Bachelor was going to be

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<v Speaker 2>put on hold. What were they going to do? And

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<v Speaker 2>we sort of hypothesized.

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to bring this up to you. So

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<v Speaker 1>one of the posts I put out on Instagram yesterday,

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<v Speaker 1>Locky aka the Bachelor, he messaged and left a comment

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<v Speaker 1>on it, and I was like, I'm sorry, you're supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be in fucking lockdown. How do you have a phone?

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<v Speaker 2>He was in the wild.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So it turns out that all of the girls and

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<v Speaker 1>Locky are all home. They have to be very restricted

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<v Speaker 1>with the thing that they're allowed to do, like the

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<v Speaker 1>messaging and everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Tied up in their bedroom.

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<v Speaker 1>No, but but they're home, they've got their phones and

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<v Speaker 1>they can still like walk around and be part of

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<v Speaker 1>the normal world and with me as much as anyone

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<v Speaker 1>else can. And so they've totally stopped filming and they're

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<v Speaker 1>going to go back to it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's nuts, It's nuts.

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<v Speaker 3>It's my mind is blown.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like we are in uncharted territory.

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<v Speaker 1>People.

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<v Speaker 2>This has not been done before. I don't know how

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<v Speaker 2>I feel about it, because once they go back, like

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<v Speaker 2>what if they contact each other.

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<v Speaker 1>No rules apply anymore. Like if the Bachelor is stop

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<v Speaker 1>filming and these people are like roaming around in the wild,

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<v Speaker 1>anything goes, anything, anything goes. So the issue that I

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<v Speaker 1>have with this whole concept of the fact that they've

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<v Speaker 1>been in isolation together, like they've been in lockdown filming

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<v Speaker 1>and now they're out in the world, but they have

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<v Speaker 1>their phones and they can all contact toever the hell

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<v Speaker 1>they want. My question about this is the whole concept

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<v Speaker 1>of the Bachelor is based around Stockholm syndrome. So Stockholm

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<v Speaker 1>syndrome is basically when a person falls in love with

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<v Speaker 1>their captor, which is exactly what happens. You know, you

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<v Speaker 1>have no is your cap I'm still help me. So

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<v Speaker 1>what happens is is that because you are in this

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<v Speaker 1>lockdown environment where all the girls are in one house

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<v Speaker 1>and the bachelor's in another house, you have no outside stimulus.

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<v Speaker 1>So you can't watch the news, you can't read a newspaper,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know anything that's happening outside. You can't see

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<v Speaker 1>any other men except for Soundy's and like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the mic guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Some of those guys are really cute too.

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<v Speaker 1>Well they're not really, but they become cute because there's

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<v Speaker 1>else to look at. So it's based on this concept

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<v Speaker 1>that every other distraction in life is taken away from you,

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<v Speaker 1>so that the bachelor ends up being put on this

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<v Speaker 1>pedestal and he becomes the holy grail and the only

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<v Speaker 1>thing that you.

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<v Speaker 3>Can focus on.

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<v Speaker 1>But now that this filming has been interrupted and the

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<v Speaker 1>girls are able to be back in the wild and

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<v Speaker 1>they can on the internet and they can do whatever

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<v Speaker 1>they want to, I think it's going to really interrupt

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<v Speaker 1>this whole idea of building this fantasy around who Lucky is.

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<v Speaker 2>And I imagine there would be very strict rules place

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<v Speaker 2>like no contacting each other, no contacting like the girls

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<v Speaker 2>each other or lockie. But I can't imagine at this

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<v Speaker 2>point of the game that they're not going to contact

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<v Speaker 2>each other, especially they're about halfway through filming, so they

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<v Speaker 2>would want they would that'd be forming connections totally.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you've got your phone in hand, who's to say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you can always download can you can do

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<v Speaker 1>it on WhatsApp and then delete it.

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<v Speaker 3>Those those messages are encrypted.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just think this is going to be such

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<v Speaker 1>a wild and crazy season, something that we've never seen before.

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<v Speaker 1>But apparently they're going to steam ahead with it. So

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<v Speaker 1>let's just kind of hold the phone caller and figure

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<v Speaker 1>out what they're doing with that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, mind blowing.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, maybe we should get into the episode, which is guys,

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<v Speaker 1>this episode is well, you know, we do it every week,

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<v Speaker 1>but this is our ask uncut episode where you guys

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<v Speaker 1>write in your deep, dark and dirty questions to us

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<v Speaker 1>and we do our absolute best to try and answer

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<v Speaker 1>them for you. You know, we are not qualified, but

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<v Speaker 1>we give you very very heartfelt advice. I think of

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<v Speaker 1>us like the big sister or the friend that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have or you have there, you go over here.

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<v Speaker 2>You say we're not qualified, but we've been doing this

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<v Speaker 2>for nearly a year. And you can get like a

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<v Speaker 2>tape certificate in that time, I reckon, we could be

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<v Speaker 2>like qualified.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you reckon? They're going to start giving out taste

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<v Speaker 1>cifgots for our shitty dating advice.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know there are degrees in like the Netherlands

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff now that are a Bachelor of influencing. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not even kidding. I'm not even pulling your.

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<v Speaker 1>Leg, do you know? It scares me though. It scares

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<v Speaker 1>me that kids are going through school these days and

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<v Speaker 1>instead of them wanting to be rock stars or movie stars,

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<v Speaker 1>they want to be influencers. Like that's what some children

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<v Speaker 1>are aspiring.

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<v Speaker 2>To be, which is scary.

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<v Speaker 1>It is frightening because I mean, at least, for example,

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<v Speaker 1>like in the whole sporting arena, for example, there's now

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<v Speaker 1>there's because like there were so many people who are

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<v Speaker 1>coming out of doing professional sport and not having careers

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<v Speaker 1>after they hit thirty five. Right now, there's so much

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<v Speaker 1>care that's put into making sure that people who are

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<v Speaker 1>in professional sports also have education in other fields so

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<v Speaker 1>that they can go into doing like physio or sports

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<v Speaker 1>science or something else so they have transferable skills.

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<v Speaker 3>The issue with being.

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<v Speaker 1>An influencer is that there are very limited transferable skills,

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<v Speaker 1>and if you're one and only reason that people are

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<v Speaker 1>following you is because you're hot and you can take

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<v Speaker 1>a good photo in a bikini.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not always going to be hot.

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<v Speaker 1>Holy shit, what is going to happen when you up?

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<v Speaker 3>Then, Haggard, excuse.

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<v Speaker 2>Me when I'm thirty four, I'm definitely got that far off.

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<v Speaker 3>I No, that's what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about myself, like you know, like, yes, sure

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<v Speaker 1>I do some influencing jobs, but.

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<v Speaker 3>I have to have another job as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Hondi, hondy, Honey, honey, Hundi, Hondi bra. That's what the

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<v Speaker 2>kids are saying.

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<v Speaker 1>You're so cool, all right, hit me with the first question.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, my boyfriend and I have been seeing each other

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<v Speaker 2>a few months when all of this corona started to

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<v Speaker 2>go down. He lives into state, and we decided to

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<v Speaker 2>solve quarantine together, so he drove to my place in Sydney,

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<v Speaker 2>meaning he crossed the border. Now I'm going crazy and

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<v Speaker 2>think that I made a mistake. It's all too much.

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<v Speaker 2>I find myself getting annoyed every little thing he does,

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't even want to sleep with him. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>what do I do? Do you reckon this is normal?

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<v Speaker 2>Can I ask him to leave? Do I stick it out?

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<v Speaker 2>Do I fake it? Do we break up? Help?

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<v Speaker 3>This is such a good question, I reckon.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of people in this position right now,

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<v Speaker 2>do you.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the whole like quarantining with a partner, it's

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<v Speaker 1>really made these relationships fast forward and like progress quicker

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<v Speaker 1>than what they were supposed to. And it's put the

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<v Speaker 1>pressure on for these people to go from like figuring

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<v Speaker 1>out how they feel about each other to being you're together.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, zero to one hundred real quick.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like a total pressure cooker.

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<v Speaker 1>I think this is a really shit situation and absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>like you're allowed to change your mind, Like if you're

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<v Speaker 1>not happy in that and you think that you maybe

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<v Speaker 1>jump the gun, Like it's unfortunate and it's very disappointed

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<v Speaker 1>to someone else, and yes, you've put their life out,

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<v Speaker 1>but assuming he still has a home to go back to,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's not like he's put his whole house up

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<v Speaker 1>for rent or something. You know, you have to have

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation and say this isn't what you thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be and you're not happy, Like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you could don't pety fuck the guy or do just

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<v Speaker 1>get one more time in there, because girlfriend, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how it's going long, it's going to be in here.

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<v Speaker 1>You can go on another day. No, But seriously, I

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<v Speaker 1>think if you're unhappy and this guy is in your

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<v Speaker 1>space every day, it's a lot of pressure. For even

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<v Speaker 1>a couple that's been together for a long time, it's

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<v Speaker 1>probably a very natural thing to feel a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>freaked out. Don't make any rash decisions straight away. I think, like,

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<v Speaker 1>give it a week to decide how you actually really feel.

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<v Speaker 1>But in a week's time or two weeks time, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're still uncomfortable and you still feel like you've made

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong decision, then you know, sooner rather than later.

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<v Speaker 1>Because we don't know how much of a lockdown this

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<v Speaker 1>is going to turn into. You need to have a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation with him, which is very clear, like, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>this isn't what I wanted, this isn't what I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was going to be. I'm going to give you

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<v Speaker 1>some time to work out other arrangements. But just because

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<v Speaker 1>you're in isolation doesn't mean that you owe this person

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<v Speaker 1>in your life.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess the other thing is too, just because you're

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<v Speaker 2>not getting along right now, And just because it's not

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<v Speaker 2>smooth sailing and perfect right now, that doesn't mean that

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<v Speaker 2>you two aren't right. That might just mean it just

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<v Speaker 2>happened too quickly and you weren't ready for it, and

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<v Speaker 2>you haven't gone through the motions of a normal couple dating.

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<v Speaker 2>So maybe it's just all intensified too soon, too quickly.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think you just have to have a chat

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<v Speaker 2>to him because who knows, maybe he's feeling exactly the

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<v Speaker 2>same thing and just also doesn't know how to say it.

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<v Speaker 1>And moving in together is such a like for some

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<v Speaker 1>couples it seems to be super easy, and then for

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<v Speaker 1>other couples it's just such a huge process because you're

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<v Speaker 1>getting to know each other's idiosyncrasies, you're getting to know

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<v Speaker 1>each other's bad habits, and all of the things that

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<v Speaker 1>you would normally be able to kind of like gloss

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<v Speaker 1>over and be okay with. During the honeymoon period, all

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<v Speaker 1>that shit comes to the surface. You got to be

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<v Speaker 1>really okay with the fact that maybe they're going to

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<v Speaker 1>do stuff that pisces you off, and be a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more flexible because it's no longer just your space.

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<v Speaker 3>It actually saw this.

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<v Speaker 1>Really great meme the other day, and it was like

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<v Speaker 1>for couples who are working from home and spending all

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<v Speaker 1>of their time together need to come up with like

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<v Speaker 1>an alter ego, like an alter character to blame stuff on, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>fucking Karen left the cups out again.

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<v Speaker 3>Why didn't Karen come in and do the vacuuming?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, get your shit together on vacuum.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but instead of having constant bickering, you can kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like make a.

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<v Speaker 3>Joke about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But obviously the joke is like passive aggressive because you

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<v Speaker 1>really wanted them to stop leaving their shitty couple of

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<v Speaker 1>months all over the place.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I think you just have that chat. And also

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<v Speaker 2>I just had a point. It's gone good one, brit Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Also that advice, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Guess it depends on if he has somewhere else to go,

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<v Speaker 2>because if he literally has nowhere, like if he was

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<v Speaker 2>out of re renal or between houses, or he can't

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<v Speaker 2>get back across the border. Because they are doing that. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a different story because we all now need to

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<v Speaker 2>be helping people out. We're all gonna be putting ourselves

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<v Speaker 2>out to help others out. That's just that's part of

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<v Speaker 2>what life is right now. And everybody needs to get

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<v Speaker 2>on board with that. If he's got nowhere to go, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you're probably gonna have to suck it up, but you

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<v Speaker 2>could still do it as friends. If you absolutely don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to be with him and you don't feel anything romantic,

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<v Speaker 2>have the chat and say let's co habitat as friends.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what, realistically, he's probably going to be

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<v Speaker 1>a bit uncomfortable by that, and he's probably not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>want to just hang around and be at the house.

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<v Speaker 1>If you've made it clear that you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be with him, he will probably try and figure out

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<v Speaker 1>another option. It's not like we're not in such a

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<v Speaker 1>severe lockdown right now that he can't leave. Yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>understand that maybe if his house is in k it's

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<v Speaker 1>in Queensland, right, Yeah, he's in Queensland, so they can

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<v Speaker 1>still get home. You have to apply for permanent takes

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<v Speaker 1>a bit of time, but he can still do that.

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<v Speaker 1>He can still get home and isolate. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>fourteen days, So there's options here. You don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>be in a relationship that you don't want to be in.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not an acceptable solution to this situation. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>not happy make some changes, but don't allow this to

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<v Speaker 1>just be an excuse to stay in an unhappy space. However,

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<v Speaker 1>I think just give it a week to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>if it's actually how you feel or if it's just

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<v Speaker 1>because you know you've been thrown into this intensity a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit prematurely.

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<v Speaker 2>And maybe take some space within your own home. I

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<v Speaker 2>know that sounds crazy, but there are a lot of couple.

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<v Speaker 2>I know my sister's been doing it a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>with her partner. They're taking their own rooms and they're

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<v Speaker 2>getting their work done in different rooms like they're in

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<v Speaker 2>an office.

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<v Speaker 1>I try and do that, and then Matt will come

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<v Speaker 1>in after fifteen minutes and be like, I miss you.

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<v Speaker 3>What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh classic, Matt. You're like, I'm trying to earn the bacon.

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<v Speaker 1>Baby. You are a stay at home dad now, and

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<v Speaker 1>I am the one who is working. Leave me in

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<v Speaker 1>my bedroom office exactly. Me just sitting on my bed,

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<v Speaker 1>facetiming like my colleagues like me's face time. Yeah, facetiming

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<v Speaker 1>my sister and feeling like I'm sixteen again because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sitting in my bed doing it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's ridiculous, all right, Next question, Am I reading it? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>You're reading it, I don't have my phone's dead.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. So I have been with my boyfriend for almost

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<v Speaker 2>two years, and in the past there has been some

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<v Speaker 2>times and he's been caught messaging other girls in a

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<v Speaker 2>flirtatious way. Recently, he stated a girl's house with all

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<v Speaker 2>of his mates while I was on a holiday, and

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<v Speaker 2>he tried to hide it. He only told me about

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<v Speaker 2>it when I asked heaps of questions about it, and

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<v Speaker 2>he tried to hide the fact that he slept in

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<v Speaker 2>a bed with just him two girls when he knows

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not comfortable with that. The other night, I confronted

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<v Speaker 2>one of the girls to ask if anything happened, and

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<v Speaker 2>she basically started crying in front of me, but she

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<v Speaker 2>denied anything happened. So my question to you is, would

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<v Speaker 2>you trust them when they say nothing happened. He's given

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<v Speaker 2>me reasons in the past not just trust him.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, nah, get rid of him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I agree, but I probably would have been a

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<v Speaker 2>bit more diplomatic.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I think you know you know the answer to this.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that if you're saying you don't trust him,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't think like he's giving you reasons that are untrustworthy.

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<v Speaker 1>What you're wanting is someone to give you that silver

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<v Speaker 1>bullet and tell you what to do. And I'm telling

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<v Speaker 1>you what to do. Don't be in a relationship with

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<v Speaker 1>someone you can't trust. Don't be in a relationship with

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<v Speaker 1>someone who lies to you. Don't be in a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody who makes you feel insecure, or who's flirting

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<v Speaker 1>with other girls. All of that behavior is black and

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<v Speaker 1>white red flag. Do not be in that relationship and

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<v Speaker 1>get out.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, for me, there's one huge red flag here.

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<v Speaker 2>And you've been with him two years and he is

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<v Speaker 2>sleeping in a bed with two other girls while you're away.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my, if Matt, like with Matt, went to a

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<v Speaker 1>house party and slept in a bed with two other

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<v Speaker 1>girls and didn't tell me about it and then lied

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<v Speaker 1>about it whole Wow. But not even if he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>tell you, he would be hoping that he was isolating

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<v Speaker 1>by himself, because I would make his life help.

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<v Speaker 2>Even if my partner came and told me he slept

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<v Speaker 2>in the bed with two women, I would be off that.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, yeah, there's there's boundaries in a relationship. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you've made it clear that that's something that you're

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<v Speaker 1>not okay with, and that's that crosses your boundaries, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's done that, and he and that has also lied

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<v Speaker 1>about it. I just think this guy is not deserving

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<v Speaker 1>of you. You can find another relationship where you are

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<v Speaker 1>treated way better than this, a relationship where you trust

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<v Speaker 1>the person. And yes, it might mean that you'll be

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<v Speaker 1>alone for a little while, and yes it means that

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<v Speaker 1>you have to go through the shitty part of breaking

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<v Speaker 1>up with someone. But this is not somebody who deserves you.

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<v Speaker 1>And unless he's going to make some huge changes to

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<v Speaker 1>his life, then this is not a relationship for you.

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe you need some hard love because I think guys,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're constant catching your boyfriend sending flirty text messages

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<v Speaker 1>to other women because they need constant drip feed of

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<v Speaker 1>attention from other people, it's just not a space or

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship you ever want to find yourself in.

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<v Speaker 3>So get the hell.

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<v Speaker 2>Out, I think deep. But I feel really passionate about

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<v Speaker 2>that one. That one really hit a call. Yeah I

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<v Speaker 2>know it really did, didn't it, Because it's just like

0:24:17.200 --> 0:24:20.640
<v Speaker 2>I've been there. Yeah, well amen, we've all been there,

0:24:21.119 --> 0:24:21.760
<v Speaker 2>not ever, am, but.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, just the unlucky ones.

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<v Speaker 1>But I've been there, and I've been this person before,

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel like I have sent that question to

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<v Speaker 1>a friend, you know, and Lauren, Yeah, guys, no, Matt's

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<v Speaker 1>an angel. Matt would never do that. But I have

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<v Speaker 1>sent this sort of question or had these questions with

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<v Speaker 1>my girlfriends before, and they've said to me like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not okay. But what happens is like it starts

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<v Speaker 1>to become normal, Like you start to accept this bad

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<v Speaker 1>behavior because it's happening more and more and more, and so,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they they do one thing and you accept

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<v Speaker 1>that they've done that, and then that kind of clouds

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<v Speaker 1>where your boundaries are, and then they do something else

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<v Speaker 1>and it keeps. You end up getting to a point

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<v Speaker 1>where you're like, how did I ever accept this bad behavior?

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<v Speaker 2>Because you're new normal.

0:25:03.840 --> 0:25:06.240
<v Speaker 1>But it's your new normal and it's happened a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit by little bit by little bit. So the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that you have written all this out into a message

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<v Speaker 1>to us and you can read that clear as day

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<v Speaker 1>what he's doing, it is a big fat red no.

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<v Speaker 2>You definitely know deep down the answer to this. You

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<v Speaker 2>one hundred percent know you're looking for somebody just to

0:25:23.200 --> 0:25:24.760
<v Speaker 2>say that you're on the right path, and you're on

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<v Speaker 2>the right track. And the one thing that I want

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<v Speaker 2>to add, I agree with absolutely everything you said. Laura.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just as passionate about it as you. I hate him,

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<v Speaker 2>and you are very passionate right now. Laura is like

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<v Speaker 2>on fire in this podcast room right now. I actually

0:25:36.359 --> 0:25:38.240
<v Speaker 2>haven't seen as much energy from you in a long time.

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<v Speaker 3>Guys really got me good that time.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that the main thing here is to go

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<v Speaker 2>with your gut instinct. You would know deep down, you

0:25:46.920 --> 0:25:49.640
<v Speaker 2>know if he's doing something wrong. You know what he's

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<v Speaker 2>doing is wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>You know if I girl a girl about it, And

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that you even had to approach a girl,

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<v Speaker 1>but the fact that she even had to ask her

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<v Speaker 1>because you don't trust your boyfriend is reason enough. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>be with somebody that you don't trust. Relationships that don't

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<v Speaker 1>have trust in them are going to make you go crazy.

0:26:08.880 --> 0:26:11.520
<v Speaker 1>They're gonna make you mad. I'm sorry I cut you off, Brittany.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna come down.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of passion. I had a really I had

0:26:14.920 --> 0:26:21.600
<v Speaker 2>a really great speech, but don't worry. Look, I had

0:26:21.640 --> 0:26:23.520
<v Speaker 2>a lot to say, but Laura has said it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, and I worry.

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<v Speaker 2>We're on par with that one. We're on par like

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<v Speaker 2>a game of golf.

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<v Speaker 3>I is that a thing?

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<v Speaker 2>I've made that up now too.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so fucking gold with making these up.

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<v Speaker 3>Is par even in golf, isn't it para? I have

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<v Speaker 3>no idea?

0:26:39.760 --> 0:26:42.520
<v Speaker 1>Like golf is my least favored sport to watch, I

0:26:42.560 --> 0:26:43.359
<v Speaker 1>have no idea.

0:26:43.400 --> 0:26:44.440
<v Speaker 2>It's super fun to play.

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<v Speaker 1>What about put putt mini golf?

0:26:47.040 --> 0:26:48.679
<v Speaker 2>They don't have pars in put putt?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? There you go.

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<v Speaker 1>Learn something new every day every day in the school day. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>the big boycourt, I'm it's not called a court. This

0:26:55.840 --> 0:26:57.240
<v Speaker 1>is just getting weird. Can you please go to the

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<v Speaker 1>next question?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Hi, guys, is it disrespectful if my friend's partner

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<v Speaker 2>constantly asked me when the last time I had sex was?

0:27:06.119 --> 0:27:09.000
<v Speaker 2>My response previously has been wouldn't you like to know?

0:27:09.520 --> 0:27:11.880
<v Speaker 2>And more recently my friend has told him to shut

0:27:11.960 --> 0:27:14.119
<v Speaker 2>up and stop asking about it. It makes me feel

0:27:14.119 --> 0:27:17.000
<v Speaker 2>really uncomfortable. I talk about this stuff with her because

0:27:17.040 --> 0:27:19.080
<v Speaker 2>she's my friend, but I don't think it's appropriate for

0:27:19.160 --> 0:27:20.040
<v Speaker 2>him to be asking me.

0:27:21.960 --> 0:27:24.399
<v Speaker 3>God, guys, that can be so weird. That is so weird.

0:27:24.440 --> 0:27:26.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, that is so weird. Who is he to

0:27:26.560 --> 0:27:27.240
<v Speaker 2>even ask that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, he's obviously doing it as a joke and probably

0:27:30.359 --> 0:27:33.080
<v Speaker 1>thinks that you guys had this funny banter or is.

0:27:33.040 --> 0:27:35.720
<v Speaker 2>That a joke? Well, imagine if I came to your

0:27:35.760 --> 0:27:37.560
<v Speaker 2>house and Matt was like, hey, Bret, when'd you have

0:27:37.720 --> 0:27:39.840
<v Speaker 2>Sir herx Like it's not far, I'd be like, what,

0:27:39.880 --> 0:27:40.480
<v Speaker 2>that's not funny.

0:27:40.560 --> 0:27:42.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but some people don't really understand the premise of

0:27:42.600 --> 0:27:44.320
<v Speaker 1>a joke, which is the fact that people are meant

0:27:44.320 --> 0:27:46.560
<v Speaker 1>to laugh and it's meant to be funny. He clearly

0:27:46.600 --> 0:27:50.200
<v Speaker 1>finds it entertaining or amusing. I think in this situation

0:27:50.359 --> 0:27:55.119
<v Speaker 1>it's it's totally weird. It's totally inappropriate. You should speak

0:27:55.119 --> 0:27:57.640
<v Speaker 1>to your friend, which you probably already have, and your

0:27:57.680 --> 0:28:00.879
<v Speaker 1>friend needs to speak to her partners separate to you

0:28:00.960 --> 0:28:03.120
<v Speaker 1>being there, not just calling him out on it when

0:28:03.119 --> 0:28:06.119
<v Speaker 1>you're there, but separately say don't ask that question. It

0:28:06.160 --> 0:28:09.280
<v Speaker 1>makes everybody in the situation uncomfortable except for you clearly,

0:28:09.760 --> 0:28:10.760
<v Speaker 1>so stop it.

0:28:10.960 --> 0:28:14.160
<v Speaker 2>And also, I just think it's so in your right

0:28:14.200 --> 0:28:15.639
<v Speaker 2>to Next time he says when's the last time you

0:28:15.680 --> 0:28:18.200
<v Speaker 2>had sex, you can say, well, I don't think that's

0:28:18.200 --> 0:28:18.439
<v Speaker 2>any of.

0:28:18.480 --> 0:28:20.359
<v Speaker 3>Your business, show me how big your dick is?

0:28:20.960 --> 0:28:24.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, have you cleaned your rash up? You could, but like, no,

0:28:24.359 --> 0:28:26.120
<v Speaker 2>you can definitely say to him I'm sorry, that's none

0:28:26.160 --> 0:28:29.479
<v Speaker 2>of your business, or if you really want to. I mean,

0:28:29.520 --> 0:28:31.760
<v Speaker 2>it depends how confrontation you want to be, but you

0:28:31.800 --> 0:28:33.639
<v Speaker 2>can say you need to stop asking me that it

0:28:33.680 --> 0:28:34.600
<v Speaker 2>makes me uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>I think sometimes we can be so like you know,

0:28:37.840 --> 0:28:39.640
<v Speaker 1>and the very ousy way, like, oh, make a joke

0:28:39.640 --> 0:28:42.000
<v Speaker 1>about something that makes us uncomfortable, and like, of course

0:28:42.040 --> 0:28:43.480
<v Speaker 1>you want to make a joke about it because you

0:28:43.480 --> 0:28:45.960
<v Speaker 1>don't want it it to turn into this big thing

0:28:46.280 --> 0:28:48.160
<v Speaker 1>or to be to be seen as though you're not

0:28:48.240 --> 0:28:50.720
<v Speaker 1>able to take a joke. But I think if you've

0:28:50.760 --> 0:28:53.640
<v Speaker 1>already said something once which was taking it a lighthearted way,

0:28:53.840 --> 0:28:56.320
<v Speaker 1>and it's still happening and he's still doing it and

0:28:56.560 --> 0:28:59.040
<v Speaker 1>your girlfriend is telling him to stop, I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>so well within your rights. I mean, God, you were

0:29:01.200 --> 0:29:03.560
<v Speaker 1>within your rights at the very start, but now you're

0:29:03.560 --> 0:29:06.040
<v Speaker 1>so within your rights just to say, do you know what?

0:29:06.160 --> 0:29:07.840
<v Speaker 1>I actually hate it when you ask me that. It

0:29:07.840 --> 0:29:10.000
<v Speaker 1>makes me really really uncomfortable. So I'd love it if

0:29:10.000 --> 0:29:13.280
<v Speaker 1>you would just never ever ever ask me that again. Absolutely,

0:29:13.440 --> 0:29:16.440
<v Speaker 1>he will take it. It'll it'll shut him down straight away.

0:29:16.480 --> 0:29:19.560
<v Speaker 1>He'll be like, oh, wow, shit, I didn't I didn't realize.

0:29:19.800 --> 0:29:22.560
<v Speaker 1>He probably doesn't realize how much it upsets you.

0:29:22.640 --> 0:29:24.040
<v Speaker 2>And then you can be like, now, look it's cool,

0:29:24.080 --> 0:29:25.480
<v Speaker 2>Like play it off like it's cool, but I just

0:29:25.520 --> 0:29:27.280
<v Speaker 2>don't want to talk about it with you. You don't

0:29:27.320 --> 0:29:28.520
<v Speaker 2>have to make it a big deal, but be like, yeah,

0:29:28.520 --> 0:29:30.200
<v Speaker 2>it's cool. I just it's not a thing, so let's

0:29:30.240 --> 0:29:32.920
<v Speaker 2>not make it a thing. And like why why is

0:29:32.960 --> 0:29:35.080
<v Speaker 2>it okay for him to make you feel uncomfortable? Like

0:29:35.160 --> 0:29:37.520
<v Speaker 2>it's okay for you to make him uncomfortable for a change.

0:29:37.600 --> 0:29:39.720
<v Speaker 2>So if you have to say to him, you know what,

0:29:39.800 --> 0:29:41.280
<v Speaker 2>it's none of your business and I don't want to

0:29:41.320 --> 0:29:43.720
<v Speaker 2>talk about it. Yes, it's gonna make that the it's

0:29:43.720 --> 0:29:46.680
<v Speaker 2>gonna make him go, oh okay, what's up with her?

0:29:47.120 --> 0:29:49.440
<v Speaker 2>But it's okay for him to feel uncomfortable because he's

0:29:49.480 --> 0:29:52.520
<v Speaker 2>doing it to you. So take that, take the ownership

0:29:52.520 --> 0:29:54.600
<v Speaker 2>of that, and you know, flip it on its head

0:29:54.640 --> 0:29:56.240
<v Speaker 2>and it can say it in a very curt and

0:29:56.400 --> 0:30:00.000
<v Speaker 2>very direct way, but that's okay. Like I think it's fine.

0:30:00.000 --> 0:30:02.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm to call him out on it. Yeah, there's never

0:30:02.280 --> 0:30:05.800
<v Speaker 2>ever a situation that you need to feel uncomfortable in. Ever,

0:30:05.960 --> 0:30:09.040
<v Speaker 2>you can always leave, extract yourself or say something. Always

0:30:09.080 --> 0:30:11.200
<v Speaker 2>voice your opinion. We're very big on that. Okay, we

0:30:11.240 --> 0:30:13.680
<v Speaker 2>have one more question. Do we have time for another one?

0:30:14.120 --> 0:30:17.960
<v Speaker 2>I got time have an edit this somewhere we are, yes,

0:30:18.120 --> 0:30:21.280
<v Speaker 2>so we're recording it. Guys, if you listen to this tomorrow,

0:30:21.280 --> 0:30:23.760
<v Speaker 2>which is the day that it comes out, Thursday. We're

0:30:23.800 --> 0:30:26.560
<v Speaker 2>recording this at seven fifty pm on the Wednesday. I

0:30:26.640 --> 0:30:28.240
<v Speaker 2>got to go home and edit the shit out of this.

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<v Speaker 1>And make it sound good yep for your ears. Yes,

0:30:31.360 --> 0:30:33.080
<v Speaker 1>so get it in and around your house. Well, let

0:30:33.120 --> 0:30:34.840
<v Speaker 1>me already have You're three quarters away through.

0:30:34.880 --> 0:30:35.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to leave it up to you. Do you

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<v Speaker 2>want another question or do you want.

0:30:36.960 --> 0:30:38.560
<v Speaker 3>To wrap it? No, give me another question.

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<v Speaker 2>I knew you'd say that. I'm just here for the people,

0:30:41.320 --> 0:30:42.360
<v Speaker 2>So here for it.

0:30:42.600 --> 0:30:42.920
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

0:30:42.960 --> 0:30:45.040
<v Speaker 2>Last one, I having seen a guy who I have

0:30:45.080 --> 0:30:47.600
<v Speaker 2>an amazing connection with. We get along so well, he

0:30:47.680 --> 0:30:51.440
<v Speaker 2>makes me feel so special and he has amazing qualities. However,

0:30:52.120 --> 0:30:53.840
<v Speaker 2>my best friend has made it very clear that she

0:30:53.920 --> 0:30:56.040
<v Speaker 2>thinks I'm settling for him and she thinks that I

0:30:56.080 --> 0:30:58.280
<v Speaker 2>could do better and deserve somebody who takes all of

0:30:58.320 --> 0:31:01.680
<v Speaker 2>my boxes. It's obvious we're at different stages in our lives.

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<v Speaker 2>I have graduated from UNI, I live out of home,

0:31:04.200 --> 0:31:08.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm very independent, and I have savings for a house. He, however,

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<v Speaker 2>is still at UNI. He goes out a lot, he

0:31:10.560 --> 0:31:12.840
<v Speaker 2>lives at home a lot. He has more interest in

0:31:12.880 --> 0:31:15.200
<v Speaker 2>living it up rather than slowing down and saving for

0:31:15.200 --> 0:31:19.160
<v Speaker 2>the future. Am I settling? Are they right? Do you

0:31:19.240 --> 0:31:19.520
<v Speaker 2>know what?

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<v Speaker 3>I think?

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like both of these people are relatively young,

0:31:22.240 --> 0:31:24.000
<v Speaker 1>Like it sounds like she's just come out of UNI

0:31:24.160 --> 0:31:26.080
<v Speaker 1>and he's still at UNI. So I'm going to guess

0:31:26.120 --> 0:31:29.200
<v Speaker 1>that you're in your early twenties. It's okay to date

0:31:29.280 --> 0:31:32.080
<v Speaker 1>people just because you have a really amazing connection with them,

0:31:32.080 --> 0:31:33.800
<v Speaker 1>with art thinking about where you're going to be in

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<v Speaker 1>the next seven ten years time.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think if you think that.

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<v Speaker 1>You really really love the guy, or you love being

0:31:40.240 --> 0:31:42.640
<v Speaker 1>around him, and he makes you really happy at this

0:31:42.680 --> 0:31:45.680
<v Speaker 1>point in life, if he doesn't have all his shit together,

0:31:46.000 --> 0:31:47.920
<v Speaker 1>he's allowed to be afforded a bit of time. If

0:31:47.920 --> 0:31:50.400
<v Speaker 1>he's only in his early twenties, Like that guy's it's

0:31:50.440 --> 0:31:53.320
<v Speaker 1>okay that he doesn't have everything together yet, I think.

0:31:53.400 --> 0:31:55.360
<v Speaker 2>So I want to add that. She did finish it

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<v Speaker 2>by saying I can't imagine my life without him, But

0:31:58.960 --> 0:32:01.720
<v Speaker 2>I can't help and think, think, am I settling? Do

0:32:01.800 --> 0:32:03.560
<v Speaker 2>I give up on this amazing connection in the hope

0:32:03.600 --> 0:32:06.200
<v Speaker 2>of finding someone more on my level. So the bit

0:32:06.240 --> 0:32:08.480
<v Speaker 2>that sticks out for me is I can't imagine my

0:32:08.520 --> 0:32:10.560
<v Speaker 2>life without him. If the only reason is you need

0:32:10.600 --> 0:32:12.720
<v Speaker 2>to find someone on your level, which is ready to

0:32:12.720 --> 0:32:15.720
<v Speaker 2>buy a house, I don't think that's a reason he's

0:32:15.800 --> 0:32:18.680
<v Speaker 2>at UNI. He wants to live his UNI life. You

0:32:18.680 --> 0:32:21.080
<v Speaker 2>guys could have a mortgage for the next fifty years.

0:32:21.400 --> 0:32:23.880
<v Speaker 2>I think it's okay to be in a different place

0:32:24.320 --> 0:32:26.200
<v Speaker 2>if he's still treating you well and you're still getting

0:32:26.200 --> 0:32:29.600
<v Speaker 2>the respect and you trust him, and you're still spending

0:32:29.680 --> 0:32:32.760
<v Speaker 2>enough quality time together. I think it's really great for

0:32:32.880 --> 0:32:36.000
<v Speaker 2>partners to have different interests and different hobbies and want

0:32:36.000 --> 0:32:37.720
<v Speaker 2>to do different things. I don't think you need to

0:32:37.720 --> 0:32:39.880
<v Speaker 2>live on top of each other. So if he's going

0:32:39.920 --> 0:32:42.480
<v Speaker 2>out and there's not actually bothering you because you trust him,

0:32:43.160 --> 0:32:45.160
<v Speaker 2>I don't I don't think that's the end of the world.

0:32:45.320 --> 0:32:47.280
<v Speaker 1>And also I think, just to add on to what

0:32:47.280 --> 0:32:49.720
<v Speaker 1>Britney has said, like, there may come a point in

0:32:49.760 --> 0:32:52.120
<v Speaker 1>the future where the fact that you were on very

0:32:52.160 --> 0:32:55.840
<v Speaker 1>different trajectories is like the gap is too wide, Like

0:32:55.880 --> 0:32:59.120
<v Speaker 1>you can't ignore that anymore. But if that's not there yet,

0:32:59.160 --> 0:33:00.920
<v Speaker 1>then why not just enjoy it for what it is

0:33:00.920 --> 0:33:03.160
<v Speaker 1>at the moment, explore what it is. There is a

0:33:03.240 --> 0:33:05.560
<v Speaker 1>chance that he will man up and get onto your

0:33:05.600 --> 0:33:08.200
<v Speaker 1>wavelength and he will want those things as well. But

0:33:08.480 --> 0:33:11.000
<v Speaker 1>in the meantime, when you're kind of like sussing things out,

0:33:11.280 --> 0:33:13.320
<v Speaker 1>I really do feel like it is okay to date

0:33:13.360 --> 0:33:15.840
<v Speaker 1>people that you know, kind of deviate from these very

0:33:15.880 --> 0:33:18.680
<v Speaker 1>specific set of rules that you have for yourself, because

0:33:18.840 --> 0:33:21.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, people progress at different stages, they progress at

0:33:21.760 --> 0:33:25.080
<v Speaker 1>different speeds, and you know, he may get there and

0:33:25.160 --> 0:33:27.880
<v Speaker 1>you guys may have an incredible life together, but you

0:33:28.000 --> 0:33:29.240
<v Speaker 1>can afford him a little bit.

0:33:29.200 --> 0:33:30.040
<v Speaker 3>Of time to get there.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm making the assumption that you guys are young. It's

0:33:32.400 --> 0:33:34.600
<v Speaker 2>obviously a different level. If you guys are thirty to

0:33:34.680 --> 0:33:37.480
<v Speaker 2>thirty five. Oh yeah, yeah, no, no, no, he's gone, yeah,

0:33:37.480 --> 0:33:40.080
<v Speaker 2>he's going out and he's at UNI. Good on him

0:33:40.120 --> 0:33:42.280
<v Speaker 2>for being a mature age student. But also like, you

0:33:42.360 --> 0:33:44.280
<v Speaker 2>definitely need someone on your level. But if you guys

0:33:44.280 --> 0:33:47.640
<v Speaker 2>are still young bloody, party it up, go out with him,

0:33:47.640 --> 0:33:50.320
<v Speaker 2>go and have some fun, because one day you're gonna

0:33:50.320 --> 0:33:52.560
<v Speaker 2>have a baby, you're gonna be stuck at home, you're

0:33:52.560 --> 0:33:54.360
<v Speaker 2>gonna be forty, you're gonna be like, where did my

0:33:54.400 --> 0:33:56.760
<v Speaker 2>life go? It's not that bad brand, Oh it's not.

0:33:56.840 --> 0:33:57.880
<v Speaker 2>But that's what will happen.

0:33:58.040 --> 0:34:00.360
<v Speaker 1>But I think that that's a really really important point.

0:34:00.400 --> 0:34:02.720
<v Speaker 1>And I think that, you know, we need to drive

0:34:02.760 --> 0:34:05.160
<v Speaker 1>that home a little bit. Age does play a massive

0:34:05.160 --> 0:34:07.800
<v Speaker 1>part in this, and so if you are young, then

0:34:07.960 --> 0:34:10.880
<v Speaker 1>I think there is no problem. And also, like, you know,

0:34:10.920 --> 0:34:12.800
<v Speaker 1>it's nice that your friend cares about you and wants

0:34:12.960 --> 0:34:15.239
<v Speaker 1>has your best interest at heart, Like I really like

0:34:15.400 --> 0:34:17.560
<v Speaker 1>I love that from her. But at the same time,

0:34:17.680 --> 0:34:20.040
<v Speaker 1>I think it's okay for you to have a relationship

0:34:20.040 --> 0:34:22.680
<v Speaker 1>where it may not be end goal, Like you're allowed

0:34:22.719 --> 0:34:25.839
<v Speaker 1>to just experience love and explore what love is at

0:34:25.840 --> 0:34:27.960
<v Speaker 1>a young age. When you get a bit older and

0:34:27.960 --> 0:34:29.640
<v Speaker 1>when you are in your thirties and you do have

0:34:29.719 --> 0:34:32.000
<v Speaker 1>goals that you want for your life, it is really

0:34:32.040 --> 0:34:34.000
<v Speaker 1>important that you find somebody who is on the same

0:34:34.040 --> 0:34:37.160
<v Speaker 1>trajectory as you and wants the same things, because otherwise

0:34:37.160 --> 0:34:39.759
<v Speaker 1>you're going to waste time and it may mean that

0:34:39.800 --> 0:34:41.680
<v Speaker 1>you may never get the things that you want in life.

0:34:41.680 --> 0:34:43.839
<v Speaker 1>So if you waste the better half of your late

0:34:43.880 --> 0:34:47.799
<v Speaker 1>twenties and early thirties and into your mid thirties with

0:34:47.880 --> 0:34:50.320
<v Speaker 1>a guy who doesn't want to settle down or have kids,

0:34:50.360 --> 0:34:52.240
<v Speaker 1>then it may mean that you'll never get to settle

0:34:52.280 --> 0:34:55.080
<v Speaker 1>down and have kids. So that is really really important.

0:34:55.120 --> 0:34:57.440
<v Speaker 1>But I am like you are, assuming that this is

0:34:57.520 --> 0:34:59.799
<v Speaker 1>a person who's quite young, who's just fresh out of

0:34:59.800 --> 0:35:03.480
<v Speaker 1>you girl friend. You enjoy that then has some great

0:35:03.520 --> 0:35:06.640
<v Speaker 1>old young people sex and have a good old time. Yeah,

0:35:07.120 --> 0:35:08.160
<v Speaker 1>young people sex.

0:35:08.200 --> 0:35:09.640
<v Speaker 3>What is the young people sex?

0:35:10.120 --> 0:35:11.400
<v Speaker 1>That's when you actually put effort in.

0:35:11.920 --> 0:35:15.680
<v Speaker 2>That's when you do like more than one position, or

0:35:15.719 --> 0:35:19.359
<v Speaker 2>when you're awake, when you're awake awake.

0:35:19.160 --> 0:35:21.520
<v Speaker 3>I'm just definitely not doing multiple positions anymore.

0:35:21.640 --> 0:35:23.640
<v Speaker 2>No, the only other point that I actually, on a

0:35:23.680 --> 0:35:25.520
<v Speaker 2>serious note, want to drive home is I think the

0:35:25.880 --> 0:35:28.279
<v Speaker 2>age is the important thing. The other important factor is

0:35:28.880 --> 0:35:31.560
<v Speaker 2>how his actions are making you feel. If you're okay

0:35:31.600 --> 0:35:34.000
<v Speaker 2>with it, I did mention before. If you're okay with it,

0:35:34.200 --> 0:35:36.839
<v Speaker 2>you trust him. He's not making you feel shitty, he's

0:35:36.880 --> 0:35:39.600
<v Speaker 2>respecting you, then that's fine. If it doesn't bother you,

0:35:39.680 --> 0:35:42.920
<v Speaker 2>that's fine. If you're laying awake wondering where he is

0:35:42.960 --> 0:35:44.799
<v Speaker 2>and what he's doing, and you're upset by it and

0:35:44.840 --> 0:35:47.040
<v Speaker 2>he's not giving you attention, he's not giving you respect,

0:35:47.600 --> 0:35:49.760
<v Speaker 2>that's a different manner. So just see how you feel.

0:35:49.800 --> 0:35:53.600
<v Speaker 2>And I think you need to make your decisions accordingly.

0:35:54.120 --> 0:35:56.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh God, I love it when we agree on things.

0:35:56.960 --> 0:36:01.840
<v Speaker 1>Look at us and now cohesive kind of makes sense.

0:36:02.040 --> 0:36:02.520
<v Speaker 3>Advice.

0:36:02.760 --> 0:36:03.640
<v Speaker 1>Wow, go us.

0:36:03.719 --> 0:36:06.000
<v Speaker 2>We were very passionate today about some of those, weren't we.

0:36:06.000 --> 0:36:07.759
<v Speaker 2>I know, I hit home and we're emotional.

0:36:07.960 --> 0:36:10.239
<v Speaker 1>I also feel, yeah, well, I think emotions are just

0:36:10.239 --> 0:36:12.920
<v Speaker 1>heightened in general at the moment. But I do feel

0:36:12.920 --> 0:36:15.919
<v Speaker 1>that this is the one real chance that I've had

0:36:15.960 --> 0:36:18.120
<v Speaker 1>today and actually in the past couple of days, to

0:36:18.160 --> 0:36:20.560
<v Speaker 1>speak to it human like an adult human.

0:36:20.719 --> 0:36:22.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh I'm glad you look at me as an adult.

0:36:22.800 --> 0:36:24.720
<v Speaker 3>Yes, you are an adult human.

0:36:25.000 --> 0:36:27.759
<v Speaker 1>I have been stuck inside with Marley with nobody to

0:36:27.840 --> 0:36:30.800
<v Speaker 1>talk to. I facetimed my sister. That's the only conversation

0:36:30.880 --> 0:36:32.799
<v Speaker 1>I've really had. And then obviously I speak to Matt.

0:36:32.840 --> 0:36:34.520
<v Speaker 1>But I speak to Matt all the time every day,

0:36:35.080 --> 0:36:38.680
<v Speaker 1>and you know, like it doesn't count.

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<v Speaker 3>So this has been good for me.

0:36:42.360 --> 0:36:43.120
<v Speaker 1>I love this for me.

0:36:43.239 --> 0:36:45.680
<v Speaker 2>This has been good for me too, because all day

0:36:45.920 --> 0:36:48.920
<v Speaker 2>all I do, I know everyone is doing and thinking

0:36:48.960 --> 0:36:52.480
<v Speaker 2>and hearing and speaking about Corona at the moment, but

0:36:52.560 --> 0:36:55.000
<v Speaker 2>I guess because I'm in the hospital in screaming process

0:36:55.040 --> 0:36:58.200
<v Speaker 2>with it. It's literally all I do, all I see,

0:36:58.320 --> 0:37:00.960
<v Speaker 2>all I think about is like proper consuming. So it's

0:37:01.000 --> 0:37:04.160
<v Speaker 2>so nice. This is like therapy for me right now.

0:37:04.320 --> 0:37:06.400
<v Speaker 1>Well, this is also therapy for all you guys, so

0:37:06.680 --> 0:37:10.279
<v Speaker 1>please keep your questions coming. We love answering all of

0:37:10.320 --> 0:37:13.440
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0:37:23.520 --> 0:37:26.440
<v Speaker 1>about Ask Uncut. Also, we do a section on our

0:37:26.640 --> 0:37:29.919
<v Speaker 1>Tuesday episode which is Accidentally Unfiltered, and that is all

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<v Speaker 1>of your most embarrassing stories and we love them, So

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0:37:41.400 --> 0:37:43.520
<v Speaker 1>the messages, because you that's a real thing. Yeah, you

0:37:43.560 --> 0:37:45.759
<v Speaker 1>guys message so much and it's amazing. We're doing our

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<v Speaker 1>best to kind of get back to all of you,

0:37:48.080 --> 0:37:50.400
<v Speaker 1>and we really appreciate everybody who does message and to

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<v Speaker 1>everybody who's listened. We love making this content for you.

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<v Speaker 1>We also love that you guys listen to it.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a mosquito, but on my butt, I just

0:37:57.880 --> 0:37:58.759
<v Speaker 2>on my look at that.

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<v Speaker 3>It's what are you doing? I just noticed it?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you get back to the podcast?

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, guys, thanks for tuning in. You've just made our day.

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<v Speaker 2>Please if you loved the episode, wait, Laura's have a thought.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, guys, actually, we've been getting so

0:38:14.920 --> 0:38:18.359
<v Speaker 1>many questions about what dating looks like now that we're

0:38:18.360 --> 0:38:21.280
<v Speaker 1>all in isolation, like so many and so we didn't

0:38:21.360 --> 0:38:24.799
<v Speaker 1>choose any questions about that specifically for this episode, even

0:38:24.800 --> 0:38:27.600
<v Speaker 1>though it was like the number one biggest question that

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<v Speaker 1>we had coming in. So we're going to do a

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<v Speaker 1>whole episode about that on Tuesday, and it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be exploring like, what does the dating world look like

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<v Speaker 1>now that we are all self isolating? What does it

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<v Speaker 1>mean for couples who are stuck in isolation together and

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<v Speaker 1>just really unpack this whole idea of what the dating

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<v Speaker 1>world is now. It's that everything has changed. It's uncharted territory.

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<v Speaker 1>We haven't ever experienced it before in the whole world.

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<v Speaker 2>I just wided.

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to get arrow, get out there and

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<v Speaker 1>do it, but you can't because of Bachelor and Paradise.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have a shame? Do you hate that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know? I hate that I don't know. I hate

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<v Speaker 1>that you won't tell me any dating stories. You are

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<v Speaker 1>a useless sack of flesh, pound of flesh next to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Now imagine the content I have to tell you once

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<v Speaker 2>we can.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, guys, strap in and put on your undies for

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<v Speaker 1>when batch your paradise actually star Strap in and.

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<v Speaker 2>Put your undies on. Man, you've spent too much time inside. Guys.

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<v Speaker 4>Out of he the Kabapalla, Bakamoto, Pamper