Speaker 1: Guys.
Speaker 2: Hi, welcome to Life on Cut and Ask Uncut edition.
Speaker 2: It's our favorite little edition of the week.
Speaker 1: I'm Brittany and I'm Laura. Britt Why don't you just
Speaker 1: let everyone know the song you were just singing?
Speaker 2: I just made it up on the spot, Laura said.
Speaker 2: Laura said, I'm so tired, and I was like, well,
Speaker 2: let's get some big lurk energy, get some big energy
Speaker 2: or something that's worse than what it was.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So this is our very uplifting podcast with some
Speaker 1: big dick energy thanks to Brittany.
Speaker 2: Do you know I've never heard that term big dick
Speaker 2: energy until you said it in one of our pots.
Speaker 2: Did you actually coin the term or is it a term?
Speaker 1: I can't take credit for it, although I would lie
Speaker 1: to because it is such a good saying. You know
Speaker 1: what big dick energy is, right, I No, I had
Speaker 1: never heard of it. I've just rolled with it, pretending
Speaker 1: on you.
Speaker 3: But well, for.
Speaker 1: Anyone who doesn't know, it is when a man walks
Speaker 1: in a room and you're like, hmm, that man has
Speaker 1: got something, some aura about him, and it's because he
Speaker 1: has the aura of a man with a big dick.
Speaker 2: Oh see, I would have just called that swagger.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's exactly what it is. Some swagger.
Speaker 2: Baby better because it's not a swear word.
Speaker 1: I know. I feel like we' first started this podcast
Speaker 1: with a really this is a really crass intro.
Speaker 2: I thin we're gonna have to take the song out.
Speaker 2: Sorry about that, guys. Anyway, Britt, how's your weet been
Speaker 2: so far?
Speaker 1: Yep?
Speaker 2: I have just eaten my way through the week. To
Speaker 2: be honest, I'm carrying a little bit of weight this week.
Speaker 1: This is just Isolation's been good to your honey.
Speaker 2: I'm car bloating. I'm getting ready to hibernate through the winter,
Speaker 2: and I feel like I can't well. I hope I'm
Speaker 2: not the only one.
Speaker 1: No, we were talking about this on the way to
Speaker 1: the podcast studio. I haven't been eating my way through isolation.
Speaker 1: I've been drinking my way through isolation. Matt even said
Speaker 1: to me yesterday. He was like, Laura, I think we
Speaker 1: need to talk. You've been drinking wine every single day
Speaker 1: and I'm like, it's just one or two glasses, Like
Speaker 1: it's fine, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: What do we need to talk about it?
Speaker 1: I was like, what's your problems? What's the point is it?
Speaker 1: Because we're running out of wine. We should go go
Speaker 1: get more.
Speaker 2: Don't want bottles still open and put an express order
Speaker 2: in there.
Speaker 1: Coming Oh anyway, it's because I get to dinner time
Speaker 1: and I'm cooking dinner, and then and now it's.
Speaker 3: Just become a little ritual.
Speaker 1: I open a bottle of wine, I pour myself a glass,
Speaker 1: and I have my glass of win wine cooking. Guys,
Speaker 1: I'm not an alcoholic. I honestly I have having two
Speaker 1: glasses of wine. But I know that even two glasses
Speaker 1: of wine a day is probably a bit excessive.
Speaker 2: Well, the benefit of not isolating with a partner aka me,
Speaker 2: is that no one polices my drinking, so I don't
Speaker 2: necessarily stop it too.
Speaker 1: When I endorsing this or encourage this. But you know
Speaker 1: what it's got as good so far. Do you know
Speaker 1: what gets me through?
Speaker 2: I put a splash.
Speaker 3: So you're a big dig energy song, it's.
Speaker 2: Not that, but I put a splash in like whatever
Speaker 2: I'm cooking that I'm like, I'm cooking with the wine.
Speaker 2: I'm drinking it. Bit of wine for the pasta bit
Speaker 2: of wine.
Speaker 1: Well, otherwise it's gonna go off and then you're just
Speaker 1: gonna have vinegar so you just really it's saving and
Speaker 1: in these crisis times, we can't have any waste, can
Speaker 1: we breading?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 2: I need to be serious. I actually I'm not just
Speaker 2: saying this. I'm not being like cutesies. I can't stop eating.
Speaker 2: I can't stop eating.
Speaker 3: I don't know what it is.
Speaker 2: I'm an animal. I'm like an animal that has been
Speaker 2: locked up. It's like I need to think. It's like
Speaker 2: I'm thinking I need to eat all the food now
Speaker 2: and store it up in case the world runs out.
Speaker 1: Some people are stockpiling in their pantry, and Brittany is
Speaker 1: just stockpiling inside. I I'm self stockpiling.
Speaker 2: It's really bad. But you know what, I'm just like,
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna roll with it. I'm gonna be motivated
Speaker 2: later on in my life and for once in my life,
Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, I'm just gonna stuck up a few layers.
Speaker 1: Well, if there's ever gonna be a time to go
Speaker 1: ham for choice of a better word, on this whole situation, it's.
Speaker 2: Insurance to go donut.
Speaker 1: It's now, it's now.
Speaker 3: It's now.
Speaker 1: You're not gonna see any guys. You're not dating like
Speaker 1: you're in isolation. You don't have to like front up
Speaker 1: or look good or do anything. You can be the
Speaker 1: ugliest that you've ever been and just go wild.
Speaker 2: You do your thing, thinking and putting a little photo
Speaker 2: up and just sending the Daily Mail wild that because
Speaker 2: I actually I bloat. I have been bloating because I'm
Speaker 2: alleged to gluten too, But all rules out the window
Speaker 2: right now. I've been eating everything else thinking putting a
Speaker 2: photo up and just look, I look pregnant sometimes, so
Speaker 2: I was thinking of just running with that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's fine.
Speaker 1: We can send some photos to Daily Mail and really
Speaker 1: start some conspiracy theories.
Speaker 2: It actually mean some more money in this time, so
Speaker 2: I could try and sell it. I am. I am
Speaker 2: just more.
Speaker 1: Guys, if you see an article that comes out in
Speaker 1: the next couple of weeks about Brittany being pregnant, it's
Speaker 1: because she's sold it to the Daily Mail instead of
Speaker 1: having to hog some skincare products on Instagram.
Speaker 2: And you know what doesn't help the situation, Laura, what
Speaker 2: your skinny little ass sitting across from me?
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 1: I posted a video yesterday of Matt and I like
Speaker 1: trying to entertain ourselves during this whole thing of self
Speaker 1: isolation and everyone was like, why are you so thin
Speaker 1: after having a baby. Guys, I'm not thin. I am haggard.
Speaker 1: I am so tired. This is the skinniness of someone
Speaker 1: who is exhausted. I mean, it has got nothing to
Speaker 1: do with exercise. It is this is this is exhaustion.
Speaker 1: That's what that is. One of the most positive things
Speaker 1: that has come out of this whole self isolation thing
Speaker 1: is that. And Guys, for anybody who wants to get
Speaker 1: on board with this, I highly recommend Sam wood is
Speaker 1: doing a nine am free live exercise twenty eight days.
Speaker 1: There you go, there's his plug. Because I've been jumping
Speaker 1: on board sponsored, not not sponsored.
Speaker 3: Just really fucking good.
Speaker 1: I've been jumping on every morning nine am. I clear
Speaker 1: the coffee table out the way I put Maley in
Speaker 1: the high chair, give us some banana bread. She's also
Speaker 1: stockpiling inside.
Speaker 3: And I do like Maali Weill, Sam would work out.
Speaker 1: So if anyone's been sitting at home thinking I hate that,
Speaker 1: you know my routine's gone out the window, Well I've
Speaker 1: got a new routine for you. Come and do a
Speaker 1: live twenty eight days workout with me.
Speaker 2: I did put a poet stuff the other day a
Speaker 2: few days ago as well, because I think this is
Speaker 2: really important to highlight. I'm so in my health and fitness.
Speaker 2: You don't know someone more motivated than me. I'm addicted.
Speaker 2: I exercise every day. I froth it.
Speaker 1: Yes, I wish you wouldn't use that word, but yes,
Speaker 1: you really do. I don't know anybody who exercises as
Speaker 1: frequently as you.
Speaker 2: Do, but I genuinely love it. Great legs, thank you,
Speaker 2: thank you. But my point of this, that's not my point.
Speaker 2: My point of the post is I've never been less
Speaker 2: motivated in my life than what I am in this isolation.
Speaker 2: So everyone's going the opposite. Everyone's like, I'm so motivated,
Speaker 2: I'm doing all this stuff at home. I'm the opposite.
Speaker 2: I'm not working out. My health when I'm eating, when
Speaker 2: I watch has gone out the window. I don't know
Speaker 2: what it is. I don't know if it's because I'm
Speaker 2: still working a lot and I'm stressed. I feel like
Speaker 2: there might be some emotional eating involved. But I just
Speaker 2: wanted to put it out there too. If you're struggling
Speaker 2: in that and you're feeling down and you're feeling unmotived,
Speaker 2: that's totally fine as well. Because there's a lot of
Speaker 2: people on Instagram right now that are like OTT with
Speaker 2: their exercise and their encouragement, which is fantastic. But also
Speaker 2: if you happen to down day and you don't want
Speaker 2: to get out of bed, that's also okay. You can
Speaker 2: lay in bed and eat chocolate and watch movies because
Speaker 2: there are no rules in isolation.
Speaker 1: It's like Netflix. When Netflix says to you, are you
Speaker 1: still watching this? You're like, yes, Netflix, of course, I'm
Speaker 1: fucking still watching that for the fourth time today. What
Speaker 1: else could I possibly be doing? Netflix, I haven't forgotten.
Speaker 1: I want to watch the entire series now. It's four
Speaker 1: I am It's been seventeen hours that you've been watching it.
Speaker 1: This is the smilet. But also I think, like what
Speaker 1: you just said, there is the whole spectrum at the moment,
Speaker 1: and I think every emotion is completely valid. Maybe you're
Speaker 1: trying to use this time to be super productive, read
Speaker 1: lots of books, FaceTime your friends, and maybe you've gone
Speaker 1: the other end of the spectrum where you're kind of
Speaker 1: just like in a bit of a self isolation hole.
Speaker 3: All of that is fine, but.
Speaker 1: I think at some point we have to kind of
Speaker 1: like rebalance and figure out what our new normal is
Speaker 1: in this situation, because if this is going to be
Speaker 1: going on for god who knows, like three months, two months,
Speaker 1: six months, then I think we just have to adapt
Speaker 1: and figure out what is like a comfortable and sustainable
Speaker 1: lifestyle in this And for me it's nine am workouts
Speaker 1: for twenty eight days. And for me, I'm almost through
Speaker 1: my emergency snacks, so it'll end soon.
Speaker 2: I did want to ask you something, what what have
Speaker 2: you been watching? What's something you can recommend if you
Speaker 2: watched anything good on Netflix?
Speaker 1: For the people I saw people, Oh, the only thing
Speaker 1: that I can recommend is something that everybody has already seen.
Speaker 3: I think I was late to the party. You've seen
Speaker 3: Target King.
Speaker 2: You're like Joe Exotic Joe exactly. I was gonna ask
Speaker 2: you that it's trending. I watched one episode. I've only
Speaker 2: watched one episode.
Speaker 1: It's so good.
Speaker 2: It was so slow.
Speaker 1: What Yeah?
Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, I like, when does something happen?
Speaker 2: The first episode so long and it's like I love
Speaker 2: tigers and that's all he says, and I'm like, okay,
Speaker 2: like what else happens?
Speaker 3: And the tag is still on me.
Speaker 1: I have the tag that is definitely not how it groes,
Speaker 1: but I know it's That's what I've been watching. The
Speaker 1: Morning Show? Is that the other one? Is it called
Speaker 1: the Morning Show?
Speaker 3: Like the News?
Speaker 1: No, not the Morning Jennifer Aniston's shitty morning show that's
Speaker 1: on our TV.
Speaker 2: The Jennifer tuning in in the morning.
Speaker 3: I was like, is he even on the Morning Show?
Speaker 2: He is? Yeah, that was terrible.
Speaker 1: Anyway. No, I've been watching the one Reese Witherspoon and
Speaker 1: it's really good.
Speaker 3: Okay, but I'm only a few episodes into.
Speaker 2: That one, so I just binge watched Elite. Have you
Speaker 2: seen Elite?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: Okay, so guys, given it's dubbed because it's Spanish, but
Speaker 2: it's like the modern day Spanish version of gossip Girl,
Speaker 2: and once you get past the fact that it's dubbed,
Speaker 2: you'll love it absolutely.
Speaker 3: I don't know if I could.
Speaker 1: I tried to watch another series quite a while ago
Speaker 1: that was like a voiced over, like voiced in English,
Speaker 1: but it was obviously like another language. That was just so.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 3: I really shouldn't have had that half bottle of wine
Speaker 3: before I came.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I couldn't. I couldn't get into the fact
Speaker 1: that it was the voicing was out of sick like
Speaker 1: that really really irked me and I couldn't get over it.
Speaker 1: So I couldn't get into it.
Speaker 2: I feel like you will in this one, all right,
Speaker 2: I might.
Speaker 3: Give it a try.
Speaker 1: Although your last recommendation of Love is Blind, I still
Speaker 1: haven't gotten on board with that. So there's another guys,
Speaker 1: if you haven't seen Love is Blind. Britt was raving
Speaker 1: on about it. It's one of the only reality TV
Speaker 1: shows that actually makes sense in isolation at the moment.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So, well, speaking of that, so we mentioned in
Speaker 2: the last episode that the Bachelor was going to be
Speaker 2: put on hold. What were they going to do? And
Speaker 2: we sort of hypothesized.
Speaker 1: I was going to bring this up to you. So
Speaker 1: one of the posts I put out on Instagram yesterday,
Speaker 1: Locky aka the Bachelor, he messaged and left a comment
Speaker 1: on it, and I was like, I'm sorry, you're supposed
Speaker 1: to be in fucking lockdown. How do you have a phone?
Speaker 2: He was in the wild.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So it turns out that all of the girls and
Speaker 1: Locky are all home. They have to be very restricted
Speaker 1: with the thing that they're allowed to do, like the
Speaker 1: messaging and everything.
Speaker 2: Tied up in their bedroom.
Speaker 1: No, but but they're home, they've got their phones and
Speaker 1: they can still like walk around and be part of
Speaker 1: the normal world and with me as much as anyone
Speaker 1: else can. And so they've totally stopped filming and they're
Speaker 1: going to go back to it.
Speaker 2: It's nuts, It's nuts.
Speaker 3: It's my mind is blown.
Speaker 2: It's like we are in uncharted territory.
Speaker 1: People.
Speaker 2: This has not been done before. I don't know how
Speaker 2: I feel about it, because once they go back, like
Speaker 2: what if they contact each other.
Speaker 1: No rules apply anymore. Like if the Bachelor is stop
Speaker 1: filming and these people are like roaming around in the wild,
Speaker 1: anything goes, anything, anything goes. So the issue that I
Speaker 1: have with this whole concept of the fact that they've
Speaker 1: been in isolation together, like they've been in lockdown filming
Speaker 1: and now they're out in the world, but they have
Speaker 1: their phones and they can all contact toever the hell
Speaker 1: they want. My question about this is the whole concept
Speaker 1: of the Bachelor is based around Stockholm syndrome. So Stockholm
Speaker 1: syndrome is basically when a person falls in love with
Speaker 1: their captor, which is exactly what happens. You know, you
Speaker 1: have no is your cap I'm still help me. So
Speaker 1: what happens is is that because you are in this
Speaker 1: lockdown environment where all the girls are in one house
Speaker 1: and the bachelor's in another house, you have no outside stimulus.
Speaker 1: So you can't watch the news, you can't read a newspaper,
Speaker 1: you don't know anything that's happening outside. You can't see
Speaker 1: any other men except for Soundy's and like you know,
Speaker 1: the mic guys.
Speaker 2: Some of those guys are really cute too.
Speaker 1: Well they're not really, but they become cute because there's
Speaker 1: else to look at. So it's based on this concept
Speaker 1: that every other distraction in life is taken away from you,
Speaker 1: so that the bachelor ends up being put on this
Speaker 1: pedestal and he becomes the holy grail and the only
Speaker 1: thing that you.
Speaker 3: Can focus on.
Speaker 1: But now that this filming has been interrupted and the
Speaker 1: girls are able to be back in the wild and
Speaker 1: they can on the internet and they can do whatever
Speaker 1: they want to, I think it's going to really interrupt
Speaker 1: this whole idea of building this fantasy around who Lucky is.
Speaker 2: And I imagine there would be very strict rules place
Speaker 2: like no contacting each other, no contacting like the girls
Speaker 2: each other or lockie. But I can't imagine at this
Speaker 2: point of the game that they're not going to contact
Speaker 2: each other, especially they're about halfway through filming, so they
Speaker 2: would want they would that'd be forming connections totally.
Speaker 1: And if you've got your phone in hand, who's to say,
Speaker 1: you know, you can always download can you can do
Speaker 1: it on WhatsApp and then delete it.
Speaker 3: Those those messages are encrypted.
Speaker 1: So I just think this is going to be such
Speaker 1: a wild and crazy season, something that we've never seen before.
Speaker 1: But apparently they're going to steam ahead with it. So
Speaker 1: let's just kind of hold the phone caller and figure
Speaker 1: out what they're doing with that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, mind blowing.
Speaker 1: Well, maybe we should get into the episode, which is guys,
Speaker 1: this episode is well, you know, we do it every week,
Speaker 1: but this is our ask uncut episode where you guys
Speaker 1: write in your deep, dark and dirty questions to us
Speaker 1: and we do our absolute best to try and answer
Speaker 1: them for you. You know, we are not qualified, but
Speaker 1: we give you very very heartfelt advice. I think of
Speaker 1: us like the big sister or the friend that you
Speaker 1: don't have or you have there, you go over here.
Speaker 2: You say we're not qualified, but we've been doing this
Speaker 2: for nearly a year. And you can get like a
Speaker 2: tape certificate in that time, I reckon, we could be
Speaker 2: like qualified.
Speaker 1: Do you reckon? They're going to start giving out taste
Speaker 1: cifgots for our shitty dating advice.
Speaker 2: Do you know there are degrees in like the Netherlands
Speaker 2: and stuff now that are a Bachelor of influencing. I'm
Speaker 2: not even kidding. I'm not even pulling your.
Speaker 1: Leg, do you know? It scares me though. It scares
Speaker 1: me that kids are going through school these days and
Speaker 1: instead of them wanting to be rock stars or movie stars,
Speaker 1: they want to be influencers. Like that's what some children
Speaker 1: are aspiring.
Speaker 2: To be, which is scary.
Speaker 1: It is frightening because I mean, at least, for example,
Speaker 1: like in the whole sporting arena, for example, there's now
Speaker 1: there's because like there were so many people who are
Speaker 1: coming out of doing professional sport and not having careers
Speaker 1: after they hit thirty five. Right now, there's so much
Speaker 1: care that's put into making sure that people who are
Speaker 1: in professional sports also have education in other fields so
Speaker 1: that they can go into doing like physio or sports
Speaker 1: science or something else so they have transferable skills.
Speaker 3: The issue with being.
Speaker 1: An influencer is that there are very limited transferable skills,
Speaker 1: and if you're one and only reason that people are
Speaker 1: following you is because you're hot and you can take
Speaker 1: a good photo in a bikini.
Speaker 2: You're not always going to be hot.
Speaker 1: Holy shit, what is going to happen when you up?
Speaker 3: Then, Haggard, excuse.
Speaker 2: Me when I'm thirty four, I'm definitely got that far off.
Speaker 3: I No, that's what I mean.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about myself, like you know, like, yes, sure
Speaker 1: I do some influencing jobs, but.
Speaker 3: I have to have another job as well.
Speaker 2: Hondi, hondy, Honey, honey, Hundi, Hondi bra. That's what the
Speaker 2: kids are saying.
Speaker 1: You're so cool, all right, hit me with the first question.
Speaker 2: Okay, my boyfriend and I have been seeing each other
Speaker 2: a few months when all of this corona started to
Speaker 2: go down. He lives into state, and we decided to
Speaker 2: solve quarantine together, so he drove to my place in Sydney,
Speaker 2: meaning he crossed the border. Now I'm going crazy and
Speaker 2: think that I made a mistake. It's all too much.
Speaker 2: I find myself getting annoyed every little thing he does,
Speaker 2: and I don't even want to sleep with him. Now,
Speaker 2: what do I do? Do you reckon this is normal?
Speaker 2: Can I ask him to leave? Do I stick it out?
Speaker 2: Do I fake it? Do we break up? Help?
Speaker 3: This is such a good question, I reckon.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of people in this position right now,
Speaker 2: do you.
Speaker 1: I think the whole like quarantining with a partner, it's
Speaker 1: really made these relationships fast forward and like progress quicker
Speaker 1: than what they were supposed to. And it's put the
Speaker 1: pressure on for these people to go from like figuring
Speaker 1: out how they feel about each other to being you're together.
Speaker 2: Yeah, zero to one hundred real quick.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like a total pressure cooker.
Speaker 1: I think this is a really shit situation and absolutely
Speaker 1: like you're allowed to change your mind, Like if you're
Speaker 1: not happy in that and you think that you maybe
Speaker 1: jump the gun, Like it's unfortunate and it's very disappointed
Speaker 1: to someone else, and yes, you've put their life out,
Speaker 1: but assuming he still has a home to go back to,
Speaker 1: like it's not like he's put his whole house up
Speaker 1: for rent or something. You know, you have to have
Speaker 1: a conversation and say this isn't what you thought it
Speaker 1: was going to be and you're not happy, Like maybe
Speaker 1: you could don't pety fuck the guy or do just
Speaker 1: get one more time in there, because girlfriend, you don't
Speaker 1: know how it's going long, it's going to be in here.
Speaker 1: You can go on another day. No, But seriously, I
Speaker 1: think if you're unhappy and this guy is in your
Speaker 1: space every day, it's a lot of pressure. For even
Speaker 1: a couple that's been together for a long time, it's
Speaker 1: probably a very natural thing to feel a little bit
Speaker 1: freaked out. Don't make any rash decisions straight away. I think, like,
Speaker 1: give it a week to decide how you actually really feel.
Speaker 1: But in a week's time or two weeks time, if
Speaker 1: you're still uncomfortable and you still feel like you've made
Speaker 1: the wrong decision, then you know, sooner rather than later.
Speaker 1: Because we don't know how much of a lockdown this
Speaker 1: is going to turn into. You need to have a
Speaker 1: conversation with him, which is very clear, like, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: this isn't what I wanted, this isn't what I thought
Speaker 1: it was going to be. I'm going to give you
Speaker 1: some time to work out other arrangements. But just because
Speaker 1: you're in isolation doesn't mean that you owe this person
Speaker 1: in your life.
Speaker 2: I guess the other thing is too, just because you're
Speaker 2: not getting along right now, And just because it's not
Speaker 2: smooth sailing and perfect right now, that doesn't mean that
Speaker 2: you two aren't right. That might just mean it just
Speaker 2: happened too quickly and you weren't ready for it, and
Speaker 2: you haven't gone through the motions of a normal couple dating.
Speaker 2: So maybe it's just all intensified too soon, too quickly.
Speaker 2: But I think you just have to have a chat
Speaker 2: to him because who knows, maybe he's feeling exactly the
Speaker 2: same thing and just also doesn't know how to say it.
Speaker 1: And moving in together is such a like for some
Speaker 1: couples it seems to be super easy, and then for
Speaker 1: other couples it's just such a huge process because you're
Speaker 1: getting to know each other's idiosyncrasies, you're getting to know
Speaker 1: each other's bad habits, and all of the things that
Speaker 1: you would normally be able to kind of like gloss
Speaker 1: over and be okay with. During the honeymoon period, all
Speaker 1: that shit comes to the surface. You got to be
Speaker 1: really okay with the fact that maybe they're going to
Speaker 1: do stuff that pisces you off, and be a little
Speaker 1: bit more flexible because it's no longer just your space.
Speaker 3: It actually saw this.
Speaker 1: Really great meme the other day, and it was like
Speaker 1: for couples who are working from home and spending all
Speaker 1: of their time together need to come up with like
Speaker 1: an alter ego, like an alter character to blame stuff on, like, oh,
Speaker 1: fucking Karen left the cups out again.
Speaker 3: Why didn't Karen come in and do the vacuuming?
Speaker 2: Okay, get your shit together on vacuum.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but instead of having constant bickering, you can kind
Speaker 1: of like make a.
Speaker 3: Joke about it.
Speaker 1: But obviously the joke is like passive aggressive because you
Speaker 1: really wanted them to stop leaving their shitty couple of
Speaker 1: months all over the place.
Speaker 2: Yes, I think you just have that chat. And also
Speaker 2: I just had a point. It's gone good one, brit Yeah.
Speaker 1: Also that advice, I.
Speaker 2: Guess it depends on if he has somewhere else to go,
Speaker 2: because if he literally has nowhere, like if he was
Speaker 2: out of re renal or between houses, or he can't
Speaker 2: get back across the border. Because they are doing that. Now,
Speaker 2: that's a different story because we all now need to
Speaker 2: be helping people out. We're all gonna be putting ourselves
Speaker 2: out to help others out. That's just that's part of
Speaker 2: what life is right now. And everybody needs to get
Speaker 2: on board with that. If he's got nowhere to go, yeah,
Speaker 2: you're probably gonna have to suck it up, but you
Speaker 2: could still do it as friends. If you absolutely don't
Speaker 2: want to be with him and you don't feel anything romantic,
Speaker 2: have the chat and say let's co habitat as friends.
Speaker 1: And you know what, realistically, he's probably going to be
Speaker 1: a bit uncomfortable by that, and he's probably not gonna
Speaker 1: want to just hang around and be at the house.
Speaker 1: If you've made it clear that you don't want to
Speaker 1: be with him, he will probably try and figure out
Speaker 1: another option. It's not like we're not in such a
Speaker 1: severe lockdown right now that he can't leave. Yes, I
Speaker 1: understand that maybe if his house is in k it's
Speaker 1: in Queensland, right, Yeah, he's in Queensland, so they can
Speaker 1: still get home. You have to apply for permanent takes
Speaker 1: a bit of time, but he can still do that.
Speaker 1: He can still get home and isolate. I think it's
Speaker 1: fourteen days, So there's options here. You don't have to
Speaker 1: be in a relationship that you don't want to be in.
Speaker 1: That's not an acceptable solution to this situation. If you're
Speaker 1: not happy make some changes, but don't allow this to
Speaker 1: just be an excuse to stay in an unhappy space. However,
Speaker 1: I think just give it a week to figure out
Speaker 1: if it's actually how you feel or if it's just
Speaker 1: because you know you've been thrown into this intensity a
Speaker 1: little bit prematurely.
Speaker 2: And maybe take some space within your own home. I
Speaker 2: know that sounds crazy, but there are a lot of couple.
Speaker 2: I know my sister's been doing it a little bit
Speaker 2: with her partner. They're taking their own rooms and they're
Speaker 2: getting their work done in different rooms like they're in
Speaker 2: an office.
Speaker 1: I try and do that, and then Matt will come
Speaker 1: in after fifteen minutes and be like, I miss you.
Speaker 3: What are you doing?
Speaker 2: Oh classic, Matt. You're like, I'm trying to earn the bacon.
Speaker 1: Baby. You are a stay at home dad now, and
Speaker 1: I am the one who is working. Leave me in
Speaker 1: my bedroom office exactly. Me just sitting on my bed,
Speaker 1: facetiming like my colleagues like me's face time. Yeah, facetiming
Speaker 1: my sister and feeling like I'm sixteen again because I'm
Speaker 1: sitting in my bed doing it.
Speaker 2: It's ridiculous, all right, Next question, Am I reading it? Yeah?
Speaker 3: You're reading it, I don't have my phone's dead.
Speaker 2: Okay. So I have been with my boyfriend for almost
Speaker 2: two years, and in the past there has been some
Speaker 2: times and he's been caught messaging other girls in a
Speaker 2: flirtatious way. Recently, he stated a girl's house with all
Speaker 2: of his mates while I was on a holiday, and
Speaker 2: he tried to hide it. He only told me about
Speaker 2: it when I asked heaps of questions about it, and
Speaker 2: he tried to hide the fact that he slept in
Speaker 2: a bed with just him two girls when he knows
Speaker 2: I'm not comfortable with that. The other night, I confronted
Speaker 2: one of the girls to ask if anything happened, and
Speaker 2: she basically started crying in front of me, but she
Speaker 2: denied anything happened. So my question to you is, would
Speaker 2: you trust them when they say nothing happened. He's given
Speaker 2: me reasons in the past not just trust him.
Speaker 3: Oh no, nah, get rid of him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, but I probably would have been a
Speaker 2: bit more diplomatic.
Speaker 1: No, I think you know you know the answer to this.
Speaker 1: You know that if you're saying you don't trust him,
Speaker 1: you don't think like he's giving you reasons that are untrustworthy.
Speaker 1: What you're wanting is someone to give you that silver
Speaker 1: bullet and tell you what to do. And I'm telling
Speaker 1: you what to do. Don't be in a relationship with
Speaker 1: someone you can't trust. Don't be in a relationship with
Speaker 1: someone who lies to you. Don't be in a relationship
Speaker 1: with somebody who makes you feel insecure, or who's flirting
Speaker 1: with other girls. All of that behavior is black and
Speaker 1: white red flag. Do not be in that relationship and
Speaker 1: get out.
Speaker 2: I mean, for me, there's one huge red flag here.
Speaker 2: And you've been with him two years and he is
Speaker 2: sleeping in a bed with two other girls while you're away.
Speaker 1: Oh my, if Matt, like with Matt, went to a
Speaker 1: house party and slept in a bed with two other
Speaker 1: girls and didn't tell me about it and then lied
Speaker 1: about it whole Wow. But not even if he didn't
Speaker 1: tell you, he would be hoping that he was isolating
Speaker 1: by himself, because I would make his life help.
Speaker 2: Even if my partner came and told me he slept
Speaker 2: in the bed with two women, I would be off that.
Speaker 1: And yeah, yeah, there's there's boundaries in a relationship. And
Speaker 1: if you've made it clear that that's something that you're
Speaker 1: not okay with, and that's that crosses your boundaries, and
Speaker 1: he's done that, and he and that has also lied
Speaker 1: about it. I just think this guy is not deserving
Speaker 1: of you. You can find another relationship where you are
Speaker 1: treated way better than this, a relationship where you trust
Speaker 1: the person. And yes, it might mean that you'll be
Speaker 1: alone for a little while, and yes it means that
Speaker 1: you have to go through the shitty part of breaking
Speaker 1: up with someone. But this is not somebody who deserves you.
Speaker 1: And unless he's going to make some huge changes to
Speaker 1: his life, then this is not a relationship for you.
Speaker 1: And maybe you need some hard love because I think guys,
Speaker 1: if you're constant catching your boyfriend sending flirty text messages
Speaker 1: to other women because they need constant drip feed of
Speaker 1: attention from other people, it's just not a space or
Speaker 1: a relationship you ever want to find yourself in.
Speaker 3: So get the hell.
Speaker 2: Out, I think deep. But I feel really passionate about
Speaker 2: that one. That one really hit a call. Yeah I
Speaker 2: know it really did, didn't it, Because it's just like
Speaker 2: I've been there. Yeah, well amen, we've all been there,
Speaker 2: not ever, am, but.
Speaker 3: Yeah, just the unlucky ones.
Speaker 1: But I've been there, and I've been this person before,
Speaker 1: and I feel like I have sent that question to
Speaker 1: a friend, you know, and Lauren, Yeah, guys, no, Matt's
Speaker 1: an angel. Matt would never do that. But I have
Speaker 1: sent this sort of question or had these questions with
Speaker 1: my girlfriends before, and they've said to me like, no,
Speaker 1: it's not okay. But what happens is like it starts
Speaker 1: to become normal, Like you start to accept this bad
Speaker 1: behavior because it's happening more and more and more, and so,
Speaker 1: you know, they they do one thing and you accept
Speaker 1: that they've done that, and then that kind of clouds
Speaker 1: where your boundaries are, and then they do something else
Speaker 1: and it keeps. You end up getting to a point
Speaker 1: where you're like, how did I ever accept this bad behavior?
Speaker 2: Because you're new normal.
Speaker 1: But it's your new normal and it's happened a little
Speaker 1: bit by little bit by little bit. So the fact
Speaker 1: that you have written all this out into a message
Speaker 1: to us and you can read that clear as day
Speaker 1: what he's doing, it is a big fat red no.
Speaker 2: You definitely know deep down the answer to this. You
Speaker 2: one hundred percent know you're looking for somebody just to
Speaker 2: say that you're on the right path, and you're on
Speaker 2: the right track. And the one thing that I want
Speaker 2: to add, I agree with absolutely everything you said. Laura.
Speaker 2: I'm just as passionate about it as you. I hate him,
Speaker 2: and you are very passionate right now. Laura is like
Speaker 2: on fire in this podcast room right now. I actually
Speaker 2: haven't seen as much energy from you in a long time.
Speaker 3: Guys really got me good that time.
Speaker 2: I think that the main thing here is to go
Speaker 2: with your gut instinct. You would know deep down, you
Speaker 2: know if he's doing something wrong. You know what he's
Speaker 2: doing is wrong.
Speaker 1: You know if I girl a girl about it, And
Speaker 1: the fact that you even had to approach a girl,
Speaker 1: but the fact that she even had to ask her
Speaker 1: because you don't trust your boyfriend is reason enough. Don't
Speaker 1: be with somebody that you don't trust. Relationships that don't
Speaker 1: have trust in them are going to make you go crazy.
Speaker 1: They're gonna make you mad. I'm sorry I cut you off, Brittany.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come down.
Speaker 2: A lot of passion. I had a really I had
Speaker 2: a really great speech, but don't worry. Look, I had
Speaker 2: a lot to say, but Laura has said it.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, and I worry.
Speaker 2: We're on par with that one. We're on par like
Speaker 2: a game of golf.
Speaker 3: I is that a thing?
Speaker 2: I've made that up now too.
Speaker 1: I'm so fucking gold with making these up.
Speaker 3: Is par even in golf, isn't it para? I have
Speaker 3: no idea?
Speaker 1: Like golf is my least favored sport to watch, I
Speaker 1: have no idea.
Speaker 2: It's super fun to play.
Speaker 1: What about put putt mini golf?
Speaker 2: They don't have pars in put putt?
Speaker 3: Oh? There you go.
Speaker 1: Learn something new every day every day in the school day. Guys,
Speaker 1: the big boycourt, I'm it's not called a court. This
Speaker 1: is just getting weird. Can you please go to the
Speaker 1: next question?
Speaker 2: Okay, Hi, guys, is it disrespectful if my friend's partner
Speaker 2: constantly asked me when the last time I had sex was?
Speaker 2: My response previously has been wouldn't you like to know?
Speaker 2: And more recently my friend has told him to shut
Speaker 2: up and stop asking about it. It makes me feel
Speaker 2: really uncomfortable. I talk about this stuff with her because
Speaker 2: she's my friend, but I don't think it's appropriate for
Speaker 2: him to be asking me.
Speaker 3: God, guys, that can be so weird. That is so weird.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, that is so weird. Who is he to
Speaker 2: even ask that.
Speaker 1: Like, he's obviously doing it as a joke and probably
Speaker 1: thinks that you guys had this funny banter or is.
Speaker 2: That a joke? Well, imagine if I came to your
Speaker 2: house and Matt was like, hey, Bret, when'd you have
Speaker 2: Sir herx Like it's not far, I'd be like, what,
Speaker 2: that's not funny.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but some people don't really understand the premise of
Speaker 1: a joke, which is the fact that people are meant
Speaker 1: to laugh and it's meant to be funny. He clearly
Speaker 1: finds it entertaining or amusing. I think in this situation
Speaker 1: it's it's totally weird. It's totally inappropriate. You should speak
Speaker 1: to your friend, which you probably already have, and your
Speaker 1: friend needs to speak to her partners separate to you
Speaker 1: being there, not just calling him out on it when
Speaker 1: you're there, but separately say don't ask that question. It
Speaker 1: makes everybody in the situation uncomfortable except for you clearly,
Speaker 1: so stop it.
Speaker 2: And also, I just think it's so in your right
Speaker 2: to Next time he says when's the last time you
Speaker 2: had sex, you can say, well, I don't think that's
Speaker 2: any of.
Speaker 3: Your business, show me how big your dick is?
Speaker 2: Yeah, have you cleaned your rash up? You could, but like, no,
Speaker 2: you can definitely say to him I'm sorry, that's none
Speaker 2: of your business, or if you really want to. I mean,
Speaker 2: it depends how confrontation you want to be, but you
Speaker 2: can say you need to stop asking me that it
Speaker 2: makes me uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: I think sometimes we can be so like you know,
Speaker 1: and the very ousy way, like, oh, make a joke
Speaker 1: about something that makes us uncomfortable, and like, of course
Speaker 1: you want to make a joke about it because you
Speaker 1: don't want it it to turn into this big thing
Speaker 1: or to be to be seen as though you're not
Speaker 1: able to take a joke. But I think if you've
Speaker 1: already said something once which was taking it a lighthearted way,
Speaker 1: and it's still happening and he's still doing it and
Speaker 1: your girlfriend is telling him to stop, I think you're
Speaker 1: so well within your rights. I mean, God, you were
Speaker 1: within your rights at the very start, but now you're
Speaker 1: so within your rights just to say, do you know what?
Speaker 1: I actually hate it when you ask me that. It
Speaker 1: makes me really really uncomfortable. So I'd love it if
Speaker 1: you would just never ever ever ask me that again. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: he will take it. It'll it'll shut him down straight away.
Speaker 1: He'll be like, oh, wow, shit, I didn't I didn't realize.
Speaker 1: He probably doesn't realize how much it upsets you.
Speaker 2: And then you can be like, now, look it's cool,
Speaker 2: Like play it off like it's cool, but I just
Speaker 2: don't want to talk about it with you. You don't
Speaker 2: have to make it a big deal, but be like, yeah,
Speaker 2: it's cool. I just it's not a thing, so let's
Speaker 2: not make it a thing. And like why why is
Speaker 2: it okay for him to make you feel uncomfortable? Like
Speaker 2: it's okay for you to make him uncomfortable for a change.
Speaker 2: So if you have to say to him, you know what,
Speaker 2: it's none of your business and I don't want to
Speaker 2: talk about it. Yes, it's gonna make that the it's
Speaker 2: gonna make him go, oh okay, what's up with her?
Speaker 2: But it's okay for him to feel uncomfortable because he's
Speaker 2: doing it to you. So take that, take the ownership
Speaker 2: of that, and you know, flip it on its head
Speaker 2: and it can say it in a very curt and
Speaker 2: very direct way, but that's okay. Like I think it's fine.
Speaker 2: I'm to call him out on it. Yeah, there's never
Speaker 2: ever a situation that you need to feel uncomfortable in. Ever,
Speaker 2: you can always leave, extract yourself or say something. Always
Speaker 2: voice your opinion. We're very big on that. Okay, we
Speaker 2: have one more question. Do we have time for another one?
Speaker 2: I got time have an edit this somewhere we are, yes,
Speaker 2: so we're recording it. Guys, if you listen to this tomorrow,
Speaker 2: which is the day that it comes out, Thursday. We're
Speaker 2: recording this at seven fifty pm on the Wednesday. I
Speaker 2: got to go home and edit the shit out of this.
Speaker 1: And make it sound good yep for your ears. Yes,
Speaker 1: so get it in and around your house. Well, let
Speaker 1: me already have You're three quarters away through.
Speaker 2: I'm going to leave it up to you. Do you
Speaker 2: want another question or do you want.
Speaker 3: To wrap it? No, give me another question.
Speaker 2: I knew you'd say that. I'm just here for the people,
Speaker 2: So here for it.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: Last one, I having seen a guy who I have
Speaker 2: an amazing connection with. We get along so well, he
Speaker 2: makes me feel so special and he has amazing qualities. However,
Speaker 2: my best friend has made it very clear that she
Speaker 2: thinks I'm settling for him and she thinks that I
Speaker 2: could do better and deserve somebody who takes all of
Speaker 2: my boxes. It's obvious we're at different stages in our lives.
Speaker 2: I have graduated from UNI, I live out of home,
Speaker 2: I'm very independent, and I have savings for a house. He, however,
Speaker 2: is still at UNI. He goes out a lot, he
Speaker 2: lives at home a lot. He has more interest in
Speaker 2: living it up rather than slowing down and saving for
Speaker 2: the future. Am I settling? Are they right? Do you
Speaker 2: know what?
Speaker 3: I think?
Speaker 1: It sounds like both of these people are relatively young,
Speaker 1: Like it sounds like she's just come out of UNI
Speaker 1: and he's still at UNI. So I'm going to guess
Speaker 1: that you're in your early twenties. It's okay to date
Speaker 1: people just because you have a really amazing connection with them,
Speaker 1: with art thinking about where you're going to be in
Speaker 1: the next seven ten years time.
Speaker 3: So I think if you think that.
Speaker 1: You really really love the guy, or you love being
Speaker 1: around him, and he makes you really happy at this
Speaker 1: point in life, if he doesn't have all his shit together,
Speaker 1: he's allowed to be afforded a bit of time. If
Speaker 1: he's only in his early twenties, Like that guy's it's
Speaker 1: okay that he doesn't have everything together yet, I think.
Speaker 2: So I want to add that. She did finish it
Speaker 2: by saying I can't imagine my life without him, But
Speaker 2: I can't help and think, think, am I settling? Do
Speaker 2: I give up on this amazing connection in the hope
Speaker 2: of finding someone more on my level. So the bit
Speaker 2: that sticks out for me is I can't imagine my
Speaker 2: life without him. If the only reason is you need
Speaker 2: to find someone on your level, which is ready to
Speaker 2: buy a house, I don't think that's a reason he's
Speaker 2: at UNI. He wants to live his UNI life. You
Speaker 2: guys could have a mortgage for the next fifty years.
Speaker 2: I think it's okay to be in a different place
Speaker 2: if he's still treating you well and you're still getting
Speaker 2: the respect and you trust him, and you're still spending
Speaker 2: enough quality time together. I think it's really great for
Speaker 2: partners to have different interests and different hobbies and want
Speaker 2: to do different things. I don't think you need to
Speaker 2: live on top of each other. So if he's going
Speaker 2: out and there's not actually bothering you because you trust him,
Speaker 2: I don't I don't think that's the end of the world.
Speaker 1: And also I think, just to add on to what
Speaker 1: Britney has said, like, there may come a point in
Speaker 1: the future where the fact that you were on very
Speaker 1: different trajectories is like the gap is too wide, Like
Speaker 1: you can't ignore that anymore. But if that's not there yet,
Speaker 1: then why not just enjoy it for what it is
Speaker 1: at the moment, explore what it is. There is a
Speaker 1: chance that he will man up and get onto your
Speaker 1: wavelength and he will want those things as well. But
Speaker 1: in the meantime, when you're kind of like sussing things out,
Speaker 1: I really do feel like it is okay to date
Speaker 1: people that you know, kind of deviate from these very
Speaker 1: specific set of rules that you have for yourself, because
Speaker 1: you know, people progress at different stages, they progress at
Speaker 1: different speeds, and you know, he may get there and
Speaker 1: you guys may have an incredible life together, but you
Speaker 1: can afford him a little bit.
Speaker 3: Of time to get there.
Speaker 2: I'm making the assumption that you guys are young. It's
Speaker 2: obviously a different level. If you guys are thirty to
Speaker 2: thirty five. Oh yeah, yeah, no, no, no, he's gone, yeah,
Speaker 2: he's going out and he's at UNI. Good on him
Speaker 2: for being a mature age student. But also like, you
Speaker 2: definitely need someone on your level. But if you guys
Speaker 2: are still young bloody, party it up, go out with him,
Speaker 2: go and have some fun, because one day you're gonna
Speaker 2: have a baby, you're gonna be stuck at home, you're
Speaker 2: gonna be forty, you're gonna be like, where did my
Speaker 2: life go? It's not that bad brand, Oh it's not.
Speaker 2: But that's what will happen.
Speaker 1: But I think that that's a really really important point.
Speaker 1: And I think that, you know, we need to drive
Speaker 1: that home a little bit. Age does play a massive
Speaker 1: part in this, and so if you are young, then
Speaker 1: I think there is no problem. And also, like, you know,
Speaker 1: it's nice that your friend cares about you and wants
Speaker 1: has your best interest at heart, Like I really like
Speaker 1: I love that from her. But at the same time,
Speaker 1: I think it's okay for you to have a relationship
Speaker 1: where it may not be end goal, Like you're allowed
Speaker 1: to just experience love and explore what love is at
Speaker 1: a young age. When you get a bit older and
Speaker 1: when you are in your thirties and you do have
Speaker 1: goals that you want for your life, it is really
Speaker 1: important that you find somebody who is on the same
Speaker 1: trajectory as you and wants the same things, because otherwise
Speaker 1: you're going to waste time and it may mean that
Speaker 1: you may never get the things that you want in life.
Speaker 1: So if you waste the better half of your late
Speaker 1: twenties and early thirties and into your mid thirties with
Speaker 1: a guy who doesn't want to settle down or have kids,
Speaker 1: then it may mean that you'll never get to settle
Speaker 1: down and have kids. So that is really really important.
Speaker 1: But I am like you are, assuming that this is
Speaker 1: a person who's quite young, who's just fresh out of
Speaker 1: you girl friend. You enjoy that then has some great
Speaker 1: old young people sex and have a good old time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: young people sex.
Speaker 3: What is the young people sex?
Speaker 1: That's when you actually put effort in.
Speaker 2: That's when you do like more than one position, or
Speaker 2: when you're awake, when you're awake awake.
Speaker 3: I'm just definitely not doing multiple positions anymore.
Speaker 2: No, the only other point that I actually, on a
Speaker 2: serious note, want to drive home is I think the
Speaker 2: age is the important thing. The other important factor is
Speaker 2: how his actions are making you feel. If you're okay
Speaker 2: with it, I did mention before. If you're okay with it,
Speaker 2: you trust him. He's not making you feel shitty, he's
Speaker 2: respecting you, then that's fine. If it doesn't bother you,
Speaker 2: that's fine. If you're laying awake wondering where he is
Speaker 2: and what he's doing, and you're upset by it and
Speaker 2: he's not giving you attention, he's not giving you respect,
Speaker 2: that's a different manner. So just see how you feel.
Speaker 2: And I think you need to make your decisions accordingly.
Speaker 1: Oh God, I love it when we agree on things.
Speaker 1: Look at us and now cohesive kind of makes sense.
Speaker 3: Advice.
Speaker 1: Wow, go us.
Speaker 2: We were very passionate today about some of those, weren't we.
Speaker 2: I know, I hit home and we're emotional.
Speaker 1: I also feel, yeah, well, I think emotions are just
Speaker 1: heightened in general at the moment. But I do feel
Speaker 1: that this is the one real chance that I've had
Speaker 1: today and actually in the past couple of days, to
Speaker 1: speak to it human like an adult human.
Speaker 2: Oh I'm glad you look at me as an adult.
Speaker 3: Yes, you are an adult human.
Speaker 1: I have been stuck inside with Marley with nobody to
Speaker 1: talk to. I facetimed my sister. That's the only conversation
Speaker 1: I've really had. And then obviously I speak to Matt.
Speaker 1: But I speak to Matt all the time every day,
Speaker 1: and you know, like it doesn't count.
Speaker 3: So this has been good for me.
Speaker 1: I love this for me.
Speaker 2: This has been good for me too, because all day
Speaker 2: all I do, I know everyone is doing and thinking
Speaker 2: and hearing and speaking about Corona at the moment, but
Speaker 2: I guess because I'm in the hospital in screaming process
Speaker 2: with it. It's literally all I do, all I see,
Speaker 2: all I think about is like proper consuming. So it's
Speaker 2: so nice. This is like therapy for me right now.
Speaker 1: Well, this is also therapy for all you guys, so
Speaker 1: please keep your questions coming. We love answering all of
Speaker 1: your life dilemmas. So if you want to send us
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Speaker 3: It's what are you doing? I just noticed it?
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Speaker 2: Please if you loved the episode, wait, Laura's have a thought.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, guys, actually, we've been getting so
Speaker 1: many questions about what dating looks like now that we're
Speaker 1: all in isolation, like so many and so we didn't
Speaker 1: choose any questions about that specifically for this episode, even
Speaker 1: though it was like the number one biggest question that
Speaker 1: we had coming in. So we're going to do a
Speaker 1: whole episode about that on Tuesday, and it's going to
Speaker 1: be exploring like, what does the dating world look like
Speaker 1: now that we are all self isolating? What does it
Speaker 1: mean for couples who are stuck in isolation together and
Speaker 1: just really unpack this whole idea of what the dating
Speaker 1: world is now. It's that everything has changed. It's uncharted territory.
Speaker 1: We haven't ever experienced it before in the whole world.
Speaker 2: I just wided.
Speaker 1: I want you to get arrow, get out there and
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Speaker 1: don't know? I hate that I don't know. I hate
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