WEBVTT - MINI! Willow Smith has come out against her PARENTS 😱

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<v Speaker 1>It is the pickup Monday afternoon Britt, Laura and Mitch

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<v Speaker 1>hundred meal by Dan Carter. It is new and it

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<v Speaker 1>is exclusive to Chemist Warehouse for just forty nine ninety nine.

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<v Speaker 2>Will Smith is having a bit of a hard time lately,

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<v Speaker 2>don't you think.

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<v Speaker 3>What since the slap at the hot things He's brought

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<v Speaker 3>on himself most of it, I mean, the slab was

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<v Speaker 3>pretty bad, but okay, the whole you know what.

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<v Speaker 4>The Red Table is that Jada, his wife does where

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<v Speaker 4>they sit around and they i mean a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>the time they seem to hash out some of their

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<v Speaker 4>family stuff that really shouldn't be hashed out in public.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a chat show, but it's like a personal therapy session.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it really is. So recently there was a conversation

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<v Speaker 4>that happened on there with Will Smith's daughter and also

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<v Speaker 4>her brother, so Jaden and Willow, and they were talking

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<v Speaker 4>about all this resentment that they had towards their mostly

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<v Speaker 4>towards their dad, towards will from their childhood, and Will

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<v Speaker 4>went on to talk about how much he regretted his

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<v Speaker 4>parenting of them when they were younger, this is what

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<v Speaker 4>Willow had to say.

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<v Speaker 5>I definitely had to forgive you and Daddy, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>for that whole with my hair thing. It was mostly

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<v Speaker 5>Daddy because she was so like harsh right at certain times.

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<v Speaker 5>It was like a couple of years honestly, like trying

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<v Speaker 5>to regain trust for not feeling like I wasn't listened

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<v Speaker 5>to or no one cared what I felt.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, So this is talking about how both Jaden

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<v Speaker 4>and Willow were really thrust into the spotlight as young kids.

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<v Speaker 4>They were so successful in their own ride, but they've

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<v Speaker 4>come out now as adults saying that they actually never

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to be in the spotlight. You might remember Willow

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<v Speaker 4>had that hugely successful song I whip my hair back

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<v Speaker 4>and forth.

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<v Speaker 1>I went with her hair back and forth. I went

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<v Speaker 1>my hair back and forth.

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<v Speaker 2>So she eleven.

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<v Speaker 4>She was ten years old when that came out, and

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<v Speaker 4>then she was touring it when she was eleven. So,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I don't know if this was very widely

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<v Speaker 4>reported on the time, but during the tour she wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to cancel it, she wanted to stop touring. So as

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<v Speaker 4>an eleven year old, she said, you know, Dad, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't want to be doing this anymore, and Will made

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<v Speaker 4>her can con tinue the tour, and so she shaved

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<v Speaker 4>her own head in protests because she so desperately didn't

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<v Speaker 4>want to be doing that tour. And then also Jayden

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<v Speaker 4>was in things like Pursuit of Happiness. He was only

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<v Speaker 4>eight years old and he was starring alongside his dad.

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<v Speaker 4>And basically Will has come out now with adult kids,

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<v Speaker 4>and he said that he thought the picture of happiness

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<v Speaker 4>that he thought he saw for himself, the picture of

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<v Speaker 4>being perfect parenting, was to be able to set them

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<v Speaker 4>up for them to have the successes that he always

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<v Speaker 4>dreamed of for himself. And so he really pushed them

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<v Speaker 4>into the spotlight and pushed them into being child stars,

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<v Speaker 4>even though no part of them wanted to live that life.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I think it's this idea of being famous equals success.

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<v Speaker 3>It allows happiness, but it doesn't. You hear a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of people, a lot of famous people, a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>Hollywood people. They especially the child stars you can look.

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<v Speaker 3>You could name so many, Lindsay Lohan, Britney Spears. They

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<v Speaker 3>all had some really.

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<v Speaker 2>Big issues in their life because they were pushed into

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<v Speaker 2>it too young.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it makes you think, at what point was it

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<v Speaker 4>the kids that wanted to get into it at the start,

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<v Speaker 4>but then their careers take off and there's this huge trajectory.

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<v Speaker 4>There's so much interest in then they got from doing

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<v Speaker 4>something that they love doing, which might be performing, into

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<v Speaker 4>it becoming a career, and then there's all the responsibilities.

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<v Speaker 4>They're being forced to not be kids and to grow

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<v Speaker 4>up almost instantaneously. At what point do you allow your

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<v Speaker 4>kid to get off the treadmill? You know, if they

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<v Speaker 4>say I have had enough now, this has gone too far.

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<v Speaker 4>If the balls rolling and they're making all this money

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<v Speaker 4>and their successes are going from strength to strength, when

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<v Speaker 4>do you let the kid just be a kid?

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<v Speaker 1>Give? But I'd also argue that it has set them

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<v Speaker 1>up for life. We know who they are. They'll never

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<v Speaker 1>have to work another day in their life.

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<v Speaker 2>For when they were a kid.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because they've worked when the very kids. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're a kid, what's the difference between being forced

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<v Speaker 1>to put out a song and with your hair back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth and my parents forcing me to play junior

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<v Speaker 1>soccer that I hated and detested and cried every day.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm being serious, Like, I still have a bit of

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<v Speaker 1>resentment for them forcing me to do that. It's the same,

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<v Speaker 1>just on a different magnitude.

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<v Speaker 4>Their scale is so much different though, because I think

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<v Speaker 4>it's not just around the activity forcing kid to do

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<v Speaker 4>their activity. It's the notoriety. It's being a household name.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not being able to walk down the street without people.

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<v Speaker 1>Knowing soccer the local area. I really knew who I was,

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<v Speaker 1>I Laura, it was terrible.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh bless.

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<v Speaker 3>I imagine the situation with Will and Willow at the time,

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<v Speaker 3>and why he probably forced her to keep going.

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<v Speaker 2>Is logistically speaking, the tickets would have sold.

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<v Speaker 3>That flow on effect of pulling and tied to it

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<v Speaker 3>would be something that's very long lasting and detrimental to his.

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<v Speaker 2>To her career.

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<v Speaker 3>So I imagine Will as a dad, was like, I

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<v Speaker 3>get it, but you've committed follow through it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so hold on. So Will regrets it now? Laura,

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<v Speaker 1>You've you've got kids, and your kids are on your

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<v Speaker 1>social media? Is the only part of you that regrets

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<v Speaker 1>putting them out there? And you know getting baby clothes.

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<v Speaker 4>Now that Huggies campaign that we did when Marley was

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<v Speaker 4>three months old?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you do that?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean my kids? I mean, okay, this sounds so

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<v Speaker 4>bad coming off the back of this. But my kids

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<v Speaker 4>have done different jobs, like brand jobs, which they get

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<v Speaker 4>paid for, and all that money is sitting in an

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<v Speaker 4>account for them somewhere.

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<v Speaker 6>But yeah, she's like in the Caymans, we're not paying

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<v Speaker 6>anybody on it. No, but it's sitting there for when

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<v Speaker 6>they are adults and then they can tap into it.

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<v Speaker 6>But there's absolutely parts of this that makes me think, well,

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<v Speaker 6>are they going to turn around when they're thirteen years

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<v Speaker 6>old and say, why was my face on that campaign?

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<v Speaker 1>Stopes in protests?

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<v Speaker 2>There's a difference. No, there's a difference with this.

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<v Speaker 3>I think a three months old in a nappy on

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<v Speaker 3>an ad because it's not like you.

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<v Speaker 2>Were there going crawl baby crawl like you were.

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<v Speaker 3>It was going to sit there in the nappy regardless.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think it's different when you're eleven. You have

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<v Speaker 3>a bit more autonomy over what you want and you're like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm I'm viscerally uncomfortable with it.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's good that Will has come out and acknowledged.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, Yep, I messed up. Wasn't great?

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<v Speaker 6>I regret that.

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<v Speaker 2>I love to see the accountability.

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<v Speaker 1>Next on the show. Is there any situation? Don't answer now?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there any situation in which you'd allow your partner

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<v Speaker 1>to have one final night with their ex in the bedroom.

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<v Speaker 1>Think about it, because that's what we're chatting about next

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<v Speaker 1>on the Pickup