WEBVTT - MINI! What do you do with your pets after a breakup? 🐕

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<v Speaker 1>You're on the pickup. Welcome back Thursday afternoon with Britt,

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<v Speaker 1>Laura and Mitch. Thanks for being here. Right now rushing

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<v Speaker 1>we do on Thursday's gals?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>My favorite?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Ask?

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<v Speaker 3>So Ask Uncut is something that we do on our

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<v Speaker 3>podcast Life on Cut, and that is where you call

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<v Speaker 3>in and you give us your problems, your dilemmas, your deepest,

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<v Speaker 3>darkest issues, and we do our best to answer them.

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<v Speaker 1>We really do try, don't We got Oscar to We

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<v Speaker 1>do our best. I have a punt Oscar. Are you're

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<v Speaker 1>on with us?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>What's your question? What do you need to help with?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi? Guys, I just have a question. So I was

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<v Speaker 2>together with my man for like five years and like

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<v Speaker 2>we've recently just broken up. And the whole issue is

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<v Speaker 2>we got a dog together. He did pay for the

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<v Speaker 2>dog at the time, but in that space we were together,

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<v Speaker 2>I was the one walking there. I was the one

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<v Speaker 2>feeding it, like I would say this, the one taking

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<v Speaker 2>care of the dog. So in the breakup. I took

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<v Speaker 2>the dog with me because I was like, I raised

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<v Speaker 2>him essentially.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and now that we've broken up and he things

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<v Speaker 4>have come down a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>He has this idea that he can just come and

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<v Speaker 2>see our dog whatever he wants. So, like, I'll be

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<v Speaker 2>at work and he'll just text me and go, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I've just picked up the dog. We've gone for a

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<v Speaker 2>walk in cases in case we were not here when

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<v Speaker 2>you come home. I feel a little uncomfortable by this.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, how does he get into your house? How does

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<v Speaker 3>he just pick the dog up my.

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<v Speaker 2>House doesn't know who he is and goes, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>cool the dogs? About that?

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, I've got an interesting take on this. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay if you're okay with an Oscar, Like if

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<v Speaker 1>you two were at a point where you think you've healed,

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<v Speaker 1>you've gotten over each other, then if it's essentially co parenting.

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<v Speaker 1>But do you feel your on your healing journey? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you over him? Are you still wanting to see him

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<v Speaker 1>that much?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean not much, se icillly, it's still quite fresh.

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<v Speaker 4>It's been like, well, it's been like three or four

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<v Speaker 4>since we've broken up, and you know, I'm more than

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<v Speaker 4>happy for him to call me and go, hey, I

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<v Speaker 4>want to see I want to see Coco.

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<v Speaker 2>Can can? Like? Can you drop in here? Like? I'm

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<v Speaker 2>more than happy for that bit of communication. But do

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<v Speaker 2>I really need to be okay with him turning up

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<v Speaker 2>to my house and staying hard to my house mate

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<v Speaker 2>and saying, hey, can I take Can I take Coco

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<v Speaker 2>for a walk? Or can I take him to my place?

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<v Speaker 2>I think without me being there?

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<v Speaker 5>No, Actually you don't have to be especially like if

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<v Speaker 5>you think of how long a dog lives for right,

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<v Speaker 5>it could live up for fifteen years.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a kid.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's a long time for you to have this

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<v Speaker 5>shared communication and shared custod If you.

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<v Speaker 3>Can co parent comfortably and it's not causing anyone anguish,

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<v Speaker 3>then go for it. But co parenting a dog just

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<v Speaker 3>sounds way too hard. The only thing I question is

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<v Speaker 3>if he's only coming when you're not home. So, for example,

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<v Speaker 3>if he's like texting a housemate, if he picks a

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<v Speaker 3>dog up, drops the dog back before you get home

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<v Speaker 3>and you're none the wiser to it, are you okay

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<v Speaker 3>with that level of contact or is it more so

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<v Speaker 3>when he has to message you and then it upsets

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<v Speaker 3>your day.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'd be getting the free dog walker if you can.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well that's what I thought. But a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>my friends were telling me that it shouldn't be like,

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<v Speaker 2>it shouldn't be an issue. He should be free to

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<v Speaker 2>come and get his dog. But I just don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's okay, Like I really think, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's got nothing to do with payment, Like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>I raised the things, like I'm the one that taught

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<v Speaker 4>it how to do a good old fashioned toilet troop.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I just feel like that there needs to be

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<v Speaker 2>some kind of communication. He's just not listening to me.

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<v Speaker 1>You should just train it to like shit on his

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<v Speaker 1>leather goods, you know, just like training it to be

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<v Speaker 1>a really spiteful dog. I don't know what's happened to

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<v Speaker 1>Coco's habits, but he's gotten really bad recently.

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<v Speaker 3>He's really acting out in the divorce and in the breakup.

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<v Speaker 1>Kids do that. I hope we can hope we can

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<v Speaker 1>help you there and co Coke can sleep it.

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<v Speaker 3>I couldn't think of anything worse than co parenting a dog.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I don't it my parenting kids is so

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<v Speaker 3>hard for some people, co parenting a dog now just

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<v Speaker 3>get a new dog.

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<v Speaker 5>My parents are dogs and I had to give it up. Really, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>you can't do it. You cannot do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Only for a period of time. There's always someone still

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<v Speaker 3>hanging on of the pet.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, it's more than pets. Breakups are heard. I'm still

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<v Speaker 1>fighting over a smeake blender with my ex.

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<v Speaker 3>Let him have the blender?

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<v Speaker 1>Which wants to blender?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you co parenting the blender? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>We sure one week his pulse. I get it for

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<v Speaker 1>smoothie mode. If you want to get in touch and

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