1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: This is jem naytion. Oh. In our day, when you 2 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:10,319 Speaker 1: got engaged by a large partner would say do you 3 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: want to get married? And they'd go and choose a ring. 4 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: And I think because of Instagram and snapchat and TikTok 5 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 1: and all of that, there's now the big deal of 6 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 1: She said, yes, so you surprise your partner with a 7 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 1: proposal and with a ring. What happens if you don't 8 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: like it? I was looking at this. A woman stumbled 9 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 1: upon her engagement ring at home before her fiance had proposed. 10 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 1: She was less than impressed with the choice she's shown them. 11 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 1: It's beautiful, it's a very nice ring. I can see 12 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 1: a little square cut diamond with a thin band. Instead 13 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: of being excited, she put on the caption, So you 14 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 1: found your engagement ring and you absolutely hate it. 15 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 2: What do you do? 16 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 1: So trying on the ring, she can be seen tossing 17 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: the ring box across the room. So she shared this 18 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 1: on TikTok funnily enough, and people weighed in. Some gave 19 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: tips for getting a new ring. Someone said, find a 20 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: picture online that looks like it, show it to him 21 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: and say, oh, yack, look at this ring. This girl 22 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 1: from high school got Other people have said she should 23 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:09,040 Speaker 1: be grateful. Since when did it become the man's choice 24 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 1: of the ring that you're going to wear on your 25 00:01:10,600 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: finger for hopefully the rest of your life. 26 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 2: I think it's from movies. It's from but it's real life. 27 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 1: We don't do we and. 28 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 2: The teachings from Sex and the City. You remember in 29 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 2: Sex and the City, wrong choice, wrong guy? Remember that 30 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 2: wrong guy? 31 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 1: Well, that's right. Samantha found Carrie found a ring, didn't 32 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 1: like it, and that was the conclusion from Samantha means 33 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 1: he's the wrong guy. What did you do with Helen? 34 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 1: Did you choose the ring with she. 35 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 2: To choose the ring? 36 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:44,199 Speaker 1: Well, you know, it's an important piece of jewelry. I'd 37 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:46,959 Speaker 1: liked to think that I could choose it. I like 38 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 1: anything Harley gives me now because I then can pick 39 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: and choose her amongst other things that I that I love. 40 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: If there's one thing I had to wear every day, 41 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: I'd like to have a. 42 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 2: Say an what's your engagement ring? Line? 43 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: Well, when we got married, I didn't want anything. I 44 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: just wanted a wedding ring, so it was kind of 45 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: a dress ring. But over the years I don't wear 46 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: it so much. 47 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 2: And I lost. 48 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: I got a wedding band made which I lost in 49 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 1: the surf, and I had to get and I got 50 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 1: another one. And Harley said, our relationship has outlasted the jewelry, 51 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: and that's how it should be. 52 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 2: Didn't you lose it on your honeymoon? You lost it 53 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 2: on your. 54 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 1: I'm talking about the jewelry, Brendan, But what what do 55 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 1: you do? I mean, since when? And God, this is 56 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:33,359 Speaker 1: pressure on the guys as well, that the woman has 57 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: to like it and be a naladi. 58 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 2: Women are never happy. True, that is so not true. Okay, 59 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 2: that's true. Then you look at those movies when the 60 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 2: guy gets like a cheesel and says, here, here's the ring. 61 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 2: The woman should be happy with the cheesel. 62 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:51,079 Speaker 1: Oh, you're just being inflammatory. 63 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 2: Let's be real. 64 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 1: Oh let's be happy with the cheesel on your finger 65 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: for thirty years. Come on, don't be stupid, be real. 66 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 2: I'm just say what should happen is when the man 67 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 2: makes the commitment and says I want to marry you, 68 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 2: I love you, I want to marry you, and gives 69 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 2: you whatever it could be, the washer off of some 70 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 2: plug of a motorcycle. 71 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 1: What if I then said to you, I love you. 72 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 1: I'd like you to wear this washer off of some 73 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 1: plug around your neck. 74 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 2: I'd wear it. You would not, I would wear You 75 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 2: would not. I would wear because. 76 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: You won't even wear a shirt that your wife buys. 77 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 1: You're not going to wear a piece of jewelry for 78 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: thirty years. 79 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 2: My wife hasn't brought me a shirt for many years. 80 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 2: And also she shot this is. 81 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:32,920 Speaker 1: The exact analogy. 82 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 2: What if she it is? It is, it's not. 83 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: What if she bought you a polo shirt that you 84 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: had to wear for over thirty years, that's the said. 85 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 2: To me, I want to marry. Here's this polo shirt. 86 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 2: If you must wear for thirty. 87 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: Years, that was if that was the culture and the 88 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 1: ritual argument. No, water, I disagree. If someone says you 89 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 1: have to wear this every. 90 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 2: Day, would you like to say a big deal? 91 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 1: It's a massive deal. Women. This stuff matters to. 92 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 2: Other women's rings all the time. So what do you go? Jeez? 93 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 1: No? I always think, oh that's nice, Well look at that, 94 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: Oh that's interesting. 95 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 2: Do you ever go no? 96 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: Never? 97 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 2: So have you saw like a sumpsher around a woman's finger? 98 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 2: I think, well, that's only if that woman said you 99 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 2: my husband gave me this thirty years ago. It was 100 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 2: the sump plug washer and that's there's a funny story 101 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 2: behind it. You go, oh, that's cute. 102 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 1: Yes I would, but not as a wedding ring that 103 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: she has to wear every day. I think, did you 104 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 1: choose it or is there a story behind it? And 105 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 1: do you love it?