1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:02,120 Speaker 1: And we continue to talk about weddings. 2 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 2: Yes, go into the chapel and we're going to get married. Well, 3 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 2: Madison is father of the bride, and you're feeling it. 4 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 2: You're nervous and Madison. 5 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:12,320 Speaker 3: It was only when that woman we spoke to said 6 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 3: that some people are paying one hundred grand for their 7 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 3: for their weddings. 8 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: That's when I fell off the chair. 9 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 2: Well, today we've got a very good friend of ours, actually, 10 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:24,959 Speaker 2: Steve Mummery, who, as well as many other skills, is 11 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:25,919 Speaker 2: a wedding celebrant. 12 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 4: I am, and. 13 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:32,200 Speaker 2: You've married quite great. There is quite the waiting list 14 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 2: for your skills. 15 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 4: Seven one hundred and sixty. 16 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 5: Wow, weddings, I think last count that's amazing. 17 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:40,280 Speaker 1: How many years is that still? 18 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 4: Since twenty seven days? 19 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 1: That's incredible. 20 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 2: Don't count the years, that's a lot, No, No, just 21 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:49,480 Speaker 2: count the weddings. So what made you think I want 22 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 2: to do that? Look, because it's not like you didn't 23 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 2: have a job at the time. You were very busy. 24 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 2: You're running telethon. 25 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 4: Okay, so I'd thought for. 26 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 5: A few years I going to do when I retire, 27 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 5: And and I'm not a golfer. I'm not that guy 28 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 5: that will will do all that. And I'd been to 29 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 5: so many weddings over the years where I'd walk away 30 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 5: afterwards going that was a bit that celberance not that great, 31 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 5: and a whole bunch where they were great, and I thought, yeah, 32 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 5: that was that was invigorating and all that, and yeah, 33 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 5: after seeing a few that were a bit of I thought, 34 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 5: you know what, I could do that when I retire anyway, 35 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 5: So that was a long way in the in the future. 36 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 5: And my nephew in the end asked me whether I 37 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 5: would marry him and his wife, and I wasn't a celebrant, 38 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 5: and I had been going through my head and I thought, oh, 39 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 5: damn it, I'll do the certificate full of course and 40 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 5: become a celebrant so that I can marry them. And 41 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 5: so that's how it started. 42 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 3: Yeah really, yeah, I mean, you've done radio, so you 43 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 3: have the gift of the gab, But what are the 44 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 3: other skills that go on top of that? 45 00:01:57,640 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 1: What do you mean? 46 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 5: Look, I guess diplomacy I wasn't known for in radio 47 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 5: patience patients, which I also wasn't but I've learned these 48 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 5: skills since becoming a celebrant. 49 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. 50 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 5: Look, it basically basically comes down to being able to 51 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 5: write a decent ceremony. My preference is to do nice, 52 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 5: lighthearted ceremonies. It's serious when it gets to the serious 53 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:31,919 Speaker 5: bit of but the whole thing doesn't have to be 54 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 5: like that. It should basically it should reflect the personalities 55 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:39,119 Speaker 5: of the two people you're marrying. Yeah. My favorite thing 56 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 5: is when the couple after the ceremony have everybody coming 57 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 5: up to congratulate them and they say, that's the best 58 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 5: ceremony I've ever been to, or how long have you 59 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 5: known Steve, yes, And they're the two best compliments that 60 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 5: I can get. Afterwards having them come back to me 61 00:02:56,720 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 5: and saying, oh, yeah, people said this, So yeah, that's 62 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 5: that's what I am for, to make it reflect their 63 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 5: personalities and and and feel inclusive of all the people 64 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 5: that are there. 65 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 2: And people do get swept up in a wave of 66 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 2: something when they're getting married, and they do need someone 67 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 2: to take you know, Jesus take the wheel. 68 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 4: It's Steve take the wheel. 69 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 5: Well, and that's basically what it is. You're in control 70 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 5: of the ceremony part of the day. You're the choreographer, 71 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 5: I guess, and and you know, after doing so many 72 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:32,959 Speaker 5: you get to know what works and what doesn't work. 73 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 2: And you're also making sure things are done legally and 74 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 2: people are actually married. 75 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 5: That is the main part of the job. To make 76 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 5: sure it's a legal wedding. You've got to make sure 77 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:46,839 Speaker 5: that they're not married to anybody. You've got to make 78 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 5: sure that if they were married to somebody else, that 79 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 5: you've cite their divorce papers. 80 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 4: That happened. 81 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 2: You had to say, guys, properly, I don't do. 82 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 4: That on the day. 83 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 2: To do that before, have you had to say. 84 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 1: Hang on, this isn't your other. 85 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 2: Your last one has not been fully dissolved. 86 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 5: Well, I don't go ahead until I see them, until 87 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 5: I cite the divorce. A lot of people go, oh, 88 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 5: I have no idea where they are. They just don't 89 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:19,359 Speaker 5: peep in. And I say, well, you're going to have 90 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 5: to find it because I'm not marrying you until I 91 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 5: signed that person. 92 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 3: On election day? Who remember checking off the roll? Have 93 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 3: you voted somewhere else? Have you been married elsewhere? 94 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:32,039 Speaker 5: How ridiculous is that it's twenty twenty five and they're 95 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 5: still crossing names. 96 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 1: Out of a book. So bad, so bizarre. 97 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 3: Look, things must go wrong and this is nothing to 98 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 3: do with your your professionalism stave. But things must go wrong. 99 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:44,159 Speaker 3: Is sometimes just tiny things because people are nervous. 100 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. 101 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 5: Look, And I explained to the bride particularly beforehand, because 102 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:50,479 Speaker 5: if she's going to do that walk down the aisle, 103 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:54,359 Speaker 5: I tell her, when you at the top of the aisle, 104 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 5: as soon as you get there, that's going to be 105 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 5: when you're peaking the most, right And I always say 106 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 5: to it, but that's nothing until you get down the 107 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 5: end of the aisle and then turn around and see 108 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 5: all of your favorite people standing or sitting there in 109 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 5: front of you. I said, that's when you're going to 110 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:15,159 Speaker 5: really be peeking. And so I always tell them once 111 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 5: you get down there, I'll face you. You'll be facing 112 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 5: the crowd, and we're just going to chat for a 113 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 5: minute or so, just so that your heartbeat lowers, yeah, 114 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 5: and that you're. 115 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 1: In the moment. 116 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 5: Because I don't want them to be peaking so much 117 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 5: that they missed the ceremony, Like that's my bit. 118 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 4: I want them to pay attention. 119 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 5: So I. 120 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:38,559 Speaker 4: Like them to calm down and just be in the moment. 121 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 5: And I literally tell them to just breathe now out, 122 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 5: now back because they're literally almost frozen sometimes and there's 123 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 5: other couples that they just breeze. 124 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 4: Through it and they're fine and all that. 125 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 5: There was that guy that the groom at Burrswood Shell 126 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 5: that I'm married once, who I'm pretty sure almost didn't 127 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:07,599 Speaker 5: know what was going on on the day. He could 128 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 5: understand English. I have to make sure they can understand 129 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:12,919 Speaker 5: what is going on the day. But he was just 130 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 5: walking around aimlessly. And it is part of my responsibility 131 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 5: to make sure they know what they are doing and 132 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 5: all that. And he did know what he was doing, 133 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 5: but there was nobody from his family or friends there. 134 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 5: It was just the bride's friends most of them. And 135 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 5: there was like about fifteen people there. Most of them 136 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 5: were bridesmaids, so it was one of those with everybody's 137 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 5: a bridesmaids. They all had the same dresses. On goodness gracious. 138 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 2: A bit in the ceremony where words along the lines 139 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:52,040 Speaker 2: of if anyone here today any reason why these two 140 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 2: should not be married, has anyone ever indeed objected? 141 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 4: That's not a legal requirement. I've never done it, never 142 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 4: said the words. 143 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 1: I never never, and it never will. 144 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, because you would think that child, it's everyone's on 145 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:09,160 Speaker 2: board by this stage wouldn't you. 146 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 4: Well, yeah, and it's got nothing to do with anyone. Yeah. 147 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 5: Basically, CLI know the days of the father handing over 148 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 5: his daughter as goods and chattel well gone. Yeah, so yeah, No, 149 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 5: I don't think any celebrant must solictening for trouble. And 150 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 5: it is in the crowd. 151 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 4: I might as well stand there and say, okay, who 152 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 4: wants some biffo? Does that happen? Keep things quite calm. 153 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 3: I still want to talk about criers because when I'm 154 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:41,679 Speaker 3: married Laurie in twenty twelve, I cried like a baby. 155 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. I just couldn't continue. 156 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 4: It couldn't. 157 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 3: Oh, absolutely, I went on, this is what it's meant 158 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 3: to feel like. But then the waterworks came and my 159 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 3: sister law said, I was waiting for the big radio 160 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 3: voice and I didn't get it. Disappointed, But do you 161 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:56,239 Speaker 3: get to have a squeaky well a little bit emotional, 162 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 3: But do you get many cries who cry all the 163 00:07:58,360 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 3: way through? 164 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 5: Yeah? Look, And it surprises me a bit because sometimes 165 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 5: it's like the roughest the butcher's guys actually that, and 166 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 5: you talk to them beforehand, because I you know, talk 167 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 5: to the groom before the bride's there. And make sure 168 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 5: he's right and drinks water and all that sort of thing, 169 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 5: and they're all fine, and then that moment of truth happens. 170 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 5: And quite often it's when the bride walks down the 171 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 5: aisle and it just well, it either hits them as in, 172 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 5: oh my god, what have I done. 173 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 4: I like to think, as in. 174 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 5: Oh my god, look at this gorgeous person under that 175 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 5: to marry Yeah, and so some of the guys start 176 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:45,719 Speaker 5: to get a bit teary. Then I always have a 177 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 5: handkerchief ready to go nice for the bride or the groom, 178 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:52,200 Speaker 5: and it's a bit more embarrassing when I have to 179 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:54,680 Speaker 5: give it to the groom first, and then when they're 180 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:58,760 Speaker 5: doing their vows sometimes they just get a little bit 181 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 5: emotional shoky at that point. 182 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 2: Do most people write their own vowels? 183 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 4: Yes, yeah. 184 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 5: I give them lots of material to help them do it, 185 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 5: because it is one of the things they get nervous 186 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 5: about because it's something they've never done. Most people, well 187 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 5: half of them, have never done before. And so I 188 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 5: give them a bunch of about ten real sets of 189 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 5: vows that couples I've married have done, which I've thought 190 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 5: after his oh gee, they're really nice, So take out 191 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:32,439 Speaker 5: the names and just give them those and that's mainly 192 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 5: to show them the different styles and lengths. Like some people, 193 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:39,079 Speaker 5: you can do personal vowels that just are three sentences. 194 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 5: You can do personal vows that go on for three minutes. 195 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 5: There's no rules, you can do whatever. 196 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,199 Speaker 1: You probably three. 197 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:50,400 Speaker 5: I just make sure they send them to me beforehand, 198 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 5: and they're roughly the same sentiment and length because you 199 00:09:55,360 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 5: don't want the guys saying or hi, honey, I love you, 200 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 5: look forward to spending the rest of my life with you, 201 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:03,959 Speaker 5: and then the bride doing three majors. 202 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 3: So you talked about seeing other celebrants in action before 203 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 3: you started the gig. But now do you go to 204 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 3: weddings and judge? Have you been many weddings in life? 205 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:17,319 Speaker 4: Do you think eight years? What sort of question is? 206 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 5: Of course I'm to ask. My nickname is mister Judging. 207 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 5: I'm the judge. Yeah, but look at my at the 208 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 5: point of my life, I'm not going to that many weddings. 209 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:39,320 Speaker 5: I guess small funerals, yeah I do. But and once 210 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 5: again like just talking about funerals, Yeah, the fact that 211 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 5: somebody has died is sad enough as it is. Yeah, 212 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 5: my aim isn't to make it worse on the day 213 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 5: I'm sadder and all that. I quite like doing uplifting 214 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 5: funerals and you know it's it's bloody sad that they're 215 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 5: all there in the first place. So you know, I 216 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 5: encourage people to laugh and the tribute, isn't it And 217 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 5: it just really enjoy the fact that they were able 218 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 5: to know that person off the track. 219 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:09,080 Speaker 1: They were good. 220 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:13,679 Speaker 2: It's oh yeah. Lots of people like to involve their 221 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:16,319 Speaker 2: dog now in ceremonies, have the ring and that sort 222 00:11:16,360 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 2: of thing. 223 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 4: Has that ever gone awry? No, But I love it. 224 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 4: It's like kids, kids and dogs. 225 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 1: You just roll with it. 226 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 4: You just learn to roll with it. 227 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 5: And I guess through my experience before in media, I'm 228 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 5: used to being able to add live when I can 229 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 5: work around any situation and it makes the moment. It's 230 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 5: that's the thing that people will talk about after when 231 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 5: the dog ran around and greeted everybody. This dog here 232 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 5: behind me that I've brought in. It was a ring 233 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:53,319 Speaker 5: bearer at a wedding on. 234 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:57,360 Speaker 4: Scarboroughbeks Bright Beautiful, just a couple of weeks ago. 235 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:01,000 Speaker 5: Because the groom, who I've met just at the local 236 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 5: cafe over the last few years has is from the 237 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 5: UK Morning Felix. He his dog is a Labordoodle, but 238 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 5: it's back in the UK. Daphanie's fourteen years old and 239 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:17,319 Speaker 5: Rough is an actor and so he's always been attracted 240 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 5: to Roof and he he asked if a Roof could 241 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 5: be the ring Well, actually, when he asked me to 242 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:26,800 Speaker 5: marry them, I said, okay, so long as Roof can 243 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 5: be the ring bearer, all right, and. 244 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 4: He said, yeah, of course, of course. 245 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 5: So he did an excellent job of that, walked down 246 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 5: the aisle and then walked back and greeted everybody for 247 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 5: a pat and then came back up with the rings 248 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 5: around his neck. But yeah, I love doing stuff like that, 249 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 5: and love involving kids in the wedding as well. 250 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 1: It just makes it special. 251 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 2: We have I think we've got to wrap it up. 252 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 2: Look at the time you should have wrapped up. 253 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 1: Sorry, yeah, yeah, but it was with a chat and catching. 254 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:58,440 Speaker 5: Up and you've missed traffic were Yeah, you know, I 255 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:00,560 Speaker 5: have no idea what the times. 256 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:04,959 Speaker 4: Thanks for coming here, Rof. 257 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 2: I'm sorry I've been mispronouncing your name all this time, 258 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 2: calling you Rough, impulveing animals