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Speaker 1: Hey, before we start, I just wanted to say if

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Speaker 1: any of this makes you feel anything which means that

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Speaker 1: you want to talk to someone, then please contact Lifeline

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Speaker 1: on thirteen eleven fourteen if you feel the need to talk.

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Speaker 1: There's no problem too small for them, so please just call.

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Speaker 2: Come on, all right, come.

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Speaker 3: On, one sixty the boys.

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Speaker 1: So I've actually realized that I'm missing a key piece

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Speaker 1: of information in this journey, and it's one that's going

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Speaker 1: to make you tingle from your nave to your chaps.

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Speaker 1: It involves a man on a quest, the King of TV,

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Speaker 1: and tens of thousands of dollars. When you're struggling with

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Speaker 1: your mental health, we all know the best thing to

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Speaker 1: do is to tell someone, but paradoxically, when you're in it,

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Speaker 1: that's often the hardest thing to do. Talking fails us.

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Speaker 1: So through this podcast, I intend to create an app

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Speaker 1: which answers the question how do I communicate without talking?

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Speaker 1: How do I share my mood today? I want to

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Speaker 1: start by sharing something with you.

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Speaker 2: I'm worried.

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Speaker 1: I'm worried that half of you feel disconnected to this problem.

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Speaker 1: You don't have a mental illness or mental health issues,

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Speaker 1: so it's not yours but you're wrong, and today, to

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Speaker 1: prove it to you, I'm going to make this episode

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Speaker 1: all about you, the people who don't have the mental

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Speaker 1: illnesses or who aren't suffering because of their mental health.

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Speaker 1: You might even try and claim that you don't know

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Speaker 1: anyone who has a mental issue and try and keep

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Speaker 1: it at arm's length, but I'm sorry because you're probably wrong. See,

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Speaker 1: one in five people are either stressed, anxious, depressed, or

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Speaker 1: mentally unhealthy. So even if you just interact with five

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, But statistically you fucked.

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Speaker 1: It's almost inevitable that there will be a part of

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Speaker 1: your life where you are interacting with someone who is struggling,

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Speaker 1: and a lot of the time, unless you're looking for it,

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Speaker 1: you won't even know. But the last thing I want

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Speaker 1: to do here is burden you. I want to empower you.

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Speaker 1: I want to equip you, because you're the solution the

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Speaker 1: people who aren't suffering, You're the way out.

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Speaker 4: A couple of years ago, my daughter had a friend

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Speaker 4: that suddenly passed away. It was a very close friend.

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Speaker 4: As a parent, watching your child go through the emotions

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Speaker 4: of trying to process that, helping them greet not one

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Speaker 4: hundred percent knowing what to say to them. My daughter

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Speaker 4: has anxiety, so that heightened it. Yeah, it was such

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Speaker 5: I'm a mum of seven children, single parents, so there's

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Speaker 5: no one really to bounce off in the darkest time.

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Speaker 5: My eldest is twenty two and the next one down

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Speaker 5: is fifteen. Both of these guys are on the autism spectrum.

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Speaker 5: My eldest particularly has been struggling with his mental health

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Speaker 5: and OCD and anxiety for many years now, maybe ten

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Speaker 5: therapists NDS, and you know what, it's just at the

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Speaker 5: end of the day, I still feel hopeless because we

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Speaker 1: These are people who called up from the show last night,

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Speaker 1: sharing and showing just how many people are in this

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Speaker 1: situation where they know someone is suffering, but they have

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Speaker 6: Penny and I I think, I mean very honest, We

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Speaker 6: still like we're pretty good with saying, but it's often

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Speaker 6: that she's not listening to something I'm saying, or she's

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Speaker 6: can you be here for this? Or can you just.

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Speaker 1: This is Hugh van Kylenberg, founder and CEO of The

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Speaker 1: Resilience Project. Hugh runs a stupidly good podcast called The

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Speaker 1: Imperfects with Ryan Sheldon.

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Speaker 2: I adore you. What do you and I both do?

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Speaker 1: He spent years doing hundreds of talks at schools around

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Speaker 1: the country. In twenty fourteen alone, he told me he

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Speaker 1: spoke at four hundred and eighty nine schools. That's like

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Speaker 6: When we first got engaged, she'd be such a happy moment,

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Speaker 6: her brain started saying, I don't think you want to

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Speaker 6: like just hijacking O, Naida, Wow, you don't want to

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Speaker 6: Like this is probably not the best and it's a

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Speaker 6: because I know that she'rely confronting to it. My job

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Speaker 6: is mental health, Like I talk about mental health all

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Speaker 6: I's having a great time, but she was I can't

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Speaker 6: like what have I done that I've done something here?

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Speaker 6: I spent the next two hours like what have I done? Like,

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Speaker 6: I've just I've spent two hours and a half of

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Speaker 6: Once and then I was like, I think she might

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Speaker 6: But still I've been to get her for like seven

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Speaker 1: The amazing thing about this chat with Hugh was that

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Speaker 1: as he started to talk about his wife's mental health

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Speaker 1: to see the stark similarities between he and Woody I

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Speaker 7: I totally get that, Hugh, because sometimes and I'll talk

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was last about to direct it to you.

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Speaker 8: It's so true, Hugh that sometimes you go, oh, maybe

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Speaker 8: he's actually just pissed off at me.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and you can't help it.

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Speaker 8: Sometimes you you naturally end someone's feel a bit like

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Speaker 7: And it can be quite hard to navigate.

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Speaker 8: Would it be offensive of me to say to him, hey,

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Speaker 7: When I've actually just done something yeah, to piss him off?

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Speaker 8: And then you might just go, no, mate, the brain's

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Speaker 7: On my face.

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Speaker 6: Then it becomes exhausting for I think we're quite similar

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Speaker 6: I'm gotta make everyone everything. It's a ridiculous boon to

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Speaker 6: If I think I've either done something or she's obsessing

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Speaker 6: It's not my job, but ramp it up.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, doing it blind as well, because you're trying to

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Speaker 8: And I think if we, you know, go circle back

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Speaker 7: Will, knowing that, like, ah, here's what's happening. You've actually

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Speaker 8: Just puts you leaps and bounds ahead and then you

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Speaker 8: I think, for you and me, and for so many

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Speaker 1: More from s later, But it's probably worth noting that,

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Speaker 1: as he so often does, would you hit the nail

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Speaker 2: Please don't tell him I said that.

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Speaker 1: If you say him, but just don't be fooled by

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Speaker 1: the fart gags and the surfer aesthetic, because the bloke

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Speaker 7: Gee, have you hit the nail on the head of

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Speaker 7: my character?

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Speaker 1: Take all of that back? No, you do not, I

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Speaker 1: do take it all back. That a genuine that was

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Speaker 1: just I knew you were listening, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: That's one hundred percent what happened. Let's say something clever,

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Speaker 1: then prove it. Okay, I'll say something clever. No, we

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Speaker 1: can edit out the thinking time obviously in post. But hmm, well,

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Speaker 1: no sign will come to me often often not if

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Speaker 1: I had to swim for long enough, something drops and

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Speaker 1: that thing is Mitochondria is the element that carries the

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Speaker 1: oxygen from the blood from the vein.

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Speaker 2: That's hemoglobin.

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Speaker 7: Damn it, damn it, mitochondria. What's the amotochondria.

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Speaker 2: They're the powerhouses of yourself, the energy I'm going to

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Speaker 2: carry on if they're with you. But back to you,

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Speaker 2: I know you're out there. There are so many of

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Speaker 1: You know that the person near you or next to

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Speaker 2: And you know it. They know it, they know you

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Speaker 9: Well, let's start to your truth.

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Speaker 1: Just like all great things that happened to you, this

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Speaker 1: Ime ridiculous, right, I'm sure we all have moments in

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Speaker 1: person's name, But then when they say your name actually

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Speaker 1: has to remind everyone of what show you're on. The

446
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Speaker 1: point is we were totally out of our league. It

447
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,800
Speaker 1: was wild, all right, would so can you just run

448
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Speaker 1: me through the dressing room? When we rocked up for

449
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Speaker 1: Who Wants to Be a Millionaire?

450
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Speaker 7: It was embarrassing.

451
00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 2: Was embarrassing.

452
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 7: It was very embarrassing.

453
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 8: It became very clear to both you and I that

454
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Speaker 8: every single celebrity that was on the show for Who

455
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Speaker 8: Wants to Be a Millionaire?

456
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Speaker 7: Had a dressing had a proper room. I forgot about

457
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Speaker 7: this a dressing room.

458
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Speaker 1: So like you know, but they're all starts. So each

459
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Speaker 1: of them was a celebrity. Griffith, she's been nominated for

460
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Speaker 1: asking but.

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Speaker 7: Sure for one opportunity of our lives.

462
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Speaker 8: We were also supposed to be addressed as celebrities and

463
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Speaker 8: something that one of the assistants said, Will, what do

464
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Speaker 8: you hear? A bit surprised that you guys actually rocked up,

465
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Speaker 8: but great, you're here, perfect. We'll show you to your

466
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Speaker 8: dressing room now.

467
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Speaker 1: And we had a selection of snacks, well a very

468
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Speaker 1: small selection, a selection of snacks. But they took us

469
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Speaker 1: to the corner of what it was a corner of

470
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Speaker 1: a room next to where the makeup was being done,

471
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Speaker 1: and they just put four makeshift walls around two deck

472
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Speaker 1: chairs effectively, and then in like text right on the wall,

473
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Speaker 1: Will and Woody we were the only ones who didn't

474
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Speaker 1: have her own room. Well, we actually thought that was

475
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Speaker 1: pretty sweet to start with, to be because we didn't

476
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Speaker 1: know how good it could be. But then I'm pretty

477
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,920
Speaker 1: sure when we bumped into Stephen Curry and his brother

478
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,160
Speaker 1: Bernard Curry realized very quickly that they had their own

479
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Speaker 1: rooms with you know, their names officially written.

480
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 2: On the wall and the door.

481
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Speaker 7: Far better snacks as well as Snackswoman.

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Speaker 2: The snacks were noted.

483
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Speaker 7: They were getting rice, paper rolls and stuff.

484
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Speaker 1: We's got musly bars and fruit, and not even the

485
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Speaker 1: good fruit what means good for it.

486
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Speaker 7: We had just like apples.

487
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Speaker 1: Honestly, in the Curry's room they had bananas and pineapple, pineapple,

488
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 1: far superior fruit. And I heard a rumor that Melanie

489
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Speaker 1: Griffith had mango in her room. Jesus Christ, just a

490
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Speaker 1: rumor because I never got close to her green.

491
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Speaker 2: Room, Jessing room. No. No, she was a big deal.

492
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Speaker 1: She was the moment when we were like, ge whiz,

493
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Speaker 1: there are some libs here.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, yeah.

495
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Speaker 1: She rolled in with rollers in her hand.

496
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Speaker 15: For the briefing should point out that her name is

497
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Speaker 15: Rachel Griffith, not Melanie Griffith. Griffith Griffith, Oh my god,

498
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Speaker 15: thank you, Joel.

499
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Speaker 1: She's going to kill us.

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Speaker 7: Who's Melanie Griffith. She'd be the woman who was married

501
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Speaker 7: to Antonio bandanis hilarious, Oh my god.

502
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Speaker 2: Rodrick is the actress.

503
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Speaker 15: Of course, Yeah, she was in blow with Johnny Depp.

504
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Speaker 15: I think I just realized that I was calling a

505
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Speaker 15: Melanie on the day potentially.

506
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Speaker 2: Oh my, oh my, I.

507
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Speaker 7: Thought I didn't think there were two people. I thought

508
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Speaker 7: there was only one. Griffith. Griffith's Griffith's my god, it's Rachel.

509
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Speaker 1: Needless to say, we were absolutely shitting ourselves, but it

510
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 1: also meant that we had a shot at winning a

511
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 1: whole bunch of money to go into the app or

512
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Speaker 1: at the very least to create a relationship with a

513
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Speaker 1: charity who was aligned to our courts. That's speaking, Yeah, Gus,

514
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 1: it's uh, it's it's Will and and what do you

515
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 1: hear from Will Willem?

516
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Speaker 7: I don't know why that was so hard to mate.

517
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 7: How many calls to different people going get ads? Will

518
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Speaker 7: hear from Will? And that's a balling staff.

519
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 1: No, this is Gus Warland, possibly a living, talking, and

520
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:38,479
Speaker 1: breathing contradiction.

521
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:39,879
Speaker 2: Of the phrase nice guys.

522
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Speaker 1: Finished last he hosted the award winning breakfast radio show

523
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 1: The Grill Team in Sydney for years. He's on the

524
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Speaker 1: Today Show all the time and he's done documentaries on

525
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 1: the Australian cricket team and He's also literally Hugh Jackman's

526
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 1: best friend. Importantly, though, he left all of that behind

527
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Speaker 1: when one of his best mates took his own life.

528
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Speaker 12: My friend Angus, he was just amazing boys, he who

529
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,680
Speaker 12: to me was the epitome of what a man was.

530
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 12: He seemed to have all the answers and good looking

531
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Speaker 12: at a lovely family. He seemed to be very successful

532
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 12: and everything he did, and he never asked for help.

533
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 12: He literally was the guy you had some problems, and

534
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:21,359
Speaker 12: he took his own life on the night that his

535
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:23,920
Speaker 12: third and final child finished their HC.

536
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Speaker 2: Jesus Ye.

537
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 12: So he had a big circle in his diaries like that.

538
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 16: Was the day that he was You'd check out and

539
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 16: it was just incredibly sad for everyone. So I then

540
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 16: realized that the funeral was twelve hundred guys and girls

541
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Speaker 16: there and we're all looking at each other going.

542
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Speaker 12: Did you have any idea? Did you have any idea?

543
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:47,400
Speaker 2: Since then, he's embarked on a pretty amazing mission.

544
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:49,399
Speaker 1: Got You for Life, which is all about and what

545
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 1: do you say, vanquishment of suicide eradication.

546
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Speaker 12: Well, it's certainly it's I think it's a it's a

547
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,639
Speaker 12: it's literally the biggest crisis we've got in this country

548
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 12: at the moment, certainly the number one way to pass

549
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 12: if you're an augy mail. So that's bad enough, isn't it. Yeah,

550
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 12: And it's just about building little fitness and making sure

551
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 12: you've got just like you two guys as one person

552
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 12: who's got you for life. You can have that aughts

553
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 12: and all conversation with and get out of banter just

554
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 12: at the right time if you need to, because we

555
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:20,400
Speaker 12: live in banter a little bit too much. In oz.

556
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:24,680
Speaker 1: Gus's attitude towards mental health is just so refreshing. He's

557
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 1: earnest when he needs to be, but punctuates it with

558
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 1: liveliness and even sometimes humor. So given how much we

559
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 1: felt like our causes aligned with his, both Woods and

560
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 1: I just absolutely loved the way he talks about the issue,

561
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: we decided to give him all the cash we'd won.

562
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 1: Luckily we were still rolling, so he managed to kept

563
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 1: the moment when we told him off air, So we.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we were invited gas. So we have been invited.

565
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 8: Onto a TV show next week Who Wants to Be

566
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Speaker 8: a Millionaire Celebrity Edition? So first of all, cop it, mate,

567
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 8: you didn't get the iner.

568
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 7: I can't believe we've got you there. Apparently it was

569
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 7: between us and Gus Wallen and we got you.

570
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 8: But the second thing is made all the money that

571
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 8: we make on who Wants to be a Millionaire next

572
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 8: week so it's Monday, and all that money goes towards

573
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:25,719
Speaker 8: a charity.

574
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's every celebrity that's going to be involved, and

575
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 7: we've chosen Beyond Blue. So we just wanted to rub

576
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 7: it in.

577
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 9: The spot in the show.

578
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 12: You're actually going to the competitor.

579
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 7: And actually have you got Beyond Blues number?

580
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:53,440
Speaker 12: Because anything at all will be absolutely huge. So thank

581
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 12: you so much, boys, from the bottom of my heart

582
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,280
Speaker 12: if you thought of us and go out and get

583
00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 12: and get the million boys.

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00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's not you for a million, Gus.

585
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 2: I'm to be.

586
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 12: Careful with your lifelines. Don't go too early with your lifelives.

587
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 7: All right, we're doing you a favorite.

588
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 1: I mean, now, all of a sudden, you're guilt is

589
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 1: there is not a chance for you to emotionally blackmails.

590
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 7: It was a favor. We appreciate the thanks.

591
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 2: We're going with as much money as we can and

592
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 2: we won't feel bad if we fail out.

593
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 1: It's the last message.

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00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 7: Great to speak to you.

595
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 1: It's a pleasure as always, mate, And I suppose so

596
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Speaker 1: we're on, we're on Monday next week, and if we

597
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Speaker 1: don't get on Monday with the fastest finger first thing,

598
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 1: then I think it goes over to Tuesday. So we'll

599
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 1: know by Monday or Tuesday how much we've got you

600
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 1: forgot your for life and hopefully yeah, as you said,

601
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 1: just getting some more cash into arguably the biggest crisis

602
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 1: that the world faces right now, which is people taking

603
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: their own lives crazy. You just think that we're saying that,

604
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 1: but that's reality, and I can't think of a better

605
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 1: place to go for the cash to go to.

606
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Speaker 12: So boys, you're brilliant. I love you very manch through

607
00:30:59,520 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 12: the smile.

608
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 1: So given that we are in a flashback right now,

609
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: I can probably do all of you guys a favor

610
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 1: and just flash forward to the moment where Woods and

611
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 1: I actually went on who Wants to be a Millionaire

612
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 1: with Eddie and want a shitload of cash for your

613
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Speaker 1: listening pleasure. I also had Gust record himself while he

614
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: watched the episode when we won, because I knew his

615
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 1: reactions would be gold. I didn't know they'd be this

616
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 1: good but he definitely didn't disappoint. You can still see

617
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 1: it online on Will and Woodie. So just while you're

618
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 1: listening to this, if you want to go and check

619
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Speaker 1: it out, please do. But also please remember we are

620
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 1: absolutely shitting ourselves.

621
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Speaker 2: Like we're on Who Wants to be a Millionaire?

622
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 1: Edie Maguire is there, Stephen Curry's there, Red Simon's is

623
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 1: sitting behind me. I've delayed him. I beat him in

624
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 1: fastest finger first. And more importantly, we're gambling with tens

625
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 1: of thousands of dollars and it's not our money, like

626
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: I would have felt bad enough if it was my

627
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 1: own cash, let alone for a mental health charity where

628
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 1: it could really make a difference.

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Speaker 12: Well, just about to watch the boys in Who Wants

630
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 12: to be a Millionaire?

631
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Speaker 10: Well, d.

632
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 2: You got bread?

633
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 12: You got bread?

634
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 2: Brand coming icic swimming stroke is the doggie? What paddle? Baby?

635
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 7: Unlucky style wasn't an option, but yes, I think, I wow.

636
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 2: Come on luck in my god? All right, come on,

637
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 2: twisted a man? Correct you, I'm sorry, Rad, you have

638
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 2: to hold that cab.

639
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 10: Come on, all right, come on.

640
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 3: One sixty.

641
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 2: Whoa who the boys that Lobo wanted It was the

642
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 2: dumb radio command.

643
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: The check you have sixty.

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00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 14: Four thousands well and money from kidspe God true.

645
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 1: So there you go. Have you any for Gussie? We

646
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 1: go on doing a shitload of cash for him. Here's

647
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:11,120
Speaker 1: him on air the next day. So us choosing Gotcha

648
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 1: for life was just a no brainer. Really we won

649
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: them sixty four thousand dollars and we've got the founder

650
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: and CEO right now and Gus wall and who joins

651
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:19,800
Speaker 1: us on the phone.

652
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 2: What a night.

653
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 12: It was unbelievable. Bull the words that your logic worked out,

654
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 12: questions putty, the way you just stood in the background

655
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 12: and just eight year snacks and stuff.

656
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 2: It was.

657
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 7: What were you expecting last night? How much did you

658
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 7: think we'd make?

659
00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 12: Look because I'd watch because I'd watch the night before

660
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 12: and stuff as well, and I knew that some people

661
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 12: don't okay and others weren't so flash. I was thinking,

662
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 12: if you could anything over one thousand dollars would have

663
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 12: been because one thousand dollars. If you think forty dollars

664
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Speaker 12: will get someone a guy or a girl in front

665
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Speaker 12: into one of our workshops, and that could literally save

666
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 12: someone's life. You just don't know, because when you're working

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Speaker 12: in prevention. It's very hard to judge, so anything is fantastic.

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Speaker 12: Once I got to thirty two and I was like,

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Speaker 12: oh my god, like this is just life changing for

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Speaker 12: us as at the foundation, and then the sixty four

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Speaker 12: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: If you haven't seen it, this is Gus reacting to

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Speaker 1: and as you said, Gus, this is monumental cash for

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Speaker 1: you as a charity.

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Speaker 2: You got your flat. You can hear it. How all

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Speaker 2: listen to this? Yeah, well I'm sixty.

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Speaker 7: Couple of complaints from the neighbors, Gus.

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Speaker 12: I mean went in this morning. I apologize when I

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Speaker 12: put the fins out, and they were like, nicklass Nutter,

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Speaker 12: you and Vicky decided to have another kid or something.

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Speaker 12: I know how much snow it means to us as

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Speaker 12: a foundation, but more than that, just the way that

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Speaker 12: you guys live your life. It's not the sixty four thousand.

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Speaker 12: It's the fact that you're a living example of what

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Speaker 12: gotcha for life is all about. And if imagine if

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Speaker 12: everyone listening to us now had someone that they could

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Speaker 12: talk to, that they can confide in, that they could

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Speaker 12: love like you two boys, we would get to that

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Speaker 12: zero suicide, which is what we're all about. It gotcha

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Speaker 12: for life. So you've done more than the money boys.

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Speaker 12: You're just You're sitting an example every day and I

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Speaker 12: could not be prouder to have you as ambassadors. I

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Speaker 12: couldn't be proud to have you as mates, and I

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Speaker 12: cannot wait for us to go on a journey together.

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Speaker 12: Because zero suicides. I was laughed off the planet because

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Speaker 12: there's so many people in structor in strife. But we

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Speaker 12: can do it and not fart. That showed. With a

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Speaker 12: bit of passion and love, anything is possible, all right.

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Speaker 1: So flash back over and you're about to find out

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Speaker 1: in the next episode of Share My Mood, Gus may

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Speaker 1: actually be the link we need to get this app

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Speaker 1: off the ground.

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Speaker 2: I'll explain a little bit more later.

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Speaker 1: But whilst Gus and this millionaire stuff is a really

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Speaker 1: great story, he himself is also really symptomatic of what

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Speaker 1: I've been speaking about this whole episode. It's about you,

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Speaker 1: the people who have to live with them, the people

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Speaker 1: who have to love them, and sometimes the people that

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Speaker 1: have to lose them. Keep in mind, the only reason

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Speaker 1: Gus is doing this is because he lost his mate.

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Speaker 1: I'll say it again, this crisis won't be solved by

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Speaker 1: those who are suffering, but don't just get involved for them,

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00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 1: get involved for you. Move beyond the surface of your

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Speaker 1: relationships with your friends. It might be scary at first,

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Speaker 1: but the only thing you'll find is just a deeper connection.

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Speaker 12: I then realized that the funeral always twelve hundred guys

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Speaker 12: and girls there, and we're all looking at each other

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Speaker 12: going did you have any idea?

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Speaker 4: Did you have any idea?

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Speaker 12: That started the journey for me to find out why

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Speaker 12: we lose so many beautiful blokes? So hit the program

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Speaker 12: man up on the ABC, and that was me challenging

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Speaker 12: masculinity and wondering more, we're losing so many blokes And

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Speaker 12: that started off Got Your Life after that, and my

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Speaker 12: relationships now boys with my own son who's now twinky,

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Speaker 12: my daughter's boyfriends, my friends, my schoolmates, my work boats

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Speaker 12: are so much deeper because I've just decided, you know what,

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Speaker 12: love me the way I am. I'm going to be open,

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Speaker 12: honest and vulnerable. If you don't like it, well that's

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Speaker 12: fine with me. And it's just enriched my life. And

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Speaker 12: I'm trying to sort of build that emotional muscle up

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Speaker 12: on in most doses because I think we're still got

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Speaker 12: this old fashioned stereotime. I'll be right, mate, leave me alone.

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Speaker 12: I'm going to ury by emotion.

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Speaker 1: Hide it behind footy chat and a whole bunch of

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Speaker 1: psychasm and whatever you can.

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Speaker 12: It's going to be on the Dante.

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Speaker 1: So this app is about you, This podcast is about you.

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Speaker 1: And I can say that because the expression is unilateral,

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Speaker 1: because whether you're suffering or you have to live with

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Speaker 1: the ones who do, the bridge has got to be

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Speaker 1: built from both sides.

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Speaker 2: In order to find the connection that will generate the prevention.

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Speaker 1: Next on Share My Mood, I uncover the main block

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Speaker 1: as to why people don't share their mood? Am I

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Speaker 1: right in saying here that that sense of I'm being

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Speaker 1: a burden on you can develop that young and then

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Speaker 1: be something that we carry with.

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Speaker 2: Us a whole life.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I think absolutely.

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Speaker 2: And I'm forced to pitch live on air to a

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Speaker 2: tech guru.

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Speaker 1: I'm getting told that we've got a sixty second clock,

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Speaker 1: So okay, yeah, No.

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Speaker 13: I think sixty seconds is good only because you know

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Speaker 13: the elevator pitch if you can't tot of crystallize it

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Speaker 13: to that moment in time, and it's really hard to

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Speaker 13: be able to not only build something, but sell it

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Speaker 13: in a way that people can understand and digest quickly.

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Speaker 13: So it's a critical first step.

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Speaker 1: Keep in mind the clock's ticking the channel just to

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Speaker 1: build this app in a few weeks.

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Speaker 2: Please get involved.

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Speaker 1: If you're tuning into the radio show tomorrow from fourtill six,

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Speaker 1: I'd love to hear from you. We'll talk about it

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Speaker 1: again otherwise I'll see you next time. Share My Mood

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Speaker 1: is produced by Jackson mcclennan. All music by Robert Bremner.

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Speaker 1: The cover design is by Lucky Seu And a huge

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Speaker 1: thank you to my co host and best mate Woody

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Speaker 1: Whitelaw for suffering me, and also to my whole team

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Speaker 1: who have continued to support a pipe dream. Here a

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Speaker 1: big shout out to my partner Sam as well, who

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Speaker 1: has just been the biggest of supports while I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to do all this and nothing.

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Speaker 2: Else in my life. Just a quick reminder before I

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Speaker 2: go that.

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Speaker 1: If anything in the podcast brought up anything for you

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