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<v Speaker 1>Laura, come on in.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, hello, Hello, say everything. Mitch.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a new trend that I have found that

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<v Speaker 3>has come back in.

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<v Speaker 2>It's doing the rounds.

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<v Speaker 3>It's been about fifteen twenty years since it was very fashionable.

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<v Speaker 2>Why did you aim mistress at though I'm not in fashion.

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<v Speaker 3>Huh you'll know when it's well, no, you're not, but

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<v Speaker 3>you'll know what I tell you because I think it's

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<v Speaker 3>something Mitch should give it. Well, okay, the ballet flat,

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<v Speaker 3>the shoe is making it. Yeah, is making a proper comeback.

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<v Speaker 3>But not only the ballet flat. They have this one

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<v Speaker 3>ballet flat that's going viral that's like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>if you've seen it. It's it's black lace. The flat

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<v Speaker 3>like it's like mesh. So it's it's almost got no soul.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like it's like something Kanye West would we

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<v Speaker 3>don't have you. But it's nothing. It's just a bit

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<v Speaker 3>of mesh. It's not a shoe. It's like you accidentally

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<v Speaker 3>slipped at the fishing market and got a net on

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<v Speaker 3>you and then you got stuck in deside to keep walking.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what's making this comeback.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't get them.

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<v Speaker 4>Think it's going to be good for me. The amount

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<v Speaker 4>of tinia I got on my feet. They might air

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<v Speaker 4>them out and actually.

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<v Speaker 2>Fixed me out, doesn't I mean, I haven't seen these

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<v Speaker 2>mesh ones, but I mean I remember being at Uni

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<v Speaker 2>and wearing ballet flats every day, and they stink and

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<v Speaker 2>they're small, and there's no adult that should be walking

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<v Speaker 2>around in a pair of ballet flats.

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<v Speaker 4>Ballet flats Awakening, I'll put my sister's block ballet flats

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<v Speaker 4>on a prance around the house.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, that's how I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I've had a picture for you. Do you know what

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<v Speaker 2>else is back in fashion? Wearing dresses over pants off

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<v Speaker 2>the back of Barbie. It was a real nineties thing,

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<v Speaker 2>and I've seen it back again. And all of these

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<v Speaker 2>things when they come round for Rown two makes me

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<v Speaker 2>just feel so old.

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<v Speaker 4>PSA to the nation where the higher fashion. The three

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<v Speaker 4>of us put down the ballet flats.

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't type.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't just step away joining us on the show today, Ossie.

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<v Speaker 4>Superstar Conrad Soul is gonna be here.

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<v Speaker 1>What a man.

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<v Speaker 3>I love Conrad so much and he does so many

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<v Speaker 3>good things in the world, doesn't he.

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<v Speaker 4>He's got such an amazing story. Yeah, we'll chat to

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<v Speaker 4>me about it. Next, Conrad stil joins us. Plus we've

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<v Speaker 4>got a thousand bucks up for grabs on the pickup ladies.

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<v Speaker 4>Our next guest is a genuine Ozzie superstar, one of

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<v Speaker 4>our biggest exports, with over one billion streams across all

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<v Speaker 4>his music. He's got Arias coming out of the wazoo.

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<v Speaker 4>He's got number one aria albums. We had him on

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<v Speaker 4>the show in March for Precious, his latest album. But

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<v Speaker 4>he's he now to talk to us about a very

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<v Speaker 4>good cause. He's teamed up with Conrad Saul is here.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi Conrad, Hey.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys, are welcome back.

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<v Speaker 3>We are good now. Hey tell us what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>This musician's making a difference? Mma D what's this all about?

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<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 6>I found out about these guys, the Mad Boys I

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<v Speaker 6>call them, years ago, probably about like six years ago.

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<v Speaker 6>I started doing some stuff with them and they were

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<v Speaker 6>hanging around the Sony offices and they had a bunch

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<v Speaker 6>of kids with them, and I went in to one

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<v Speaker 6>of the studios and they were sort of doing this

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<v Speaker 6>thing and they told me a bit about the charity,

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<v Speaker 6>and it was pretty much as they work with the youth,

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<v Speaker 6>like you know, kids that are going through you know,

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<v Speaker 6>you name it, from depression to addiction to just you know,

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<v Speaker 6>just generally you know what it's like growing up. It's

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<v Speaker 6>it's some of the hardest times. You know, some people

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<v Speaker 6>go through it way worse than others. And these the

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<v Speaker 6>mad Boys pretty much come into their lives sort of

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<v Speaker 6>give them a community of people and try and help them,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, a lot of that. A lot of the

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<v Speaker 6>time it's through music and like giving them you know,

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<v Speaker 6>if they're interested in music, you know, putting them in

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<v Speaker 6>studios or introducing them to two artists and sort of

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<v Speaker 6>making them feel like they can well they can do anything,

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<v Speaker 6>you know what I mean, and putting a bit of

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<v Speaker 6>hope back into their lives.

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<v Speaker 3>I think.

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<v Speaker 6>So, you know, I just from from time to time

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<v Speaker 6>wherever I can, I help out, and you know, whether

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<v Speaker 6>that's you know, mentoring or going in and seeing the

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<v Speaker 6>kids and telling them my story. I mean, I've definitely,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, struggled with addiction and things like that in

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<v Speaker 6>the past myself, and generally have a lack of self

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<v Speaker 6>love and are wanting it, wanting to please everyone and people.

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<v Speaker 6>So I feel like I can relate to, yeah, a

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<v Speaker 6>lot of what they're going through. So yeah, so I think,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, they have this day and just you know,

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<v Speaker 6>creating awareness around what they're doing, and they're just a

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<v Speaker 6>great bunch of lads that run the charity.

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<v Speaker 2>So Conrad One, musicians are getting involved in this. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I know that you're there sharing your story and you're

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<v Speaker 2>being a support, but are the other musicians who are

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<v Speaker 2>also involved.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there's a lot.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I don't on the top of my head, I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know exactly who is. I know it's sort of

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<v Speaker 6>sort of Sony got behind the Mad the Mad guys

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<v Speaker 6>a long time ago and you know, offered their studios

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<v Speaker 6>and so I think I think through that they've just

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<v Speaker 6>met a lot of artists that are signed to Sony

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<v Speaker 6>And I don't know who's put their hand up for me.

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<v Speaker 6>It just personally resonated with me because I don't know,

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<v Speaker 6>I just feel like when you're that when you're young,

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<v Speaker 6>especially in like those young teen years, like you know,

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<v Speaker 6>you'd even like eighteen nineteen twenty, there's not really like

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<v Speaker 6>people that you're looking up to or people that mentors,

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<v Speaker 6>you know what I mean, Like that can sort of

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<v Speaker 6>shine light in a different direction other than just going

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<v Speaker 6>to the club and partying with your friends that are

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<v Speaker 6>pretty much clueless as well, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>So I just feel like, you know, we need people.

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<v Speaker 6>We need more people sort of stepping up and teaching,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, teaching men how to be men and vice

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<v Speaker 6>versa with women.

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<v Speaker 2>But also, comrade, there must be something that's really inspiring

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<v Speaker 2>from seeing you come in and speak about your story.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you said that addiction is something that you

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<v Speaker 2>struggled with. For so many of these kids who may

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<v Speaker 2>be on a similar track or maybe dealing with it themselves,

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<v Speaker 2>to see someone who's made it on the other side

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<v Speaker 2>of that and is successful and has got their life together,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what that actually means for them? How is

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<v Speaker 2>it for you sharing your story with them?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>I really I get a lot out of it, you know.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I feel like, I mean, don't get wrong,

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I'm a work in progress myself, and I

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<v Speaker 6>think that I think it's more about people. I think

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<v Speaker 6>it's more for for kids hearing that, like you could

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<v Speaker 6>you can come from anywhere, or you know, you could

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<v Speaker 6>you could be in a really dark spot and it

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<v Speaker 6>can get better or you you know, some of these kids,

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<v Speaker 6>a lot of them like love, rapping and stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 6>But they they probably look at it like I'll never

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<v Speaker 6>be able to do that, you know what I mean like,

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<v Speaker 6>and they just feel like it's not possible. And then

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<v Speaker 6>they hear they come in and they hear a story

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<v Speaker 6>about for me example, like a kid from Brisbane who

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<v Speaker 6>ended up getting signed to Leo Cohen who sign Kanye

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<v Speaker 6>West Roman and it gives these kids like what that

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<v Speaker 6>can happen? That can happen to a kid from Australia.

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<v Speaker 6>And then all of a sudden, someone who's like you know,

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<v Speaker 6>dabbling in drugs or you know, doing things in the

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<v Speaker 6>streets thinks that he can then you know, put something

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<v Speaker 6>into something more positive and starts putting it, putting that

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<v Speaker 6>energy into music. So I think, yeah, like I said,

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<v Speaker 6>just inspiring people and you know, I think we just

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<v Speaker 6>need more of that, like some you know, people telling

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<v Speaker 6>telling stories about people making it out you know, out

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<v Speaker 6>of Australia and things.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 4>Good what I love comrade though you're doing this. So

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<v Speaker 4>M M A D day O twenty. If you dedicate

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<v Speaker 4>a song, all you have to do is tag MMA

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<v Speaker 4>D Australia actually MMA D Australia and.

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<v Speaker 1>Hashtag this song is for you.

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<v Speaker 4>You can dedicate any song MMAD guys, you can get

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<v Speaker 4>some more info. Want to have a Google or On

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<v Speaker 4>October twenty tag MMAD hashtag this song is for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Dedicate a song. Comrade Buddy, great to chat to you,

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<v Speaker 4>a great cause. Thanks for hanging out to gate.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks legend, Comrade soul.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, Lifeline is there and always available as well. On

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<v Speaker 4>thirteen eleven fourteen, if you or anyone you know is struggling,

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<v Speaker 4>all right, stand by everyone back after this here at

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<v Speaker 4>the pickup.

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<v Speaker 3>So we had the Big Life on Cut Podcast live show.

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<v Speaker 3>We're in the middle of our tour right around the country,

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<v Speaker 3>but last weekend it was in Sydney at the State Theater,

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<v Speaker 3>Beautiful theater. Now, Laura and I, it's our show, Mitch,

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<v Speaker 3>you or the MC. You're very heavily involved, very funny,

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<v Speaker 3>just had to live doing a great But something came

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<v Speaker 3>up at the show that sparked a pretty fierce debate

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<v Speaker 3>amongst the audience and the results because we've got the

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<v Speaker 3>audience involved about what they thought and the results were

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<v Speaker 3>not what I thought.

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<v Speaker 6>So I wanted to.

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<v Speaker 3>Have another little discussion and really like work it out.

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<v Speaker 1>The question was.

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<v Speaker 3>Can a man or a husband go and get a

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<v Speaker 3>vasectomy without consulting his partner or wife. Now, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>think this matters so much if you have kids or

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<v Speaker 3>you don't, because I think the discussion around is going

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<v Speaker 3>to be pretty similar. But we're all for body autonomy, right,

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<v Speaker 3>you can do whatever you want your body. But does

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<v Speaker 3>that still stand when it's talking about procreating which affects

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<v Speaker 3>two people is a.

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<v Speaker 2>Permanent of you can reverse it, but like it's not

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<v Speaker 2>advised to go and get it done if you intend

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<v Speaker 2>on reversing temporary Okay, I think I disagree. I think

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<v Speaker 2>it is important the context. So the part of this

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<v Speaker 2>question was that the couple already had two kids, and

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<v Speaker 2>the woman wanted a third child and he didn't, and

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<v Speaker 2>he had made that aware, and he hadn't gone and

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<v Speaker 2>got the vasectomy yet, but he had booked in for

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<v Speaker 2>the appointment without telling her. She discover it, she yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so he was going to go ahead and get it done.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the reason why I related to this so

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<v Speaker 2>much is because Matt and I are currently I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>he hasn't booked himself in for a sectomy.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Canceled the appointment, but we're in those discussions, like we're

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<v Speaker 2>in the discussions around do we have a third child?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because you've got two, Laura.

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<v Speaker 2>We've got two. I've had a four year old, I've

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<v Speaker 2>got a two year old. We always said that if

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<v Speaker 2>we were going to have three, we'd have them very

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<v Speaker 2>back to back. But our two year old is almost

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<v Speaker 2>a three year old, like she's she's well out of

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<v Speaker 2>the nappy phase now, she's out of the baby phase.

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<v Speaker 2>And Matt always really wanted three kids, like he was

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<v Speaker 2>hell bent on it, and at the time I wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>so sure. Now he's changed his mind. Matt doesn't want

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<v Speaker 2>any more kids, and I think I am, like, my

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<v Speaker 2>feelings have changed so much in the past six months

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<v Speaker 2>and I want a third Do you.

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<v Speaker 3>Think your feelings have changed because he's have changed, Like

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<v Speaker 3>you know when someone pulls something away from you, like,

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<v Speaker 3>hang on a minute, maybe I want that.

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<v Speaker 2>No, my feelings have changed because so for the for

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<v Speaker 2>the very reason that Matt doesn't want to go back

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<v Speaker 2>to having babies is the exact reason why my feelings

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<v Speaker 2>have changed. Because I'm out of the trenches now with

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<v Speaker 2>having babies that I've had, I've come up for air

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<v Speaker 2>and I feel better about myself. I feel better about

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<v Speaker 2>my body, so you want to throw I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm okay with my work again. I can see myself

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<v Speaker 2>managing it again with a third Whereas when I was

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<v Speaker 2>in the trenches, I couldn't possibly add another baby onto

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<v Speaker 2>those trenches, like it was too hard. And now it's

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<v Speaker 2>really hard for us because I know he doesn't want

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<v Speaker 2>to have a third child, and so we're having those

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<v Speaker 2>big conversations about the fact that we're not on the

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<v Speaker 2>same page with it anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>So then, how would you feel if, knowing this now,

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<v Speaker 3>you found out he had booked him for ever second

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<v Speaker 3>without telling you.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I would feel very betrayed, Not because I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I understand that you know my husband's body, it's his body,

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<v Speaker 2>he has his own autonomy, but I would hope that

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<v Speaker 2>there's still a discussion around it. But in the same instance,

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<v Speaker 2>I respect the fact that one of the big things

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<v Speaker 2>he said is is that he feels that if we

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<v Speaker 2>were to have another child, it would impact our relationship,

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<v Speaker 2>Like there comes a point where when you're so busy

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<v Speaker 2>with work and you're so busy with your other children

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<v Speaker 2>that you can't prioritize your relationship as much and our

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<v Speaker 2>relationship for the past couple of years, especially when you

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<v Speaker 2>have young children, has come second to having young children often,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think he's at the point where he's like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>can we not get back to a place where our

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<v Speaker 2>relationship is number one priority? So why do you want

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<v Speaker 2>to add more stress when we're just coming to a

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<v Speaker 2>place of being great again. It's a hard discussion, isn't it?

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<v Speaker 2>And I know it's I mean, I understand it's a

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<v Speaker 2>privileged discussion because there's so many people who struggle to

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<v Speaker 2>have any children. And we've had our own issues in

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<v Speaker 2>terms of miscarriages, and we've had our hard times with

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<v Speaker 2>fertility as well. But for some reason, I'm now dealing

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<v Speaker 2>with the acceptance that maybe our family unit having three

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<v Speaker 2>kids is not going to happen, and we will just

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<v Speaker 2>have the two beautiful kids that we have.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting lots of chats you have to have to.

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<v Speaker 3>Unpack still, but you're not on the same page. There's

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<v Speaker 3>the phone because they're still practicing. They're still undecided.

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<v Speaker 2>Egg su essential family crisis is going on at the moment.

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<v Speaker 7>All right.

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<v Speaker 4>Next on the show, we got a thousand dollars up

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<v Speaker 4>for grabs. Children of Australia listener, No, no, This week

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<v Speaker 4>on the pickup, we are going Oprah. You get an LCM,

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<v Speaker 4>you get an LCM, We'll give you a thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 4>worth of lcms. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, this is probably the one time in life

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<v Speaker 2>that it actually pays for your children to be embarrassing totally.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we want your embarrassing kids stories up next here

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<v Speaker 4>at the pickup all week every show.

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<v Speaker 1>We know you're in the car.

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<v Speaker 4>We know you've got empty lunch boxes and the boot

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<v Speaker 4>and those backpacks, your kids and their big old backpacks

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<v Speaker 4>full of empty lunch box.

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<v Speaker 3>It's also if it's not in the back, it's like

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<v Speaker 3>even in the back of the seat and you put

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<v Speaker 3>the rubbish all over the ground and like you know

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<v Speaker 3>how you under the seat of a mum's car.

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<v Speaker 2>Is like twenty five rappers of music bars.

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<v Speaker 3>And when you say that car a lot, Laura, there's

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of in there.

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<v Speaker 4>I have been in Laura's car and I swear to

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<v Speaker 4>God I sat on an lcmbar and ate it.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean fine, it would have still been perfectly edible,

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<v Speaker 2>preserved in a show.

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<v Speaker 3>It wasn't even the pack yet, it was out at

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<v Speaker 3>the back roler had half not.

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<v Speaker 4>On the side of it, well, every day on the pickup.

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<v Speaker 4>This week, we're giving out one thousand dollars to fill

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<v Speaker 4>your kids lunchboxes with as many lcms as they like.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you get an LCM, you're getting.

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<v Speaker 2>Lzum're going, that's a lot of lcms to give to

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<v Speaker 2>your kids.

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<v Speaker 4>It is light up their day with lcm's available in

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<v Speaker 4>near a supermarket thirteen one o six five.

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<v Speaker 1>We just want to know, what did your kids say

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<v Speaker 1>that embarrassed you?

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<v Speaker 6>Do?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what?

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<v Speaker 2>Kids say terrible things all the time. Every single day.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like every single parent in the car, wherever

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<v Speaker 2>you are, your child has done something or said something

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<v Speaker 2>that was humiliating. Because that's just part and parcel parenting totally.

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<v Speaker 1>Melissa in thirteen one o six five, What did your

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<v Speaker 1>kids say? How'd they embarrass you?

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, So it was my grandpa's birthday and she succeeded

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<v Speaker 7>to ask how old he was and I told him

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<v Speaker 7>it was ninety and she said, wow, he's almost one

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<v Speaker 7>hundred and I'm like, yeah, I know, and she says

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<v Speaker 7>that's old. How come he's not dead yet? And now

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<v Speaker 7>I'm there to tell that to him at the restaurant

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<v Speaker 7>to his face.

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<v Speaker 2>That you should be dead.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, and then he asked what happened? Whill you die?

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<v Speaker 7>And I said, no, he go to heaven and you know,

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<v Speaker 7>it's really hot up in the planes. It's just a

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<v Speaker 7>really magical place, nothing to be scared of. And she goes,

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<v Speaker 7>it's they're unicorns and faeries and I told her, yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>you know there is, and then she said, I really

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<v Speaker 7>want to go, but I don't want to die and

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<v Speaker 7>started like crying.

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<v Speaker 2>You shouldn't have.

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<v Speaker 3>Told her there were the unicorns there.

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<v Speaker 2>That's when you made it too good. You sold it.

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<v Speaker 7>No, no, not just that. Then a couple of weeks later,

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<v Speaker 7>one of her friends at school, she just started school

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<v Speaker 7>as well, and one of her friend's grandpa died and

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<v Speaker 7>she said, Mum, something happened to Rosa's grandpa. And I said,

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<v Speaker 7>what happened, said the mom? She passed away, And I'm

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<v Speaker 7>like okay. She's like yeah, but you know, me and

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<v Speaker 7>Rosa were talking about heaven and then she said there's

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<v Speaker 7>only fairies there, and I said, no, there's not, there's

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<v Speaker 7>unicorns and faeries. My mom's older, she knows more than.

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<v Speaker 2>You, Like you're an ages.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you proper. Melissa Jody on thirteen, one sixty five.

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<v Speaker 4>What did your kids say?

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<v Speaker 7>She said to her child care worker. She was sick

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<v Speaker 7>one day and he said, you have to go to

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<v Speaker 7>the doctors because nan started in the car.

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<v Speaker 2>That would probably make her sick. Maybe that's why she

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<v Speaker 2>thought she was sick. She's like, someone farted around me.

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<v Speaker 2>I've got to go.

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<v Speaker 4>There's something different about a nan fart, like a like

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<v Speaker 4>a sibling fart is okay because it's like kind of

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<v Speaker 4>the same as you.

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<v Speaker 3>Especially for like a nan fart post like Curry totally drink.

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<v Speaker 1>Tea and they have arrowroot biscuits.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like the stay Yeah, a bit savory.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a bit gross.

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<v Speaker 2>How many nana farts have you guys been swapping?

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<v Speaker 1>I've been to your house.

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<v Speaker 2>That's sorry, very descriptive from the tour.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been in a car with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to make you feel a bit sick as well. Definitely,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not a nana. I know you think I'm old

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<v Speaker 2>to get off it.

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<v Speaker 4>Last while, Lauren, Hello, what did your child say to

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<v Speaker 4>embarrass you?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Well, just to paint a picture on a burned

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<v Speaker 5>nurse an occasional that we do have to restrain our

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<v Speaker 5>patients to the bend for various reasons, delirium or some

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<v Speaker 5>type of behavior of concern. And recently, just at the

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<v Speaker 5>local basketball training with my seven year old kickboard to

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<v Speaker 5>all the parents and all the kids for his mum

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<v Speaker 5>likes to tie people up to the bed.

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<v Speaker 2>He shared your kings to the people squad. Maybe you do,

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<v Speaker 2>and that might be the other reason, but you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>let's not share it to all the kids in the playground.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's so funny, and I reckon, let's give you

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<v Speaker 3>a thousand bucks.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you can have it there.

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<v Speaker 4>You go, get as many lcms as you want, fill

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<v Speaker 4>the kids lunchboxes, light up their day with lcms. You're

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<v Speaker 4>so fine, available near a supermarket. We'll do that tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 4>We got all this class it.

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<v Speaker 3>I love just being like, you get some money, you

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<v Speaker 3>get some lcms.

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<v Speaker 2>I also just love hearing all the embarrassing things because

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<v Speaker 2>my kids have done so much stuff over the years

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<v Speaker 2>where it's almost to the point now where they do

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<v Speaker 2>things and they say things and it's not even embarrassing anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's kind of nice. It's embarrassing, well for you,

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<v Speaker 2>but for me, it's so commonplace. I should be embarrassed,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm not desensitized. But it's so nice hearing it

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<v Speaker 2>from other parents as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we'll do it tomorrow. We'll see you guys.

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<v Speaker 5>Then.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't wait see tomorrow, See you guys,