WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: KIIS/MIX Breast Check Day! 🍒

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, hello everyone, Happy Thursday.

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<v Speaker 2>Albo Oh, hi, Mitch, how are you going this fine afternoon?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. You said that yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, look we're have a bit of a more serious

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<v Speaker 2>one today. On this Thursday.

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<v Speaker 3>One of our very own kiss FM family members was

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<v Speaker 3>recently diagnosed with breast cancer. And it all happened pretty

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<v Speaker 3>quickly from when she found out to when she was

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<v Speaker 3>having a mistectomy, and it sort of made us all

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<v Speaker 3>stand up a little bit and take notice and think

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<v Speaker 3>we need to be doing more to promote advocacy for

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<v Speaker 3>checking your own breast.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, visit Ali Clark if you didn't get the news,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, not long ago, but which part of the

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<v Speaker 4>family here.

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<v Speaker 1>And it kind of made everyone in the company go,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>I grabbed my boobs immediately.

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<v Speaker 3>And I have been fear selling them actually probably too much,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean feeling them to the point where I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>now I'm like, oh, is that something am I sore?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I've been touching it too much.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's really important that you understand how you should

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<v Speaker 3>be doing your breast checks and things like that. So

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<v Speaker 3>make sure you right now do a little bit of

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<v Speaker 3>research on how and what you should be feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's what we're going to do.

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<v Speaker 4>Every month, We're going to give you a little nudge

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<v Speaker 4>to check your breast because it's early detection is the key.

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<v Speaker 1>It saves lives.

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<v Speaker 4>One in seven izzy women will be diagnosed with breast

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<v Speaker 4>cancer in their lifetime. We all know way over seven

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<v Speaker 4>women that it will directly affect us in our life,

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<v Speaker 4>and when it's caught early, the survival rate is over

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<v Speaker 4>ninety percent.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, which is literally the difference between you living.

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<v Speaker 1>Or not and what do you feel for.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, I mean, it can affect men too, but

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<v Speaker 4>it predominantly affects women.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you feel for anything that is different to what

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<v Speaker 3>you know or anything that feels like maybe it's not

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<v Speaker 3>on the other side, So you should feel both, Like

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<v Speaker 3>do they feel symmetric at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 3>women's breasts and men's breast but they're filled with a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of different lumps and bumps. So any rippling of

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<v Speaker 3>the skin or discharge in the nipples, little spots of blood,

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<v Speaker 3>anything that you think doesn't look feel right, go and

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<v Speaker 3>get it checked out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Today on the show, we have an ask guncut next,

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<v Speaker 4>so we're offering some advice to the listeners of the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Britt we're very well informed, the two of us.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we love it. Every Thursday we do it. We

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<v Speaker 2>help you with your deepest, darkest burning issues.

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<v Speaker 4>This is tricky, and I think a situation we've all

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<v Speaker 4>been in. You invite someone to an event long in

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<v Speaker 4>the future, but then the friendship kind of dips and

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<v Speaker 4>you're not as close as you once were when you

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<v Speaker 4>bought the tickets. But then the event comes around. Do

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<v Speaker 4>you still take them? Can you cancel? Can you pull

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<v Speaker 4>the tickets away from them?

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<v Speaker 2>I have this problem with you in my upcoming wedding, Mitch.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a ticket at event?

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<v Speaker 5>Is it?

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<v Speaker 2>You're happy by ticket?

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<v Speaker 1>Peace for We've got to tackle that issue for a listener.

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<v Speaker 4>Next on the pick up Thanks to Chemists ware House

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<v Speaker 4>heading today great savings every day.

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<v Speaker 2>We have a fan favorite right now, guys. It's Thursday,

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<v Speaker 2>Ask Uncut. It's Asked Uncut.

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<v Speaker 3>We do it every single week and we just help

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<v Speaker 3>you with your biggest, darkest, deepest dilemmas.

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<v Speaker 2>And Lily has called up with a very tricky one.

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<v Speaker 1>Today, A lil what's going on? How can we help hi?

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<v Speaker 4>There?

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<v Speaker 6>So I've got a bit of a situation. I bought

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<v Speaker 6>some concert tickets last year. They weren't easy to get

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<v Speaker 6>waited in lines quite a while, and then someone who

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<v Speaker 6>was I was friends with at the time asked if

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<v Speaker 6>they could have one of the concert tickets. I said, yep, great,

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<v Speaker 6>let's go to the concerts later this year. Since they

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<v Speaker 6>have stepped into a more senior management session, and they have,

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<v Speaker 6>I'd say like our friendship has disintegrated and they've started

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<v Speaker 6>treating me. It's quite unfairly at work now, I'm dreading

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<v Speaker 6>this concert. It's meantally into state as well. Yeah. So,

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<v Speaker 6>and we haven't spoken about flights, accommodation, nothing bare. We've

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<v Speaker 6>barely even spoken about it. But I want to ask

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<v Speaker 6>for the concert ticket back. She's I technically still have

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<v Speaker 6>the ticket that she's paid me for it, and I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know how to go about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it just the two of you?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, just the two of us this trick.

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<v Speaker 3>I would almost think that you're going to have to

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<v Speaker 3>have a conversation with her and take the ticket back.

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<v Speaker 4>But what has changed? So you guys were close and friends.

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<v Speaker 4>Has she changed as a person since being a manager?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Absolutely. And I think the other thing is I used

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<v Speaker 6>to be in her role and I stepped down, and

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<v Speaker 6>so now it's almost it almost feels like a power play.

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<v Speaker 4>Then you know what, like this is going to be

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<v Speaker 4>the hard conversation to have, but you're gonna have to

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<v Speaker 4>sit her down and go, look, do you really want

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<v Speaker 4>to go to this concert?

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<v Speaker 1>Like we weren't. We weren't what we once were. What

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<v Speaker 1>she says, yes, then go.

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<v Speaker 4>Then then it's the open chance to say I don't

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<v Speaker 4>feel the same.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't. I just don't. I'm not looking forward

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<v Speaker 1>to it.

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<v Speaker 3>The only other option is if it's not the end

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<v Speaker 3>of the world for you, do you let her buy

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<v Speaker 3>the ticket and so you can't go?

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<v Speaker 2>Or is it an event that you truly don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to miss out on?

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<v Speaker 6>Unfortunately, it's an event I truly don't want to miss

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<v Speaker 6>out on. I'm talking I waited in a queue for

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<v Speaker 6>like three hours.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, then you don't want to spend this experience with

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<v Speaker 2>someone you don't like.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you're going to have the conversation and say, hey, look,

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<v Speaker 3>I think that you must be across this as well,

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<v Speaker 3>that our friendship has obviously changed. We don't really you

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<v Speaker 3>hang out anymore, you know, outside of work, and the

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<v Speaker 3>dynamic is different. I'm going to, you know, give this

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<v Speaker 3>to someone, especially my life.

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<v Speaker 4>But you also could think on the flip side, right, Lily,

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<v Speaker 4>that this could be the moment you need to rekindle

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<v Speaker 4>the friendship. Were you close? Did you enjoy the friendship

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<v Speaker 4>before she was a manager?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? I did?

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<v Speaker 6>I did, But like it's honestly one of those things

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<v Speaker 6>she's changed so much as a person, and I'm just

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<v Speaker 6>worried now that, Like, is she then gonna essentially punish

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<v Speaker 6>me more?

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<v Speaker 2>Well? Probably if you think that she's going to, she.

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<v Speaker 4>Will also maybe don't go to the show and maybe

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<v Speaker 4>look for work elsewhere. Like, if you're not happy in

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<v Speaker 4>this situation, I think.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, this is escalated, bitch. Can you try and get

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<v Speaker 3>extra tickets? Then just give her those ones and you

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<v Speaker 3>go with the extra ones. And if you can't get

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<v Speaker 3>the extra ones, then you're going to have to go

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<v Speaker 3>with your devil ways.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably you don't want to go. That sounds so cool.

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<v Speaker 7>She just said that her No, she can't miss because

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<v Speaker 7>it's going to make it worse for it work and

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<v Speaker 7>you spend so much of your life at work.

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<v Speaker 6>That's actually a good idea. I didn't think of that.

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<v Speaker 2>I rate that idea, Brittany for present, please go.

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<v Speaker 6>Look for another ticket.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, there go, Lily.

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<v Speaker 7>I hope it helps and stop that convoluted advice helps you, Lily, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Reckon quit, but that's that's like sort of scorched earth.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, let us know if you quit, will hire you,

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<v Speaker 4>which is like move to please you. If you want

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<v Speaker 4>to get in touch, you can send us a text

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<v Speaker 4>with your life issue and we'll do our best to answer.

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<v Speaker 1>At four nine nine four four.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, after the break, we have a bit more of

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<v Speaker 3>a serious chat. We've been talking about breast cancer. We're

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<v Speaker 3>going to be playing something that's very special to Laura

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<v Speaker 3>and myself. She was a listener of Life on Cutch.

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<v Speaker 3>She was part of our family. Her name was Chanelle Bryant,

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<v Speaker 3>and we spoke to her just weeks before she passed

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<v Speaker 3>away tragically from breast cancer, and the insight that we

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<v Speaker 3>got from her was truly invaluable.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll play that out next here on the pickup.

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<v Speaker 3>We're doing something a little bit different here at the

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<v Speaker 3>pickup today. We are making a really conscious effort to

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<v Speaker 3>try and raise more awareness surrounding breast cancer because we

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<v Speaker 3>know it is a disease that is very very fatal

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<v Speaker 3>and very prevalent, and we want people to be checking their.

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<v Speaker 2>Breast morphone and more aware. And something that Laura and.

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<v Speaker 3>I had the absolute privilege of doing was interviewing one

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<v Speaker 3>of our own lifers from our podcast community Life Uncut.

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<v Speaker 3>Her name is Chanelle Bryant, and about two years ago,

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<v Speaker 3>Chanelle tragically passed away from triple negative breast cancer. Now

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<v Speaker 3>she was a mum of two young kids, she was

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<v Speaker 3>a wife, and with only a few weeks left to live,

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<v Speaker 3>she gave us her precious, precious time, knowing she had

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<v Speaker 3>such little amounts of time left with her family, and

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<v Speaker 3>she came on and did an interview with us, and

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<v Speaker 3>the point of that interview was to raise awareness to

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<v Speaker 3>everyone listening that this can happen to you and to

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<v Speaker 3>advocate for your own health to make sure you're checking

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<v Speaker 3>your breast. And we're forever grateful that we got to

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<v Speaker 3>speak to Chanelle just weeks before she passed away. And

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<v Speaker 3>this conversation is to highlight the fact that if you

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<v Speaker 3>can remember on the first of every month to make

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<v Speaker 3>it here to check your breasts.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So let's roll this out. This is Chanel

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<v Speaker 1>Bryant from the Life on cut podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't actually know how to ask. I'm just gonna ask,

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<v Speaker 3>what is your timeline looking like?

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<v Speaker 5>So I've been told if I don't have treatment, I'll

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<v Speaker 5>be lucky to see Christmas. So that's weeks away.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you, Like, what can you do? You know it's

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<v Speaker 5>it's fucked. But I can't control it. You know, I

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<v Speaker 5>can control writing letters to the kids. I can control

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<v Speaker 5>bringing forward our wedding vow and you'll to this weekend

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<v Speaker 5>as opposed to in five months time. I can control

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<v Speaker 5>my goodbyas and creating memories and traditions with the kids now,

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<v Speaker 5>taking videos. So they're the things I'm controlling and you

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<v Speaker 5>know that's that Mum and me and I'm doing that

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<v Speaker 5>and that's all that I can do. So then once

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<v Speaker 5>I do that, I have to let go, Like it's

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<v Speaker 5>the ultimate lesson in surrender.

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<v Speaker 8>Chanel, you mentioned some of the things that you are

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<v Speaker 8>focusing on in the time that you have left. The

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<v Speaker 8>one thing you didn't mention, and it's something that is

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<v Speaker 8>I think cannot be overlooked, is how much work you

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<v Speaker 8>have done in creating a community around you with support

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<v Speaker 8>your girls and advocating not just now but you know,

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<v Speaker 8>in the last couple of years advocating for breast cancer awareness.

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<v Speaker 8>What is the legacy that you want to leave. What

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<v Speaker 8>is the message that you want people to know?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Sorry, out it's so huge. I don't want people to

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<v Speaker 5>take their health for granted, but I also don't want

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<v Speaker 5>them to live in fear. Where I drop into this space,

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<v Speaker 5>I guess is I want people to create a habit

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<v Speaker 5>of checking their breasts every month. I think creating a

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<v Speaker 5>habit like pinching a punch first of the month, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>just just a habit, something that you think of instinctively.

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<v Speaker 5>On the first of the month, That's what I do.

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<v Speaker 5>I check my breast and if anything's unusual, I go

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<v Speaker 5>and get it checked out. So you're not riddled with

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<v Speaker 5>fear all the time I'm going to get cancer. It's

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<v Speaker 5>just something that you do, like your period comes once

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<v Speaker 5>a month, you know, just a normal thing. The conversation

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<v Speaker 5>stays open. I think if we can create and instill

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<v Speaker 5>that habit in people, it's going to be nothing but positive.

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<v Speaker 5>And then I think beyond that, it's just being your

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<v Speaker 5>own advocate. So if something comes up. A lot of

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<v Speaker 5>the time the doctors will say, oh, you're young, it's fine,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, don't worry. Come back in a year if

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<v Speaker 5>it's still there, that's not okay. You need to be

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<v Speaker 5>your own advocate and go in there and say, no,

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<v Speaker 5>this is concerning me. I want an ultrasound or I

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<v Speaker 5>want a mammogram. You advocate for yourself. I think that

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<v Speaker 5>is really a huge take home message as well, because

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<v Speaker 5>no one else is ultimately going to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you want your kids to know about you?

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<v Speaker 3>Is there anything that you just I know that you've

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<v Speaker 3>written so many beautiful letters to them and you've told them,

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<v Speaker 3>But what do you want them when they look back

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<v Speaker 3>to think about you and to know that you did?

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<v Speaker 5>I think for me, it's always been a feeling and

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<v Speaker 5>where my struggles in this space lie are. I just

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<v Speaker 5>I just don't want them to forget me.

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<v Speaker 2>They will never You were their whole world.

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<v Speaker 5>I know that, and I'm you know, instilling that and

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<v Speaker 5>doing everything that I can with that. I just, for me,

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<v Speaker 5>it's a feeling. And say this to people all time,

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<v Speaker 5>It's like you don't remember the intricacies of the moment.

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<v Speaker 5>Sometimes you don't remember often the things you say, you remember,

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<v Speaker 5>the way someone makes you feel and I just like

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<v Speaker 5>to make people around me feel good, feel loved, feel supported,

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<v Speaker 5>feel howled, feel seen. And that's where my focus has been,

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<v Speaker 5>especially as I've evolved as a woman. And I hope

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<v Speaker 5>that with everything that I've done for them in setting

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<v Speaker 5>these things up, and the memories that I've made, and

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<v Speaker 5>the conversations that I've had with friends and family and

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<v Speaker 5>community around keeping my memory alive, I hope that that's

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<v Speaker 5>enough that they can get a feeling of the woman

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<v Speaker 5>that I was when I was earthbound. And that's all

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<v Speaker 5>that I want. I just want them to be happy

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<v Speaker 5>and loved and feel me. Really.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, if you want to hear the full chat with

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<v Speaker 1>Chanelle Bryant, an incredible woman, you can search on the

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<v Speaker 1>life on cut.

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<v Speaker 2>Feed, Right Brett, Yeah, absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't forget.

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<v Speaker 4>Have a squeeze of your boobs, have a feel, you

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<v Speaker 4>feel something abnormal, go chat to your doctor. All right

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<v Speaker 4>back after this on the pickup last week on the show,

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<v Speaker 4>because SHUMEU.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen to every moment of this show.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, obviously people know this moment, but in case you

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<v Speaker 4>missed it, I challenged the girls Britain Laura in my

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<v Speaker 4>ultimate friendship test. I had a theory that if your

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<v Speaker 4>friends really love you, they will accept an invitation to

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<v Speaker 4>be able to view them at all times on Find

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<v Speaker 4>My Friends, which is like GPS tracking on.

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<v Speaker 3>Your eye the live location thing. Yeah, out of the blue,

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<v Speaker 3>I got a Mitch wants to know where you are?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you accept or decline?

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't accept.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I decline law except on the air, and guess what,

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<v Speaker 4>that night canceled it.

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<v Speaker 2>So she's a for show friends.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I thought, okay, you guys have a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of celeb friends in this world, a lot of people

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<v Speaker 4>in the public eye.

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<v Speaker 1>So this was the challenge. Brittany Hartily Laura Burn.

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<v Speaker 4>I now challenge you to find two friends and to

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<v Speaker 4>request their live location.

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<v Speaker 1>I reckon, maybe brit you do someone from the Jungle.

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<v Speaker 2>I am going to go Tristan. Tristan McManus from the

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<v Speaker 2>Channel ten.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys aren't best.

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<v Speaker 3>Were Well, we're friends because we did the I'm a

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<v Speaker 3>Celebrity Jungle together, so for almost a month we were together.

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<v Speaker 2>But we're not best is like we don't call each

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<v Speaker 2>other every second day.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we do have an update though.

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<v Speaker 7>Well yeah, so I was really shocked, but he accepted

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<v Speaker 7>it pretty soon.

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<v Speaker 2>He accepted it and then he accepted it, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, oh, okay, that's weird.

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<v Speaker 3>And I felt awkward because I was like, oh, he

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<v Speaker 3>thinks that I just want to follow him. But then

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<v Speaker 3>he sent me a message later and he said, PS,

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<v Speaker 3>I think you butt messaged me.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what we should do. You need to call Tristan.

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<v Speaker 4>We actually should give the number to our producer Grace.

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<v Speaker 4>You need to call Tristan and just say, hey, mate,

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<v Speaker 4>I just saw it because you've I've got to find mine.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw you around the corner.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's grab a quick cofee. You're two minutes away from me.

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<v Speaker 2>What he says just it's like the ultimate friendship test.

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<v Speaker 2>I hate this stuff. Whatever would you do it?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I don't want to because I feel awkward,

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<v Speaker 3>but he's going to think I'm a psycho store.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go. I got his numbers.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, Tristan, it's Brittany. How are you.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry?

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<v Speaker 5>Mate?

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<v Speaker 4>I just wanted to.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you the other day for accepting my request location.

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<v Speaker 2>You know I find my friends.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I know. You think I but diled you, but I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just sort of because, like I guess, I've been.

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<v Speaker 7>Thinking about you too, so I wanted to see you know,

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<v Speaker 7>I wanted to keep track of your movements. And I

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<v Speaker 7>actually did just jump on now and I saw that

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<v Speaker 7>you are not far from me, so I thought i'd

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<v Speaker 7>see if you just wanted to get a coffee or something. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>of course, yeah, Oh where are you?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm about four hundred meters from you.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually, if you look down the street and put your

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<v Speaker 3>head out, you've probably seen me.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, I was wondering what that thing was because

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<v Speaker 6>it's a bit weird.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it was pretty normal, isn't it just to

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<v Speaker 3>like want to keep track of your friends.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, yeah, no, you should, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>What happened is I've told you all the time is

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<v Speaker 4>to just come knock on the door, rock in I

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<v Speaker 4>have a cookie sea But yeah, yeah I will major.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I did also see I saw because I obviously

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<v Speaker 3>just check in on your location every day, so I

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<v Speaker 3>did see that you have been spending a bit of

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<v Speaker 3>time in my house.

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<v Speaker 7>I haven't been, no, but you've been around the suburb

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<v Speaker 7>like you've been in the area, and I just thought,

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know, like I just I guess I feel

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<v Speaker 7>a bit sad that you've been around and haven't called

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<v Speaker 7>like I thought, you know, true friends, true friends would

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<v Speaker 7>probably follow each other's no, do you know what?

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<v Speaker 5>I just wasn't sure how busier like you know what

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<v Speaker 5>I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I keep saying to people, I said, they need

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<v Speaker 1>to rock into me, but I actually don't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Yeah, No, it hasn't been that.

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<v Speaker 2>I just you're You're you're busy always.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be We can't do this too, Tristan.

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<v Speaker 1>You're on the pick up mate.

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<v Speaker 4>You are the you are the ultimate wingman for putting

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<v Speaker 4>up with this bull from Brittany.

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<v Speaker 2>Help, Trisan. They made me request your location. I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>want to do it. I was like, he's going to

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<v Speaker 2>think I'm a creep, But you actually were so nice

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<v Speaker 2>about it.

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<v Speaker 1>We forced her to do it.

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<v Speaker 4>We forced her to call you and say she was

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<v Speaker 4>tracking you, Tristan, and you were the nicest man in

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<v Speaker 4>the world about it.

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<v Speaker 3>In all honesty. I was stokes that you accepted it.

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<v Speaker 3>But I was like, hang on a minute, he didn't

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<v Speaker 3>request my location back.

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<v Speaker 2>Doesn't he want to know?

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<v Speaker 4>I just thought it was a little bit weird.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, weird, but I'll roll with it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you are.

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<v Speaker 4>You are the greatest man in Australia, one of the

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<v Speaker 4>best friends out there there.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a friendship test and we can say, hands down,

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<v Speaker 3>you passed in the jungle and you passed right now

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<v Speaker 3>live on radio, you Tristan.

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<v Speaker 4>But I will be safe. I will never be in

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<v Speaker 4>your house.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. Thanks for that, all right, Will? And what

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<v Speaker 1>are you up next? To drive you homewords down? Everyone?

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<v Speaker 4>You can podcast the show on the iHeartRadio app and

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<v Speaker 4>we'll see you tomorrow for Friday.

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<v Speaker 2>Goodbye, yeah bye.