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Speaker 1: fire rapid questions at one of our fearlessly failing guests. PS.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm not so good

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Speaker 1: at the rapid part. I get too intrigued by the

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Speaker 1: every Wednesday, so enjoy this shortest style episode of Fearlessly

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Speaker 1: Failing Hot Seat. Welcome to the hot Seat. Hello, what's

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Speaker 1: your full name? Matthew Sofo, Matthew Habernio Abanero. It's Tap

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Speaker 1: of Chili because you're spicy.

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Speaker 2: No no middle names?

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Speaker 1: I know, I know. Okay, this is the hot Seat

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Speaker 1: Wyoming Edition. Favorite meal you had in Wyoming or Jackson Hole?

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Speaker 1: Should I say er?

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Speaker 3: I'd probably just have to say the first night Moon

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Speaker 3: doll A Cowboy Steak yours.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to say the last night their Gun Barrel

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Speaker 1: Steak and Game House. And we got Bison ribs.

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Speaker 2: Great. Well.

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Speaker 1: I love the Snake River Brewery too. I love that chili.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was really good bison chili we got. They

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Speaker 3: had won like three town awards for the best chili.

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Speaker 1: It was so good and it came with corn bread.

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Speaker 1: A favorite place for a whiskey.

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Speaker 2: Just million dollar Cowboy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would agree. I would say we tried to

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Speaker 1: find other little places, but nothing really beats it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was just it's just because also I think

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Speaker 3: it's probably the least expensive.

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Speaker 1: It's the cheapest, Yeah for sure. Okay, I would say

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Speaker 1: the same million dollar Cowboy. I also really had fun

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Speaker 1: when we did our little improperty whiskey tasting off.

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Speaker 2: That Yeah, I like that. Yeah. Also the bottle that

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Speaker 2: we bought, we didn't say the long form.

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Speaker 3: We bought their like special edition National National Park one

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Speaker 3: which was you know, the profits or some of the

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Speaker 3: profits Wyoming whiskey donate back to the national park.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. This one was Yellowstone National Park and on the

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Speaker 1: little ticket it had the Mammoth Hot Springs, which we

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Speaker 1: didn't get up to.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so that.

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Speaker 3: That was like a special edition one that I thought

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Speaker 3: was It tasted amazing and I was like, it's also

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Speaker 3: a cool you know to buy.

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Speaker 1: We're going to keep that bottle boot. Yes, A favorite coffee.

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Speaker 2: Spot, well, we just prosephonees.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I would say that I would preface with

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Speaker 1: we didn't make it here, but Cowboy coffee is meant

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Speaker 1: to be amazing. I'm secretly heartbroken and happy we didn't

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Speaker 1: go there because I would.

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Speaker 2: Have bought the merch. Yeah, but we can do that

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Speaker 2: next time.

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Speaker 1: I know you did say that. He was like, we

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Speaker 1: can do it next time, don't worry.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but remember, Yeah, everyone drinks black Drip coffee and.

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Speaker 1: It was at our hotel area the morning.

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Speaker 2: It's free. Yeah, it's actually like it's pretty good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that favorite animal encounter.

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Speaker 3: Well, I know what you're gonna say, so I would

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Speaker 3: just say, in general, I think it's fucking cool that

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Speaker 3: you're like so close to bison.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think and kill and for me gray wolf. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because it's so rare and like I love I love

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Speaker 1: seeing predators. Yeah, like I love when we see sharks.

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Speaker 1: I love uh Okay, favorite nature spot don't be general,

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Speaker 1: because you can't just go oh yellow all the Yellowstone.

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Speaker 2: Stone favorite nature spot.

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Speaker 3: I I would say seeing Old Faithful just because it's

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Speaker 1: Yeah you know yeah, yeah, and that's like what one

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Speaker 1: of the things Yellowstone is most famous for. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: you're literally on a volcano.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's pretty kil.

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Speaker 1: I think Taggart Lake I loved because it was such

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Speaker 2: Definitely took a bit of mental resilience.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it did. Boot The next question, favorite moment that

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Speaker 3: Favorite moment, Well, I think favorite for me because you

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Speaker 2: But the last morning at shore.

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Speaker 1: Buckers, Oh yeah that was a noise.

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Speaker 3: I think just yeah, just knowing how much that meant

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Speaker 2: I got to see it perfectly enjoyed it. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I loved getting our stuff branded, so like your cowboy beout,

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Speaker 1: my cowboy hat. I love getting our little initials on it,

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Speaker 1: and I love the whole experience of that together.

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Speaker 1: I really enjoyed that. Yeah, and I loved just sitting

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Speaker 1: at the Cowboy Bar because we went twice, moving on all.

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Speaker 2: The Cowboy Bar would have gone three times.

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Speaker 1: But I know, I know I canvinced you to find

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Speaker 1: other places my era, my era. I'll take full responsibility

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Speaker 2: It's just like the easiest, coolest bar.

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Speaker 1: And like you said, not crazy spinny. Yeah, yeah, Okay,

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Speaker 1: do you have any questions for me?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: Not not really do you have any notes on my

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Speaker 3: participation or behavior or anything like that.

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Speaker 1: I think you're perfect. I think we both travel differently.

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Speaker 1: Like I think I'm like like go go go go go,

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Speaker 1: pass out at night, Go go go, go go go.

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Speaker 1: Where is your Like you want the balance of a holiday.

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Speaker 1: You want to be able to relax, you want to

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Speaker 1: be able to do the cool thing. You want to

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Speaker 1: be able to like reset, you want to be able

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Speaker 1: to like you're quite good at like finding that balance

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Speaker 1: where it's like I will come back from a holiday exhausted.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like to the point where the last morning we

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Speaker 3: really only had like forty five minutes where we could

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Speaker 3: have packed really quickly, yeah, and then gone into town

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Speaker 3: And you're like, oh, we should we should have done

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Speaker 2: Yeah, have to feel like fill the car with petrol.

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Speaker 3: When then we get to the airport and then you know,

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Speaker 3: we really only had ten minutes before we boarded.

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Speaker 1: This is true, you know, yeah, this is true.

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Speaker 3: You know what I would like to say about this trip,

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Speaker 3: I've never seen you make so many friends and talked

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Speaker 3: I would say, in general, you're not like a not

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Speaker 3: not that you're not like a chatter, but like I mean,

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Speaker 2: You know, an.

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Speaker 1: Introvert, but I felt I felt more myself.

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Speaker 3: Maybe, but we've just met like the nicest couple we met,

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Speaker 2: Yet like at breakfast and so nice on the airport.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, on the aeroplane and they ended up swapping seats

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Speaker 1: But then I was like, I was like, where are

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you've exchanged numbers and I'm like, who is

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Speaker 3: you just get in these random conversations and it's cool.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely, Like I think the cool thing about traveling

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Speaker 1: I think I forget that sometimes I get in a

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Speaker 2: We're definitely got a boot barn.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we are going to get a boot barn that's

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Speaker 1: feed by Cowboy Boots in America. And I think this

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Speaker 1: other people think of me. Yeah, and that's obviously like

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Speaker 1: around that. But it just made me like, yeah, feel freer,

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Speaker 1: and I want to live that way because we're forty now, like.

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Speaker 2: We are forty bus Yeah, Okay, I've gotta live free,

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Speaker 2: all right. Well, I love you, love you, have a

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Speaker 2: great day, you too.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for jumping on the Potter Rooney Jackson Hole Special

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Speaker 1: Wyoming Special Jackson Hole. You're gonna sing the Johnny Cash song.

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Speaker 2: Going back to Jackson Love you love you, babe, Bae,