1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboom 3 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:10,480 Speaker 1: Marry people. We pay our respects to elders past, present 4 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: and emerging and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and 5 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:22,599 Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, 6 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:30,159 Speaker 1: and this is the Rise and Conquer podcast. This is 7 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: the podcast where we ch have mindset, self development and 8 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: becoming your higher self mix soon with a lot of laughs, 9 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:40,280 Speaker 1: plus behind the scenes of my life running two businesses 10 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 1: and being among Think of us as the perfect combo 11 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 1: of brunch with your besties mixed with self development. 12 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 2: No matter where you are in your journey. 13 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 1: We're here to help you be curious, pull yourself out, 14 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: and embrace radical self awareness. If you're ready to get 15 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 1: into the driver's seat of your own life and stop 16 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: letting life cast you by, then you're in the right place. 17 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 1: Hey guys, welcome back to the potty. We have a 18 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 1: very fun episode for you today. We are talking about 19 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:20,399 Speaker 1: how to get out of the slump, how to get 20 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 1: the motivation back for the next six months. 21 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 2: I cannot believe we're. 22 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 3: Midia, no need can I crazy? This year has gone 23 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 3: so fast. 24 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 4: Don't you feel like. 25 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 2: We said this every year? Every year, I'm getting. 26 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 3: Faster on it. 27 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 1: I honestly believe as you get older it does, Oh 28 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 1: my god, because I remember being a child being like. 29 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 3: Funck, time is going so sright. 30 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 2: It were just in like grade six for ages like 31 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 2: ten years. So we chat about that. 32 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 1: And also, guys, just a reminder, we currently have our 33 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 1: end of financial year sale. We never do sales, so 34 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 1: this is never very exciting. There was so much goodness there, 35 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 1: so go and check it out on our Instagram or 36 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 1: you can go straight through the website. 37 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 2: Just make sure you add anything into your cart and 38 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 2: the discount is automatically. 39 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 1: Applied, so you can check that out. It's such a 40 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: great time because obviously we are midyear. If you haven't 41 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: reached your goals, if you want some help and direction, 42 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: that is what our courses do. So it's such a 43 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 1: great time to do it. And like the whole of 44 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 1: rn C who wanting to do do it for your 45 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: future self course are all doing it together in the 46 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: Facebook group, so it makes you come join us in there. 47 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:36,279 Speaker 1: We start July third. 48 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 3: And I'm so excited for that. 49 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm so excited. 50 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:41,519 Speaker 1: It's just so cool the fact that we've all done 51 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 1: it in January, well most of us, and we're going 52 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 1: to do it again and just like see that evolution 53 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 1: of ourselves, which I do get into in this episode, 54 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 1: but before we get into the show a tire. 55 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 4: How's your week being pretty good? 56 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 2: Not bad? 57 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 3: I what do I do? I went to a comedy 58 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 3: show on the weekend, which was really fun. Oh my god, 59 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 3: who did you say, Michael McIntyre. 60 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 4: I don't know that. 61 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 3: I think you'd know his face. He was just so 62 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 3: funny and I literally spent two hours crying. He was 63 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 3: that funny. I did not stop crying every joke. I 64 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 3: was just like laughing so much. And it's so nice 65 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 3: to go to a comedian that like doesn't take life 66 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 3: too seriously. Like it wasn't any controversial topics. It was 67 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 3: just really lighthearted humor. 68 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 2: That's nice. Yeah, how good is laughing? I know, it's 69 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 2: just so. 70 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 3: I was like, I wish I could just do this 71 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 3: every week because it's just so therapeutic, and like everyone 72 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 3: in there was so happy and laughing and oh so nice. 73 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 4: Oh my god, that's incredible. 74 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 3: I love that for you, and it was the Entertainment Center. 75 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 3: So that was literally like fifteen thousand people just laughing 76 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 3: there ourselves. 77 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 2: Oh my god, what like what good vibes? 78 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what a cool. 79 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 4: Frequency to be in. 80 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 3: Highly recommend How about you? How was your week? 81 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 2: So good? 82 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 1: Me and Tim had a little stay ca this week, 83 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: so it was really cute. We never do it and 84 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 1: it kind of just like worked out that we'd take 85 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 1: it during the week and yeah, it like his parents looked. 86 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 2: After Ivy and it was just so nice. I think. 87 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 1: A big thing and this is actually I remember writing 88 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: this when I was doing you know, my goals and 89 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:17,039 Speaker 1: how I wanted my year to look like when we 90 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 1: would do it for your future self in jan and 91 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: a big thing was for me and Tim to have 92 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: time together either like a week and away or just. 93 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:27,239 Speaker 2: Like date nights. 94 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 1: That was such a huge thing for us, and to 95 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:31,039 Speaker 1: make sure it was monthly. 96 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, and so we. 97 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 1: Actually, like I look back and I'm so proud of 98 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: filling up that bucket and doing that because I feel 99 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 1: like we've really stuck to either going away or doing 100 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:47,720 Speaker 1: date nights and it's been so incredible for our relationship. 101 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:52,720 Speaker 1: And it's funny because sometimes I like think back, I'm like, 102 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 1: I think me and Tim are so much closer now 103 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 1: than even like when we were, you know, before Ivy, 104 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 1: because we've kind of had to be like you've had 105 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 1: to be so predictive with that time together, yeah, and 106 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 1: really carve it out and fight for it. So it's 107 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: made us so much more I guess just. 108 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 3: Like you value it. 109 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 5: Valued. 110 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 2: Yes, such a good word. And it's just it's really. 111 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 1: Cool to look back and be like, yeah, I've really 112 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: made that a priority and that was something I wanted 113 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 1: to do. Like Tim and Ivy were my biggest priorities 114 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 1: and my biggest goals for twenty twenty three. And I 115 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:33,479 Speaker 1: can like confidently say I was, like I've done. 116 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 3: That a hundred Yeah, you definitely have. 117 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:38,359 Speaker 1: That is like, and it's it's just really nice because 118 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:41,679 Speaker 1: you know, as a as a mum who also works 119 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:44,600 Speaker 1: full time and has a lot on That was something 120 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 1: that I remember saying to Tim at the start of 121 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 1: the year. I just don't want to get through life 122 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 1: and look back and just think, fuck, I wasn't present 123 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 1: during my life. Like I had a good life, but 124 00:05:56,720 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 1: I almost didn't live it because I wasn't present. And 125 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 1: I can be so forward thinking, and I can really 126 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:07,479 Speaker 1: live for future things, and I can be so driven 127 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:10,039 Speaker 1: and I can be so forward thinking, and obviously that 128 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 1: has got me to places and that's an amazing skill. 129 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:14,599 Speaker 2: But also you can miss. 130 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 1: Out on life a bit, and you can. I'm the 131 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 1: person who I'm happy to forfeit pleasure right now to 132 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: have something in the future, which again that has served me. 133 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:31,040 Speaker 1: But then also sometimes I go without right now a bit. 134 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 2: Then it's like right. 135 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 3: Now is all the time. 136 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, So that's been one of my biggest things that 137 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 1: I have had a realization of and being like, fuck, 138 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 1: I don't want to be forty and have this realization. 139 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 1: I want to have it now and actually do something 140 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: about it. So I feel really proud that that was 141 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,040 Speaker 1: one of my biggest priorities and one of my biggest 142 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:54,719 Speaker 1: AHA moments. And I truly feel like I have honored 143 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 1: and valued that. 144 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 3: I love that Timuch. 145 00:06:57,360 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, so my week was good. Anyway, let's get in the. 146 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: Episode, all right, So let's get straight into it. Obviously, 147 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 1: if you want a full in depth audit, fully like 148 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 1: I need my energy back, I need to get unstuck. 149 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 1: You're going to do the do a few future self god, 150 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 1: So let's just be honest. Only it's only seven days, 151 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: and oh my god, the clarity and the focus that 152 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 1: you're going to unlock from this. Just look at the 153 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 1: testimonies from the start of the year. It is incredible. 154 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 1: But let's just touch on some thing sitia. Yeah, so, 155 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: and this is really coming from a personal space of 156 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 1: I think it can get mid year and we can 157 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 1: be maybe a little bit upset with ourselves if we 158 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 1: go and check our original goals in January, or we 159 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 1: can just feel a little bit behind, like time has 160 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 1: gone in the way. Maybe we weren't a focused as 161 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 1: we thought. Other people are ahead. All these thoughts and 162 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 1: downloads of doubt and. 163 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 2: You know, I haven't even reached my goal. All those 164 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 2: sorts of things come in and of course, and I 165 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 2: think this is very normal. A lot of people feel this, though, 166 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 2: and they just feel like shame and guilt and like 167 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 2: those feelings. 168 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: I personally also feel this, but I use this as 169 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 1: such a great This just means I need to check 170 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 1: in with myself and I need to realign. 171 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I get the same when it gets to the 172 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 3: middle of the year, and it's almost like a bit 173 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 3: of disappointment in that me at the beginning of the year, 174 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:45,560 Speaker 3: when you have that strong New year energy, all the 175 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:49,200 Speaker 3: good vibes and every excited You're so excited, and it's 176 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 3: almost like that reality of like six months have passed, 177 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:55,959 Speaker 3: you had this list, what if you actually worked towards yet? Yeah, 178 00:08:56,000 --> 00:09:00,160 Speaker 3: and you're like, oh. 179 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 1: So instead of feeling like that, though, I think this 180 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:03,119 Speaker 1: is a really exciting time. 181 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 2: To check in with yourself and being like. 182 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:08,439 Speaker 1: How do I need to realign? Because all that has 183 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 1: happened is you're here. 184 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:15,359 Speaker 2: Wait you can't see me ins a podcast for the video. 185 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 1: You know you're here at the start of the year 186 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:23,559 Speaker 1: and you have this goal over here. Yeah, you kind 187 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:26,199 Speaker 1: of go a little bit to the left, and that's fine. 188 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 1: All you need to do is realign because amazing thing 189 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 1: about humans is we do change, we do evolve, and 190 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 1: maybe the end goal isn't what we thought or what 191 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 1: we actually wanted, and maybe we needed to go through 192 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 1: this six months of little hurdles of little nudgets to 193 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: be like, oh no, wait, I want to do this, 194 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 1: or this actually feels really good for me, this is 195 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 1: actually what I want. So the biggest thing I want 196 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 1: to say first is do not go into shame and guilt, 197 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 1: stay in awareness, and just be like, what has this 198 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:04,359 Speaker 1: last six months taught me? Where can I learn from myself? 199 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 1: Because the worst thing you can do is compare yourself 200 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:11,240 Speaker 1: to other people? And I like, I love, I'm really 201 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 1: like feeding into this saying right now where it's like, 202 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 1: comparison is just distraction. 203 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 4: I know it's slipe chaining. 204 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:26,320 Speaker 1: Comparison is just distraction. So I'm not fucking looking around. 205 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 1: I'm not like, I'm not doing that because that's literally 206 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:33,079 Speaker 1: just distraction. I'm not sitting in shame and guilt. I'm like, cool, 207 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 1: what have I learnt about myself? How can I refine myself? 208 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:40,079 Speaker 1: How can I you know, shift things? Because obviously what 209 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 1: I have been doing maybe isn't getting me to where 210 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 1: I want or I need to change this, or what 211 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 1: have I learned about myself? I'm not gonna lie. I 212 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:51,319 Speaker 1: went back to my do It Few Future Self booklet 213 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 1: and I read all over it and it was really 214 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 1: incredible to see so much evidence of me achieving what 215 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 1: I had set out to do and feel into, but 216 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:06,720 Speaker 1: also the parts of myself where I really went. 217 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 2: Oh wow, I've evolved. 218 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm actually in a different season. I probably jumped 219 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 1: timelines and so I'm actually over here. So I know 220 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 1: I had those goals that they actually don't make a 221 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 1: lot of sense for me anymore. 222 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:22,440 Speaker 3: That literally happened with quite a few of my goals. 223 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 3: When I looked back, I was like, oh gosh, like 224 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 3: I don't even want this. 225 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 2: Do you love that? 226 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 5: Yeah? 227 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:31,679 Speaker 1: I look at that some goals. It's so funny because 228 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:33,920 Speaker 1: I used to have an iPad and I just didn't 229 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 1: use it. I randomly bought it because I wanted to 230 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 1: literally draw on it, and I just never used it. 231 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: So I gave it to me ca our graphic design up. 232 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:41,559 Speaker 1: So I had to go on and reset it and 233 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:42,719 Speaker 1: I found myself. 234 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:43,560 Speaker 2: Because I had one of those pens. 235 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and I used to. 236 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 1: Write and it was I think it was twenty twenty one, 237 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:49,960 Speaker 1: and it was actually the year I fell pregnant. 238 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:52,199 Speaker 2: So I think the goals I made in January there 239 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 2: wasn't a lot. 240 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 1: Of correlation because that was a moment we were trying 241 00:11:55,960 --> 00:11:58,840 Speaker 1: to conceive. But I fully surrendered, and I feel it 242 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: was like, I'm not even gonna go there. I'm going 243 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 1: to focus on other things. And truly that's why I 244 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:07,440 Speaker 1: believe I manifest ot a pregnancy because I like finally surrendered. Yeah, 245 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 1: and I created other goals. But one of my goals 246 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 1: was like run five gay and under thirty minutes. Just shit, 247 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 1: like random shit. 248 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 2: And I like, look, why would I even want to 249 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 2: do that? 250 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 1: But I like, I love that and put it on 251 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 1: there because you could have seen like my mentality and 252 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 1: like I did not. 253 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 2: Do that because I'd really pregnant. 254 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 1: But I love looking back. And this is why I'm 255 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 1: so big on journaling and documenting your process. And this 256 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 1: is like, this is why in doing it for your 257 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:40,199 Speaker 1: future self, I get you to write it all down 258 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 1: because even if you have it accomplished or got to 259 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 1: where you want to be, it's such like self reflection 260 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 1: and self refinement is one of the greatest tools if 261 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:54,960 Speaker 1: you know actually how to utilize it. Yeah, and so 262 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:57,720 Speaker 1: that's what I really did. And so that's something that 263 00:12:57,800 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 1: you can sit down and think, Okay, as I created 264 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 1: at the start of the year, maybe you didn't create goals. 265 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: Maybe you're just like what I wanted at the start 266 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 1: of the year or what I thought would happen. What's 267 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 1: happening right now? Check in with yourself, how do I feel, 268 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 1: do I still want the same things, and I'm still 269 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 1: passionate about the same things. Where have I maybe lost passion? 270 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:19,079 Speaker 1: Where have I lost spark? Where do I want to. 271 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 2: Add things on? Like literally, just sit down. 272 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:24,559 Speaker 1: And most of the people are listening to this, you're 273 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:27,560 Speaker 1: probably thinking, oh my god, this is so simple. But 274 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 1: I trust me when I say, like, until you actually 275 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 1: do it, you don't understand how life changing it is. 276 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:37,439 Speaker 1: And you'll sit down and you'll start journaling, or you'll 277 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 1: have some proms and you're like, oh, wow, yeah that's 278 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 1: what I want, or like I hadn't even like registered that, 279 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 1: And but you've got to take time for yourself. You've 280 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 1: got to sit down and refine because otherwise you're just 281 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 1: on this hamster wheel and you're going going going, like 282 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:54,200 Speaker 1: to where. 283 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, so true, I got really. 284 00:13:57,320 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 2: Passionate them, all right, So realign your energy. That's our 285 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 2: biggest tip. 286 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 1: The next thing is like, be very honest about what 287 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 1: do you want the rest of the year to look like? 288 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: And I'm talking six months, So six months is not 289 00:14:14,040 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 1: a lot of time. 290 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 3: No, especially the end of the year. I feel like 291 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 3: halfway through November, after that you're pretty much a rider. 292 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 2: You've basically got four months. 293 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's not a lot of time. And what 294 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 1: Jamie has been saying a really great quote lately that 295 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 1: her mentor has told her, and it's most people overestimate 296 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 1: what they can do in a year and underestimate what 297 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 1: they can do in three. 298 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 2: Whoa, and she's you know. 299 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 1: She then goes on to explain, like, you've only got 300 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:53,120 Speaker 1: six months, but you like want to run a marathon. 301 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 2: You want to run it. You know, like you've got 302 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:56,520 Speaker 2: to dose big things. And I think it's. 303 00:14:56,520 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 1: Really important to be realistic. And yes, I'm a manifestation 304 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 1: coach and I'm telling you to be realistic, but have 305 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 1: a look at like, Okay, I've got six months, what's 306 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 1: the one feeling I want? What's the one thing I 307 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 1: want to feel, and what's going to match that? And 308 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 1: don't create this big list of just like random things. 309 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 1: Be very intentional and somewhat realistic with like what I 310 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 1: want to do in six months, like what. 311 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 2: Could that look like? And feel like. 312 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 3: I almost say to myself, like who do I want 313 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 3: to be at the start of next year? 314 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 2: M that's powerful. 315 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I find that's a really good way to 316 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 3: check in with myself of like how does me at 317 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 3: the beginning of twenty twenty four, show up and use 318 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 3: that to then almost re like re engineer backwards what 319 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 3: I need to do now. 320 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 1: I love that, Like, yeah, how do they show up? 321 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 1: What habits do they have? And just start literally just 322 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 1: basic ground. If you have a savings goal weekly, break 323 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 1: that down into a habit or daily, break that down 324 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 1: into a habit. Think about what your routines are like, 325 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 1: and then try and habit stack your and create your 326 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 1: new routine so that at the beginning of next year 327 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 1: you've got that routine. I think like that much. Yeah, 328 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 1: break it down into as small pieces as possible. 329 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:25,400 Speaker 3: And it's hard because it's almost delayed gratification because it 330 00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 3: is a very slow approach to making change. But you 331 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 3: have six months, and if you break that down into weeks, 332 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:35,120 Speaker 3: it's like twenty four weeks. That's twenty four habits you 333 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 3: can have by the twenty beginning of next year. Yeah, yeah, 334 00:16:38,920 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 3: that's I love that a tier. 335 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 2: And it's not a lot of time, but it is. 336 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's like it's a weird, unique piece 337 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 1: of time. And I think especially because it is like 338 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 1: when you think about it, in six months will be 339 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:55,400 Speaker 1: in a new year. 340 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 2: Well close to a new year. Yeah, Like that's wild. 341 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 2: So the next thing I want you to do, and 342 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 2: this is. 343 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:08,240 Speaker 1: Really about coming back and connecting to yourself because again, 344 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:10,679 Speaker 1: I feel like this time of year, if you maybe 345 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:14,359 Speaker 1: aren't on the timeline you want, or haven't achieved half 346 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 1: of what you want or that sort of thing you're 347 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 1: not on track, people can really go into like shame 348 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 1: and guilt and almost the well, I haven't got. 349 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 2: To where I want, So what's the point? 350 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, and we'll just start next year. 351 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:25,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll just start next year. 352 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 1: We've got six months and we're not doing that here, Like, 353 00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 1: come on, So I think to get out of that place, 354 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 1: it's it's going to be hard for me to be like, 355 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:36,679 Speaker 1: you know, you've got to have some goals and this 356 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:38,880 Speaker 1: and that. So the place I want you to start 357 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 1: is just getting really fucking grateful. So anytime you want 358 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:47,959 Speaker 1: to shift, it's like, obviously the highest vibration is gratitude. 359 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:50,400 Speaker 1: So whatever vibe you're in, I want you to think 360 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 1: about the last six months and just think about what 361 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 1: what are some actual really cool things Like maybe it 362 00:17:57,359 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 1: hasn't been that great, but you've learned some great life 363 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 1: is about yourself, Like maybe it's been a bit bumpy, 364 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:06,560 Speaker 1: but you're like, oh, wow, I've learnt this, or maybe 365 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 1: it's even like I've learned what I don't want. 366 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:13,440 Speaker 2: If you get a really desperate yeah. 367 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:16,720 Speaker 1: But like most of the time, I truly believe this 368 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:20,160 Speaker 1: is what the universe does. It's like I can remember 369 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:22,879 Speaker 1: which episode we said this in a tear, and it's like, 370 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 1: you know, you say you want this. 371 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 2: Is such a good example. 372 00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 1: Okay, so you say you want to manifest you know 373 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:32,679 Speaker 1: the man and he's like all buff and sexy and 374 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:34,200 Speaker 1: I don't know whatever you're into. 375 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:37,400 Speaker 2: And then you manifest that man. But then he's like. 376 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 1: He goes to the gym all the time, and he's never 377 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 1: at home, and he's never at home and he it's 378 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 1: really healthy, so you never get taken out for dinner 379 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:46,240 Speaker 1: and it makes feel shit about yourself and you're like, fuck, 380 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 1: I don't actually want this man because it's not a vibe. Yeah, 381 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:52,639 Speaker 1: the universe had to show you what you didn't want. 382 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 1: So then like the next man who's like, maybe not 383 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:57,159 Speaker 1: like that, but he's like there's a really beautiful balance 384 00:18:57,160 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 1: of what you want. 385 00:18:57,720 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 2: You're like, yes, this is it. Because my fan sees 386 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 2: out of the window because I realized. 387 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:03,399 Speaker 3: It's like it was silly so true. 388 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:06,080 Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying is like, use the last 389 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 1: six months, like what lessons have I learned? 390 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 2: What has the universe showed me? What I don't want? 391 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:14,640 Speaker 2: And how fucking epic is that? Like no time is wasted. 392 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:17,919 Speaker 1: You need to go through this life where you're learning 393 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:21,280 Speaker 1: different things and going through up ups and downs, and I. 394 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 2: Truly believe they shape you. 395 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: And like bad things happen, happening to you or not 396 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:30,560 Speaker 1: so great or not what you wanted, They're these beautiful 397 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 1: experiences if you accept them. 398 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:36,399 Speaker 2: And allow them to realign you. 399 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:40,199 Speaker 1: So guys, get out of the victim mentality, get out 400 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 1: of the poor me. I haven't achieved anything. We're not 401 00:19:43,040 --> 00:19:45,760 Speaker 1: doing that here, we're doing What have I learned? 402 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:47,719 Speaker 2: What am I actually really grateful for? 403 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:49,919 Speaker 1: Like maybe you didn't get a career goal, but you 404 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:53,600 Speaker 1: made a really incredible friend, or you started a really 405 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 1: incredible gym class that now has. 406 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:57,800 Speaker 2: Made you fall back in love with your movement. 407 00:19:58,119 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, like focusing on what actually has happened 408 00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:03,679 Speaker 1: in the last six months and I'm really fucking proud 409 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:06,400 Speaker 1: of or even I remember me and a Tia were 410 00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:08,879 Speaker 1: talking about how like the last six months she hasn't 411 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 1: had any drama. Yeah, and she's like life has been 412 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 1: pretty boring. But I said, you know, to the universe, 413 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 1: I any wanty drama. So it actually makes a lot 414 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:17,400 Speaker 1: of sense. 415 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:18,879 Speaker 2: Exactly, so you would sit in there. 416 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 1: Oh, actually, this is really incredible because now I have 417 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:24,280 Speaker 1: evidence that there doesn't have to be drama. Yeah, and 418 00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:26,679 Speaker 1: I can actually sit in that. And that's actually I 419 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 1: want that internal peace more than I do. I want 420 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:31,919 Speaker 1: a bit of you know, fun in so true drama 421 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:36,880 Speaker 1: I don't know, and gossip. Yeah, and that's what you've realized, 422 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:38,479 Speaker 1: and you know it's taking you six months, but you're 423 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 1: like cool, amazing, put on the gratitude list. 424 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:44,120 Speaker 3: So a little things, the little things. 425 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:48,680 Speaker 1: And I have even noticed that just if I think 426 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 1: back to the last six months, and even I looked 427 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:54,840 Speaker 1: at my FO Future Self book and I love how 428 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 1: there's like I printed mine out and I really filled 429 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 1: it in and I did all coloring and highlighting, and 430 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 1: so it's like so fun to go back and look 431 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 1: and like I said, so many parts I'm like cool, 432 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 1: I fucking nailed that, and then other parts I'm like. 433 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:10,240 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm a different person. 434 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 1: I want different things, and I don't go oh, I 435 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:17,240 Speaker 1: didn't achieve what I want. I'm just like, that's really 436 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:20,119 Speaker 1: cool because I can actually see myself evolving and I 437 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 1: can see an evolution and how cool is that? 438 00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 3: I do love that and that's I did mine on 439 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 3: my iPad, but I still hand wrote it, and I 440 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 3: went back and looked at vine and like a lot. 441 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:35,440 Speaker 3: I was shocked at how many of my goal I 442 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:37,720 Speaker 3: was like, I don't even care about this anymore, and 443 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 3: also how many of them were made based on I guess, 444 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 3: external circumstances that I thought I needed to do even 445 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:49,320 Speaker 3: though I was trying to make goals that I didn't 446 00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:51,840 Speaker 3: think I should do, but they were still should and 447 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:55,160 Speaker 3: not once. Yes, and hindsight's a beautiful there it is 448 00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 3: it is. I was like, gosh, I've grown a lot. 449 00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:59,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's really cool to be like, oh that 450 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:03,200 Speaker 1: was from a huge ego place. Yeah, and now I'm 451 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:05,400 Speaker 1: like I don't feel into that, and that's like such 452 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:06,680 Speaker 1: an evolution of itself. 453 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,160 Speaker 4: For like, oh, I don't even fuck with that anymore. 454 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:12,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. So definitely, guys, sit in gratitude. 455 00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 1: You can be grateful for like anything, and the more 456 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:17,720 Speaker 1: grateful you are the better. 457 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 2: Trust me on this, all right, guys, So the next 458 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:21,280 Speaker 2: thing I want you to. 459 00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 1: Do is check in with your buckets. So this is 460 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:29,879 Speaker 1: actually into it for your future self one of the days. 461 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:32,119 Speaker 1: So it obviously goes into a lot more. But the 462 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 1: basis of this is Cooper actually brought this in in 463 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:37,639 Speaker 1: a podcast. Let's actually just snippet it to your so 464 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 1: I don't have to explain it and they can get 465 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:39,679 Speaker 1: the vibe. 466 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:40,200 Speaker 3: Amazing. 467 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:47,639 Speaker 5: I have I think about seven metaphorically buckets in my life, 468 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:51,400 Speaker 5: and I prioritize what I have in my life and 469 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 5: then so it's like kids, wife, business, adventures, holidays and 470 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 5: those sorts of things. So I like to and I 471 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,440 Speaker 5: don't feel in flow. 472 00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:04,919 Speaker 4: I like to have a look. 473 00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:08,800 Speaker 5: At my buckets and see what's empty, and then I 474 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 5: like to work on them. And then you prioritize until 475 00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:14,959 Speaker 5: that bucket is nurtured. 476 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:20,200 Speaker 1: So what I want you guys to do is if 477 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:22,399 Speaker 1: you haven't done this exercize before, if you've done do 478 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:25,159 Speaker 1: it for your future self, you will actually check in 479 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:29,119 Speaker 1: and be like where am I lacking? Where do I 480 00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 1: need to make goals? But in a well rounded way, 481 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:37,360 Speaker 1: not just twelve carrier goals and like one fucking personal 482 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:40,440 Speaker 1: goal or like, you know, you've got all these goals 483 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 1: that are not unrealistic, but you haven't made it in 484 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:48,640 Speaker 1: a well rounded way. And I think that's what's so 485 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,400 Speaker 1: beautiful about my goals. At the start of the year. 486 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 1: It was a different way I had, like made goals. Yeah, 487 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:58,400 Speaker 1: And it's funny because like I achieved a lot of 488 00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 1: my buckets that I don't don't usually make goals for, 489 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,919 Speaker 1: and I think it's because I actually had focus on 490 00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 1: them for the first time. I love that and that 491 00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:10,639 Speaker 1: was really really cool to see. So guys, check on 492 00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,040 Speaker 1: your buckets or you know, start doing your buckets if 493 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:16,679 Speaker 1: you don't, that's like one of our famous tricks from Cooper. 494 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:17,359 Speaker 2: Thank you for that. 495 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,560 Speaker 1: Okay, the last thing I want you to do is again, 496 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:26,359 Speaker 1: look what happened in the last six months and just 497 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:30,199 Speaker 1: decide what you're not available for anymore, so you know, 498 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:33,199 Speaker 1: instead of going, well, I like, I'm not clear on 499 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 1: what I want again. If you want clarity, do they 500 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,560 Speaker 1: do it for your future self? Course, because it's incredible 501 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 1: for clarity. But if you're like I don't know what 502 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 1: I want, I don't know what to, you know, put 503 00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 1: my energy towards for the next six months. Is I 504 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 1: bet you have an idea of what you don't want 505 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,439 Speaker 1: to do and what you're not available for and what 506 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:56,879 Speaker 1: hasn't served you in the last six months and what 507 00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:59,760 Speaker 1: is a no? And this is actually something at the 508 00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:01,520 Speaker 1: star out of the year, I was like, if it's 509 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:02,760 Speaker 1: not a hell, yes, it's a no. 510 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:07,639 Speaker 2: And I reckon, I've probably stuck to it eighty percent 511 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:08,160 Speaker 2: of the time. 512 00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:12,560 Speaker 3: That's really that's a good percentage. Yeah, it's not amazing. 513 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:13,760 Speaker 2: No, but it's definitely not a hot word. 514 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:17,119 Speaker 1: And I can really I can see that, but like 515 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:19,719 Speaker 1: so much better then how I used to be. And 516 00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:22,960 Speaker 1: I'm really proud of myself for that, and I think 517 00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 1: it's truly life changing when you're clear on what you're. 518 00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:30,240 Speaker 2: Not available for and what's not serving you and you 519 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:31,360 Speaker 2: kind of being. 520 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:34,920 Speaker 1: I don't really believe in the world's selfish, but it's 521 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:38,720 Speaker 1: like you being like selfish on no, this is what 522 00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:40,879 Speaker 1: I actually am going to accept and this is what 523 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:41,880 Speaker 1: I'm available for. 524 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:45,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, I do like that because I think half the 525 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:47,920 Speaker 3: time you'll say, I'll just do it this one time, 526 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 3: but I need to make sure I put the boundary 527 00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 3: in next time, but it's like you need to start now. Yes, 528 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:57,359 Speaker 3: there's no next time, yes, and it's just this time exactly. 529 00:25:57,560 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 2: So that's like a huge thing that I feel. 530 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:04,120 Speaker 1: I also feel like too midyear, you kind of to 531 00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:07,160 Speaker 1: the point where you're like, you're not taking shit. Yeah, 532 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 1: you know, I don't have energy, you don't have the energy. 533 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:14,119 Speaker 1: I've got another six months and you're just you know, 534 00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 1: it's such a great time to lock into. Like I 535 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,879 Speaker 1: don't know, for me, this season feels very like internal 536 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 1: and it feels like, oh, I'm like I've now gotten clear, 537 00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 1: I've had some lessons, I've achieved, some things I haven't achieved, 538 00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 1: some things I'm realizing like where I'm at, and I 539 00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:34,120 Speaker 1: can really lock into what's serving me what's not and 540 00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:34,960 Speaker 1: like let's go. 541 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how it feels to me. 542 00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 3: I love that. 543 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 1: And then what I think I said the last one, 544 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 1: but another last one. So again, guys, if you're listening 545 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:51,480 Speaker 1: to this and you're like, oh, I just I can't relate, 546 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 1: Like I'm just like I'm not clear. 547 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 3: Everything's foggy. 548 00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 1: Everything's foggy. My best thing to say is like disconnect 549 00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,679 Speaker 1: to reconnect. So just like an iPhone, it's not working, 550 00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:05,320 Speaker 1: it's glitching. You turn it off for a while, and 551 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,679 Speaker 1: then you turn it back on and she's good as new. Yeah, 552 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:11,120 Speaker 1: And we are like that as humans. And if you're 553 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:15,000 Speaker 1: not feeling clarity, if you're like just not feeling the vibe, 554 00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 1: if you're like motivation is low, you're like not in 555 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:20,399 Speaker 1: the alignment. 556 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:20,560 Speaker 2: That you want. 557 00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:24,440 Speaker 1: I guarantee you. Sometimes it's we're just so plugged in. 558 00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:28,080 Speaker 1: We've got so many like energy cards to our work 559 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:31,119 Speaker 1: and our friends and this drama and that drama, and 560 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:35,600 Speaker 1: when you take some time to just disconnect, and like, 561 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:40,240 Speaker 1: for me personally, that has meant I can't really remember 562 00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:43,199 Speaker 1: the last time I did like a social thing, yeah, 563 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:47,919 Speaker 1: like with friends or just like I've just spent so 564 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,639 Speaker 1: much time with like Tim and Ivy and doing like 565 00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:53,560 Speaker 1: work stuff, and it's just such a season to me 566 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:56,240 Speaker 1: where if I do have spare time, there might be 567 00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:59,160 Speaker 1: like you know, the random thing for someone's birthday, Yeah, 568 00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 1: but otherwise I'm spending time with myself because it really 569 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:04,560 Speaker 1: feels like a season that I'm like. 570 00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 2: Oh, I need to disconnect, to reconnect. 571 00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:10,280 Speaker 1: And you know, if you can't take a weekend off 572 00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 1: social media or even a week, or if you can't 573 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,359 Speaker 1: take time to yourself, it's like, you know, can you 574 00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:20,119 Speaker 1: find a bit more time for meditation, for no like 575 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:23,760 Speaker 1: no screen time, for a low time alone time, like 576 00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,399 Speaker 1: can you take a Saturday off, don't take your phone 577 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,600 Speaker 1: and go to the beach or the forest or go 578 00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:33,720 Speaker 1: on a walk and just disconnect. Because I truly believe like, 579 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,159 Speaker 1: if you're feeling overwhelmed, you're like, I don't know what 580 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:37,840 Speaker 1: to do and I've got no clarity and I should 581 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 1: be doing. 582 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:39,760 Speaker 2: That symbol blah blahlah blah. 583 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:43,440 Speaker 1: You need to like cut some energy cords and you 584 00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 1: need to let go. And the thing is like the answer, 585 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 1: the next step, the motivation, the you know, the thing 586 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 1: you're looking for, the universe is like it's ready to 587 00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:57,480 Speaker 1: give it to you. Yeah, but it's like trying to 588 00:28:57,520 --> 00:28:59,560 Speaker 1: tell you, but you can't hear it because you're so 589 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:03,840 Speaker 1: caught up in your own thoughts or social media or 590 00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:06,520 Speaker 1: what's happening to this person over there. And you need 591 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:10,320 Speaker 1: to get back to having that clear channel to the 592 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:13,480 Speaker 1: univers source whatever you want to like you know, talk 593 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:17,840 Speaker 1: about because you're getting intuitive downloads all the time, you're 594 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,320 Speaker 1: getting down like you're getting guided. 595 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 2: All the time. 596 00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, So if you feel. 597 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:26,920 Speaker 2: Unclear, it's you. The universe is not fucking mucking around. 598 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 2: It's like, dude, I've been trying to tell you that 599 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,400 Speaker 2: many times you're so up in your head or you're 600 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:33,040 Speaker 2: so not connected to yourself. 601 00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:35,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, that you're you haven't got a clear channel, and 602 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:38,640 Speaker 1: that is your responsibility to be like cool, Can I 603 00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:40,959 Speaker 1: actually clean my daily rituals up? 604 00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 2: Can I clean my weekenoud? Can I clean my energy up? 605 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be for a long amount of time, 606 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,480 Speaker 1: but it's like, if you're feeling like this, like I 607 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,640 Speaker 1: guarantee you clicked on this episode cause you're feeling like this, Yeah, 608 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:52,479 Speaker 1: it's time to clear that channel. 609 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,600 Speaker 3: I love that tip. I think that's so important and 610 00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,320 Speaker 3: it's so interesting you say that because I think that's 611 00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:01,360 Speaker 3: such a big thing. Is you need to disconnect so 612 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,040 Speaker 3: that you can be present and not stuck in your head. 613 00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:06,960 Speaker 3: And it could even be as simple as booking in 614 00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:10,680 Speaker 3: a long weekend maybe and using a data relax a 615 00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 3: day for self development and then a day to reset 616 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:16,480 Speaker 3: and just take it in small chunks. 617 00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:17,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think. 618 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:21,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's it's so interesting because you know, 619 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 1: everyone talks about feeling stark or not motivated, but it's 620 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 1: like they'll just continue the exact same things they do 621 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,400 Speaker 1: on a daily and I'm like, bit, what do you 622 00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,440 Speaker 1: mean You're expecting a different outcome? You're doing the exact 623 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 1: same things. It's a definition of insanity. It's like, I 624 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:42,760 Speaker 1: want to feel motivated, I want to feel this, but 625 00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:44,520 Speaker 1: like you're doing the exact same things. 626 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:46,640 Speaker 2: It's like, well, clearly something needs to change. 627 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,400 Speaker 3: Literally, that's something that I love from the do it 628 00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 3: for your Future self course, because I think I benefited 629 00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:56,240 Speaker 3: most from like the routine audit. Ah love that's stay 630 00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 3: six so I'm pretty sure. Yeah, And it just like 631 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,360 Speaker 3: totally changed my because I was like, I kind of 632 00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:04,880 Speaker 3: have routines, but neither of them actually aligned to any 633 00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 3: of my goals or how I see myself. And that's 634 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:10,360 Speaker 3: genuinely something that I've spent the last six months sort 635 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:14,160 Speaker 3: of slowly working on and I definitely am still working 636 00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,560 Speaker 3: on it, but reflecting it where I was at the 637 00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:19,160 Speaker 3: beginning of the year versus now I've already come so far. 638 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 1: Yes, I love this, And even that's definitely something I've 639 00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 1: noticed with you a tear like, for example, would you 640 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:27,400 Speaker 1: thought at the start of the year, you'd be getting 641 00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:28,040 Speaker 1: into work at like. 642 00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:28,560 Speaker 4: Six point thirty. 643 00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 2: No tear is like the first one here. Yeah, I 644 00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 2: love it. 645 00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:34,720 Speaker 1: I love it when you start early and then I 646 00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 1: can get out early and I can do my things, 647 00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,440 Speaker 1: and it's like, even looking at that, I've been like, 648 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:43,640 Speaker 1: oh wow, I've actually changed my daily routine. And again, 649 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:47,760 Speaker 1: I think it's sometimes there's this like separate thing of 650 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:51,400 Speaker 1: not realizing. The biggest thing to take away from this 651 00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 1: episode is like where you focus energy goes? Yeah, so currently, 652 00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,200 Speaker 1: where are you focused? Like is your routine? 653 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:04,000 Speaker 2: Focus your goals? Is your mindset? Focus for your goals? 654 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 1: Is the way that you know you talk to yourself 655 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 1: internally focused for your goals, like do an audit of everything, 656 00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,280 Speaker 1: because if things are all like jumbled and you're like. 657 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:14,880 Speaker 4: So weird, I'm not achieving my goals. 658 00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:19,640 Speaker 2: It's like so weird, I don't know what happened. 659 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:25,280 Speaker 1: You know, like it does matter and it seems so simple, 660 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,520 Speaker 1: but we kind of just we need to do these audits. 661 00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:33,000 Speaker 1: We need to go oh, okay, I remember now. 662 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 3: I might end this reading a story that we had 663 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 3: shared in the Facebook group from someone who did do 664 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 3: it for your future self at the beginning of the year. 665 00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 4: Okay, amazing shower with us, so she. 666 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,960 Speaker 3: Said, this is a long one, so sorry in advance, 667 00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 3: but I did do it for your future self. At 668 00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 3: the beginning of the year. I'm also an RNC project Gal. 669 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:53,440 Speaker 3: We love that, and she said she got so clear 670 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:56,479 Speaker 3: on what her dream life is. Looking back at what 671 00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 3: she wrote, she's actually achieved almost everything she wrote down, 672 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 3: including passing and graduating from my PhD. Officially adopted out, 673 00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:09,800 Speaker 3: got offered. Yeah, how cool. Smarty pants got offered my 674 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:13,680 Speaker 3: dream job, which happened so unexpectedly. I've been there for 675 00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 3: a month now. Long story short, but I was unclear 676 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:20,040 Speaker 3: on what I wanted for my career post PhD. I 677 00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:22,360 Speaker 3: had so many limiting beliefs about how hard it is 678 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:25,840 Speaker 3: to get stable employment in academia. Last year, out of 679 00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:28,959 Speaker 3: the blue, I was approached for a position which logically 680 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:32,720 Speaker 3: and on paper seemed perfect. It offered me a lot 681 00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 3: of what I was looking for, but for some reason, 682 00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:37,959 Speaker 3: it wasn't a hell yes for me. I had some 683 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 3: other work commitments which would have made things challenging, but 684 00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 3: I just had a feeling that it wasn't right for me. 685 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:46,040 Speaker 3: So I followed my intuition and trusted that there was 686 00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:49,120 Speaker 3: something coming that was right for me. After doing the 687 00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:51,160 Speaker 3: do It for your Future Self course, I got really 688 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:53,880 Speaker 3: clear on who I wanted to show at, but show 689 00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,960 Speaker 3: up as what I desired and what mattered most to 690 00:33:57,000 --> 00:34:00,200 Speaker 3: me for my career bucket. I still remained unclear on 691 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:02,400 Speaker 3: what my dream job was, but I knew I wanted 692 00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:05,160 Speaker 3: to feel super supported, be able to work from home. 693 00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:08,359 Speaker 3: It lit me up, offered stability, and was relevant to 694 00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:11,720 Speaker 3: my life's purpose. A couple of months ago, in a meeting, 695 00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,319 Speaker 3: I connected with an acquaintance from UNI who was now 696 00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 3: working in the industry in a non academic position, and 697 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:20,680 Speaker 3: I thought, Oh, my gosh, how awesome is that. I 698 00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 3: had the thought to look at on their Twitter and 699 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:26,960 Speaker 3: see what they were doing since completing their PhD. I 700 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:29,040 Speaker 3: saw they were I saw they shared there was a 701 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:31,960 Speaker 3: job opening at their workplace. I clicked the link, turned 702 00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:35,719 Speaker 3: out the job advertisement had expired. I then had this 703 00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:38,400 Speaker 3: strong feeling to do a search and see what current 704 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:41,720 Speaker 3: job ads there were. One of the first job ads 705 00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:45,680 Speaker 3: was for my dream workplace. I opened the ad and 706 00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:49,040 Speaker 3: realized it was so fitting with me, so fitting for me, 707 00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 3: with my qualifications and experiences and literally ticked all of 708 00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:56,600 Speaker 3: my boxes, so I applied for it. Several weeks went by, 709 00:34:56,760 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 3: we went on a holiday, then then I got I 710 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,759 Speaker 3: hadn't heard anything, but trusted that life happens for me. 711 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,279 Speaker 3: First day back after having been sick, I got a 712 00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:10,200 Speaker 3: phone call from the workplace saying they were still reviewing 713 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,880 Speaker 3: the applications for the job I'd applied for, but in 714 00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:15,680 Speaker 3: doing so, they saw my application and it stood out 715 00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:18,080 Speaker 3: to them. They thought I would be perfect for another 716 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:21,080 Speaker 3: position they wanted to fill but hadn't advertised it yet 717 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:24,200 Speaker 3: and wanted to know if I was interested. I was 718 00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:27,440 Speaker 3: shocked but said yes, did an informal interview, and then 719 00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:29,880 Speaker 3: the following week got offered the job. Have been in 720 00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:33,040 Speaker 3: the role for a month and it is literally so perfect. 721 00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,720 Speaker 3: It's everything I wrote down, and I couldn't be happier 722 00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:38,759 Speaker 3: than the next stop point that was just one of them. 723 00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,640 Speaker 3: In two weeks time, we are moving into our first 724 00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:45,120 Speaker 3: home we've bought, and it literally has everything I wrote 725 00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:46,919 Speaker 3: down that we wanted. At the beginning of the year, 726 00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:50,040 Speaker 3: we've been saying for a while, and we've been saving 727 00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:52,399 Speaker 3: for a while and working towards buying our first home. 728 00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:54,480 Speaker 3: But I had so many limiting beliefs due to the 729 00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 3: economy and housing market, Butie decided to just go for it, 730 00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:00,719 Speaker 3: and you know, we were surprised by how easy it 731 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:03,399 Speaker 3: was for us. The next one is she's so much 732 00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:06,319 Speaker 3: more confident within herself. I love that as a goal. 733 00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:12,000 Speaker 3: Her second, third, one, fourth one. The next one is 734 00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:15,160 Speaker 3: she has an incredible marriage and connection with her husband. 735 00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:19,120 Speaker 3: So beautiful. And then the last one is she has 736 00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:22,359 Speaker 3: so much abundance. She said, she feels so aligned and 737 00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:25,319 Speaker 3: in love with life. She just keeps leveling up. She's 738 00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:28,080 Speaker 3: truly living her deem Light dream life. And she's so 739 00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:32,040 Speaker 3: grateful for the RNC team, oh podcast, the project, and 740 00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:34,320 Speaker 3: the do it Few future self course, because she's quantum 741 00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:37,240 Speaker 3: leaped so much. I'm actually shocked me too. 742 00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:38,440 Speaker 2: It's so incredible. 743 00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:42,440 Speaker 1: I just love our community so much, I know. 744 00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:45,439 Speaker 3: And I just love how she had a big career goal, 745 00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:47,919 Speaker 3: she had a big money goal, but also her other 746 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,600 Speaker 3: three were just like so well round, so well rounded 747 00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:53,200 Speaker 3: about the relationships in her life, and they're achievable and 748 00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:55,120 Speaker 3: it's not like overwhelming or anything. 749 00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:55,399 Speaker 5: Yeah. 750 00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 1: I also love that she got offered something, but she's like, oh, 751 00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:00,560 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna trust my intuition and the like the 752 00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:03,319 Speaker 1: next perfect thing came. Yeah, that's like And that's the 753 00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:06,320 Speaker 1: thing though, if you're someone who's not creating co creating 754 00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,760 Speaker 1: with universe, and someone who's not locked into your intuition, 755 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,319 Speaker 1: you probably would have taken the first. 756 00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:12,719 Speaker 2: Thing out of like scarting and lack. 757 00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:14,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, like, oh well there's an I know as well 758 00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:17,480 Speaker 1: take this. Yeah, And so it's. 759 00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:20,160 Speaker 2: Just incredible, like how that turned out. I know, Ah, 760 00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:21,800 Speaker 2: that's incredible. Guys. 761 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:23,920 Speaker 1: If you want to do the do It for your 762 00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:27,080 Speaker 1: Future Self course along with the rn C community, we 763 00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:31,840 Speaker 1: are all doing it for mid year on July third, 764 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,399 Speaker 1: we're starting all together and we currently have. 765 00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:36,480 Speaker 4: A little eofye sale I know for do. 766 00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,399 Speaker 1: It for your Future Self, so you get in her 767 00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:41,239 Speaker 1: really at a good price, so make sure you check 768 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,680 Speaker 1: that out. You have to add the course to the 769 00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:47,200 Speaker 1: cart in order for the discount to be applied, but 770 00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:49,720 Speaker 1: that sale does end literally in a couple of days 771 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 1: if you're listening in real time, so makesure you check 772 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,799 Speaker 1: it out. But guys, I hope you enjoyed this episode. 773 00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,680 Speaker 1: And like I said, if you're if you're not vibing, 774 00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:03,000 Speaker 1: this is such an incredible place to be, So follow 775 00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:06,640 Speaker 1: these points and have the most incredible next six months, 776 00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,719 Speaker 1: because it really can be better than you could have imagined. 777 00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:17,160 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening to another episode of 778 00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:20,359 Speaker 1: the Rise and Conker Podcast. 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