Speaker 1: The Rise and Conquer Podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of
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Speaker 1: Bah region. We further acknowledge country throughout Australia and their
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Speaker 1: to their elders past and present and extend that respect
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Speaker 1: welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcasts. This is
Speaker 1: the podcast for ordinary people who want to do extraordinary things.
Speaker 1: And what I often think we get stuck in is,
Speaker 1: you know, we start getting self aware and we're like,
Speaker 1: I'm in this bunk, I, you know, have lost my mojo,
Speaker 1: feeling burnt out, blah blah blah blah. But we want
Speaker 1: someone to save us or something to save us. Hello
Speaker 1: and welcome back to the Rise and Kunker Podcast. It
Speaker 1: is your host, Georgie Stevenson, lawyer turned entrepreneur, business owner,
Speaker 1: new mum, all the things guys today. We we're so
Speaker 1: rogan December. It's not a hotline, ap a hot line,
Speaker 1: not a kid what is it? We've got one of
Speaker 1: my famous pet talks, Aitia. It's so good. I like
Speaker 1: the energy in December for me is just like I
Speaker 1: do what the fuck I want, and it's the end
Speaker 1: of the year and I'm all about like vibey energy,
Speaker 1: calling myself out on my own bullshit, making like huge
Speaker 1: steps towards my next level self, getting clear, doing the things.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna of a high because as I record this,
Speaker 1: this afternoon, I'm going to a solo like retreat. It's
Speaker 1: not gonna be amazing, it's gonna be so efaic. So
Speaker 1: I'm spending tonight by myself, and then tomorrow night my
Speaker 1: girlfriend is coming and we're spending the whole time. Actually,
Speaker 1: so she wants to do do it for your Future
Speaker 1: self coss, Oh my gosh, I know. So we're kind
Speaker 1: of gonna do it together and just pull different parts
Speaker 1: and do do that together. But basically it's like a
Speaker 1: bestie planning trip where we're going to journal and get clear.
Speaker 1: Because when I use the do it for your Future
Speaker 1: Self course, I really use the planning stage in the
Speaker 1: course for my businesses Rise and Conquer Neaked Armist if
Speaker 1: you didn't know what in case she didn't know, in
Speaker 1: case she didn't know. But what we're I'm using this
Speaker 1: trip for is really getting clear, and like, personally, I
Speaker 1: love that what I'm calling in next year, all that
Speaker 1: sort of she's net So I'm so excited, Like that
Speaker 1: shit is just like it's it's my vibe. So I'm
Speaker 1: really really excited. But yeah, so anyway, that was a
Speaker 1: bit of random. But we're doing a pep talk today
Speaker 1: and I'm telling you guys about how I called myself
Speaker 1: out on my own bullshit and kind of just chose
Speaker 1: to like step out of this negative story. And this
Speaker 1: is a whole This was the whole process of then
Speaker 1: creating the new course because I could finally see clear
Speaker 1: it clearly and just be like I'm I'm sick of
Speaker 1: like being in this negative story and life being this
Speaker 1: way and me changing external things, but my internal world,
Speaker 1: you know, wasn't shifting. And then that meant like my
Speaker 1: reality wasn't shifting. So it was like a whole big process.
Speaker 1: But basically, this guy's is a pep talk of if
Speaker 1: you're in a negative loop, if you are just not
Speaker 1: really loving what's happening right now this yourself and you're
Speaker 1: like I just need a bit of a reality check
Speaker 1: and to get out of this funky energy. You guys
Speaker 1: are going to love it, but just two reminders. So
Speaker 1: the do It for your Future Self course is now
Speaker 1: open for enrollment and we start Jan first. So, guys,
Speaker 1: this is a course. Like I said, I created this
Speaker 1: from a struggle myself of just being really stuck and
Speaker 1: like so just feeling really stuck. And what I did
Speaker 1: is I took space and I used a whole bunch
Speaker 1: of tools to kind of get clear on my next
Speaker 1: level self because I hadn't done that since having IVY
Speaker 1: and up leveling in business, et cetera. And I put
Speaker 1: it in a neat little course for you, and we're
Speaker 1: going to do it from Jan first. Every day a
Speaker 1: module is going to unlock, and I've made sure that
Speaker 1: it's only going to take you thirty minutes. And so
Speaker 1: so the whole thing is to do it at the
Speaker 1: start of the year and really like harness that new
Speaker 1: year energy to get clear, to build fun dations, to
Speaker 1: set your goals, to set your habits, and just have
Speaker 1: like a really clear plan for twenty twenty three because
Speaker 1: like I said, like like I've said a million times,
Speaker 1: like if you're not clear on where you're going, you're
Speaker 1: going to go nowhere farst. So if you ask someone
Speaker 1: who like wants to do that and that sounds really good. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we've created a whole course on it. It is only
Speaker 1: seventy seven dots seventy seven dollars what I mean seventy
Speaker 1: seven dollars and seventy seven cents.
Speaker 2: Seventy seven dollars dot seventy seven dollars.
Speaker 1: That is what I Meanitor, guys, it does only sense
Speaker 1: dollars and seventy seventies. You keep that in. I don't
Speaker 1: give a far And yeah, we'll put a link in
Speaker 1: the show notes. And then second reminder is we released
Speaker 1: a Freebee Abundance ebook, So if you want to work
Speaker 1: on your money mindset for the new year, we've got
Speaker 1: your back. It's super pretty. Isn't it a tear? Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, it's stunning. It's stunning. It's like, can this
Speaker 1: be my mood? Born? Yes, that well, that was the
Speaker 1: vibe we wanted to create. So if you're someone who
Speaker 1: has any funky money beliefs and that's something you want
Speaker 1: to go deep on, it's completely free. The link is
Speaker 1: in the show notes. And lastly, recommendations.
Speaker 2: A tia should we just say it on three since
Speaker 2: it's the same.
Speaker 1: Thing three to one Wednesday and not the day the
Speaker 1: show on Netflix. I think we both binged it last week.
Speaker 1: I binged it because I was hungover from the n
Speaker 1: H Christmas party. Oh yes, which was lots of fun
Speaker 1: and I'm obsessed. So me and a tea, We're having
Speaker 1: this conversation and I'm like, it's just done so well.
Speaker 1: The characters, the plot, the story, like everything is flawless.
Speaker 1: Her fashion sense. Oh, I'm like, do I want to
Speaker 1: dress like a goth now? Because I kind of do?
Speaker 1: Do you reckon? Yeah, I'm it all black today and
Speaker 1: I were all black, I know, so so viby, and yeah,
Speaker 1: I just love her dry sense of humor. Like the
Speaker 1: one line is, I'm like, it's amazing. It's amazing, guys.
Speaker 1: If you haven't watched it, go watatch it. Watch it
Speaker 1: this weekend. We both finished it in one weekend and
Speaker 1: it was just Yeah, it was epic. I will say.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm very much the kind of person that I
Speaker 2: will watch five minutes of something and if I'm not gripped,
Speaker 2: I won't carry on. So I started Wednesday early last
Speaker 2: week when it had just come out. I watched five
Speaker 2: minutes and I was like, I don't think this is
Speaker 2: for me. It's a bit dark. Really yeah, So I
Speaker 2: turned it off and then my best friend was just
Speaker 2: like messaging me and.
Speaker 1: She was like this is like. She's like, you have
Speaker 1: to watch it. You're gonna love it.
Speaker 2: And I was like, okay, I'll give the first episode.
Speaker 2: I'll finish it off. Finished it, did not stop watching
Speaker 2: it like it's amazing. So if you're put off in
Speaker 2: the first little bit, just keep going.
Speaker 1: That's interesting because I would say the first five minutes,
Speaker 1: I was so intrigued, and I was like, give me more.
Speaker 1: In saying that, I remember finishing the first episode and thinking, fuck,
Speaker 1: so much has happened. Yes, I like literally had to
Speaker 1: double check because I was like, have I watched three episodes?
Speaker 1: Don't you reckon? It's one of those it's fact. Anyway, guys,
Speaker 1: go and check it out. We promise we'll have like
Speaker 1: a non tvsion recommendation.
Speaker 2: I have a non TV show recommendation. It's a newsletter
Speaker 2: called Screenshot This, and it's by Zara wom So. She
Speaker 2: is a writer and I think she's head of editorial
Speaker 2: content at Mecca at the moment, but she has her
Speaker 2: own newsletter that's personal and she gives you a recommendation
Speaker 2: to read, watch cook and then listen, and it's always
Speaker 2: different every week. And I found it this week and
Speaker 2: I just like Binge read her website if that's a
Speaker 2: thing of like all her recommendations, and it's just like
Speaker 2: it's something different every week.
Speaker 1: It's like a little bit of spice.
Speaker 2: This week she recommended to watch a TikTok on scientific
Speaker 2: ways of how to make friends as an adult.
Speaker 1: So it's just like it's a bit it's not really
Speaker 1: self development, but I love it just general. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: love that. Let's put that link in the show notes. Yes, okay, amazing.
Speaker 1: Let's get into the episode. Let's get into quick disclaiming guys.
Speaker 1: This episode's a bit of tough love. Yeah yeah, I
Speaker 1: was telling a tear about my notes on this riff
Speaker 1: and she's like, I feel personally into Actually, I was like, shit, guys,
Speaker 1: today we've got one of my famous pep talks where
Speaker 1: so this is a pep talk where I had this
Speaker 1: pep talk with myself and I had to call myself
Speaker 1: out on my own bullshit and in saying that, I
Speaker 1: do give myself leeway. But I had been sitting in
Speaker 1: this story for the whole year and I was like,
Speaker 1: fucking enough is enough. I'm actually so sicky you. I
Speaker 1: had the epiphany in my car and I remember having
Speaker 1: this exact PEP talk and then writing it in my notes,
Speaker 1: sending myself an email and be like, I've got to
Speaker 1: have this with the RNC fam because I just feel
Speaker 1: like some of you may need it, and that's fine.
Speaker 1: I agree with that like a tearfl So basically, what
Speaker 1: I want to chat to you guys about today, I
Speaker 1: want you to think about at the moment where you
Speaker 1: are leaning into a negative story about something, yourself, your reality, anything.
Speaker 1: So I know this time of year, like we are
Speaker 1: feeling a bit burnt out, there's a lot of you know,
Speaker 1: events happening. I'm sure you're trying to wrap up for work.
Speaker 1: Maybe you'll like us where you just had this big
Speaker 1: Black Friday sale, you know, and things are happening. But
Speaker 1: what I kind of noticed is a couple of months ago,
Speaker 1: I kind of had this pet talk with myself and
Speaker 1: I very much called myself out on my own shit
Speaker 1: because I was stuck in this weird negative thought loop.
Speaker 1: But what I didn't realize is, because you know, I
Speaker 1: would continue to think in that way, it then continued
Speaker 1: to be my reality. Yeah, and so I kind of
Speaker 1: wanted to bring this up with you guys and be like,
Speaker 1: whereabouts in your life are you maybe really in your
Speaker 1: head about something? Maybe it is Oh my god, it's
Speaker 1: the end of the year and I'm so burnt out
Speaker 1: and I just need a holiday and work is so
Speaker 1: hard and my boss is associate and I tear I However,
Speaker 1: you don't think that, not at all.
Speaker 2: I like can't relate.
Speaker 1: No, that's so mean. I don't really understand if people
Speaker 1: feel like or maybe you're like me where you know,
Speaker 1: I have been in this weird negative thought loop all
Speaker 1: year of I am struggling to be a working mom.
Speaker 1: I can't get my mojo back with my creativity and
Speaker 1: like just in this like weird funky energy and a
Speaker 1: big thing that I realize when we get in these
Speaker 1: like funks and we get in these like negative thought loops,
Speaker 1: it's kind of what I've said about we in them
Speaker 1: and we can't really see anything else. So we continue to,
Speaker 1: you know, have thoughts and live our life in this loop.
Speaker 1: And then because we're always manifesting, that then becomes our reality.
Speaker 1: And it's like I said, this like weird loop. And
Speaker 1: what I often think we get stuck in is, you know,
Speaker 1: we start getting self aware and we're like, I'm in
Speaker 1: this funk. I you know, I have lost my mojo.
Speaker 1: I'm feeling burnt out, blah blah blah blah. But we
Speaker 1: want someone to save us or something to save us,
Speaker 1: Like for example, you are Tea being like, I'm so
Speaker 1: burnt out. I just need the Christmas all days. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just need those five days, Like those five days
Speaker 1: will thank every day in my life. I'm going to
Speaker 1: change my life. Yeah, and they're not.
Speaker 2: And I think especially with when it's New Year's it's
Speaker 2: so easy to just use that. Yeah, like in the year,
Speaker 2: I'm going to get on top of my fitness. In
Speaker 2: the year, I'm going to get to gym every day.
Speaker 2: Like if I'm not going to gym every day, now,
Speaker 2: what's gonna happen? Why do I think that a.
Speaker 1: Random day is going to change that. We're really funny,
Speaker 1: and I think what we get stuck on is thinking
Speaker 1: that something externally is going to come in and it's
Speaker 1: going to change my life, whether it's a person, whether
Speaker 1: it's a thing. And I want to chat to you guys, about,
Speaker 1: you know, my negative thought loop where I was I'm
Speaker 1: a working mom, I've lost my mojo and I've I
Speaker 1: have spoken about this weird negative loop the whole year,
Speaker 1: so it's very obvious that I was in it, and
Speaker 1: I really want to tell you about when I, you know,
Speaker 1: kind of like realized I called myself out on it
Speaker 1: and like, yeah, call myself out of my own bullshit.
Speaker 1: And I just want you guys to think about maybe
Speaker 1: what's happening in your life where you can do the same.
Speaker 1: So my example is literally, I remember I changed so
Speaker 1: many external things to quote unquote fix this problem, you know,
Speaker 1: like a tear. I hired you, Yeah, I hired a
Speaker 1: whole new person. In the podcast, I told Jamie's just
Speaker 1: got to move to Queensland. I'm like, that will fix everything.
Speaker 1: You know. I did certain things about you know, with
Speaker 1: Tim and Ivy. Yeah, all these external things. And it's
Speaker 1: funny because I remember a couple of months ago, I
Speaker 1: was sitting in my car and I'm like, I've changed
Speaker 1: so many external things and I feel the fucking same.
Speaker 1: And that's when I realized, Because what we need to
Speaker 1: realize is we can change all the external things. It
Speaker 1: can be a new year. We can have a holiday,
Speaker 1: we can do this, we can do that. But if
Speaker 1: you're not changing the internal stuff, the internal dialogue, the
Speaker 1: internal thoughts, your reality will never change. And we all
Speaker 1: know all this. But again we get stuck because it's
Speaker 1: the end of the year. And of course I feel
Speaker 1: like this. I mean, we get stuck in the stories
Speaker 1: you tell yourself, the stories we tell ourselves. And I
Speaker 1: wanted to explain it to you guys in a like
Speaker 1: feeling of in the way of energy. So like, if
Speaker 1: you think about it, if you're in a season of
Speaker 1: stuck energy where you don't feel, you don't see a
Speaker 1: clear way forward, and you're always looking outside of you
Speaker 1: for something to change to you know, something to come
Speaker 1: and save you. You need that job, you need that person,
Speaker 1: You need something to happen before you get what you want.
Speaker 1: It is a trap and you're stuck in your own trap.
Speaker 1: You've given to yourself. So tears like fuck. So it's like,
Speaker 1: let's be self awaren us. Let's call ourselves out on
Speaker 1: our own bullshit and be like, no, I'm not playing
Speaker 1: into this story anymore that I give myself. And of
Speaker 1: course there is legit things like let's talk about the
Speaker 1: moun stuff. Of course, being a mum and then having
Speaker 1: multiple businesses and a team and all the things. Of
Speaker 1: course that is going to be a barrier. Like that's
Speaker 1: not me gaslighting myself, Like, I fucking know that's a
Speaker 1: huge barrier. But then I look back at my life
Speaker 1: and I've always had barriers. It's just like when I
Speaker 1: wanted to start Naked Harvest and I didn't have enough money,
Speaker 1: that is a legit barrier that I had to deal with. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So it's just it, and I did, and it's so clearly. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So it's just like there's always going to be a
Speaker 1: legit barrier that you think is you know, stopping you
Speaker 1: all the reason why. But what we don't realize is
Speaker 1: like there's always going to be that barrier, and it's
Speaker 1: silly for us to think that this is a different
Speaker 1: story compared to the other stories we got out of,
Speaker 1: if that makes sense. So I kind of had to
Speaker 1: call myself out and I was like, stop repeating this
Speaker 1: story to yourself of you're a mum now, so you're
Speaker 1: not creative, so you can't do this, So you can't
Speaker 1: do that, and let's like, yes, life is different, and
Speaker 1: yes this is a legit barrier. But also you've always
Speaker 1: had blocks and barriers you've got over. Let's actually just
Speaker 1: make a new story. And I know that might sound like,
Speaker 1: excuse me, what do you mean? Just make a new story.
Speaker 1: So since then, what I had been doing is literally
Speaker 1: telling myself this new story and pep talking myself for
Speaker 1: weeks before it actually felt normal. So I would sit
Speaker 1: in the car and I would be like, I just
Speaker 1: I've decided I'm in a new story. Yes, I'm a
Speaker 1: working mom and I'm a fucking badass. And my baby
Speaker 1: loves me so much. She thinks I'm the best mom.
Speaker 1: I am the best mom. We have the best home life.
Speaker 1: Tim is so happy, my team is so happy. I've
Speaker 1: got really strong boundaries. As soon as I get into
Speaker 1: the office, I'm so creative and I'm so switched on,
Speaker 1: and you know, like I would rift and I would
Speaker 1: literally go off in my car, usually put on a timer.
Speaker 1: I started off three minutes. But it's great if you
Speaker 1: can kind of do ten. Ten is like my sweet
Speaker 1: spot bit three minutes. That's all you have to do,
Speaker 1: where you literally pep yourself up and you tell yourself
Speaker 1: this new story. Now bear with me. There would be
Speaker 1: days where I would then walk into the office and
Speaker 1: everything would be a shit show and I wouldn't feel creative,
Speaker 1: and you know'd have to deal with all these things.
Speaker 1: But after a while, I literally just started to feel different. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I remember, I remember the direct moment because I
Speaker 1: called Cooper and I was like, I'm so sick of myself.
Speaker 1: I'm so sick of blaming being a mom and thinking
Speaker 1: I have a hard life. Like stop Georgia, like, and
Speaker 1: I think we all do this. We all think everyone
Speaker 1: the grass is greener, everyone's got it, you know more,
Speaker 1: everyone's got it better. I've got the most difficult And
Speaker 1: of course, like I'm so self aware of my life
Speaker 1: is amazing. But that's what I mean. I was in
Speaker 1: that negative loop where I couldn't you know, I couldn't
Speaker 1: see it, and so I had to Yeah, I had
Speaker 1: to do that. I started doing the riffs, and I
Speaker 1: think it was just about like remembering my own power,
Speaker 1: like remembering I actually have a choice, even though some
Speaker 1: days I would get in the office and there would
Speaker 1: be shit storms and you know, fires I had to
Speaker 1: put out and this and that being like I'm doing amazing,
Speaker 1: even if I didn't feel like it, like affirming that
Speaker 1: and really giving yourself that new story continuously because we
Speaker 1: need it, and it's crazy. I think it took about
Speaker 1: two weeks and I then just started to show up
Speaker 1: differently and life started to just feel that little bit
Speaker 1: more easier. And then, like I tear it was, it
Speaker 1: was like a good two or three weeks. And then
Speaker 1: remember I had that good period of space where I
Speaker 1: literally told her around like like after Candy Land. After
Speaker 1: Candy Land, I had space. I was telling myself these
Speaker 1: new affirmations. I was stepping into this new story, and
Speaker 1: I would also like visualize of like, you know, if
Speaker 1: the world was perfect, quote unquote, what I think it
Speaker 1: should be, like, how would I show up? And then
Speaker 1: I would walk into the office and I had to
Speaker 1: really work on it. I had to really think, and
Speaker 1: I really had to pull myself out and like really
Speaker 1: be disciplined with that practice, yeah, and sit in that
Speaker 1: new story, even if that was three minutes of my day,
Speaker 1: and then the rest of the day didn't you know
Speaker 1: feel like that? And I just noticed such a difference.
Speaker 1: And then like you know how I then created they
Speaker 1: do it for your future self course, like yes, within
Speaker 1: days literally day literally days. I came out to tay Ran
Speaker 1: and I was like, I've got it doing a new course.
Speaker 1: It's launching it descend me. Yeah, and he was like what.
Speaker 2: I'm like, good, I remember you, like just came in
Speaker 2: here one day and you had your planner and You're like,
Speaker 2: this is next year and I was like, oh cool.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I literally had my planner and I was like,
Speaker 1: this is what I want to do. This is the
Speaker 1: outline for the new course. And it's because I had
Speaker 1: created space. I had obviously done a lot of the
Speaker 1: tools that I give you guys in the new course,
Speaker 1: but also I just called myself it on my own
Speaker 1: shit and taken my power back and been like, you
Speaker 1: know what, I actually get to decide how I feel.
Speaker 1: I'm not leaving it to these external things that I
Speaker 1: think I need. I'm not giving them my power. I'm
Speaker 1: taking it back and I'm deciding how i feel. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And then yeah, so then I created the course, and guys,
Speaker 1: that's like something I haven't created new material in years,
Speaker 1: and this is you know, me postpartum creating a whole
Speaker 1: new course, which I'm literally obsessed with. Like, if you
Speaker 1: are feeling foggy or unclear, or like kind of similar
Speaker 1: to me, where you're like stuck in this negative thing
Speaker 1: and you're like, I need to like call myself out
Speaker 1: of my own shit and I need to get over
Speaker 1: myself and I need to just do the thing because.
Speaker 2: I am me.
Speaker 1: You know, no one is me. That is my power
Speaker 1: sort of vibes. And so if you're feeling like that,
Speaker 1: our seven day course do it for your future self
Speaker 1: will be amazing. But also just as you're listening, like
Speaker 1: be like what negative loop am I constantly feeding into? Yeah,
Speaker 1: have a thing. And then also like just adding on
Speaker 1: to that is I want you to think about where
Speaker 1: in your life that you're maybe call us out go ahead.
Speaker 1: I feel like a mole where you're maybe being a
Speaker 1: bit drama like do you know what I mean? And
Speaker 1: this is going off the I feel like sometimes we
Speaker 1: get so in our heads about something and it really
Speaker 1: like we pull ourselves in and we're like just very
Speaker 1: dramatic and we don't let it be simple. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: it's like, where in your life can you literally just
Speaker 1: let things be way more simple and almost just trust
Speaker 1: that things are going to work out instead of giving
Speaker 1: your energy into worrying about that problem. You know, hours
Speaker 1: of the day. Let's sit in that feeling, Let's do
Speaker 1: that riff, you know, three to ten minutes of the
Speaker 1: new story, and then let's just leave it and let's
Speaker 1: just keep you know, moving forward, not buying into the dramatics,
Speaker 1: which I did majority of this year. So I just
Speaker 1: want everyone to know, like, this is not me being
Speaker 1: cold hearted towards you or anything like that, tough love,
Speaker 1: because I'm this pep talk is literally for myself, and
Speaker 1: I will play this episode for myself as will I.
Speaker 1: It will be in my saved sections. I just feel
Speaker 1: like we get so in our heads. We tend to
Speaker 1: dramatize things. We tend to worry about silly, silly things,
Speaker 1: when we could be putting that energy into positiveness, into
Speaker 1: actually going you know what I am doing great. I'm
Speaker 1: a great human. I have people around me, I have
Speaker 1: a great life. I'm fucking so grateful the fact that
Speaker 1: I have, you know, I use to live in, people
Speaker 1: to chat to during the day, a car to drive
Speaker 1: to work, and like get back to those and just
Speaker 1: be like, where am I actually being a bit dramatic here?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: And where can I simplify it and kind of sit
Speaker 1: in that rather than thinking everything is the end of
Speaker 1: the world, rather than you know, me dramatizing. I literally
Speaker 1: would get so in my head about not being creative
Speaker 1: and like that was the end of the world. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and it's like, that's so silly, Georgia. You literally have
Speaker 1: a team and you literally like you can still do
Speaker 1: the thing. Yeah. So it's like, slow down.
Speaker 2: I feel like that happened and can get triggered so
Speaker 2: easily when someone gets thrown off the path that they've
Speaker 2: sort of planned out in their head to reach a
Speaker 2: certain goal.
Speaker 1: Yes, like for me, this is not how it's supposed
Speaker 1: to be.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like for me to get to X place, I
Speaker 2: need to first say, you want to buy a car,
Speaker 2: and you have a car that at the moment, and
Speaker 2: you want to sell that car, make a certain amount
Speaker 2: of money from it, and then then you'll get your
Speaker 2: next car. That's your plan. But then this car you're
Speaker 2: in an accident and is now written off people just
Speaker 2: and I've done it.
Speaker 1: It completely throws you.
Speaker 2: You're like, yeah, this is it. That new car is
Speaker 2: not meant for me. I'm not gonna be able to
Speaker 2: get You don't know that insurance isn't going to turn
Speaker 2: around and give you enough money for the deposit for
Speaker 2: your next car anyway. Yeah, Like, it's so easy when
Speaker 2: your plan to reach, especially when it's a goal that
Speaker 2: you want to work towards, when your plan to that
Speaker 2: is thrown off even a little bit, it's so easy
Speaker 2: to get into that loop. And then the stuff that
Speaker 2: happens after you're in the loop reaffirms the loop because
Speaker 2: you're attracting the bad thing.
Speaker 1: Because you've got the evidence for it. Yeah. But this
Speaker 1: is even what I was thinking, because I was like, Georgia,
Speaker 1: you literally have you know, you're a manifested galley, manifesting galley.
Speaker 1: You trust the universe. So if you don't feel creative,
Speaker 1: what makes you think that that isn't perfect? Do you
Speaker 1: mean like being like, why are you putting this expectation
Speaker 1: on yourself to be something? If you completely trust in
Speaker 1: the universe. Yeah, you just need to be. You just
Speaker 1: need to be. And that's wow, that's what I mean.
Speaker 1: I got so caught up in this expectation of what
Speaker 1: I should be, of the goal I should have, of
Speaker 1: the steps I should have, But when we strip it
Speaker 1: back and we're like, no, everything is actually working out perfectly.
Speaker 1: So I'm just going to be I'm going to constantly
Speaker 1: affirm of what i want, the new story I want.
Speaker 1: I'm going to sit in that and I'm just going
Speaker 1: to be and it's perfect. It's like you're on a rollercoaster.
Speaker 2: Do you want to be scared or do you want
Speaker 2: to enjoy it exactly?
Speaker 1: Oh God? Is not just mine fucking little bit. I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh no, But like, imagine if we sat in that
Speaker 1: feeling of all the time everything is just working out
Speaker 1: perfectly and everything is I'm literally perfect. Everything is perfect,
Speaker 1: you know, like this isn't there's no expectations of other
Speaker 1: than what I'm doing right now. Yeah, that is the
Speaker 1: expect and it's perfect. Yeah. So that was my epiphany,
Speaker 1: and that's what I wanted to share with you guys,
Speaker 1: because I think we can get really stuck in our
Speaker 1: own shit and I just wanted to remind you that
Speaker 1: you are perfect. You're exactly where you're meant to be.
Speaker 1: And if you do, if you're listening to this and
Speaker 1: you're like, yeah, wow, I've been stuck in a bit
Speaker 1: of a shitty mindset and in a weird negative loop,
Speaker 1: and I'm kind of ready to make the shift. I'm
Speaker 1: ready to put in practices and lay the foundations and
Speaker 1: really start to you know, change things up. Then the
Speaker 1: seven day course Do It for your future self is
Speaker 1: going to be amazing and perfect for you. But it's like,
Speaker 1: here's the big catch with it is, I'm going to
Speaker 1: give you the tools. You're going to go through the
Speaker 1: seven modules and complete the exercises. But the big thing, like,
Speaker 1: even though we do exercises like creating goals and creating
Speaker 1: your dream vision of like what you want your life
Speaker 1: to be about it and what not, the biggest thing
Speaker 1: and like the biggest hack that you can do is
Speaker 1: not let yourself get in this negative loop and not
Speaker 1: let yourself kind of get stuck where you feel not
Speaker 1: good enough or you're not like completing goals or this
Speaker 1: and that, and like holding that higher vision of what
Speaker 1: you want for yourself and your life, like I truly believe,
Speaker 1: like I say that was put on your heart for
Speaker 1: a reason, that bigger vision. But if you cannot get
Speaker 1: fucked up with the steps that you're supposed to take,
Speaker 1: you can hold onto these practices and really sit in
Speaker 1: the feeling. And when you know things go quote unquote wrong,
Speaker 1: you can be like, oh, this is interesting, but this
Speaker 1: is perfect. It is all meant to happen this way.
Speaker 1: That is when you were going to have the best
Speaker 1: twenty twenty three. And I'll teach you all that, so
Speaker 1: don't stress. I feel like what and I think, don't.
Speaker 2: It's so good to have your bigger vision and you
Speaker 2: absolutely need it, but don't wait for that to be
Speaker 2: the thing to fulfill you, because if you're waiting for that,
Speaker 2: you're never going to be fulfilled, and it'll take you
Speaker 2: that much longer to get to the bigger vision and
Speaker 2: it'll be a lot more of a slog. Whereas if
Speaker 2: you fulfill yourself with where you are at and you
Speaker 2: know that it's perfect, and you know that you're just
Speaker 2: as happy doing what you're doing now as you will
Speaker 2: be when your bigger vision comes to life, it'll be
Speaker 2: there in no time exactly.
Speaker 1: And that's actually what we do in day three of
Speaker 1: the course is I get you to create goals and
Speaker 1: then I get you to do something very different. Obviously
Speaker 1: I'm not going to tell you. I get you to
Speaker 1: do something very different so you can feel that feeling
Speaker 1: like when you haven't reached the goals, So you can
Speaker 1: feel that feeling now. Yeah, So yeah, it's all very
Speaker 1: important and like literally, life is just about hacking your mindset.
Speaker 1: If you want to be happy now, you can be
Speaker 1: happy now. You just got to learn to hack your
Speaker 1: mindset because society has brainwashed us. And we ain't doing
Speaker 1: smart goals, dear, We're doing it differently.
Speaker 2: Do you know how much smart goals were drilled into
Speaker 2: me as a child?
Speaker 1: I did smart goals for years and you really yeah,
Speaker 1: if you we're not doing smart goals now, we're doing
Speaker 1: things differently. It's going to change your life. And then
Speaker 1: these tools are going to be like incredible. You're going
Speaker 1: to use them all year. But yes, make sure you
Speaker 1: join us. Go check out the product page. Do it
Speaker 1: for your future self. Your future self will thank you
Speaker 1: and we'll be doing it all with you from the
Speaker 1: first of jan and then imagine by the seventh of
Speaker 1: jan you are clear on what you want, You're clear
Speaker 1: on your bigger vision. You have your goals, which we're
Speaker 1: not doing smart goals, we're doing a different You are
Speaker 1: able to see how to be content now not once
Speaker 1: you see those goals and you've laid all the foundations,
Speaker 1: like imagine how your year will go if you feel
Speaker 1: like that on the seventh day of the Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: so excited. I'm so excited. We'll put the link in
Speaker 1: the show notes. But thanks for joining me this episode
Speaker 1: where we just were brutal, we called each other out
Speaker 1: of our own shit. I feel like we need to
Speaker 1: have this pep talk to each other every month.
Speaker 2: I think, so add it to our monthly.
Speaker 1: Pet each other up? What bull should we call each
Speaker 1: other out? And guys, if you feel personally attacked, that's amazing.
Speaker 1: That's a great place to be into use that energy.
Speaker 1: All right, Thanks guys, thank you so much for listening
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