WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Britt's ENGAGED!!! 🎉 0:00:12.119 --> 0:00:24.520 Britta, Laura, come on in, Hello everybody, Hello Thursday everyone. 0:00:24.680 --> 0:00:26.920 I want you to but say it. 0:00:27.320 --> 0:00:29.560 I am sat, hang on. 0:00:29.720 --> 0:00:30.640 I want everyone to know. 0:00:30.800 --> 0:00:33.319 Thirteenth of the sixth, twenty twenty four. 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:35.040 I want you to remember this day because this is 0:00:35.080 --> 0:00:36.640 the day that I never thought would come. 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:39.000 This is the day officially you heard that. 0:00:39.000 --> 0:00:42.839 Brittany Hockley is taking off the market because I got again, Brittany. 0:00:46.200 --> 0:00:48.879 Oh my god. I genuinely know what would happened. 0:00:50.200 --> 0:00:51.520 We all knew it was going to happen. 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:55.319 I am so shocked and I get upset every time 0:00:55.320 --> 0:00:57.840 I think about it, because it was really beautiful. I've 0:00:57.880 --> 0:00:59.520 been in a little love bubble for like a week, 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:02.600 and I just I don't want to say what I 0:01:02.600 --> 0:01:04.600 feel that drump at this moment forever because I didn't 0:01:04.640 --> 0:01:06.080 but I did for a long time think I was 0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:08.480 never going to find my person. And I just have 0:01:08.600 --> 0:01:11.800 met the most amazing man in Ben, my fiance. 0:01:12.800 --> 0:01:14.920 You know, like I mean, we've been friends. 0:01:15.080 --> 0:01:17.280 We've been friends for almost six years now, and we've 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:20.240 been doing life on podcast for five and a half years. 0:01:20.800 --> 0:01:24.800 And I have seen you through every version, through being 0:01:24.840 --> 0:01:27.960 in love, through dating, through going through heartbreak, and I 0:01:28.040 --> 0:01:31.839 know you have said on many occasions that you had 0:01:31.840 --> 0:01:32.840 felt unlovable. 0:01:33.640 --> 0:01:34.279 Oh stop. 0:01:34.640 --> 0:01:38.679 And I'm so happy for you, guys. I'm only gonna ever, 0:01:39.080 --> 0:01:41.000 I really am. I'm so happy for you guys. 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:41.920 Love you. 0:01:42.040 --> 0:01:46.200 I'm so happy for me. 0:01:44.560 --> 0:01:46.360 To cry too. I can cry as well if you are. 0:01:46.959 --> 0:01:48.160 I've seen the size of the ring. 0:01:49.200 --> 0:01:50.840 It's enormous. It's beautiful. 0:01:51.040 --> 0:01:54.360 It is it truly is enormous. But it like I 0:01:54.400 --> 0:01:55.080 only I saw. 0:01:55.240 --> 0:01:56.560 Like I said, I kept it to myself for the 0:01:56.640 --> 0:02:00.360 last week, and I only let Laura know earlier day, 0:02:00.440 --> 0:02:02.440 and I also let Mitch note earlier today. And in 0:02:02.520 --> 0:02:05.920 true style, I pranked Mitch because I just it's not 0:02:05.960 --> 0:02:07.880 in me to be like a true romantic and going 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:09.520 to live the news. So I did prank you to 0:02:09.560 --> 0:02:10.120 tell you the news. 0:02:10.200 --> 0:02:11.359 Took Mitch a little while. 0:02:11.160 --> 0:02:13.440 To pick up no idea what was going on. She 0:02:13.480 --> 0:02:15.040 was waving her hand in the air. I'm like, is 0:02:15.040 --> 0:02:16.200 there a fly in the studio? 0:02:16.240 --> 0:02:18.560 But you couldn't see that massive. When you say waving 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:20.079 it around, it was more like just dragging it along. 0:02:20.120 --> 0:02:23.320 The desk has its own orbit like gravitational ball. 0:02:23.760 --> 0:02:26.000 For the host of the pick up, Mitch, you don't 0:02:26.120 --> 0:02:27.120 pick up very quickly. 0:02:27.120 --> 0:02:28.320 I don't know. So we're going to play you that 0:02:28.320 --> 0:02:32.160 moment coming up. But we are celebrating Brittany Missus Secrets, he. 0:02:34.040 --> 0:02:35.280 Producer Secret. 0:02:36.520 --> 0:02:38.919 We've got a bunch of flowers. We're happy for you, 0:02:38.960 --> 0:02:39.400 we love you. 0:02:39.400 --> 0:02:40.520 You have to pre think about this. 0:02:41.440 --> 0:02:43.960 We prepared a lot. Take the flowers. We'll put a 0:02:43.960 --> 0:02:45.359 pick up on, We'll put a photo on the pick 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:46.000 up socials. 0:02:46.000 --> 0:02:46.239 Thank you. 0:02:46.280 --> 0:02:47.880 I feel like I just won Miss Universe. 0:02:48.200 --> 0:02:50.200 Well you did, you did. You got a hot boyfriend 0:02:50.200 --> 0:02:51.840 and you got a giant rock, so we. 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:53.400 I mean, you're winning it life right now. 0:02:53.440 --> 0:02:55.720 Britt give us a story later in the show. Okay, 0:02:55.760 --> 0:02:56.880 we want the full proposal story. 0:02:57.000 --> 0:02:58.760 We're going to get all the details coming up. 0:02:58.800 --> 0:03:00.640 All right, let's start the show. We're doing a normal 0:03:01.440 --> 0:03:03.440 ask gun cut. Next, we have a listener who needs 0:03:03.440 --> 0:03:04.680 some of our help, so we're going to get them 0:03:04.720 --> 0:03:06.920 on the show after this. Right around Australia, it's the 0:03:06.919 --> 0:03:12.160 pick Up with Missus Secret. If you're just tuning in, 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:14.000 it's a very special Thursday edition to the pick Up. 0:03:14.000 --> 0:03:15.200 Britney Hockley's in game. 0:03:16.080 --> 0:03:18.880 It's almost not Brittany Hockley anymore. And be Britney Secret. Yes, 0:03:18.919 --> 0:03:20.840 so the best day ever. It's so exciting. 0:03:20.919 --> 0:03:22.480 She's got a ring, she's got a full story the 0:03:22.520 --> 0:03:24.400 moment that Britt told me as well. I was pranked 0:03:24.400 --> 0:03:24.679 in all this. 0:03:24.919 --> 0:03:28.720 It's so beautiful, Like my face hurts from smiling. 0:03:28.880 --> 0:03:29.280 That is all. 0:03:29.360 --> 0:03:30.680 We're so happy for you, honey. 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:31.120 Come out. 0:03:31.160 --> 0:03:32.760 We'll get here about fifteen minutes. We have to do 0:03:32.800 --> 0:03:34.519 this as Uncut. 0:03:36.880 --> 0:03:39.880 We do this every Thursday, and despite the very good news, 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:41.080 today is no exception. 0:03:41.200 --> 0:03:42.960 And that is ask gun Cut. It's where you guys 0:03:42.960 --> 0:03:43.520 call up. 0:03:43.800 --> 0:03:46.440 You have your dilemmas, your biggest, deepest, darkest problems, and 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:48.520 we do our best to answer them. Now we have 0:03:48.600 --> 0:03:50.560 Tim on the line and he has a four month 0:03:50.600 --> 0:03:52.040 old baby. We need some help. 0:03:52.120 --> 0:03:54.720 Oh Timmy, Hi Tim, what's happening? 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:59.240 My wife and baby are obviously amazing, but she's doing 0:03:59.280 --> 0:04:01.400 so much and I'm just trying to get a bit 0:04:01.440 --> 0:04:03.960 of advice on how to sort of break up that 0:04:04.080 --> 0:04:06.160 monotony with a bit of a special date to take 0:04:06.200 --> 0:04:07.880 her out and show her how special she is. And 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:09.840 I know she's a fan of the show, so she'd 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:11.960 really love anything that sort of came from you guys. 0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:16.840 What you want us to pay for the day. So 0:04:16.880 --> 0:04:17.960 I guess she's a fan mate. 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:20.520 But I first of all, Tim, I want to say, 0:04:20.520 --> 0:04:22.880 this is incredible, the fact that you're even self aware 0:04:23.000 --> 0:04:25.200 enough to know that your partner is doing a great 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:26.279 job and needs some help. 0:04:26.960 --> 0:04:28.840 This doesn't happen often, but I'm going to throw over 0:04:28.880 --> 0:04:29.279 to Laura. 0:04:29.360 --> 0:04:31.000 Laura is the only one in the room that is 0:04:31.040 --> 0:04:33.520 a mum, and I feel like, you know what these 0:04:33.520 --> 0:04:34.719 people need in this moment. 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:39.560 Laura, you haven't slept for five years, no, I mean 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:41.599 four months. You were absolutely in the thick of it. 0:04:41.800 --> 0:04:46.960 I think back when I had my babies and and honestly, 0:04:48.040 --> 0:04:50.360 look that everyone wants different things because I think every 0:04:50.400 --> 0:04:52.400 mum is different, right, There's going to be different things 0:04:52.440 --> 0:04:54.839 that we all enjoy. But one thing that I think 0:04:55.040 --> 0:04:59.159 made my life so much easier was when Matt, my husband, 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:02.160 would come home. He would cook the meals, he would 0:05:02.160 --> 0:05:04.680 clean the house, he would do everything else. Like the 0:05:04.720 --> 0:05:06.880 only thing I had to focus on was making sure 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:08.040 I kept that baby alive. 0:05:08.160 --> 0:05:11.000 Because Lola didn't want to go to anyone else but me. 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:13.160 Supersmil job keeping a child alive. 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:15.600 Yeah, it's and it's around the clock right, you're not sleeping, 0:05:15.640 --> 0:05:18.280 but he did everything else for a period there, and 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:20.640 that just like it really really lightened the load. So 0:05:20.680 --> 0:05:23.000 I guess firstly, my big question to you is is 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:25.080 when you say your wife's doing an amazing job and 0:05:25.160 --> 0:05:28.000 you're you've got this beautiful, happy family household, do you 0:05:28.040 --> 0:05:29.800 feel as though you're stepping up to the plate and 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:32.040 doing all the extra bits to make her life as 0:05:32.080 --> 0:05:33.559 easy as possible in the first place. 0:05:34.720 --> 0:05:37.560 I mean, I like to think I am, yeah, But 0:05:38.160 --> 0:05:39.599 I guess it depends on what you don't know. 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:41.400 You don't know, right, Have you asked her? 0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:44.480 Well, I think you can always do more, tim that's 0:05:44.520 --> 0:05:45.039 a good take. 0:05:46.120 --> 0:05:48.440 Are you just offering? Because I'd assume that at least 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:50.320 the thought that all that the question would make her 0:05:50.360 --> 0:05:52.360 feel really seen, Like, are you asking if there's anything 0:05:52.400 --> 0:05:52.919 else you can do? 0:05:53.720 --> 0:05:56.160 I try to. I think it's I definitely try to 0:05:56.320 --> 0:05:59.239 like walk that line between obviously you know, not wanting 0:05:59.279 --> 0:06:03.640 to be what's the term weaponizing competence where you're constantly 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:05.760 happy to ask for the how you can be doing 0:06:05.760 --> 0:06:07.920 things rather than just doing them. Got Timmy, you. 0:06:07.880 --> 0:06:09.840 Sound like the most emotionally where a man we've ever 0:06:09.839 --> 0:06:10.640 spoken to on this show. 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:12.000 To be honest, you need help. 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:14.279 The other thing as well is and I mean I 0:06:14.320 --> 0:06:17.360 think all mums would attest to this, but like having 0:06:17.400 --> 0:06:20.360 your partner once you're up in the morning, like take 0:06:20.400 --> 0:06:22.440 the baby out of the house, go for a walk, 0:06:22.520 --> 0:06:25.039 just like sometimes it's not just the like doing things 0:06:25.040 --> 0:06:27.359 around you, but it's actually physically taking the baby away 0:06:27.400 --> 0:06:30.560 so that when and when you are at home or 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:32.800 in your space, you're not listening to a cry, you're 0:06:32.839 --> 0:06:35.320 not having to worry about it still being in your space, 0:06:35.680 --> 0:06:37.480 you've had your partner take that baby away for a 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:39.159 couple of hours so that you can actually spend some 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:41.800 time on yourself. Maybe it's booking a massage. Maybe it's 0:06:41.839 --> 0:06:44.200 like organizing for the two of you to get a 0:06:44.200 --> 0:06:45.919 babysitter for the night so you can go out. 0:06:45.760 --> 0:06:47.440 For a romantic dinner or something. 0:06:47.839 --> 0:06:49.720 But maybe she's not even up for that yet because 0:06:49.720 --> 0:06:51.160 she might be too bloody tired to get. 0:06:51.120 --> 0:06:52.640 Dressed and go out for dinner. But no, I think 0:06:52.680 --> 0:06:53.360 that's exactly right. 0:06:53.920 --> 0:06:54.200 Space. 0:06:54.279 --> 0:06:57.080 Yeah, I think gets get take the baby for a 0:06:57.120 --> 0:06:59.160 walk for an hour or so, but don't just leave 0:06:59.200 --> 0:07:01.240 her to own device, says book her in for a 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:04.040 facial or a massage so she can relax, enjoy her 0:07:04.080 --> 0:07:06.320 own time. Check out for hot second before she goes 0:07:06.360 --> 0:07:07.960 back to the craziness of a new life. 0:07:08.000 --> 0:07:11.280 Don't just don't don't don't dote doting dad, doting dad, 0:07:11.280 --> 0:07:13.080 be a doting dad, Tim, Can you do that? 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:15.360 I'll do my best. Thank you. 0:07:15.400 --> 0:07:17.560 What a man God that get her a message? That 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:19.720 is one man that listens to some podcasts and reads 0:07:19.760 --> 0:07:21.960 self help books. He sounds so new age. Hey, you 0:07:22.000 --> 0:07:23.640 got a question? Sorry? You can hit us up on 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:25.880 the pickup, You can DMS or you can text us 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:28.400 on four nine nine double four one o six five 0:07:28.600 --> 0:07:30.600 four nine nine four four one six five. 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:32.040 And you might have heard the big news. 0:07:32.440 --> 0:07:34.440 But if you haven't yet, I'm about to tell you 0:07:34.800 --> 0:07:37.040 Brittany Hockley is no longer well she will be. 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:38.760 She's speaking about a seven third person though. 0:07:39.600 --> 0:07:40.680 Do you want us to talk about it? 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:45.160 Brittany Hockley is about to become Brittany Segres because I 0:07:45.200 --> 0:07:46.920 got engaged to my beautiful partner Ben. 0:07:46.960 --> 0:07:48.520 I'm a fiance. Yeah, I know, and I know. 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:50.560 The thing that everyone is actually waiting to hear is 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:52.920 how did it happen? Like the story about choosing the ring, 0:07:53.000 --> 0:07:54.440 all of those things. I'm going to be talking about 0:07:54.440 --> 0:07:54.800 it next. 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:56.880 Yeah, and the moment that I actually sprung in on 0:07:56.920 --> 0:07:58.160 our good friend Mitch Jury. 0:07:58.440 --> 0:08:01.680 Yeah, thanks for that one, my heart. We'll play the 0:08:01.680 --> 0:08:05.440 audio for your next on the Pickup today. Very excited 0:08:05.480 --> 0:08:08.200 because I got engaged. 0:08:07.840 --> 0:08:11.960 And by I'm talking about Brittany Britney Segris. You can 0:08:12.000 --> 0:08:15.040 call me very soon. The biggest, most beautiful day of 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:18.480 my life happened and my beautiful partner Ben got on 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:20.320 one day and ask him to marry him. And I've 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:22.480 had to keep it to myself because I wanted to 0:08:22.520 --> 0:08:24.400 tell you guys, Laura and Mitch, I see you more 0:08:24.440 --> 0:08:27.680 than anyone, and I wanted to share the biggest day 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:29.960 of my life with you in person. Okay, the most humiliated, 0:08:30.120 --> 0:08:32.520 humiliating part of this is that it happened on the weekend. 0:08:32.600 --> 0:08:34.760 Britt wanted to tell us on Monday on the show, 0:08:35.440 --> 0:08:38.880 but I got gastro and I had to take Monday Tuesday. 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:40.720 Because I have remembered that. In the Pickup group chat, 0:08:40.720 --> 0:08:42.880 Britt was so piaceed. Laura's like I'm sick, I've got 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:45.520 gastro in. BRIT's like how bad is it? Could you 0:08:45.559 --> 0:08:46.280 come just to the show. 0:08:47.000 --> 0:08:49.320 What's the frequency of poops? I was like, I can't 0:08:49.320 --> 0:08:49.840 hold it together. 0:08:49.880 --> 0:08:51.840 Guys, No, Brittin, you were actually considering that you had 0:08:52.400 --> 0:08:55.280 literally the biggest news that you've ever had in our 0:08:55.440 --> 0:08:58.200 entire for our six year friendship. You took it very 0:08:58.200 --> 0:09:00.840 well that I wasn't coming to work that day. You 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:04.160 rest up, do you? But you know what I honestly 0:09:04.360 --> 0:09:06.400 the way in which you surprise me. We do the 0:09:06.440 --> 0:09:09.840 podcast together Life and Cut podcast every Monday. Every Wednesday, 0:09:09.880 --> 0:09:13.839 we record the pod, and on Wednesday morning, we were 0:09:13.840 --> 0:09:16.720 doing our normal Ask Guncut episode where we answer listener 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:20.560 questions and I can't believe that you managed to get 0:09:20.559 --> 0:09:23.679 to the end of the recording and then you snuck 0:09:23.679 --> 0:09:24.040 it in there. 0:09:24.160 --> 0:09:26.760 I pulled one over, the ultimate, the ultimate pull over, laur, 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:28.800 I have a listen. Then, in twenty twenty two, I 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:32.040 met this amazing guy, but he lived overseas. My friends 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:34.800 were really concerned because long distance is never easy and 0:09:34.840 --> 0:09:37.880 I've always had commitment issues, But this time it felt 0:09:37.920 --> 0:09:40.560 different and I thought he was worth it. Flash forward 0:09:40.559 --> 0:09:43.120 to now and I've never been happier. And last week 0:09:43.200 --> 0:09:45.600 on a beautiful island he asked me to be his wife. 0:09:45.679 --> 0:09:47.760 You just want to know, what's a cute way to 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:49.600 tell my friends that I'm getting married? 0:10:02.360 --> 0:10:03.520 Spoiler, it's me. 0:10:08.960 --> 0:10:12.559 How did you leave it to the question because she's 0:10:12.559 --> 0:10:13.400 got diarrhea? 0:10:13.440 --> 0:10:15.560 I was gonna tell you on Monday. 0:10:16.160 --> 0:10:19.200 It took me, Okay, I like looked up because I 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:21.040 was kind of like half listening to the question, but 0:10:21.080 --> 0:10:24.800 also also I was reading No, I was reading the 0:10:24.840 --> 0:10:26.960 next question, which I had to voice, and I looked 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:28.679 up and Britt was crying, and I was like, this 0:10:28.760 --> 0:10:28.920 is it? 0:10:29.800 --> 0:10:32.480 And then it clicked up. She goes, why are you crying? 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:35.400 It took five seconds for the penny to drop, and 0:10:35.440 --> 0:10:36.640 then I started crying. 0:10:36.679 --> 0:10:38.280 And then by the end of it, I was leaking 0:10:38.280 --> 0:10:39.000 from every our. 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:41.160 First I was crying, I was winning, I was it 0:10:41.280 --> 0:10:42.440 was just it was all happening. 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:44.960 Well then you got me as well, Yeah, because I 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:47.000 and part of me felt bad for not just like 0:10:47.120 --> 0:10:49.040 getting on the phone and telling you guys straight away, 0:10:49.080 --> 0:10:50.240 but that's not how we roll here. 0:10:50.440 --> 0:10:52.440 I wanted to do in person, and obviously I wanted 0:10:52.480 --> 0:10:52.920 to capture it. 0:10:53.040 --> 0:10:54.679 And you've got a radio show, and that is your 0:10:54.720 --> 0:10:57.280 living cameras and where. 0:10:57.160 --> 0:10:57.920 Is the microphone. 0:10:58.960 --> 0:11:01.160 Then here's the moment I got mich which took a 0:11:01.200 --> 0:11:02.280 lot longer than I had a hope. 0:11:02.440 --> 0:11:05.720 Well, I think for context were recording something, but we 0:11:05.760 --> 0:11:07.640 never you said we need to pre record this for 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:09.680 the radio show. Yeah, and we'll air it later on. 0:11:09.760 --> 0:11:11.280 I'm like, Okay, this will go to air. But this, 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:12.800 this was all fake. This was never gonna make. 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:13.080 It to air. 0:11:13.160 --> 0:11:16.319 Yeah, it was fake. I have a had the best 0:11:16.320 --> 0:11:17.320 weekend of my life. 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:19.240 Like I think I told you guys about Hamilton il 0:11:19.240 --> 0:11:21.720 On how I crashed that person's wedding photo shoot. 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:24.600 Yeah you did on Monday. You told us that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, So. 0:11:24.559 --> 0:11:27.720 I told you all about that. And what I didn't 0:11:27.720 --> 0:11:29.959 tell you is so many people sent me photos. 0:11:29.480 --> 0:11:32.400 In about like with me in the background. 0:11:32.480 --> 0:11:33.320 Yeah yeah. 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:37.080 And are you recording? 0:11:37.200 --> 0:11:37.400 Yeah? 0:11:38.080 --> 0:11:40.240 Are you recording? What are you missing something? Are you 0:11:40.280 --> 0:11:42.079 recording this? Mitchy? I think you stop. 0:11:45.600 --> 0:11:49.760 She's got a ring on, she's engaging at the market. 0:11:53.360 --> 0:11:56.400 You took so long to get that, Mitch, I'm so offended. 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:58.120 Okay, But the thing about this, brute, I mean, we 0:11:58.600 --> 0:12:00.200 genuinely for the two of you, we could not be 0:12:00.280 --> 0:12:04.440 more happy. But Mitch and I both had the inkling, 0:12:04.480 --> 0:12:06.280 like we both knew in our own ways that it 0:12:06.400 --> 0:12:08.800 was coming. We just didn't know it was coming last weekend. 0:12:08.840 --> 0:12:10.360 And the fact that you managed to keep it to 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:13.880 yourself for so many days, Like you got us so well, 0:12:13.920 --> 0:12:14.520 because even. 0:12:14.360 --> 0:12:15.920 Though we knew, we couldn't have been more shocked. That's 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:17.559 because I'm a trained actor. But yes, please go. 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:20.560 On, because I knew I had the trained idiot you 0:12:20.600 --> 0:12:22.800 are not. I had the date, so I was talking 0:12:22.840 --> 0:12:24.280 to Ben. I knew the date. I knew it was 0:12:24.280 --> 0:12:26.280 the six of the six. So then when it didn't happen, 0:12:26.400 --> 0:12:29.800 I messaged Ben and was like, I emoji, what's going on? 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:32.480 And he's like, oh, we had a running we didn't 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:34.160 we didn't get time. The trip was amazing, and I 0:12:34.200 --> 0:12:34.920 was like, wow. 0:12:34.800 --> 0:12:36.640 We have been texting each other and we were like, 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:37.920 oh my god, he didn't do it. 0:12:37.920 --> 0:12:39.800 It didn't happen. It didn't happen. 0:12:40.400 --> 0:12:43.440 So the fact that you managed to keep it in yeah, 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:46.079 I mean, Britt, it doesn't matter how you told us, 0:12:46.200 --> 0:12:49.200 We could not be more happy for you and for like, yeah, 0:12:49.240 --> 0:12:51.439 we know how much you have been I don't want 0:12:51.440 --> 0:12:53.280 to say like looking for love. It's such a dumb 0:12:53.320 --> 0:12:55.400 thing to say, but like as much as you've always 0:12:55.400 --> 0:12:57.560 been like the hopeless romantic, you've very much, for quite 0:12:57.559 --> 0:13:00.079 a few years spoken about how it hasn't always go 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:02.000 on your way and like this is your fairy tale 0:13:02.040 --> 0:13:05.240 and it truly Then is an amazing guy, and. 0:13:05.440 --> 0:13:06.960 We're so so happy for you both. 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:09.000 And I think you know it happened when it was 0:13:09.040 --> 0:13:09.680 meant to happen. 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:11.440 But I can't wait to tell you guys more about it. 0:13:11.440 --> 0:13:13.439 Ben is coming in very very soon. We getting to 0:13:13.480 --> 0:13:14.360 get to talk to him in person. 0:13:14.480 --> 0:13:17.920 Yeah, we're going to hear the full story. Ben's BRIT's fiance. Ben, and. 0:13:20.080 --> 0:13:22.560 About the ring what everyone wants to hear about, right, 0:13:22.640 --> 0:13:23.719 thank you, no one even cares. 0:13:23.800 --> 0:13:27.640 Let's put someone like shut up the ring, Ben joins us. 0:13:27.640 --> 0:13:32.360 Next on the pick up, we're celebrating Brittany Hockley. Our 0:13:32.440 --> 0:13:34.040 very own is engaged. 0:13:34.280 --> 0:13:37.040 It's no longer the pick Up, it's the Brittany Hockley's 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:37.800 getting married show. 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:40.760 Brittie Hockley's a fiance. 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:44.960 Oh my god, I never say that and throw your 0:13:45.360 --> 0:13:48.520 you got a ring on it? You haven't done more. 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:50.240 I am white and I am a fiance. 0:13:50.400 --> 0:13:54.200 I'm just spitting fact, Britt got engaged. Yeah, we don't 0:13:54.200 --> 0:13:56.320 have the story, so you surprised. Laura and I. We 0:13:56.400 --> 0:13:58.880 played that out before. We need to hear the story. 0:13:58.960 --> 0:14:02.440 Your beautiful Beyonce Ben is here in studio with us. 0:14:02.520 --> 0:14:03.080 Welcome Ben. 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:04.800 Hello, guys, guys. 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:07.560 I feel like we've I don't want to say we've known. 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:11.600 We haven't known about when it was happening, but no, 0:14:11.679 --> 0:14:15.160 but we have known it has going to be happening. So, Britt, 0:14:15.160 --> 0:14:17.160 I don't know if you're aware of this, but maybe 0:14:17.520 --> 0:14:20.320 two and a half months ago, Ben slid into my 0:14:20.520 --> 0:14:24.520 DMS and was like, Hey, I'm going to propose to Britt, 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:28.600 and I want to talk about rings and being sneaking, 0:14:28.680 --> 0:14:31.200 being the fact that I moonlight as a jury designer. 0:14:31.240 --> 0:14:36.160 That's my that's my real job's a radio host. 0:14:36.200 --> 0:14:37.440 Your job is jewelry. 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:40.280 So I was in the DMS with Ben trying to 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:42.240 sort out, you know, like we're trying to give some 0:14:42.320 --> 0:14:44.720 advice around like what type of stone might work in 0:14:44.800 --> 0:14:47.800 terms of like the cart. Also, at the time, this 0:14:47.840 --> 0:14:50.400 is something you definitely don't know. You were in the 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:52.440 African jungle doing I'm a celebrity, Get me out of 0:14:52.440 --> 0:14:55.680 here and so I had access to your Instagram because 0:14:55.680 --> 0:14:56.840 I was taking care of it at the time. 0:14:56.960 --> 0:14:58.040 I was worried about that. 0:14:58.120 --> 0:15:01.160 Actually, well, it's very good thing that you had a 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:05.200 lot of engagement rings saved in your saved items and Instagram. 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:07.960 So I went back through and I screenshot everyone, and 0:15:08.080 --> 0:15:10.480 there is the radio. She's like, you had a power 0:15:11.440 --> 0:15:12.000 of engagement. 0:15:12.120 --> 0:15:14.320 I saw it too. It was Australian shepherd dogs and 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:15.200 it was engagement. 0:15:15.400 --> 0:15:17.520 It was it was like a stream of stream and 0:15:17.560 --> 0:15:20.160 stream of just engagement rings like scroll and scroll and scroll. 0:15:20.240 --> 0:15:22.200 But honestly, they were all a very similar shape. They're 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:23.920 all a very similar style, and so I just sent 0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:25.920 them all to bend. So thank you, Britt for doing 0:15:26.000 --> 0:15:29.600 all the due diligence of being very thorough in exactly 0:15:29.680 --> 0:15:30.160 what you wanted. 0:15:30.320 --> 0:15:34.000 Yeah, so, Britt, isn't it I mean, look, you could 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:36.440 have you could have sent the same kind of rings, 0:15:36.440 --> 0:15:38.280 the same shapes, but you say, I think you saved 0:15:38.360 --> 0:15:40.120 like different shapes and all that kind of stuff. So 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:41.880 I was like, she's not doing it the easy one, 0:15:41.960 --> 0:15:43.520 you know, she's not doing it easy for me, Like 0:15:43.560 --> 0:15:45.400 it's different carts and all that kind of stuff. 0:15:45.400 --> 0:15:47.160 You had like an oval then you had like. 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:49.120 I don't know, but you know what the common theme 0:15:49.320 --> 0:15:51.440 was is that they were all massive the stone. 0:15:53.560 --> 0:15:55.720 No, I did have to be fair. 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:58.280 Yes, I had some squares, I had ovals, I had 0:15:58.440 --> 0:15:59.080 different shapes. 0:15:59.120 --> 0:16:00.960 Yeah, very confusing for someone who doesn't know a lot 0:16:00.960 --> 0:16:03.240 about rings. But that's why I reached out to you, Laura, 0:16:03.320 --> 0:16:04.480 because I knew you could help. 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:07.600 I knew he was it was gold you preferred. 0:16:08.200 --> 0:16:11.119 Obviously I was speaking to you to your sister Sherry, 0:16:11.560 --> 0:16:13.560