WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Matty J and Meghan Trainor 🎵 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:20.520 Laura, come on here, Hi ladies, Hi everyone. 0:00:21.720 --> 0:00:24.000 Thanks for the coffee. Girls. One of the girls got 0:00:24.040 --> 0:00:25.720 me a coffee to start the show. It's very nice. 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:26.279 Who got the. 0:00:26.280 --> 0:00:28.680 Coffee should be fin about it. You'll never know from 0:00:28.680 --> 0:00:31.160 the business account. So we all paid for the coffee mutually. 0:00:32.000 --> 0:00:33.720 Well, I'm not part of that business. That's Life Uncut 0:00:33.720 --> 0:00:34.760 Proprietary Limited. Yeah. 0:00:34.800 --> 0:00:36.560 I mean we are keeping a tally though, and we 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:38.920 would like that to be deducted from your salary. 0:00:39.320 --> 0:00:41.159 You don't get paid. Yeah, you seem like shocked, like, 0:00:41.200 --> 0:00:42.720 oh my god, the girls brought me coffee. We bring 0:00:42.720 --> 0:00:44.640 it every day. Yeah, you're acting like this is something 0:00:44.720 --> 0:00:46.840 like it's a rarity. But every single. 0:00:46.600 --> 0:00:48.440 Show, answer me, who got me the coffee? 0:00:48.720 --> 0:00:50.640 Laura today? But the business paid for it? 0:00:50.760 --> 0:00:52.400 L did interesting because it's not my order. 0:00:52.640 --> 0:00:54.440 It's an almond maciato. 0:00:54.600 --> 0:01:02.760 I don't drink fancy little you don't drink. 0:01:00.640 --> 0:01:02.520 Shoot, so strong. 0:01:03.760 --> 0:01:05.080 Up, get on with your life. 0:01:05.440 --> 0:01:06.320 Very first world problem. 0:01:06.400 --> 0:01:07.440 Someone touched some grass. 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:10.440 Laura actually recently got me the wrong order coffee too, 0:01:10.440 --> 0:01:12.319 and I was like, I still drink it because it's 0:01:12.400 --> 0:01:14.560 to me, I say the wrong order. I drink any 0:01:14.560 --> 0:01:17.680 milk that is not like proper dairy milk, so any 0:01:17.760 --> 0:01:20.720 yet non dairy. I've always been all the last three years, 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:22.959 I've been a sowet. But Laura got me an almond 0:01:23.000 --> 0:01:24.800 and I was like, I was like, thank you. I 0:01:24.840 --> 0:01:26.360 was like, you know, I'm a say now though, She goes, 0:01:26.360 --> 0:01:27.959 you've always been almond, and I was like, haven't had 0:01:27.959 --> 0:01:29.039 an almond coffee three years? 0:01:29.040 --> 0:01:30.720 But I don't know what you guys are trying to establish. 0:01:30.760 --> 0:01:32.800 You're trying to establish I don't pay attention to like, 0:01:34.440 --> 0:01:35.959 not at all. Who what's your name again? 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:38.399 It's very true. I love you. 0:01:38.640 --> 0:01:40.720 I love you to I'll have that coffee fakes because 0:01:40.720 --> 0:01:42.240 I'm running on zerously, so you can pass it over. 0:01:42.280 --> 0:01:44.680 You're going to complain, all right, let's go up next. 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:45.839 You've got someone to complain about. 0:01:46.000 --> 0:01:48.600 Oh yeah, just something that everyone does that I've really 0:01:48.640 --> 0:01:51.480 noticed has started to tick me off. It probably shouldn't, 0:01:51.800 --> 0:01:54.440 but I'm here to complain what I've come here for today. 0:01:54.440 --> 0:01:56.280 I often thought maybe I'm a bit like Brittany Honky. 0:01:56.360 --> 0:01:57.640 This is a great way to put it to the test. 0:01:57.720 --> 0:01:59.360 Yeah yeah, yeah, next here at the pickup. 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:02.640 So this happened to me on the weekend and I 0:02:02.640 --> 0:02:06.160 had this huge realization that this is probably want to 0:02:06.200 --> 0:02:10.480 go out because people make me feel uncomfortable. Mitch, you were, 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:12.079 and that's not a blakest saint. 0:02:12.160 --> 0:02:13.519 You didn't go out on the weekend though. There's a 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:15.359 reason I went out on the weekend. Went to a party. 0:02:15.760 --> 0:02:15.919 Uh. 0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:17.399 I was there and Mitch was there. 0:02:17.440 --> 0:02:19.320 We went to It was a mutual friends party and 0:02:19.360 --> 0:02:22.000 it was a great night. But when I left, I 0:02:22.000 --> 0:02:25.960 had this really like awkward encounter with somebody that I 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:28.880 don't know very well, like I know them through someone 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:30.320 else that they would just at the party to the 0:02:30.360 --> 0:02:32.840 point of like I'd never met them in person. 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:35.960 I just knew them from all qua an online acquaintance. 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:39.120 I didn't even follow them online. Oh yeah, it just 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:41.639 like knew them through people. How long did you get 0:02:41.680 --> 0:02:43.760 talking to this person for a little while? 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:48.320 It was at the end anyway, when we were leaving, 0:02:48.720 --> 0:02:51.160 I went up and said goodbye to a lot of people, 0:02:51.320 --> 0:02:53.120 so I didn't just smoke bomb and I said goodbye, 0:02:53.280 --> 0:02:57.760 and he was like, a, Hey, it's been so great 0:02:57.880 --> 0:02:58.400 to talk to you. 0:02:58.440 --> 0:02:59.320 I'm going to miss you. 0:03:00.040 --> 0:03:02.040 And I just looked at him and I was like, y'all, 0:03:02.040 --> 0:03:04.000 I'll see you around and I was like, weird that 0:03:04.040 --> 0:03:04.720 he said miss you. 0:03:04.720 --> 0:03:07.480 You don't know me. Then he said okay, babe, love you, 0:03:08.320 --> 0:03:10.080 and I said bye. 0:03:10.600 --> 0:03:12.160 So he told me he missed me and he loved 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:13.639 me in like twenty seconds. 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:14.799 Now I don't know this person. 0:03:14.840 --> 0:03:18.000 And then I I was so awkward and uncomfortable, and 0:03:18.000 --> 0:03:20.720 I was like, why do people throw away these terms 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:21.680 of I love you and. 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:22.120 I miss you? 0:03:22.120 --> 0:03:23.480 You know, when you run into someone and they're like, 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:24.760 can't wait to catch up, You're. 0:03:24.639 --> 0:03:26.400 Like, you know, we're never going to catch up. I 0:03:26.440 --> 0:03:27.839 think you're overthinking it a bit though. 0:03:27.880 --> 0:03:30.320 I love you, yeah, but people just throw it around 0:03:30.320 --> 0:03:31.840 as like a term of endearment kind of thing, like 0:03:31.880 --> 0:03:34.280 I love you, like he clearly doesn't love you. Sorry 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:35.960 to break into your brain why she thought maybe he 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:37.360 did he doesn't love you. 0:03:37.400 --> 0:03:39.600 But no, it's the same. It's exactly what you just mentioned. 0:03:39.640 --> 0:03:41.520 It's when you run into an old sex, someone from 0:03:41.520 --> 0:03:43.760 school or someone who's from your past, and you go, 0:03:43.840 --> 0:03:45.200 oh my god, so good to see you. We should 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:47.560 get coffee, and you both know you're never going to 0:03:47.600 --> 0:03:50.160 get coffee. It's just something you say to wrap up 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:50.800 the conversation. 0:03:50.960 --> 0:03:52.640 I can't bring myself to say back if I don't 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:52.920 mean it. 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:55.280 But you don't have to just what He said it 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:57.080 to me too, and I just said I love you, 0:03:57.320 --> 0:03:57.800 did you? 0:03:57.880 --> 0:04:00.000 Yeah, of course I don't love him. You don't have to. 0:04:00.240 --> 0:04:01.200 You don't have to say it back. 0:04:01.280 --> 0:04:03.600 If someone says to you I love you, you have 0:04:03.640 --> 0:04:05.840 to say it no, no, because yes you do. Because 0:04:05.880 --> 0:04:07.880 if it's in a relationship with a partner, it's different. 0:04:07.920 --> 0:04:10.200 But can I break it to you, girls, different levels 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:12.080 of love exist, you know, either of the two of you. 0:04:12.320 --> 0:04:14.839 I also love my partner. I also love the girl 0:04:14.880 --> 0:04:17.039 that made me a killer and cat this morning at 0:04:17.080 --> 0:04:17.440 the cafe. 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:19.000 You don't love her, I will. 0:04:19.400 --> 0:04:22.560 I was dating someone before my current partner bent very briefly, 0:04:22.640 --> 0:04:26.279 and like three weeks into this very brief dating, he 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:28.279 said to me in the back of the car and 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:30.000 he said he looked at me and he said I 0:04:30.000 --> 0:04:32.479 love you. And I burst into laughter and I was 0:04:32.480 --> 0:04:34.560 because I wasn't expecting it, and I said, no, you don't. 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:37.120 He's like, yes I do. I said, no, no. 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:37.360 You don't. 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:39.200 We ended up having a back and forth and I. 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:42.240 Was like, you can't possibly love and I refused to 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:42.800 say it back. 0:04:42.920 --> 0:04:44.760 I cannot return I love you. 0:04:45.080 --> 0:04:46.840 If I don't love you, you guys are old school? Can 0:04:46.880 --> 0:04:50.160 I tell you? Like jen Z, the young Ones, the Zillennials, 0:04:50.400 --> 0:04:52.680 you just throw it around. The world is better when 0:04:53.000 --> 0:04:54.160 you love You're sorry. 0:04:54.360 --> 0:04:57.599 It's just a overbear. I love you. I say it. 0:04:57.680 --> 0:04:59.960 No, I say it to people I know, like I'm like, okay, 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:01.600 love you, love you, love you, key things, Bye, I 0:05:01.640 --> 0:05:03.880 say it like that. But this was different and you 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:05.480 saw it, Mitch. He goes, Okay, I love you, I 0:05:05.600 --> 0:05:08.520 miss I'll miss you. You know it was a real moment. 0:05:08.680 --> 0:05:10.800 This is so rich coming from the Girls, whose podcast 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:12.480 tagline is we love love. 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:14.719 We love real love, we don't love fake love. 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:16.960 Wow, we created equal. 0:05:17.200 --> 0:05:19.119 Not all love is created equal. 0:05:19.680 --> 0:05:20.880 Tell book me in the eyes and tell me you 0:05:20.880 --> 0:05:21.120 love me. 0:05:21.160 --> 0:05:22.880 But I do love you. I love you, Mitch. 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:25.280 That's not awkward for me because that's the truth. I 0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:27.880 love you, guys. Also, I mean, I do think it's 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:29.520 it's just a bit overbearing. I do think a lot 0:05:29.520 --> 0:05:31.799 of people throw it around. They don't mean it. Would 0:05:31.839 --> 0:05:34.960 I be as what I have an existential crisis over it? 0:05:35.000 --> 0:05:37.720 Probably not, but I felt very uncomfortable. Yeah, well so 0:05:37.800 --> 0:05:39.240 you said nothing and you just walked away. 0:05:39.240 --> 0:05:41.280 We had this really awkward moment where he looked at 0:05:41.279 --> 0:05:44.080 me to say it back, and I was like, okay, fine. 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:46.480 He was like, I saw it was awkward. 0:05:47.600 --> 0:05:49.520 He said to me because we left together, said to 0:05:49.520 --> 0:05:51.760 me the stairwell, he said, I loved you, Like, can 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:53.039 you believe it? I said yeah, he said it to 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:53.360 me too. 0:05:53.440 --> 0:05:55.479 I didn't get it, as in, you didn't get why 0:05:55.560 --> 0:05:56.880 she was so weird it out by it. 0:05:57.000 --> 0:05:59.960 Why well, okay, mish, let's let's put this to the test. 0:06:00.000 --> 0:06:01.760 Why don't we get you to call someone and tell 0:06:01.800 --> 0:06:03.000 them you love them and see what happens. 0:06:03.120 --> 0:06:05.000 Who can he call but someone that's not like a 0:06:05.040 --> 0:06:06.159 direct love in my life? 0:06:06.200 --> 0:06:07.560 Well, you can't call someone you love and say you 0:06:07.600 --> 0:06:07.920 love them. 0:06:08.160 --> 0:06:09.720 Call Little Saint Steve and or my parents. 0:06:09.720 --> 0:06:11.920 You can call my husband tell him that you love him. 0:06:12.279 --> 0:06:14.560 You probably do love Matty J, though, do you know 0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:16.640 that's the problem. That's what's more awkward is that I 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:18.600 actually think you do love him, and he will find 0:06:18.600 --> 0:06:19.120 that awkward. 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:21.719 He'll probably love you badt. No, we talk a lot, 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:24.400 but I've never said I love Yes. Let me tell 0:06:24.400 --> 0:06:26.240 mattiy J I love him. That's every gay man's dream 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:29.120 and I'm about to do it live on the radio. Let's 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:31.080 do it, Okay, I've got his number. I don't even 0:06:31.080 --> 0:06:32.600 need to get it from you, Laura. That's because she 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:36.200 loves all right, let's go to a break, producer, Grace, 0:06:36.240 --> 0:06:37.560 can you connect it all when we come back with 0:06:38.279 --> 0:06:38.600 Matty J. 0:06:38.680 --> 0:06:39.040 We love him. 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:41.400 I'm declaring my love for Maddie J. I'm the pick up. 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:43.920 If you're just joining us. 0:06:44.000 --> 0:06:46.960 We've been talking about throwing away the term I love 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:48.440 you when I miss you to people that you do 0:06:48.480 --> 0:06:50.280 not love and you do not miss because I think 0:06:50.320 --> 0:06:52.760 the term I love love and I love telling people 0:06:52.760 --> 0:06:55.520 I love that I love them. But when you've met 0:06:55.520 --> 0:06:57.279 a stranger or someone you don't know when they say 0:06:57.279 --> 0:06:59.240 that they miss you when they love you, I just 0:06:59.360 --> 0:06:59.919 can't recipt. 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:02.320 Bridge just thinks that the I love yous are being 0:07:02.360 --> 0:07:04.280 thrown around a bit to willy nilly these days. 0:07:04.279 --> 0:07:04.640 Oh they are. 0:07:04.680 --> 0:07:06.719 There's it's such a frivolous word. 0:07:07.720 --> 0:07:10.240 I live a long, happy life saying I love you 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:12.800 to randoms I meet because it's fun to just give love. 0:07:12.960 --> 0:07:15.200 But also like I just don't think people don't take 0:07:15.240 --> 0:07:17.000 it that seriously. It's like when you ask someone how 0:07:17.040 --> 0:07:18.640 they are, and everyone just says I'm good, Like no 0:07:18.680 --> 0:07:19.600 one actually says. 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:21.280 Well, actually I yes. 0:07:20.960 --> 0:07:21.400 No I am. 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:23.160 But when you go to a cafe and you get 0:07:23.160 --> 0:07:24.720 a coffee in the morning and they say like, oh, 0:07:24.720 --> 0:07:26.840 you're having a good day, that they don't expect you 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:29.000 to go no, it's been horrible and like here's my 0:07:29.040 --> 0:07:31.600 therapy session. They expect you to say, yeah, good. There's 0:07:31.640 --> 0:07:34.120 just like pleasant trees that we exchange along the way. 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:36.080 Why and I love you and miss you? Isn't a 0:07:36.080 --> 0:07:38.560 pleasant tree? You bestole a pot from the person that 0:07:38.600 --> 0:07:41.280 makes your coffee. Okay, so we've told we've said that 0:07:41.360 --> 0:07:44.119 Midge Mitch is pro throwing the love term around. 0:07:44.160 --> 0:07:46.760 So I said, you're gonna call Manny j Laura's husband. 0:07:46.560 --> 0:07:49.640 Because because the reason for this is is that I 0:07:49.760 --> 0:07:52.200 love you makes some people feel awkward. 0:07:52.440 --> 0:07:54.040 I think I'm going to call it now. 0:07:54.080 --> 0:07:55.720 I think if you call Mannie Jane, te him you 0:07:55.760 --> 0:07:57.720 love him, I think it's going to be reciprocated. I 0:07:57.720 --> 0:08:00.480 think he'll say back, what do you think, Laura? Yeah, 0:08:00.560 --> 0:08:02.400 I kind of do as well. To be honest, let's 0:08:02.400 --> 0:08:04.280 call mate Jay. You guys have to be quiet. 0:08:03.880 --> 0:08:09.440 Claim Hi, Matt's influence a hotline. 0:08:09.440 --> 0:08:10.080 How can I help you? 0:08:10.080 --> 0:08:10.360 Please? 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:12.280 Hello? How are you good? 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:12.560 Thanks? 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:12.760 Mate? 0:08:13.200 --> 0:08:14.800 Hey, sorry, I know you're busy. I'll be quick. I 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:16.280 have a joke that I need your opinion on. I 0:08:16.280 --> 0:08:18.680 don't know if it's it needs a bit of tweaking. 0:08:18.720 --> 0:08:22.080 It's just for the radio show, okay, so it's it 0:08:22.080 --> 0:08:25.880 could be dumb. I just need your thoughts. Elton John 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:28.240 was asked if he wanted a side of letters with 0:08:28.320 --> 0:08:28.640 his steak. 0:08:28.720 --> 0:08:28.880 Right. 0:08:28.880 --> 0:08:30.560 He was at a restaurant and they went, do you 0:08:30.600 --> 0:08:34.720 want let us with your steak? Elton right? And he said, no, thanks, 0:08:34.720 --> 0:08:35.520 I'm a rocket man. 0:08:37.600 --> 0:08:40.360 Good right, very good, very good. 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:43.000 Yeah, yeah, is that all right? I'm going to submit 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:44.920 it for like's I got to do it on air, 0:08:44.960 --> 0:08:46.000 and I just want to see it words. All right, 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:48.120 thanks man, all right, I'll let you go. I love you. 0:08:49.559 --> 0:08:49.839 That's it? 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:53.160 Yeah man, easy, okay, all right, love. 0:08:53.040 --> 0:09:05.840 You, love you, buddy, I love you, Matkahu. 0:09:06.280 --> 0:09:08.760 You need to call him back and I need more 0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:10.760 from this because he knows you. 0:09:10.679 --> 0:09:14.760 Said I love you. See that is how I felt. 0:09:15.040 --> 0:09:17.319 That is how I felt. That's how I call him back. 0:09:18.000 --> 0:09:20.959 Little He said, A joke was good though it was 0:09:21.040 --> 0:09:21.880 very funny. It was funny. 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:28.840 I was chucking so much. Hello you miss say goodbye? Yeah, 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:30.320 I said goodbye, love you. You hung up? 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:36.800 Sorry I heard that. I chose I chose to ignore that. 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:38.800 What do you mean you chose to ignore that? 0:09:40.200 --> 0:09:43.480 Well, I just I didn't want to make it awkward 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:46.600 and say thanks, so I just hung up. 0:09:46.720 --> 0:09:49.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah, sorry to spoil this, but you just 0:09:49.000 --> 0:09:50.560 say it back. You just say love you too. 0:09:52.440 --> 0:09:53.480 Uh. 0:09:54.040 --> 0:09:57.680 I don't like obviously we've in friends for a little while, 0:09:57.760 --> 0:10:00.000 but I just feel like when the time is right 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:03.160 for us, we'll both know. And I felt like it 0:10:03.200 --> 0:10:04.880 would have been rushing it if fast to say it 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:05.400 just now. 0:10:05.960 --> 0:10:08.440 Once a bachelor, always a bachelor. You know you gave 0:10:08.520 --> 0:10:12.240 that line so many women on TV. Does not work 0:10:12.280 --> 0:10:13.080 with me, buddy. 0:10:13.640 --> 0:10:16.960 Look, really, I'm really happy with how our relationship has 0:10:17.000 --> 0:10:19.079 been progressing. But I just feel like if I was 0:10:19.160 --> 0:10:20.840 to say it back to you right now, it would 0:10:20.840 --> 0:10:23.320 be disingenuous and I don't want to be that person. 0:10:24.000 --> 0:10:26.600 But look, let's just see how things go and we 0:10:26.600 --> 0:10:28.760 can just we can just touch back. 0:10:28.920 --> 0:10:30.640 You are a turn coat? Do you not love me 0:10:30.760 --> 0:10:32.040 at all? Not even as a. 0:10:32.000 --> 0:10:37.120 Friend, Matt, You don't have to be pressured into. 0:10:38.840 --> 0:10:39.640 You're on the pick up. 0:10:39.760 --> 0:10:42.840 I cannot say thank you enough because this whole thing 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:45.880 came about because I said, people say I love you 0:10:45.960 --> 0:10:48.360 too easily, and Mitch was convinced that you just say 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:49.760 it back, and I said, if you don't mean it, 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:50.560 you can't say it. 0:10:50.559 --> 0:10:52.400 And you so just prove my point. 0:10:53.040 --> 0:10:56.400 I'm so grateful as the wife of this man right here. 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:58.560 I'm so grateful that you don't throw it around Willie Milly. 0:10:58.600 --> 0:10:59.800 Now it means more when you say it. 0:10:59.840 --> 0:11:01.199 Not trying to screw your husband. 0:11:02.120 --> 0:11:03.200 Stoping up my husband. 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:07.640 This is actually the ninth to that made this phone 0:11:07.640 --> 0:11:09.400 call and had this exact conversation so. 0:11:10.480 --> 0:11:14.160 Out it's so funny. 0:11:14.320 --> 0:11:16.800 People don't just want to look manage. Would rather have 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:19.440 hung up on you than said he. 0:11:19.280 --> 0:11:21.360 Heard it and hung up and then called back and 0:11:21.360 --> 0:11:22.000 doubled down. 0:11:22.720 --> 0:11:29.679 He committed, yeah, thanks many, I love you. 0:11:28.520 --> 0:11:29.679 I love you. 0:11:29.720 --> 0:11:30.360 Thank you. 0:11:31.840 --> 0:11:32.480 Was looking. 0:11:32.520 --> 0:11:34.880 I think it was to me. 0:11:34.880 --> 0:11:37.840 Meghan Trainer. We adore Her has a brand new album 0:11:37.840 --> 0:11:40.520 that he's out now, and that's Mother. But this is Oh, 0:11:40.640 --> 0:11:42.480 It's to the Moon. It's on the new album. We 0:11:42.559 --> 0:11:44.040 love Her, right, ladies, So. 0:11:44.600 --> 0:11:47.360 Damn good I'm so excited we've been. I mean, I 0:11:47.360 --> 0:11:49.400 feel like we got a little bit of a special listen, 0:11:49.400 --> 0:11:50.800 didn't we We got a special session. 0:11:50.840 --> 0:11:52.520 We got to listen to it before it was released. 0:11:52.559 --> 0:11:55.120 You've absolutely killed it. What was your inspired? 0:11:58.360 --> 0:11:59.000 Thank you? 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:00.560 I'm so lady that song. 0:12:01.400 --> 0:12:06.120 My inspo for that song is my son Riley. He's 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:09.520 three years old now. He loves the moon and rocket 0:12:09.640 --> 0:12:13.680 chips and outer space and astronauts. And I decorated his 0:12:13.720 --> 0:12:15.920 whole room and he has this rug that says to 0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:17.880 the moon on it, and we always say I love 0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:20.040 you to the Moon to back. And so in my 0:12:20.120 --> 0:12:22.320 list of titles, I had to the Moon and I 0:12:22.360 --> 0:12:24.000 was like, dude, we got to write like a love 0:12:24.040 --> 0:12:26.360 song that's like my Love's gonna take you to the moon. 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:29.440 Like I already had that all laid out. And then 0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:32.800 all my songs, all my hit songs recently, are all 0:12:32.800 --> 0:12:35.600 like major chords and like happy. So for to the Moon, 0:12:35.640 --> 0:12:37.760 we wanted to be like moody and viby, and I 0:12:37.800 --> 0:12:40.240 was like, she needs to be hot, like the girl love. 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:42.920 Your dreams like spooky, and then when we. 0:12:42.880 --> 0:12:45.080 Get to the chorus, I wanted to flip on their 0:12:45.120 --> 0:12:47.480 face and punch them in the gut. And I want 0:12:47.480 --> 0:12:50.480 to be like MS, my love, my love, you know, 0:12:50.760 --> 0:12:52.280 and we did it basis. 0:12:52.280 --> 0:12:53.160 I love how you describe this. 0:12:53.240 --> 0:12:55.360 You're like, I'm gonna it's a song for my children, 0:12:55.360 --> 0:12:57.480 but I wanted the bait to punch you in the gut. 0:12:57.520 --> 0:13:00.240 It's got to still be about both. But also you 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:03.720 becoming a mom. Have you found that you're you're like 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:05.560 the things that you're writing about, the way in which 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:07.720 you're approaching your music. Have you found that it's changed 0:13:08.000 --> 0:13:09.800 now that you're in a different phase of life. 0:13:10.760 --> 0:13:13.120 It's so much better. They make you work harder. 0:13:13.160 --> 0:13:16.800 They inspire me to push myself and be better overall 0:13:16.840 --> 0:13:17.400 as a human. 0:13:17.520 --> 0:13:19.320 Like I don't know if you noticed, but I've like, 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:20.559 never looked better. 0:13:21.120 --> 0:13:24.240 I've never been We all noticed. 0:13:24.640 --> 0:13:28.160 I think it's amazing because so many people who are 0:13:28.240 --> 0:13:30.200 going to have kids you worry about how it's going 0:13:30.240 --> 0:13:33.080 to impact your your career. So many women worry about 0:13:33.080 --> 0:13:35.439 how having children is going to stop them from being 0:13:35.440 --> 0:13:39.000 able to achieve things. So seeing you absolutely smash it 0:13:39.080 --> 0:13:41.200 being a mom of two kids is it's an inspiration 0:13:41.280 --> 0:13:42.960 not just for your children, but for other women out 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:45.200 there who are able to look on and realize, you 0:13:45.200 --> 0:13:47.400 know what, life still exists beyond having children. 0:13:48.400 --> 0:13:50.280 Oh yeah, I always tell people, I don't know if 0:13:50.320 --> 0:13:53.079 this is an experience for every mama out there, but 0:13:53.160 --> 0:13:56.880 for me, I hope to give hope because they literally started, 0:13:56.920 --> 0:13:59.920 they like ignited my life, Like they started a fire 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:02.600 in me that I never had. I told my husband 0:14:02.640 --> 0:14:03.760 I look at them all the time, and I go 0:14:04.040 --> 0:14:06.360 when we're all cuddling, I'm like, oh, oh, I'm. 0:14:06.240 --> 0:14:08.400 Peeking, you know, Like we're very normal. 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:12.000 We're very regular, and I think my family like keeps 0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:12.920 us all very humble. 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:13.600 My brothers. 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:15.880 Something that I love is speaking of your brother. 0:14:15.920 --> 0:14:18.440 But you've got your podcast working on it, and it's 0:14:18.640 --> 0:14:22.640 pretty unfiltered. There's not a lot that you don't talk about. 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:26.000 Is there anything that you think about? Oh, shouldn't have 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:26.400 said that. 0:14:27.080 --> 0:14:29.320 There's only one thing that I don't love that keeps 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:30.600 getting sent around. 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:33.440 I am unfiltered. I don't know how to lie. 0:14:33.480 --> 0:14:35.720 I freak out, and I'm like, I gotta tell you truth, 0:14:35.840 --> 0:14:38.840 like even about like my poop schedule and everything other 0:14:38.920 --> 0:14:42.080 than that. Like I don't mind when people are running 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:44.240 stories about like she's such a weird or that she's 0:14:44.240 --> 0:14:46.080 just too toilets next to each other. I'm like, oh, 0:14:46.120 --> 0:14:48.240 you don't know what love is, you know, like I can. 0:14:48.120 --> 0:14:52.640 Brush off that stuff. But being being so open on 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:55.040 my podcast, it's great. The one thing I'm like, oh, 0:14:55.080 --> 0:14:55.840 please stop. 0:14:55.720 --> 0:14:59.920 Writing articles about that is that I talked about sex 0:15:00.200 --> 0:15:03.440 time with my hubby and that I would like be 0:15:04.320 --> 0:15:06.320 uncomfortable afterwards, and I would. 0:15:06.360 --> 0:15:07.800 I said, he's a big boy. 0:15:07.640 --> 0:15:12.840 And I keep seeing Megan Megan walked weird after because 0:15:12.920 --> 0:15:15.040 your husband's a big boy, And I'm like, please stop. 0:15:15.800 --> 0:15:17.080 I think you would love. 0:15:16.960 --> 0:15:19.200 That that's being sent around like I'm sure he doesn't 0:15:19.200 --> 0:15:19.800 have a problem with. 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:22.080 It, like and he is big boy. 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:24.960 But it turns out that I actually had something going 0:15:24.960 --> 0:15:28.400 on with my huhah called nismith. 0:15:28.800 --> 0:15:32.240 That but also my vestibula was because of all. 0:15:32.120 --> 0:15:36.280