Speaker 1: Laura, come on here, Hi ladies, Hi everyone.
Speaker 2: Thanks for the coffee. Girls. One of the girls got
Speaker 2: me a coffee to start the show. It's very nice.
Speaker 2: Who got the.
Speaker 1: Coffee should be fin about it. You'll never know from
Speaker 1: the business account. So we all paid for the coffee mutually.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm not part of that business. That's Life Uncut
Speaker 2: Proprietary Limited. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean we are keeping a tally though, and we
Speaker 1: would like that to be deducted from your salary.
Speaker 3: You don't get paid. Yeah, you seem like shocked, like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, the girls brought me coffee. We bring
Speaker 3: it every day. Yeah, you're acting like this is something
Speaker 3: like it's a rarity. But every single.
Speaker 2: Show, answer me, who got me the coffee?
Speaker 3: Laura today? But the business paid for it?
Speaker 2: L did interesting because it's not my order.
Speaker 3: It's an almond maciato.
Speaker 1: I don't drink fancy little you don't drink.
Speaker 2: Shoot, so strong.
Speaker 3: Up, get on with your life.
Speaker 2: Very first world problem.
Speaker 3: Someone touched some grass.
Speaker 4: Laura actually recently got me the wrong order coffee too,
Speaker 4: and I was like, I still drink it because it's
Speaker 4: to me, I say the wrong order. I drink any
Speaker 4: milk that is not like proper dairy milk, so any
Speaker 4: yet non dairy. I've always been all the last three years,
Speaker 4: I've been a sowet. But Laura got me an almond
Speaker 4: and I was like, I was like, thank you. I
Speaker 4: was like, you know, I'm a say now though, She goes,
Speaker 4: you've always been almond, and I was like, haven't had
Speaker 4: an almond coffee three years?
Speaker 1: But I don't know what you guys are trying to establish.
Speaker 1: You're trying to establish I don't pay attention to like,
Speaker 1: not at all. Who what's your name again?
Speaker 2: It's very true. I love you.
Speaker 1: I love you to I'll have that coffee fakes because
Speaker 1: I'm running on zerously, so you can pass it over.
Speaker 2: You're going to complain, all right, let's go up next.
Speaker 2: You've got someone to complain about.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, just something that everyone does that I've really
Speaker 4: noticed has started to tick me off. It probably shouldn't,
Speaker 4: but I'm here to complain what I've come here for today.
Speaker 2: I often thought maybe I'm a bit like Brittany Honky.
Speaker 2: This is a great way to put it to the test.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, next here at the pickup.
Speaker 4: So this happened to me on the weekend and I
Speaker 4: had this huge realization that this is probably want to
Speaker 4: go out because people make me feel uncomfortable. Mitch, you were,
Speaker 4: and that's not a blakest saint.
Speaker 3: You didn't go out on the weekend though. There's a
Speaker 3: reason I went out on the weekend. Went to a party.
Speaker 5: Uh.
Speaker 2: I was there and Mitch was there.
Speaker 4: We went to It was a mutual friends party and
Speaker 4: it was a great night. But when I left, I
Speaker 4: had this really like awkward encounter with somebody that I
Speaker 4: don't know very well, like I know them through someone
Speaker 4: else that they would just at the party to the
Speaker 4: point of like I'd never met them in person.
Speaker 3: I just knew them from all qua an online acquaintance.
Speaker 3: I didn't even follow them online. Oh yeah, it just
Speaker 3: like knew them through people. How long did you get
Speaker 3: talking to this person for a little while?
Speaker 4: It was at the end anyway, when we were leaving,
Speaker 4: I went up and said goodbye to a lot of people,
Speaker 4: so I didn't just smoke bomb and I said goodbye,
Speaker 4: and he was like, a, Hey, it's been so great
Speaker 4: to talk to you.
Speaker 3: I'm going to miss you.
Speaker 4: And I just looked at him and I was like, y'all,
Speaker 4: I'll see you around and I was like, weird that
Speaker 4: he said miss you.
Speaker 3: You don't know me. Then he said okay, babe, love you,
Speaker 3: and I said bye.
Speaker 4: So he told me he missed me and he loved
Speaker 4: me in like twenty seconds.
Speaker 3: Now I don't know this person.
Speaker 4: And then I I was so awkward and uncomfortable, and
Speaker 4: I was like, why do people throw away these terms
Speaker 4: of I love you and.
Speaker 3: I miss you?
Speaker 4: You know, when you run into someone and they're like,
Speaker 4: can't wait to catch up, You're.
Speaker 3: Like, you know, we're never going to catch up. I
Speaker 3: think you're overthinking it a bit though.
Speaker 1: I love you, yeah, but people just throw it around
Speaker 1: as like a term of endearment kind of thing, like
Speaker 1: I love you, like he clearly doesn't love you. Sorry
Speaker 1: to break into your brain why she thought maybe he
Speaker 1: did he doesn't love you.
Speaker 3: But no, it's the same. It's exactly what you just mentioned.
Speaker 1: It's when you run into an old sex, someone from
Speaker 1: school or someone who's from your past, and you go,
Speaker 1: oh my god, so good to see you. We should
Speaker 1: get coffee, and you both know you're never going to
Speaker 1: get coffee. It's just something you say to wrap up
Speaker 1: the conversation.
Speaker 3: I can't bring myself to say back if I don't
Speaker 3: mean it.
Speaker 2: But you don't have to just what He said it
Speaker 2: to me too, and I just said I love you,
Speaker 2: did you?
Speaker 3: Yeah, of course I don't love him. You don't have to.
Speaker 3: You don't have to say it back.
Speaker 2: If someone says to you I love you, you have
Speaker 2: to say it no, no, because yes you do. Because
Speaker 2: if it's in a relationship with a partner, it's different.
Speaker 2: But can I break it to you, girls, different levels
Speaker 2: of love exist, you know, either of the two of you.
Speaker 2: I also love my partner. I also love the girl
Speaker 2: that made me a killer and cat this morning at
Speaker 2: the cafe.
Speaker 3: You don't love her, I will.
Speaker 4: I was dating someone before my current partner bent very briefly,
Speaker 4: and like three weeks into this very brief dating, he
Speaker 4: said to me in the back of the car and
Speaker 4: he said he looked at me and he said I
Speaker 4: love you. And I burst into laughter and I was
Speaker 4: because I wasn't expecting it, and I said, no, you don't.
Speaker 3: He's like, yes I do. I said, no, no.
Speaker 2: You don't.
Speaker 3: We ended up having a back and forth and I.
Speaker 4: Was like, you can't possibly love and I refused to
Speaker 4: say it back.
Speaker 3: I cannot return I love you.
Speaker 2: If I don't love you, you guys are old school? Can
Speaker 2: I tell you? Like jen Z, the young Ones, the Zillennials,
Speaker 2: you just throw it around. The world is better when
Speaker 2: you love You're sorry.
Speaker 3: It's just a overbear. I love you. I say it.
Speaker 4: No, I say it to people I know, like I'm like, okay,
Speaker 4: love you, love you, love you, key things, Bye, I
Speaker 4: say it like that. But this was different and you
Speaker 4: saw it, Mitch. He goes, Okay, I love you, I
Speaker 4: miss I'll miss you. You know it was a real moment.
Speaker 2: This is so rich coming from the Girls, whose podcast
Speaker 2: tagline is we love love.
Speaker 3: We love real love, we don't love fake love.
Speaker 2: Wow, we created equal.
Speaker 3: Not all love is created equal.
Speaker 2: Tell book me in the eyes and tell me you
Speaker 2: love me.
Speaker 3: But I do love you. I love you, Mitch.
Speaker 1: That's not awkward for me because that's the truth. I
Speaker 1: love you, guys. Also, I mean, I do think it's
Speaker 1: it's just a bit overbearing. I do think a lot
Speaker 1: of people throw it around. They don't mean it. Would
Speaker 1: I be as what I have an existential crisis over it?
Speaker 1: Probably not, but I felt very uncomfortable. Yeah, well so
Speaker 1: you said nothing and you just walked away.
Speaker 4: We had this really awkward moment where he looked at
Speaker 4: me to say it back, and I was like, okay, fine.
Speaker 3: He was like, I saw it was awkward.
Speaker 2: He said to me because we left together, said to
Speaker 2: me the stairwell, he said, I loved you, Like, can
Speaker 2: you believe it? I said yeah, he said it to
Speaker 2: me too.
Speaker 1: I didn't get it, as in, you didn't get why
Speaker 1: she was so weird it out by it.
Speaker 4: Why well, okay, mish, let's let's put this to the test.
Speaker 4: Why don't we get you to call someone and tell
Speaker 4: them you love them and see what happens.
Speaker 2: Who can he call but someone that's not like a
Speaker 2: direct love in my life?
Speaker 3: Well, you can't call someone you love and say you
Speaker 3: love them.
Speaker 2: Call Little Saint Steve and or my parents.
Speaker 3: You can call my husband tell him that you love him.
Speaker 1: You probably do love Matty J, though, do you know
Speaker 1: that's the problem. That's what's more awkward is that I
Speaker 1: actually think you do love him, and he will find
Speaker 1: that awkward.
Speaker 2: He'll probably love you badt. No, we talk a lot,
Speaker 2: but I've never said I love Yes. Let me tell
Speaker 2: mattiy J I love him. That's every gay man's dream
Speaker 2: and I'm about to do it live on the radio. Let's
Speaker 2: do it, Okay, I've got his number. I don't even
Speaker 2: need to get it from you, Laura. That's because she
Speaker 2: loves all right, let's go to a break, producer, Grace,
Speaker 2: can you connect it all when we come back with
Speaker 2: Matty J.
Speaker 3: We love him.
Speaker 2: I'm declaring my love for Maddie J. I'm the pick up.
Speaker 3: If you're just joining us.
Speaker 4: We've been talking about throwing away the term I love
Speaker 4: you when I miss you to people that you do
Speaker 4: not love and you do not miss because I think
Speaker 4: the term I love love and I love telling people
Speaker 4: I love that I love them. But when you've met
Speaker 4: a stranger or someone you don't know when they say
Speaker 4: that they miss you when they love you, I just
Speaker 4: can't recipt.
Speaker 1: Bridge just thinks that the I love yous are being
Speaker 1: thrown around a bit to willy nilly these days.
Speaker 2: Oh they are.
Speaker 3: There's it's such a frivolous word.
Speaker 2: I live a long, happy life saying I love you
Speaker 2: to randoms I meet because it's fun to just give love.
Speaker 1: But also like I just don't think people don't take
Speaker 1: it that seriously. It's like when you ask someone how
Speaker 1: they are, and everyone just says I'm good, Like no
Speaker 1: one actually says.
Speaker 2: Well, actually I yes.
Speaker 3: No I am.
Speaker 1: But when you go to a cafe and you get
Speaker 1: a coffee in the morning and they say like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're having a good day, that they don't expect you
Speaker 1: to go no, it's been horrible and like here's my
Speaker 1: therapy session. They expect you to say, yeah, good. There's
Speaker 1: just like pleasant trees that we exchange along the way.
Speaker 4: Why and I love you and miss you? Isn't a
Speaker 4: pleasant tree? You bestole a pot from the person that
Speaker 4: makes your coffee. Okay, so we've told we've said that
Speaker 4: Midge Mitch is pro throwing the love term around.
Speaker 3: So I said, you're gonna call Manny j Laura's husband.
Speaker 1: Because because the reason for this is is that I
Speaker 1: love you makes some people feel awkward.
Speaker 3: I think I'm going to call it now.
Speaker 4: I think if you call Mannie Jane, te him you
Speaker 4: love him, I think it's going to be reciprocated. I
Speaker 4: think he'll say back, what do you think, Laura? Yeah,
Speaker 4: I kind of do as well. To be honest, let's
Speaker 4: call mate Jay. You guys have to be quiet.
Speaker 5: Claim Hi, Matt's influence a hotline.
Speaker 3: How can I help you?
Speaker 6: Please?
Speaker 2: Hello? How are you good?
Speaker 5: Thanks?
Speaker 3: Mate?
Speaker 2: Hey, sorry, I know you're busy. I'll be quick. I
Speaker 2: have a joke that I need your opinion on. I
Speaker 2: don't know if it's it needs a bit of tweaking.
Speaker 2: It's just for the radio show, okay, so it's it
Speaker 2: could be dumb. I just need your thoughts. Elton John
Speaker 2: was asked if he wanted a side of letters with
Speaker 2: his steak.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 2: He was at a restaurant and they went, do you
Speaker 2: want let us with your steak? Elton right? And he said, no, thanks,
Speaker 2: I'm a rocket man.
Speaker 5: Good right, very good, very good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, is that all right? I'm going to submit
Speaker 2: it for like's I got to do it on air,
Speaker 2: and I just want to see it words. All right,
Speaker 2: thanks man, all right, I'll let you go. I love you.
Speaker 5: That's it?
Speaker 2: Yeah man, easy, okay, all right, love.
Speaker 7: You, love you, buddy, I love you, Matkahu.
Speaker 1: You need to call him back and I need more
Speaker 1: from this because he knows you.
Speaker 3: Said I love you. See that is how I felt.
Speaker 3: That is how I felt. That's how I call him back.
Speaker 3: Little He said, A joke was good though it was
Speaker 3: very funny. It was funny.
Speaker 2: I was chucking so much. Hello you miss say goodbye? Yeah,
Speaker 2: I said goodbye, love you. You hung up?
Speaker 5: Sorry I heard that. I chose I chose to ignore that.
Speaker 2: What do you mean you chose to ignore that?
Speaker 5: Well, I just I didn't want to make it awkward
Speaker 5: and say thanks, so I just hung up.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, sorry to spoil this, but you just
Speaker 2: say it back. You just say love you too.
Speaker 3: Uh.
Speaker 5: I don't like obviously we've in friends for a little while,
Speaker 5: but I just feel like when the time is right
Speaker 5: for us, we'll both know. And I felt like it
Speaker 5: would have been rushing it if fast to say it
Speaker 5: just now.
Speaker 2: Once a bachelor, always a bachelor. You know you gave
Speaker 2: that line so many women on TV. Does not work
Speaker 2: with me, buddy.
Speaker 5: Look, really, I'm really happy with how our relationship has
Speaker 5: been progressing. But I just feel like if I was
Speaker 5: to say it back to you right now, it would
Speaker 5: be disingenuous and I don't want to be that person.
Speaker 5: But look, let's just see how things go and we
Speaker 5: can just we can just touch back.
Speaker 2: You are a turn coat? Do you not love me
Speaker 2: at all? Not even as a.
Speaker 3: Friend, Matt, You don't have to be pressured into.
Speaker 2: You're on the pick up.
Speaker 4: I cannot say thank you enough because this whole thing
Speaker 4: came about because I said, people say I love you
Speaker 4: too easily, and Mitch was convinced that you just say
Speaker 4: it back, and I said, if you don't mean it,
Speaker 4: you can't say it.
Speaker 3: And you so just prove my point.
Speaker 4: I'm so grateful as the wife of this man right here.
Speaker 3: I'm so grateful that you don't throw it around Willie Milly.
Speaker 3: Now it means more when you say it.
Speaker 2: Not trying to screw your husband.
Speaker 3: Stoping up my husband.
Speaker 5: This is actually the ninth to that made this phone
Speaker 5: call and had this exact conversation so.
Speaker 3: Out it's so funny.
Speaker 4: People don't just want to look manage. Would rather have
Speaker 4: hung up on you than said he.
Speaker 2: Heard it and hung up and then called back and
Speaker 2: doubled down.
Speaker 4: He committed, yeah, thanks many, I love you.
Speaker 5: I love you.
Speaker 3: Thank you.
Speaker 2: Was looking.
Speaker 3: I think it was to me.
Speaker 2: Meghan Trainer. We adore Her has a brand new album
Speaker 2: that he's out now, and that's Mother. But this is Oh,
Speaker 2: It's to the Moon. It's on the new album. We
Speaker 2: love Her, right, ladies, So.
Speaker 4: Damn good I'm so excited we've been. I mean, I
Speaker 4: feel like we got a little bit of a special listen,
Speaker 4: didn't we We got a special session.
Speaker 3: We got to listen to it before it was released.
Speaker 3: You've absolutely killed it. What was your inspired?
Speaker 1: Thank you?
Speaker 6: I'm so lady that song.
Speaker 8: My inspo for that song is my son Riley. He's
Speaker 8: three years old now. He loves the moon and rocket
Speaker 8: chips and outer space and astronauts. And I decorated his
Speaker 8: whole room and he has this rug that says to
Speaker 8: the moon on it, and we always say I love
Speaker 8: you to the Moon to back. And so in my
Speaker 8: list of titles, I had to the Moon and I
Speaker 8: was like, dude, we got to write like a love
Speaker 8: song that's like my Love's gonna take you to the moon.
Speaker 8: Like I already had that all laid out. And then
Speaker 8: all my songs, all my hit songs recently, are all
Speaker 8: like major chords and like happy. So for to the Moon,
Speaker 8: we wanted to be like moody and viby, and I
Speaker 8: was like, she needs to be hot, like the girl love.
Speaker 6: Your dreams like spooky, and then when we.
Speaker 8: Get to the chorus, I wanted to flip on their
Speaker 8: face and punch them in the gut. And I want
Speaker 8: to be like MS, my love, my love, you know,
Speaker 8: and we did it basis.
Speaker 3: I love how you describe this.
Speaker 1: You're like, I'm gonna it's a song for my children,
Speaker 1: but I wanted the bait to punch you in the gut.
Speaker 1: It's got to still be about both. But also you
Speaker 1: becoming a mom. Have you found that you're you're like
Speaker 1: the things that you're writing about, the way in which
Speaker 1: you're approaching your music. Have you found that it's changed
Speaker 1: now that you're in a different phase of life.
Speaker 6: It's so much better. They make you work harder.
Speaker 8: They inspire me to push myself and be better overall
Speaker 8: as a human.
Speaker 6: Like I don't know if you noticed, but I've like,
Speaker 6: never looked better.
Speaker 2: I've never been We all noticed.
Speaker 1: I think it's amazing because so many people who are
Speaker 1: going to have kids you worry about how it's going
Speaker 1: to impact your your career. So many women worry about
Speaker 1: how having children is going to stop them from being
Speaker 1: able to achieve things. So seeing you absolutely smash it
Speaker 1: being a mom of two kids is it's an inspiration
Speaker 1: not just for your children, but for other women out
Speaker 1: there who are able to look on and realize, you
Speaker 1: know what, life still exists beyond having children.
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, I always tell people, I don't know if
Speaker 8: this is an experience for every mama out there, but
Speaker 8: for me, I hope to give hope because they literally started,
Speaker 8: they like ignited my life, Like they started a fire
Speaker 8: in me that I never had. I told my husband
Speaker 8: I look at them all the time, and I go
Speaker 8: when we're all cuddling, I'm like, oh, oh, I'm.
Speaker 6: Peeking, you know, Like we're very normal.
Speaker 8: We're very regular, and I think my family like keeps
Speaker 8: us all very humble.
Speaker 6: My brothers.
Speaker 3: Something that I love is speaking of your brother.
Speaker 4: But you've got your podcast working on it, and it's
Speaker 4: pretty unfiltered. There's not a lot that you don't talk about.
Speaker 4: Is there anything that you think about? Oh, shouldn't have
Speaker 4: said that.
Speaker 8: There's only one thing that I don't love that keeps
Speaker 8: getting sent around.
Speaker 6: I am unfiltered. I don't know how to lie.
Speaker 8: I freak out, and I'm like, I gotta tell you truth,
Speaker 8: like even about like my poop schedule and everything other
Speaker 8: than that. Like I don't mind when people are running
Speaker 8: stories about like she's such a weird or that she's
Speaker 8: just too toilets next to each other. I'm like, oh,
Speaker 8: you don't know what love is, you know, like I can.
Speaker 6: Brush off that stuff. But being being so open on
Speaker 6: my podcast, it's great. The one thing I'm like, oh,
Speaker 6: please stop.
Speaker 8: Writing articles about that is that I talked about sex
Speaker 8: time with my hubby and that I would like be
Speaker 8: uncomfortable afterwards, and I would.
Speaker 6: I said, he's a big boy.
Speaker 8: And I keep seeing Megan Megan walked weird after because
Speaker 8: your husband's a big boy, And I'm like, please stop.
Speaker 3: I think you would love.
Speaker 4: That that's being sent around like I'm sure he doesn't
Speaker 4: have a problem with.
Speaker 6: It, like and he is big boy.
Speaker 8: But it turns out that I actually had something going
Speaker 8: on with my huhah called nismith.
Speaker 6: That but also my vestibula was because of all.
Speaker 8: The hormones of pregnancy. It was like not infected, but
Speaker 8: like it's all wrong to where if it feels like glass,
Speaker 8: like it's all right red and I have to like
Speaker 8: put on testosterum cream.
Speaker 6: It's a whole nightmare.
Speaker 8: I'm like, nobody talks about it, but every girl suffers
Speaker 8: from this, and like back in the day, doctors were
Speaker 8: like just drink up, honey, like, deal with it. And
Speaker 8: now they're like, oh, it's science and your chemicals are
Speaker 8: all messed up down there because your hormones from pregnancy.
Speaker 8: And I was like, oh, I have to tell someone,
Speaker 8: you know, because I know I thought I was.
Speaker 6: Just like super small and uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: Yeah, before we let you go. You here in Australia,
Speaker 2: I'm doing Australian Idol. We've very on Kyle Sandalans on
Speaker 2: the same network as US, but we loved you. You left,
Speaker 2: and then I'm reading rooms. I'm like trying to google
Speaker 2: to see if you'd come back, but then there's roomors like, oh,
Speaker 2: maybe you'll do American Idol because Katy Perry's just announced
Speaker 2: she's leaving. Is that something you'd consider doing? Right?
Speaker 8: It's my dying wish, it is my it is my
Speaker 8: oh my deathbed.
Speaker 6: What do I want to be a judge on American Idol?
Speaker 8: I like, I just love that show so much and
Speaker 8: I have done so many other shows like it, like
Speaker 8: Australian Idol, and I'm like, I know what I'm doing.
Speaker 8: Coach put me in like I was there recently as
Speaker 8: a mentor and I was like, oh, my moll on set,
Speaker 8: you know, like I it is just too cool for me,
Speaker 8: and I got really attached to the these adorable superstars
Speaker 8: that are so talented. And then I performed on the
Speaker 8: show and I was like I belong here, and I
Speaker 8: know Katie is like about to leave the show and
Speaker 8: do probably just like a break and I will fill in.
Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: We will send this straight to the execs. Just so
Speaker 3: you know you're on the campaign trail with you. Don't
Speaker 3: worry well.
Speaker 2: You are are a bloody super star. Timeless is out now,
Speaker 2: the latest album from Megan Trainer. Obviously you can get
Speaker 2: this on it which we love is to the Moon everyone,
Speaker 2: Oh love you, thank you on the show.
Speaker 6: I love you forever. I promise we.
Speaker 3: Love you.
Speaker 2: All right. That's Meghan Trainer. Everyone here on the pickup.
Speaker 2: If you missed it, Her brand new album Timeless is
Speaker 2: out going stream it