WEBVTT - Jungle fever - Britt's is back baby! 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.800 Life Uncut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country whose lands 0:00:03.840 --> 0:00:06.520 were never seated. We pay our respects to their elders 0:00:06.559 --> 0:00:10.280 past and present, Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. 0:00:10.600 --> 0:00:22.880 This episode was recorded on gadigal Land. Hi, guys, and 0:00:22.960 --> 0:00:24.919 welcome back to another episode of Life on Cut. 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:28.040 I'm Laura and I'm Brittany, and I'm back from the 0:00:28.160 --> 0:00:33.800 jungle on Aussie soil in person. Looking at you. Two, well, three, Hello, 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:36.800 I missed you, guys. We've got Laura, producer, Keiser and John. Oh, 0:00:36.800 --> 0:00:37.839 buta boy, it's. 0:00:37.680 --> 0:00:38.320 Been so long. 0:00:38.360 --> 0:00:41.800 I'm enjoying the roll call. It's been so long. She's back. 0:00:41.840 --> 0:00:44.200 Everybody so long looking great. 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:48.080 Well, that's what happens with bright and bean diet for 0:00:48.120 --> 0:00:49.360 a month cleans you out. 0:00:49.560 --> 0:00:52.800 Oh you don't even know the half of it, like beans. 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:54.639 For me, I don't need to know the half of it, 0:00:54.680 --> 0:00:56.480 to be fair, I don't need to I don't need 0:00:56.520 --> 0:00:57.480 to know the consistency. 0:00:57.520 --> 0:01:00.279 I don't need to know all of the details the evacuation. No, 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:03.800 I'm okay, I'm back. But what I want to say is, 0:01:04.200 --> 0:01:06.360 and I don't know how I feel about it. I 0:01:06.360 --> 0:01:08.320 don't know if I want to be back. Part of 0:01:08.360 --> 0:01:10.160 me wants to be back in the jungle. 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:12.119 Having an existential crisis. 0:01:11.880 --> 0:01:15.800 Existential, extonential, existential, existential. 0:01:16.120 --> 0:01:17.920 I don't know, it sounded weird. I haven't used big 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:18.839 words in a long time. 0:01:19.440 --> 0:01:21.840 I feel like in this weird way, it's a bit 0:01:21.880 --> 0:01:23.680 of like Stockholm syndrome. 0:01:23.680 --> 0:01:24.679 And I feel bad saying that. 0:01:24.720 --> 0:01:26.480 But you want to go back to Channel ten, not 0:01:26.640 --> 0:01:29.080 the ten, but back to my yeah, back to my captors. 0:01:29.840 --> 0:01:33.319 I felt like we were literally trapped in the jungle. 0:01:33.360 --> 0:01:36.720 Everything's controlled, like you don't know the time you get fed, 0:01:36.760 --> 0:01:39.399 what you get fed and given. And I loved it. 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:40.319 I learned to love it. 0:01:40.520 --> 0:01:42.360 Britt and I have barely seen each other, Like today 0:01:42.520 --> 0:01:44.119 is the first time that we've seen each other. Brick 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:46.800 came back. She went straight to Port McQuary. She's only 0:01:46.800 --> 0:01:48.800 been back for a couple of days. But I am 0:01:48.960 --> 0:01:51.440 at the same time learning about like the intricacies of 0:01:51.440 --> 0:01:54.600 how the jungle works. And I had no idea until 0:01:54.640 --> 0:01:57.520 this morning that you didn't even know the time of day. 0:01:57.880 --> 0:01:59.720 So when you're in there, they keep the time from 0:01:59.760 --> 0:02:01.840 you as a way of just kind of like fucking 0:02:01.840 --> 0:02:02.640 with your headspace. 0:02:03.080 --> 0:02:04.240 I don't know what the purpose is. 0:02:04.280 --> 0:02:07.680 It's obviously a psychological thing, but you have no concept 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:09.920 of when you wake up, when you go to sleep, 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:12.880 when you're eating, you know nothing, So you don't know 0:02:12.919 --> 0:02:13.680 if you've had. 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:16.720 Four hours sleep eight hours sleep, which is. 0:02:16.680 --> 0:02:18.560 Sort of produced a Keisha would not cope with that. 0:02:18.680 --> 0:02:20.560 She's like, I need to know how many Like what's 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:22.960 my ram? How many hours of deep sleep have I had? 0:02:23.400 --> 0:02:24.600 She's like, I can't go hope. 0:02:24.400 --> 0:02:25.920 But you know what the thing is, and you know 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:28.760 how people Keisha included, But you know how people have 0:02:29.000 --> 0:02:31.400 their sleep apps and their watches and the first thing 0:02:31.400 --> 0:02:33.480 they do when they wake up is look at like Ben, 0:02:33.600 --> 0:02:34.000 does it right? 0:02:34.080 --> 0:02:36.160 Yeah, it looks to your garment. Yeah. Wait, Keish, what 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:38.920 have you got? Oh a whoop? Yeah, so a whoop. 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:41.079 And so he'll wake up in the morning and he'll 0:02:41.120 --> 0:02:43.600 be like, oh great, I had this many hours of 0:02:43.639 --> 0:02:45.760 deep sleep. And I'm like, why do you look at that? 0:02:45.800 --> 0:02:47.799 Because you've had the sleep regardless. Why can't you just 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:49.680 go off how you feel? Because it's a bit of 0:02:49.680 --> 0:02:52.080 a mind fuck, right, because if you go onto your 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:54.560 app and it goes, oh, you only got one hour, 0:02:54.919 --> 0:02:56.519 then your set for the day being like I only 0:02:56.520 --> 0:02:58.560 got one hour. When you wake up and you don't 0:02:58.600 --> 0:03:00.320 know the time, you don't know how many hours you slept, 0:03:00.360 --> 0:03:01.400 you go of how you feel. 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:02.400 No, it's feel good. 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:05.560 It's because sleep is now a competition, because we compete 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:07.760 in everything in life, and sleep is part of that, 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:11.240 and we're all combined now competing for who is the 0:03:11.240 --> 0:03:11.799 best sleeper? 0:03:11.880 --> 0:03:12.960 Yeah, what rem did you get? 0:03:13.120 --> 0:03:16.160 I don't know. I genuinely am scared. Matt woke up 0:03:16.200 --> 0:03:17.959 yesterday and he has it. He's got a garment or 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:20.320 whatever they call it, and he he woke up and 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:22.079 he was like, oh, I had three minutes. 0:03:22.080 --> 0:03:24.560 He had three minutes of awake time. That was it. 0:03:24.639 --> 0:03:27.080 So he woke up for three minutes and then the 0:03:27.120 --> 0:03:29.639 rest of it was like a mix of deep sleep 0:03:29.680 --> 0:03:31.440 and ram and all the other things. He was like, oh, 0:03:31.480 --> 0:03:33.840 pretty good. Like eight hours and ten minutes last night. 0:03:34.400 --> 0:03:36.880 So in that time, like in that eight hours and 0:03:36.920 --> 0:03:38.480 ten minutes, whilst we were asleep in the middle of 0:03:38.480 --> 0:03:40.280 the night, Lola gets into our bed, right, so she 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:42.680 climbs in and gets into bed. I woke him up 0:03:42.720 --> 0:03:44.520 and got him to go and get a bottle of 0:03:44.560 --> 0:03:45.120 water for her. 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:46.280 So he got up out of it. 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:49.280 So for the three minutes it was literally the three 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:51.720 minutes that he woke up, walked out of the bed, 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:54.400 filled the bottle, up, walked back in bed, handed it 0:03:54.400 --> 0:03:56.640 to her, went straight back to sleep, And I was like, I. 0:03:56.640 --> 0:03:58.080 Have a gold mine on your hands. 0:03:58.160 --> 0:04:00.720 You need to get a whoop that you can wake 0:04:00.800 --> 0:04:03.200 up in the morning and have proof of the difference 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:05.680 in your night's sleep, and then you use that against him. 0:04:05.680 --> 0:04:08.600 For weize and weaponize that for the rest of the day. 0:04:09.000 --> 0:04:11.080 You're like, hey, you got three minutes. I didn't get 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:12.960 any sleep, so now you're doing everything. 0:04:13.320 --> 0:04:15.000 I think that that would be the demise of our 0:04:15.040 --> 0:04:18.960 relationship if I actually business business. 0:04:19.279 --> 0:04:21.599 Yeah, that's a fail on your behalf. There's a there's 0:04:21.600 --> 0:04:25.839 a golden egg opportunity there, and it's okay. Occasionally sometimes 0:04:25.880 --> 0:04:29.280 weapini sleep against your partner, especially if you're not having 0:04:29.320 --> 0:04:31.960 any If you're not having it, yeah, and actually, let's 0:04:31.960 --> 0:04:34.280 be serious, it's not weaponizing it. 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:36.239 But it's important if he has. 0:04:36.080 --> 0:04:38.839 His data, that you also have your data and he 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:41.400 needs the facts when you enter an argument. 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:44.080 If I've learned anything from this podcast, it's that if 0:04:44.080 --> 0:04:45.720 you're entering an argument, know what it is. 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:48.760 That you're arguing about it. You have your facts ready, 0:04:48.920 --> 0:04:49.760 but this is the problem. 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:52.080 What happens though, then, is then you start scorekeeping, you 0:04:52.240 --> 0:04:54.520 start tallying it up. You start being like, well, I 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:56.440 only got this much sleep, so you did this, and 0:04:56.480 --> 0:04:58.120 then that's tip for tat And that's when they're all, 0:04:58.160 --> 0:04:59.640 that's that's fucking bad stuff. 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:00.560 I had an. 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:03.760 Argument with Matt where you're so deep in it and 0:05:03.800 --> 0:05:05.960 then you literally say to each other, what do we like? 0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:07.000 What was the argument? 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:07.159 Like? 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:08.920 Do you ever get so deep in the tip for 0:05:08.960 --> 0:05:11.000 tattooing that you don't remember what you are arguing? 0:05:11.080 --> 0:05:14.159 Because Matt is so grudgy, he really holds a grudge, 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:17.520 which is also like he's very good at apologizing, but 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:20.080 he still holds onto the grudge, so he like he 0:05:20.200 --> 0:05:22.840 knows he will never lose track of an argument because 0:05:22.880 --> 0:05:24.760 he knows what we're arguing about it, because he's like, 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:27.400 I'm going to use this information later, Yeah you do. 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:30.120 No, I don't hold a grudge, but I'm I argue 0:05:30.120 --> 0:05:31.919 about really dumb stuff, Like I had an argument with 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:34.480 Ben last night over the dumbest thing, and I know 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:36.320 it's because I'm emotional. 0:05:36.600 --> 0:05:39.719 My hormones are through the roof. But shouldn't matter. 0:05:39.760 --> 0:05:42.120 But I've got my period and I haven't seen Ben 0:05:42.120 --> 0:05:42.680 in four months. 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:44.080 Anyway, we had this done. 0:05:44.120 --> 0:05:45.919 He wants to get a tattoo, and he keeps We 0:05:46.000 --> 0:05:49.119 have very different ideas of what tattoos he should get. 0:05:49.320 --> 0:05:49.599 I don't. 0:05:49.600 --> 0:05:52.599 He should get whatever tattoo he wants. It's his body, No, 0:05:52.960 --> 0:05:53.719 it's our body. 0:05:57.760 --> 0:05:57.960 No. 0:05:58.200 --> 0:05:59.960 He runs his tattoos by me, which I think is like, 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:01.599 He's like, look, if I'm gonna have a giant tattoo, 0:06:01.640 --> 0:06:03.800 my body threast my life, be nice if you liked it. 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:06.120 And so it's not like I'm saying well, I am 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:08.400 saying no. Actually that's it. I do say no. But 0:06:08.680 --> 0:06:10.960 he and I like very different things. So we're trying 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:12.640 to find something and this is on him, not me. 0:06:12.680 --> 0:06:13.560 We're trying to find something that. 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:14.120 We both like. 0:06:14.320 --> 0:06:18.000 But he likes big, like big dark portraits of stuff, 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:20.040 and I like very fine line. 0:06:20.360 --> 0:06:22.880 Anyway, so we got to this one tattoo that I've 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:25.440 convinced him. It's like a very star signing thing. 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:28.599 He's getting the zodiac on his body. 0:06:27.480 --> 0:06:30.159 What do I get to say? 0:06:30.120 --> 0:06:32.400 Yea, Laura's going to chiy me in on Ben's tattoo, 0:06:32.600 --> 0:06:34.840 but there was this little part in it where you 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:36.440 could I was like, look, you could leave that blank 0:06:36.480 --> 0:06:38.880 for now, and it's like very small writing part. I said, 0:06:38.920 --> 0:06:41.279 you could feel it maybe with really important things that 0:06:41.320 --> 0:06:43.960 happen in life, maybe when we get engaged, wink wink, 0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:47.560 wedding date, kids, dates, whatever, like us, Like there's room 0:06:47.640 --> 0:06:50.160 for really nice sentimental things because he's very sentimental. 0:06:50.279 --> 0:06:52.040 And it also works very well because if you're somebody 0:06:52.080 --> 0:06:53.760 forgets dates a lot, you've just got them plaster all 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:57.000 over your body. Matt's what Marley's birthdate, doesn't ever forget 0:06:57.000 --> 0:06:59.039 it because it's on his arm, hasn't gotten around getting 0:06:59.040 --> 0:07:00.520 lolas yet, always forgets it. 0:07:00.560 --> 0:07:01.520 See the second child. 0:07:01.720 --> 0:07:04.360 Yeah, he needs to get that done before she's old 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:07.080 enough to realize that he doesn't have it one hundred percent. 0:07:07.160 --> 0:07:07.360 Yeah. 0:07:07.360 --> 0:07:08.800 Well, so I thought this was really cute and I 0:07:08.800 --> 0:07:10.720 was rattling all this stuff and then he goes, oh, yeah, 0:07:10.840 --> 0:07:12.920 maybe I'll get the first place we had Nacho's or 0:07:12.920 --> 0:07:14.559 the first place we had and just started like taking 0:07:14.560 --> 0:07:16.640 a pierce of my idea and like writing really dumb 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:19.040 stuff back, and that was all I cracked it. I 0:07:19.080 --> 0:07:21.280 was like I'm not having this conversation with someone so immature. 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:22.600 And he was like, Babe, just have a laugh. 0:07:22.480 --> 0:07:23.880 And I was like, I am done with this. 0:07:24.160 --> 0:07:26.280 I was like, you don't care about my feelings, and 0:07:26.320 --> 0:07:29.520 I just went into this whole ridiculous argument and like 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:30.280 hung up the phone. 0:07:30.320 --> 0:07:31.520 I was like, I can't talk anymore. 0:07:31.960 --> 0:07:33.720 Then I sat on it for about twenty minutes and 0:07:33.760 --> 0:07:36.960 I was like, if I told Laura this, tor wh. 0:07:36.640 --> 0:07:39.760 Yeah truly, But also that makes me think maybe there 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:41.320 is a reason why you should be back in the jungle. 0:07:41.680 --> 0:07:44.720 I think though, brit I don't think you realize how 0:07:44.760 --> 0:07:49.360 controversial it is to have a say in your partner's tattoos. 0:07:49.400 --> 0:07:51.120 No, I know, we had a conversation on the podcast. 0:07:51.200 --> 0:07:53.160 Yeah, I think it's such an It's nice that he 0:07:53.680 --> 0:07:56.640 is conscious enough and cares enough to ask you, But like, 0:07:56.720 --> 0:07:58.400 I kind of think that you don't really get a 0:07:58.440 --> 0:07:59.440 say in your partner's tatoos. 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:00.840 If they want to go on get something, you kind 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:02.320 of just have to be okay with it. Yes see, 0:08:02.360 --> 0:08:03.640 I disagree. 0:08:03.600 --> 0:08:06.280 Matt's getting a stupid He's getting a turtle tattooed on 0:08:06.320 --> 0:08:07.320 him because he lost a bet. 0:08:07.680 --> 0:08:09.720 He lost a fucking running race. 0:08:10.040 --> 0:08:12.360 Made a bet with our brother in law and he 0:08:12.440 --> 0:08:14.040 lost it, and now he has to go and get 0:08:14.240 --> 0:08:16.720 a tattoo of a turtle on his ass. 0:08:16.720 --> 0:08:21.440 That's running. Oh my god, that is so funny. At 0:08:21.560 --> 0:08:23.560 least it's on him. But I have no say, and 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:25.760 I don't care. I couldn't care if but that's on 0:08:25.840 --> 0:08:26.360 his butt. 0:08:26.880 --> 0:08:30.040 No one sees that ever, but Ben's see this whole 0:08:30.040 --> 0:08:32.120 body is going to be covered like he's got legs 0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:33.760 and arms and whatever else. 0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:35.760 The only tatto I've approved so far was the Bee 0:08:35.800 --> 0:08:36.360 for Brittany. 0:08:37.320 --> 0:08:40.959 If you're the problem, you are well look, I mean, 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:42.160 as you guys know, if you've been listening to the 0:08:42.160 --> 0:08:44.760 podcast last couple of weeks, producer keyche It has been 0:08:44.800 --> 0:08:48.160 filling in for brit you have done an incredible job. 0:08:48.400 --> 0:08:51.120 If you are, we love you. You're fucking amazing. I 0:08:51.160 --> 0:08:54.680 have loved doing records with you. We've missed you so much, 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:56.800 and there's been so much around. 0:08:57.280 --> 0:08:59.240 I mean, we all watched I'm not gonna speak for 0:08:59.240 --> 0:08:59.959 everyone listening to POT. 0:09:00.320 --> 0:09:02.920 I watched it so many, so many of us watched 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:05.600 sliber to get me out of here. I so deeply 0:09:05.720 --> 0:09:07.360 enjoyed the season, not just because you were on it. 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:08.000 But I think like. 0:09:08.040 --> 0:09:12.280 Sky and Callum were absolutely fucking hilarious. I really enjoyed 0:09:12.280 --> 0:09:14.960 getting to know Tristan better. Like I think that everybody 0:09:14.960 --> 0:09:18.040 they chose on this season was a really great choice. 0:09:18.040 --> 0:09:20.800 And I think the casting was brilliant and that was 0:09:20.840 --> 0:09:22.040 reflected on the inside too. 0:09:22.160 --> 0:09:24.520 It was amazing their cast because you know, obviously a 0:09:24.559 --> 0:09:26.160 film twenty four hours a day, you guys get to 0:09:26.200 --> 0:09:29.040 see an hour and a half. The cast was amazing. 0:09:29.320 --> 0:09:32.559 Everyone was incredible. It was just like such a wholesome 0:09:33.000 --> 0:09:33.800 group of people. 0:09:34.080 --> 0:09:36.480 To be fair, it felt like that show was not 0:09:36.559 --> 0:09:37.360 just an hour and a half. 0:09:37.400 --> 0:09:39.320 It felt like it was the show that never ended. 0:09:39.360 --> 0:09:41.240 Every night, poor Matt because he was like, is this 0:09:41.320 --> 0:09:43.040 going to be my life until Brick gets out? Because 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:45.200 it's on every night of the week, so every night 0:09:45.240 --> 0:09:47.040 we're sitting there watching it. I'm pretty sure it went 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:49.440 for like two hours some nights, did it? Yeah? 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:51.520 I don't know. It was still hour and a half. 0:09:51.600 --> 0:09:53.680 It was still on at nine o'clock and it started 0:09:53.720 --> 0:09:54.880 at seventeen seventy. 0:09:55.000 --> 0:09:58.320 That's an hour and a half. Oh so I'm sorry 0:09:58.360 --> 0:10:02.320 it dragged on. Where is this ever going to end? Yeah? 0:10:02.360 --> 0:10:03.400 No, but it was brilliant. 0:10:03.520 --> 0:10:05.840 What this episode today is going to be is basically 0:10:05.840 --> 0:10:07.880 a deep dive on all things I'm a celeb, all 0:10:07.920 --> 0:10:09.920 the things that you don't know about it. We put 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:11.720 a question box out to you guys. You've asked so 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:15.440 many questions around what does and doesn't happen? And I 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:17.480 am just in the gray as you are because I 0:10:17.559 --> 0:10:20.080 have no idea and Britain, I haven't had the opportunity 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:22.559 to have these conversations yet. So it's like a learning 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:24.640 experience for everybody one hundred percent. 0:10:24.760 --> 0:10:29.440 And I the cast really were incredible, and I know 0:10:29.520 --> 0:10:31.520 one of the big questions is, you know, like, what 0:10:31.600 --> 0:10:33.720 was it actually like behind the scenes where the arguments 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:36.280 and all that kind of stuff, And there really wasn't 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:39.600 the only argument that was had on the whole show 0:10:39.679 --> 0:10:42.320 basically that I was aware of was shown just between 0:10:42.440 --> 0:10:45.760 Candice and Sky, like there really no shit really went down. 0:10:45.960 --> 0:10:47.959 There was a bit of bickering here and there over. 0:10:47.880 --> 0:10:51.120 Like people getting a bit short with people purely because 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:53.640 you're in this tiny, confined environment and there's like sometimes 0:10:53.640 --> 0:10:55.400 there's too many people in the kitchen helping, too many 0:10:55.400 --> 0:10:57.640 opinions going around, and sometimes people are like I just 0:10:57.640 --> 0:10:58.640 need a second to myself. 0:10:58.760 --> 0:10:59.080 Yeah. 0:10:59.080 --> 0:11:01.080 Also, I mean when you have that many people who 0:11:01.240 --> 0:11:03.840 all have their own big personalities in ways, you're always 0:11:03.840 --> 0:11:05.600 going to have some sort of like not seeing eye 0:11:05.640 --> 0:11:08.440 to eye. I think there was one little like it 0:11:08.480 --> 0:11:10.800 wasn't a spat, it didn't go into anything, but you 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:13.560 could feel and it also could be just editing. You 0:11:13.559 --> 0:11:15.600 could feel that kind of animosity that was brewing. And 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:18.440 that was between Kahn and Denise Drysdale. 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:19.680 Yeah, it seemed like there was. 0:11:19.679 --> 0:11:22.440 Like friction there, but also I think it's generational thing, 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:24.559 Like it's different people from different walks of life all 0:11:24.559 --> 0:11:27.120 trying to come together and just cohabitate is challenging. 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:30.360 Yeah, and that wasn't even just Khn and Denise, it 0:11:30.400 --> 0:11:34.839 was everyone in Denise. Denise was really hard, really really hard, 0:11:35.200 --> 0:11:40.440 just very short, very blunt, often very rude, didn't really 0:11:40.480 --> 0:11:41.240 want to be there. 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:42.800 Do you think she realized she was being rude or 0:11:42.800 --> 0:11:44.760 do you think it's just the way which she communicates, 0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:46.000 because that's also different. 0:11:46.080 --> 0:11:51.520 Right, I would hope she didn't realize she was being rude. 0:11:51.960 --> 0:11:54.480 But then sometimes I'm like, surely you have to know, 0:11:54.880 --> 0:11:58.800 Like surely, but she's seventy five, and that was a 0:11:58.840 --> 0:12:01.880 really hard environment for anyone, let alone going in there 0:12:01.880 --> 0:12:03.520 at seventy five, Like, thank. 0:12:03.480 --> 0:12:05.600 God, she didn't do any challenges. She might drop dead. 0:12:05.920 --> 0:12:07.560 I dropped dead, which I don't know what she could 0:12:07.600 --> 0:12:07.880 have done it. 0:12:08.000 --> 0:12:10.040 I know I was like looking at half the challenges 0:12:10.080 --> 0:12:11.880 that people were doing every day would come back and 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:13.240 we were like, Denise, never could have done that. 0:12:13.280 --> 0:12:14.640 And that's not against Denise. 0:12:14.679 --> 0:12:17.440 It's literally a physicality thing, like you would have got 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:18.520 knocked out or something. 0:12:18.760 --> 0:12:21.160 But let's get into it. Yeah, okay, all right. Firstly, 0:12:21.360 --> 0:12:23.040 I want to know how you are, Like how do 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:23.640 you feel? 0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:27.080 I I mean, because there's been a lot happening since 0:12:27.120 --> 0:12:29.160 the show as well, but like from when you went 0:12:29.200 --> 0:12:31.640 in to where you are now it's been almost six weeks, 0:12:31.679 --> 0:12:34.240 Like how are you feeling? How did you feel in there? 0:12:34.559 --> 0:12:36.080 And where is your mental health at now? 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:40.480 I feel good, but I've had very up and downs, 0:12:40.480 --> 0:12:42.880 to be honest. So it is really hard in there 0:12:42.920 --> 0:12:45.560 because you have a wonderful time and you laugh so 0:12:45.720 --> 0:12:48.520 much and it's it's brilliant. Everyone was great, but you 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:51.200 have hard times in there for different reasons because you do. 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:54.480 So much thinking, like you've got nothing else to do. 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:54.840 In there. 0:12:55.480 --> 0:12:57.840 When we did The Bachelor, I felt like there was 0:12:57.880 --> 0:13:00.640 always something to do, or always something want to talk 0:13:00.679 --> 0:13:01.160 to or. 0:13:01.080 --> 0:13:04.280 Film or go outside to the gym or the other thing. 0:13:04.280 --> 0:13:06.120 At The Bachelor, though, is like, and I don't know 0:13:06.120 --> 0:13:07.920 if you felt like this, brit And obviously it's so 0:13:07.960 --> 0:13:10.600 long ago now, but I was on high alert the 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:12.760 whole time because I was I was on the defense. 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:16.000 I was like, how are these people gonna undermine me 0:13:16.240 --> 0:13:18.720 or try and you know, screw my character or make 0:13:18.760 --> 0:13:20.160 me come across as a person that I'm not like. 0:13:20.240 --> 0:13:23.320 I felt like I was so defensive all the time. Yes, 0:13:23.400 --> 0:13:26.000 I felt the same in here. We're in such a 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:28.720 different point of life. So on The Bachelor, you're all single. 0:13:28.960 --> 0:13:31.960 Obviously some people had kids, but the whole point was 0:13:32.040 --> 0:13:34.200 probably one person on the show had a child, and 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:37.600 everyone was single because they're looking for a partner. Here 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:41.640 everyone has partners and families and kids like so there 0:13:41.720 --> 0:13:43.480 was a lot of really wholesome chat and a lot 0:13:43.480 --> 0:13:45.800 of people are really missing their families. And I haven't 0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:49.040 been in an environment twenty four hours a day where 0:13:49.679 --> 0:13:52.480 I'm around that before, and it makes you do so 0:13:52.640 --> 0:13:59.000 much thinking so much introspective, deep, meaningful life thoughts and 0:13:59.120 --> 0:14:02.000 chats that you would never have had, Like we have 0:14:02.080 --> 0:14:04.199 them here surface I don't want to say surface level, 0:14:04.200 --> 0:14:06.400 but we have them here and then we often go 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:08.200 home and we keep going on with life. But there 0:14:08.240 --> 0:14:09.760 you have them, and then you lay on your bunk 0:14:09.760 --> 0:14:12.040 bed and you just think about that chat for the 0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:14.840 next four hours. Yeah, and a lot of it was 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:17.800 around like kids and partners, and I always think about 0:14:17.840 --> 0:14:20.240 kids and partner and you know, marriage and stuff that's 0:14:20.240 --> 0:14:23.720 no secret. But in there listening to people like Frankie 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:27.880 and Ellie, people that were crying, like seeing Frankie cry, 0:14:28.080 --> 0:14:30.880 he was really upsetting there the whole time because he's like, 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:33.720 I have never known a love like I've known for 0:14:33.840 --> 0:14:36.320 my son and my wife, and he's like, and since 0:14:36.320 --> 0:14:38.680 I've been in here, I realized I don't give them 0:14:38.760 --> 0:14:40.960 enough attention. I'm not there enough for them. I need 0:14:41.000 --> 0:14:42.240 to be a better dad, I need to be a 0:14:42.240 --> 0:14:42.880 better husband. 0:14:42.960 --> 0:14:45.080 I say this, Maybe I'm being too critical, but I 0:14:45.200 --> 0:14:47.400 see that because like that obviously played out on the 0:14:47.400 --> 0:14:50.080 show as well. And my biggest thought when I see 0:14:50.120 --> 0:14:51.760 those sorts of things is like, well, why don't you 0:14:51.800 --> 0:14:52.200 just go home. 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:52.960 Well that's why I did. 0:14:53.040 --> 0:14:54.960 Go go home to your family if you're feeling that 0:14:55.040 --> 0:14:58.920 overwhelming feeling. But then I also think, oh, like is 0:14:58.920 --> 0:15:00.800 this just your way out, because like I think all 0:15:00.840 --> 0:15:03.240 the contracts you've really been signed for X amount of weeks, Like, 0:15:03.600 --> 0:15:03.920 I don't know. 0:15:04.080 --> 0:15:05.400 Frankie was real for sure. 0:15:05.480 --> 0:15:07.600 He struggled there in there the whole time, and he 0:15:07.680 --> 0:15:10.720 had so many big realizations in there about what his 0:15:10.800 --> 0:15:12.840 wife has given up. He's like, I've never had enough, 0:15:12.840 --> 0:15:14.480 and it's the thinking it's there nothing else to do 0:15:14.520 --> 0:15:15.120 in there but think. 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:17.240 He's like, I've never not had a hundred. 0:15:16.920 --> 0:15:20.400 Things to do, and it's now that I realize I 0:15:20.440 --> 0:15:21.920 want to be better for them. And he wanted to 0:15:21.920 --> 0:15:23.760 go home quite early to them. He was struggling, but 0:15:23.760 --> 0:15:25.360 he's like, I came here for a reason. I don't 0:15:25.360 --> 0:15:27.000 give up. But then it got to the point where 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:29.640 he's like, I've learned everything I'm going to learn and 0:15:29.720 --> 0:15:31.360