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Speaker 1: And Amanda jam Nay down to the jonesy demand of

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Speaker 1: arms for the pub test today calling adults mister and missus?

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Speaker 2: Does it pass the pub test?

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Speaker 3: I saw this.

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Speaker 1: Bit of audeo on a TikTok and I know it

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Speaker 1: will drive a lot of people crazy because she's irritating.

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Speaker 1: But what she says is interesting.

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Speaker 3: We s type hitting kids that calling adults mister or

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Speaker 3: missus or miss so and so outside of school where

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Speaker 3: I get it, But I'll say that can you stop

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Speaker 3: teaching them that that is like being respectful? Because like,

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Speaker 3: isn't the more respectful thing to do to just ask

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Speaker 3: an adult what they would like to be called.

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Speaker 1: Also, in America, they have the generic terms of sir

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Speaker 1: and man. We don't get if someone calls you ma'm

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Speaker 1: you excuse me? I love it, but we don't have that.

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Speaker 3: Yes sir, no, sir.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't have a generic term for a respectful

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Speaker 1: word for older people. When we grew up, we called

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Speaker 1: all our parents, all our friends parents mister and missus,

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Speaker 1: and to this day I still do. I like this

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Speaker 1: comment someone's made. I've had my thirty year anniversary A

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Speaker 1: couple of years ago. I saw my favorite teacher mister McBride.

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Speaker 1: He said, I think you can call me Tim now.

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Speaker 1: I said, thanks, but the world would explode if I.

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Speaker 4: Yes, exactly, and I feel that as well in my life.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I think we still but that the new generation

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Speaker 1: outside of school and the mister and missus, we don't

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Speaker 1: call older people mister and missus, and maybe should we?

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Speaker 1: What do you think calling adults that you know, mister

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Speaker 1: and missuses it past the pub test.

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Speaker 2: It's definitely past of the pup test. My wife has

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Speaker 2: a friend who her children's refer to their parents by

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Speaker 2: their first names, and it's always just such a weird

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Speaker 2: feeling to he that as I hope.

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Speaker 3: That from dad.

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Speaker 2: So I definitely think, even like strangers, mister and missus

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Speaker 2: definitely past the pub test.

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Speaker 5: Definitely does. Anybody who studied languages has been overseas. You

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Speaker 5: never use the polite pronoun unless somebody actually says you

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Speaker 5: can use it to them.

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Speaker 4: Growing up, it was jung into us to call an

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Speaker 4: older per from mister and missus. To this day, there

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Speaker 4: was no first name basis. It was a no no.

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Speaker 4: So I say, bring back the etiquette, just like a

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Speaker 4: simple policeman. I thank you so to me it passed

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Speaker 4: the pub dab and you call them whatever they want

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Speaker 4: to be called.

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Speaker 6: Some of my mate's parents said, cut the mister and

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Speaker 6: missus call my first name. Sometimes I had a nickname

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Speaker 6: for him, other times I was walked in name, Mom,

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Speaker 6: there are you going? That's how I grew up.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, remember that you didn't know if the kid's surname.

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Speaker 2: Hey, miss is Amanda?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Amanda, Amanda.

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Speaker 2: Can I have a Tim Dan?

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Speaker 1: And that's close enough.

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Speaker 5: Thank you for all your call