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Speaker 1: This is a Will and Woody podcast mini.

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Speaker 2: But when you're in a rat Right now, Woods, we're

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Speaker 2: talking about sex clocks and them being out of sync.

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Speaker 3: That's right, So desiring sex at a different time to

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Speaker 3: your partner and you know that can be a problem

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Speaker 3: for relationships. But right now we are joined by doctor

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Speaker 3: Nikki Goldstein, doctor Jim who is a sexologist, and doctor Nikki.

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Speaker 3: You potentially have a solution for anyone who's sex clock

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Speaker 3: is out of sync.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think with this one we tend to overcomplicate it.

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Speaker 1: It all comes down to your fleet patterns. Some people

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Speaker 1: are morning people, some people are evening people. So my

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Speaker 1: solution is do it in a shower.

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Speaker 3: Whoa too is?

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Speaker 2: That feels like a random how did you is that.

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Speaker 3: Shower in the morning?

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Speaker 2: We're talking about where doctor Nikki, we're talking about when?

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Speaker 1: What have you done it your shower? Right? We're all

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Speaker 1: time for these days and I think that plays a

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Speaker 1: partner as well. Is it a lot of people they're

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Speaker 1: tired at the end of the day, they're stressed. Thanks

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Speaker 1: want to hit the head on the pillow and just

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Speaker 1: say good night, I'm going to sleep. Or maybe you're

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Speaker 1: not a morning person, but most people would have a

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Speaker 1: shower once or at least twice a day. So maybe

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Speaker 1: it's the solution to saving your water bills and having

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Speaker 1: some time in the shower. Or you've got to just

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Speaker 1: go to quality, not quantity. So it might be weekends

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Speaker 1: where you're having a snuggle in and not all the

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Speaker 1: time during weeknights, because I think we get a bit

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Speaker 1: obsessed with this idea of how many times we should. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the good snuggle session on the weekend can be enough

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Speaker 1: for a lot of people.

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Speaker 2: You can ask you, well, a couple of things here.

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Speaker 2: Let's stick with the shower stuff for first and foremost traditionally,

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Speaker 2: I mean, like I think we can all agree, wonderful

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Speaker 2: place to kick things off. I mean it's almost like

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Speaker 2: a cocktail bar, right, Like it's a great place to start,

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Speaker 2: but you can't stay there for too long. Cocktail bit

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Speaker 2: you tend to get a big drunk. Shower just tends

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Speaker 2: to you know.

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Speaker 3: Bit impractical you've got water.

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Speaker 2: I practical is the word I do. I know if

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Speaker 2: you've got water in your face, I know what you're.

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Speaker 1: Doing in there hours as a quickie, you know, like

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Speaker 1: to show kind of a revolution that it's midweek, you're

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Speaker 1: both busy. One person's wanting to go to bed straight away.

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Speaker 1: The other person's an early riser, and literally an early riser.

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Speaker 1: You've got to find some solutions.

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Speaker 2: All that cost time in the shower, though, is I

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Speaker 2: mean we're notanding this, This this practical question which I understand.

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Speaker 2: We're in you know, commercial airways at a family friendly time.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, yeah, cod words is good. Code words is good,

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Speaker 3: doctor Niki. But when you said QUICKI there, you said,

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Speaker 3: you know, just a shower is great for a quikie.

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Speaker 3: Do you do you think that's a discussion that you

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Speaker 3: have pre or does a quickie just sort of end

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Speaker 3: up happening. I hope you're picking up what I'm putting

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Speaker 3: down there.

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Speaker 1: I think sometimes the word quickie can be a turn

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Speaker 1: on and a turn off some people. The idea of

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Speaker 1: a quickie it's a bit to do it, like, oh quick,

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Speaker 1: we've got to do this. Maybe somebody is coming in

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Speaker 1: the room or someone's going to hear us, And to

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Speaker 1: other people it's a matter of really not having time.

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Speaker 1: So I think if it's said in the in the

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Speaker 1: way of oh, let's just have a quickie, it's a

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Speaker 1: real turn off. So but if you're going to go

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Speaker 1: jump in in the shower together. I think it's well

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Speaker 1: assumed that it's going to be a brief encounter.

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Speaker 2: It's in practical you.

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Speaker 1: Really don't care about the environment, just want to keep

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Speaker 1: the water running. But I think it's going to be

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Speaker 1: a more brief encounter. And remember we're looking for compromises

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Speaker 1: and resolutions. There's not going to be a perfect solution

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Speaker 1: to sinking our sex lives, but we have to look

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Speaker 1: at where we might.

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Speaker 3: Be able to think on the time answers Doctor Nikki,

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Speaker 3: and final question before you go there, Doctor Niki. Will

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Speaker 3: revealed on the show yesterday that his mother in law

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Speaker 3: walked in on him in the bedroom, but he also

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Speaker 3: revealed that he left the door open. Did Will want

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Speaker 3: to be walked in on?

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Speaker 1: Maybe he likes that whole You know, I'm going to

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Speaker 1: get it's a bit risky situation. I think the door open,

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Speaker 1: you're asking for something, whether she's going to capting your

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Speaker 1: jocks or tatchoo in doing something else. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: you've got to take responsibility for that one, buddy, go.

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Speaker 2: On, Will, I'm not not taking responsibility for it. I

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Speaker 2: don't really know what to say, you know what, Nikki

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Speaker 2: you've caught me.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to involve.

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Speaker 3: Niky's the best. If you want to go and check

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Speaker 3: out her stuff doctor Nikki dot com dot au Docky,

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Speaker 3: Doctor Nikky.

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Speaker 2: Gulls do Nikky so much, You're more.

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Speaker 1: Of the boys on the Full Show podcast. You know

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Speaker 1: you want to