Speaker 1: The Flex and Rooms Daily podcast brought to.
Speaker 2: You, coming to you with quite a sum of mood.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, pick it up? What's that?
Speaker 2: Just wave a tightness came over me. I think I
Speaker 2: need a coffee, fie.
Speaker 3: What are you?
Speaker 4: Your chocolate, your chocolates, the chocolates you bought just for
Speaker 4: this chockets.
Speaker 2: No, I don't feel like chocolate. I haven't felt like
Speaker 2: chocolate that much this week.
Speaker 3: What's going on for me?
Speaker 2: I think I'm like finding excitement elsewhere. Oh it'll come back.
Speaker 2: Eight half a block yesterday? Okay, tasted pretty good. Gotta
Speaker 2: get the craving out. I'm on my marble bent lately,
Speaker 2: cadbritty quality marble with a Cara milk flavorway. Well, you
Speaker 2: know you don't like it. You don't like Cara milk.
Speaker 2: The caramelk in the marble is called because it takes
Speaker 2: away the absolute sacchereneness of the caramel. It's your favorite chocolate.
Speaker 4: I don't have a favorite chocolate, but if I had
Speaker 4: to pick, it would be no kick, no bounty or
Speaker 4: tim tam if it had double the filling and less
Speaker 4: of the biscuit.
Speaker 2: Oh wait, double the coating.
Speaker 4: No, double the filling like that Ganashi whipped moosey more
Speaker 4: of that and then less of the biscuit between the
Speaker 4: chocolate coating.
Speaker 2: I don't think that exists.
Speaker 4: Say yeah it doesn't because I thought double coat. I
Speaker 4: just like herd double double filling. Double coat is not
Speaker 4: what I want either.
Speaker 2: I love the double coat. They're very satisfying.
Speaker 1: I disagree Fleck and Foms.
Speaker 2: I was perusing the gram but a few days ago
Speaker 2: and one of my friends, he's a new friend, put
Speaker 2: on his story a picture of him with an ice cream.
Speaker 2: It was a Sunday, so he had little Sunday ice
Speaker 2: cream moment. Great and I wanted to reply, oh my god,
Speaker 2: that looks delicious, because he was saying he got Boys
Speaker 2: and Berry and he said that Messina is better than
Speaker 2: Peter Pipo.
Speaker 3: What's Peter Pipo.
Speaker 2: It's a Melbourne ice cream but small business, so they're
Speaker 2: both fantastic. So Peter Pepper has this some like Ntella
Speaker 2: stuff that they put over the top. That's warm, delicious,
Speaker 2: and then click on the next slide. What is it?
Speaker 2: It's the ice cream on the ground. He's dropped his
Speaker 2: ice cream.
Speaker 4: A shame, but it happens often. I see that on Instagram.
Speaker 4: A lot more than you'd think.
Speaker 2: It's like a bird shooting on you. But it doesn't
Speaker 2: give you any good luck. No, So I replied to him,
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I was excited for you. I'm so sorry. Yeah,
Speaker 2: because he looked really it was like a pig and
Speaker 2: shit in the first picture. He replied, Yeah, and the
Speaker 2: guy that bought me that, the guy that knocked me
Speaker 2: this was one of those. It was an attack, bought
Speaker 2: me another one, but only brought me one scoop.
Speaker 3: Aha, it's cutting caught that a dog behavior.
Speaker 4: If you're knocking someone's whatever, they drink, their ice, their
Speaker 4: food out of their hand, you have to double up.
Speaker 4: It's you replace with interest. You don't just replace what
Speaker 4: I lost, because what about the emotional impact of losing
Speaker 4: it in the first place.
Speaker 2: Embarrassment?
Speaker 3: Many two scoops.
Speaker 2: Add a little something, a little flake in it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so this is the perfect Am I the asshole in
Speaker 2: real time art?
Speaker 3: Next?
Speaker 2: I want to know, does the guy is it the
Speaker 2: guy's let's let's make it.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I don't think if you knock someone do you have
Speaker 2: to buy them a drink or an ice cream? Do
Speaker 2: you give them money? Or do you just say, look,
Speaker 2: it's your fault.
Speaker 4: And let's put some more parameters out there so people
Speaker 4: can't be like, well, it just depends on the situation.
Speaker 3: Shut up.
Speaker 4: Parameters are you are you are walking down a main
Speaker 4: road and you've knocked somebody's boost juice their little messina
Speaker 4: because you were on your phone. Like if clearly you're
Speaker 4: in the wrong, no two ways about it. It's it's
Speaker 4: a shame it's happened, but it's on the floor. There's
Speaker 4: no recovering it. You're looking at them, You're looking at
Speaker 4: what you've done.
Speaker 3: What is the next protocol?
Speaker 2: Listen, I think that's pretty obvious. What about this one? Okay,
Speaker 2: they walk into you accidentally, they don't on their phone.
Speaker 2: They just like you just both bump each other, so
Speaker 2: it's we don't know, it's a mutual Oh yeah, classic, classic.
Speaker 4: I think depending on how upset they are, you know,
Speaker 4: if immediately they're hitting you, you would like, oh god,
Speaker 4: you know, then you definitely got to offer a little something,
Speaker 4: you know, because it's gonna be a confrontation. If they're like, oh,
Speaker 4: you know, it happens, it's so fine, they just leave
Speaker 4: it because there's nothing worse than going back and forth.
Speaker 4: Be like, oh, no, I'm gonna like no, no, no, no,
Speaker 4: I'm not doing it. Okay, it's mutual, let's just let
Speaker 4: it go.
Speaker 2: See, I'm the opposite if they were really nice and
Speaker 2: say listen, no more. If so, I'm gonna go get one.
Speaker 2: Whereas if they're shitty with me, I'd say listen, I'm
Speaker 2: sorry because they're already shitty. Oh okay, and I don't
Speaker 2: want to go out of my way and buy them
Speaker 2: two double deck of ice cream for them. You'd be
Speaker 2: like yeah, thanks and still be shitty. I was in
Speaker 2: a similar situation last weekend when mate my mates at
Speaker 2: a bar and there was this new friend who literally
Speaker 2: just got in from London, like he literally like a
Speaker 2: long haul fly, and he sits down at the pub
Speaker 2: and everybody wanted to leave because they're going to a gieg.
Speaker 2: So my mate, who's friends of them, was like, go
Speaker 2: have his beer. He's out having a cigarette, have his
Speaker 2: beer because we're gonna leave. I sit down, I'm having
Speaker 2: the beer. He comes in and goes, where's my beer?
Speaker 4: You're knocking it back, and I look at the fact
Speaker 4: that you took it as well. You didn't wait to
Speaker 4: verify the information was true. You're like, oh yeah, it
Speaker 4: seems about right.
Speaker 2: They literally were just like, yeah, you have it, you
Speaker 2: have it.
Speaker 3: There, we're gonna go. And then so what happened. There
Speaker 3: was a confrontation.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh my god, I'm sorry. And before that,
Speaker 2: i'd introduced myself to him, like five minutes before before
Speaker 2: he went out, and like I walked into the table
Speaker 2: and I was we hung over, so I was like
Speaker 2: acting weird. Yeah, you weren't giving and I was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, hey I'm Lucinda, and he kind of
Speaker 2: looked at me like why are you just introducing yourself
Speaker 2: to me?
Speaker 3: I was already well, what do you mean? Is this
Speaker 3: the social anxiety coming through?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 2: Na, No, it was a weird vibe.
Speaker 4: Ah.
Speaker 3: And then you drank his drinking make sure you really
Speaker 3: didn't like me, And then what happened?
Speaker 2: Then they went off for agig and I just said, look,
Speaker 2: next time, I won't, I won't drink.
Speaker 3: You drink next time. There was no next time, it's
Speaker 3: too much. I can't. Yeah, yeah, you're silly, babe.
Speaker 4: They set you up. I don't know that was a trap,
Speaker 4: and I don't like set ups at all. So let
Speaker 4: me fight those friends on behalf of you, just for
Speaker 4: the principal's.
Speaker 1: Sake, flex and frooms.
Speaker 4: It has, in fact been a little while since I've
Speaker 4: slandered the Internet's new favorite application, be Real. It is
Speaker 4: not a social media app, they say, it's just a
Speaker 4: little daily habit, a little critt rule to keep your
Speaker 4: screen tim up. Now, we don't need to get into
Speaker 4: the reasons why we like or dislike be Real. It
Speaker 4: is second to the fact that when I logged onto
Speaker 4: TikTok about I would say two weeks ago, now there
Speaker 4: was a new feature, And TikTok always has new features.
Speaker 4: Some of them bop, some of them don't. But I
Speaker 4: usually don't pay attention because what am I trying to do?
Speaker 4: And it was called the now tap. So at the
Speaker 4: bottom where you can click your notifications, you're for you
Speaker 4: page your friends only, it.
Speaker 3: Says now, I'm thinking, what's that mean?
Speaker 4: I click on to now and it literally has a
Speaker 4: graphic that looks just like be real of the blurred background,
Speaker 4: and then an icon that says post to view. And
Speaker 4: if you don't know, the thing that really shoots me
Speaker 4: about be Real is that in order to access content
Speaker 4: that my friends have posted, I physically have to post
Speaker 4: and I don't want to post more on the Internet
Speaker 4: to engage with my own people. Now TikTok has the
Speaker 4: same function where in order to view the posts of
Speaker 4: your mutual friends who post this, now platform you have
Speaker 4: to post something.
Speaker 3: To which I said, where is the decorum?
Speaker 4: Because back in the days, at least platforms would wait
Speaker 4: a little while before they copied.
Speaker 3: Now it's blatant. Now it's literally like, oh that's a
Speaker 3: cute thing, let me steal that in three months. It's bizarre.
Speaker 3: And to think you haven't are you still using? Be real?
Speaker 5: You are?
Speaker 4: Yeah, you got a little daily streak happening or no,
Speaker 4: yeah do fascinating, But then you haven't in the TikTok update.
Speaker 2: Nah, I don't go on TikTok that much.
Speaker 3: Interesting.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I probably go on TikTok once a week.
Speaker 3: What, Yeah, you're interesting.
Speaker 2: I haven't gotten addicted to it. It's quite nice. Actually,
Speaker 2: yeah's a big sash.
Speaker 3: As you know, yeah, as we know, we know, we
Speaker 3: know the routine. But this is what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: The thing, the great issue with the Internet is that
Speaker 4: like trend cycles don't exist. Everything just reaches maximum optimization
Speaker 4: and then dies. So you know, if you want to
Speaker 4: post on social media. Let's give you an app with
Speaker 4: the most advanced algorithm ever, and then you get sick
Speaker 4: of it. Let's say you like a certain trend, Let's
Speaker 4: make sure that trend is oversaturated, and then nobody wears it.
Speaker 4: This is what's happening with be Real at the moment.
Speaker 4: I think TikTok will be the demise of be Real,
Speaker 4: not Instagram, because people thought when Instagram released it to
Speaker 4: dual camera function, got'd be the great demise.
Speaker 6: It was not.
Speaker 4: TikTok, though, has a lot more power than Instagram does
Speaker 4: in terms of deciding what is and is not cool.
Speaker 4: Now TikTok is stolen, relatantly stolen the b real function.
Speaker 4: I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. Your days are numbered.
Speaker 2: I am a purist and I really love what b
Speaker 2: Real did. They came out of the gates, tried something new,
Speaker 2: so I will continue to use their platform. I don't like.
Speaker 2: I don't want random seeing my TikTok thing. I want
Speaker 2: my friends.
Speaker 4: Well this is I have used it, I haven't used it,
Speaker 4: and again, like I would love another place on the internet.
Speaker 3: No, you know what I want.
Speaker 4: I don't want another place on the internet to hang
Speaker 4: with my own friends. I already know where they are.
Speaker 4: I want a place on the Internet where the algorithm
Speaker 4: recommends me people that I'm bound to get along with,
Speaker 4: who are in my vicinity. I want to see more
Speaker 4: like minded people so I can expand my actual social networks,
Speaker 4: not my fake Internet digital footprint like in real life
Speaker 4: social networks. Oh you too, like Drake and Cafe Freeds
Speaker 4: and and you know, chihuahuas meet and then we meet.
Speaker 1: I guess, I guess this is Flex and frooms on Kada.
Speaker 2: As always, I'm out in the community finding content for
Speaker 2: our show, looking for little tiny things that I can
Speaker 2: add and share with you Flex And this one comes
Speaker 2: exactly from my bedroom.
Speaker 3: The other day.
Speaker 2: My housemate was hanging out with me in bed and
Speaker 2: she said something really beautiful about when you are grieving
Speaker 2: something and beat a relationship, a friend, a job, and
Speaker 2: she gave this analogy. Like me, sometimes it's difficult to
Speaker 2: get the thought out, I.
Speaker 3: Don't say that. Well, we had to do it like
Speaker 3: twice a bit of feedback.
Speaker 6: So Lucinda and I are talking about heartbreak and one
Speaker 6: of my friends gave me this really great analogy about
Speaker 6: a box and the memory is a little ball and
Speaker 6: your mind is a box and.
Speaker 2: The ball never.
Speaker 6: Changes, is what I miss.
Speaker 3: I can't remember now I'm trying to say it.
Speaker 2: Well, you said that the ball.
Speaker 5: I love.
Speaker 2: This is the inception of the voices of the ball.
Speaker 2: The ball is like a piece of grief, and it's
Speaker 2: in a box, and every time it hits the side
Speaker 2: of the box, it hurts.
Speaker 6: But then as you go on, the box gets bigger
Speaker 6: because that's time.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, So the box gets bigger, and it means that
Speaker 6: the ball hits the sides of the box less and
Speaker 6: less often. And the ball doesn't change. And every time
Speaker 6: the ball hits the side of the box it hurts,
Speaker 6: but because the box is getting bigger, it hits the
Speaker 6: side of the box less and less. Yeah.
Speaker 5: Is that.
Speaker 2: That's perfect?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 4: Christopher Nolan the new inception. I was hearing Bowl the
Speaker 4: whole time. I was like, okay, so there's a bowl
Speaker 4: in a box, so let me you know it makes sense.
Speaker 3: Listen.
Speaker 2: It was late at night when we're talking about this,
Speaker 2: so the brain was ticking.
Speaker 3: It always is. But but I like what you I
Speaker 3: like the point. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So it's talking about how things will always hurt, painful
Speaker 2: things that have happened to you will always hurt, but
Speaker 2: they hurt less.
Speaker 4: Often, or perhaps it's not they're hurting less, but the
Speaker 4: impact of them is perhaps less noticeable because you've had
Speaker 4: time to like expand your mind, expand your life. You know,
Speaker 4: She's like, because I think hurting less that you try
Speaker 4: to quantify it, like how much does it hurt?
Speaker 3: Is it makes me cry?
Speaker 4: Still it might always make you cry, you know, does
Speaker 4: make me you know reminisce. Well, it might always make
Speaker 4: you reminisce. So then instead of being like how much
Speaker 4: or how little, it's like it'll always just you just
Speaker 4: won't think about it as much.
Speaker 2: Just how often I really thought it's beautiful?
Speaker 3: It is beautiful?
Speaker 4: So whereas who whose concept is this? It came from
Speaker 4: a friend of a friend. Yeah, not us, spreading rumors.
Speaker 4: We always to A friend of mine told me that
Speaker 4: a friend said so, never referencing the original people.
Speaker 3: Literally, have we found this person?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I was with nipple story the woman who told me
Speaker 2: it on Friday night, and she's still insistent that it's
Speaker 2: a real person.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you would if you're the person who we
Speaker 3: can who we can tie the room about.
Speaker 2: She doesn't want it to be her though, because she
Speaker 2: had mad anxiety that like she told someone else's story.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, well I did ask you about this, whether
Speaker 4: or not you feel like the people, whether or not
Speaker 4: you threw me feel like the people who you talk
Speaker 4: about and their stories.
Speaker 3: Fuck, I can't even phrase this.
Speaker 2: I know what you mean, Like, if I'm going to
Speaker 2: rush about someone, if you're going.
Speaker 4: To write or speak on behalf of someone, are they
Speaker 4: prepared for the story exceeding you and your personal network
Speaker 4: and then reaching the hand and the minds and the
Speaker 4: brains of random people who don't have the context.
Speaker 2: And you know what I mean, that's part of being
Speaker 2: an artist. And I've told you previously. I once spoke
Speaker 2: to Becky Lucas on my newsletter really fantastic comedian, successful
Speaker 2: Australian comedian, and she I asked her, you know, because
Speaker 2: she wrote a book and it's about people. It's called
Speaker 2: Acknowledgments by Becky Lucas. It's a colorful boy where she
Speaker 2: thanks people for certain lessons that they've given her own life.
Speaker 2: And she she's like, you know, that's part of art.
Speaker 2: It's doctoring people her words.
Speaker 4: Look, maybe it is, but I find that the more
Speaker 4: time I hang on the internet, the less I want
Speaker 4: to share because I used to be really naive about
Speaker 4: the internet being a safe place. I was just like,
Speaker 4: I don't know, when you're self interested, you don't really
Speaker 4: think about what happens outside of the way you see
Speaker 4: the world, right, So I was like, it's fine. Everything
Speaker 4: I say do express on the internet is being received
Speaker 4: as intended because I mean it to be that way.
Speaker 4: And then one or two times you get misunderstood and
Speaker 4: it kind of hurts you, like whatever, And then one
Speaker 4: or two times you tell a story on behalf of
Speaker 4: somebody else, or you share information where the stakes are
Speaker 4: so low for you, not considering that it's high for
Speaker 4: them because they're not built to withstand it all. There's
Speaker 4: no incentive to withstand the critique and you know, the
Speaker 4: observations and all that stuff. So I think it's fascinating.
Speaker 4: But in this instance, the heartbreak grief thing is fascinating.
Speaker 2: Do you like the analogy?
Speaker 4: I like the analogy a lot because I used to
Speaker 4: be really detached, bitch over emotional family.
Speaker 2: It is what it is.
Speaker 4: And then I started feeling my feelings after therapy, and
Speaker 4: I was like, you people do this all the time.
Speaker 3: Because everything hurts. Why everything gotta hurt?
Speaker 4: The life I was living beforehand, from zero to twenty
Speaker 4: four A breeze, a breeze, because I was like nothing,
Speaker 4: I feel nothing. Everything is like the same amount of
Speaker 4: nothing that's in the best way possible, and like everything
Speaker 4: is good, nothing bad ever happens. My luck is amazing.
Speaker 4: And then I turn twenty five and I get humbled.
Speaker 4: I'm like, damn, the world is really scary. And then
Speaker 4: you gotta live with the things you've felt. You can't
Speaker 4: just press them.
Speaker 3: Yeah it hurts, Yeah, it's not for me, Bob.
Speaker 1: This is flex and frooms on Kita.
Speaker 2: It is the summer of getting near it.
Speaker 3: What does that mean?
Speaker 2: Everybody asks, It means going out flirting, going near the
Speaker 2: person that you attracted to, giving off a sexy vibe because,
Speaker 2: as they know, when you get near it, you get
Speaker 2: even closer to it.
Speaker 4: I would also say getting near it is just prioritizing
Speaker 4: pleasure and leisure and ease, whatever that looks like for
Speaker 4: you in your current predicament.
Speaker 2: Do that fantastic facts a bit of a gear change.
Speaker 2: But the other day I was out at Cafe Freighters
Speaker 2: Now their dinner before going to Groove Armada. I will
Speaker 2: say I spent ten minutes with Groove Armada, went home
Speaker 2: really had a tummy ache.
Speaker 3: Really, yeah, you got a power through na.
Speaker 2: It wasn't good.
Speaker 3: Wasn't good? Or the tummy ache. Look, it wasn't good.
Speaker 2: The tummy ache wasn't good. And when I was there,
Speaker 2: the sound was really low. But then when I left,
Speaker 2: they turned it up and the vibe kicked up a notch.
Speaker 3: Did you pay to go? Yeah? Whoa, and you gave
Speaker 3: it easily.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm in my frivolous spending era. Yeah, I'm like you,
Speaker 2: frivol spending on social outings just because I want to
Speaker 2: push myself to go. But also if I'm not feeling it,
Speaker 2: I'm not feeling it or I've already spent the money.
Speaker 3: Who did you go with? Were they find with you leaving?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Like four?
Speaker 2: Like eight mates?
Speaker 3: Oh okay, so you're just like the odd one out.
Speaker 3: Yeah they were happy to have you go.
Speaker 2: Yeah, very keen. Actually, But at the dinner I was
Speaker 2: talking to one friend whose sister has had a baby.
Speaker 2: God knows how we got here, but apparently when you
Speaker 2: get pregnant, your bush grows back. If you had laser,
Speaker 2: if you don't know. Laser hair removal is a technique
Speaker 2: where a laser is Yeah, a laser is directed right
Speaker 2: into your pussoirs. Oh, the LaBier majurer. If we want
Speaker 2: to get technical, we do. It's important to name you
Speaker 2: of a jewels. Yeah, we do. It's not little what else?
Speaker 2: People call it muffin muffin. You can use your imagination
Speaker 2: so as somebody would laser.
Speaker 3: Oh okay.
Speaker 2: There's sometimes times where I wish that I had not
Speaker 2: gotten rid of the bush. Oh okay. I'm getting older
Speaker 2: now and I'm realizing perhaps having a completely hair free
Speaker 2: situation down there isn't actually the life I want to
Speaker 2: live anymore. I have always liked, in terms of looks,
Speaker 2: the synergy and symmetry of a woman.
Speaker 1: With a bush.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you got the two nipples and then the
Speaker 2: bush in the middle. It's a triangle and it can
Speaker 2: be quite nice. It's good for balance, it's really nice
Speaker 2: for balance.
Speaker 3: But obviously you're gona have a kid just to get
Speaker 3: your bush back.
Speaker 2: But what I did is I message a friend of
Speaker 2: mine who's pregnant actually, and who's also a midwife, so
Speaker 2: she sees forgets all the time, and.
Speaker 3: She's just that we need to name it.
Speaker 2: And apparently it's not true. Oh because like certain when
Speaker 2: you have certain hormones, certain things happen to your hair. Like,
Speaker 2: for example, my mom had cancer when I was in
Speaker 2: high school.
Speaker 3: Same really yeah, breast, yeah, sleigh.
Speaker 2: We are so much in co that moms are okay, now,
Speaker 2: yeah they are. My mom got chemos so all her
Speaker 2: hair was gone. Oh my god. Really I sometimes mom
Speaker 2: would sleep in my bed and had to wake up
Speaker 2: in the middle of the night she had no hair,
Speaker 2: and like freak out, thinking it was a little gremlin
Speaker 2: in my bed. Anyway, she took it very well, and
Speaker 2: when her hair grew back, it grew back like fool ringlets,
Speaker 2: like a curly, curly hair, and she'd always had like
Speaker 2: straight hair.
Speaker 3: Humans are weird that so I have to say about it.
Speaker 2: We get to see if the bush will come back
Speaker 2: when I do create a human in my stomach.
Speaker 4: Solo project. You're incubating on your own when you create
Speaker 4: a human. Keep us posted. I'd love to know how
Speaker 4: that goes for you. And up until then, there are
Speaker 4: things that you can get. There are exactly as if
Speaker 4: any lace front bush.
Speaker 2: Simulators, oh really they're lace front.
Speaker 3: You can get lace front one.
Speaker 2: Yeah, how do they attach?
Speaker 4: Well, you use glue like you would a lace front wig,
Speaker 4: so it looks really beautiful and seamless.
Speaker 2: I might try it. Yeah, that's genius.
Speaker 3: It is, Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Okay, I've always thought they were a joke because on
Speaker 2: Row of Live Fucking I was a kid the so
Speaker 2: joke about mercant So it's real.
Speaker 3: It's very real.
Speaker 4: Honestly, nothing is a joke if you really think about it.
Speaker 4: Just lies told in various tones of voice. I mean truths.
Speaker 2: Jokes are truths on they here, aren't they?
Speaker 6: Now?
Speaker 2: If you're listening and your bush has grown back after
Speaker 2: having a child, please DM me at froom so three o's.
Speaker 2: I need to hear your story.
Speaker 1: You're listening to flex and frooms. OK.
Speaker 2: For me?
Speaker 4: Is yawning? Somebody talks your energy out of you? Is
Speaker 4: it the poltergeist? Potentially? Are you coming into your powers?
Speaker 2: Maybe dreams? I'm gonna go have one for myself. Who've
Speaker 2: inspired me?
Speaker 1: Join me, babes.
Speaker 3: I'm telling you we could sync up all right.
Speaker 4: We are talking to world renowned psychic media Marina d
Speaker 4: about dreams and dream interpretations. Just before hand, I went
Speaker 4: to my Instagram story and asked people have followed me
Speaker 4: what questions they want to have asked?
Speaker 3: And it's very interesting.
Speaker 4: I feel like what people keep to themselves unless they're
Speaker 4: given the permission to share. Because I was like, babes,
Speaker 4: this feels like you should go to therapy for this one.
Speaker 4: This doesn't feel like a you know, a five minute
Speaker 4: chit chat with Marina's gonna help you. But nonetheless, I
Speaker 4: appreciate all openness in all forms, and I do think
Speaker 4: that by the end of this conversation we're gonna have
Speaker 4: actual actionable tasks to.
Speaker 3: Do when we get to bed.
Speaker 2: I hope so.
Speaker 3: Speak Marina. It's flex and through me. Hi, how are
Speaker 3: you so good?
Speaker 4: It's not every day we get a world renowned psychic
Speaker 4: medium on the phone, but we're glad you're taking the
Speaker 4: time out because we have questions that need answers.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a.
Speaker 3: Phenomenal.
Speaker 2: We feel good today. I keep having dreams about my
Speaker 2: mum betraying me. Every time I have a dream and
Speaker 2: my mom's in it, she's either like running away from
Speaker 2: me or she's done something that is betraying me, like
Speaker 2: quite hurtful. But in the real world, we've never had
Speaker 2: a fight. She always does everything for me and we're very,
Speaker 2: very very close, So I'm trying to figure out why
Speaker 2: in all of my dreams she's betraying me and I'm
Speaker 2: getting angry at her.
Speaker 5: It doesn't always necessarily mean it's about the mom, though.
Speaker 5: It could just be through what she's feeling herself, that
Speaker 5: she might be going through something herself. But usually when
Speaker 5: a betrayal comes through a dream means it's something that
Speaker 5: you could be secure about or something that you need
Speaker 5: to change in your life. It's not necessarily about the mum.
Speaker 5: It can also be that the mom needs to do
Speaker 5: some changes in her life.
Speaker 4: Wow, Okay, we are already making it happen. Is there
Speaker 4: or are there some fail safe ways for everybody to
Speaker 4: interpret their dream If you track them and.
Speaker 5: If you go back on your dreams, say for example,
Speaker 5: maybe three months back, we see things have either happened
Speaker 5: or that they're warned you about things. You'll start realizing
Speaker 5: what your symbols can repeat in your dreams as well
Speaker 5: that you can learn then how to give yourself a reading.
Speaker 3: Fascinating.
Speaker 4: I had a few questions in here from people I
Speaker 4: asked on Instagram what they wanted me to ask you.
Speaker 4: One of the most prominent questions is should I be
Speaker 4: looking for how I'm feeling when I'm dreaming to interpret
Speaker 4: what's happening or what I'm seeing.
Speaker 5: So it's what you're seeing depends on the dream as well,
Speaker 5: because sometimes you can actually have an out of body experience,
Speaker 5: which happens to me. Now this can be with me
Speaker 5: where I do a bit of work with investigations and stuff.
Speaker 5: I'm trying to find an item and be with the
Speaker 5: police as well that I actually go out of my
Speaker 5: body with the dream. So I'm visualizing that I can
Speaker 5: be feeling things as well, So you both you take
Speaker 5: both in account.
Speaker 3: WHOA Okay, another one? Why do we dream?
Speaker 5: I can just go on a spiritual path that I
Speaker 5: feel like going by what I get through my dreams
Speaker 5: and the readings that I get for myself, my kids,
Speaker 5: or even for clients that they come through to be
Speaker 5: able to give us some kind of guidance.
Speaker 3: Amazing.
Speaker 4: Jess wants to know why do we have reoccurring dreams
Speaker 4: with the same people and the same storyline over years.
Speaker 5: Yeah, because you haven't learned the lesson from that person.
Speaker 5: There's something that you haven't brought closure to as well.
Speaker 5: Things will repeat themselves, not just in dreams, but also
Speaker 5: in reality until you learn the lesson or that you
Speaker 5: take that message of what you need to learn from it.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 4: Talia wants to know can we influence what we dream about?
Speaker 4: She'd prefer to have fun dreams and not nightmares.
Speaker 5: No, no, it's all in the self conscience mind what
Speaker 5: needs to be delivered, all right?
Speaker 3: And Tiana wants to know.
Speaker 4: Is it true that when you dream of someone it's
Speaker 4: because they were thinking of you recently?
Speaker 5: There can be a telepastic yes, can be?
Speaker 3: Can we put a percentage to that? Is that like
Speaker 3: every time?
Speaker 2: Not every time?
Speaker 5: No, you can be so. For example, if you've had
Speaker 5: a dream about someone and they call you the next
Speaker 5: day or they text you that day, so that could
Speaker 5: be obviously they've been thinking about you. But if you
Speaker 5: get a dream and they don't call, you, don't text,
Speaker 5: you don't hear from them. No, not necessarily all the time.
Speaker 3: Okay, thank you so much, Marina, Thanks Saka.
Speaker 5: Not a problem guy.
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