WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - Would You Take Grandma's Urn? 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:12.640 This episode was recorded on Cameragle Land. Hi guys, and 0:00:12.680 --> 0:00:14.480 welcome back to another episode of Life Uncut. 0:00:14.520 --> 0:00:17.959 I'm Laura, I'm Brittany, and this is Ask Guncut where 0:00:18.000 --> 0:00:20.680 we answer you're deep, you're duck, and you're burning questions. 0:00:20.720 --> 0:00:22.880 Thank you to everybody who's written in a question this week. 0:00:23.120 --> 0:00:25.000 That was nice, Laura to trying to thank you and 0:00:25.040 --> 0:00:27.360 thank you for people they're writing in the aftermaths as well. 0:00:27.440 --> 0:00:29.600 We're going to do that soon. Oh okay, So I'm 0:00:29.640 --> 0:00:30.840 actually so excited by this. 0:00:30.880 --> 0:00:33.879 We've been talking about aftermaths for as long as we've 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:36.000 been doing Ask Gun Cut, which is a good five 0:00:36.080 --> 0:00:36.600 years now. 0:00:36.720 --> 0:00:38.440 And the problem is is that we've talked a lot 0:00:38.560 --> 0:00:41.160 a lot of talk, not a lot of action, which 0:00:41.600 --> 0:00:42.800 I would like to not on USK. 0:00:43.200 --> 0:00:44.600 That is exactly what I was going to say. That 0:00:44.680 --> 0:00:46.840 is not an US problem. That is it for everyone 0:00:46.920 --> 0:00:49.640 whose questions we've answered problem. And after all this time, 0:00:49.720 --> 0:00:52.479 I'd started to I'd started to get a bit of 0:00:52.520 --> 0:00:56.680 self doubt because you guys rarely give us the update 0:00:56.840 --> 0:00:59.600 on what has been happening after you send in the question. 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:01.520 You just the advice and then you run off into 0:01:01.520 --> 0:01:04.520 the wilderness and we don't hear an update. But what 0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:06.840 we've started doing now is every time we answer a 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:09.800 question on here, we have our magical fairies who work 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:11.800 behind the scenes, who then contact you and tell you 0:01:11.840 --> 0:01:13.960 we've answered the question, and we're getting follow ups. So 0:01:14.000 --> 0:01:17.800 we're actually getting aftermaths now. So that's gonna happen next year. 0:01:18.800 --> 0:01:25.200 Spoiler watch this face. Spoiler we have aftermaths. Oh my god. 0:01:25.480 --> 0:01:27.880 Whilst I'm cackling for a second, someone reached me yesterday. 0:01:27.959 --> 0:01:30.400 Someone commented on my Instagram and said, shut the fuck up. 0:01:30.400 --> 0:01:34.479 The world doesn't need to hear that laugh. Yeah. Yeah, 0:01:34.480 --> 0:01:35.600 And she was a middle aged woman. 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:38.800 It always is. What was the name, Wendy. We'll go 0:01:38.840 --> 0:01:40.400 with Wendy. Do you actually I think it was Wendy. 0:01:40.920 --> 0:01:43.880 It always is a middle aged woman. It always is. 0:01:43.920 --> 0:01:46.080 And you know, while I say this, because you guys 0:01:46.160 --> 0:01:47.960 know the whole tit out saga. We talked about it 0:01:48.000 --> 0:01:50.400 on Tuesday. I said that their name was Stephen. That 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:52.520 was to save them, so you're gonna out them. It 0:01:52.560 --> 0:01:55.280 wasn't a Stephen. It was a Diana. Okay, it was 0:01:55.320 --> 0:01:58.240 a fucking Diana. And she was a middle aged woman too. 0:01:58.480 --> 0:01:59.200 Do you know what though? 0:01:59.240 --> 0:02:02.200 The YouTube comments which seemed to be weirdly geared towards 0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:05.320 me at the moment, in the negative ones always about appearance, 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:10.360 always from men. So YouTube and Instagram different audiences, different 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:11.400 karens yeap. 0:02:11.520 --> 0:02:14.160 Keisha's a bit sensitive at the moment because someone commented 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:16.000 on her lipstick yesterday and said yuck. 0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:18.160 That one didn't hurt me as much as the one from. 0:02:17.960 --> 0:02:20.480 The week before, which I won't repeat here, but that 0:02:20.560 --> 0:02:21.560 one really did get to me. 0:02:21.800 --> 0:02:24.200 That was the one the week before. We're not going there. 0:02:24.520 --> 0:02:29.359 I was called mate, Diana, fuck off, fuck off, Wendy. 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:31.480 Also, if your name's Diana and you love the podcast, 0:02:31.560 --> 0:02:33.120 please this is that was not aimed at you. 0:02:33.200 --> 0:02:36.280 We love you. And Wendy. Also, I knowed even you're 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:38.000 all great. I know plenty of great Wendy. It's just 0:02:38.040 --> 0:02:40.560 another day of being a girl on the internet, isn't it. Yeah, 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:41.240 But I don't know. 0:02:41.680 --> 0:02:43.959 It's more offensive to me because my laugh is like 0:02:44.040 --> 0:02:45.320 the core part of who I am. Like, you can 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:48.080 change your lipstick, Keisha, I can't change my laugh. It 0:02:48.160 --> 0:02:49.440 is ingrained who I am. 0:02:49.560 --> 0:02:50.160 So be fair. 0:02:50.520 --> 0:02:52.240 I mean, we really do ask for it just by 0:02:52.240 --> 0:02:53.240 putting ourselves out there. 0:02:53.280 --> 0:02:55.519 It's our fault. Have you guys said, that's not doing 0:02:55.600 --> 0:02:58.160 victim blame? I am the victim. Here was a joke. 0:02:58.280 --> 0:03:00.200 Have you guys seen that video of Ariana grind on 0:03:00.200 --> 0:03:03.200 a podcast where she's oh, by the way, another thing 0:03:03.360 --> 0:03:04.120 the criticism. 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:06.320 I am highly aware now that. 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:09.480 Perhaps we should have been slightly more sensitive talking about Wicked, 0:03:09.480 --> 0:03:13.080 because I did not realize how many people were Wicked 0:03:13.120 --> 0:03:15.040 stands and how many people were going to come in 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:17.840 and support Ariana Grande. But there is a video of 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:20.200 her on a podcast from a couple months ago, and 0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:21.960 she's talking and it sounds as though it's. 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:24.440 In her actual normal voice. 0:03:24.400 --> 0:03:28.160 And then midway through it switches to that kind of softer, 0:03:28.320 --> 0:03:30.320 more like baby style voice. 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:31.919 That she has. Well, like she forgot that she wasn't 0:03:31.960 --> 0:03:34.720 in character for a moment, and people were like, hang 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:37.520 on a second, what just it? Was there a glitch 0:03:37.560 --> 0:03:39.520 in your matrix? Like what happened there? 0:03:39.720 --> 0:03:42.760 There's been a lot of conversations online about Ariana having 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:45.600 this different voice, and I don't. 0:03:45.520 --> 0:03:46.840 See the problem now, I do. 0:03:47.160 --> 0:03:50.000 I don't understand the outrage about it because she's clearly 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:51.640 a character in this movie. 0:03:51.680 --> 0:03:53.200 It's called method acting, yeah. 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:56.280 And she's allowing that character to kind of flow into 0:03:56.320 --> 0:03:58.000 her interviews and everything else. 0:03:58.080 --> 0:03:59.640 I think it's okay for me. 0:03:59.840 --> 0:04:02.640 I actually think it makes the whole production around it 0:04:02.680 --> 0:04:03.240 more special. 0:04:03.280 --> 0:04:05.560 I like that she stayed in character. I like, we 0:04:05.560 --> 0:04:08.120 don't know who you are? Is she Gwen? 0:04:08.240 --> 0:04:10.440 Is she? Because I've not seen Wicked, so Wicked people 0:04:10.440 --> 0:04:10.920 don't come back. 0:04:10.920 --> 0:04:12.840 I don't think we should talk about it. I just 0:04:12.840 --> 0:04:14.560 have one question. Is she Gwenda? Is she the good 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:16.960 Witch Glinda? She's Glinda? 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:20.520 Yeah, not Gwenda, not Wendy, Wendy, not Gwendall close. 0:04:20.600 --> 0:04:22.160 But the one comment that I did see that I 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:24.200 thought was actually kind of maybe fair enough is that 0:04:24.240 --> 0:04:28.640 apparently people who are singers sometimes deliberately speaking a higher 0:04:28.680 --> 0:04:31.599 registrar because it softens the damage that they can do 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:32.479 their vocal. 0:04:32.160 --> 0:04:34.559 Cords or something about I thought it was a bit strange. 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:36.719 If you're going to agree to be on a podcast, 0:04:37.240 --> 0:04:39.560 to me, I think you're agreeing to talking for an hour. 0:04:39.680 --> 0:04:40.320 I disagree. 0:04:40.360 --> 0:04:42.400 I think she realized halfway through that she was damaging 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:44.440 her vocal cords, and she thought, this is my most 0:04:44.520 --> 0:04:45.440 important assays. 0:04:45.600 --> 0:04:47.440 I think she just thought, fuck, I slipped character. 0:04:48.560 --> 0:04:50.680 If you think people have a phone voice, right, It's 0:04:50.720 --> 0:04:53.600 normal for people to change their voice depending on their surroundings. 0:04:53.680 --> 0:04:56.520 If somebody is sitting at home with their family having 0:04:56.520 --> 0:04:58.960 a yarn, having a bari, then they have to go 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:01.240 and do a keynote present in front of a thousand people, 0:05:01.240 --> 0:05:03.240 They're going to speak differently. Like if you pick up 0:05:03.240 --> 0:05:05.120 a phone you have an important conversation. I have a 0:05:05.160 --> 0:05:07.240 phone voice, like I try to sound a little bit 0:05:07.360 --> 0:05:09.919 more important, a little bit more intelligent, a little bit better. 0:05:10.160 --> 0:05:12.360 I think people read the audience and I think that's okay. 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:15.680 Why don't you use that voice on the podcast box? 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:18.320 I have an a Basha. 0:05:19.839 --> 0:05:23.200 Hey, I did have an interesting message that came through 0:05:23.200 --> 0:05:24.760 on Life on cart and I wanted to ask you 0:05:25.279 --> 0:05:27.560 if you had ever experienced this, And I did put 0:05:27.640 --> 0:05:30.000 on my Instagram as well. But Laura, for some reason, 0:05:30.080 --> 0:05:31.919 I think that you're going to have a story surrounding this. 0:05:32.400 --> 0:05:34.479 So one of our life has wrote in, Hey, so 0:05:34.560 --> 0:05:38.000 I've just had this conversation. I've literally just heard this. 0:05:38.000 --> 0:05:38.880 This girl just. 0:05:38.800 --> 0:05:42.360 Found out that her partner cheated on her, and in retaliation, 0:05:43.080 --> 0:05:49.039 she took his grandmother's own She took his earn, Yes, 0:05:49.279 --> 0:05:52.120 the actual urn with the ashes in it. I cannot 0:05:52.120 --> 0:05:55.000 wrap my head around this. Surely this can't be true. 0:05:55.080 --> 0:05:57.800 I mean, who would take an earn? And if someone did, 0:05:58.080 --> 0:06:00.720 what on earth would they do with it? Added the ashes, 0:06:00.800 --> 0:06:03.440 hold it hostage, use it as a twisted. 0:06:03.000 --> 0:06:04.120 Trophy of revenge. 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:07.279 And then the listener literally said, I for some reason, 0:06:07.320 --> 0:06:09.080 I feel like Laura and your listeners are going to 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:10.000 have a story around this. 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:14.240 That's a character assassination. Yeah, I'm not a who wrote that? 0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:15.360 In was that Wendy again? 0:06:15.440 --> 0:06:17.080 Okay, so I added that in she just said, I 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:20.240 think your listeners will have stories, but I have story 0:06:20.720 --> 0:06:21.760 that's wild. 0:06:21.960 --> 0:06:24.599 I would love to know if this person, whoever this 0:06:24.640 --> 0:06:27.039 person is, I would love to know if the guy realized, like, 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:29.040 does he check in on Nana frequently enough that he 0:06:29.160 --> 0:06:29.960 noticed it was missing? 0:06:29.960 --> 0:06:32.520 Because it's only impactful if you're like, where the fucktion go? 0:06:32.600 --> 0:06:33.200 But it's a whole. 0:06:33.279 --> 0:06:34.880 She didn't just scoop it out and be like, ha ha, 0:06:35.200 --> 0:06:39.600 I'm stealing Nana. Like you would notice an entire urn gone. 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:41.680 But you would only notice an urn gone if it's 0:06:41.720 --> 0:06:44.200 in a particularly prevalent place in the house or if 0:06:44.240 --> 0:06:47.520 it's something you check on, because they often people get 0:06:47.520 --> 0:06:47.960 an urn. 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:50.040 I mean I should shouldn't say often. I just mean 0:06:50.279 --> 0:06:50.960 me recently. 0:06:51.320 --> 0:06:53.760 You get an urn and then you put it somewhere 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:56.520 with the intention of scattering it. But it doesn't necessarily 0:06:56.520 --> 0:06:58.479 go on display. You might put it in a wardrobe 0:06:58.560 --> 0:07:01.400 or put it somewhere, which sounds because like Nana doesn't 0:07:01.400 --> 0:07:02.320 belong in a wardrobe. 0:07:02.320 --> 0:07:05.600 About Nana was closeted a whole life. Goddamn it. If 0:07:05.640 --> 0:07:08.240 your nan is in a wardrobe, take her ound. 0:07:08.360 --> 0:07:11.200 I always thought of maybe I've just been led down 0:07:11.200 --> 0:07:13.440 the garden path by movies. But I always thought that 0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:15.560 you get an urn and you put it on the fireplace. 0:07:15.600 --> 0:07:17.320 I don't have a fireplace, but if I did, I 0:07:17.360 --> 0:07:18.640 feel like that's where I put my urn. 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:22.080 We've spoken to it earns a lot lately. But the reason, well, 0:07:22.120 --> 0:07:23.560 I mean, there is a good reason. 0:07:23.320 --> 0:07:25.400 For that, but it does depend on how much you 0:07:25.480 --> 0:07:29.080 spend on the urn, because there's different caliber of urns. 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:31.720 There's the plastic one, which is just like a blue 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:34.920 plastic box, which people are not putting on the mantelpiece. 0:07:35.280 --> 0:07:37.600 Or there's what my mum went for with poor old Nana. 0:07:37.680 --> 0:07:40.040 She just came in a giant griplock bag, So you're 0:07:40.080 --> 0:07:41.320 not putting that on the mantelpiece. 0:07:41.400 --> 0:07:41.960 That's got to go. 0:07:42.040 --> 0:07:44.840 And what the wolworst bag hasn't been hung over the 0:07:44.840 --> 0:07:45.640 fireplace with it? 0:07:45.720 --> 0:07:46.240 Do you know what I mean? 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:48.840 Think that maybe it was like a beautiful, expensive ceramic 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:51.240 urn and she's selling grammar on the black market. 0:07:51.320 --> 0:07:53.720 No, no, I have absolutely no idea. But that is 0:07:53.720 --> 0:07:56.520 a pretty cooked revenge story for cheating. I understand that 0:07:56.600 --> 0:07:59.040 cheating often, when you find out that it has been 0:07:59.080 --> 0:08:01.600 done to you, you want to enact some sort of revenge. 0:08:01.920 --> 0:08:03.360 I would like to think that most of us are 0:08:03.400 --> 0:08:05.679 above it, but like often there is something. 0:08:05.760 --> 0:08:08.000 But that's a pretty low blow. I've got a bit 0:08:08.000 --> 0:08:10.400 of respect for it. Do she take it if she's 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:11.760 gonna use it to blackmail? 0:08:11.920 --> 0:08:13.920 I mean, you've got to take something that has value, 0:08:14.000 --> 0:08:15.520 and what wouldn't you. 0:08:15.520 --> 0:08:16.560 Do to get your grandmother? 0:08:16.960 --> 0:08:19.880 But I don't think it's blackmail. I think she's just 0:08:19.960 --> 0:08:22.000 taking it to hurt him. I think it's just a 0:08:22.200 --> 0:08:23.840 you know, that's why you take something when you break up, 0:08:24.080 --> 0:08:26.520 like a cruel, Like what's so important to either you 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:28.280 that you want to keep it or so important to 0:08:28.320 --> 0:08:29.880 that person that you want to like, I don't think 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:31.520 she's blackmailing him, but. 0:08:31.520 --> 0:08:33.319 Why would you take it? Then? 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:36.000 Let trying to use it as like a bargaining chip, 0:08:36.160 --> 0:08:38.680 but bargaining for what? That's my point, Go back and 0:08:38.720 --> 0:08:41.040 uncheat on me, like you cut. There's no there's nothing 0:08:41.040 --> 0:08:42.920 that you can get back with that sort of bargain. 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:45.360 Maybe it's like, I'll give you Grandma back if I 0:08:45.400 --> 0:08:48.040 can keep the dog. She's put herself in a position. 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:51.800 I've said she I don't even know if it was she. 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:54.560 She's just put herself in a position of power, is 0:08:54.600 --> 0:08:55.440 all I'm saying. 0:08:55.600 --> 0:08:57.600 And I'm not saying that I would do the same, 0:08:57.920 --> 0:08:59.959 but it's a bold move. It's a power. 0:09:00.360 --> 0:09:02.640 I don't know if she's done it as a bargaining chip. 0:09:02.679 --> 0:09:04.600 The way that I kind of interpret this is that 0:09:05.080 --> 0:09:07.840 she's taken it from his house without him knowing for 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:10.600 sure that it's her. So she's stolen it so that 0:09:10.760 --> 0:09:13.480 when he does discover that Grandma's gone, he feels upset 0:09:13.520 --> 0:09:15.160 and he'll be like, hey, what happened did you take this? 0:09:15.240 --> 0:09:17.040 And she's gonna be like, you're crazy, No, I didn't. 0:09:17.480 --> 0:09:20.080 Just so that he doesn't get to have that moment 0:09:20.080 --> 0:09:22.120 and doesn't get to like, I think she's done it 0:09:22.160 --> 0:09:24.480 to enact hurt on him, not because she wants to 0:09:24.480 --> 0:09:24.920 bargain with. 0:09:24.960 --> 0:09:27.840 Him, which I think is pretty fucking cruel. 0:09:27.920 --> 0:09:29.840 Well, I did ask some of you guys, like have 0:09:29.960 --> 0:09:31.600 you ever broken up or been broken up with them? 0:09:31.679 --> 0:09:31.719 Like? 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:32.360 What did you take? 0:09:33.520 --> 0:09:36.880 They're pretty funny. I took all the herbs and spices 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:39.360 from the pantry. They take so long to accumulate, so 0:09:39.480 --> 0:09:43.720 sucked it. I took all the top of wear lids, 0:09:44.040 --> 0:09:46.040 but not the container, just so that they can't put 0:09:46.040 --> 0:09:46.520 anything in. 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:49.920 I took my ex's lawn. What do you mean, like 0:09:49.960 --> 0:09:52.920 he's AstroTurf or like a lawn, the lawn. 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:55.200 He cared so much about his lawn that she went 0:09:55.240 --> 0:09:56.840 and dug up the lawn with a shovel. 0:09:56.960 --> 0:09:59.160 That fuck, yes, good good. 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:03.400 Can you just imagine I'm gonna fucking show you two 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:05.559 weeks later, you're still digging up, but I'm gonna let 0:10:05.600 --> 0:10:06.120 me get there. 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:09.240 No, because lawn is something that if you've got a 0:10:09.280 --> 0:10:11.720 good lawn, you were proud of that lawn. Like, I 0:10:11.800 --> 0:10:14.720 get it. I understand that ain't no matter Scott's fertilizer. 0:10:14.760 --> 0:10:16.000 That's bringing that back to life. 0:10:16.640 --> 0:10:18.719 There were a lot of like I took his birth certificate, 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:23.439 which is like what sort of rung and bell I 0:10:23.440 --> 0:10:25.600 thought that's something you would do because you've broken into 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:27.960 houses before and forged signatures, and. 0:10:27.960 --> 0:10:31.120 I've told you guys about how I forged my ex's signature. 0:10:31.240 --> 0:10:33.800 So because because and I know that this comes up, 0:10:33.800 --> 0:10:35.840 this comes up every time we talk about ex revenge 0:10:35.840 --> 0:10:38.959 and cheating stories training new listeners. It's a very I'll 0:10:38.960 --> 0:10:41.160 give you a quick quick overview. Found out my partner 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:43.280 was cheating on me. We've been together for quite a while, 0:10:43.520 --> 0:10:45.400 and I had booked us flights to go to the 0:10:45.400 --> 0:10:48.000 Philippines together for my friend's wedding, so. 0:10:48.080 --> 0:10:49.800 I'd paid for it, I'd booked it. We were going 0:10:50.120 --> 0:10:50.800 Sabu Air. 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:53.560 The reason why that's important is because Sabu Air are 0:10:53.600 --> 0:10:56.320 fucking great because most airlines don't let you change flights 0:10:56.320 --> 0:10:57.440 into other people's names. 0:10:57.760 --> 0:11:00.480 You just like you can't transfer flights anyway. 0:11:00.600 --> 0:11:02.640 Broke up with him. I wanted to take my girlfriend 0:11:02.720 --> 0:11:05.640 Kaya to the wedding with me. I contacted Sabou and 0:11:05.640 --> 0:11:07.800 they were like, well, you need to have his passport 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:10.520 and a signature. So I contacted him and told him 0:11:10.559 --> 0:11:12.360 he couldn't come to the wedding, and he was like, well, 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:14.800 I'm not signing that we're going to get back together. 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:16.520 He was so adamant that we were going to get 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:18.360 back together, even though he was the one who cheated 0:11:18.360 --> 0:11:21.079 on me, and I was filthy angry at him. So 0:11:21.280 --> 0:11:23.880 I snuck into his house, took a photo of his passport, 0:11:23.920 --> 0:11:25.960 forged his signature, and I went to the Philippines with 0:11:26.000 --> 0:11:26.440 my girlfriend. 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:28.800 Had a great time. But Laura, imagine if you had 0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:31.000 his grandma in an urn. And I also took his 0:11:31.080 --> 0:11:31.440 nad up. 0:11:32.080 --> 0:11:35.200 But imagine if you say you will sign this document 0:11:35.320 --> 0:11:38.000 because that is the only way you're getting grandma by totally. 0:11:38.120 --> 0:11:40.320 The only other crazy thing I did, and it was 0:11:40.320 --> 0:11:42.240 to the same guy when he cheated on me. 0:11:42.240 --> 0:11:45.200 Another time was I took his phone. 0:11:45.240 --> 0:11:47.240 I threw it off the balcony and that landed several 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:48.160 stories down at a pool. 0:11:48.200 --> 0:11:49.160 So like, get to be this viny. 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:52.080 I always wanted to again. I watched you in new movies. 0:11:52.080 --> 0:11:53.800 I always wanted to be in that kind of a breakup, 0:11:53.840 --> 0:11:55.760 which is this is toxic in itself. But I thought 0:11:55.760 --> 0:11:57.199 if I ever was gonna have a breakup like you'd 0:11:57.240 --> 0:11:58.640 go hard and you do it properly. And I wanted 0:11:58.640 --> 0:12:00.400 to be on like the second story of a building 0:12:00.440 --> 0:12:02.280 and he's on the grass on the lawn and I'm 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:05.160 throwing down his clothes over the balcony and throwing That's 0:12:05.200 --> 0:12:07.560 what I kind of break up I envisioned for myself. 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:09.800 You know what I thought I was deserving of farm. 0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:10.200 Well never did. 0:12:10.440 --> 0:12:13.240 So not to like repeat more stories about my girlfriend Kaya, 0:12:13.840 --> 0:12:16.920 but the reason why we I mean, we've been the 0:12:16.920 --> 0:12:19.080 best of friends for like twelve years now, but one 0:12:19.080 --> 0:12:23.040 of our bonding moments was she I hope I'm telling 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:24.360 this story right, because she'll hear this. 0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:27.280 And be like, you fuck she maybe just don't name her. 0:12:27.320 --> 0:12:29.320 She thought she got cheated on hers so long ago 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:29.880 that now it's funny. 0:12:29.960 --> 0:12:31.800 She thought she got cheated on and so she keeped 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:35.520 her boyfriend's car, but then found out he didn't actually cheat. 0:12:38.000 --> 0:12:40.440 And did he did she tell him he knew she 0:12:40.520 --> 0:12:42.800 like went real crazy in Keaty's car. And does she 0:12:42.840 --> 0:12:45.599 fix her? I don't know, she was young. Oh you 0:12:45.640 --> 0:12:47.520 can't tell a story like that, not to the purpose 0:12:47.520 --> 0:12:48.959 of defamation. Yes, she did fix it. 0:12:49.080 --> 0:12:49.920 She came for all of. 0:12:49.880 --> 0:12:52.840 The refairs and it was not kaya, it was Plaire. 0:12:53.320 --> 0:12:55.920 It's been more than ten years. Statutory of dec whatever, 0:12:55.960 --> 0:12:56.360 it's got. 0:12:56.280 --> 0:13:01.199 Limitations, which doesn't exists with the facts that you can 0:13:01.240 --> 0:13:03.280 do any illegal manuver you want, and the second you 0:13:03.320 --> 0:13:04.920 hit ten years you're allowed to talk about it because 0:13:04.960 --> 0:13:07.719 they can't touch you. I'm like, that's not statutory limitations 0:13:07.720 --> 0:13:08.280 except murder. 0:13:08.280 --> 0:13:10.160 Apparently that one that doesn't flyff. 0:13:09.920 --> 0:13:12.360 Nothing does if breaking into still has a limit, like, 0:13:12.360 --> 0:13:13.840 it doesn't just go away. 0:13:14.040 --> 0:13:17.920 Satutary limitations. It didn't happen. It was ten years ago. 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:18.760 I'm a new person now. 0:13:18.880 --> 0:13:20.800 It's like when you write something really offensive on the 0:13:20.800 --> 0:13:22.480 internet from ten years ago and you go, but I'm 0:13:22.480 --> 0:13:24.719 a new person, they say, And I don't know how. 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:27.079 Backed by science, this is that every cell in your body 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:28.800 is replaced in a seven year cycle. 0:13:28.960 --> 0:13:30.960 So it wasn't even her who did it. It was 0:13:31.000 --> 0:13:32.800 the old her, seven year ago her. 0:13:33.160 --> 0:13:35.320 I think one person just wrote in now four of 0:13:35.360 --> 0:13:45.520 his left shoes. That's good, that's good. Yeah, oh man. 0:13:45.720 --> 0:13:48.240 We love these sending your revenge stories because I'm sure 0:13:48.280 --> 0:13:50.960 that there is more of them, great cheating revenges. It's 0:13:51.000 --> 0:13:54.760 time for vibes and unsubscribes Kita, you can go first, 0:13:54.840 --> 0:13:55.320 my friend. 0:13:56.040 --> 0:13:58.240 This is a click one for me today. It is 0:13:58.280 --> 0:14:01.319 an app and it is called sim Pull Interval Timer. 0:14:01.480 --> 0:14:03.960 So it says sit so like sit, but it's all 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:07.439 in capitals and it is an app that is completely free. 0:14:07.440 --> 0:14:09.240 There is a paid version, but I've been using the 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:11.960 free version for like twelve years now, and it's for 0:14:12.000 --> 0:14:14.160 anyone who whether you're at the gym or maybe you're 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:16.640 doing like a home workout, and you know when you 0:14:16.640 --> 0:14:18.360 want to do interval training of like I want to 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:21.120 do a minute of squats with like fifteen seconds in 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:22.640 the middle, and then I want to do a minute 0:14:22.640 --> 0:14:24.160 of push ups and so on. 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:28.120 To barter, it's called debatera training. Interesting, yeah, that's also 0:14:28.120 --> 0:14:30.920 it's called hit training. I think that that's Liker. They're 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:32.200 all the stival training. 0:14:32.480 --> 0:14:35.080 Well, anyway, this app it's blue and it's got zero 0:14:35.240 --> 0:14:39.440 zero zero four on the app label. It enables you 0:14:39.520 --> 0:14:42.440 to adjust the number of sets, the action and the break. 0:14:42.720 --> 0:14:45.040 So to explain that, I'll give you the sets that 0:14:45.080 --> 0:14:45.400 I did. 0:14:45.400 --> 0:14:48.320 So I set it to have eight sets of a 0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:51.880 minute of action with fifteen seconds of break, and then 0:14:51.920 --> 0:14:53.440 you just hit down the bottom and it will come 0:14:53.520 --> 0:14:55.200 up with the total time that it will take you, 0:14:55.280 --> 0:14:57.840 which for me was nine minutes and forty five seconds, 0:14:57.880 --> 0:15:00.560 and you hit let's go. And what I real about 0:15:00.560 --> 0:15:02.440 this one not only is it free, which I think 0:15:02.520 --> 0:15:05.840 is great, but you can listen to other things at 0:15:05.840 --> 0:15:07.400 the same time. So a lot of people I like 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:08.960 to listen to podcasts, a lot of people like to 0:15:09.000 --> 0:15:11.800 listen to music, and some apps that are kind of 0:15:11.920 --> 0:15:14.840 like this don't allow you to have other apps going 0:15:14.880 --> 0:15:16.040 at the same time, which. 0:15:15.920 --> 0:15:18.840 I assume would be really frustrating. I just simply wouldn't 0:15:18.920 --> 0:15:19.280 use it. 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:22.400 And the little beeps just come through on top of 0:15:22.440 --> 0:15:24.800 what you're actually listening to, so it doesn't make it pause, 0:15:24.880 --> 0:15:26.160 which would annoy me as well. 0:15:26.480 --> 0:15:29.720 So yeah, it's called SIT or Simple Interval Trainer, and 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:32.160 if you want to get into any type of interval training, 0:15:32.200 --> 0:15:34.040 I really recommend it give it a go because it's free, 0:15:34.040 --> 0:15:35.000 so it won't cost you anything. 0:15:35.080 --> 0:15:39.120 Amazing vibe for the week is it's MC beauty, and 0:15:39.320 --> 0:15:41.720 I know I vibe MC beauty a lot, but genuinely 0:15:41.760 --> 0:15:43.600 it's like the only makeup I wear at the moment, 0:15:43.640 --> 0:15:46.760 and it's so good. Now I am not a contour Galley. 0:15:46.880 --> 0:15:48.520 I don't do it well and I don't know how 0:15:48.560 --> 0:15:50.640