WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - Is This Normal? Bridesmaid Beef & Beers For One 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.800 Life Uncut acknowledges the traditional custodians of country whose lands 0:00:03.840 --> 0:00:06.520 were never seated. We pay our respects to their elders 0:00:06.559 --> 0:00:07.600 past and present. 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:11.320 Always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. This episode was 0:00:11.360 --> 0:00:12.760 recorded on Cameragle Land. 0:00:22.640 --> 0:00:25.040 Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life 0:00:25.079 --> 0:00:26.920 un Cut. I'm Brittany and I'm Laura. 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:29.920 Sorry I forgot to my phone on silent now I'm good, shocked, Yeah, 0:00:30.040 --> 0:00:30.680 I'm ready, do. 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:31.240 Not disturb me. 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:33.440 Do you know my favorite thing about you is your 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:35.839 someone's phone on golf And Laura's like, someone's phone's on, 0:00:35.960 --> 0:00:37.720 and everyone looks at their phone and we're all on 0:00:37.880 --> 0:00:39.200 do not disturb, and she's like, what's mine? 0:00:39.560 --> 0:00:40.240 Every time. 0:00:41.680 --> 0:00:43.199 We're all like, it's not us. She's like, I can 0:00:43.240 --> 0:00:45.959 hear it. You're like everyone to know. 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:48.559 That I'm popular and that indeed people do try and 0:00:48.560 --> 0:00:49.080 contact me. 0:00:49.280 --> 0:00:50.760 It happens. I'm so sorry. 0:00:51.040 --> 0:00:53.800 Oh my god, what I don't know why this memory 0:00:53.840 --> 0:00:56.040 is flashing into my head. Oh god, when you said 0:00:56.080 --> 0:01:01.080 I want everyone to think I'm popular, guys, please think 0:01:01.120 --> 0:01:04.760 I'm popular. I think I might have told this on 0:01:04.840 --> 0:01:07.600 the podcast like four years ago. Has to have been 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:10.880 at the beginning, I had been seeing this guy that 0:01:11.000 --> 0:01:15.080 I was obsessed with, that like couldn't care less about me. 0:01:15.160 --> 0:01:17.440 To be honest, I remember, I was like, I was 0:01:17.480 --> 0:01:19.560 so frustra It was hot, obviously, that's why I was 0:01:19.600 --> 0:01:23.760 obsessed with him more. And I was so frustrated by 0:01:24.560 --> 0:01:26.640 the way he treated me because he gave me enough 0:01:26.640 --> 0:01:28.880 to keep me going and pretended he was interested. 0:01:28.920 --> 0:01:30.680 Which one was he can we give him a give 0:01:30.720 --> 0:01:34.160 me a two words that would explain to me who 0:01:34.160 --> 0:01:34.480 he is. 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:36.280 I can, but I also don't ever want him to 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:37.480 hear what I'm about to say. 0:01:37.640 --> 0:01:41.440 He's not listening. He doesn't care about you, Brett. He 0:01:41.480 --> 0:01:42.000 never did. 0:01:42.319 --> 0:01:44.400 No, that's the thing he did. 0:01:44.640 --> 0:01:46.160 Okay, give me two words and we'll beat them. 0:01:47.360 --> 0:01:51.160 Oh yeah, yeah yeah. Anyway, very long on and off 0:01:51.320 --> 0:01:53.320 quote unquote relationship, but it wasn't anyway. 0:01:53.360 --> 0:01:55.800 So I remember you thought it was a relations He 0:01:55.840 --> 0:01:56.560 would let me go. 0:01:56.600 --> 0:01:58.080 He'd be like it's not for me, and then I 0:01:58.160 --> 0:01:59.800 would be like cool, then I'll move on with my 0:01:59.840 --> 0:02:01.360 life and he'd reared me back in and it was 0:02:01.400 --> 0:02:03.480 like that for years. Anyway. I remember this one time 0:02:04.560 --> 0:02:06.800 it was like getting to the end of this, it 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:08.120 was going to be like a big blop, and I 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:10.919 was like, okay, it's now whenever. So I remember changing 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:14.120 my friend's name in my phone to this really hot 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:17.840 famous person, and I said, I'm going to be meeting 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:20.519 him for coffee at this time. I'm going to put 0:02:20.520 --> 0:02:22.280 my phone in the middle of the table message me 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:25.079 multiple times. So this person's name pomps up. So do 0:02:25.080 --> 0:02:26.480 you know what I mean? I just faked. 0:02:26.840 --> 0:02:29.160 I just faked my friend. I just changed their name. 0:02:29.240 --> 0:02:31.440 So it looked like this hot famous guy kept messaging 0:02:31.520 --> 0:02:34.200 me in front of him, and I saw him look down, 0:02:34.880 --> 0:02:36.680 and then I was such a good actor. I was like, 0:02:36.720 --> 0:02:38.240 I'm so sorry, and I turned it and turned my 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:39.679 phone over. But I knew that he had seen that 0:02:39.720 --> 0:02:43.040 we're coming through. It worked. He was back in. He 0:02:43.240 --> 0:02:46.359 was like, give it to me, Brittany, Okay, how hard 0:02:46.400 --> 0:02:46.720 did you go? 0:02:46.880 --> 0:02:47.000 Was it? 0:02:47.040 --> 0:02:50.480 Chatting Tatum? No, it was attainable. 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:56.520 It was believable. It was a neighbor's star. It was 0:02:57.040 --> 0:02:58.040 to Robert. 0:02:58.040 --> 0:03:03.960 Someone from us Shift, Miguel, you got me. 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:07.160 Larry's hot. 0:03:07.320 --> 0:03:09.840 Also, every single person I've mentioned has like a wife 0:03:09.919 --> 0:03:11.760 or a lovely girlfriend, so not attainable. 0:03:11.960 --> 0:03:16.880 It's like Timothy's shallow man, bit far shoot to the stars. 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:18.560 It was someone that like I shouldn't have even say 0:03:18.600 --> 0:03:20.680 it attainable, but it was like it could have been 0:03:20.720 --> 0:03:22.440 a long shot on any good day. 0:03:22.520 --> 0:03:24.400 I need to know now who the attainable person is. 0:03:25.639 --> 0:03:27.440 Well, I can beat it again, you go. 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:28.000 It was. 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:31.919 Ah sex speak, all those names. 0:03:34.520 --> 0:03:36.720 Just my whole story is just going to be like 0:03:36.840 --> 0:03:38.000 beetep beep. 0:03:40.800 --> 0:03:43.120 Oh god, oh, guys, I wanted to say so. 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:46.480 If you listen to Tuesday's episode, we talked about the 0:03:46.560 --> 0:03:49.920 cultural and social phenomenon that is Reagan. We did a 0:03:49.920 --> 0:03:52.839 deep dive, but we almost did like a premature deep dive, 0:03:52.880 --> 0:03:56.080 because we talked about it on Monday morning, when you know, 0:03:56.120 --> 0:03:57.840 there was quite a bit of information the news about it. 0:03:57.880 --> 0:04:01.040 She was already going very very viral the time. But 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:04.960 that episode came out on Tuesday, and since then there's 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:08.440 been developments And maybe Reygun is a scammer. 0:04:08.240 --> 0:04:12.680 Yeah, the Turner's tape, ray Gun the break dancing scammer. Well, 0:04:12.920 --> 0:04:16.080 let's not start the rumors in case they're not true. 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:18.919 But there's some due diligence, some further due diligence that 0:04:19.040 --> 0:04:21.240 we do need to do here and the world needs 0:04:21.279 --> 0:04:23.880 to do. But some spicy little things are starting to 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:25.960 come roll onto the dance floor. 0:04:26.160 --> 0:04:29.119 I mean, this is wild. Also, it's got fourteen thousand 0:04:29.160 --> 0:04:31.719 signatures right now. The goal is fifteen thousand, so they're 0:04:31.720 --> 0:04:33.800 almost there. They're actually there're on fourteen eight hundred and 0:04:33.839 --> 0:04:36.680 fifty eight signatures. So people really care about this. But 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:40.280 it says hold reygun Rachel Gunn and Anna me is 0:04:40.320 --> 0:04:43.599 accountable for unethical conduct at the Olympic selection. 0:04:44.000 --> 0:04:46.120 I feel that you guys are kind of dancing around 0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:47.880 it just in case. But I don't mind kind of 0:04:47.880 --> 0:04:49.800 throwing myself under the bus if this does end up 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:50.680 to not be correct. 0:04:50.720 --> 0:04:52.440 We're dancing around it so we don't get sued. 0:04:52.600 --> 0:04:55.120 And also I don't have as much to lose, so 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:58.279 hang on, you do try and sue me, but I 0:04:58.279 --> 0:04:59.520 can claim bankruptcy. 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:03.159 We get sued, not you. No, I'm dancing around it 0:05:03.200 --> 0:05:05.839 before we say it. This is allegedly. I'm dancing around 0:05:05.839 --> 0:05:08.440 it because the worst thing you can do to someone 0:05:08.600 --> 0:05:11.800 is go and publicly throw mud on them and accuse 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:14.279 them of something if they didn't do it. So until 0:05:14.320 --> 0:05:17.279 we one hundred percent no, that is why I dance 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:17.680 around it. 0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:21.640 Okay, so there's speculation, there's smoke and fire saying that 0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:24.800 she set up her own governing body, her husband was 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:27.960 involved in the selection process, there was something to do 0:05:28.040 --> 0:05:31.720 with how there was access to the competition of which 0:05:31.800 --> 0:05:34.960 she was selected to then go on and represent Australia. 0:05:35.000 --> 0:05:36.480 It's just looking a bit cheap. 0:05:36.560 --> 0:05:38.880 When you say the governing body, you mean around the 0:05:38.880 --> 0:05:42.279 Olympic qualifiers. So that's why people are calling, Okay, maybe 0:05:42.440 --> 0:05:44.719 it didn't go to someone who was the best dancer 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:47.240 in Australia when it comes to break dancing, and there 0:05:47.400 --> 0:05:49.840 was a lot of allowances that allowed her to get 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:50.760 there in the first place. 0:05:50.800 --> 0:05:53.039 There is people mad on the internet yet, but I'd 0:05:53.040 --> 0:05:54.720 love to actually and this is why I don't want 0:05:54.720 --> 0:05:55.120 to accuse. 0:05:55.120 --> 0:05:56.960 I'd love to wait till the facts are out, because 0:05:57.120 --> 0:05:59.799 you don't just have a panel, a husband and wife panel, 0:05:59.800 --> 0:06:02.320 with one person that goes, oh, this is the one 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:07.040 and there's evidently far superior athletes there. So there's definitely 0:06:07.040 --> 0:06:09.479 still questions around this. For me, it still doesn't add up, 0:06:09.520 --> 0:06:11.320 so I need to see receipts. 0:06:11.880 --> 0:06:14.880 Yeah, it's looking as though there were issues with people 0:06:14.880 --> 0:06:18.039 who were actually very talented in this particular field who 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:21.720 may have wanted to represent Australia being able to get 0:06:21.839 --> 0:06:25.080 to the qualifier events. There's a cultural element to this. 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:26.920 A lot of people are, you know, saying that there's 0:06:26.920 --> 0:06:27.719 an element. 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:28.560 Of cultural appropriation. 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:31.800 But I do think it's important to point out that 0:06:31.880 --> 0:06:33.919 we recorded at eight am on Monday. 0:06:34.240 --> 0:06:36.000 A lot of this information wasn't. 0:06:35.800 --> 0:06:38.360 Widespread by then, and that's kind of why I feel 0:06:38.400 --> 0:06:40.200 like we're just saying there is. 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:41.200 More now to present. 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:45.040 If this information had been available and when we were recorded, 0:06:45.279 --> 0:06:45.720 maybe we. 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:46.920 Would have had different opinions. 0:06:47.040 --> 0:06:51.000 Also, it's wild to me how much we've spoken about 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:54.200 break dancing for something I've never talked about in my 0:06:54.520 --> 0:06:58.400 entire life. It's now dominated my existence the past four days. 0:06:58.680 --> 0:07:00.640 This person she haunts me in my sleep. 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:02.440 I used to do it when I was a part 0:07:02.520 --> 0:07:06.360 of a youth group. I'm not gonna lie. I used 0:07:06.360 --> 0:07:07.640 to do that, the spin on the back. 0:07:07.760 --> 0:07:09.960 Well, we used to do it on Wednesdays and Fridays, 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:12.600 but then I ended up going into the band instead. 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:14.960 But break dancing, it was a big part of the 0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:15.840 church culture. 0:07:16.240 --> 0:07:17.920 I always thought I could be Olympian. 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:19.240 So fine, do you know what it would be? 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:23.320 I always thought I that's a lie. I actually don't 0:07:23.320 --> 0:07:25.560 have any stamina for anything. I could never go to 0:07:25.560 --> 0:07:27.760 the Olympics. You know how some people they had that 0:07:27.760 --> 0:07:30.680 fighting spirit that when they feel as though they should 0:07:30.680 --> 0:07:32.840 stop in their body, their brain takes over. Like I 0:07:32.840 --> 0:07:35.440 think of people like Ned Brockman, for example. I was 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:38.520 born without that. When things get hard, I stop. When 0:07:38.520 --> 0:07:40.920 my body says, like you're tired, now, I go. I 0:07:41.040 --> 0:07:41.840 listen to you. 0:07:42.320 --> 0:07:45.200 I'm Ned Brockman inside, like that's who I want to be. 0:07:45.440 --> 0:07:48.840 You're competitive, very competitive. I think we give up soon. 0:07:49.040 --> 0:07:49.679 I'm tired. 0:07:49.880 --> 0:07:52.800 If there was an Olympic sport right now that you 0:07:52.840 --> 0:07:54.760 think you'd be most suited to, what would it be? 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:56.880 Oh, I need to sleep think about that. That's not 0:07:56.920 --> 0:07:57.320 a sport. 0:07:57.680 --> 0:07:58.520 I want to be the guy. 0:07:58.880 --> 0:07:59.480 Was he Turkish? 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:01.720 Used to be military guy, just went up with the gun. 0:08:02.200 --> 0:08:04.239 Do you know what silver? I know what I would 0:08:04.240 --> 0:08:06.320 have if I could go back into another life, I'd 0:08:06.320 --> 0:08:14.440 do tennis. I'd be a tennis player. That's interesting, dated one. 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:18.880 I don't understand why that's awkward at all, just funny. 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:22.360 That's what you you asked the question. I answered, That's 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:23.080 what I think I would. 0:08:23.200 --> 0:08:25.920 I love playing tennis, and I think that that's what 0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:26.400 I'd want to do. 0:08:26.400 --> 0:08:27.640 I think I'd be good at it. I think I picked 0:08:27.640 --> 0:08:30.920 you guys great couples tennis back in the day. Yeah, 0:08:30.960 --> 0:08:34.400 he just came up. He was just in the Wimbledon final. Actually, Okay, 0:08:34.440 --> 0:08:35.960 that's a segway. Keep going. We might have been a 0:08:35.960 --> 0:08:38.400 great tennis couple, but we're not a couple. I'm in love. 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:39.440 Cut all of that. 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:44.960 But it's like everything I've said on this podcast, so. 0:08:47.240 --> 0:08:49.280 I don't exist to control altfully. 0:08:49.520 --> 0:08:51.880 Hi, guys, welcome back to another episode with Keisha and Laura. 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:54.760 Okay, so we are here to answer your questions. I 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:56.760 promise we're getting into that. There's just one more thing 0:08:56.800 --> 0:08:59.880 I want to do before we do unpack all. 0:08:59.760 --> 0:09:01.080 Of your troublesome troubles. 0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:03.640 So if you listen on Tuesday's episode as well, you 0:09:03.679 --> 0:09:06.440 would know that Britt is now moving to Romania. 0:09:06.559 --> 0:09:07.440 I live in Romania. 0:09:07.559 --> 0:09:08.559 She lives in Romania. 0:09:08.600 --> 0:09:12.080 I'm Romanian and moving to Romania. Well no, but I mean, Ben, 0:09:12.120 --> 0:09:14.760 look you your beautiful fiance. He's now living in Romania, 0:09:14.800 --> 0:09:16.680 which means that you'll be spending a lot of time there, 0:09:16.920 --> 0:09:19.120 and it's a country that you seem to know absolutely 0:09:19.240 --> 0:09:20.199 nothing about. 0:09:20.040 --> 0:09:22.880 Except that's where Dracula is, except that you taught me that. 0:09:23.000 --> 0:09:25.960 Except Dracula came from Romania, from Transylvania. 0:09:26.040 --> 0:09:28.720 So actually one edition here. I know you're going somewhere 0:09:28.720 --> 0:09:30.960 with it. But my favorite part of the other day 0:09:31.080 --> 0:09:35.360 was Keisha saying, isn't Dracula a mosquito? That's what Keisha said. 0:09:35.400 --> 0:09:38.640 I feel like we need that quote taken and put somewhere. Anyway, continued, 0:09:38.880 --> 0:09:40.559 I said, he was like a mosquito. 0:09:40.920 --> 0:09:44.280 You can see where the parallels are. Vampires and mosquitos 0:09:44.320 --> 0:09:45.200 both suck blood. 0:09:45.240 --> 0:09:47.120 But he's a bat. I didn't know it was a 0:09:47.120 --> 0:09:54.079 bad He moved to Romania, which is where Dracula is from. 0:09:54.240 --> 0:09:57.679 As a fun fact, dracular Aara not real but no, 0:09:57.720 --> 0:09:59.160 but he's based on a real person. 0:09:59.200 --> 0:10:00.880 But it's the But where. 0:10:00.679 --> 0:10:04.320 He's from is real, which is Transylvania. In Romania, Dracula, 0:10:04.360 --> 0:10:06.880 I think he thrives in a colder environment, but it 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:08.480 does get really cold in the winter there. 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:10.240 What does he do in summer? 0:10:10.440 --> 0:10:12.240 I think he doesn't go out at night. Dracula is 0:10:12.240 --> 0:10:14.000 a night animal. Isn't that the whole point? 0:10:14.240 --> 0:10:18.120 I'm not It's kind of like a mosquito, isn't he mosquito? 0:10:18.240 --> 0:10:18.320 No? 0:10:18.360 --> 0:10:19.800 I went up about Dracula. 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:22.600 He's about my bat. I don't know how you guys 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:25.760 don't know about Dracula. Where the fuck did you grow up? 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:31.960 I think it's important to know some fun facts about 0:10:31.960 --> 0:10:33.280 the place that you're going to be moving to. 0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:35.920 And we're going to miss you when you live in Romania. Britt, 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:37.120 it's been good so far. 0:10:37.240 --> 0:10:38.640 Am I going to die in Romania? 0:10:38.720 --> 0:10:41.160 Okay, here's one that one of our beautiful life has 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:43.079 sent us, she said. Britt needs to know what's going 0:10:43.120 --> 0:10:46.320 down in Romania. So the country is home to eight 0:10:46.360 --> 0:10:51.000 thousand brown bears, according to the Environmental Ministry, Europe's largest 0:10:51.040 --> 0:10:54.559 brown bear population outside of Russia. Bears have killed twenty 0:10:54.559 --> 0:10:57.400 six people and severely injured them two hundred and seventy 0:10:57.440 --> 0:10:59.240 four others over the past twenty years. 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:00.160 That's a long time. 0:11:00.600 --> 0:11:02.200 There were bears in Romania. 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:04.680 So people are dropping dead from bears in Romania? 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:07.720 Are they where ben is? Yeah? 0:11:07.720 --> 0:11:10.280 They're everywhere. The place is infested with brown mes So 0:11:10.400 --> 0:11:11.840 what am I supposed to do? And bats? 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:14.720 It was the first city to have electric street lamps 0:11:14.760 --> 0:11:17.199 in Europe, so they're advanced. 0:11:17.280 --> 0:11:20.480 They're super fast and it is rapid. They're fast advanced. 0:11:20.840 --> 0:11:22.880 One thing you will love is that Romania is one 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:25.400 of the countries with the fastest internet speed. It has 0:11:25.440 --> 0:11:28.480 the sixth fastest internet speed in the world. 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:31.720 Wow, so I can record from there, we can reach you. 0:11:31.800 --> 0:11:33.600 We'll be able to get down the line real quick. 0:11:33.960 --> 0:11:36.640 Okay, it'll just buffer on our end. It's Australian Internet. 0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:37.200 So shit. 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:39.840 It also has and this is one of the tourist 0:11:39.960 --> 0:11:42.319 landmarks that apparently everyone needs to go and visit when 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:46.040 they're in Romania. Romania has one of the happiest cemeteries 0:11:46.080 --> 0:11:46.680 in the world. 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:49.040 It is called the Merry Cemetery. 0:11:48.600 --> 0:11:52.160 And all the tombstones are decorated colorfully and have poetry 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:55.160 or they have like funny jokes to try and relate 0:11:55.200 --> 0:11:56.560 back to the person who's in them. 0:11:56.800 --> 0:11:59.920 I'm sorry, but that screams Brittany as the person heads 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:02.960 with a joke. That is cool, man, it's nice. That 0:12:03.040 --> 0:12:04.760 is the kind of cemetery I think should be everywhere 0:12:04.800 --> 0:12:05.480 around the world. 0:12:05.520 --> 0:12:09.080 Oh, it's only in Romania. Sorry. You know what's not. 0:12:09.000 --> 0:12:09.920 Only in Romania? 0:12:10.080 --> 0:12:12.720 What Little Paris Book Arrest. 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:15.480 Its nickname is Little Paris because they built an Arcta 0:12:15.559 --> 0:12:17.720 Triumph in nineteen thirty five. 0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:20.280 I've seen it all after in real life. No Ben 0:12:20.320 --> 0:12:22.520 lives near the Arkda Triumph, the fake one. 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:25.000 It always surprises me when countries do that, when they 0:12:25.000 --> 0:12:27.120 build like something from another country inside them. 0:12:27.120 --> 0:12:28.240 It's like you never have to leave. 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:31.840 We have it all here, here's our little Paris version Vegas. 0:12:31.920 --> 0:12:32.560 It's so weak. 0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:35.520 He's fake countries everywhere. Yeah, anyway you feel like you're 0:12:35.520 --> 0:12:36.760 in there. There's even a fake sky. 0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:38.840 Chloe just wanted to make you feel a little bit 0:12:38.840 --> 0:12:41.240 more at home with some very interesting Romania facts. 0:12:41.280 --> 0:12:42.520 I don't know if that makes me feel at home. 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:45.080 By being like sober, you're probably going to die by 0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:46.640 a brown bear. But if you do die, you can 0:12:46.640 --> 0:12:49.240 have a joke on your headstone about the brown bear, 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:52.280 about the I actually have a joke about a bear. 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:53.000 What is it? 0:12:53.640 --> 0:12:55.559 How do you coax a bear out of a tree? 0:12:56.400 --> 0:13:01.640 I don't know, with some honey, with camon bear, You 0:13:01.720 --> 0:13:03.200 and your fucking cheese jokes. 0:13:03.240 --> 0:13:04.480 I'm not even giving you a laugh. 0:13:04.840 --> 0:13:07.120 No, I'm not even giving you a giggle. 0:13:08.559 --> 0:13:10.199 What do you call a bear without any teeth? 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:11.720 Bare mouth? 0:13:11.800 --> 0:13:12.480 A gummy bear? 0:13:14.040 --> 0:13:17.960 I'm not laughing back at a principle. I'm not giving 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:18.440 you a laugh. 0:13:19.000 --> 0:13:20.319 Okay, let's get into vibes onswer. 0:13:22.960 --> 0:13:24.559 I'm gonna kick it off today because I have a 0:13:24.640 --> 0:13:26.360 vibe that I want everyone to get behind. 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:26.760 Great. 0:13:26.960 --> 0:13:30.080 It's very insular vibe. It has come from within my 0:13:30.240 --> 0:13:34.640 home and I'm extremely proud of my husband, So Matt 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:38.120 and his podcast partner Ash Wicks, who have the podcast 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:40.000 Two Doting Dads. You guys might have heard of it. 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:43.440 It's fabulous, especially for any parents out there who just 0:13:43.480 --> 0:13:45.360 want to listen to, you know, the normal trials and 0:13:45.360 --> 0:13:48.599 tribulations of parenting, the relatable shit. They have written a 0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:51.319 kid's book and it's called Two Doting Dads The Quest 0:13:51.360 --> 0:13:51.960 for Free Time. 0:13:52.040 --> 0:13:53.040 It came out yesterday. 0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:56.760 It is available in all Good bookstores and all Terrible bookstores. 0:13:56.760 --> 0:13:58.440 They will sell it anywhere that you can buy a 0:13:58.440 --> 0:13:58.920 book from. 0:13:59.280 --> 0:13:59.800 What's it about it? 0:13:59.800 --> 0:14:01.720 So like two dads that don't want to be there. 0:14:01.840 --> 0:14:04.120 There are two dads who are in the park with 0:14:04.200 --> 0:14:07.480 their children and they're reminiscing about life before they had kids, 0:14:07.520 --> 0:14:09.240 how it was so easy for them to do things 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:12.440 together as friends. And then they devise a plan. So 0:14:12.480 --> 0:14:14.520 that they can go and spend time together just the 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:17.040 two of them. But then all of the tribulations of 0:14:17.080 --> 0:14:18.480 being a parent get in the way, like one of 0:14:18.520 --> 0:14:22.000 the men's up in hospital because they've stepped on legook 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:24.920 too much detail ends up having a puna. 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:27.800 The book now just tell us what it's mostly, don't 0:14:28.000 --> 0:14:29.000 ruin the plot. 0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:30.920 No, But the reason why it's really sweet is because 0:14:30.920 --> 0:14:33.120 at the end of the book, the two dads end 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:35.560 up being able to spend time together without the kids, 0:14:35.600 --> 0:14:37.720 and then they have the realization that the only place 0:14:37.760 --> 0:14:39.680 they want to be is together but with their children. 0:14:39.760 --> 0:14:42.640 Stop it you'd be really sweet. And yeah, I think 0:14:42.640 --> 0:14:45.640 they've done such a great job. It's such a funny, humorous, 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:49.240 beautiful kids book. And also it's one where I think 0:14:49.560 --> 0:14:51.720 so many kids books suck because they're great for kids, 0:14:51.760 --> 0:14:53.640 but actually the parents are really find them really boring. 0:14:53.680 --> 0:14:56.000 It's one where as a parent you will enjoy reading it. 0:14:56.040 --> 0:14:58.120 So go and get it. Two darning dads a quest 0:14:58.120 --> 0:14:59.800 for free time, and I'm so proud of Matt go 0:14:59.840 --> 0:15:00.720 tell wonderfully. 0:15:00.760 --> 0:15:03.520 Is my vibe for this week? Is the movie that 0:15:03.600 --> 0:15:06.320 every single person is talking about. I went and saw 0:15:06.360 --> 0:15:09.880 it last Thursday. It is the movie it ends with us, 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:13.640 starring Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni. It was initially a 0:15:13.680 --> 0:15:14.680 book by Colin Hoover. 0:15:14.920 --> 0:15:16.120 It was read by half. 0:15:15.920 --> 0:15:19.640 Of the world, like it was so popular, and I 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:22.160 haven't read the book, but Beck, my friend who I 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:24.200 went with to the movies to go and see it, 0:15:24.280 --> 0:15:27.760 she had initially before this was turned into a movie. 0:15:28.160 --> 0:15:29.880 When they were filming the scenes, there was a lot 0:15:29.920 --> 0:15:33.480 of criticism of the fact that the original storyline involves 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:36.600 a twenty three year old girl, and so what plays 0:15:36.600 --> 0:15:38.800 out it's not a rom com, even though when you 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:41.120 kind of look at the imagery and the stuff that's 0:15:41.160 --> 0:15:43.080 being used to promote the book, I thought it was 0:15:43.120 --> 0:15:44.720 going to be more of a rom com than it was. 0:15:44.760 --> 0:15:47.480 But I was aware of the theme of the movie 0:15:47.560 --> 0:15:49.440 before I went in, and I actually think that for 0:15:49.480 --> 0:15:52.640 anyone who is going to see it, you probably need 0:15:52.680 --> 0:15:55.840 to be because it wasn't what I expected romantic drama. 0:15:55.920 --> 0:15:59.040 The theme of the book and of the movie is 0:15:59.120 --> 0:16:03.080 domestic violence, and it shows kind of the complexities about 0:16:03.120 --> 0:16:06.520 these relationships, of abusive relationships, of how they can seem 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:09.400 to be one thing and then they can turn into another. 0:16:10.120 --> 0:16:13.840 I really really liked the movie and not liked as 0:16:13.880 --> 0:16:15.760 in like I thought it was such a good time 0:16:15.840 --> 0:16:19.000 to watch. I think for anyone who has experienced any 0:16:19.040 --> 0:16:22.840 forms of violence or abuse, the word triggering I think 0:16:22.880 --> 0:16:24.760 gets thrown around a little bit too much. But I 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:26.920 actually do think you need to be warned that there 0:16:26.960 --> 0:16:29.960 will be scenes in the movie that are confronting, because 0:16:30.000 --> 0:16:32.680 I think if you're someone who has experienced that, you 0:16:32.800 --> 0:16:36.000 know what comes next. I think they walked the line 0:16:36.320 --> 0:16:39.200 really well for an audience who were much more likely 0:16:39.280 --> 0:16:42.640 to be victims rather than perpetrators. I thought the acting 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:44.520 was really good. I put up a story last Thursday 0:16:44.520 --> 0:16:46.200 after I saw the movie, and I got so many 0:16:46.280 --> 0:16:48.880 messages from life on cut listeners being like, oh my gosh, 0:16:48.920 --> 0:16:51.680