WEBVTT - Should I Support My Partner Selling Feet Pics? 👣

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and Frooms Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex

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<v Speaker 1>and Frooms catch Up podcast. Have you heard the idea

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<v Speaker 1>of ass men versus boobmen? I have? Yes, you're a

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<v Speaker 1>foot person or a hand person? Hand person? What's your

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<v Speaker 1>preferred aesthetic hand? But of the hand?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you want to say on myself or on

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<v Speaker 2>other people?

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<v Speaker 1>Other people?

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<v Speaker 2>On a man? I want to see a long, thick

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<v Speaker 2>finger they need I want to I want to see

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<v Speaker 2>like a muscly hand, if it's possible, or it's like okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>two extremes, a very muscly hand like in in the

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<v Speaker 2>on the tools right, or I want to see a

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<v Speaker 2>delicate hand, like never done a day's work in your lace.

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<v Speaker 1>Soft boy, I'm going with a soft hand. I will

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<v Speaker 1>do a muscly galacy been hitting people hand?

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<v Speaker 2>I've never seen those? Really, Yeah, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>I've seen that. I've seen like a gym callous. I've

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<v Speaker 2>seen like an on the tools bricky callous. But the knuckle.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I have a couple in my family, I must admit.

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<v Speaker 1>But you can do that provided you have clean nails.

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<v Speaker 1>If I see a single bit of grime on your nail,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna lose my job. Anyway, I have a love

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<v Speaker 1>line for you. I have a love dilemma. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>with my partner for four years and notice that they've

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<v Speaker 1>gotten really secretive with their phone until one day I

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<v Speaker 1>discovered why after a friend sent me a link. It's

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<v Speaker 1>always scary. Turns out, hey Gurley. Turns out she has

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<v Speaker 1>an only fans in Brackett's only feet account to upload footpicks.

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<v Speaker 1>She was embarrassed that I found out, but I assured

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<v Speaker 1>her that I'm not into kink shaming, and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>you do you. The problem is she's since been asking

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<v Speaker 1>me to also take foot picks with her to post,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just can't bring myself to do it as

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not into it. We've been fighting ever since, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's gotten to the point where she refuses to take

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<v Speaker 1>off socks around me. Should I just take some piccks

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<v Speaker 1>with her to stop the fighting? This is the couple. Yeah, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't get that. Yeah I didn't really either, But

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<v Speaker 1>there are a couple. The woman is selling her feet

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<v Speaker 1>picks on the internet and the partner is like, you

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<v Speaker 1>do you? I'm not gonna king shame you. But now

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<v Speaker 1>the partner sorry, now the girlfriend wants a joint venture. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>okay with no chat about financial.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what I'm saying, Like, is there a kickback?

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<v Speaker 1>Am I just a kickback? Would she a kickback? A

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<v Speaker 1>little ten percent on top?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think the partner has a right to feel

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<v Speaker 1>a bit hmm upset about this?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because either way, I think it's like an extension

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<v Speaker 2>of the Instagram boyfriend phenomena, right, like once or twice

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<v Speaker 2>taking a photo for someone is fine, granted that they're

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<v Speaker 2>happy with the result every time. Everybody knows that a

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<v Speaker 2>begrudging Instagram boyfriend is having the worst time because the

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<v Speaker 2>result is never good enough and you're there unpaid. It's

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<v Speaker 2>thankless work. The person asking me to do it's probably ungrateful,

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<v Speaker 2>and in some cases they're profiting off your labor, whether

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<v Speaker 2>it's in social or actual dollars. This is just the

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<v Speaker 2>the twenty twenty three updated version of that, the iOS

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<v Speaker 2>sixteen version of that. I get it. I can understand

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<v Speaker 2>regardless of if it's for only fit or whatever. How

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<v Speaker 2>are you kind of like, I just know it's a

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<v Speaker 2>slippery slope, Like it's not just like one helping you

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<v Speaker 2>out with the camera once or twice. Now I've got

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<v Speaker 2>a part time job on top of my other job.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do it. See, I think the

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<v Speaker 1>partner is feeling conflicted because there's a sexual element and

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<v Speaker 1>they don't feel comfortable with their partner commodifying their jody.

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<v Speaker 1>You feel No, that's the kind of get Is that

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<v Speaker 1>what's coming through Brookie?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I thought they were cool with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, they said, I don't want to kink shame me,

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<v Speaker 1>but internally okay, kingshame.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't, but I don't want to being a

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<v Speaker 2>supportive partner, but that support definitely, it's finite.

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<v Speaker 1>It is okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I understand. I understand.

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<v Speaker 1>I think do it in your own time, but also

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you should be I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>i'd feel about my partners foot picks. I'd find funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I find foodstuff funny. But let's say they're selling pictures

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<v Speaker 1>of their bum, I would be scared. They're gonna, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, find someone online start a relationship trade wise.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, I'm serious, but I think inviting the partner

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<v Speaker 2>in is meant to counteract that. So I'm not doing

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<v Speaker 2>a secret thing on the side. This is transparency. Why

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<v Speaker 2>don't you help out, you know, so you see what's

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<v Speaker 2>going on. There's nothing to fear here, I assume.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess. So you'd be fine with your partner selling

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<v Speaker 1>footpicks for a bag. Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Like my thing is I see a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>who were like, oh, I'm gonna sell pictures of insert

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<v Speaker 2>body part here forgetting that. It's a job, right, and like,

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<v Speaker 2>I hope you're good at it because I just feel like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like put some respect on the craft. Have you seen

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<v Speaker 2>a good foot pick in your life? It's not simple work, babes.

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<v Speaker 1>I've actually you've ever seen one.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling you, getting the lighting right, getting the toes

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<v Speaker 2>looking good, like, it's not simple work. So don't go

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<v Speaker 2>do it and then be bad at it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually going away to google sexy foot pa a

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<v Speaker 1>good foot pick? All right? Sick?

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<v Speaker 2>One more problem? What's that saying? One win for mankind? Something? Something?

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<v Speaker 1>That's it? One step for feet everywhere. You've been listening

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