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Speaker 1: Britt Hockley and Laura Burn. Bady your work, our windows down,
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Speaker 1: This is the pickup, Hi, guys, it's the pick up
Speaker 1: with Britt Hockley and Laura Burn.
Speaker 4: Interesting discussions in my household Laura.
Speaker 3: Burn, Oh, okay, full name is Yeah, No, I just
Speaker 3: don't know how I feel about this. My husband Ben
Speaker 3: is here, he's still here from Switzerland, and I thought
Speaker 3: this was going to go down differently. I got an
Speaker 3: Aussie stable and I was so excited to give it
Speaker 3: to him. I went to the supermarket and I got
Speaker 3: a caramel Koala. You know the Cadbury Caramela Coalers. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that's what we grow up with. To me, probably one
Speaker 3: of the top notch chocolates. It's the perfo amount of milk, chocolate,
Speaker 3: creamy caramel. It's in the shape of an Australian animal.
Speaker 4: You can't beat it.
Speaker 3: He was so unimpressed by it. That I don't know
Speaker 3: how we're going to continue the relationship.
Speaker 1: I think it's fair because your husband's Swiss and that's
Speaker 1: where all the good chocolate comes from. So he's like,
Speaker 1: he's like, this is fatable because this belongs in a
Speaker 1: kid's lunchbox, which, to be fair, I.
Speaker 2: Do like a caramel a kuala.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to prepoo it, but it is a
Speaker 1: bit of a kid's chocolate. Once you have it again
Speaker 1: as an adult, you're like, oh, why is it a
Speaker 1: kid's chocolate because it's in the shape of a koala,
Speaker 1: But why does that make a kid It's definitely a
Speaker 1: kid's chocolate.
Speaker 2: It's like the perfect thing that you put in a
Speaker 2: kid's lunchbox.
Speaker 3: That and also a Fredo Frog. Yeah, no, Fredo Frog.
Speaker 3: I think a kid's Fredo Frog's are overrated. There's no
Speaker 3: caramel in the middle. You can't just have like a
Speaker 3: solid block. Nah, I'm all for them.
Speaker 2: I I wouldn't say I'm in an argument now. I'm
Speaker 2: not in an argument with my husband.
Speaker 1: He's just started doing something of a night time that
Speaker 1: he says he can't change. But it's only a new thing.
Speaker 1: He says he can't change it. It's keeping me up
Speaker 1: all night. I'm already dealing with pregnancy insomnia, and I
Speaker 1: don't know how.
Speaker 2: To fix this.
Speaker 4: Sleep talking, sleepwalking. I wish he was sleepwalking.
Speaker 1: I wish you would sleep walk into the other room,
Speaker 1: go sleep in the other show.
Speaker 4: Sleepwalk to another continent.
Speaker 2: No. No, I love my husband Deally.
Speaker 1: He's wonderful. But he does two things right. So, like,
Speaker 1: I get woken up a lot during the night. Firstly,
Speaker 1: like I said, pregnancy insomnia is really hard to deal with,
Speaker 1: so I'm just awake, lying there thinking about my own thoughts.
Speaker 1: Then also, we've got two kids who each of them
Speaker 1: might wake up once or twice during the night.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fine. I can manage that.
Speaker 1: What I can't manage is that now Matt has started
Speaker 1: and both of these things have started at the same time. Firstly,
Speaker 1: he sleeps with both elbows out like this, like he's
Speaker 1: trying to protect himself. So he sleeps with his hands
Speaker 1: by his face and his elbows directly out like little
Speaker 1: wing yep, So his elbows are looking me straight in
Speaker 1: the eye. So I get I get elbowed in the
Speaker 1: face several times a night. Interesting movesa really annoying right Okay,
Speaker 1: but that's not the half of it. The new thing
Speaker 1: that he started to do, and I would love to
Speaker 1: know if anyone else's partner does this.
Speaker 2: He just breathes, really really loud. No, it's full stop.
Speaker 2: He breathes. Well, that's what he says.
Speaker 1: He's like, so now you're angry about me breathing whilst
Speaker 1: I'm asleep. But it's not just normal breathing. It's like
Speaker 1: he's playing a game of tennis. And I kid you not,
Speaker 1: this is it.
Speaker 3: Ah, I know exactly the client you're talking about all
Speaker 3: through the note, but as a question, considering his unconscious
Speaker 3: what did you want him to do about that?
Speaker 2: Okay, that's his defense.
Speaker 1: That's that is kind of his defense mechanism, and that
Speaker 1: is also what he says.
Speaker 2: But surely these things don't just start.
Speaker 4: It's an age thing.
Speaker 1: No, he just it's like the second his head hits
Speaker 1: the pillow, he starts with the paddle ball across howe,
Speaker 1: Yet it's age.
Speaker 2: That's how I mean.
Speaker 3: You answered your own question. Surely these things don't just start,
Speaker 3: but it has. It's just started. He's entered the next
Speaker 3: part of Life's seven Yeah, thirty seven, thirty seven gotta
Speaker 3: lax jaws. It's basically forty, which is basically.
Speaker 2: Up with eighty. That's true.
Speaker 4: No, forty is halfway.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I've heard a lot of mixed reviews about like mouth
Speaker 3: tape and things like that that help people sleep. Some
Speaker 3: people rave about it because if he can't then he
Speaker 3: has to breath out his nose. He's forced to, Like,
Speaker 3: he's not gonna wake up from it. He's not gonna
Speaker 3: die in his sleep because his mouth taped up. Maybe
Speaker 3: he could try some mouth tape and see if that helped.
Speaker 3: But outside of mouth tape, you're at a loss, mate.
Speaker 2: He yeah, he got.
Speaker 1: Really defense about it, and he was like, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I'll just go sleep in the other room, which I
Speaker 1: don't want him to do. I know that that's a solution,
Speaker 1: but I'm speaking that that was retorringable, Like I.
Speaker 2: Like sleeping in the same bed as my partner.
Speaker 1: I know for some people's relationship it works, but I
Speaker 1: think I would then I would feel bad and that's
Speaker 1: not gonna work well either. But I don't know how people,
Speaker 1: What do you do? Do I wear ear plugs? Do
Speaker 1: I tape his mouth? I don't know what to do
Speaker 1: about the chicken wings, and it's really causing some tension.
Speaker 3: I'd be putting his arms down in his sleep, he's
Speaker 3: not gonna wake up. Just lower them down gently onto
Speaker 3: his lap.
Speaker 4: Or I guess you could tie him.
Speaker 2: Up, like just wrap him up in robes so he's
Speaker 2: Grace Protessa, Grace's face.
Speaker 3: Just them was like right time in a little bow
Speaker 3: tied to the side of his body mouth, tape him
Speaker 3: up and then report back to us, let us know
Speaker 3: what he does.
Speaker 4: I'm so excited for our guests on the show today,
Speaker 4: Laura Henshaw.
Speaker 3: She's one half of the Absolute Empire that is Kick,
Speaker 3: which she hosts alongside and has started alongside Steph kless Smith.
Speaker 3: So we're talking like podcasting, fitness apps, they've got food,
Speaker 3: they've got so much in it. They're absolute juggernauts in
Speaker 3: the space. But we're not talking to Laura Henshaw about
Speaker 3: that today. We're talking to Laura Henshaw today because she
Speaker 3: has just announced she is in her second trimester of pregnancy.
Speaker 3: Now that might seem like everyone's like, Okay, cool, she's
Speaker 3: having a baby. But I think what's interesting about this
Speaker 3: is last year Laura released a mini series like a
Speaker 3: podcast series titled Do I Want Kids, because she's always
Speaker 3: been on the cusp of trying to decide what is
Speaker 3: right for her, and she wanted to put out the
Speaker 3: pressures that people experience when they are trying to make
Speaker 3: this big, life changing decision. And I related heavily to
Speaker 3: that because I've always been in the same space.
Speaker 4: Obviously, Laura has made the decision to have kids.
Speaker 3: She's on the show today. Welcome Laura, and congratulations.
Speaker 5: Hello, thank you so much, Laura.
Speaker 1: Now that here are coming out of the trenches of
Speaker 1: the first trimester, how are you feeling.
Speaker 5: Much much better now? The first trimester, I think as well,
Speaker 5: because you don't tell that many people, and also like
Speaker 5: it's obviously so early, the embryo is tiny. I felt
Speaker 5: so sick, and I also felt quite depressed, yes, which
Speaker 5: was it was a lot, a lot to take in,
Speaker 5: and I'd spoke to some friends about it and they
Speaker 5: kind of said, oh, I didn't feel that, and I
Speaker 5: was like, oh, my goodness, is something wrong with me?
Speaker 5: But anyway, now I'm out of the first trimester, I'm
Speaker 5: feeling alive again.
Speaker 1: I mean, you never know as well, because obviously your
Speaker 1: hormones are going crazy. But do you do you wonder
Speaker 1: whether or had you guys made the decision, Were you like, yes,
Speaker 1: we're trying for kids, or were you still a point
Speaker 1: where you were kind of fluctuating between this yes and
Speaker 1: no feeling inside you.
Speaker 5: So we had made the decision we wanted to have kids,
Speaker 5: but we were not trying.
Speaker 2: It's very interesting. There's seen a lot.
Speaker 5: Of conversation online about this, but you know, if I
Speaker 5: was having sex, therefore I was trying to have a child,
Speaker 5: Like people can, you know, say whatever they want to
Speaker 5: say and make judgment on that. But we weren't trying
Speaker 5: at the time. Like I was training for the London Marathon.
Speaker 5: I was literally like four weeks out from that. We
Speaker 5: had thought I had a laproscopy books in on the
Speaker 5: fifteenth of May, thinking that we had to like in
Speaker 5: Demitris is looking at that and kind of exploring a
Speaker 5: few other things. So we definitely were not Yes, we
Speaker 5: were not trying at the time. So it was a
Speaker 5: very big surprise, but we had decided we did want
Speaker 5: to have kids.
Speaker 3: What has the conversation been like off the back of
Speaker 3: doing a podcast series and been so openly vocal about
Speaker 3: the fact that you are unsure and then coming out
Speaker 3: saying you're pregnant, because I can imagine. I mean, I've
Speaker 3: seen a little bit of discourse around, which is a shame.
Speaker 3: But what do you want to say to those people?
Speaker 3: Because I feel like people are making it sound like
Speaker 3: once you've made a decision, you're not allowed to change
Speaker 3: your mind.
Speaker 5: Yes, that's exactly exactly right, And I feel like both
Speaker 5: of you would relate to this so much. And it's
Speaker 5: not just with having kids on it having kids that
Speaker 5: there's so many other decisions. But it's been really interesting,
Speaker 5: and I don't I didn't expect a lot of people
Speaker 5: to listen to the whole podcast series, but a lot
Speaker 5: of people, I think, saw a few snippets and thought, oh,
Speaker 5: you don't want to have kids. So a lot of
Speaker 5: the commentary has been, as you said, kind of saying, oh, like,
Speaker 5: didn't you not want to have kids five minutes ago?
Speaker 5: But I think while I didn't, we didn't change our mind,
Speaker 5: like we actually just genuinely didn't know when we made
Speaker 5: the decision that we did want to I think my
Speaker 5: biggest response to that is just that if we had
Speaker 5: changed our mind about a decision, that is life altering
Speaker 5: for us and affects no one outside of myself and
Speaker 5: my husband. It is completely okay for us totally change
Speaker 5: our mind.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know, I mean, the biggest thing I've
Speaker 1: learned throughout my mind the hood experience is that the
Speaker 1: people who are going to judge are going to judge anyway.
Speaker 1: The people who are going to have opinions on it
Speaker 1: are going to have opinions. And I think the reality
Speaker 1: is unless you kind of go into motherhood as this
Speaker 1: sacrificial land where your kids are every single thing that
Speaker 1: you've ever wanted and nothing else matters, there's always going
Speaker 1: to be some criticism. Whether that's because you're a working
Speaker 1: mum or because you're still running businesses or you know,
Speaker 1: it's the juggle and the pressure on mums to do
Speaker 1: it perfectly is so much greater than the pressure on that.
Speaker 3: But it's interesting that people have a go at you
Speaker 3: for taking your time to do your due diligence and
Speaker 3: work out what you really want, because if there's anything
Speaker 3: that you need to work out, if it's a yes
Speaker 3: or a no, it's having a life altering decision like
Speaker 3: having a child.
Speaker 5: Oh one hundred percent, I think the other thing is
Speaker 5: And it was really interesting and exploring the mini series
Speaker 5: last year, a lot of women said this to me,
Speaker 5: and I think it was really awesome that they were honest.
Speaker 5: They said that they at the start really didn't like
Speaker 5: that I was doing this podcast series because they didn't
Speaker 5: feel like they could make the choice for themselves. They felt,
Speaker 5: we know, there's so much like we live in a
Speaker 5: pernatal society, so much pressure on women like as our
Speaker 5: well I don't believe it's our purpose in society, but
Speaker 5: it is definitely a part of the kind of patriarchal
Speaker 5: belief system that we as women should bear children, and
Speaker 5: so a lot of women haven't felt like they could
Speaker 5: actually think about it and make that decision for themselves.
Speaker 5: And so I think as well, sometimes when we see
Speaker 5: someone like actually thinking about it, that can be a
Speaker 5: way that we reaction. I totally understand that.
Speaker 1: Well, I also think, I mean, for whatever reason, and
Speaker 1: it's obviously so deeply wrong, but there's a selfishness that's
Speaker 1: linked to it.
Speaker 2: We assume that if you don't want to have kids.
Speaker 1: Then there must be something about the life that you
Speaker 1: want to live that's inherently selfish. And it's just those
Speaker 1: two could not be further from the truth. But Laura,
Speaker 1: I saw something that you posted the other day, or
Speaker 1: it might have even been yesterday, and it was around
Speaker 1: when you I mean every influencer posts like the happy
Speaker 1: being on that you know, clear blue stick and the
Speaker 1: two double lines and crying, and it's all kind of
Speaker 1: like the same moment of happiness and joy. And I
Speaker 1: resonated so much to what you posted. You shared the
Speaker 1: moment that you've discovered you were pregnant and your husband,
Speaker 1: Dalton was in the shower, and it was just a
Speaker 1: very real moment that wasn't wrapped up in the absolute joy.
Speaker 1: It was wrapped up in more I guess, shock, shock
Speaker 1: and surprise and processing. What was I like for you guys?
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, And I mean, thank you for saying that.
Speaker 5: I mean, the funniest thing. I didn't even think about it,
Speaker 5: but everyone was like, why did your husband not get
Speaker 5: out of the shower?
Speaker 4: I was feeling and he was naked.
Speaker 2: He was also processing yakes.
Speaker 5: But that's right, and I think that's the thing. I
Speaker 5: was like, we didn't have I can't actually remember if
Speaker 5: we even hugged that day, like I'm sure we did
Speaker 5: at some point, but it was in this beautiful emotional embrace.
Speaker 5: And it's really interesting that thinking about that moment of
Speaker 5: finding out if like that we were pregnant was actually
Speaker 5: a part of the reason that I thought that maybe
Speaker 5: I was undeserving of having children or I shouldn't because
Speaker 5: I didn't think I was going to be emotional. And
Speaker 5: I'm really glad that I realized that that's no reason
Speaker 5: to decide to or not have kids. But the thing is,
Speaker 5: like for me, when I was shocked, I was in
Speaker 5: absolute shock. As I said, we weren't trying. Even if
Speaker 5: we were trying, I think it is always going to
Speaker 5: be a chockr and you're not necessarily going to respond
Speaker 5: in the way that you see online. And it's been
Speaker 5: it's been really interesting, like very much the same as
Speaker 5: your story. So many people wrote to me and said,
Speaker 5: oh my goodness. I've always felt like something was wrong
Speaker 5: with me because I didn't cry when I found out.
Speaker 5: But I'm so happy and I loved my child, but
Speaker 5: I did I didn't feel emotional.
Speaker 2: You know, Laura.
Speaker 1: I mean there's one reaction, which is shocked. When I
Speaker 1: found out I was pregnant, I sat on the floor
Speaker 1: and cried, not out of happiness. It was not planned
Speaker 1: I'd not been with my partner for very long at
Speaker 1: the time. I was really worried about how he was
Speaker 1: going to respond to it, because we knew we wanted
Speaker 1: to have kids, but it was still early doors and like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I sat on that bathroom floor by myself and bawled
Speaker 1: my eyes out because my reaction to it wasn't elated
Speaker 1: joy of motherhood.
Speaker 2: It was, oh, my god, what have I done well?
Speaker 3: Laura's I loved your response, Laura, that was like so
Speaker 3: practical and pragmatic.
Speaker 4: The first thing he said was like, can I still
Speaker 4: do the Lund Marathon.
Speaker 2: Priorities? And you didn't do it?
Speaker 3: And I remember you saying, what what what did you say?
Speaker 3: You said, something's happening with my mind?
Speaker 5: I said I was tired, which is true.
Speaker 2: You would have struggled in that first trimester, that's for sure.
Speaker 5: But I think it's of course I.
Speaker 3: That, like both you Lauras, are talking about the fact
Speaker 3: that it's it's not the way that everyone necessarily thinks
Speaker 3: it is, and maybe that your first impression isn't pure
Speaker 3: joy in happiness, but that doesn't take away from the
Speaker 3: fact that it's still something you.
Speaker 2: Love and want totally.
Speaker 1: And I think like, I mean, just in, I don't
Speaker 1: want to leave it with that. I start on the
Speaker 1: floor devastated and not round that one out. Becoming a
Speaker 1: mum has been the best thing that's ever happened to me,
Speaker 1: Like I could not love motherhood and being a mum
Speaker 1: to my beautiful girls more. And you know, I think
Speaker 1: that everyone has different reactions when they find out, and
Speaker 1: everyone processes pregnancy very differently, and that does has no
Speaker 1: indication on what type of mum you're.
Speaker 5: Going to be, Amen Queen, it's so to true. I
Speaker 5: think it's amazing that you shared that because I've had
Speaker 5: so it also messages and people saying I cried of
Speaker 5: like sad tears because I was like, what's going to happen?
Speaker 5: Of fear, and I felt like I could never tell
Speaker 5: anyone that because I felt like it meant I didn't
Speaker 5: love my child, when obviously that is not the case
Speaker 5: at all.
Speaker 3: What do you want to say to anyone listening that
Speaker 3: is maybe a bit undecided about whether they want to
Speaker 3: go down the journey of having kids, but they also
Speaker 3: feel the time crunch from the biological clock and the
Speaker 3: pressure asking for a friend as a thirty eight year.
Speaker 5: Old old, oh, yeah, it's a killer. I think the
Speaker 5: first thing I would say is that the fact that
Speaker 5: you are thinking about it, and you mentioned this before, Britt,
Speaker 5: it is a life altering decision is so important that
Speaker 5: we put time into thinking about it. So the fact
Speaker 5: you were thinking about it is so so so amazing.
Speaker 5: Go on the journey. And also just take that pressure
Speaker 5: off yourself. I think when you feel the clock, it's like,
Speaker 5: oh my goodness, I have to make the decision. I
Speaker 5: have to make the decision. But making the decision first
Speaker 5: for yourself that is the most important thing. And then
Speaker 5: you can look at Okay, what does this mean when
Speaker 5: we if you do decide you want to have kids,
Speaker 5: when we have to start trying, do we have to
Speaker 5: freeze our eggs?
Speaker 4: It is We could not be more thrilled for you.
Speaker 1: Congratulations, We were hooked. We can't wait to watch and
Speaker 1: follow and follow the pregnancy journey with you. No, we're
Speaker 1: just so exciteded for you. If you want to lie
Speaker 1: stream the birth or watch that.
Speaker 5: As well, Thank you so much.
Speaker 1: Guys. I have I have Marley May's birthday party this weekend.
Speaker 2: With kids' birthday parties.
Speaker 1: Big bit massive, especially for kids school because you know,
Speaker 1: you've got to invite all the school friends.
Speaker 4: I actually haven't been invited to that.
Speaker 1: Well, you're not a school friend. There's a bit more
Speaker 1: politics involved.
Speaker 2: What am I?
Speaker 4: I'm an auntie?
Speaker 2: You are? But no, that auntie isn't coming.
Speaker 1: It's like they get real specific when they get to
Speaker 1: school and they pick exactly who's coming.
Speaker 4: So now she didn't invite me.
Speaker 2: She play on as you were.
Speaker 1: Marley's old enough to choose her friends now and you
Speaker 1: didn't make the cups.
Speaker 2: So sorry, Britt, you can come over and why don't
Speaker 2: I take that?
Speaker 1: So pers you can have a juice with me instead.
Speaker 1: But look, there is an Aussie mama who has absolutely
Speaker 1: divided followers online and also has received a lot of
Speaker 1: criticism for the very unconventional gift that she brings to kids'
Speaker 1: birthday parties.
Speaker 6: Have listen to this, so you know, when you're at
Speaker 6: a kid's birthday party and everyone wants to help, but
Speaker 6: nobody knows how to help because they don't know any
Speaker 6: where any of the cleaning stuff is.
Speaker 2: So I bring my bag of rags. I bring cleaning rags.
Speaker 6: I like to bring dishwashing detergent because you can bet
Speaker 6: your boots that the parents of may have run out
Speaker 6: of dishwashing liquid. And the other thing I bring is
Speaker 6: a lot a lot of tea towels. So that's my
Speaker 6: presence for a kid's birthday party, A bag of rags.
Speaker 6: Does anyone else do like that?
Speaker 1: No, but she doesn't get invited in many places, no
Speaker 1: one else does that.
Speaker 2: Imagine that day. Here's a bag of rag.
Speaker 1: Okay, I saw this. I have a sneaking suspicion she does.
Speaker 2: Not want to be invited to kids birthday party?
Speaker 4: Is that this is so funny?
Speaker 1: She's put this in place so that she never gets
Speaker 1: invited to an six year old party again. She's like,
Speaker 1: I know what will deter these little kids from inviting me?
Speaker 1: A bag of rags, some dishwashing detergent, and some extra tea.
Speaker 2: To look, let's.
Speaker 3: Dig a little deeper here, let's give her the benefit
Speaker 3: of doubt. She does say that she doesn't like to
Speaker 3: bring gifts for kids that'll just end up in landfill.
Speaker 4: So that is fair, Like a.
Speaker 3: Lot of people can get better gifts, like some money
Speaker 3: in their trust fund.
Speaker 4: Jane, don't give them something that will end up in landfills.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Maybe there's something in it. Maybe maybe the family has
Speaker 3: run out a detergent. If I run out a detergent
Speaker 3: and I was like, oh my god, where's the detergent?
Speaker 3: And then Jane was like, I brought some.
Speaker 2: I'd be very grateful. Okay, I think you need.
Speaker 3: To give something to the kid, lollibag, maybe like not
Speaker 3: a bag of rag.
Speaker 6: Hear me.
Speaker 1: I have complex feelings on this one, because firstly, it
Speaker 1: is so incredibly helpful, like we're having Molly's birthday at
Speaker 1: our house, and it is so helpful when some parents
Speaker 1: or you know, because usually now it's dropping go parties,
Speaker 1: right like, so the parents just come, they dump their kids,
Speaker 1: and then their kid free for two hours. I'm stuck
Speaker 1: with them all and then I got to clean up
Speaker 1: after them. So it's really nice when one or two
Speaker 1: parents like stick around, help with the.
Speaker 2: Dishes, help clean up.
Speaker 1: But I also think it would be very presumptuous to
Speaker 1: think that I don't have enough cleaning products in my
Speaker 1: own house to deal with the party that I chose
Speaker 1: to put on.
Speaker 2: In my home.
Speaker 3: To be fair, I've never been to your house where
Speaker 3: there's been a toilet roll, like it's always empty.
Speaker 2: So I'm wiping dishes with toilet paper. Well, who knows.
Speaker 4: You do let a lot of things run out and
Speaker 4: not replace them, so.
Speaker 2: You're like, what are you wiping your butt with them?
Speaker 2: Tea towels? Obviously we have so many bath house No,
Speaker 2: but I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean, part of me is like I understand the sentiment,
Speaker 1: but I do think it's a little bit too grown
Speaker 1: up to be showing up to a kid's birthday party
Speaker 1: and being like, you know what, nothing for the kids,
Speaker 1: just a bit of morning Fresh and a bag of rags.
Speaker 1: Like it's actually people went crazy online.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's actually if we break this down, she's doing
Speaker 3: a good thing.
Speaker 4: But you need where she goes wrong is not giving
Speaker 4: anything for the kids. She's actually doing wonders Like.
Speaker 3: Imagine if someone turned up to your house and I'm like, yes,
Speaker 3: I've got all the cleaning stuff. I'm going to help
Speaker 3: you clean, you would be like, oh my god, thank god,
Speaker 3: especially if you have dirty kids. Over where she loses
Speaker 3: her audiences by giving a bag of rags to the
Speaker 3: six year old.
Speaker 2: That's where like she's lost.
Speaker 1: I'm glad we really unpacked that and got down to
Speaker 1: the nitty GrITT. If anyone wants to come on the weekend.
Speaker 1: I'll send you my address. You can come with a
Speaker 1: bag of rags and some morning fast.
Speaker 2: I'm ready.
Speaker 4: You're inviting other people now, but I don't have an invite. Okay, cool, guys.
Speaker 3: Well, I have a great have a great party, Miley
Speaker 3: May and Laura. I hope you have a lot of
Speaker 3: dishes and nothing to ape up with.
Speaker 2: Alright. Well, that is it from us, guys.