Speaker 1: It's honestly easier to stay where you are. You don't
Speaker 1: have to do the work, you are comfortable, you don't
Speaker 1: have to take the risk. There's no risk of falling.
Speaker 1: But it's like, do you want to do that or
Speaker 1: do you want to move to the next level? You
Speaker 1: always have a choice. Hello and welcome back to the
Speaker 1: Rise and Conquer Podcast. This is the podcast for ordinary
Speaker 1: people who want to do extraordinary things. Hello and welcome
Speaker 1: back to the Rising Conker Podcast. It is your host,
Speaker 1: Georgie Stevenson, lawyer turned entrepreneur, mother, business owner, all the
Speaker 1: things guys. Today we are chatting how to know when
Speaker 1: you are moving to the next level and how to
Speaker 1: deal with it because it usually doesn't feel good. Yes,
Speaker 1: a Tea doesn't know what we're talking about in this.
Speaker 2: Episode, so her face lit up.
Speaker 1: Then she's like, oh love, So guys, before we get
Speaker 1: into that, though, I do want to just say last
Speaker 1: week was a bit wild. I just want to give
Speaker 1: a shout out and just say thank you so much
Speaker 1: for all the love and support on my LSKD Rise collection.
Speaker 1: Very surreal, very thankful to you guys, and.
Speaker 2: It's the best collection ever.
Speaker 1: I Tea pretty much sold out the collection guy myself. No,
Speaker 1: it's not fully sold out, but a lot of like
Speaker 1: you know, the key styles sold out very fast. We
Speaker 1: kind of knew that. So just incredible. Yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: know what else to say, but thank you. It's always
Speaker 1: a weird thing when you're putting something out that is
Speaker 1: your creation, your personal choices, because you know, if people
Speaker 1: don't like it, it does feel very personal. So like I,
Speaker 1: you know, had a lot of anxiety around it, just
Speaker 1: a little you know, nervousness to be expected.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so feel.
Speaker 1: Very relieved and like, yeah, very thankful and very grateful.
Speaker 1: I know I would be nowhere without my community. So
Speaker 1: I'm just so glad you guys like the collection and
Speaker 1: I can't wait to see you guys in it.
Speaker 2: But yeah, so let's.
Speaker 1: Talk about new chapters a tear.
Speaker 2: I'm so excited.
Speaker 1: So I have kind of expressed to you guys that
Speaker 1: I'm going through this weird limbo stage where I kind
Speaker 1: of know I'm in a transition entering into a new chapter. Obviously,
Speaker 1: I've just become a mom. I'm navigating what that looks
Speaker 1: like with my businesses and just mom life is very hard,
Speaker 1: and I definitely don't feel like I've found my feet.
Speaker 1: I definitely don't have it all together, and then throwing
Speaker 1: in me Tim and Ivy and moving house, which.
Speaker 2: Is really exciting.
Speaker 1: So I just feel like that towards the end of
Speaker 1: the year is going to be this big thing of
Speaker 1: like settling in or finding our feet, and then you know,
Speaker 1: next year will be when I feel more I guess,
Speaker 1: like secure and grounded. Yeah, grounded in like myself. And
Speaker 1: I think that's another thing too, is personally I feel
Speaker 1: very I guess I'm sure on like who Georgie is,
Speaker 1: which I don't know if you guys get that from
Speaker 1: how I am or if that does, I haven't got that.
Speaker 1: And that's and that's why I want to be very
Speaker 1: open and transparent because I think on Instagram it looks
Speaker 1: like I've got it all together and I'm killing mom
Speaker 1: life and I'm killing it in my businesses and not
Speaker 1: not that I'm not, but I think, you know, what
Speaker 1: happens in your mind internally is just usually a lot different,
Speaker 1: and I think that's and that's why I want to
Speaker 1: chat about this today because you know, I am someone
Speaker 1: who has done a lot of self development and I
Speaker 1: have gone through a lot of deaths, of my old
Speaker 1: self and like very much transformed and you know, gone
Speaker 1: to that next level and then gone to that next level.
Speaker 2: But it's like it doesn't get easier. I'm exhausted.
Speaker 1: So I'm currently like in the midst of it, and
Speaker 1: so I'm like, I usually talk about things after. I
Speaker 1: love to have it all together for you guys. I
Speaker 1: love to have all my notes, have all my journaling
Speaker 1: prompts for you, and I don't. No, I definitely have
Speaker 1: some journaling prompts, but I thought, let's just talk about
Speaker 1: it raw and real. I'm literally in the midst of
Speaker 1: going to a next level, so let's like explore that.
Speaker 2: Let's talk about that.
Speaker 3: I have a question straight up, how long does this
Speaker 3: period usually last for you? Or is it sometimes like
Speaker 3: a few weeks? Is it sometimes a few months? How
Speaker 3: long do you feel this current one has been going
Speaker 3: on for in the sense that, like, I know, some
Speaker 3: people might think they're going to the next level and
Speaker 3: then they're like, but it's been six months feeling like that. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's always going to depend on what that next sort
Speaker 3: of chapter and that next level is for you.
Speaker 1: But for example, I feel like I've been going through
Speaker 1: this like since i'vey was born. Yeah, so like nearly
Speaker 1: nine months, and it also doesn't look very clear. But
Speaker 1: I think that's my point of this episode is you
Speaker 1: need to get comfortable with that, because otherwise, anytime you
Speaker 1: do enter this, you know, uncertainty stage going to the
Speaker 1: next level, you will spiral and sometimes it is a
Speaker 1: long period of time and if you can't handle it, yeah,
Speaker 1: you regress. Yeah, of course, So let's chat about how
Speaker 1: I've realized I'm in this very specific time of entering
Speaker 1: a new chapter, entering the next level. So guys, when
Speaker 1: I say the next level, I'm just talking about the
Speaker 1: next you, the next embodiment of you that is different
Speaker 1: to who you are. And of course we have very
Speaker 1: subtle next levels that it's like you might look back
Speaker 1: and be like, oh my god, I've come so far,
Speaker 1: it was so easy, felt so aligned the whole time.
Speaker 1: Those are great next levels, and then sometimes life will
Speaker 1: just feel not aligned, life will feel quite difficult, and
Speaker 1: you'll be like you, it's a feeling of being like
Speaker 1: really stuck, and like, why are things not just happening
Speaker 1: a bit more simpler and a bit more easier. Why
Speaker 1: do I feel uncertain? For example, me, I've struggled a
Speaker 1: lot with my intuition. I'm usually someone who's so strong
Speaker 1: my intuition. I know what I want. I don't poll people.
Speaker 1: I'm like very scented and grounded. And you've probably noticed
Speaker 1: lately a Tia I've been pulling people and being like, yeah,
Speaker 1: what should I do here? And that's that's not me.
Speaker 1: And so that's how I know I'm going to, you know,
Speaker 1: the next level because she's feeling a bit funky.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So I've known I'm in this transition, but it wasn't
Speaker 1: until recently that it got really clear for me. And
Speaker 1: I've been very open with you guys about our new
Speaker 1: house so exciting, which was supposed to be my goal
Speaker 1: for the project, but it happened sooner than we thought.
Speaker 1: I won't go into the whole thing, but basically, long
Speaker 1: story short, the house came into our life in a
Speaker 1: very weird way of I had my eye on this
Speaker 1: house for years, but never thought it was in my reach,
Speaker 1: never thought I was good enough. Like I just was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, no, like I just I could never
Speaker 1: it was that sort of thing. But then I couldn't
Speaker 1: stop thinking about it. It was not actually on market.
Speaker 1: I text the agent said, you know, would they seller
Speaker 1: be interested in buying? They were long story short, that
Speaker 1: is like how it happened, and there was a bit
Speaker 1: of back and forth where we agreed to a price.
Speaker 1: I thought it was happening, and then the seller kind
Speaker 1: of said no, it was off the table. And then
Speaker 1: a couple of months later they came back and they said, yes,
Speaker 1: it's back on. So this has been happening like for ages.
Speaker 1: I can't even remember the month, like maybe May it started,
Speaker 1: so six months that it has been like hot and cold.
Speaker 1: Been been really playing with me. But everything is happening.
Speaker 1: You know, finance went through, everything was perfect. So we're
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks away from settlement.
Speaker 2: Yay. And it's funny though.
Speaker 1: Because I even thought to myself, I actually don't usually
Speaker 1: tell people until like we're.
Speaker 2: In the house. Yeah, but I told everyone.
Speaker 1: And so we've got a call from like the lawyers
Speaker 1: the other day. I'm not going to get into the specifics,
Speaker 1: but something had happen where we legally could terminate the
Speaker 1: contract because they found something you know, that the seller
Speaker 1: had not disclosed. Blah blah blah blah. Not going to
Speaker 1: get into it. So we came to and also.
Speaker 3: Guys, my mouth is like, oh I happen right now?
Speaker 2: She's like what?
Speaker 1: And I literally thought to myself, I went, I spiraled.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, I knew this was
Speaker 1: going to happen. No, I we're not meant for that house.
Speaker 1: Not that we're not meant because I've all along this
Speaker 1: house is meant for us. But I was like, how
Speaker 1: could I think that we could have that house? Now?
Speaker 1: Who am I to have that sort of property now?
Speaker 3: But like this, this is in your court though, right, yeah,
Speaker 3: yeah you can termine.
Speaker 2: We yeah, we get to side. But the news was Okay.
Speaker 1: I did think about it. I was like, maybe we
Speaker 1: should Okay, it didn't look great, right, but we still
Speaker 1: had the decision correct, Okay. So but that's what I mean.
Speaker 1: I spiraled and I was like, you know, maybe this
Speaker 1: is a sign we're not actually meant to go in
Speaker 1: this house. And I have a lot of fear with
Speaker 1: this house because it does feel very you know, next
Speaker 1: level for you know, me and Tim. It does feel
Speaker 1: like a stretch, you know, financially, and even I've had
Speaker 1: a lot of fear to be very transparent, like you know,
Speaker 1: the interest rates have been rising and so I've been like,
Speaker 1: you know, there's talks of a recession coming and all
Speaker 1: these things that I'm like, very fear based of, Oh
Speaker 1: this is you know, this is happening, because you know,
Speaker 1: if we do go ahead with the house, something's going
Speaker 1: to happen, you know, with the recession, with the business,
Speaker 1: we're going to lose the house, or we're gonna have
Speaker 1: to sell it, or you know, all these very fear
Speaker 1: based things which you get from the news. And so
Speaker 1: my mind straight like straight away went there. And it's
Speaker 1: funny because I was talking to Cooper and I explained
Speaker 1: to him what had happened, and I was like, well,
Speaker 1: that's it, We're not going to.
Speaker 2: Get the house. Blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: I can't believe it's been such a fuck around, you know,
Speaker 1: very negative, very spirally.
Speaker 2: And he literally like laughed and he's like rudo.
Speaker 1: He's like, pull it together, Georgia. He said, you are
Speaker 1: just scared because you're going to the next level and
Speaker 1: you're going into the unknown. And I am so I
Speaker 1: know he pulled me on my shit straight away, and
Speaker 1: he goes what came up is like nothing, like, who cares,
Speaker 1: It's a joke. I can't believe you'd even think about,
Speaker 1: you know, bletmody Like yeah, get over it basically was
Speaker 1: his answer. And he just said to me straight up,
Speaker 1: He goes, I know you're scared of this. I know
Speaker 1: you're scared, and that is because this is next level Georgie.
Speaker 1: This is Georgie who you've spoken about for years, and
Speaker 1: you know you're you're scared of going to this new chapter.
Speaker 1: You've got a new baby. You know, there's already a
Speaker 1: lot that is happening that feels unknown and out of
Speaker 1: your control. So you're holding on to what you can
Speaker 1: of what feels known. But he's like, we don't do that, Georgia.
Speaker 1: I'm like, fuck, And he completely pulled me up on
Speaker 1: my shit.
Speaker 2: That's so good, which is so good.
Speaker 1: It's funny because he literally like was laughing at me
Speaker 1: and I was like about crying, and it then got
Speaker 1: me thinking and I had to literally get me little
Speaker 1: journal out and journal through all these fears and limiting
Speaker 1: beliefs around. So, first of all, you know, with the
Speaker 1: house of the financial stretch, it's like I had to go, well,
Speaker 1: you wouldn't have got the finance if you couldn't afford
Speaker 1: this house.
Speaker 2: There's somebody's job to check back.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you know, and it's not It's definitely not
Speaker 1: like we bought this house outright, so like you wouldn't
Speaker 1: have got the finance if you could not afford this house. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they've done their backwork. A bank's not going to give
Speaker 1: you the loan if you cannot repay it. And then
Speaker 1: I had to go. A big thing also about this
Speaker 1: house is obviously because the seller had a lot of
Speaker 1: power because we came to them or was like we
Speaker 1: want the house, you know, price wise. It's not like
Speaker 1: we got you know, a sweet deal you know when
Speaker 1: I don't know if you know this, Stia, but when
Speaker 1: you purchase a house and obviously get a loan for
Speaker 1: the house, the bank sends in a value are that
Speaker 1: just make sure the price that you're paying for the
Speaker 1: house is correct and they can you know, for instance,
Speaker 1: if something was to happen and they have to sell
Speaker 1: the house, they know.
Speaker 2: The bank can get their money back. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So obviously they did that and it checked out. So
Speaker 1: it's not like I know, what we're paying is good.
Speaker 1: But it's not like you know, with the current chips, no,
Speaker 1: like the current market that was never going to happen. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And also I very much make our house decisions off
Speaker 1: this is our family home. This is not me wanting
Speaker 1: to flip a house and make money off it. It's like,
Speaker 1: this is our family home. This is going to create
Speaker 1: memories that.
Speaker 3: This is where Ivy will grow up kind of correct
Speaker 3: and this.
Speaker 1: So that's the vibe. So it's always like that's what
Speaker 1: it is. So then even that side of things, I,
Speaker 1: you know, have some limiting beliefs around that, oh did
Speaker 1: we pay too much?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 1: Is this are we now going to not be able
Speaker 1: for the repayments because the interest rates are going up?
Speaker 1: And so something I had to do with that limiting
Speaker 1: belief is remind myself. So with our current house that
Speaker 1: we're in, kind of a similar thing happened where our
Speaker 1: current house is, like we were just wanting to move
Speaker 1: to the Gold Coast. We didn't we wanted to live
Speaker 1: in that certain area because Cooper lived there and we
Speaker 1: didn't have any other family in the Gold Coast. It
Speaker 1: also was just like so perfect in the way of
Speaker 1: it was a Whitehampton's house, it was brand new, it
Speaker 1: was like everything that we wanted. Yeah, so you know,
Speaker 1: like real estate dot Com where they're like offers over
Speaker 1: this price, and you're obviously supposed to go in under
Speaker 1: and then like barter and whatnot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we just went straight and were.
Speaker 1: Because they said there's another person bidding, like give us
Speaker 1: your final offer basically, so again we're just like, yeah,
Speaker 1: this is our max, this is our max.
Speaker 2: Of course we paid that.
Speaker 1: And it's funny because at that time, when we bought
Speaker 1: three years ago, I had a friend who was no
Speaker 1: longer a friend who was like a real estate person,
Speaker 1: who was like, you've paid too much, blah blah blah, doubts,
Speaker 1: limiting beliefs. And it's funny because obviously then the market
Speaker 1: went crazy and our house value pretty much doubled, and
Speaker 1: so I was like, do you know what I mean, Like, Georgia,
Speaker 1: stop being silly. Yeah, because you have absolutely no idea.
Speaker 1: What you have no idea? And also worst case scenario
Speaker 1: so if for whatever reason, like interest rates or anything,
Speaker 1: you can just sell the house, yeah, it's like and
Speaker 1: go back into the one yeah like it.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So I had to work through these limiting beliefs, and
Speaker 1: I guess a big thing for me is knowing when
Speaker 1: I am, you know, standing in my own way and
Speaker 1: just kind of creating worrying problems that don't actually need
Speaker 1: to be there. Yeah, and so that was a moment
Speaker 1: where I had to catch myself and I had to
Speaker 1: go through the limiting beliefs, like I went through the
Speaker 1: exact formula that we teach in the Rise and Conker Project.
Speaker 1: And I guess I wanted to be very like upfront
Speaker 1: and transparent because I think some people can think I
Speaker 1: would never have those thoughts or I would never you know,
Speaker 1: not have the belief in myself. But it's like we
Speaker 1: all have these thoughts and it always feels uncomfortable, and
Speaker 1: it's honestly easier to stay where you are.
Speaker 2: It's easier always you.
Speaker 1: Don't have to do the work, you are comfortable, you
Speaker 1: don't have to take the risk, there's no risk of falling.
Speaker 1: But it's like do you want to do that or
Speaker 1: do you want to move to the next level? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you always have a choice.
Speaker 3: And when you felt those limiting beliefs and stuff starting
Speaker 3: to creep in, obviously you wouldn't never recognize straight away
Speaker 3: that that's what was happening. Yes, how did you like
Speaker 3: what was the trigger where you were like, I'm blocking myself.
Speaker 1: Love so and I Min Cooper had this conversation the
Speaker 1: other day because he was going through something where he
Speaker 1: was deciding whether to do something and I was like,
Speaker 1: the reason or not doing it is it because of fear?
Speaker 1: And he's like, yes, well I was like, oh, well,
Speaker 1: it's a limiting belief. So anything that comes up that
Speaker 1: is fear based means that it's like you were trying
Speaker 1: to protect yourself, which is great that you do that,
Speaker 1: because that's why we, you know, don't die. It's important
Speaker 1: we have the ego. But anything that comes from a
Speaker 1: fear base, not that feels aligned and in integrity, is
Speaker 1: what I know is a limited belief. And also, if
Speaker 1: you are somewhat clear on your next level, huge thing
Speaker 1: is when you're making that decision, are you currently making
Speaker 1: it from the person you are now, who is feeling
Speaker 1: scared fear based, you know, uncomfortable, or are you making
Speaker 1: it from the person who you want to be and
Speaker 1: who's done the thing, who's done the thing and what
Speaker 1: would they do? And I think that's very much huge
Speaker 1: thing about moving to the next level is embodying that
Speaker 1: person before it feels comfortable. Yeah, because I think some
Speaker 1: people think, oh, you know, I'll just I'll wait until
Speaker 1: I feel confident or I'll wait until this thing, but
Speaker 1: it's like you don't actually realize you have to do
Speaker 1: the thing first and then you feel confident literally, right.
Speaker 3: I feel like that's the biggest one, is like even
Speaker 3: with the one that comes to mind is weight loss.
Speaker 3: When people are like, oh, our wear dress is like
Speaker 3: that when I'm skinny, Yes, but like you have to
Speaker 3: wear that dress now, yes, and then you will start
Speaker 3: to feel comfortable and beautiful no matter what.
Speaker 1: Yep, exactly. And then something that I guess, you know,
Speaker 1: something that came up to me in the exercise that
Speaker 1: I did was really embodying the person who I want
Speaker 1: to be. And so it is hard sometimes because we're
Speaker 1: not often clear.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So like I said, like I'm feeling a bit unclear
Speaker 1: and feeling a bit you know, burnt out, and I
Speaker 1: think the best thing if you're feeling unclear is to
Speaker 1: create space. So that's like a huge thing that I'm
Speaker 1: doing right now is like I'm not booking things in.
Speaker 1: I've got a lot of things booked in, but that's
Speaker 1: for example, something I'm doing is like not booking things
Speaker 1: in the new year. We may have you know, tentative things,
Speaker 1: but we're not hard booking things in because I just
Speaker 1: expressed but it's I need some space to actually regroup
Speaker 1: and get clear on like who I want to be
Speaker 1: and what I want to embody. But I guess I
Speaker 1: wanted to just come on here and be like, it's
Speaker 1: always going to feel uncomfortable, and it's also going to
Speaker 1: feel like who am I to want that thing? Who
Speaker 1: am I to? You know? Why do I need to
Speaker 1: be that person? Why do I, you know, need that house?
Speaker 1: Who am I to have that sort of house? Or
Speaker 1: like who am I to get that promotion? Why don't
Speaker 1: we even care about that promotion? We always have these
Speaker 1: things that come up. It's like it's the same as
Speaker 1: who am I to start that business? Who am I to?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 1: Put myself first when there's you know, people I've got
Speaker 1: to look after and this and that. And I think
Speaker 1: the big thing of what I was just saying before
Speaker 1: is if we look at a lot of successful people,
Speaker 1: it's because they very much embody their vision. I do
Speaker 1: like that. I have a question as well.
Speaker 3: Yeah, when you say, say you're creating space and you're
Speaker 3: not booking things in, Yeah, how would that look like
Speaker 3: for someone who might not be self employed. Because obviously,
Speaker 3: for you, that means like tentatively putting things in for
Speaker 3: NH or for R and C, or for like your
Speaker 3: personal brand. But what would that look like for someone
Speaker 3: who's just got the nine to five? How did they
Speaker 3: create space in that sense? Well, obviously in their job
Speaker 3: that is, that's not where it's going to happen because
Speaker 3: you're working for someone else. Yeah, but it's creating space,
Speaker 3: you know, in your routine, in your weekends. You know,
Speaker 3: I'm someone who gets recharged when I'm like alone or
Speaker 3: like family time, So it would be putting.
Speaker 1: That in for me. But well, I guess, like onto
Speaker 1: that I tea, I do have some journal prompts that
Speaker 1: for the audience if they are in a similar situation,
Speaker 1: because I think sometimes it is hard to see and
Speaker 1: I think sometimes like in my instance, I've kind of
Speaker 1: caught myself. But I think if you don't catch yourself,
Speaker 1: you do tend to self sabotage. Absolutely, because what I
Speaker 1: absolutely wanted to do then was terminate the contract and
Speaker 1: just stay in my little home and just be comfortable
Speaker 1: and no joke. If I didn't have like Cooper and
Speaker 1: Tim telling me I was ridiculous. I would have Oh
Speaker 1: my god, Like.
Speaker 2: I just was like, no, too soon, too much.
Speaker 1: I'm just getting a hold of like, you know, being
Speaker 1: a mom and business and like what am I thinking? Like,
Speaker 1: really would a self sabotage? And it's like it wouldn't
Speaker 1: have been the end of the world. No, but I
Speaker 1: very much truly believe this.
Speaker 2: Is delayed the process.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it would have delayed my next chapter. And it's like,
Speaker 1: it's not specifically about a house, because you don't need
Speaker 1: a house for a next chapter. Yeah, that's not the thing.
Speaker 1: It's about the next chapter.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And then so I think if you can catch yourself
Speaker 1: in these moments, something that I want you guys to
Speaker 1: think in journal on is where in your life are
Speaker 1: you playing small or are you still sitting in an
Speaker 1: old identity? Write it down? Come on. So when I
Speaker 1: say old identity, this is just something I notice again,
Speaker 1: this is the whole To get to that next level,
Speaker 1: you have to embody that next level. So it's like
Speaker 1: the old identity is currently if you've got a goal
Speaker 1: for something or if you know you're at that you know,
Speaker 1: wanting to get to that next level, you do need
Speaker 1: to start saying as that person who is already there.
Speaker 1: What would they feel like, what would their routines be,
Speaker 1: what would their habits be, what would their spending habits be,
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. And so that is an identity. What
Speaker 1: sort of beliefs would they have in themselves, what would
Speaker 1: they prioritize, et cetera. And so I guarantee you there's
Speaker 1: you know, if you're in this moment, there's something there
Speaker 1: that's you're like, Okay, I'm really playing into this old
Speaker 1: identity because it could be a story. It's a story
Speaker 1: that things don't happen for me. I don't deserve that thing,
Speaker 1: you know, not having enough self worth to believe you
Speaker 1: deserve that thing. So just think where am I playing small?
Speaker 1: Where am I playing into an old identity? And then
Speaker 1: ask yourself is it serving you by staying there? Or not?
Speaker 1: Most times, no, again it's your choice. You don't. You
Speaker 1: don't always have to constantly go to that next level.
Speaker 1: Sometimes it is serving you. Of I just need a
Speaker 1: period of staying still creating space. But you know, asking
Speaker 1: yourself is it currently serving me? Or do I need
Speaker 1: to you know, start making some action. Yeah, And because
Speaker 1: the thing is, like we said before, it is always
Speaker 1: going to feel easier and comfortable to stay in that place.
Speaker 1: Of course, you don't have to do the work. You
Speaker 1: don't have to go through these anxious feelings because they
Speaker 1: are the anxious feelings. They're not like the nicest feelings,
Speaker 1: and you usually feel a bit out of control, like
Speaker 1: I've felt in the last couple of weeks. It's very
Speaker 1: not grounded.
Speaker 3: It's kind of like you're like doggie paddling and for
Speaker 3: just like endless amounts of time, and your feet just
Speaker 3: can't ever touch the ground.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you feel like you're just doing one step
Speaker 1: in front of the other, but you can like never
Speaker 1: get ahead.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And then the last question I want you guys to
Speaker 1: think about is just how can I change this story?
Speaker 1: How can I see this thing differently? So for me
Speaker 1: and you know my scenario, I just had to have
Speaker 1: a pep talk with myself and I was like, Georgia,
Speaker 1: you've done this before, girl, lots of times. You're going
Speaker 1: to a new level. This is exciting. This is going to,
Speaker 1: you know, be the thing that helps you feel you know,
Speaker 1: secure in yourself, because I haven't recently. This is going
Speaker 1: to you know, you've got you've really got a pet
Speaker 1: talk yourself. This is the right step, because I had
Speaker 1: to remind myself, like, remember how this house came to you,
Speaker 1: Like it was so magical and so like MANIFESTI it
Speaker 1: was ridiculous.
Speaker 2: It can't be the wrong thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it felt so intuitively right. And it's like Georgia,
Speaker 1: you have to trust yourself. You can't get to the
Speaker 1: final hour and then not trust yourself. And it's like
Speaker 1: it wouldn't have come to you this way. It would
Speaker 1: have felt like that if it's wrong for you. Yes,
Speaker 1: And so you know, I had to give myself that
Speaker 1: pep talk. And it's just about it's changing the story.
Speaker 1: It's changing the narrative and going remember previously how you've
Speaker 1: felt these feelings and then you've gone to the new
Speaker 1: you or the next level, and remember how exciting and
Speaker 1: good that was. Yeah, like imagine and like remember how
Speaker 1: you looked back and was like, oh my god, that
Speaker 1: was better than I could have imagined. Lock into that feeling, girl. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I.
Speaker 2: Loved the question.
Speaker 3: The other question you said that you asked yourself before
Speaker 3: as well, And it could even be something people journal
Speaker 3: and if it helps them, but you can ask yourself,
Speaker 3: is this coming from a place of fear, and if
Speaker 3: it is, I just need to do it anyway.
Speaker 1: Yes, if there's things stopping you or feeling hard, it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're coming to a crossroads. Yeah, how you make that decision?
Speaker 1: Is am I making you scared of? Well not like
Speaker 1: you've got to also have like logic brain in there,
Speaker 1: but it's like, am I not going to do this
Speaker 1: thing because it's a fear based rather than not in integrity?
Speaker 1: I know this is not the right thing for me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and you will like you'll know the difference.
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh for sure.
Speaker 1: So guys, that was my little pep talk slash rant
Speaker 1: of the day. I just I know when I'm feeling
Speaker 1: these things and going through it, you know some of
Speaker 1: you may be feeling that too. So I just wanted
Speaker 1: to have a chat about it. And it's like I
Speaker 1: had to, you know, when I was pep talking myself.
Speaker 1: It's like, have the audacity to be that person because
Speaker 1: if we aren't you know, moving forward, if we aren't
Speaker 1: going through challenges, if we aren't getting uncomfortable, we aren't growing.
Speaker 1: And it's just it's so important. And if you're listening
Speaker 1: to this podcast, girl, you're.
Speaker 2: Someone who wants to grow. We're growers here.
Speaker 1: And also just know I usually find before a sweet
Speaker 1: spot or like really amazing moments of my life. It
Speaker 1: has felt like this. It's felt shit, it's felt I
Speaker 1: haven't felt grounded, I haven't felt like this is me.
Speaker 1: I've felt a lot of fear, a lot of anxiety.
Speaker 1: So it's like, hold on, Like, if you're feeling like this,
Speaker 1: it usually means that something really great is around the corner,
Speaker 1: and you've got to keep trusting the universe and yourself
Speaker 1: and your intuition.
Speaker 2: I love that.
Speaker 1: Have the audacity to be that person.
Speaker 2: Yeah, be hot and unbothered.
Speaker 1: Yes, literally, So, guys, I hope you enjoyed this episode.
Speaker 1: You know, let's start getting comfortable with the unknowns. Yeah,
Speaker 1: please come over to Instagram. We're going to do some
Speaker 1: polls and fun stuff and just I want to know
Speaker 1: how you guys are feeling. Am I the really on?
Speaker 1: But yeah, come over and chat. And also, guys, we
Speaker 1: chat about this stuff in the Facebook group too. Come
Speaker 1: over to Rise and Conquer podcast community because like we
Speaker 1: have chats in there too. But anything to add a tear,
Speaker 1: any questions, anything to add on new chapters, stretching yourself,
Speaker 1: you know, going to that next level.
Speaker 3: Oh, how do you tell the difference when you're just
Speaker 3: in a funk verse when you're going to the next level?
Speaker 3: Or are you always going to the next level when
Speaker 3: you're in a funk?
Speaker 1: Not necessarily, because like I said, I don't think you
Speaker 1: should always be like this huge level up because like
Speaker 1: how exhausting. So when I'm in a funk, it's either
Speaker 1: I'm going to that next level and I've got to
Speaker 1: hold on and I've got to keep to my practices,
Speaker 1: or if I'm in a funk, but I'm like, I
Speaker 1: know there's new no next level. I'm just in a funk.
Speaker 1: It's because I'm out of alignment. So I look at
Speaker 1: and I think we have a whole episode about alignment
Speaker 1: that we can link. But it's like, where in my
Speaker 1: life am I making decisions that don't align with myself?
Speaker 1: Where in my life am I not prioritizing things that
Speaker 1: don't align with me? Where in my life am I
Speaker 1: spending time with people that no longer align with me? Basically,
Speaker 1: like where am I putting my energy that doesn't feel
Speaker 1: right to me? And I fix that and then I'm
Speaker 1: usually back into alignment and off we go.
Speaker 2: But that's true.
Speaker 1: It's like you can feel these feelings when you're out
Speaker 1: of alignment when you go into that next level. But
Speaker 1: the funky thing, when you go into that next level,
Speaker 1: you will have a goal. You will have that I
Speaker 1: know there's a new chapter. I know this right there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I love that. Thanks so much, guys, Thank you so
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