1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: It's honestly easier to stay where you are. You don't 2 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: have to do the work, you are comfortable, you don't 3 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:09,160 Speaker 1: have to take the risk. There's no risk of falling. 4 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:12,319 Speaker 1: But it's like, do you want to do that or 5 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: do you want to move to the next level? You 6 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 1: always have a choice. Hello and welcome back to the 7 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 1: Rise and Conquer Podcast. This is the podcast for ordinary 8 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 1: people who want to do extraordinary things. Hello and welcome 9 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 1: back to the Rising Conker Podcast. It is your host, 10 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:51,879 Speaker 1: Georgie Stevenson, lawyer turned entrepreneur, mother, business owner, all the 11 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 1: things guys. Today we are chatting how to know when 12 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 1: you are moving to the next level and how to 13 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 1: deal with it because it usually doesn't feel good. Yes, 14 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:09,119 Speaker 1: a Tea doesn't know what we're talking about in this. 15 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 2: Episode, so her face lit up. 16 00:01:10,600 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 1: Then she's like, oh love, So guys, before we get 17 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: into that, though, I do want to just say last 18 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: week was a bit wild. I just want to give 19 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:24,119 Speaker 1: a shout out and just say thank you so much 20 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: for all the love and support on my LSKD Rise collection. 21 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: Very surreal, very thankful to you guys, and. 22 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 2: It's the best collection ever. 23 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: I Tea pretty much sold out the collection guy myself. No, 24 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 1: it's not fully sold out, but a lot of like 25 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 1: you know, the key styles sold out very fast. We 26 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: kind of knew that. So just incredible. Yeah, I don't 27 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: know what else to say, but thank you. It's always 28 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 1: a weird thing when you're putting something out that is 29 00:01:56,800 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 1: your creation, your personal choices, because you know, if people 30 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 1: don't like it, it does feel very personal. So like I, 31 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: you know, had a lot of anxiety around it, just 32 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: a little you know, nervousness to be expected. 33 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, so feel. 34 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: Very relieved and like, yeah, very thankful and very grateful. 35 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:20,080 Speaker 1: I know I would be nowhere without my community. So 36 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 1: I'm just so glad you guys like the collection and 37 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 1: I can't wait to see you guys in it. 38 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:25,639 Speaker 2: But yeah, so let's. 39 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 1: Talk about new chapters a tear. 40 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 2: I'm so excited. 41 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: So I have kind of expressed to you guys that 42 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: I'm going through this weird limbo stage where I kind 43 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 1: of know I'm in a transition entering into a new chapter. Obviously, 44 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:44,959 Speaker 1: I've just become a mom. I'm navigating what that looks 45 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: like with my businesses and just mom life is very hard, 46 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 1: and I definitely don't feel like I've found my feet. 47 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: I definitely don't have it all together, and then throwing 48 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: in me Tim and Ivy and moving house, which. 49 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 2: Is really exciting. 50 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:04,799 Speaker 1: So I just feel like that towards the end of 51 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 1: the year is going to be this big thing of 52 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: like settling in or finding our feet, and then you know, 53 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 1: next year will be when I feel more I guess, 54 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 1: like secure and grounded. Yeah, grounded in like myself. And 55 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 1: I think that's another thing too, is personally I feel 56 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 1: very I guess I'm sure on like who Georgie is, 57 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 1: which I don't know if you guys get that from 58 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: how I am or if that does, I haven't got that. 59 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 1: And that's and that's why I want to be very 60 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: open and transparent because I think on Instagram it looks 61 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 1: like I've got it all together and I'm killing mom 62 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: life and I'm killing it in my businesses and not 63 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 1: not that I'm not, but I think, you know, what 64 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 1: happens in your mind internally is just usually a lot different, 65 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: and I think that's and that's why I want to 66 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 1: chat about this today because you know, I am someone 67 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: who has done a lot of self development and I 68 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 1: have gone through a lot of deaths, of my old 69 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 1: self and like very much transformed and you know, gone 70 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 1: to that next level and then gone to that next level. 71 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 2: But it's like it doesn't get easier. I'm exhausted. 72 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 1: So I'm currently like in the midst of it, and 73 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 1: so I'm like, I usually talk about things after. I 74 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: love to have it all together for you guys. I 75 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 1: love to have all my notes, have all my journaling 76 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 1: prompts for you, and I don't. No, I definitely have 77 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:33,040 Speaker 1: some journaling prompts, but I thought, let's just talk about 78 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 1: it raw and real. I'm literally in the midst of 79 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 1: going to a next level, so let's like explore that. 80 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:40,280 Speaker 2: Let's talk about that. 81 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 3: I have a question straight up, how long does this 82 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 3: period usually last for you? Or is it sometimes like 83 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 3: a few weeks? Is it sometimes a few months? How 84 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 3: long do you feel this current one has been going 85 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 3: on for in the sense that, like, I know, some 86 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:58,159 Speaker 3: people might think they're going to the next level and 87 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 3: then they're like, but it's been six months feeling like that. Yeah, 88 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 3: it's always going to depend on what that next sort 89 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:06,720 Speaker 3: of chapter and that next level is for you. 90 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 1: But for example, I feel like I've been going through 91 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 1: this like since i'vey was born. Yeah, so like nearly 92 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 1: nine months, and it also doesn't look very clear. But 93 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 1: I think that's my point of this episode is you 94 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 1: need to get comfortable with that, because otherwise, anytime you 95 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 1: do enter this, you know, uncertainty stage going to the 96 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 1: next level, you will spiral and sometimes it is a 97 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 1: long period of time and if you can't handle it, yeah, 98 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 1: you regress. Yeah, of course, So let's chat about how 99 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:49,799 Speaker 1: I've realized I'm in this very specific time of entering 100 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 1: a new chapter, entering the next level. So guys, when 101 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 1: I say the next level, I'm just talking about the 102 00:05:57,120 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 1: next you, the next embodiment of you that is different 103 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 1: to who you are. And of course we have very 104 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 1: subtle next levels that it's like you might look back 105 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: and be like, oh my god, I've come so far, 106 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: it was so easy, felt so aligned the whole time. 107 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 1: Those are great next levels, and then sometimes life will 108 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 1: just feel not aligned, life will feel quite difficult, and 109 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: you'll be like you, it's a feeling of being like 110 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 1: really stuck, and like, why are things not just happening 111 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: a bit more simpler and a bit more easier. Why 112 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 1: do I feel uncertain? For example, me, I've struggled a 113 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 1: lot with my intuition. I'm usually someone who's so strong 114 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:39,040 Speaker 1: my intuition. I know what I want. I don't poll people. 115 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 1: I'm like very scented and grounded. And you've probably noticed 116 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: lately a Tia I've been pulling people and being like, yeah, 117 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:48,479 Speaker 1: what should I do here? And that's that's not me. 118 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: And so that's how I know I'm going to, you know, 119 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:54,359 Speaker 1: the next level because she's feeling a bit funky. 120 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 3: Yeah. 121 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 1: So I've known I'm in this transition, but it wasn't 122 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 1: until recently that it got really clear for me. And 123 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:05,039 Speaker 1: I've been very open with you guys about our new 124 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 1: house so exciting, which was supposed to be my goal 125 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 1: for the project, but it happened sooner than we thought. 126 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: I won't go into the whole thing, but basically, long 127 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 1: story short, the house came into our life in a 128 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: very weird way of I had my eye on this 129 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 1: house for years, but never thought it was in my reach, 130 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 1: never thought I was good enough. Like I just was like, 131 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 1: oh my god, no, like I just I could never 132 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: it was that sort of thing. But then I couldn't 133 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 1: stop thinking about it. It was not actually on market. 134 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 1: I text the agent said, you know, would they seller 135 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 1: be interested in buying? They were long story short, that 136 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 1: is like how it happened, and there was a bit 137 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 1: of back and forth where we agreed to a price. 138 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 1: I thought it was happening, and then the seller kind 139 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:51,000 Speaker 1: of said no, it was off the table. And then 140 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 1: a couple of months later they came back and they said, yes, 141 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 1: it's back on. So this has been happening like for ages. 142 00:07:57,720 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: I can't even remember the month, like maybe May it started, 143 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 1: so six months that it has been like hot and cold. 144 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 1: Been been really playing with me. But everything is happening. 145 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: You know, finance went through, everything was perfect. So we're 146 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 1: a couple of weeks away from settlement. 147 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 2: Yay. And it's funny though. 148 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 1: Because I even thought to myself, I actually don't usually 149 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 1: tell people until like we're. 150 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 2: In the house. Yeah, but I told everyone. 151 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: And so we've got a call from like the lawyers 152 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 1: the other day. I'm not going to get into the specifics, 153 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:34,320 Speaker 1: but something had happen where we legally could terminate the 154 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 1: contract because they found something you know, that the seller 155 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: had not disclosed. Blah blah blah blah. Not going to 156 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:43,959 Speaker 1: get into it. So we came to and also. 157 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 3: Guys, my mouth is like, oh I happen right now? 158 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 2: She's like what? 159 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 1: And I literally thought to myself, I went, I spiraled. 160 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, I knew this was 161 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 1: going to happen. No, I we're not meant for that house. 162 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 1: Not that we're not meant because I've all along this 163 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:03,200 Speaker 1: house is meant for us. But I was like, how 164 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: could I think that we could have that house? Now? 165 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 1: Who am I to have that sort of property now? 166 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 3: But like this, this is in your court though, right, yeah, 167 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 3: yeah you can termine. 168 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 2: We yeah, we get to side. But the news was Okay. 169 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 1: I did think about it. I was like, maybe we 170 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 1: should Okay, it didn't look great, right, but we still 171 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 1: had the decision correct, Okay. So but that's what I mean. 172 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 1: I spiraled and I was like, you know, maybe this 173 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 1: is a sign we're not actually meant to go in 174 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 1: this house. And I have a lot of fear with 175 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 1: this house because it does feel very you know, next 176 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 1: level for you know, me and Tim. It does feel 177 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 1: like a stretch, you know, financially, and even I've had 178 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 1: a lot of fear to be very transparent, like you know, 179 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 1: the interest rates have been rising and so I've been like, 180 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 1: you know, there's talks of a recession coming and all 181 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 1: these things that I'm like, very fear based of, Oh 182 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:05,560 Speaker 1: this is you know, this is happening, because you know, 183 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 1: if we do go ahead with the house, something's going 184 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 1: to happen, you know, with the recession, with the business, 185 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:13,439 Speaker 1: we're going to lose the house, or we're gonna have 186 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 1: to sell it, or you know, all these very fear 187 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:18,560 Speaker 1: based things which you get from the news. And so 188 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: my mind straight like straight away went there. And it's 189 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 1: funny because I was talking to Cooper and I explained 190 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:26,320 Speaker 1: to him what had happened, and I was like, well, 191 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 1: that's it, We're not going to. 192 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 2: Get the house. Blah blah blah. 193 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 1: I can't believe it's been such a fuck around, you know, 194 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 1: very negative, very spirally. 195 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 2: And he literally like laughed and he's like rudo. 196 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:43,199 Speaker 1: He's like, pull it together, Georgia. He said, you are 197 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:46,680 Speaker 1: just scared because you're going to the next level and 198 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 1: you're going into the unknown. And I am so I 199 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:53,599 Speaker 1: know he pulled me on my shit straight away, and 200 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:57,080 Speaker 1: he goes what came up is like nothing, like, who cares, 201 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: It's a joke. I can't believe you'd even think about, 202 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 1: you know, bletmody Like yeah, get over it basically was 203 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 1: his answer. And he just said to me straight up, 204 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 1: He goes, I know you're scared of this. I know 205 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 1: you're scared, and that is because this is next level Georgie. 206 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 1: This is Georgie who you've spoken about for years, and 207 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 1: you know you're you're scared of going to this new chapter. 208 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 1: You've got a new baby. You know, there's already a 209 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 1: lot that is happening that feels unknown and out of 210 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:29,679 Speaker 1: your control. So you're holding on to what you can 211 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:35,719 Speaker 1: of what feels known. But he's like, we don't do that, Georgia. 212 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, fuck, And he completely pulled me up on 213 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 1: my shit. 214 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 2: That's so good, which is so good. 215 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 1: It's funny because he literally like was laughing at me 216 00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 1: and I was like about crying, and it then got 217 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 1: me thinking and I had to literally get me little 218 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 1: journal out and journal through all these fears and limiting 219 00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 1: beliefs around. So, first of all, you know, with the 220 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 1: house of the financial stretch, it's like I had to go, well, 221 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:06,680 Speaker 1: you wouldn't have got the finance if you couldn't afford 222 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 1: this house. 223 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:11,319 Speaker 2: There's somebody's job to check back. 224 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:14,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, like you know, and it's not It's definitely not 225 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:17,240 Speaker 1: like we bought this house outright, so like you wouldn't 226 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 1: have got the finance if you could not afford this house. Yeah, 227 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 1: they've done their backwork. A bank's not going to give 228 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 1: you the loan if you cannot repay it. And then 229 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 1: I had to go. A big thing also about this 230 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:30,680 Speaker 1: house is obviously because the seller had a lot of 231 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 1: power because we came to them or was like we 232 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 1: want the house, you know, price wise. It's not like 233 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 1: we got you know, a sweet deal you know when 234 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 1: I don't know if you know this, Stia, but when 235 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 1: you purchase a house and obviously get a loan for 236 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 1: the house, the bank sends in a value are that 237 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:50,440 Speaker 1: just make sure the price that you're paying for the 238 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 1: house is correct and they can you know, for instance, 239 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 1: if something was to happen and they have to sell 240 00:12:56,440 --> 00:12:57,319 Speaker 1: the house, they know. 241 00:12:57,280 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 2: The bank can get their money back. Yeah. 242 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 1: So obviously they did that and it checked out. So 243 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 1: it's not like I know, what we're paying is good. 244 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 1: But it's not like you know, with the current chips, no, 245 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:10,320 Speaker 1: like the current market that was never going to happen. Yeah, 246 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:14,840 Speaker 1: And also I very much make our house decisions off 247 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 1: this is our family home. This is not me wanting 248 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 1: to flip a house and make money off it. It's like, 249 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 1: this is our family home. This is going to create 250 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:23,440 Speaker 1: memories that. 251 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 3: This is where Ivy will grow up kind of correct 252 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 3: and this. 253 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 1: So that's the vibe. So it's always like that's what 254 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:32,600 Speaker 1: it is. So then even that side of things, I, 255 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 1: you know, have some limiting beliefs around that, oh did 256 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 1: we pay too much? 257 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 3: You know? 258 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 1: Is this are we now going to not be able 259 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: for the repayments because the interest rates are going up? 260 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 1: And so something I had to do with that limiting 261 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 1: belief is remind myself. So with our current house that 262 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:50,960 Speaker 1: we're in, kind of a similar thing happened where our 263 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 1: current house is, like we were just wanting to move 264 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 1: to the Gold Coast. We didn't we wanted to live 265 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 1: in that certain area because Cooper lived there and we 266 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 1: didn't have any other family in the Gold Coast. It 267 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 1: also was just like so perfect in the way of 268 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:06,839 Speaker 1: it was a Whitehampton's house, it was brand new, it 269 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:10,320 Speaker 1: was like everything that we wanted. Yeah, so you know, 270 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 1: like real estate dot Com where they're like offers over 271 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 1: this price, and you're obviously supposed to go in under 272 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:18,200 Speaker 1: and then like barter and whatnot. 273 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, we just went straight and were. 274 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 1: Because they said there's another person bidding, like give us 275 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 1: your final offer basically, so again we're just like, yeah, 276 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 1: this is our max, this is our max. 277 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 2: Of course we paid that. 278 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:32,720 Speaker 1: And it's funny because at that time, when we bought 279 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: three years ago, I had a friend who was no 280 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:37,440 Speaker 1: longer a friend who was like a real estate person, 281 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 1: who was like, you've paid too much, blah blah blah, doubts, 282 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 1: limiting beliefs. And it's funny because obviously then the market 283 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 1: went crazy and our house value pretty much doubled, and 284 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 1: so I was like, do you know what I mean, Like, Georgia, 285 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:56,160 Speaker 1: stop being silly. Yeah, because you have absolutely no idea. 286 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 1: What you have no idea? And also worst case scenario 287 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 1: so if for whatever reason, like interest rates or anything, 288 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 1: you can just sell the house, yeah, it's like and 289 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 1: go back into the one yeah like it. 290 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 291 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:13,440 Speaker 1: So I had to work through these limiting beliefs, and 292 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 1: I guess a big thing for me is knowing when 293 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: I am, you know, standing in my own way and 294 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 1: just kind of creating worrying problems that don't actually need 295 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 1: to be there. Yeah, and so that was a moment 296 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:33,520 Speaker 1: where I had to catch myself and I had to 297 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 1: go through the limiting beliefs, like I went through the 298 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 1: exact formula that we teach in the Rise and Conker Project. 299 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:41,320 Speaker 1: And I guess I wanted to be very like upfront 300 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 1: and transparent because I think some people can think I 301 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 1: would never have those thoughts or I would never you know, 302 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 1: not have the belief in myself. But it's like we 303 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 1: all have these thoughts and it always feels uncomfortable, and 304 00:15:57,520 --> 00:16:00,560 Speaker 1: it's honestly easier to stay where you are. 305 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:02,880 Speaker 2: It's easier always you. 306 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 1: Don't have to do the work, you are comfortable, you 307 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:09,120 Speaker 1: don't have to take the risk, there's no risk of falling. 308 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 1: But it's like do you want to do that or 309 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 1: do you want to move to the next level? Yeah, 310 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 1: you always have a choice. 311 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:22,440 Speaker 3: And when you felt those limiting beliefs and stuff starting 312 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 3: to creep in, obviously you wouldn't never recognize straight away 313 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 3: that that's what was happening. Yes, how did you like 314 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 3: what was the trigger where you were like, I'm blocking myself. 315 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 1: Love so and I Min Cooper had this conversation the 316 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 1: other day because he was going through something where he 317 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 1: was deciding whether to do something and I was like, 318 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 1: the reason or not doing it is it because of fear? 319 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 1: And he's like, yes, well I was like, oh, well, 320 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:50,920 Speaker 1: it's a limiting belief. So anything that comes up that 321 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 1: is fear based means that it's like you were trying 322 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 1: to protect yourself, which is great that you do that, 323 00:16:59,280 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 1: because that's why we, you know, don't die. It's important 324 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:06,960 Speaker 1: we have the ego. But anything that comes from a 325 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: fear base, not that feels aligned and in integrity, is 326 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 1: what I know is a limited belief. And also, if 327 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 1: you are somewhat clear on your next level, huge thing 328 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:24,639 Speaker 1: is when you're making that decision, are you currently making 329 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:28,679 Speaker 1: it from the person you are now, who is feeling 330 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:33,639 Speaker 1: scared fear based, you know, uncomfortable, or are you making 331 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:36,639 Speaker 1: it from the person who you want to be and 332 00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 1: who's done the thing, who's done the thing and what 333 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:42,400 Speaker 1: would they do? And I think that's very much huge 334 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 1: thing about moving to the next level is embodying that 335 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 1: person before it feels comfortable. Yeah, because I think some 336 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:53,000 Speaker 1: people think, oh, you know, I'll just I'll wait until 337 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:56,879 Speaker 1: I feel confident or I'll wait until this thing, but 338 00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 1: it's like you don't actually realize you have to do 339 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 1: the thing first and then you feel confident literally, right. 340 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 3: I feel like that's the biggest one, is like even 341 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:06,920 Speaker 3: with the one that comes to mind is weight loss. 342 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 3: When people are like, oh, our wear dress is like 343 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 3: that when I'm skinny, Yes, but like you have to 344 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:15,720 Speaker 3: wear that dress now, yes, and then you will start 345 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:17,600 Speaker 3: to feel comfortable and beautiful no matter what. 346 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:21,960 Speaker 1: Yep, exactly. And then something that I guess, you know, 347 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:24,119 Speaker 1: something that came up to me in the exercise that 348 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:28,640 Speaker 1: I did was really embodying the person who I want 349 00:18:28,680 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 1: to be. And so it is hard sometimes because we're 350 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:32,359 Speaker 1: not often clear. 351 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. 352 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:35,159 Speaker 1: So like I said, like I'm feeling a bit unclear 353 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 1: and feeling a bit you know, burnt out, and I 354 00:18:37,840 --> 00:18:40,199 Speaker 1: think the best thing if you're feeling unclear is to 355 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:43,120 Speaker 1: create space. So that's like a huge thing that I'm 356 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:46,280 Speaker 1: doing right now is like I'm not booking things in. 357 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 1: I've got a lot of things booked in, but that's 358 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 1: for example, something I'm doing is like not booking things 359 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:56,240 Speaker 1: in the new year. We may have you know, tentative things, 360 00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 1: but we're not hard booking things in because I just 361 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:03,360 Speaker 1: expressed but it's I need some space to actually regroup 362 00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:05,639 Speaker 1: and get clear on like who I want to be 363 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:08,719 Speaker 1: and what I want to embody. But I guess I 364 00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 1: wanted to just come on here and be like, it's 365 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:15,199 Speaker 1: always going to feel uncomfortable, and it's also going to 366 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:19,640 Speaker 1: feel like who am I to want that thing? Who 367 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 1: am I to? You know? Why do I need to 368 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:26,199 Speaker 1: be that person? Why do I, you know, need that house? 369 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 1: Who am I to have that sort of house? Or 370 00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:31,520 Speaker 1: like who am I to get that promotion? Why don't 371 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:34,280 Speaker 1: we even care about that promotion? We always have these 372 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 1: things that come up. It's like it's the same as 373 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 1: who am I to start that business? Who am I to? 374 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 3: You know? 375 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 1: Put myself first when there's you know, people I've got 376 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 1: to look after and this and that. And I think 377 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:47,480 Speaker 1: the big thing of what I was just saying before 378 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 1: is if we look at a lot of successful people, 379 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 1: it's because they very much embody their vision. I do 380 00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 1: like that. I have a question as well. 381 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, when you say, say you're creating space and you're 382 00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:04,960 Speaker 3: not booking things in, Yeah, how would that look like 383 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:07,960 Speaker 3: for someone who might not be self employed. Because obviously, 384 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,480 Speaker 3: for you, that means like tentatively putting things in for 385 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 3: NH or for R and C, or for like your 386 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:15,160 Speaker 3: personal brand. But what would that look like for someone 387 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:17,160 Speaker 3: who's just got the nine to five? How did they 388 00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:21,640 Speaker 3: create space in that sense? Well, obviously in their job 389 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:24,320 Speaker 3: that is, that's not where it's going to happen because 390 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 3: you're working for someone else. Yeah, but it's creating space, 391 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:31,480 Speaker 3: you know, in your routine, in your weekends. You know, 392 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:34,879 Speaker 3: I'm someone who gets recharged when I'm like alone or 393 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 3: like family time, So it would be putting. 394 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:40,680 Speaker 1: That in for me. But well, I guess, like onto 395 00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:43,800 Speaker 1: that I tea, I do have some journal prompts that 396 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:47,200 Speaker 1: for the audience if they are in a similar situation, 397 00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:50,439 Speaker 1: because I think sometimes it is hard to see and 398 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 1: I think sometimes like in my instance, I've kind of 399 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:56,920 Speaker 1: caught myself. But I think if you don't catch yourself, 400 00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 1: you do tend to self sabotage. Absolutely, because what I 401 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:03,879 Speaker 1: absolutely wanted to do then was terminate the contract and 402 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:06,359 Speaker 1: just stay in my little home and just be comfortable 403 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 1: and no joke. If I didn't have like Cooper and 404 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:12,080 Speaker 1: Tim telling me I was ridiculous. I would have Oh 405 00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 1: my god, Like. 406 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:15,840 Speaker 2: I just was like, no, too soon, too much. 407 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 1: I'm just getting a hold of like, you know, being 408 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:22,679 Speaker 1: a mom and business and like what am I thinking? Like, 409 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 1: really would a self sabotage? And it's like it wouldn't 410 00:21:25,640 --> 00:21:28,199 Speaker 1: have been the end of the world. No, but I 411 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:29,880 Speaker 1: very much truly believe this. 412 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 2: Is delayed the process. 413 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, it would have delayed my next chapter. And it's like, 414 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,479 Speaker 1: it's not specifically about a house, because you don't need 415 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 1: a house for a next chapter. Yeah, that's not the thing. 416 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:42,159 Speaker 1: It's about the next chapter. 417 00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:42,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. 418 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:46,359 Speaker 1: And then so I think if you can catch yourself 419 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,879 Speaker 1: in these moments, something that I want you guys to 420 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:53,000 Speaker 1: think in journal on is where in your life are 421 00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:57,719 Speaker 1: you playing small or are you still sitting in an 422 00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:03,439 Speaker 1: old identity? Write it down? Come on. So when I 423 00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:08,159 Speaker 1: say old identity, this is just something I notice again, 424 00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 1: this is the whole To get to that next level, 425 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:13,240 Speaker 1: you have to embody that next level. So it's like 426 00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:17,320 Speaker 1: the old identity is currently if you've got a goal 427 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 1: for something or if you know you're at that you know, 428 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,840 Speaker 1: wanting to get to that next level, you do need 429 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:26,400 Speaker 1: to start saying as that person who is already there. 430 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:29,199 Speaker 1: What would they feel like, what would their routines be, 431 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 1: what would their habits be, what would their spending habits be, 432 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 1: blah blah blah. And so that is an identity. What 433 00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:38,400 Speaker 1: sort of beliefs would they have in themselves, what would 434 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:43,200 Speaker 1: they prioritize, et cetera. And so I guarantee you there's 435 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 1: you know, if you're in this moment, there's something there 436 00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:51,520 Speaker 1: that's you're like, Okay, I'm really playing into this old 437 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 1: identity because it could be a story. It's a story 438 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:58,000 Speaker 1: that things don't happen for me. I don't deserve that thing, 439 00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:00,919 Speaker 1: you know, not having enough self worth to believe you 440 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 1: deserve that thing. So just think where am I playing small? 441 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 1: Where am I playing into an old identity? And then 442 00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 1: ask yourself is it serving you by staying there? Or not? 443 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:16,080 Speaker 1: Most times, no, again it's your choice. You don't. You 444 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:19,440 Speaker 1: don't always have to constantly go to that next level. 445 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:22,159 Speaker 1: Sometimes it is serving you. Of I just need a 446 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:27,200 Speaker 1: period of staying still creating space. But you know, asking 447 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 1: yourself is it currently serving me? Or do I need 448 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 1: to you know, start making some action. Yeah, And because 449 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 1: the thing is, like we said before, it is always 450 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 1: going to feel easier and comfortable to stay in that place. 451 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:43,399 Speaker 1: Of course, you don't have to do the work. You 452 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,800 Speaker 1: don't have to go through these anxious feelings because they 453 00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 1: are the anxious feelings. They're not like the nicest feelings, 454 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:52,760 Speaker 1: and you usually feel a bit out of control, like 455 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 1: I've felt in the last couple of weeks. It's very 456 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:56,880 Speaker 1: not grounded. 457 00:23:57,200 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 3: It's kind of like you're like doggie paddling and for 458 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:02,959 Speaker 3: just like endless amounts of time, and your feet just 459 00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:04,240 Speaker 3: can't ever touch the ground. 460 00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:07,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you feel like you're just doing one step 461 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:08,800 Speaker 1: in front of the other, but you can like never 462 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:09,399 Speaker 1: get ahead. 463 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:09,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. 464 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:11,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. 465 00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 1: And then the last question I want you guys to 466 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 1: think about is just how can I change this story? 467 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,639 Speaker 1: How can I see this thing differently? So for me 468 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,879 Speaker 1: and you know my scenario, I just had to have 469 00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:25,800 Speaker 1: a pep talk with myself and I was like, Georgia, 470 00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:31,080 Speaker 1: you've done this before, girl, lots of times. You're going 471 00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 1: to a new level. This is exciting. This is going to, 472 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:39,919 Speaker 1: you know, be the thing that helps you feel you know, 473 00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 1: secure in yourself, because I haven't recently. This is going 474 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,280 Speaker 1: to you know, you've got you've really got a pet 475 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:49,680 Speaker 1: talk yourself. This is the right step, because I had 476 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:52,920 Speaker 1: to remind myself, like, remember how this house came to you, 477 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:57,960 Speaker 1: Like it was so magical and so like MANIFESTI it 478 00:24:58,080 --> 00:24:58,840 Speaker 1: was ridiculous. 479 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:01,639 Speaker 2: It can't be the wrong thing. 480 00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it felt so intuitively right. And it's like Georgia, 481 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:07,960 Speaker 1: you have to trust yourself. You can't get to the 482 00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:11,199 Speaker 1: final hour and then not trust yourself. And it's like 483 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,880 Speaker 1: it wouldn't have come to you this way. It would 484 00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 1: have felt like that if it's wrong for you. Yes, 485 00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:19,919 Speaker 1: And so you know, I had to give myself that 486 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:23,760 Speaker 1: pep talk. And it's just about it's changing the story. 487 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:28,240 Speaker 1: It's changing the narrative and going remember previously how you've 488 00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:31,120 Speaker 1: felt these feelings and then you've gone to the new 489 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:34,439 Speaker 1: you or the next level, and remember how exciting and 490 00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:38,440 Speaker 1: good that was. Yeah, like imagine and like remember how 491 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:40,760 Speaker 1: you looked back and was like, oh my god, that 492 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:45,680 Speaker 1: was better than I could have imagined. Lock into that feeling, girl. Yeah, 493 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:46,160 Speaker 1: And I. 494 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:47,680 Speaker 2: Loved the question. 495 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 3: The other question you said that you asked yourself before 496 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:52,760 Speaker 3: as well, And it could even be something people journal 497 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 3: and if it helps them, but you can ask yourself, 498 00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:59,640 Speaker 3: is this coming from a place of fear, and if 499 00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:02,560 Speaker 3: it is, I just need to do it anyway. 500 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 1: Yes, if there's things stopping you or feeling hard, it's like, oh, 501 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:09,400 Speaker 1: you're coming to a crossroads. Yeah, how you make that decision? 502 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 1: Is am I making you scared of? Well not like 503 00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,600 Speaker 1: you've got to also have like logic brain in there, 504 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 1: but it's like, am I not going to do this 505 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:22,960 Speaker 1: thing because it's a fear based rather than not in integrity? 506 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,680 Speaker 1: I know this is not the right thing for me. Yeah, 507 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:28,360 Speaker 1: and you will like you'll know the difference. 508 00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh for sure. 509 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:35,120 Speaker 1: So guys, that was my little pep talk slash rant 510 00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 1: of the day. I just I know when I'm feeling 511 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,199 Speaker 1: these things and going through it, you know some of 512 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,720 Speaker 1: you may be feeling that too. So I just wanted 513 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 1: to have a chat about it. And it's like I 514 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,840 Speaker 1: had to, you know, when I was pep talking myself. 515 00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 1: It's like, have the audacity to be that person because 516 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:56,119 Speaker 1: if we aren't you know, moving forward, if we aren't 517 00:26:56,160 --> 00:27:00,639 Speaker 1: going through challenges, if we aren't getting uncomfortable, we aren't growing. 518 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:04,879 Speaker 1: And it's just it's so important. And if you're listening 519 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:06,680 Speaker 1: to this podcast, girl, you're. 520 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 2: Someone who wants to grow. We're growers here. 521 00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:14,920 Speaker 1: And also just know I usually find before a sweet 522 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:19,840 Speaker 1: spot or like really amazing moments of my life. It 523 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:23,280 Speaker 1: has felt like this. It's felt shit, it's felt I 524 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,960 Speaker 1: haven't felt grounded, I haven't felt like this is me. 525 00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,879 Speaker 1: I've felt a lot of fear, a lot of anxiety. 526 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,520 Speaker 1: So it's like, hold on, Like, if you're feeling like this, 527 00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:35,960 Speaker 1: it usually means that something really great is around the corner, 528 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,880 Speaker 1: and you've got to keep trusting the universe and yourself 529 00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:39,640 Speaker 1: and your intuition. 530 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:41,240 Speaker 2: I love that. 531 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,399 Speaker 1: Have the audacity to be that person. 532 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:47,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, be hot and unbothered. 533 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:52,440 Speaker 1: Yes, literally, So, guys, I hope you enjoyed this episode. 534 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:56,520 Speaker 1: You know, let's start getting comfortable with the unknowns. Yeah, 535 00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:59,280 Speaker 1: please come over to Instagram. We're going to do some 536 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 1: polls and fun stuff and just I want to know 537 00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:04,800 Speaker 1: how you guys are feeling. Am I the really on? 538 00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 1: But yeah, come over and chat. And also, guys, we 539 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:13,520 Speaker 1: chat about this stuff in the Facebook group too. Come 540 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:16,720 Speaker 1: over to Rise and Conquer podcast community because like we 541 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:20,600 Speaker 1: have chats in there too. But anything to add a tear, 542 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 1: any questions, anything to add on new chapters, stretching yourself, 543 00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:27,280 Speaker 1: you know, going to that next level. 544 00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:29,879 Speaker 3: Oh, how do you tell the difference when you're just 545 00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:32,560 Speaker 3: in a funk verse when you're going to the next level? 546 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 3: Or are you always going to the next level when 547 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 3: you're in a funk? 548 00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 1: Not necessarily, because like I said, I don't think you 549 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:43,160 Speaker 1: should always be like this huge level up because like 550 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 1: how exhausting. So when I'm in a funk, it's either 551 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:48,760 Speaker 1: I'm going to that next level and I've got to 552 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:50,959 Speaker 1: hold on and I've got to keep to my practices, 553 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,000 Speaker 1: or if I'm in a funk, but I'm like, I 554 00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:56,600 Speaker 1: know there's new no next level. I'm just in a funk. 555 00:28:56,680 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 1: It's because I'm out of alignment. So I look at 556 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:03,720 Speaker 1: and I think we have a whole episode about alignment 557 00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 1: that we can link. But it's like, where in my 558 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:09,920 Speaker 1: life am I making decisions that don't align with myself? 559 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 1: Where in my life am I not prioritizing things that 560 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:15,440 Speaker 1: don't align with me? Where in my life am I 561 00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:19,280 Speaker 1: spending time with people that no longer align with me? Basically, 562 00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:22,160 Speaker 1: like where am I putting my energy that doesn't feel 563 00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:24,600 Speaker 1: right to me? And I fix that and then I'm 564 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 1: usually back into alignment and off we go. 565 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:29,240 Speaker 2: But that's true. 566 00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 1: It's like you can feel these feelings when you're out 567 00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:33,760 Speaker 1: of alignment when you go into that next level. But 568 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:37,160 Speaker 1: the funky thing, when you go into that next level, 569 00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,720 Speaker 1: you will have a goal. You will have that I 570 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,720 Speaker 1: know there's a new chapter. I know this right there. 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