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<v Speaker 1>The Flex and Rooms Daily Podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>A Beauty, the Truity Pie, Fortuity Pies. I love pet names.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like there needs to be a wider range

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<v Speaker 2>of them, though. I was thinking about how you observed

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<v Speaker 2>me using bro language. Yep, we're just subverting norms because

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<v Speaker 2>I want to start calling you know, everybody girly. Everybody

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<v Speaker 2>says boy boss, boy boss. I love boy boss. Just

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<v Speaker 2>like that to me is inclusive language. I agree, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>because there's something about code switching in anticipation that someone's

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<v Speaker 2>not going to understand or not going to be able

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<v Speaker 2>to resonate with you in all forms of your language,

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<v Speaker 2>not just like, oh what I'm being like local nap,

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<v Speaker 2>you get it all.

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<v Speaker 3>If you don't understand, let me teach you today.

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<v Speaker 4>Please.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, we're talking about dimensional, the personality assessment app. Now

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<v Speaker 2>I need to clarify dimensional itself didn't make personality assessment.

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<v Speaker 2>It's algamating or amount you mating, sorry, a bunch of

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<v Speaker 2>popular personality assessments, the DISK assessment, the Meyers Briggs assessment,

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<v Speaker 2>and then potting it in you know, a simple easy

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<v Speaker 2>place you can access it like coaster, you know what

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<v Speaker 2>I mean? Didn't make up birth charge you just like

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<v Speaker 2>put it in a place where you can access.

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<v Speaker 3>Yours esthetically pleasing, esthetically pleasing.

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<v Speaker 2>So we pose the question, if you don't resonate with

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<v Speaker 2>your self assessment, what does that actually mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Dot dot dot dot dot to be seen, to be seen.

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<v Speaker 2>But we will unpack through me going some roast has

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<v Speaker 2>occurred a mid twenty What do you call a.

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<v Speaker 3>Mid twenties crisis?

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<v Speaker 4>I call a life crisis.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe that's what you're going through.

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<v Speaker 4>Who knows? Who cares some thing about personality tests? Want

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<v Speaker 4>to live my life. I don't want to think about

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<v Speaker 4>it too much.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh actually thinks about it every day. It's flaking currently

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<v Speaker 3>I'm texting you.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm texting you freaking out clicks. I just like I

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<v Speaker 4>just don't know what to do. Anyway, let's get to.

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<v Speaker 1>It, fleck Ands.

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<v Speaker 2>If you are tuning in right now to flex and through,

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<v Speaker 2>I want you to take this moment to do some

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<v Speaker 2>casual introspection. You might be driving, you know, might be

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<v Speaker 2>having some quiet time, but no better time than the

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<v Speaker 2>present to ask yourself if you are addicted to TikTok

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<v Speaker 2>for me?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes or no?

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<v Speaker 4>No? Really definitely older all addicted. It's a shame I

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<v Speaker 4>go in there about once a week, oh whoa for

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<v Speaker 4>a marathon session, and I got one there being like

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<v Speaker 4>I'm here to collect videos to post on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a very casual relationship. It's a very situationship.

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<v Speaker 2>So whether or not you have the ability to figure

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<v Speaker 2>it out for yourself fee or not because I actually

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<v Speaker 2>have a video to share for you, that's going to

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<v Speaker 2>decide once and for all.

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<v Speaker 3>If you can claim to be addicted to TikTok.

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<v Speaker 4>Whoa, whoa.

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<v Speaker 5>This is the parameters for if you're addicted to TikTok

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<v Speaker 5>okay fine, a strong internal drive to use TikTok coupled

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<v Speaker 5>with an impaired ability to control your use of TikTok. Sure,

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<v Speaker 5>at least when I go on Instagram, I'm like, oh, wops,

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<v Speaker 5>I forgot. This is boring and I close. And when

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<v Speaker 5>I go on TikTok, I'm just like, two increase priority

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<v Speaker 5>given to using TikTok than other activities. And I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>like when I was standing at a coffee shop alone

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<v Speaker 5>in the past, i'd maybe next a friend put on

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<v Speaker 5>a podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I go on TikTok on like.

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<v Speaker 5>Many little breeds in my day same number three persistence

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<v Speaker 5>of TikTok despite thinking it as harm or adverse consequences

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<v Speaker 5>on your life. Yes, like sometimes I throw my phone

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<v Speaker 5>because I we do.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know, sorry, we're to TikTok.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know. I think now we have to figure

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<v Speaker 5>That's why we're doing this episode, because I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 5>think we all think, well, okay, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Might be wondering, who are these people to create these parameters? Well,

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<v Speaker 2>the ASAPS science one point one million followers. They're both scientists.

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<v Speaker 2>They do stuff all day, you know, But I thought

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<v Speaker 2>they were just two podcasts pros.

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<v Speaker 3>No no, no, no, no no. They're kind of like us, but accredited.

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<v Speaker 3>That's credible. Say by that criteria, I'm definitely addicted.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm not uncomfortable with that at all, not even

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<v Speaker 2>in the slightest.

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<v Speaker 4>So what's your day to day TikTok yous look like

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<v Speaker 4>every casual moment? Are you serious?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, let's think about it. Let's say today. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I've the only time I've used TikTok is right now

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<v Speaker 2>to show you that video. And so when I go home,

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<v Speaker 2>I might use TikTok when I'm waiting for my dinner

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<v Speaker 2>to come and then maybe.

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<v Speaker 3>Before bed that'd be a casual light day.

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<v Speaker 2>If I am like working at the computer, I have

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<v Speaker 2>a bunch of screens open, I have my laptop which

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<v Speaker 2>connected to an external screen or like another monitor. Then

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<v Speaker 2>I probably have like a potty in the background, casually

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<v Speaker 2>scrolled TikTok. It's all like, you know, the ecosystem's go

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<v Speaker 2>and it's rolling.

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<v Speaker 4>This is very interesting flex. I'm surprised that you can

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<v Speaker 4>have creative ideas when you're plugging your brain in with

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<v Speaker 4>so much stuff all the time. I was going through

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<v Speaker 4>a period where I was super addicted to my phone

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<v Speaker 4>about two weeks ago. I had motivation levels. I was

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<v Speaker 4>coming out of a flu, so I just had no

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<v Speaker 4>motivation to do anything. So therefore I just got on

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<v Speaker 4>my phone for a cheap thrill. And I realized, oh

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<v Speaker 4>my god, this is why I don't have any creative ideas.

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<v Speaker 4>It's because whenever I have time to think, like I

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<v Speaker 4>don't give my brain any time to sit and think. Instead,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, before bed, I'm going on TikTok until I

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<v Speaker 4>literally my eyes are going square and I fall asleep.

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<v Speaker 4>Whereas I tried not going on it for a few

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<v Speaker 4>days and I'm having all these creative breakthroughs at nighttime,

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<v Speaker 4>waking up, put it in my phone, go back to sleep,

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<v Speaker 4>wake up, put it in my phone, which I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>have had if I was on TikTok the whole time.

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<v Speaker 3>Gorgeous. I can't relate, but thank you for sharing.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. I guess it's also my page. Like

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<v Speaker 2>my TikTok page is full of like philosophies, psychology, le

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<v Speaker 2>la la la.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, this is information I.

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<v Speaker 4>Knew, yeah, whereas mine is like the humor that I

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<v Speaker 4>find funny on TikTok isn't skits. It's like random random

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<v Speaker 4>people like getting you know, falling over.

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<v Speaker 3>Or getting hurt. What you're gonna say, Dama, you know

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<v Speaker 3>you're sick.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's like one in a million.

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<v Speaker 1>Flex and frooms.

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<v Speaker 2>Let us pose the question, if you do not believe

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<v Speaker 2>in self assessed personality test, does that mean you are

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<v Speaker 2>not self aware?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>Or no?

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<v Speaker 3>Rooms, please go.

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<v Speaker 4>I think the opposite. I think if you are interested

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<v Speaker 4>and if you are reliant on personality tests, it means

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<v Speaker 4>you're not self aware.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not the question.

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<v Speaker 4>What was the question?

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<v Speaker 2>If you don't believe in self assessment? Like here's my thing.

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<v Speaker 2>When people do a personality test and they say, and

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<v Speaker 2>I don't believe what's coming up. It's like you put

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<v Speaker 2>in these answers. If I had gone to you and said, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>for me, I'm going to assess you. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>ask you these questions and you're not going to answer them.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to determine how you should answer based on

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<v Speaker 2>how I see you. If I gave you those results

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<v Speaker 2>and you said, oh, that's not right, like, okay, well

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<v Speaker 2>maybe I'm not seeing you well. But if you're doing

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<v Speaker 2>the test and you're in put in your answers and

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<v Speaker 2>you don't resonate with them, then you're not doing it properly.

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<v Speaker 3>Therefore, to you, you shouldn't believe in.

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<v Speaker 4>Well that they're all leading questions. They all have an

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<v Speaker 4>agenda exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>However, if you purposely don't answer them correctly, then you

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<v Speaker 2>won't get the right answer. Example, we talked about it

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<v Speaker 2>just earlier. Frumy and I are sitting in the cater

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<v Speaker 2>office and I want to free me to do this

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<v Speaker 2>dimensional personality test. It's an app, by the way, not

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<v Speaker 2>on Android, sorry sorry, just on iOS. And I find

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<v Speaker 2>that it's not it can be not a very enjoyable

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<v Speaker 2>process if it's not your thing. So I thought I

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<v Speaker 2>would read out the questions to through me and then

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<v Speaker 2>she would tell me what her answer is.

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<v Speaker 3>A ID in put it in the app.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, teamwork, teams and so the thing about when

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<v Speaker 2>you are in the room with someone self assessing is

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<v Speaker 2>you can't challenge their self assessment. That's not sexy, That's

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<v Speaker 2>not what a friend would do. However, there were multiple

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<v Speaker 2>questions we're through me life, and I didn't say lie,

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<v Speaker 2>she lid, Okay, what did I Example number one, there's

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<v Speaker 2>a question that says I always put my things.

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<v Speaker 3>Back in the place where they belong from me.

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<v Speaker 2>Have the option to check strongly agree, agree, neutral, disagree,

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<v Speaker 2>strongly disagree.

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<v Speaker 3>Fumi says strongly agree, No.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>My right eye looks up at her, my left eye

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<v Speaker 3>looks at the phone. So let's continue.

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<v Speaker 2>The question says I'm overly concerned with not making a

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<v Speaker 2>mess and keeping my space tidy.

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<v Speaker 3>Fumy says strongly agree.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, if you were an avid listener of the show,

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<v Speaker 2>you would hear plenty of time US reference through me

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<v Speaker 2>side table of doom. It has been cleaned by someone

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<v Speaker 2>who is not through me. But at any even point,

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<v Speaker 2>you'll find a hair brushed straight hairs, crumbs, the crumbs,

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<v Speaker 2>crumbs food from three hours ago, et cetera.

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<v Speaker 4>There's actually over on my desk outside, like a small

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<v Speaker 4>dish of milk.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, serealize what reason?

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<v Speaker 4>Because I don't want to put it away. I'll put

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<v Speaker 4>it away later.

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<v Speaker 3>The test says.

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<v Speaker 2>The test says, I'm often careful about where I put

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<v Speaker 2>my things, and all of my things have a place.

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<v Speaker 2>Smy says strongly agree. If we know anything about Fremy,

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<v Speaker 2>at least once a week there'll be a text in

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<v Speaker 2>the group chat.

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<v Speaker 3>Has anybody seen my rings? Does anybody see my dress?

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<v Speaker 2>Has anybody seen my things? So I'm here thinking, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>at this point, I got to cut in.

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<v Speaker 3>I gotta let her know that something's gonna ry. Frimy says, well, no,

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<v Speaker 3>like I'm answering like, not what.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing now, but like what I used to be

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<v Speaker 2>like is I used to be really clean and I

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<v Speaker 2>used to be really.

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<v Speaker 3>Particular about where my things are. So that's what I'm

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<v Speaker 3>answering for.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, damn, but you don't understand the mental gymnastics of

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<v Speaker 4>turning into a completely different person. I don't have a

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<v Speaker 4>spiritual awakening. If you can't, like you could never understand

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<v Speaker 4>what it's like.

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<v Speaker 3>I can. You need to explain it.

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<v Speaker 4>I've literally gone from this person to this person. I

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<v Speaker 4>used to be the cleanest.

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<v Speaker 3>Person, used to give us a window of time, oh

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<v Speaker 3>a year and a half ago. Okay, So so pre

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<v Speaker 3>flexing rooms.

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<v Speaker 4>Preflexing frooms from birth till then clean freak, every single

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<v Speaker 4>item of clothing, color coded, everything's folded.

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<v Speaker 3>Do we at least have some images of this time?

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<v Speaker 4>Because yeah, I can find them.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's get some images and some proof in because for

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<v Speaker 2>now we have about nine months of version two through me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>and from what we've seen clean Free, it's just not

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<v Speaker 2>touching the sides for us. But it's not touching the sides.

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<v Speaker 2>But what I want to talk about more in particular,

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<v Speaker 2>is why, when answering a personality test for you now,

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<v Speaker 2>are you referencing a person that does not exist?

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<v Speaker 3>We don't even know.

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<v Speaker 2>For me, you said, I don't know what it's like

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<v Speaker 2>to be a completely different person. Done a one eighty

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<v Speaker 2>yes correct. Please explain that to us, because I do

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<v Speaker 2>not know. I make small incremental changes and I usually

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<v Speaker 2>like verbalize them and let people know I'm a reforming

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<v Speaker 2>pickie eater. But like that's not one eighty, that's just

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<v Speaker 2>a subtle or something.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, this is like here is it's like BC a day.

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<v Speaker 4>What's the different way you can do That's that works?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah before rights for me thinks she's a second

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<v Speaker 3>coming of God.

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<v Speaker 4>The manic complex is coming out, okay, prior to let's say,

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<v Speaker 4>before cater neat free. Yeah, BC literally, and then AD

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<v Speaker 4>is after it's all good, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>After dimensional.

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<v Speaker 4>Before after that's good as super clean, cook every meal

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<v Speaker 4>always ten minutes, early, makeup, fastidious clothes, clean, washing my

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<v Speaker 4>bed sheets every.

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<v Speaker 3>Week, like just optimal.

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<v Speaker 4>Snatched in terms of you know what's it called habits habits?

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<v Speaker 4>The habits were snatched. Then I have a mental breakdown. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>was it really a MENTI bait? I'm not sure. I

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<v Speaker 4>actually think I just grew out of it naturally.

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<v Speaker 3>Call it what you want.

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<v Speaker 4>But whatever it was was a massive life change, because

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<v Speaker 4>imagine your whole life you're a pickieter. I'm sure it

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<v Speaker 4>didn't just come over me. It's funny because I'm in

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<v Speaker 4>the total opposite period now, so it feels like it

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<v Speaker 4>just came over me. In reality, it was a one

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<v Speaker 4>year shift. Start by sleeping in a bit more, not

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<v Speaker 4>going to the gym a bit more, going out with

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<v Speaker 4>friends a bit more. It started November twenty twenty, so

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<v Speaker 4>it's almost.

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<v Speaker 3>Been COVID lockdown.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, when we were coming out of lockdown, got into

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<v Speaker 4>my party earlier twenty five years old, started like reliving

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<v Speaker 4>some going out till three am. It's crazy. So what

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<v Speaker 4>I'm trying to say is part of me is still

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<v Speaker 4>stuck as the old person, and in terms of my

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<v Speaker 4>thought processes in that you kind of sometimes you mourn

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<v Speaker 4>that period because it's very I did a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>things that were considered holier than now, whereas now I

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<v Speaker 4>behave like a normal person who doesn't have uh not

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<v Speaker 4>idiosyncrasies neuroses. I'm far less neurotic.

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<v Speaker 3>This is far less.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm foulstic about my personal space and like about getting

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<v Speaker 4>places on time. I just live a more relaxed lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a better person to be around.

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<v Speaker 2>So will you do dimensional again? Well as current froom?

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<v Speaker 4>All right, let me quickly tell you what I've got

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<v Speaker 4>on the dimensional. I've done all the bits, but it's

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<v Speaker 4>it's like it's not for me.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like me doing the dimensional test, and the test

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<v Speaker 2>is like I don't say what I think, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like strongly agree, strongly agree, And the test is like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm really concerned about out oh you know the question

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<v Speaker 2>that was like I give up my comforts for others.

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<v Speaker 2>I might strongly agree. I would be twitching looking at me,

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<v Speaker 2>like what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 4>You see see.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like on the other end of the spectrum.

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<v Speaker 2>So how can we look at these results and be like, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>they resonate.

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<v Speaker 4>Well when you went away, I did some of the

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<v Speaker 4>other ones, and that makes sense here all right, here's

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<v Speaker 4>this your most annoying habits number one? And these are

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<v Speaker 4>so specific. I love the language and dimensional whoever's like

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<v Speaker 4>done the reactional language is very it's not very like

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<v Speaker 4>yass queen, but it's not very clinical. It's like quite

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<v Speaker 4>a nice mix. Your most annoying habits Number one, crying

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<v Speaker 4>of the movies. Done it once when I watch everything

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<v Speaker 4>everywhere all at once.

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<v Speaker 3>I really got you, didn't it?

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<v Speaker 2>That fucked me in the ass? Yeah, wow, okay, because

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<v Speaker 2>I enjoyed it in a very like this is abstract

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<v Speaker 2>and funny.

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<v Speaker 4>Ha ha ha ha.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I saw TikTok and everyone's posting their reactions

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<v Speaker 2>to stepping out of the cinema, ballingalling.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, what did I miss?

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<v Speaker 4>It was a bit with the mother and the daughter,

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<v Speaker 4>and like the daughter's running away, the mother's trying to

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<v Speaker 4>find No.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have a strain of relationship with my mum,

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<v Speaker 3>So maybe that's why.

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<v Speaker 4>Why it's just poignant poignant? Two being a smart ass,

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<v Speaker 4>three winking to yourself, four sneaking to the front of

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<v Speaker 4>the line, and five being a workaholic. And I'll just

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<v Speaker 4>give you one more.

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<v Speaker 3>Give us a couple more, all right?

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<v Speaker 4>You? Oh, you hate talking about number one, sob stories,

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<v Speaker 4>there's a bit of that. There's a few substories coming around.

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<v Speaker 4>You hate talking about your art rival? Do I have

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<v Speaker 4>an art rival?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think you have a mutual one, but I

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<v Speaker 2>think there are people that you, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>That I hate number three, the deeper meaning behind a

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<v Speaker 4>work of art. That's see. Some of these are just

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<v Speaker 4>not true, which, yeah, I guess I mustn't have I

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<v Speaker 4>mustn't have done this correctly.

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<v Speaker 3>Well it's not correctly. You were just dishonest, babe.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, all right, I got a final one. This is

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<v Speaker 4>why I believe dimensional for a second, you want a

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<v Speaker 4>partner who number one will give you a massage? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>number two Chelsea, you're hot. Cinema just the two things.

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<v Speaker 3>And rotation.

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<v Speaker 4>So with your dimensional does it ring true?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah for the most part. But I feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't like the bits where they're like they're interpreting

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<v Speaker 2>it like that way, because I if when we're seeking

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<v Speaker 2>at information, I want more information, not the like the

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<v Speaker 2>real suctin suscinct version.

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<v Speaker 3>I want give me like the thing and I'll go

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<v Speaker 3>google it.

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<v Speaker 4>Something you want more theoretic.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I want to understand, like where you're getting this

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<v Speaker 2>information from. What did I say that gave you this inclination, etcetera, etcetera.

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<v Speaker 2>But I really like self assessment for this reason because

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<v Speaker 2>I think that we spend a lot of time thinking

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<v Speaker 2>about ourselves through the perspective of others.

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<v Speaker 3>Instead of in relation to others.

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<v Speaker 2>So when we're answering these questions, is like this invisible spectator,

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<v Speaker 2>who's like, answer it the right way, answer it properly,

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<v Speaker 2>answer it in the way that will present you as

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<v Speaker 2>like this kind of person, as opposed to being like no,

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<v Speaker 2>let's just lay it out for a second. There, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I remember somebody sent us a DM and they're like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I love how real you and through me are. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, in which way I want to know

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<v Speaker 2>what you're considering.

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<v Speaker 3>To be real.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like, oh, when you talk about money, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, that's the thing you think is real of

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<v Speaker 2>all the things we talk about, Like yeah, just seeing

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<v Speaker 2>like two young girls talk about wanting to get their

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<v Speaker 2>bag up, I was like, nice, cool, that should be

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<v Speaker 2>what dimensional is.

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<v Speaker 3>Exposing yourself to the world anyway, please do it again

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<v Speaker 3>when you're ready, I'll do.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, I'll try again. To be honest. So my

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<v Speaker 4>finest thing is sake. We got to wrap it up, Brooks.

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<v Speaker 4>She's been wrapping up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm gonna do this in twenty five words or less.

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<v Speaker 4>I am currently over enthusing my relaxation. The answers you

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<v Speaker 4>think are fake is still me. I'm just seeing an

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<v Speaker 4>overextended period. Yeah, the ones are get together. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>we get it.

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<v Speaker 2>This is flex and fruit on Cada wake up Flexes

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<v Speaker 2>being controversial on the internet again. And to be honest

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<v Speaker 2>for a second now that I lost it because there

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<v Speaker 2>was a point in time where every day.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just lighting fires for fun.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a thankless time just.

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<v Speaker 2>Being out of pocket to see what sticks. But it

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<v Speaker 2>got a bit tiring because being in like an incidental

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<v Speaker 2>villain boring. If I'm going to hurt feelings, I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to really count in this instance.

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<v Speaker 3>Though I made.

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<v Speaker 2>A flippant flyaway comment that I Slex of Sydney brush

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<v Speaker 2>my teeth in the shower. It had not occurred to

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<v Speaker 2>me that people don't do that, you know, to be fair,

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<v Speaker 2>I know Americans in movies brush their teeth at the sink,

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<v Speaker 2>but honestly, I thought that was just acting. I thought

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<v Speaker 2>the logistics were too hard to put the.

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<v Speaker 3>Tooth brush in the shower.

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<v Speaker 2>Come to find out, of like eight thousand people who

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<v Speaker 2>responded in this poll, forty percent of people brush their

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<v Speaker 2>teeth at.

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<v Speaker 4>The sink or only at the sink. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't think of anything more impractical, so can I.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's start with the basics, right, The reason why you

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<v Speaker 2>brush your teeth in the shower, Number one is for

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<v Speaker 2>efficiency and comfort. You're already wet, you can get a

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<v Speaker 2>good scrub, teeth, tongue, everything it's flowing off you. You

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<v Speaker 2>can easily repump, and your whole body is participating.

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<v Speaker 3>It's enjoyment.

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<v Speaker 2>Brushing my teeth at the sink. On the odd occasion

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<v Speaker 2>where I've done it, it's been messy. Why have we

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<v Speaker 2>got toothpaste, SuDS and residue down my forearm to my elbow?

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<v Speaker 3>Disgusting.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't brush my teeth in peace because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>when you I don't know if you're a tongue.

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<v Speaker 3>Brusher or a scraper.

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<v Speaker 2>Which one brusher? Okay, I'm a scraper and I it's

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<v Speaker 2>scraping is much better. Let me let me explain it

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<v Speaker 2>to you. Imagine a U shaped metal apparatus.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I've got one. I don't use it, though.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe get into that. No, maybe get into that.

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<v Speaker 4>Because you got the crumbly, you got the like mountainous

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<v Speaker 4>bit at the very back of your tongue, and then

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<v Speaker 4>the scrape so of that it feels like I'm hurting it.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have that, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, So the thing about scraping your tongue at the

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<v Speaker 2>sink is when you get that gunk, you have to

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<v Speaker 2>see it.

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<v Speaker 1>Ah.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to see what's in my mouth.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to see what comes out after I

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<v Speaker 2>finish scrubbing. I want to brush, brush, brush and just

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<v Speaker 2>have the SuDS mix in with the water and be

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<v Speaker 2>down my drain before I know what's happened.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what's also gross?

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<v Speaker 2>I can tell when I'm walking into someone's bathroom and

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<v Speaker 2>they brush at the sink.

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<v Speaker 3>Why because it's filthy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's filthy.

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<v Speaker 3>It's disgusting.

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<v Speaker 2>You got stuff all over your mirrors, stuff all over

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<v Speaker 2>the basin. Your toothpaste is grubby like, it's not sexy.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, ridle me this.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 4>You brush your teeth in the shower? Great? Do you

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<v Speaker 4>leave the brush and the toothpaste in the shower.

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<v Speaker 2>I fully have the whole caddy for it. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>you got the little resin cup. I've got my two

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<v Speaker 2>different toothpastes. I've got my whitening one and my one

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<v Speaker 2>just like you know, breath freshening. Then I've got my

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<v Speaker 2>tongue scraper. Then I've got my mouth wash.

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<v Speaker 4>It's all there in the shower, in the shower. See,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a shower brusher through and through. I love the

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<v Speaker 4>comfort of the warm shower. I usually do the rushing

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<v Speaker 4>while the purple shampoos in my hair because that needs

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<v Speaker 4>a few minutes to set.

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<v Speaker 3>Amazing. How are daily?

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<v Speaker 4>Nah, every every week.

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<v Speaker 3>So you brush your teeth how often?

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<v Speaker 4>No, you thought we didn't clock that, You thought we

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<v Speaker 4>didn't walk anyway, Say I brush my teeth twice a day.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's some nice three liar.

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<v Speaker 4>I do do this. No, But something that I will

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<v Speaker 4>die on the hill of is I don't leave my

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<v Speaker 4>toothbrush on the tooth face in the shower because I

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<v Speaker 4>live in a sharehouse and I don't like the idea

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<v Speaker 4>of someone doing a hot piss and a piss seem

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<v Speaker 4>going infecting my toothbrush. This is how I do it,

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<v Speaker 4>toothbrush in a draw used only by me, with all

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<v Speaker 4>my other.

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<v Speaker 3>Things in the drawer. It's wet. You don't heard about mildew.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well it's gonna be more mildew in the shower.

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<v Speaker 1>Well why looks set?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay? Okay, sharing toothbrushes, yes or no?

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<v Speaker 4>Stop it? You know what I will do? You know

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<v Speaker 4>what I will do? Okay, to be fair, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>have that many sleepovers in my house, but when I do,

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<v Speaker 4>obviously you got the spare tooth when you get near it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you have one wady friend to go.

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<v Speaker 4>You.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, you have the rotating toothbrushing for guests

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<v Speaker 2>I do, Are you joking.

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<v Speaker 4>Brotherhood of the Traveling Brush? No, you want to brush

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<v Speaker 4>your teeth, I'm not gonna let you use mine. I've

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<v Speaker 4>got the spare one for guests.

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<v Speaker 3>So we were joking.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I've got two tooth brushes, my one, and then

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<v Speaker 4>on the high shelf it's the one for guests. So

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<v Speaker 4>I've a random sleepover guest. I say, yeah, there's a

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<v Speaker 4>spare truthbrush.

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<v Speaker 3>You're so freaky.

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<v Speaker 4>No one else do that.

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<v Speaker 1>And scene This is flex and frooms.

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<v Speaker 4>We posted a video a few weeks ago about a

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<v Speaker 4>nipple piercing story. So I went to a a few

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<v Speaker 4>weeks ago my friend's birth Fay met a girl that

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<v Speaker 4>I know, and she was telling me a story about

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<v Speaker 4>nipple piercings. How did we get onto this topic, I

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<v Speaker 4>can't tell you, I don't matter. But she told me

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<v Speaker 4>a story about how a woman allegedly had a nipple piercing,

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<v Speaker 4>took it out for maybe a routine clean little black

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<v Speaker 4>hair was poking out. I can't, I can barely. Even

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<v Speaker 4>my mouth is salibating telling the story. It's so gross,

0:23:22.840 --> 0:23:25.600
<v Speaker 4>goes to pluck the boob hair out. Turns out it's

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<v Speaker 4>a nerve poking out of her boob. She falls to

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<v Speaker 4>the ground, shits, vomits, and experiences some of the worst

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<v Speaker 4>pain of her whole life. Posted this on TikTok and

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<v Speaker 4>the socials I reckon we got about a million views

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<v Speaker 4>all up, blew up across all platform.

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<v Speaker 2>Naturally, we traumatize a fair few people. And when I

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<v Speaker 2>say we, I mean through me. I was but a bystander.

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<v Speaker 2>You reshare reshared.

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<v Speaker 4>So we share this song and in the chat we

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<v Speaker 4>really no one could work out is this truth? This

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<v Speaker 4>is not true. Some people are saying I've heard the

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<v Speaker 4>story again, it's an old wives tale.

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<v Speaker 2>I think too many people had said they had heard

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<v Speaker 2>a similar story, So I'm thinking, do has everybody met

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<v Speaker 2>this one girl? But then I had someone say, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm from Ireland and I've definitely heard this story as well.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's making the rounds internationally, intercontinentally, and the only

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<v Speaker 2>thing we can do is find the girl.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, this is the thing. Though, it got ramped up

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<v Speaker 4>a notch when I saw doctor Anthony Yune commented, if

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<v Speaker 4>you're a big on TikTok, your see it's this guy

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<v Speaker 4>that talks about plastic surgery, Like, who's got it in

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<v Speaker 4>Hollywood talks about what he would do for certain people

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<v Speaker 4>and does general myth busting. Yes, and he commented someone

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<v Speaker 4>said fact or cap and tagged him and he said cap.

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<v Speaker 4>So technically I would love to have him on the show.

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<v Speaker 4>I've gone and done another little check online. I went

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<v Speaker 4>to bodycandy dot com dodate you. It's a website about piercing.

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<v Speaker 4>Dear Ali, your modifiated lifestyle advice. It's a chick with

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<v Speaker 4>heaps of tattoos and heaps of piercings. Someone says, I

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<v Speaker 4>heard this story. Literally, it's exactly what we've heard, but

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<v Speaker 4>it's tendon and she says, this is a myth. I've

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<v Speaker 4>done the research. It was a viral story. Other people

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<v Speaker 4>say it was a tendon, a nerve, a milk duck,

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<v Speaker 4>a scar tissue that came out as the thread stinking

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<v Speaker 4>out of the pierce nipple. But it's unlikely that it

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<v Speaker 4>was a nerve due to the anatomical structure of your nipple.

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<v Speaker 4>More than likely a string that appears would just be

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<v Speaker 4>a tiny strip of scar tissue left over from the

0:25:17.880 --> 0:25:21.960
<v Speaker 4>complications of breastfeeding. So whatever it is, however you cut it,

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<v Speaker 4>it's disgusting.

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<v Speaker 2>I would like to mythbust this though, because think of

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<v Speaker 2>all the people who are getting their fifteen minutes of

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<v Speaker 2>fame from a fake cloud story. I just want to

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<v Speaker 2>get it so when everybody retells the story, they circle

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<v Speaker 2>back to us.

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<v Speaker 3>No flex and rims debunk.

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<v Speaker 4>To that one hundred percent. I'm there for that.

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<v Speaker 2>So get your contact out, find the girl you spoke

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<v Speaker 2>to at the party, get her to put us in

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<v Speaker 2>touch with the actual girl, and let's get to the

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<v Speaker 2>bottom of it. Bring us this random girl it happened

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<v Speaker 2>to because everybody knows her. But why has she not

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<v Speaker 2>revealed herself. I could talk about someone so casually shared,

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<v Speaker 2>no identifying factors, and they will reveal themselves to me.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's me, you're talking about me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this girl, we've gone viral on how many different platforms,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's not come out to claim her story.

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<v Speaker 4>I know well, my friend said to me, because we

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<v Speaker 4>got onto the Daily Mail Natural about this and they

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<v Speaker 4>made it look as though you're the one who had

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<v Speaker 4>the difference.

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<v Speaker 3>And it was not my nipple. My nipples are not piersed.

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<v Speaker 4>But the pick that you used was iconic, a great picture.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you, And I said to my friend, thanks for

0:26:20.760 --> 0:26:23.480
<v Speaker 4>sending us this is our most successful segment and she gad,

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<v Speaker 4>she goes, haha, oh my good god. I really want

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<v Speaker 4>to find the nipple owner to reveal herself exactly. So

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<v Speaker 4>we're working on We're on the case.

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<v Speaker 3>Need a chain of command.

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to flex and Frooms on Kita Flexy Mummy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, sweetheart, I was at a party on Saturday night.

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<v Speaker 3>You've been out these days.

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<v Speaker 4>I've been going to shows.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in my I'm just extremely outside springs what we're

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<v Speaker 2>calling it.

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<v Speaker 4>Extremely outside. Yeah, I feel like we're both going through

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<v Speaker 4>that period.

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<v Speaker 3>Definitely.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so beautiful. It should be extremely outside summer. But

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<v Speaker 2>you do have to gear up into it, gear up

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<v Speaker 2>into it because my thing is you need to know

0:26:58.560 --> 0:27:01.280
<v Speaker 2>what outfits are going to last, what hairstyles are going

0:27:01.359 --> 0:27:04.000
<v Speaker 2>to last, what people can really hang you know what

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<v Speaker 2>I mean. We've been out of practice for a couple

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<v Speaker 2>of years now. People aren't the same, they're not. And

0:27:08.359 --> 0:27:09.800
<v Speaker 2>also we need to get back on those door lists,

0:27:09.840 --> 0:27:11.520
<v Speaker 2>back on the lists. We been out of the game

0:27:11.520 --> 0:27:13.280
<v Speaker 2>for too long. They're forgetting, they're forgetting.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, I can't pay.

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<v Speaker 4>I've been paying. I've been paying my way. Also, support

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<v Speaker 4>musicians babes. Now, I was at this party on Saturday

0:27:21.840 --> 0:27:26.840
<v Speaker 4>night and I was there. I'm single and it was

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<v Speaker 4>a fortieth birthday party, so a lot of people there

0:27:29.920 --> 0:27:33.040
<v Speaker 4>were married. I wasn't looking to tune, honestly. I just went.

0:27:33.080 --> 0:27:34.720
<v Speaker 4>I drove. I was not going to drink. I was

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<v Speaker 4>just so tune. Oh no I would, but you know,

0:27:37.800 --> 0:27:39.560
<v Speaker 4>like I wasn't in the tuning mood. I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm doing this and then I'm going home mood. Anyway,

0:27:42.000 --> 0:27:44.760
<v Speaker 4>get there. It's a fully catered event. Hot, this is

0:27:44.800 --> 0:27:47.920
<v Speaker 4>a boogie fortieth nice. There's a cocktail waiter, there's all

0:27:47.960 --> 0:27:49.879
<v Speaker 4>like fresh food being made in the kitchen. It was

0:27:49.880 --> 0:27:52.879
<v Speaker 4>elite anyway. But this chick comes up to me. Who's

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<v Speaker 4>a friend of this chick? This woman comes up to me. Like,

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<v Speaker 4>then we both get on it. You know, we're like

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<v Speaker 4>having a few drinks.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh and what do you call that? She has bendy arms?

0:28:07.640 --> 0:28:12.200
<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, pull my arm, yeah, pull my finger, choos

0:28:12.240 --> 0:28:16.359
<v Speaker 4>my arm twists. Yeah. We were talking about how she

0:28:17.160 --> 0:28:20.520
<v Speaker 4>lives in Perth and in her age bracket, which is

0:28:20.560 --> 0:28:24.480
<v Speaker 4>thirty thirty one, everyone's married up and having kids. Okay,

0:28:24.520 --> 0:28:26.760
<v Speaker 4>this is a very like settled down here. I've heard.

0:28:26.920 --> 0:28:28.600
<v Speaker 4>I've heard that Perth is like this because I've got

0:28:28.640 --> 0:28:31.080
<v Speaker 4>a few friends in Sydney who moved over from Perth,

0:28:31.320 --> 0:28:32.960
<v Speaker 4>and the story is always the same. You go back,

0:28:33.000 --> 0:28:36.240
<v Speaker 4>everyone's getting engaged and married, whereas in Sydney a lot

0:28:36.240 --> 0:28:37.960
<v Speaker 4>of us are single. She said to me that she's

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<v Speaker 4>got a theory and a thing that she does when

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<v Speaker 4>her married friends ask her about her dating life. Are

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<v Speaker 4>you ready?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm ready this.

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<v Speaker 6>Party, and I've had this thought. So, you know, in

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<v Speaker 6>a relationship, everyone always comes up to me and says,

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<v Speaker 6>have you met someone yet?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you nearly there?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, don't worry, you'll be there soon. You'll meet someone special.

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<v Speaker 6>What I've started saying now is how's your relationship? How's

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<v Speaker 6>your marriage?

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<v Speaker 4>Is it good? Like?

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<v Speaker 6>You should tell me how you feel, like if I

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<v Speaker 6>put it back in your face, then put a really

0:29:11.200 --> 0:29:14.360
<v Speaker 6>big mirror back onto you. Every time I say it,

0:29:14.520 --> 0:29:16.840
<v Speaker 6>their face goes white and they go they don't know

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<v Speaker 6>what to say.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's what I want to say. That's that's good,

0:29:21.920 --> 0:29:25.479
<v Speaker 3>that's good, that's good. Yeah, I love So there you go.

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<v Speaker 4>She said that she's a single woman and she's often

0:29:27.600 --> 0:29:30.840
<v Speaker 4>asked by the girlies, how's your dating life? Any solacious stories?

0:29:30.880 --> 0:29:33.880
<v Speaker 4>How's a sex life? Wanting the single ladies to go

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<v Speaker 4>in depth when in actuality, when she turns back and says,

0:29:36.680 --> 0:29:40.520
<v Speaker 4>how's your marriage any fights lately? How's it going over there?

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<v Speaker 4>They're reluctant.

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<v Speaker 3>Why is that rhetorical question or one that requires a response?

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<v Speaker 4>I reckon response, Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I quite like that.

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<v Speaker 2>But to be fair, in situations where I've done something similar,

0:29:53.760 --> 0:29:55.360
<v Speaker 2>you get that kind of story that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Full of platitudes.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you know marriage, you know, I miss being single.

0:30:00.640 --> 0:30:02.640
<v Speaker 3>Let me tell you. I used to get on and.

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<v Speaker 2>I used to get near and you you know how

0:30:04.240 --> 0:30:06.440
<v Speaker 2>it is like even on the same person that you

0:30:06.480 --> 0:30:08.120
<v Speaker 2>get And I'm like, no, no, I don't.

0:30:08.120 --> 0:30:09.680
<v Speaker 3>But if you're not gonna be juicy bits, I don't

0:30:09.680 --> 0:30:10.120
<v Speaker 3>want to hear it.

0:30:11.440 --> 0:30:14.280
<v Speaker 4>I think because it feels more permanent. If you're like, oh,

0:30:14.280 --> 0:30:17.760
<v Speaker 4>he's doing this or she's doing this, it then feels

0:30:17.840 --> 0:30:20.280
<v Speaker 4>permanent because they're more involved in your life. When if

0:30:20.320 --> 0:30:23.080
<v Speaker 4>it's like more casual in you're dating people, it's a

0:30:23.120 --> 0:30:26.440
<v Speaker 4>bit more it's noncommittal, like you can talk shit about

0:30:26.440 --> 0:30:27.560
<v Speaker 4>them and then it's not going to come back to

0:30:27.560 --> 0:30:29.320
<v Speaker 4>bite you, whereas if you're talking shit about your husband

0:30:29.400 --> 0:30:30.080
<v Speaker 4>or your wife.

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<v Speaker 2>I also think we have a culture of sharing tales

0:30:33.440 --> 0:30:34.960
<v Speaker 2>and stories when you're.

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<v Speaker 3>Single, and I don't presume.

0:30:38.040 --> 0:30:39.840
<v Speaker 2>That the people you do it with think it still

0:30:39.880 --> 0:30:41.960
<v Speaker 2>happens even when they're not single.

0:30:42.360 --> 0:30:44.200
<v Speaker 3>I definitely did it when I was dating someone, asking

0:30:44.200 --> 0:30:46.200
<v Speaker 3>all my friends, oh my god, how's going show me

0:30:46.200 --> 0:30:48.840
<v Speaker 3>a little apps? You talk to it because that's what

0:30:48.880 --> 0:30:49.200
<v Speaker 3>we do.

0:30:49.400 --> 0:30:52.240
<v Speaker 2>It only feels condescending because we're no longer doing it

0:30:52.240 --> 0:30:56.280
<v Speaker 2>from the same place anymore. So I would err on

0:30:56.320 --> 0:30:58.880
<v Speaker 2>the side of caution of getting heaps mad. But I

0:30:58.920 --> 0:31:01.320
<v Speaker 2>do like the idea of throwing the question back. I

0:31:01.320 --> 0:31:03.680
<v Speaker 2>want the goss, but then also I don't like getting

0:31:03.720 --> 0:31:06.120
<v Speaker 2>the goss because then it's like, shit, gos, you know

0:31:06.160 --> 0:31:06.520
<v Speaker 2>what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Now, you told me like all the deep the deep darks, and.

0:31:09.240 --> 0:31:12.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, okay, so your whole relationships to performance and

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<v Speaker 2>I can't say anything great.

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<v Speaker 3>Great.

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