Speaker 1: Hi, guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life Uncut.
Speaker 1: And this is our quick, sharp, down and dirty episode
Speaker 1: where we answer your burning questions.
Speaker 2: This is ask gun cut. I nailed it, Brittany.
Speaker 1: I'm Brittany and I'm Laura.
Speaker 2: We've had to do that intro a couple of times.
Speaker 1: Look, this is our very first ask gun cut back
Speaker 1: after a break and we're a little bit dusty, but
Speaker 1: I cannot tell you how many questions we have received
Speaker 1: over the last couple of weeks.
Speaker 2: It is wildly insane.
Speaker 1: But we've picked out three for you today because we
Speaker 1: need to keep this episode short and shut.
Speaker 3: I also love the excuse of like, sorry, guys, we
Speaker 3: had a break. We had one week.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we had a week. My brain doesn't work anymore.
Speaker 1: But here we are.
Speaker 4: Before we get into it, we just want to say
Speaker 4: we had such an amazing response from our episode this
Speaker 4: week with David the Medium You guys, so many of
Speaker 4: you wrote in to let us know how you felt
Speaker 4: about the episode, and I just want to say we
Speaker 4: really love that.
Speaker 3: We love getting the feedback.
Speaker 4: On what you're loving and what makes you tick, because
Speaker 4: that's the content we want to give you. So we
Speaker 4: weren't sure how that episode was going to go. We
Speaker 4: knew that we loved recording it. We had so much
Speaker 4: fun and it was something really different for us, but
Speaker 4: we weren't sure how it would land with you guys
Speaker 4: because it is different to what we usually do. So
Speaker 4: we love getting your feedback and so many of you
Speaker 4: have said it was one of your favorite episodes, which
Speaker 4: is mind blowing totally.
Speaker 1: I was a bit worried, like I was like, maybe
Speaker 1: this is a bit self indulgent to sit down and
Speaker 1: do a psychic reading and then expect anybody else will
Speaker 1: follow it.
Speaker 2: Interesting. I was like, are we there already? Are we
Speaker 2: that into ourselves?
Speaker 1: But yeah, look, I cannot tell you the amount of
Speaker 1: people who sent us pictures being like, holy shit, I
Speaker 1: have goosebumps, and then sent us photos of their goosebumps.
Speaker 1: I have a lot of photos of legs and arms
Speaker 1: in my box at the moment, which.
Speaker 2: I really appreciate. So we're really glad that you guys
Speaker 2: enjoyed it.
Speaker 4: One girl wrote in actually yesterday, which I thought this
Speaker 4: was really funny.
Speaker 3: She's like, what the fuck does this mean?
Speaker 4: I was on a coastal walk yesterday as she walked
Speaker 4: past me.
Speaker 3: I didn't know this. She just messaged me.
Speaker 4: As she walked past me, she was like, I walk
Speaker 4: past you, and I was like, how weird. I'm listening
Speaker 4: to Britney's podcast and she just walked past me. And
Speaker 4: then as she got to the other side of me
Speaker 4: the pod, something happened and her podcast stopped playing. And
Speaker 4: she looked down and from where it had stopped playing,
Speaker 4: guess what the timer.
Speaker 2: Was eleven eleven.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like one, one one. But then she
Speaker 3: was like what, well she screenshot it. She's like, this
Speaker 3: is you're here.
Speaker 4: I'm listening to your podcast on angel numbers when the
Speaker 4: podcast stops on one, one one, and I got goosebumps.
Speaker 4: Now I'm such a sucker for goosebumps, but this is
Speaker 4: gonna blow your mind even more.
Speaker 2: And I told you this.
Speaker 1: I finished editing that episode and had uploaded it, and
Speaker 1: the exact time was when I was like, cool, I'm done,
Speaker 1: I'm going to bed, and I looked at my clock
Speaker 1: was eleven eleven and I was like, okay, Papa, I
Speaker 1: get I get it.
Speaker 2: Oh, look at my arms. But I'm skeptic.
Speaker 3: Everybody not anymore. You're not well.
Speaker 1: Anyway, we did also kind of preview and give you
Speaker 1: guys a little taste in the last episode. But I
Speaker 1: just wanted to remind you as well. We have just
Speaker 1: done such an incredible interview with a woman named India Oxenburg.
Speaker 1: The reason why I'm reminding you of this is because
Speaker 1: she is the star of a docu series which is
Speaker 1: on stan at the moment named Seduced and Seduced is
Speaker 1: all about this cult which happened in the United States
Speaker 1: called Nixium, led by a guy named Keith Rinieri. It
Speaker 1: is such a fucking good documentary. I really really really
Speaker 1: recommend you guys watching it. I think it's four episodes,
Speaker 1: but it follows this really really harrowing but also quite
Speaker 1: empowering story around a sex cult in the United States.
Speaker 1: And the thing that's so interesting about it is that
Speaker 1: there's a lot of celebrities who are involved in this cult.
Speaker 1: There are a lot of high powered people who weren't
Speaker 1: necessarily involved in the whole sex cult part of it,
Speaker 1: but they were definitely heavily involved and also misled in
Speaker 1: the self help part of this cult, which was active
Speaker 1: until twenty nineteen, so it's really really recent. It's still
Speaker 1: going through the courts at the moment, and we got
Speaker 1: to sit down with India, who was hugely affected by
Speaker 1: this cult, and she tells her story and honestly, it
Speaker 1: is one of the most mind blowing interviews that we've
Speaker 1: ever done. But I really just hope that some of
Speaker 1: you guys find the time, if you haven't already watched
Speaker 1: the documentary, to go and watch it so that you
Speaker 1: have all the background information and you can really sink
Speaker 1: your teeth into that episode, because it's going to be
Speaker 1: fucking great.
Speaker 3: I think the fact that.
Speaker 4: It's only a four part docuseries as well, it means
Speaker 4: it's really accessible and it's easy for you to sit
Speaker 4: down and watch. You could watch it in a day
Speaker 4: if you wanted to, And I think you'll enjoy the
Speaker 4: interview more and you'll get more out of it if
Speaker 4: you do. But for me, I don't know if I've
Speaker 4: ever spoken about this or I don't think we have.
Speaker 4: But I am a true crime fiend. Like I am
Speaker 4: obsessed with true crime. It's all I've watched growing up.
Speaker 4: I'm talking from a little kid, and.
Speaker 2: Then here you are with a Relationship and Love podcast.
Speaker 3: I know I'm a sick I'm sick for it.
Speaker 4: I used to watch it as a child, and all
Speaker 4: I ever wanted to do when I grow up was
Speaker 4: be a criminal psychologist. Like I was so interested in
Speaker 4: getting into the minds of these people until I look
Speaker 4: that there were like literally four jobs in the world
Speaker 4: for criminal psychologists, Like there's no work in it, So
Speaker 4: obviously it went down a health path. But I'm obsessed
Speaker 4: with that kind of stuff. So when I watched this documentary,
Speaker 4: I was so pulled in when Laura said she'd managed
Speaker 4: to make contact with India and that she was keen
Speaker 4: to come on the podcast because India hasn't done any
Speaker 4: other Australian podcasts, which we were really excited about because
Speaker 4: watching one of these series and being so enthralled and
Speaker 4: then getting the opportunity to actually sit down with someone
Speaker 4: that lived this experience for seven years for me was
Speaker 4: like almost like a bucket list to actually speak to
Speaker 4: someone that went through it.
Speaker 1: And she's such a wonderful, empowering and like normal woman.
Speaker 1: I think that that's the thing, Like you think of
Speaker 1: something like a sex cult or a cult at all,
Speaker 1: and you think, how could someone ever get themselves tied
Speaker 1: up in that They must be such a crazy person.
Speaker 1: But she's so normal, she's so wonderful to speak to,
Speaker 1: she's so warm.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So that's my little plug again. If you guys haven't
Speaker 1: seen it, it's on stand. It's called Seduced and it's
Speaker 1: all about the cult Nexium. Anyway, let's talk about this episode.
Speaker 1: So we've picked out three questions for you guys. Thank
Speaker 1: you to everybody who's been writing questions. Like I said,
Speaker 1: we've received so many. We've picked out three really different
Speaker 1: ones today just to kind of kick back into twenty
Speaker 1: twenty one.
Speaker 3: I have one that I found really interesting.
Speaker 2: Help.
Speaker 3: I love when I actually read the whole thing word
Speaker 3: for it.
Speaker 2: I love it when you usually started with like, hey guys.
Speaker 3: Love your podcast. Help.
Speaker 4: I recently met this guy at the gym and we've
Speaker 4: been having light conversation each time I see him there.
Speaker 3: I was super attracted to him.
Speaker 4: Until I realized there is an eleven year age gap
Speaker 4: between us. I'm twenty two and he's thirty two or
Speaker 4: thirty three. I've been through some major events in my
Speaker 4: life and I'm over the games that younger guys tend
Speaker 4: to play, so I am looking for someone more mature. However, Ever,
Speaker 4: since I've found out this guy's age.
Speaker 3: I kind of feel.
Speaker 4: Strange and like something's wrong. I don't know whether to
Speaker 4: give it a chance and accept his request for a date,
Speaker 4: or just put the fire out before it even starts.
Speaker 3: PS.
Speaker 4: I have tried everything to find his social media to
Speaker 4: see if I can get a bit more info on
Speaker 4: him and what he's about, but I think he's just
Speaker 4: one of those guys who doesn't use it. AKA, I
Speaker 4: just can't find anything.
Speaker 3: Well. I will never be in the FBI.
Speaker 1: Okay, So I have mixed feelings about age gaps, and
Speaker 1: I actually think we should do a whole episode on
Speaker 1: age gaps. I think it's a really interesting conversation.
Speaker 3: Because I think it's interesting too.
Speaker 1: There's a lot to unpack, and I don't think we're
Speaker 1: going to get it all done in an ask on card.
Speaker 1: I think I think it's silly to dismiss and say, oh,
Speaker 1: age doesn't matter at all, because there are circumstances where
Speaker 1: age does matter. There's circumstances where someone who's in their
Speaker 1: thirties wants different things to someone in their twenties, and
Speaker 1: there's you know, different life experiences. There's also different situations
Speaker 1: where like maybe someone in their thirties has kids, maybe
Speaker 1: they have more baggage, maybe they have you know, a
Speaker 1: whole past that then someone in their twenties has to
Speaker 1: take on. So there's there can be a lot more
Speaker 1: responsibility that goes hand in hand with dating someone who
Speaker 1: is substantially older. That said, there also can be no
Speaker 1: difference because I know a fucking shit ton of thirty
Speaker 1: year olds who act like they're twenty and who are
Speaker 1: in exactly the same headspace and life space as what
Speaker 1: a twenty year old is. So I do you think
Speaker 1: it's a very dependent case to case. But what this
Speaker 1: sounds like to me is that this person has just
Speaker 1: caught the ick and that they don't normally go for
Speaker 1: a guy who's ten or eleven years older than them,
Speaker 1: and so that makes them feel a bit like, oh,
Speaker 1: well I liked him, but I don't anymore because of age.
Speaker 4: I agree with you, he's an agist. Yeah, you're an agist. No,
Speaker 4: I agree with you on everything you said, Laura, But
Speaker 4: I'm not against age gaps whatsoever.
Speaker 2: Britain loves dating twenty two year old boys. It's all
Speaker 2: about sugarmumbu.
Speaker 3: Wait to throw me out of the bus.
Speaker 1: No, I do remember meet Raffle. I'm pretty sure he
Speaker 1: was like fifteen years younger.
Speaker 4: Than Britainly well, I picked him up from school, so no,
Speaker 4: I'm throwing myself onto the bus.
Speaker 3: He was not twenty two, but it was a significantly younger.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was close if.
Speaker 3: You round it up.
Speaker 4: No, I don't think I genuinely do not think there
Speaker 4: is a problem with age apps either way, with a
Speaker 4: woman dating someone older or with a woman dating someone younger.
Speaker 4: If the people are compatible and if you're on the
Speaker 4: same path, if you have the same banter, if you
Speaker 4: have the same morals, if you want the same things,
Speaker 4: if you don't ultimately notice that there's an age difference,
Speaker 4: I don't see why there's a problem.
Speaker 3: The problems come.
Speaker 4: When you're on different wavelengths and you're wanting different things.
Speaker 4: If the woman is older and she wants kids and
Speaker 4: the guy's younger, then like that's going to cause problems.
Speaker 1: But in this I mean, and it doesn't have to
Speaker 1: necessarily be the female being older wanting kids. Like, there's
Speaker 1: plenty of situations where the men are older and they
Speaker 1: want kids and they want to settle down, and they're
Speaker 1: dating twenty year olds who are not ready for.
Speaker 3: That yet in their lives exactly.
Speaker 4: And I think in this situation, my advice to you
Speaker 4: would be, how did.
Speaker 3: You feel before you knew his age?
Speaker 4: Because it sounds like you had a crush on him,
Speaker 4: and it sounds like you're really enjoying seeing him at
Speaker 4: the gym and you're enjoying your banter and.
Speaker 3: You're enjoying getting to know him.
Speaker 4: If the problem, the only problem has come, is that
Speaker 4: there is an age difference, I personally would still recommend
Speaker 4: that you go on the date because he could very
Speaker 4: well be an amazing human that isn't ready to settle
Speaker 4: down yet, and he could be a you don't know,
Speaker 4: he's not a soulmate. You could go on the date
Speaker 4: also and you could be like WHOA, Like we're on
Speaker 4: different paths. I'm so glad I did this because now
Speaker 4: I know. But that's what dating is as well. I
Speaker 4: don't think you need to put so much pressure on
Speaker 4: it now. And I think this is also what women
Speaker 4: and men due to an extent, probably more women if
Speaker 4: I'm being honest and I'm not sexist, but as what
Speaker 4: we do, we tend to overthink things instead of just
Speaker 4: letting it play out and seeing what happens. I think
Speaker 4: there is zero harm in this situation. You had those
Speaker 4: feelings before you knew his age. Go on a date
Speaker 4: with him. Just make it like a casual date. Go
Speaker 4: to lunch, or go to the beach.
Speaker 2: Or just specially and go on a walking date.
Speaker 3: Do some exercise.
Speaker 4: I mean, you're both gym junkies, so why don't you
Speaker 4: go on a high for sure? Why not just be like,
Speaker 4: you know what, fuck it, let's let's go and have
Speaker 4: some fun. And worst case scenario, like, and this is
Speaker 4: how I make all my decisions. I say to myself, Brittany,
Speaker 4: what is the worst thing that could happen?
Speaker 3: Go on your date?
Speaker 4: Worst case scenario, you don't hit it off, you don't
Speaker 4: feel it, you're on different ways of lengths, and you
Speaker 4: just go back to like being friends totally.
Speaker 1: What's the oldest guy you've dated, or what's the youngest?
Speaker 1: What's the biggest age guy?
Speaker 4: Okay, so in all honesty, my youngest to oldest. The
Speaker 4: oldest is probably forty that I've dated.
Speaker 2: So five years older, six years old. Stop putting my age.
Speaker 3: Seven years older.
Speaker 4: No, when I dated someone's forty, I was thirty, so
Speaker 4: it was ten years and the youngest I've dated would
Speaker 4: probably be seven years younger than me. And I've dated
Speaker 4: someone seven years younger that I did not notice a thing.
Speaker 4: And I've dated someone seven years younger that I was like,
Speaker 4: you're a small man, child boy, and like yeah, and
Speaker 4: I can never see you again.
Speaker 3: It's different life experiences.
Speaker 4: It's like completely up to how that person was brought up,
Speaker 4: where they are in their life, what they've experienced, and
Speaker 4: what they want. So I'm a big advocate. Actually, something
Speaker 4: else is really interesting, A really good example.
Speaker 1: We all know me can Gel. She's like, has the
Speaker 1: hottest husband in the world. Yeah, sure, he is much younger.
Speaker 3: He's correct me if I'm wrong. He was an AFL
Speaker 3: player something in the sports.
Speaker 1: But if anybody watched Survivor, I was salivating over this man.
Speaker 1: And then I met him in real life at the
Speaker 1: gym one day and I was like, Meg and Gil
Speaker 1: really did score.
Speaker 2: So yeah.
Speaker 4: Megan Gail is forty four and her fiance they're not married,
Speaker 4: Sean Hampson.
Speaker 3: They've been together nine years and.
Speaker 2: They have kids together.
Speaker 4: Okay, they started dating when he was only like twenty
Speaker 4: three and she was late thirties. Even I remember being like,
Speaker 4: whoa that is huge. She got a lot of heat
Speaker 4: for it. There were under a lot of scrutiny. Everyone
Speaker 4: was like, this is never gonna last. An older woman
Speaker 4: can't date a younger man, like they want different things.
Speaker 3: To prove them all wrong.
Speaker 4: They've been together nine years and they have two kids,
Speaker 4: they're engaged, they're very seemingly happy and in love. So
Speaker 4: I think that's a prime example of when age doesn't matter.
Speaker 4: And imagine being in that situation in a public eye
Speaker 4: as well well.
Speaker 1: And they have a full on twelve year age gap,
Speaker 1: Like that's a big age.
Speaker 2: Gap, especially, you know what.
Speaker 1: And I think that this is the thing that's an issue,
Speaker 1: is like we have a real problem with women dating
Speaker 1: younger men, Like we seem to think that that's weird,
Speaker 1: but we think it's less weird for an older guy
Speaker 1: to date a younger woman. Like we are very very
Speaker 1: sexist a society when it comes to that. And I know,
Speaker 1: I like to tease you, Brittany, but like, fucking live
Speaker 1: your best life.
Speaker 3: But that's the thing too.
Speaker 4: And I never used to ever date anyone younger than me.
Speaker 4: When it started, I met someone out that was younger
Speaker 4: and I didn't know he was younger.
Speaker 3: I just met him. He asked me out, and.
Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, great, you're very attractive. We had
Speaker 4: great child, let's go out, and we went out on
Speaker 4: two days before the age even came up, because the
Speaker 4: conversation was so free flowing that it was irrelevant. Then
Speaker 4: the age came up, and as soon as he said
Speaker 4: his age, I got the same feeling as this girl.
Speaker 3: I was like whoa, Like.
Speaker 4: Why can't this can't be a thing because you're so
Speaker 4: much younger than me, And he was sort of like, well, why,
Speaker 4: Like why can't it be a thing if you wasn't
Speaker 4: didn't bother the last two days? And that was really
Speaker 4: I mean, we obviously didn't work out, we only went
Speaker 4: on a few days. We're still friends, mind you, but
Speaker 4: that was really a turning point for me where I
Speaker 4: was like, it actually doesn't matter if the chemistry is
Speaker 4: there and the love is there and the affection is
Speaker 4: there and everything else is there, it's irrelevant to me.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, it is a societal construct, Like I mean,
Speaker 1: it's something that we put a lot of pressure and
Speaker 1: energy into. But that's also because, like we've said in
Speaker 1: many other podcasts, we put a lot of pressure and
Speaker 1: energy onto timelines and onto things matching up by certain ages.
Speaker 1: So then when you when you date someone who is
Speaker 1: a significantly different age to you, there's an expectation that
Speaker 1: they're on a different timeline and that's where the mismatch happens.
Speaker 1: But like I said earlier, you know, I always had
Speaker 1: the mentality that I needed to date up. So I've
Speaker 1: always dated older guys always. You know, I think the
Speaker 1: biggest age gap I've ever had was twelve years. And look,
Speaker 1: we were in very different stages of our lives. He
Speaker 1: had a kid, he owned a house, and to be
Speaker 1: perfectly honest, I wasn't ready for those responsibilities, Like I
Speaker 1: wasn't ready to match up to someone who was that
Speaker 1: much older than me. But I had it in my
Speaker 1: head that guys my own age weren't on my maturity level,
Speaker 1: which is completely untrue. You know, that was my own
Speaker 1: thing that I was projecting. Like, Matt is a year
Speaker 1: younger than me, and so I feel like I'm a Cougarnew,
Speaker 1: but he's the youngest Matt.
Speaker 3: A year does not make you a cu totally. But
Speaker 3: Mad he someone who's like in night years.
Speaker 1: But Matt is literally the youngest guy I've ever dated.
Speaker 1: I've never dated somebody younger than me, and for me,
Speaker 1: that was a big mental adjustment because I've always dated
Speaker 1: up by so many years.
Speaker 4: But don't you think that comes with age as well.
Speaker 4: I feel like the older you get as a woman
Speaker 4: and a man, the less age matters. I think, when
Speaker 4: you are twenty year old girl, woman, you're not going
Speaker 4: to date someone younger because they're just far too immature.
Speaker 4: But all of a sudden, when you're thirty dating someone
Speaker 4: that's twenty five, they're five years older than when you
Speaker 4: were twenty. You know, like it's like the older you get,
Speaker 4: the less age matters.
Speaker 1: So yeah, look, I mean I think we could summarize this.
Speaker 1: I think like they went down a chap, big old
Speaker 1: rodeo on this one. But look, I agree with Britt.
Speaker 1: I think if there's chemistry there and you want to
Speaker 1: explore it, go for it. If it's fully giving you
Speaker 1: the ick, you don't have to force yourself into going
Speaker 1: on a date with anyone. But I don't see a
Speaker 1: ten year age de gap.
Speaker 2: As a big deal.
Speaker 1: It's only as big a deal as you make it
Speaker 1: out to be. But like you're potentially overthinking things before
Speaker 1: you've even been on a date with someone who you
Speaker 1: have some great chemistry with, and you might miss out
Speaker 1: on something.
Speaker 2: So give it a shot. Go give it a well,
Speaker 2: all right, Question number two.
Speaker 1: I am going to read this because this is something
Speaker 1: that we are discussing mad night at the moment. So
Speaker 1: my husband and I live in Australia, but we're originally
Speaker 1: from the United States. I'm twenty weeks pregnant and we're
Speaker 1: not going to find out the gender. We had a
Speaker 1: minor panic this week because we started to think about
Speaker 1: circumcision and realized we don't know what we're going to
Speaker 1: do if we have a baby boy. In the US,
Speaker 1: getting your baby boy circumcised is pretty standard. My hobby
Speaker 1: is circumcised, and so are all of our male friends.
Speaker 1: But there seems to be a lot of research that
Speaker 1: shows it's actually not as medically beneficial as previously believed,
Speaker 1: so we're starting to question it. On one hand, it
Speaker 1: would be great for the bub to match his daddy,
Speaker 1: but should we give him that choice versus make the
Speaker 1: choice for him?
Speaker 2: What do we do this.
Speaker 1: Is to circumcise or to leave it uncircumcised. This is
Speaker 1: actually really interesting, Like a little and eater. What they
Speaker 1: looks like anteaters when they're not circumcised, do they when
Speaker 1: they have like long hanging four guys?
Speaker 3: Imagine this.
Speaker 1: Think of a penis that's not been circumcised with a long,
Speaker 1: floppy foreskin part, and then think of an air eater.
Speaker 3: Do you know what? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Do you know? I think of that cartoon? Off is
Speaker 4: your sense of mystery where.
Speaker 3: You've got that? Okay?
Speaker 1: I look, I'm having these exact conversations with Matt at
Speaker 1: the moment, and the reason why is, like me personally,
Speaker 1: from a sexual preference, I prefer someone who's circumcised. Matt
Speaker 1: is circumcised me. From a mum perspective, do I want
Speaker 1: my kid to be circumcised? I think it's completely unnecessary.
Speaker 1: I don't want to subject my child to the pain
Speaker 1: of circumcision. I also think that there can be some
Speaker 1: medical complications that can come from circumcision if there's an infection,
Speaker 1: and I don't think it's necessary in the same way
Speaker 1: that we used to think it's necessary back in the days.
Speaker 1: It's definitely a very culturally driven medical procedure. It's something
Speaker 1: that has a lot of religious connotations to it as well,
Speaker 1: and I think if it's just from an esthetic point
Speaker 1: of view. I'm not going to pierce my little girl's
Speaker 1: is until she can choose to do that. I'm not
Speaker 1: going to cut my kid's foreskin off until he can
Speaker 1: choose to do that either. But it's a very very
Speaker 1: personal decision, and it's one that Matt and I don't
Speaker 1: necessarily see ey'd eye on because Matt being circumcised, he
Speaker 1: thinks that our sons should be circumcised. He would like
Speaker 1: his son to be able to one look the same.
Speaker 1: But also, you know, Matt being circumcised sees the benefits
Speaker 1: of it too.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Look, the United States, he is one of the top
Speaker 4: countries in the world for circumcision that's actually known. So
Speaker 4: you're writing saying that, like, maybe when he grows up
Speaker 4: he will be a minority not being circumcised. But I
Speaker 4: don't think that that is going to put anyone off.
Speaker 4: I've never dated someone and been like, oh, they're circumcised
Speaker 4: or the not circumcised.
Speaker 3: That's a deal breaker either way, it doesn't matter.
Speaker 4: I think that from all the research now, it's not
Speaker 4: really necessary like it used to be. There are some
Speaker 4: certain conditions, like when the foreskin is too tight, for example,
Speaker 4: and it can't be pulled back.
Speaker 3: It can be really painful.
Speaker 4: And that is actually a thing, and that's where they
Speaker 4: will literally have to do it. So I think in
Speaker 4: cases like that, it's okay. There are certain countries which
Speaker 4: like they highly recommend boys and men even get adult circumcisions,
Speaker 4: which is like countries like Africa because it helps to
Speaker 4: reduce the risk of sexually transmitted infections. So there are
Speaker 4: a whole bunch of medical reasons where it's like fine,
Speaker 4: go nuts. Other than that, there's just no real reason
Speaker 4: besides these few medical issues to circumcise a child now,
Speaker 4: except for purely esthetic reasons.
Speaker 3: I think something to think.
Speaker 4: About too is and like, obviously everyone's going to be different.
Speaker 4: But I did speak to a number of people that
Speaker 4: we have researched it. But it is widely known that
Speaker 4: sex is more sensitive when you have a foreskin. It's
Speaker 4: just one of those things. It's more it's supposedly more pleasurable.
Speaker 4: They get more sensation in it than when they're not circumcised.
Speaker 4: That is not taking away from saying that people that
Speaker 4: are circumcised don't have good sex, because they do. It's
Speaker 4: just that science says it's slightly more sensitive and pleasurable
Speaker 4: with your full skin, So there are p and cons
Speaker 4: for both. But it's also if you were going to
Speaker 4: be making it a decision, you need to probably have
Speaker 4: all the evidence, write down a list of pros and cons,
Speaker 4: and make the decision on your own.
Speaker 2: Well, I feel like.
Speaker 1: More so for parents making the decision, it's an aesthetic thing.
Speaker 1: I don't think parents are making the decision based on
Speaker 1: like the kid's sexual satisfack. Think you remember like five
Speaker 1: day old kid being like, is he gonna have great
Speaker 1: sex when he's eighteen? Like, I don't know they should,
Speaker 1: but I think, like, you know, it's a very culturally
Speaker 1: driven exercise, you know, and we have been brought up
Speaker 1: for in and like. Up until recently, eighty percent of
Speaker 1: boys in the United States and in Australia were circumcised.
Speaker 1: It's definitely losing popularity. But one of the big reasons
Speaker 1: why we used to circumcise kids is for hygiene reasons,
Speaker 1: because there was like this concern about infection, there was
Speaker 1: a concern about cleanliness.
Speaker 2: We live in a clean fucking country.
Speaker 1: Teach your child to clean their penis like that is
Speaker 1: like that is where I sit on the scale of things,
Speaker 1: and I have definitely this is why I say I
Speaker 1: prefer guys who are circumcised than guys who aren't. I
Speaker 1: have in my I'm gonna I'm gonna say, look, not
Speaker 1: in my adult life, because they I think from like
Speaker 1: twenty five, guys kind of get it. But from eighteen
Speaker 1: to twenty five, the amount of uncircumcised boys that I
Speaker 1: was with that didn't know how to wash their penis
Speaker 1: properly is what has emotionally scarred me from an uncircumcised man,
Speaker 1: What do you mean just a smelly penis? Like they
Speaker 1: didn't know that they needed to pull their foreskin back
Speaker 1: to wash their penis properly. They just stand in the
Speaker 1: shower and let the water run over the whole thing,
Speaker 1: and so like that is the concept behind like the
Speaker 1: need for having cleanliness. Also, look, I mean something that
Speaker 1: I found really interesting. I did a quick research on
Speaker 1: this when I was talking to Matt about it. I mean,
Speaker 1: this is not a secret because Matt's actually talked about
Speaker 1: on his own podcast. So I'm going to say it
Speaker 1: on this but he'll probably fucking kill me for it.
Speaker 3: You're gonna put it out to an imagery audience.
Speaker 1: Matt got circumcised, not as a baby, so he was
Speaker 1: circumcised when he was in school because of some medical reasons.
Speaker 1: And the reason and why he wants to circumcise our
Speaker 1: child if we have one, is because he doesn't want
Speaker 1: a kid to go through what he went through being
Speaker 1: someone who is older and being circumcised and being able
Speaker 1: to remember one the pain and to the experience. He said,
Speaker 1: it was incredibly, incredibly painful to go through as someone
Speaker 1: who was in primary school. Whereas as a baby. Obviously
Speaker 1: it's painful for the parents to see your child in pain,
Speaker 1: but the baby doesn't remember it, so they.
Speaker 3: Will be in pain, but they don't remember it.
Speaker 1: They don't remember, and so there is some pros and
Speaker 1: cons to that. You know, you have to take that
Speaker 1: trauma yourself because you're going to see your baby being
Speaker 1: really hurt by something that is completely elective. But maybe
Speaker 1: you're saving them from the small percentage that there's someone down.
Speaker 2: The track who needs to have a circumcision.
Speaker 1: Right, And like Britz said, there's reasons why adults have
Speaker 1: to have them. Maybe it's because their four skins too long,
Speaker 1: Maybe it's because they're four skins too tight. There's all
Speaker 1: different reasons that are associated with that. So obviously that's
Speaker 1: why Matt is kind of keen to do that for
Speaker 1: our child. But I think that this is really interesting
Speaker 1: because of the dropping rates of circumcision, and also because
Speaker 1: it's the controversial nature of it, Like you know, you're
Speaker 1: ential taking away that choice from someone to elect to
Speaker 1: do that themselves. Iceland is actually moving to potentially bear
Speaker 1: elective circumcision, and the reason.
Speaker 2: For that is that you are exactly what I just said.
Speaker 1: It should be a person's right to self determination as
Speaker 1: to whether they want to be circumcised or not, so
Speaker 1: doing that as a child if it's not necessary, they're
Speaker 1: actually looking to ban it. This has obviously had huge
Speaker 1: implications for Jewish and Muslim communities in Iceland because it
Speaker 1: is a religious and cultural expectation. It's also a really
Speaker 1: important part of their ceremony. So I mean, like we said,
Speaker 1: there's huge cultural implications. But if it's purely for esthetic reasons,
Speaker 1: then I do think that there is some consideration that
Speaker 1: needs to go into it, because in Australia, fewer and
Speaker 1: fewer people are actually being circumcised, and so long as
Speaker 1: we teach our children to wash their penises, pull back
Speaker 1: that foreskin.
Speaker 2: Give it a good old wash down. We're gonna be fine.
Speaker 3: Teach them some hygienes like wash your hands, wash your penis.
Speaker 1: I mean, have you ever been with a guy and thought, hmm,
Speaker 1: I wish you were circumcised? Or does it make zero
Speaker 1: fucking difference to you?
Speaker 4: In all honesty, it doesn't make that much of a difference, totally, Like,
Speaker 4: I don't think I don't think he's gonna grow up
Speaker 4: and be like, damn, I wish you did this.
Speaker 2: The only life that they have.
Speaker 1: The only time it makes a difference is if there's
Speaker 1: more cheese in there than there is in your hand
Speaker 1: cheese crison't, which.
Speaker 3: Is what Lauria has had for breakfast.
Speaker 1: God, I just got so scarred from my like eighteen
Speaker 1: year old boyfriend who just did not wash his penis.
Speaker 1: Probably like I'm still like, I'm thirty five almost, guys,
Speaker 1: and I still live with that. You still can't get
Speaker 1: back my headhop Okay, question number three, I don't think
Speaker 1: we answered anything completely.
Speaker 4: I think it's more just about about putting the pros
Speaker 4: and cons in and make you obviously have to make
Speaker 4: a decision on your own, but you really need to
Speaker 4: think about how necessary something is.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, and I think you know, you and your
Speaker 1: partner have to be fully in agreeance for this.
Speaker 4: Because the thing is too Like if you don't, it's
Speaker 4: the circum penis. So if you don't circumcise them, they
Speaker 4: have the option of circumcising himself as an adult. Like
Speaker 4: I mean, we all, well, think of the plastic surgery,
Speaker 4: think of the operations people have, Like it's just another
Speaker 4: thing to add to the list. If you do circumcise them,
Speaker 4: they can't go and reattach a foreskin in twenty years.
Speaker 3: Like it's not a thing.
Speaker 1: Totally, but like you know what, it's so interesting, isn't it,
Speaker 1: Because like, like women elect to have breast implants later
Speaker 1: on in life. We don't see a girl who's twelve
Speaker 1: years old ago, Oh her boobs are going to be small.
Speaker 1: We should probably put some breast implants in there, do
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, for some reason, it's
Speaker 1: just so culturally acceptable to cut off the foreskin of
Speaker 1: a man like that, because it's been happening since the
Speaker 1: beginning of time, Like it's been happening since Jesus.
Speaker 2: Jesus was circumcised, was he? Yeah, who's Jewish?
Speaker 3: I don't really know about Jesus, but she.
Speaker 2: Still celebrates Christmas.
Speaker 1: Jesus was circumcised, something that's been considered the norm for
Speaker 1: so very long. And I think that you know, it's
Speaker 1: okay to question things that we do just because we've
Speaker 1: always done them.
Speaker 2: But think about it. Your kid can always circumcize themself. Well,
Speaker 2: it can't circumcize himself, but he can always go and
Speaker 2: get it.
Speaker 3: Touch you don't try this at home, okay? Question number three?
Speaker 4: Long story short, Me and my boyfriend broke up a
Speaker 4: couple of months ago. Lots of shit went on, but anyway,
Speaker 4: I slept with a guy a few times and I'm
Speaker 4: already hooked. I don't want to, but I know I
Speaker 4: already have feelings. How the hell do you stop this
Speaker 4: from happening? I swear I'm gonna hurt myself so much
Speaker 4: if this keeps going because it's so easy for me
Speaker 4: to catch these feelings.
Speaker 3: Why am I catching feelings so easily?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: I mean, we've all been there, right, We've all had
Speaker 1: the rebound and caught feelings instantaneously.
Speaker 3: Not me emotionally, avoid I definitely have.
Speaker 1: I think I think you need to be you need
Speaker 1: to have self awareness, and like, obviously you do. Obviously
Speaker 1: you know that you're prone to having strong feelings, maybe prematurely,
Speaker 1: and so not only do you need to have some
Speaker 1: self awareness, but you have to have some self preservation
Speaker 1: and stop yourself like, have some self control. There's a
Speaker 1: lot of self self self stuff in here, but it
Speaker 1: comes down to you, like you're if you're having sex
Speaker 1: with someone, If you know that being intimate with someone
Speaker 1: is when you start to catch the feels, then maybe
Speaker 1: slow things down a bit and give your sign give
Speaker 1: yourself time to heal between the breakup and when you're
Speaker 1: actually ready to start dating someone else. Otherwise there is
Speaker 1: the potential that you just want to be loved, and
Speaker 1: you want to be in love so bad that you
Speaker 1: end up transferring those feelings to the next person that
Speaker 1: comes along, even if they're not the right person, and
Speaker 1: even if they're not good for you.
Speaker 3: Look, my feelings on this are.
Speaker 4: I have friends that I guess we've we've referred to
Speaker 4: it in the past law as like monkey branching, and
Speaker 4: I'm not saying that's what you're doing, but he yah,
Speaker 4: Laura's thinking.
Speaker 1: Friends, I feel personally victimized. On the other side, of
Speaker 1: the couch.
Speaker 3: I have a friend, Laura, No.
Speaker 4: But I think the thing that you have to be
Speaker 4: really careful within this is I do think it's some
Speaker 4: self reflection needs to happen, because I think that when
Speaker 4: people develop these feelings really quickly, it usually comes from
Speaker 4: a place of a level of insecurity, a level of
Speaker 4: being a little bit scared, possibly to be on your own,
Speaker 4: which I want you.
Speaker 3: To know is so common.
Speaker 4: So many women don't want to be on their own.
Speaker 4: They feel unloved, they feel like they can't be in
Speaker 4: their own company, they feel like they'll be forever alone.
Speaker 4: They feel like they can't get stuff done because they need.
Speaker 3: A man to help them.
Speaker 4: And I think that that's a really dangerous place to be.
Speaker 4: So I think if you every time you're with someone
Speaker 4: and sleep with someone, you're forming these really deep feelings,
Speaker 4: I think you need to look at what the reason
Speaker 4: could be. Is it just that you were really really
Speaker 4: wanting a relationship. If that is the case, like Laura said,
Speaker 4: just slow it down a bit, don't jump in head first,
Speaker 4: don't spend every single day.
Speaker 2: Or the jiana first, don't have sex with them.
Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe don't sleep with them straight away, and just
Speaker 4: try and spend some time on your own and really
Speaker 4: think about if you actually like this person or if
Speaker 4: you like the company, and the feeling of being wanted
Speaker 4: and the feeling of not being alone, because there's a
Speaker 4: really big difference, and it's really important to differentiate the
Speaker 4: two about being lonely and being alone, Like you need
Speaker 4: to realize if you were just lonely and that's why
Speaker 4: you're wanting these people.
Speaker 1: My big thing was and I like now retro with
Speaker 1: like the beauty of hindsight and retrospect. I can recognize
Speaker 1: it in myself.
Speaker 2: But I would fall in love.
Speaker 1: With people like I would become obsessed with people, not
Speaker 1: even because I genuinely was obsessed with them or in
Speaker 1: love with them, or even really liked them or even
Speaker 1: honestly thought that I was compatible with them, But I
Speaker 1: liked someone who liked me like I wanted to be loved.
Speaker 1: And so when somebody showed me that they were giving
Speaker 1: me attention or affection, or even sometimes when they weren't
Speaker 1: showing me that much attention or affection, they were just
Speaker 1: spending their time with me, I was like, Oh, maybe
Speaker 1: I like them because they like me, And I think
Speaker 1: that that's a really big one, especially if you're used
Speaker 1: to being with someone and you're used to having the
Speaker 1: company of a partner. To find yourself being alone all
Speaker 1: of a sudden is it can feel a bit shit.
Speaker 1: And it does take a little bit of time to
Speaker 1: have that self confidence of being alone and enjoying your
Speaker 1: own personal space in your own time, and not being
Speaker 1: alone and lonely, being alone and being really happy in
Speaker 1: yourself and on your own I really really think that
Speaker 1: the number one thing that happens in the situation and
Speaker 1: the one thing that you need to really try and
Speaker 1: exercise is some self control and some.
Speaker 2: Self like I know, and I know that sounds patronizing.
Speaker 1: I don't mean it like that that you don't have
Speaker 1: self control, but you recognize these traits in yourself. You're like,
Speaker 1: holy shit, I'm already falling in love with this guy.
Speaker 1: It's only been a month since I broke up with
Speaker 1: my ex boyfriend. And look, there are some circumstances where
Speaker 1: this is totally fine, and there are some people who
Speaker 1: find the love of their life very quickly after, you know,
Speaker 1: falling out of love with somebody else. But you need
Speaker 1: to kind of reflect on why did you break up
Speaker 1: with your ex boyfriend. Why did that relationship end? Are
Speaker 1: you genuinely ready to get into another relationship or you're
Speaker 1: just doing it because you're lonely. And if you're saying, ah, fuck,
Speaker 1: like I know, I know, I'm getting myself in deep,
Speaker 1: then you're the one who has all the resources to
Speaker 1: stop yourself. Like you are not a victy. You are
Speaker 1: not a victim. You're not like being taken for a ride.
Speaker 1: You are taking yourself for a ride in this and
Speaker 1: you have every single opportunity now to go cool. Let's
Speaker 1: put the brakes on a little bit, because I don't
Speaker 1: want to just throw my heart into.
Speaker 2: The ring to be hurt again.
Speaker 3: For me, I'm really lucky actually that I got to
Speaker 3: a place where I'm so happy on my own. And
Speaker 3: obviously I've been on my own.
Speaker 4: For so long that I know now when I get
Speaker 4: feelings for someone, when it's real, because it.
Speaker 3: Happens so infrequently.
Speaker 4: I'm so honest and open with myself when I'm dating someone,
Speaker 4: and like Laura, you'll know, I'll be like, oh, there's
Speaker 4: nothing there, but like we had a lot of fun.
Speaker 1: Oh and there's times where BRIT's like there's nothing there,
Speaker 1: and I'm like you need to give it a chance.
Speaker 1: And she's like, no, I'm all about Like She's like,
Speaker 1: I know what I want and i know what I'm
Speaker 1: looking for, and I'm not going to waste time on
Speaker 1: someone otherwise. Whereas like me back in the day, when
Speaker 1: I was trying to fill my loneliness with someone, I
Speaker 1: would like, I would date a guy. Look, I mean
Speaker 1: not every single guy. Obviously, there were times where I
Speaker 1: was like, there's nothing there, but if there was like
Speaker 1: an inkling of something, I would be like, oh, I
Speaker 1: need to explore this.
Speaker 2: I think you can just take things slowly.
Speaker 4: Well, so now that when I meet someone and I
Speaker 4: feel something, I'm like, wow, like this could actually be something,
Speaker 4: because I know in myself I don't catch feelings easily
Speaker 4: because I'm okay on being on my own. And for me,
Speaker 4: this is my number one piece of advice that I
Speaker 4: will give any woman in their life. Be okay on
Speaker 4: your own at one point in your life, because then
Speaker 4: everything else in your life becomes easier.
Speaker 3: I promise you.
Speaker 4: It seems silly, but it's so important for it for
Speaker 4: every aspect of your life.
Speaker 2: I totally agree.
Speaker 1: And I also think like have the self awareness, like
Speaker 1: do you fall in love so easily. I think that's
Speaker 1: something to be aware of as well, Like, if you
Speaker 1: break up with this guy or if you stop seeing him,
Speaker 1: do you think that you're likely going to meet somebody
Speaker 1: else in a month's time and have these same strong feelings?
Speaker 1: Like are you someone who falls in love super super
Speaker 1: quick and things progress very quickly or are you someone
Speaker 1: who's normally more considered Because you know, there are times
Speaker 1: where you will meet someone shortly after breaking up with
Speaker 1: someone else and it just works and they are the
Speaker 1: right person and it is meant to be. We're not
Speaker 1: saying that that doesn't happen, but if it always happens
Speaker 1: to you, if you're always in a relationship because you
Speaker 1: always find somebody within a couple of weeks of breaking
Speaker 1: up with somebody else, and you always feel like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, now this one's the one, then that's when
Speaker 1: you need to really start reassessing. Because I guarantee you
Speaker 1: you're not supposed to fall in love twelve times in
Speaker 1: a year.
Speaker 3: No one has one hundred ones.
Speaker 2: No, you just don't.
Speaker 1: And it does mean that maybe you have a type,
Speaker 1: or maybe you are in some patent behavior that you
Speaker 1: need to reassess.
Speaker 2: But I would really question if you're.
Speaker 1: Falling in love or you're, like, you know, being blown
Speaker 1: away by someone every other time you go on a date,
Speaker 1: reassess that something else.
Speaker 2: Not every guy is that fucking amazing, trust me?
Speaker 5: Or if they are, where the hell are I'll give
Speaker 5: you them mayandres to go on a reality TV show
Speaker 5: to find one twice. And something else to remember is
Speaker 5: and we've spoken about it a lot, is like love
Speaker 5: bombing and chemistry and last don't confuse all of them.
Speaker 5: It's so easy in those first few weeks when you're
Speaker 5: with someone. Sex is great, you're making out, you're getting.
Speaker 3: The butterflies, you're having all those feelings.
Speaker 4: It's really easy to confuse that with like this is
Speaker 4: a love I've been looking for, when it's not. You've
Speaker 4: got good chemistry and you're having sex, and there's a
Speaker 4: lot more that goes into like actually falling in love.
Speaker 3: Obviously, I'm gonna leave you guys with a spoiler.
Speaker 1: Wait, I'm gonna say one more thing before you say that,
Speaker 1: And it's like something that we advocate from this podcast
Speaker 1: so much, and that is that chemistry. Great chemistry is
Speaker 1: not an indication of a great relationship. Uh, keep your
Speaker 1: eyes open and look for those red flags.
Speaker 2: People.
Speaker 3: If your eyes open, your.
Speaker 4: Legs closed, and looks I.
Speaker 1: Mean whatever, you're allowed to have your legs open, you
Speaker 1: leave your best life girl for We're not here to
Speaker 1: tell you what to do, but we're just here to
Speaker 1: give you some guidance.
Speaker 2: And if you know that sex makes you fall in
Speaker 2: love too quickly, then maybe maybe think about it.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna leave you as the spoiler. I am catching feelings.
Speaker 2: Brittany is in love.
Speaker 3: No I'm not.
Speaker 2: She's like red in the face now and she'll be like, I've.
Speaker 3: Got goose bumps.
Speaker 2: She's Brittany.
Speaker 3: It make me sound like such a knob.
Speaker 1: Brittany has been spending a lot of time with the boy.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just put that out there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's not love, but I'm not. Yeah, but
Speaker 3: for me, it's the more my time I've ever spent
Speaker 3: with anyone of my existence.
Speaker 1: I've never known Brittany to spend so much time with
Speaker 1: another person that it's weird.
Speaker 3: Does it look weird for you when you see us together? Yeah? Weird?
Speaker 1: Okay, So for all the guys that Brittany's dated over
Speaker 1: the past year and a half, I have not met
Speaker 1: any of them, like, never met them. I hear about
Speaker 1: them and then I'm like, well, they all sound like
Speaker 1: fuck with so I don't want to meet them. Then
Speaker 1: I'm really judgmental, but like, I've met this one. He
Speaker 1: seems great, so.
Speaker 3: And I feel weird we've been with him in front
Speaker 3: of you. I feel like I'm doing something wrong, Yeah,
Speaker 3: because you.
Speaker 1: Know that I'm judging the whole time. I'm like trying
Speaker 1: to dissect and pick out what's going on. So for
Speaker 1: everybody who's been following along or trying to dissect Brittany's
Speaker 1: love life on the Facebook group, which is life on
Speaker 1: cut podcast, you're very good FBI detectives. There is something
Speaker 1: going on. There's something brewing. We don't know what it
Speaker 1: is just yet. It's still early days. And I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm not prematurely shared that with you because we've got
Speaker 1: no fucking filter.
Speaker 3: In case you Hopefully he doesn't listen. I said he's
Speaker 3: not allow listen. I banded him.
Speaker 1: You guys spend too much time together anyway, at the moment,
Speaker 1: I'd have to grow hard in the bathroom to live by.
Speaker 3: What are you doing?
Speaker 2: They That sounds like my laugh coming from the bathroom.
Speaker 4: Also, the main reason I said don't listen is I
Speaker 4: wasn't ready for him to hear my laugh.
Speaker 2: You can't contain that. You gotta let that thing be free.
Speaker 3: No, I did. It has come out.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 2: But not only does Britney have to contain her laugh.
Speaker 1: The other day I came over here and he was leaving,
Speaker 1: and he left the house and she was like, thank fuck,
Speaker 1: I've been needing to do a poop for like the
Speaker 1: last forty minute.
Speaker 3: Okay, now great, what if he does listen? Now he's
Speaker 3: gonna hear that.
Speaker 2: And then I had to listen to her do a poop.
Speaker 1: So there's no there's no secrecy between us, guys.
Speaker 4: Okay, let me just say. It's not like I live
Speaker 4: in a mansion, so I don't have five toilets to
Speaker 4: go choose from. And mind you, I have to listen
Speaker 4: to your nervous poop before every podcast that we do.
Speaker 2: I don't do them anymore. I'm not so nervous about
Speaker 2: the podcast anymore.
Speaker 1: I used to every single time we'd do an episode, guys,
Speaker 1: I'd have to go, this is too much information.
Speaker 2: But like I said, why would we keep anything secret?
Speaker 1: I used to have to go and do a wing
Speaker 1: in a poo before every single episode record, because I
Speaker 1: used to get so nervous doing them.
Speaker 3: Okay, can I just say no?
Speaker 4: Not only that, she would arrive to the studio or
Speaker 4: the house wherever recording and she would go and do
Speaker 4: her pooh and we then she would come. She would
Speaker 4: sit down, she would have the headphones on, We're about
Speaker 4: to press record, and she would be like, I just
Speaker 4: think I need to do one more nervous one. And
Speaker 4: I was like, babe, like how many nervous ones are
Speaker 4: in there? Like have you clogged up for the week?
Speaker 4: So she'd have to go on to another one.
Speaker 1: I was like that guy off Georgia Love's season on
Speaker 1: The Bachelorette, which he had the crazy eyes.
Speaker 2: I think his name was Tim.
Speaker 3: I don't remember. I didn't watch it.
Speaker 1: He kept talking about nervous poohs on the actual I
Speaker 1: don't know if anybody remembers this, but he was from Woollongong.
Speaker 1: I'm also from Wollongong. Maybe I'm related to him.
Speaker 3: Told me five people it's like Tasmania.
Speaker 1: He kept talking about doing a nervous pooh because he
Speaker 1: was so scared about.
Speaker 2: Being on the show.
Speaker 1: That was literally me, but I never spoke about it
Speaker 1: until now, So there you go, sharing my secrecy.
Speaker 3: Nervous poos are actually a thing, though, Like everyone listening
Speaker 3: has done nervous poo in their life.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just don't do them as much as you.
Speaker 4: Maybe I don't get as nervous as you. Maybe I
Speaker 4: just don't care as much as you everyone does nervous poos.
Speaker 4: You definitely do more nervus poos than anyone but met
Speaker 4: my existence, even like professional athletes.
Speaker 1: All right, on that note, guys, we hope you've enjoyed
Speaker 1: another episode of Life on Cut. If you have any
Speaker 1: questions for us for next week's episode, you can always
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Speaker 2: What is what just some housekeeping for us.
Speaker 4: Oh so I'm really frothing at the moment. All the
Speaker 4: men that are messaging us that they're listening. You're coming
Speaker 4: out more and more every time we mention it.
Speaker 3: Can you keep doing it? Because I love it.
Speaker 4: I love to see the men that are listening. Who
Speaker 4: you are, like, what you're about, what your age is.
Speaker 3: And why you're listening. Just for my own curiosity. So
Speaker 3: if you are a guy listening, slide on it.
Speaker 1: Just because Brennie wants to know that she's got backup
Speaker 1: options in case things go terribly wrong.
Speaker 3: If you.
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