WEBVTT - Ask Uncut - Is It Cheating If It's AI? 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.200 This episode was recorded on cameragle Land. 0:00:12.080 --> 0:00:14.400 Hi guys, and welcome back to another episode of Life. 0:00:14.440 --> 0:00:15.320 I'm Cut, I'm. 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:19.279 Laura, I'm Brittany. I know we've spoken recently about a 0:00:19.280 --> 0:00:21.840 couple of weeks. I was talking about developing that garlic allergy. 0:00:21.880 --> 0:00:22.959 You know how you and I were like, oh, we 0:00:23.000 --> 0:00:26.040 developed an allergy as adults. I think, and I don't 0:00:26.040 --> 0:00:28.920 know what's wrong with me. I'm developing more allergies. Probably 0:00:28.920 --> 0:00:30.880 like twice a week. I will eat something that puts 0:00:30.920 --> 0:00:33.479 me in so much pain, and I know something's age. 0:00:33.640 --> 0:00:35.120 I think it's ages. You do you know what I 0:00:35.159 --> 0:00:36.919 found myself googling yesterday? 0:00:37.040 --> 0:00:38.280 I googled fat vagina. 0:00:38.680 --> 0:00:42.159 Yeah, yeah, no, I googled. I don't even know how 0:00:42.159 --> 0:00:43.599 to describe it because I don't know how I came 0:00:43.640 --> 0:00:44.480 up with the Google search. 0:00:44.520 --> 0:00:44.960 Just tell me what. 0:00:45.080 --> 0:00:47.760 But basically, I was eating fruit and every time I 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:51.320 would swallow the pineapple, I was like half choking because 0:00:51.479 --> 0:00:53.760 it had so much liquid in it. Right, Okay, giar 0:00:53.800 --> 0:00:56.000 me out. This is fucking weird. Follow the story. 0:00:56.640 --> 0:00:58.440 We're I was like swallowing, and. 0:00:58.360 --> 0:01:00.960 I was like after every and then I was like, 0:01:01.160 --> 0:01:03.280 have I just lost muscle tone? In my throat, Like, 0:01:03.320 --> 0:01:05.720 am I not able to swallow anymore? So here it 0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:08.760 was and I was like, does pregnancy affect swallowing? 0:01:08.840 --> 0:01:10.839 And it was like, no, pregnancy doesn't. 0:01:10.840 --> 0:01:13.280 But you could have dysphasia, which is when your muscle 0:01:13.800 --> 0:01:16.360 tone in your neck loosens because of age. 0:01:16.400 --> 0:01:20.560 And I was like, no, nine nine, so hactic. But 0:01:20.560 --> 0:01:22.440 I actually have a bit of info about this. 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:25.800 He's just like more blow jobs. It tightens it right now. No, 0:01:25.800 --> 0:01:26.280 no, no no. 0:01:26.680 --> 0:01:31.360 Because the pregnancy belly forces your stomach to lift, it 0:01:31.400 --> 0:01:33.360 can cause you to get a lot more reflux. Because 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:35.479 it's got to do with like the acid and pushing 0:01:35.560 --> 0:01:38.040 up and stuff. So pineapples particularly acidic. 0:01:38.800 --> 0:01:42.120 Maybe it's you know, well I acidity going down your 0:01:42.319 --> 0:01:44.560 I carry it around like a thing of gavescon. Now 0:01:44.600 --> 0:01:46.880 I drink that like it's a little whiskey can in 0:01:46.920 --> 0:01:49.160 my bag like a little I have suck it. 0:01:49.200 --> 0:01:50.320 Down to contribute here. 0:01:50.960 --> 0:01:52.560 I also have daspasia. 0:01:52.600 --> 0:01:54.920 I was also fed this yesterday and I actually did 0:01:54.920 --> 0:01:59.200 this test myself. If you can't swallow three times in 0:01:59.240 --> 0:02:02.040 a row, there's something that's wrong with like the synapses 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:04.440 in your brain due to it. Could be things like 0:02:04.560 --> 0:02:07.960 extreme stress or anything that's happening with your body, because 0:02:08.040 --> 0:02:11.520 it's a learned trait. So like actually watched it and 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:13.160 I was doing this whole thing. Yes, say you have 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:16.040 to swallow. Do it now three times quickly. 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:17.799 Like every single person has already just done it as 0:02:17.800 --> 0:02:18.320 you're speaking. 0:02:18.320 --> 0:02:20.760 I already did as soon as you say, I did it. 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:23.960 I'm worried about medical misinformation, guys. 0:02:24.200 --> 0:02:25.119 It's not swallowing. 0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:27.200 I was like, guys, no one here is a doctor, 0:02:27.520 --> 0:02:33.240 how much who cares grain of fucking salt online? I 0:02:33.280 --> 0:02:33.840 just did it. 0:02:34.000 --> 0:02:38.720 Disclaimer, this is not medical. If we haven't been canceled yet. 0:02:38.639 --> 0:02:40.880 We're not doing it for dispage. I don't think that 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:42.880 that's what it's going to be for. Like, I'm just 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:44.840 going to put that out there. Well, look, guys, this 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:46.399 is our Aska and cut episode. 0:02:46.560 --> 0:02:48.440 Ask what gave me an allergy for my belly? 0:02:48.560 --> 0:02:50.480 Oh fuck? Sorry, what was the allergy? 0:02:50.600 --> 0:02:54.560 We're just snipping over my medical conditions. So sorry, acidic pinapple, 0:02:55.480 --> 0:02:59.839 I swallow. I actually can't be sure, but I did 0:02:59.840 --> 0:03:02.399 have weekbix, so I haven't had Weekbix in a long time, 0:03:02.440 --> 0:03:03.480 so I'm wondering if it's. 0:03:03.280 --> 0:03:05.120 The week Oh thank fuck, we got to the bottom of. 0:03:05.120 --> 0:03:08.120 That, everyone would have spent the rest of the day wondering, 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:11.040 Laura if we didn't do that. All right, So moving on, 0:03:11.120 --> 0:03:13.160 it's Ask gun Cut. We answer your questions, you write 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:15.560 the me in. We do want to talk about a 0:03:15.600 --> 0:03:17.160 question we talked about last week though. 0:03:17.240 --> 0:03:18.880 Yeah, well look, we had a question that came in 0:03:18.960 --> 0:03:21.359 last week. It was the last question of last week's 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:24.440 Ask gun Cut and it has created quite the conversation 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:28.600 in the Facebook group also online, and it's something that 0:03:28.800 --> 0:03:31.000 we have all thought about since. And like often we 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:34.000 get questions in they're anonymous, as you guys know, but 0:03:34.080 --> 0:03:37.200 they also leave you questioning, like, Okay, what would I 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:39.400 do if I was in this situation? Was the question 0:03:39.520 --> 0:03:42.240 answered in a way that was the most complete way 0:03:42.240 --> 0:03:45.040 of answering it? And also was it the most complete 0:03:45.040 --> 0:03:46.960 way of answering it for the person who wrote it 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:49.640 in or for the people who are listening who have 0:03:49.680 --> 0:03:53.160 never actually experienced it themselves, because that's two different things. Now, 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:55.560 if you didn't listen to last week's episode, firstly, go 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:57.600 back and have a listen. But just to give you 0:03:57.640 --> 0:04:00.120 a quick summation of what that question was about. It 0:04:00.160 --> 0:04:03.280 was written in by a woman who's in a heterosexual relationship, 0:04:03.720 --> 0:04:07.400 and originally she's married and has been for more than 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:10.600 five years. And originally her and her partner both had 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:13.560 incredibly high sex drives, and we're having sex every single day. 0:04:14.080 --> 0:04:17.440 Over time, her sex drive has dropped slightly, but her 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:20.520 partners hasn't, and he still expects sex every day. And 0:04:20.560 --> 0:04:23.280 not only does he expect sex every day, but if 0:04:23.279 --> 0:04:26.080 there's an instance where she doesn't have sex with him, 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:28.400 he kind of not well, I shouldn't say you kindt it. 0:04:28.400 --> 0:04:30.360 He guilt trips her into it, or he talks her 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:32.560 into this idea that there's like a sex debt where 0:04:32.600 --> 0:04:33.640 she has to make it up to him. 0:04:33.960 --> 0:04:35.720 Yeah, like we missed two days, so we'll do it 0:04:35.720 --> 0:04:36.200 for some time. 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:38.159 Yeah, so we'll do it twice, Yeah, you know, to 0:04:38.200 --> 0:04:40.160 try and make up for it. I really would love 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:42.560 for you guys to go back and listen to the 0:04:42.640 --> 0:04:44.880 actual question and all of the wording of it as well, 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:47.159 because I think it's important for the full context of 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:49.680 what it was. But it was really interesting to me 0:04:49.800 --> 0:04:52.960 because we gave advice based on I mean, we made 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:55.760 it very very clear that no one should ever be 0:04:55.839 --> 0:04:58.719 guilted into having sex. You should never be in a 0:04:58.720 --> 0:05:01.640 relationship where you feel as though that you have an 0:05:01.640 --> 0:05:03.440 obligation to have sex with someone. 0:05:03.560 --> 0:05:04.760 Sex is not an obligation. 0:05:05.279 --> 0:05:08.200 All of those things were communicated, but it was really 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:11.880 evident in the responses that came in online that everyone 0:05:12.040 --> 0:05:15.640 saw the absolute quote unquote carnival of red flags that 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:18.599 this was displaying. But most people jump to get the 0:05:18.600 --> 0:05:21.440 fuck out of that relationship. And I guess the reason 0:05:21.440 --> 0:05:23.920 why I wanted to talk about this is because it's 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:28.839 really a challenging thing, which is navigating advice or what 0:05:28.880 --> 0:05:31.880 would you do in a situation and meeting someone where 0:05:31.880 --> 0:05:35.600 they're at in their life experience. And as much as like, 0:05:36.160 --> 0:05:39.560 not a single person in this room agrees with the 0:05:39.560 --> 0:05:42.200 behavior of this man and thinks it is there is 0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:45.960 such coercive control around sex in this instance and weaponizing of. 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:47.680 Sex, none of it is okay. 0:05:47.880 --> 0:05:50.360 Yeah, the person who wrote this in our anonymous listener 0:05:50.400 --> 0:05:53.160 who would be listening to that episode for advice, they 0:05:53.240 --> 0:05:57.080 are not at the place where hearing fucking leave your 0:05:57.120 --> 0:06:00.480 relationship would be a helpful resolution to the problem that 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:03.640 they're having. And I say this because we've all had 0:06:03.680 --> 0:06:07.080 that friend who has gone through a really fucking like 0:06:07.200 --> 0:06:09.440 it is so obvious from the outset that that is 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:13.640 an unhealthy situation to be in, and you might scream 0:06:13.680 --> 0:06:16.080 at them from the rooftops you need to fucking leave. 0:06:16.400 --> 0:06:18.880 But unless someone is at the point in their relationship 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:21.120 where they want to leave or they need to leave, 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:23.640 or they've had that resolution themselves in their own brains, 0:06:23.839 --> 0:06:25.400 there's no amount of saying it to someone that's going 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:27.800 to like give them that epiphany. And I would say 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:30.120 the first steps is usually trying to work on what 0:06:30.200 --> 0:06:33.320 can be worked on or what can be resolved, leading 0:06:33.320 --> 0:06:35.240 that person down the path to know that, like what 0:06:35.320 --> 0:06:37.840 they're doing is not the problem. And Yeah, I found 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:40.440 it such an interesting response because I know that sometimes 0:06:40.440 --> 0:06:43.039 when we read these questions, our visceral reaction can be 0:06:43.120 --> 0:06:45.320 get the hell out. But that's really really hard when 0:06:45.320 --> 0:06:47.440 you're married to someone and every other part of your 0:06:47.480 --> 0:06:50.440 relationship feels great except for this, you know, issue that 0:06:50.440 --> 0:06:52.200 you have around sex, which is a huge issue, but 0:06:52.240 --> 0:06:53.360 it's you know, the one and only. 0:06:53.600 --> 0:06:54.840 Yeah, to pull back the. 0:06:54.800 --> 0:06:58.320 Curtain a little bit, Like my honest reflection of that 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:00.520 question when you know, when it kind of was written 0:07:00.560 --> 0:07:02.880 in and I initially read it, I had a really 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:05.840 extreme reaction to it, and we were in a really 0:07:05.880 --> 0:07:09.040 privileged position where like, we've been able to answer people's 0:07:09.120 --> 0:07:11.400 questions and like some of their most intimate and things 0:07:11.400 --> 0:07:14.080 that they don't feel comfortable sharing with other people in 0:07:14.120 --> 0:07:17.000 their lives, even their closest friends, because they can be 0:07:17.040 --> 0:07:19.240 somewhat anonymous to us. I think that there's like a 0:07:19.240 --> 0:07:21.560 little bit more safety in the fact that we don't 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:24.000 know anyone else in their life. I think over the years, 0:07:24.000 --> 0:07:26.800 I've realized that, like, even though my initial reaction to 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:29.960 that situation was pretty extreme in the sense that I 0:07:30.000 --> 0:07:32.080 was like, Wow, this is not consent, you know, this 0:07:32.120 --> 0:07:35.560 is really full on I've also been in a relationship 0:07:35.600 --> 0:07:39.320 that had elements of coercive control, and when my friends 0:07:39.400 --> 0:07:41.840 responded to me in a way that was very firm, 0:07:42.480 --> 0:07:44.800 it just made me feel more isolated. And I think 0:07:44.840 --> 0:07:47.240 over the years, the three of us have really realized 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:50.520 that the last thing that we would ever, ever, ever 0:07:50.920 --> 0:07:53.760 want to do is to make someone who already feels 0:07:53.760 --> 0:07:55.560 like this is a really vulnerable thing to bring up 0:07:55.600 --> 0:07:58.480 with people feel even more isolated and feel as though 0:07:58.480 --> 0:08:00.720 they weren't able to bring it up with the actual 0:08:00.760 --> 0:08:03.240 people in their lives as well, and so that's why 0:08:03.680 --> 0:08:05.760 I was really glad like the way that you guys 0:08:05.760 --> 0:08:06.800 answered that question. 0:08:07.680 --> 0:08:09.160 I knew why you answered. 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:11.280 It in that way, because a person in that situation 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:13.440 is in a really vulnerable position and you want the 0:08:13.440 --> 0:08:14.560 best for that person. 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:16.679 I just want to make it very very clear, though, 0:08:16.760 --> 0:08:19.400 because I think for anyone who probably hasn't listened to 0:08:19.400 --> 0:08:21.280 an episode or hasn't been in the discussions on the 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:24.440 Facebook group, no one was criticizing the way in which 0:08:24.520 --> 0:08:27.280 we answered the question. If anything, there are quite a 0:08:27.280 --> 0:08:30.600 few people who said that this was a really needed response. 0:08:31.080 --> 0:08:33.320 The reason why I wanted to talk about it was 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:38.600 because although our response was needed, the collective response from 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:41.839 our community was that you should leave. And I'm not 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:44.520 saying I don't agree with that, but what I'm saying 0:08:44.600 --> 0:08:47.400 is that that's unhelpful advice to the person who wrote it. 0:08:47.440 --> 0:08:50.960 In so I think that we're conflating potentially that people 0:08:50.960 --> 0:08:51.960 disagreed with our advice. 0:08:52.000 --> 0:08:52.800 That wasn't the case. 0:08:52.880 --> 0:08:56.200 It's just that people's reactions was extremely strong, and so 0:08:56.400 --> 0:08:58.400 was ours when we read the question as well. The 0:08:58.440 --> 0:09:01.360 only thing I wanted to read out one comment. It's 0:09:01.400 --> 0:09:04.120 the top comment on the discussion group from the thread 0:09:04.120 --> 0:09:07.040 that this was posted in and Caddy Ward, who wrote it, 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:09.160 I could not agree with you more. You wrote Coerce, 0:09:09.240 --> 0:09:13.000 consent is not consent at all, and I do hope 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:16.200 that people took that message from what we discussed on 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:19.080 last week's episode. And if you ask someone who's in 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:21.920 a relationship where your partner guilts you into having sex 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:24.439 with them and you feel like there is an obligation, 0:09:24.880 --> 0:09:27.560 that is a huge issue. And it isn't something that 0:09:27.600 --> 0:09:29.319 you should just brush under the car, but you should 0:09:29.320 --> 0:09:32.240 never have sex with someone because you feel as though 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:34.400 you're obligated to absolutely. 0:09:34.600 --> 0:09:36.520 The last thing I want to add is what I 0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:38.599 have found over the years since doing this, and I 0:09:38.920 --> 0:09:41.760 mean we've been doing this six years. Every single week 0:09:41.840 --> 0:09:46.120 we have answered so many questions. What I think the 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:49.000 common theme is quite often people don't write to us 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:52.480 asking us what to do. It's not like this is 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:55.880 a situation do I leave? What do I stay? Often 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:58.640 is this normal? Often people don't know they might have 0:09:58.679 --> 0:10:00.640 been in a relationship for a really long time or 0:10:00.679 --> 0:10:03.079 only a certain kind of relationship, and often they don't 0:10:03.080 --> 0:10:06.360 know if other people are experiencing what they're experiencing if 0:10:06.400 --> 0:10:08.560 they are making too big of a deal about something, 0:10:08.600 --> 0:10:11.280 if they're being dramatic about something. That is what I 0:10:11.320 --> 0:10:13.320 have found over the years. It's not necessarily like do 0:10:13.360 --> 0:10:15.959 I leave or do I stay? It's like, hey, this 0:10:16.040 --> 0:10:18.840 is what is happening in my relationship. Like am I 0:10:18.920 --> 0:10:22.120 being dramatic? Am I overreacting in this situation? They're often 0:10:22.160 --> 0:10:25.719 just questioning themselves in a specific situation or a relationship. 0:10:25.920 --> 0:10:29.840 And I find that really interesting too, because we do forget. 0:10:29.920 --> 0:10:32.320 I mean, like I was in my thirties when I 0:10:32.320 --> 0:10:34.800 settled down, I had dated so many different people, and 0:10:34.880 --> 0:10:36.880 I guess in a way, I was lucky to experience 0:10:36.920 --> 0:10:39.880 a lot. A lot of people meet someone quite young 0:10:39.920 --> 0:10:41.640 and they fall into that relationship, or they may not 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:44.160 have had experiences, they may not feel comfortable talking to 0:10:44.160 --> 0:10:46.560 their friends about it, and they don't have any sort 0:10:46.559 --> 0:10:50.680 of relation to what is and isn't okay or isn't 0:10:50.720 --> 0:10:52.400 is it normal? And I think that that is something 0:10:52.440 --> 0:10:54.480 that we really take into consideration as well. 0:10:54.960 --> 0:10:55.200 Well. 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:56.920 Look, guys, if you do have a question for asking 0:10:56.880 --> 0:10:59.640 on cut, slide into the DMS at LAFE Uncut podcast 0:10:59.760 --> 0:11:01.640 on Instagram so that you can go into the mix 0:11:01.679 --> 0:11:04.160 for next week's question. We have some real doozies this 0:11:04.200 --> 0:11:06.360 week for you and hopefully they spark as many discussions 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:08.480 as last week's did. But before we get into that, 0:11:08.559 --> 0:11:11.800 it is time for vibes and unsubscribes. Keisha, what's you 0:11:11.920 --> 0:11:12.559 vibe for the week. 0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:13.760 I have such a. 0:11:13.679 --> 0:11:17.120 Good TV show for everyone to watch. It's called Mobland 0:11:17.400 --> 0:11:21.280 and it's on Paramount, but we're watching it through Amazon, 0:11:21.360 --> 0:11:24.120 but we have had to pay for like, I don't 0:11:24.120 --> 0:11:26.240 know how it's linked. You can get it through either 0:11:26.520 --> 0:11:30.120 Mobland Mobland. Yeah, so it's a new series. 0:11:30.200 --> 0:11:32.240 They're they're releasing one episode a week. 0:11:32.360 --> 0:11:35.720 You can't watch it in six weeks time everyone, so 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:36.800 you can binge. Yeah. 0:11:36.800 --> 0:11:39.880 So the show it stars Tom Hardy, Pierce Brosnan and 0:11:40.040 --> 0:11:44.640 Helen Mirraham and Pierce Brosnan and Helen Miriam are the parents, 0:11:44.640 --> 0:11:47.040 I guess or grandparents for some of the characters as 0:11:47.040 --> 0:11:50.760 well of this really wealthy crime family and they live 0:11:50.800 --> 0:11:54.840 in London and they are very powerful and quite scary. 0:11:55.720 --> 0:11:58.800 And Tom Hardy he plays a character called Harry and 0:11:58.840 --> 0:11:59.600 I love him. 0:11:59.720 --> 0:12:01.360 Yeah, he's so good in this as well. 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:04.080 He's the fixer, so he's the guy who keeps the 0:12:04.120 --> 0:12:07.120 peace and who kind of keeps everyone in line, and 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:09.000 you know he's done some shady things as well. But 0:12:09.040 --> 0:12:11.760 his backstory is quite interesting as to how he became 0:12:11.800 --> 0:12:15.200 a part of the Harrigan family. Now what happens is that, 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:17.240 and this happens in episode one, so I don't feel 0:12:17.240 --> 0:12:18.280 like I'm giving away too much. 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:21.079 The grandson of the Harrigans. 0:12:20.960 --> 0:12:26.240 Is involved in the murder of another character, and that 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:30.160 family are also a powerful crime family, so it kind 0:12:30.200 --> 0:12:32.880 of ends up being this battle and whether they're going 0:12:32.880 --> 0:12:35.280 to find out that he was involved in it or 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:39.600 how that unfolds is really quite interesting, and the reasons 0:12:39.640 --> 0:12:42.880 behind why it happened end up playing out in a 0:12:42.960 --> 0:12:44.320 very unpredictable way. 0:12:44.720 --> 0:12:47.240 But it is really, really, really well done. 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:48.960 I put this up on my story the other day 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:50.560 and I had so many people right back to me 0:12:50.640 --> 0:12:53.400 being like, I am just obsessed with this series. 0:12:53.400 --> 0:12:56.400 So if you need a bit of like a fun. 0:12:56.360 --> 0:13:01.640 But action packed drama to watch, really highly recommend mob Blend. 0:13:01.880 --> 0:13:03.520 Did you watch Peaky Blinders? 0:13:03.920 --> 0:13:07.240 I saw bits of Peaky Blinders, and I tried to 0:13:07.280 --> 0:13:09.880 watch it a couple of times, and I don't know why. 0:13:09.920 --> 0:13:12.080 I just couldn't necessarily get into it. I think there 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:14.120 was a little bit too much storyline. 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:16.920 No, you need to stick to it. So I tried to. 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:18.960 So I say this because it's the same kind of thing. 0:13:19.000 --> 0:13:21.520 It's like a Mobland kind of thing. Tom Hardy's also 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:23.920 in that, so it's probably very similar. But so it's 0:13:24.000 --> 0:13:27.959 Killian Murphy. He's brilliant. But you try to watch Peaky Blinders. 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:30.160 I tried to watch it twice right the first episode, 0:13:30.160 --> 0:13:33.720 couldn't get into it, and everyone kept saying push through. 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:36.240 There's like six seasons. Anyway, I did, and it became 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:38.720 one of my favorite TV shows. It's brilliant. So that's 0:13:38.760 --> 0:13:41.280 like a recommendation if you like Mob and Tom Hardy. 0:13:41.679 --> 0:13:44.520 I also think, now that you've said that, I've updated 0:13:44.679 --> 0:13:46.320 my hall pass, it could be Tom Hardy. 0:13:46.840 --> 0:13:47.480 I can see why. 0:13:47.600 --> 0:13:51.640 Yeah, yeah, he's got that element. 0:13:51.240 --> 0:13:52.840 To him that is just so attractive. 0:13:52.880 --> 0:13:55.480 But this one's a current like it's set in modern times, 0:13:55.520 --> 0:13:57.400 whereas I know that Peaky Blinders is set in like 0:13:57.440 --> 0:13:58.120 earlier times. 0:13:58.160 --> 0:13:59.800 I literally just had to google. I don't know who 0:13:59.800 --> 0:14:00.480 any one is. 0:14:00.520 --> 0:14:05.120 Guys, we know to like if not, ye, he's hot. 0:14:05.160 --> 0:14:06.960 There is no dispute. And when I saw him, I 0:14:06.960 --> 0:14:08.120 was like, oh, yeah, I know who that guy is. 0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:10.080 But like, I'm just so bad with names. 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:13.280 It's terrible. What is I had to google him as well. 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:16.440 But Bro is like probably the most whole. 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:20.200 It's a constant running joke in our family. Matt's like, 0:14:20.320 --> 0:14:22.120 how do you work in media and not know a 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:23.760 single fucking person's name? 0:14:23.800 --> 0:14:25.880 And I'm like, he's not good. 0:14:25.880 --> 0:14:28.400 It's also really bad when we go to big events 0:14:28.400 --> 0:14:30.880 because I'm always like, I know you're from the Project, 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:35.800 I can't remember your name. I can't remember anyone anyway. 0:14:36.200 --> 0:14:37.600 What's your viber on subscribe? 0:14:37.640 --> 0:14:39.640 Okay, my vibe is something I'm spoken about on the 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:42.320 podcast before, and I'm vibing it now because i still 0:14:42.320 --> 0:14:44.760 get questions about it every second day. So I'm just 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:46.640 gonna put it here. When I was doing Dancing with 0:14:46.680 --> 0:14:49.359 the Stars, I was posting a lot of like my supplements, 0:14:49.360 --> 0:14:52.120 and I made that joke about Ben sending me a 0:14:52.200 --> 0:14:57.080 care package that was like proteins, creatines, like everything, magnesium, whatever. 0:14:57.800 --> 0:15:04.080 So my vibe is creating monohydrate. It has scientific benefits. 0:15:04.120 --> 0:15:09.120 It is so proven to be wonderful for women, aging women, menopause, 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:11.240 bone health, there's a lot of people that are like, 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:13.640 how do you get lean muscle mass and things like that. 0:15:13.680 --> 0:15:16.320 It helps with that. It helps with muscle mass. The 0:15:16.480 --> 0:15:18.640 last couple of years they put a lot of research 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:23.000 into the benefits of creating for cognitive and brain function. 0:15:23.360 --> 0:15:25.520 If you're interested in actually learning a little bit more 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:27.640 about it. Mel Robbins, who is currently one of the 0:15:27.680 --> 0:15:30.480 biggest podcasters in the world, she did an interview with 0:15:30.480 --> 0:15:33.440 doctor Stacy Sims where they discuss all the benefits surrounding 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:34.840 creating for women. 0:15:34.880 --> 0:15:37.160 Do you have a specific brand that you like if. 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:41.240 You get creating monohydrate? My assumption is it is just 0:15:41.320 --> 0:15:43.400 what it is, so like you can get it from anywhere, 0:15:43.480 --> 0:15:45.360 but don't quote me on that. I will link what 0:15:45.400 --> 0:15:48.280 I do use, but it is called Emerald Labs, Like, 0:15:48.360 --> 0:15:52.640 that's the brand creating monohydrate. Mine has one hundred serves. 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:54.640 I put it in You can just put it in water, 0:15:54.760 --> 0:15:57.280 doesn't really taste like anything. It's not flavored mine. I 0:15:57.320 --> 0:15:59.560 put it in a protein shake, whatever you want, but 0:16:00.120 --> 0:16:03.920 take it daily. The thing is it reacts to how 0:16:03.960 --> 0:16:05.880 you take it daily, so it's not like you just 0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:07.560 need to take it every day. It's not like you've 0:16:07.560 --> 0:16:08.960 taken it for four days, and if you don't take 0:16:08.960 --> 0:16:10.720 it for three days, it's stealing your system. It is 0:16:10.760 --> 0:16:12.480 something that you have to consume on the day, so 0:16:12.520 --> 0:16:14.360 I just have it on my kitchen bench. It's what 0:16:14.400 --> 0:16:17.120 I do every morning. But the difference, and you will 0:16:17.240 --> 0:16:19.320 if you start to google this and research them, the 0:16:19.320 --> 0:16:24.080 difference for your brain, for brain fog, for memory, for clarity, 0:16:24.160 --> 0:16:27.760 for the way you can think. I physically feel it. 0:16:27.760 --> 0:16:29.960 It's wonderful and it's it's something that every woman can 0:16:29.960 --> 0:16:33.280 put into their daily routine. So I just really really 0:16:33.320 --> 0:16:34.960 recommend it. It's one of the things that I do 0:16:35.120 --> 0:16:36.560 not go a day. 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:37.320 Without writ to go. 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:40.040 I have a podcast recommendation, and the reason why I'm 0:16:40.080 --> 0:16:42.200 recommending this is because I think the ven diagram of 0:16:42.200 --> 0:16:44.040 people who listen to Life on Cut actually might find 0:16:44.080 --> 0:16:47.200 this really interesting, and I listened to it this morning. Firstly, 0:16:47.360 --> 0:16:50.840 it is a no filter episode. Kate Lanebrook is a 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:55.920 fantastic interviewer and I think she's absolutely exceptional in this episode. 0:16:56.120 --> 0:16:58.720 It is called Georgia Love on Private Pain in a 0:16:58.760 --> 0:17:01.520 Public Life. As I know a lot of you would 0:17:01.520 --> 0:17:03.760 probably know if you do follow or you're from within 0:17:03.840 --> 0:17:08.639 the Bachelor of Vortex Georgia Love and Lee are recently divorced, 0:17:08.800 --> 0:17:11.920 and this is her first like long form public interview 0:17:11.960 --> 0:17:15.280 post divorce. And the reason why I'm recommending it is 0:17:15.320 --> 0:17:18.520 because I really loved the way that she spoke about 0:17:18.560 --> 0:17:21.080 relationships not being failures. And I think we can talk 0:17:21.119 --> 0:17:25.000 about x's and talk about long term relationships as though 0:17:25.320 --> 0:17:27.240 they failed or they didn't work out. And one thing 0:17:27.280 --> 0:17:29.479 she said was, you know, people say, oh, well, you're 0:17:29.520 --> 0:17:31.920 in a reality TV show, so what did you expect? 0:17:32.000 --> 0:17:34.959 Of course it wasn't going to work out, And I 0:17:35.000 --> 0:17:37.480 think like giving credit to a relationship that's been you know, 0:17:37.520 --> 0:17:40.520 a nine year relationship decades, it's like that that to 0:17:40.560 --> 0:17:42.879 me is a successful relationship, and it may not have 0:17:43.040 --> 0:17:45.440 ended in like, you know, the way that we all 0:17:45.480 --> 0:17:47.679 wish when we go through marriages and everything else, and 0:17:47.960 --> 0:17:49.960