1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 1: This is gem Nation. We'd woman has taken to TikTok 2 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: to share something that her boyfriend did. Now you've been 3 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: married a long time. 4 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 2: Thirty one years tomorrow. 5 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: Oh anniversary tomorrow. Right from the beginning, did you split 6 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 1: expenses expenses? Like, did you have you spent this? I 7 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 1: spent this? Or do you have joint accounts? 8 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 2: We have straight away joint account. Yeah, well Helen's got 9 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:26,720 Speaker 2: an account. Now she's got her own account. It's called 10 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 2: the few account. I don't know what that is. It 11 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 2: must be something she's left off. 12 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 1: It's the fun fun account, the. 13 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 2: Few account account. Yeah, we went straight in there soon 14 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 2: as we got married. It was it was a done deal. 15 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 1: It was same with us. But this woman has been though. 16 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 2: She does say what's you know, what's yours mine? And 17 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 2: what's mine's mine? 18 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 1: Swiss bank accounts and all the rest of it. This 19 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: woman went on a trip with her partner to visit 20 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: his family in another state, and so they always had 21 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: a spreadsheet. She said, when we lived we lived together, 22 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 1: but we have a spreadsheet of expenses, and that's fine. 23 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 1: But when they came home, there was something on that 24 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 1: expense sheet that really annoyed her. Here's what she said 25 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: on TikTok, what's this three dollars and twenty three sons 26 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 1: for breakfast? 27 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:12,839 Speaker 2: And he looks at me deadpan and goes, oh, well 28 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 2: that's for the banana and a piece of toast that 29 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 2: you eat at my mom's Excuse me, sir, He's like, yeah, well, 30 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 2: like you eate that, so you know you owe me 31 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:23,839 Speaker 2: and my mom money. This man was dead ass trying 32 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 2: to charge me for a banana and a piece of wonderbread. 33 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 1: And she said that she had contributed to the dinner 34 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:34,839 Speaker 1: for her mother boyfriend's mum's birthday, all this sort of stuff. 35 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 1: The morning they left, she had a banana and a 36 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: piece of bread and he wrote on the spreadsheet three 37 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:40,040 Speaker 1: dollars twenty three. 38 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 2: But a spreadsheet in a relationship. 39 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, but sometimes they do. Harley had a partner before me, 40 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 1: and she used to sort of do a spreadsheet thing. 41 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: And he said that there was one time when, like, 42 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: for example, she he'd come home and she said, I 43 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 1: brought you this really nice jumper. She goes, he'd go, 44 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 1: that's lovely, thank you. End of the month they come 45 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: to split expenses, has to pay for it. 46 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 2: On the spreadsheet. 47 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 1: It was on the spreadsheet. We've never done any of 48 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 1: that with us. We got together, it was all things joined. 49 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 2: But you're like money, money, money. 50 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 1: We've been together thirty years. We've worked our way up 51 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: from you're good. 52 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 2: With money, you're like good. What do you mean You're 53 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 2: always you know, you're always. 54 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: Meaning a hord money. 55 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 2: Now you're shelling out, you're always paying. You're good. Well, 56 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 2: you good to be a part of. It's like, you know, 57 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 2: hanging out with Brewster and Brewster's MILLIONSLF. 58 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 1: It's not true. You feel that because you're a little 59 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 1: bit of a type. 60 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 2: I am not. 61 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 1: You are a little bit of a type. 62 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 2: No, I'm not sure, No, I'm not. 63 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 1: We could argue all day. 64 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 2: Give me a demonstration. 65 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 1: Well, say we go out as a group at lunch 66 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:45,639 Speaker 1: with our team and you say, you know what, I'll 67 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:47,800 Speaker 1: pay for this, and goes, aren't you wonderful? And then 68 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:49,360 Speaker 1: you put that into accounts. 69 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:52,360 Speaker 2: But it's a team lunch. That's fair enough. 70 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 1: But you made it look like, hey, I'm going to 71 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 1: shout the team. 72 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 2: Put on my card at the team. But you can. 73 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 2: It's a business expense. Sometimes they knock it back. Sometimes 74 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 2: it does so well, let's try. That's happened. 75 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 1: How about we share an agent and there's a big, 76 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 1: big birthday and I said, let's get some flowers, and 77 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: you said, I'll get it on that too. And then 78 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 1: when I said let's go hard, you said, oh, don't 79 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 1: spend that much because you. 80 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 2: Spend too much. We're on different salaries. You go and 81 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:25,800 Speaker 2: spend five million dollars on some flowers. I said, well, 82 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 2: at least have a look around, and you see what 83 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:29,080 Speaker 2: you're doing. 84 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 1: You're digging yourself a big there's. 85 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 2: No hole to be dug because you make more money 86 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 2: than me. Oh so and you and you as because 87 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 2: you're a shell out. You're always shelling out the day. 88 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 1: So when you go out with friends who don't earn 89 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 1: as much money as you do, you say, hey, I 90 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: own more than you. Let me pay everything. If you 91 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 1: think it, if you think it goes on a scale, 92 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 1: I don't. We all we all share. We all share 93 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 1: where I go, we all share. You don't you don't 94 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 1: like if you go out with scampsy, Well, he. 95 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 2: Makes pots of money, but. 96 00:03:58,400 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: We always I don't know how much any of my 97 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 1: friend zone and they've never. 98 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 2: No, I don't, I don't. I don't know that either. 99 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 2: I don't know that. I don't know where you're getting at. 100 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 2: But I'm not tired. What I do is less time. 101 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 2: But I'm not not You have made me less tight. 102 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 2: I'm just I don't because I catch the train by choice. 103 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 2: I guess train, of course, because I just rather because 104 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:20,159 Speaker 2: I need. 105 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: To get of course, I don't think, I know, I 106 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 1: don't think that's a type thing. I know that's not 107 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 1: a type thing. 108 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 2: That And maybe because down in the garage. 109 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: Oh that's right, you steal stuff. 110 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 2: From the see this is the thing. They're chucking out stuff. 111 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: And you and Kyle, the men who were paid the 112 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 1: most in this building. Trolley you'll fight and you'll say 113 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: to ground skipper Louis, and you'll say, I'm still using. 114 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 2: It because okay, let's let's unpack this. We should get 115 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 2: Kyle in on this. Right. So there was a bunch 116 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 2: of caster wheels, you know, Castle wheels, and they were 117 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:53,919 Speaker 2: on this old trolley and I went, what are you 118 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 2: doing with that, Lui? He goes, we're we're jogging it out. 119 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,679 Speaker 2: And I said, well, those caster wheels you go to Bunnings. 120 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:01,839 Speaker 2: They're like ten bucks. I'll take them. Then Carl comes, 121 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 2: what's going on? Here and I said, well, I'm getting 122 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 2: these castles. No you're not. We're fineing. 123 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:10,039 Speaker 1: Meanwhile, someone who earns a dollar walks past and says, oh, 124 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 1: I'm off to Bunnies to buy some of those well. 125 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:15,840 Speaker 2: Because if you go, it's just waste. In fact, I'm 126 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 2: the oldimate greenie that would have gone. 127 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 1: To landfill well anyway, in which so you take that bag, okay, 128 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:23,840 Speaker 1: I'll take it back. 129 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 2: Within relationships, I wouldn't say that my wife. I don't 130 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 2: give her a spreadsheet. 131 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: No, no, no, I know that. But there's some couples 132 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:33,800 Speaker 1: do work like this, and some couples you think your 133 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 1: partner is a little bit tight.