WEBVTT - It's time to take BOLD action & back yourself!! Solo pep talk 

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, and welcome to the Rise and Conquer Podcast. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>your host, Georgie Stephenson. I am a lawyer and health coach,

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<v Speaker 1>social media influencer, wife, and dog mum. On the Rise

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<v Speaker 1>and Conquer Podcast, we dive deep into all things mindset, habits, career, health,

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<v Speaker 1>relationships and more. This is a podcast for women who

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<v Speaker 1>want to rise up to be the best version of themselves,

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<v Speaker 1>who have big dreams in who are willing to put

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<v Speaker 1>in the work to get there. I want to bring

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<v Speaker 1>you the tools and actionable steps to feel confident in yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>inspired to take bold action, and motivated to conquer your goals.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you with me, girl friends, Let's rise and conquer. Hi, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>and welcome back to the Rise and Conquered Podcast. Today.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a solo episode you, and this is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of just off the whim. I was feeling very inspired

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<v Speaker 1>about what we're about to chat about, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>quickly grabbed my mic and I haven't really got any

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<v Speaker 1>notes or anything. I usually have some dot points, but

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<v Speaker 1>this is something that has come up because of a

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook memory. And I absolutely love Facebook memories because it's

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<v Speaker 1>like a time warp. I personally like I'm atrocious with

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<v Speaker 1>time and I just kind of forget things and they

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<v Speaker 1>pop up and you're like, oh, that was three years ago. Crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>So something popped up and I screenshot at it, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I was looking at my camera roll. So it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't this time last year. It was a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>months back, and I screenshot at it. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to post on my Instagram, but I just didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was a photo of me getting admitted as lawyer.

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<v Speaker 1>And so that was literally just over a year ago.

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<v Speaker 1>I was getting admitted as a lawyer, and I was

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<v Speaker 1>just thinking, it's been just over a year. And in

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<v Speaker 1>that year, I quit my safe corporate job. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>pursue law obviously, and I went off. I did my

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<v Speaker 1>own thing. I hired my first employee, I released my

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<v Speaker 1>intuitive eating ebook, I moved house, I spoken a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of women events, and I also launched a company which

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<v Speaker 1>I launched with my brother too. And it got me

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<v Speaker 1>thinking that this was all because of a decision and

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<v Speaker 1>a step I made that I didn't think was that

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<v Speaker 1>pivot all, but now looking back, it was. And I

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<v Speaker 1>remember just being so scared to take this step, and

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<v Speaker 1>now looking back, that was the step that had this

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<v Speaker 1>domino effect of me at the moment who I really

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I've kind of stepped into where I'm meant

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<v Speaker 1>to be, who I'm meant to be, and what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>meant to be doing, which is like this really weird

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<v Speaker 1>feeling that I have kind of trying to be like

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<v Speaker 1>working through. But basically I'm gonna get into that with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think this would be a really good podcast

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<v Speaker 1>episode if you currently are sitting on something or you're

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<v Speaker 1>scared to take a bold action or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, bear with me before we get into the

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<v Speaker 1>actual episode. I do want to thank today's sponsors for

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<v Speaker 1>this episode, which is Naked Harvest, which is my company

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<v Speaker 1>that I co founded with my brother Cooper. And if

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't been on Instagram or YouTube or anything like that,

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<v Speaker 1>so me and my brother started a natural sports supplement company.

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<v Speaker 1>And it feels so weird to say that it was.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been working on it just under a year, so

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<v Speaker 1>it's been a long time coming. And this started because,

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<v Speaker 1>as you guys know, I'm really into my fitness and

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<v Speaker 1>health and I love supplement to compliment my lifestyle. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to be treating your body right and working

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<v Speaker 1>out and eating well, and I just find compliments can

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<v Speaker 1>really elevate that if you're already doing those big block things.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's funny because, like right at the start when

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<v Speaker 1>I was doing YouTube, you'll see I'm like making my

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<v Speaker 1>own pre workout, and I've got like all these different

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<v Speaker 1>ingredients and I'm making my own. I get like the

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<v Speaker 1>bear ingredients and make my own just because I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>find natural supplements that weren't filled with crap and like

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<v Speaker 1>they didn't have the synthetic stimulants. I get anxiety very easily,

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<v Speaker 1>so I just kind of have a sensitive nervous system,

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<v Speaker 1>and because my life is already quite stressful, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>need synthetic stimulants that kind of make my nervous system crash.

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<v Speaker 1>So you can literally see me like making my own

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<v Speaker 1>And the reason why we say that is because I

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<v Speaker 1>personally found that any pre workout I tried, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>me and Tim would be taking the same pre workout

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<v Speaker 1>and it would just be horrible. I'd either it would

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<v Speaker 1>would get this really bad crash that sort of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of pre workouts I used to take like

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<v Speaker 1>But yes, Okay, now let's get into the episode. So,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, this episode has really come about because

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<v Speaker 1>I really feel like I'm at this point where if

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<v Speaker 1>you told me like two years ago what I was

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<v Speaker 1>doing right now, I wouldn't believe you at all. So

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<v Speaker 1>two years ago, I definitely thought, oh, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>be a family lawyer. I'm currently working in family law.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I've got this good job, I'm in this

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<v Speaker 1>really good firm. This is what I'm supposed to be doing.

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<v Speaker 1>I just studied for six years, this is what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>doing sort of thing. And so basically there just came

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<v Speaker 1>this point where I knew I will firstly like, I

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<v Speaker 1>was not happy. I knew I wasn't happy, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just knew that if I didn't follow what my gut

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<v Speaker 1>was telling me and what I was feeling, I knew

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<v Speaker 1>I would regret it. And so it just got to

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<v Speaker 1>this point where I got admitted, and that's something I

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<v Speaker 1>personally want to do. So I kind of had these

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<v Speaker 1>feelings maybe six months before I got admitted, but I

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<v Speaker 1>said to myself, I, you know, I've just studied six years,

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<v Speaker 1>I've worked in this firm. Let's just get admitted. Get

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<v Speaker 1>that certificate, finish this, and then I can decide if

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<v Speaker 1>I am going to pursue law or if I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to do something else. And there was obviously also so

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of noise. As you can imagine, I had

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<v Speaker 1>just studied for five years, I was working full time

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<v Speaker 1>in a really good law firm, and then I was

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<v Speaker 1>also doing my pot and yeah, so you can imagine

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<v Speaker 1>that sort of discussion that I had, even with my parents,

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<v Speaker 1>like with people and just I remember their faces and

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<v Speaker 1>they would just were like, so, You're not going to

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<v Speaker 1>do law. And I knew it sounded silly to everyone else.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew it didn't look like the best option. But

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<v Speaker 1>then I also knew inside, like I was like, this

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<v Speaker 1>is the step I have to take. And at that

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<v Speaker 1>point I had no idea that I was going to

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<v Speaker 1>do the ebook or Naked Harvest or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I just knew that the current path I was on

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<v Speaker 1>was not my path. Not that it wasn't my path,

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<v Speaker 1>because I think to that point was, but I just

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<v Speaker 1>knew it had finished, and I knew I needed to

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<v Speaker 1>sort of start the next thing and take this bold

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<v Speaker 1>action and take this step. And now looking back, it

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<v Speaker 1>was that step that then had the domino effect of

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<v Speaker 1>everything that has now gone on and happened in you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just over a year. And it's funny because I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>not that person who takes bold action, like looking back,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm a very safe human in regards of like

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<v Speaker 1>even in high school when you're not really that mature,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember thinking to myself, I will do law because

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's a well respected career. I know albiata

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<v Speaker 1>provide for my family. I knew I could get the

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<v Speaker 1>grades to get into that degree. Like it was a

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<v Speaker 1>very well thought out decision, and it was safe for

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<v Speaker 1>me personally, and I didn't even think once of what

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<v Speaker 1>are my passions, like, what am I passionate about? What

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<v Speaker 1>are my dreams? Like? What could I do in my

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<v Speaker 1>life and feel really fulfilled? It was very much about

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<v Speaker 1>the safe option and also what society viewed as I

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<v Speaker 1>should do. And so I'm really like, I'm very much

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<v Speaker 1>that safe human who stays in her lane and doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>really dream big. So now looking back, it's even crazy

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<v Speaker 1>that I took that action, but oh my god, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>like that was the step that really made me obviously

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<v Speaker 1>onto this path and really step into my power. And

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<v Speaker 1>I absolutely love that saying. I'm currently looking at it

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<v Speaker 1>on my vision board, and I really didn't know what

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<v Speaker 1>it kind of meant till now because the person I

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<v Speaker 1>was just over a year a year ago is so

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<v Speaker 1>different and obviously, like that person briefly, she wasn't fake,

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't made up, she was still me. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>this like new, more authentic, elevated sort of person, like

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<v Speaker 1>I feel more myself. And I know it's very normal

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<v Speaker 1>for others to sort of feel like you should just

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<v Speaker 1>follow suit, like you should not follow your dreams, not

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<v Speaker 1>follow your passions, because you know, it's a silly idea,

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<v Speaker 1>and society says we should go to university, get a

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<v Speaker 1>safe job, but get a mortgage, and you know that's

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<v Speaker 1>the whole process. And I just want to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, because I want you to ask yourself. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you currently not following a dream or a passion because

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<v Speaker 1>you are scared of what people think? Or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you just spent a lot of time in a

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<v Speaker 1>different sort of position like I did. I spent five

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<v Speaker 1>years studying law and now I'm doing something completely different

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<v Speaker 1>and the sort of logical side of my brain is like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you doing? You should do law, so I

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<v Speaker 1>know others would feel the same, or maybe you're currently

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<v Speaker 1>in a safe career where you feel comfortable, like you

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<v Speaker 1>know exactly what you're doing every single day. You feel

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<v Speaker 1>really comfortable and it's safe. So what I want you,

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<v Speaker 1>guys to do, and this is something that I've done

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<v Speaker 1>previously and something I often do actually when I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of feel like I'm veering off my past. And I

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<v Speaker 1>want you to get a notepad. Obviously you don't do

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<v Speaker 1>this if you're driving. Pause this, get a notepad or

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<v Speaker 1>do this another time, but I want you to sit

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<v Speaker 1>down and write your ideal, your dream perfect day that

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<v Speaker 1>includes you know your career, what you're doing, and I

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<v Speaker 1>want you to write exactly what you're doing. I want

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<v Speaker 1>you to write how you feel in that moment. And

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<v Speaker 1>also I used to write a lot about my outside

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<v Speaker 1>things in my life, so I would also write my

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<v Speaker 1>morning routine, what that looked like, and then what I

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<v Speaker 1>was doing during the day, and then what I was

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<v Speaker 1>doing at night, and just kind of write your ideal

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<v Speaker 1>day if you were living out your dream. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to kind of think about what you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing now and really think if you are on the

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<v Speaker 1>right path, or if you could be taking old action

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<v Speaker 1>in your life to follow that dream, to really step

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<v Speaker 1>into your power and make your life yours. And I

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<v Speaker 1>know that sounds weird, but I don't know. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize for so long. But I'm in control

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<v Speaker 1>of my own life. I get to decide. And something

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<v Speaker 1>that I remember thinking is like, we already get one life.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know I don't want to be super deeper,

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<v Speaker 1>but I remember thinking, we only get one life. Do

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<v Speaker 1>I want to stay in this position where I know

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not happy? Like when I was at my corporate job,

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<v Speaker 1>like I looked around me and I didn't want the

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<v Speaker 1>lives that the people had that I was around. I

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<v Speaker 1>knew I wasn't happy, and I just knew I was

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be doing something else, Like intuitively, I just knew.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I want you to just sort of think

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<v Speaker 1>about this, and I guess this might be a little

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<v Speaker 1>pep talk you need if you want to take that

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<v Speaker 1>bold action. And I just could not recommend it enough

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<v Speaker 1>because looking back, and if I didn't take that bold

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<v Speaker 1>action to completely do a one eighty push away what

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<v Speaker 1>I was supposed to do and sort of follow my

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<v Speaker 1>dreams for my passions, I would not be where I

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<v Speaker 1>am today. And it's not even about what I've done

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<v Speaker 1>or anything like that, Like I know I say these

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<v Speaker 1>sort of milestones or accomplishments, but it's more about how

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<v Speaker 1>I feel. Like I said, I feel so authentically me

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<v Speaker 1>and what I'm supposed to be doing, like it's just

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<v Speaker 1>the best feeling. And so I want you to think

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<v Speaker 1>about if you are currently planning it safe or if

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<v Speaker 1>you can take this bold action and this first step,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm giving you permission to do it. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you now you're worthy of the success you crave.

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<v Speaker 1>You're worthy of your dream life, whatever it is, and

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<v Speaker 1>you get to decide your future and you have control

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<v Speaker 1>of your life. I don't know who needs to hear this,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's just something that's really been brought up lately

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<v Speaker 1>with the launch of Naked Harvest. And I want you

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<v Speaker 1>guys to be stepping into your power, to be rising

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<v Speaker 1>and conquering, obviously, and I know it can be really

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<v Speaker 1>hard sometimes I really get that. And something I like

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<v Speaker 1>to think about is, for so long I very much

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<v Speaker 1>was coasting life. And I want you to think about

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<v Speaker 1>your life and think, am I just coasting life or

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<v Speaker 1>am I really striving for what I want? Because personally,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought to myself, I don't want to look back

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<v Speaker 1>and just think, Wow, I was really coasting life. I

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<v Speaker 1>really was not going after what I wanted. And something

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<v Speaker 1>that I thought that will come up is I know

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of you. The thing holding you back with

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<v Speaker 1>this is the sense of belief that you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>in yourself and also because of the lack of support

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<v Speaker 1>you may have around you. And so it's funny. I

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<v Speaker 1>was watching Brene Brown's Netflix special and it's so good, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to go watch it. She's amazing, And this

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<v Speaker 1>quote really stuck out to me. And she was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of explaining how she had just done her TED talk

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<v Speaker 1>and she for people who don't know her, she is

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<v Speaker 1>a researcher on vulnerability and shame and she did this

0:19:29.359 --> 0:19:32.880
<v Speaker 1>TED talk about that, and she was saying she had

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<v Speaker 1>these really horrible comments on like the TED talk basically

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<v Speaker 1>went viral, and she had this really horrible comments and

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<v Speaker 1>something that kind of got her out of that place

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<v Speaker 1>where she was like freaking out about all these horrible

0:19:47.880 --> 0:19:50.479
<v Speaker 1>things that were saying about her. And so she's got

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<v Speaker 1>this quote and it's if you're not in the arena

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<v Speaker 1>getting your ass kicked, I'm not interested in your feedback.

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<v Speaker 1>And I love that because at the time when I

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<v Speaker 1>was making this decision, I did have a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people surrounding me that did not believe in my decision,

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<v Speaker 1>were quite negative with my choice. And I love this

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<v Speaker 1>because basically the quote is saying that if these people

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<v Speaker 1>who are giving you their opinions, who are showing lack

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<v Speaker 1>of support, if they're not also like taking bold action

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<v Speaker 1>and following their dreams, like their feedback and their opinion

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<v Speaker 1>does not matter, And that's something I very much thought

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<v Speaker 1>at the time. I just thought, I know you guys

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<v Speaker 1>aren't happy. I know you guys are don't believe in

0:20:39.320 --> 0:20:41.760
<v Speaker 1>this sort of thing, and that's okay. You just have

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure you filter out those opinions. And also, guys,

0:20:46.119 --> 0:20:48.720
<v Speaker 1>you have to be your own support. You have to

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<v Speaker 1>believe in yourself and basically be your own cheerleader. And

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<v Speaker 1>also something that may be stopping you is the fear

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<v Speaker 1>of failing or messing up or this not being the

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<v Speaker 1>right choice or route. And of course, of course you've

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<v Speaker 1>got to feel that way. Like anything that is a

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<v Speaker 1>big move always feels scary. And actually, there's another quote

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<v Speaker 1>from Brene Brown, I literally love her guys, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>there's no innovation and creativity without failure, period, which is

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<v Speaker 1>so true. Like over this year, I feel like I've

0:21:28.200 --> 0:21:32.040
<v Speaker 1>grown and learned so many lessons, and especially even stuff

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<v Speaker 1>with Naked Harvest, Like this is my first business from

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<v Speaker 1>the ground up. Obviously I have my personal brand, which

0:21:39.600 --> 0:21:42.240
<v Speaker 1>is my own business, but this is my first like

0:21:42.359 --> 0:21:46.920
<v Speaker 1>consumer business, and it's something I always wanted to do

0:21:47.040 --> 0:21:50.800
<v Speaker 1>because obviously as an influencer, I've had a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>opportunities from brands, you know, to do a collaboration product

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<v Speaker 1>and all that sort of thing. But for me, it

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<v Speaker 1>is all about having my own choices and being able

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<v Speaker 1>to run the company exactly how I'm like how obviously

0:22:08.000 --> 0:22:11.040
<v Speaker 1>I say I, but me and Cooper want that was

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<v Speaker 1>a really big thing for me. So stuff like we

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<v Speaker 1>get to pick the delivery boxes, we get to pick

0:22:17.560 --> 0:22:21.280
<v Speaker 1>the filling, like we chose by a degradable filling, and

0:22:21.720 --> 0:22:25.359
<v Speaker 1>just like little choices like that, that is a big

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<v Speaker 1>deal for me. So that's the whole reason why I

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<v Speaker 1>really wanted to build this from the ground up and

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<v Speaker 1>really be involved because to me like that was one

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<v Speaker 1>of my passions. And don't get me wrong, you can

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<v Speaker 1>imagine like I'm completely new at this, so there has

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<v Speaker 1>been so many mistakes, so many lessons, but like that

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<v Speaker 1>is the beauty of it. I personally, I love I

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<v Speaker 1>love failing. I love making mistakes because you now know

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<v Speaker 1>not how to do something and you find another way,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's how you grow as a person. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>creates you as a person, that's how you get better.

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<v Speaker 1>So don't be afraid of failure at all. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to wrap this episode up now. I just really

0:23:14.000 --> 0:23:17.399
<v Speaker 1>wanted to encourage you. If you are currently sitting in

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<v Speaker 1>this place where you haven't taken the bold action, it

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<v Speaker 1>intuitive you really feel like you want to, but you're scared.

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<v Speaker 1>I really wanted to encourage you to do that because

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<v Speaker 1>looking back, the bold action I talk in that small

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<v Speaker 1>step just dominoed onto who I am today. And I

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<v Speaker 1>honestly believe we're all put on this earth for a purpose.

0:23:43.600 --> 0:23:46.199
<v Speaker 2>Like I don't believe we've put on this earth to

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<v Speaker 2>get jobs, like nine to five jobs, Not that there's

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<v Speaker 2>anything wrong with that, but like you know, have these

0:23:51.680 --> 0:23:54.920
<v Speaker 2>jobs that we don't like always crave the weekends and

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<v Speaker 2>just like die Like.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe that at all. I'm not saying that

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<v Speaker 1>the next step or this fold action is your purpose

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<v Speaker 1>at all, Like I didn't think that personally. But if

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<v Speaker 1>you're listening to your intuition, you need to have belief

0:24:09.160 --> 0:24:13.480
<v Speaker 1>in yourself and this could be the stepping stone to

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<v Speaker 1>whatever's next on the right path. I really really believe that.

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<v Speaker 1>But yes, I am going to wrap this episode up.

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<v Speaker 1>It is a short and sweet one. Me and Mel

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<v Speaker 1>were talking and she was saying how she loves kind

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<v Speaker 1>of short episodes, and I do agree. I love short

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<v Speaker 1>podcast too, kind of like little stuff like this, like

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<v Speaker 1>just little pep talk podcast. So if you did like it,

0:24:38.640 --> 0:24:41.800
<v Speaker 1>please let me know, as I'd love your feedback on

0:24:42.000 --> 0:24:45.520
<v Speaker 1>little podcasts like this. But I hope you enjoyed this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>I will see you in my next one. The next

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<v Speaker 1>one is an interview with a very very exciting guess. Actually, also,

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to say, if you know someone who

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<v Speaker 1>might need this little talk, please past ask this episode

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<v Speaker 1>or the podcast onto them. I would really appreciate it,

0:25:05.720 --> 0:25:08.480
<v Speaker 1>and I'm sure they would really appreciate it too. But

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you have an absolute amazing day or night

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