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Speaker 1: Hello, my name's Santasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud yr

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Speaker 1: the Order Kerni Whoalbury and a waddery woman. And before

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Speaker 1: we get started on She's on the Money podcast, I

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Speaker 1: would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land

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Speaker 1: of which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country,

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Speaker 1: acknowledging the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming

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Speaker 1: through as this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing

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Speaker 1: and the storytelling of you to make a difference for

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Speaker 1: today and lasting impact for tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: Let's get into it.

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Speaker 3: She's on the Money. She's on the Money.

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Speaker 2: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast

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Speaker 2: for millennials who want financial freedom. Today, my friends, it's

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Speaker 2: no surprise it is Friday, which means it is time

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Speaker 2: to get our little team together and celebrate you, our

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Speaker 2: incredible She's on the Money community today, mister sy. She

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Speaker 2: is going to be sharing her favorite money wins. Beck

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Speaker 2: is going to be sharing her best broke tips, and

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Speaker 2: we'll be helping to answer a juicy money dilemma, which

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Speaker 2: this week is all about reframing your skills and getting

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Speaker 2: yourself out there we also get the opportunity to unpack

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Speaker 2: something that you slid into our DMS, about which this

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Speaker 2: week we're talking splitting cleaning costs after a party, which

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Speaker 2: I think got a little bit spicy in our DMS.

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Speaker 4: Jess, Oh it sure did.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's check in with the team before we

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Speaker 2: go any further. Beck, you're coming to us from the

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Speaker 2: Sydney Popcast studio. You're with a girl.

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Speaker 5: This is so weird.

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Speaker 2: Hey, it is very strange. What are you doing in Sydney.

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Speaker 2: You've got a big dog career moment. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Actually, I don't know if you know it, but I'm

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Speaker 6: like rich and faith famous, so pretty much is traveling

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Speaker 6: for work. No, I'm actually traveling to see my family

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Speaker 6: and friends. No friends, actually just my family, and I'm

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Speaker 6: kind of coming to this in the office just to

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Speaker 6: meet my team some for the very first time ever.

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Speaker 6: So I thought, you know, may as well just give

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Speaker 6: it a go midyear, right after payday was kind of

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Speaker 6: the perfect timing. But yeah, this is very strange. I

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Speaker 6: kind of like it though. I kind of like it.

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Speaker 2: It's actually triggering me a little bit, Jess, from when

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Speaker 2: we would have to record, Yeah, every single episode remotely

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Speaker 2: like I just I loved it because it was what

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Speaker 2: I guess kept me going throughout COVID, being to record

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Speaker 2: and hang out with you guys online. But oh my gosh,

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Speaker 2: having you on riverside, which is like our online platform,

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Speaker 2: you could say, for recording podcasts remotely, I'm just like, what.

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Speaker 5: Got fomo?

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Speaker 2: I can't even see Jess anyway. We'll bring her over.

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Speaker 2: I'll bring her over. She can sit next to me

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Speaker 2: and you can see her, Jess as your week being

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Speaker 2: just as colorful. What have you been up to?

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Speaker 4: Oh, it's been a good week. I went on a

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Speaker 2: The most aesthetic weekend get away I've seen in my life.

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Speaker 2: Where did you go?

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Speaker 4: What did you do us? We went to Castle, Maine,

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Speaker 4: which I'd never been to before. I'm working with Visit

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Speaker 4: Victoria to showcase some regional little spots, which was really fun.

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Speaker 4: And I got to go with my bestie and have

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Speaker 4: Like we went antiquing and had a picnic and I

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Speaker 4: fed a duck from my hand, a wild duck, a

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Speaker 4: wild duck. Yes, And before anyone comes to me. I

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Speaker 4: didn't feed it bread. I feeded a grape cut in

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Speaker 2: I love that you know that we're at that stage

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Speaker 2: where people are going to come for you for feeding

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Speaker 2: the duck. Who bread? Yes, I didn't even know that

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Speaker 2: me it's absolutely an issue.

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Speaker 4: There is lots of discourse online to do. Okay, I

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Speaker 4: did my research.

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Speaker 2: Okay, thank you for feeding the duck grapes. Grapes are

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Speaker 4: Locally sourced organic grapes that we bought at the market

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Speaker 2: Let's get into it. Though. I really like ducks. I

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Speaker 4: The market where I got the grapes, they sold chickens,

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Speaker 4: I nearly brought home a little pet chicken, but I

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Speaker 2: That's very good restraint.

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Speaker 5: Why didn't you buy one?

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Speaker 4: Because I have two cats and I just feel like

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Speaker 2: Oh, I see you can make anything work. You can

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Speaker 2: it work. I would make it work, all right, Jess.

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Speaker 2: I want to know that would have been a money loss.

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Speaker 2: But I want to know what our community have as

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Speaker 4: So my first money when this week comes from a

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Speaker 4: chantal who said I had my annual pay review, received

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Speaker 4: a ten k per year pay rise, plus an extra

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. Beck and I were recording a deep

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Speaker 2: not just about views, it's about how many abusive comments

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Speaker 4: Yes, thank you for lovely random people on the internet.

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Speaker 2: It was literally my favorite. Like I just laugh at

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Speaker 2: them like it doesn't do anything and just tells me

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Speaker 5: We're going to come for you for that one, here cha.

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Speaker 4: My next moment comes from Grace, who said I was

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Speaker 4: looking online for a new book to read, potentially spending

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Speaker 2: That's so wholesome and also reminds me that libraries do

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Speaker 4: Someone told me, I remember how a week or two

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Speaker 4: how to sew. Someone told me libraries have maker studios

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Speaker 2: Shape, you can borrow my sewing machine. I appreciate. I

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Speaker 2: I actually did get this. You twelve textiles, wow, because

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Speaker 2: I just really wanted to bring my score down because

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Speaker 2: I can actually sew wholesome sewing day at sale is good.

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Speaker 5: Or how that is very cute, very wholesome, better than

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Speaker 2: I can do a kits stitch.

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Speaker 4: I don't even know where that is, so you already

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Speaker 4: thanks a kitoy. My next money when it comes from

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Speaker 4: It took me ages to get around to doing it,

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Speaker 2: Love what else have you got?

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Speaker 4: Jess from Angela, I have a money in that says

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Speaker 4: I had a punctuary my tire and I went to

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Speaker 2: That's what I thought.

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Speaker 4: We always comment on how mechanics sometimes do a bit

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Speaker 2: See you're broken tire. We definitely can't fix you have

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Speaker 5: Yeah, in fact, your whole engine has falled out.

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Speaker 4: Love that. And lastly, I have a money win from

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Speaker 2: Please litter our money wins thread each and every single

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Speaker 2: week with your photos. And if you don't have a photo,

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Speaker 2: just like post a selfie or something. I'm so here

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Speaker 2: Yes, cat tax. I believe that's called cat tax.

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Speaker 4: We love a cat. There's a group chat with me,

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Speaker 4: Gabby and Victoria called pet appreciation for him, and I'm

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like through chat. You need something for work, great,

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Speaker 6: Sorry, just we're not listening. Yeah, can't he We're not

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Speaker 4: I'll come hold a photo in front of the camera

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Speaker 2: That is actually it, Like, that's actually what happens. And

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Speaker 2: I'm not sorry about it. It's just how our business works.

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Speaker 5: I wouldn't have it any other way personally me neither.

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Speaker 2: Is that all you've got this week, Jessica, that's everything?

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Well you know what that means. We

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Speaker 2: get to very subtly segue straight into Beck's broke tips.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, what have you got this week? I've

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Speaker 2: got a couple this week.

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Speaker 6: I feel as though something's biting you on the leg.

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Speaker 6: So if I seem distracted, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: And Alisa get out from under the table. Ali through again,

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Speaker 2: she's actually in my studio, not yours.

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Speaker 6: Don't let the truth get in the way of a

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Speaker 6: good story. Well that's what I was so shocked about,

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Speaker 5: She's still biting on a leg.

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Speaker 2: I don't understand all the time.

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Speaker 6: Okay, So my first broke tip of this week comes

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Speaker 6: from Laura, who says that they take a small bottle

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Speaker 6: basically you fill up your water bottle at work, which

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Speaker 6: is a money win. Because I'm sorry, a broke tip. Sorry, Jess,

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Speaker 5: Very great idea. Don't even chuck the heater on. You

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Speaker 5: I'm not doing that right now.

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Speaker 6: But what I will tell you is that a cheap

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Speaker 4: Gotchaka?

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Speaker 5: Did I say something about sandwich?

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Speaker 2: I thought she was like full broke tipping her broke

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Speaker 2: The sandwiches and you can make toast. Where are you

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Speaker 5: No, this one wasn't about sandwiches. This is like more

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Speaker 2: A grocery right a, right, Sorry, Sorry, I didn't mean

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Speaker 6: Let me know if this sounds too familiar. And then

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Speaker 6: I'm also saying bassa fill it. It's a very cheap,

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Speaker 6: I'm saying, you're gonna be hungry all week. But that

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Speaker 6: very cheap fish that is also filling, also tasty, also

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Speaker 2: That's really smart. And bassa when it's frozen is even cheaper,

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Speaker 2: and yea's still good when you defrust it.

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Speaker 6: Yes, don't ask me why it's cheap. I don't want

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Speaker 6: to know why it's cheap. But it is so cheap

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Speaker 2: Let's not even question that. No people in our DMS,

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Speaker 4: I don't want to hear why the fish is cheap.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes we're asking for feedback, sometimes we're not. This time,

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Speaker 6: So you will ruin fish you will, and you'll also

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Speaker 5: So and but.

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Speaker 6: This is I'm only talking about if you're like a

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Speaker 6: But also if your child's like, you know, the only

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Speaker 5: Just everything frozen. Frozen is cheap. I don't you know.

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Speaker 5: There's obviously reasons why it's cheap. It's probably not the

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Speaker 6: Bassa phil, it's cheap white rice, get all the home

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Speaker 7: You just.

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Speaker 2: A really good tip when you say your child will

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Speaker 2: I will put in the newsletter for today. It will

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Speaker 2: be my unsolicited recommendation because you didn't ask for Victoria's

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Speaker 2: And it can be so well seasoned, and you can

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Speaker 2: What what is it not Irish squacamole.

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Speaker 4: I've never heard.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what that tells me? Beck I didn't

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Speaker 4: I haven't heard you say it before.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, if Irish brocamlt mashed potato. Anyway, Moving on,

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Speaker 2: a dahl is such an easy recipe to make, and

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure a recipe of dahl each serve is

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Speaker 4: What I didn't Just you didn't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I calculated how much cinnamon I used. Did that?

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Speaker 2: It was zero point four cents oh word for cinnamon

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Speaker 2: I'm like that bowl, that bowl you had to buy

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, we try theero point four cents of cinnamon

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Speaker 2: because it's basically like a buttered chicken style dull. So

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Speaker 2: it's cheap as chips, and it tastes really good and

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Speaker 2: you can have it with rice, and it's honestly a

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Speaker 2: ten out of ten meal. I say it's Victoria's dahlma

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Speaker 2: This isn't it cany it. It's my budget hacked up

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Speaker 4: Amazing.

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Speaker 5: I love that. I love that Tudka.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, you're the only person on the team that's allowed

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Speaker 5: I am. I am no joke. I'll make you a

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Speaker 2: Day, thank you. I'm in for it. All right. With that,

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Speaker 2: let's go to a really quick break. On the flip side,

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Speaker 2: we're going to be talking about reframing your skills to

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Speaker 2: been blowing up our dms this week about splitting cleaning

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Speaker 4: Welcome back, everybody, Let's listen to this week's money dilemma.

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Speaker 7: Hi, love Lies, I'm hoping you can help me. I

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Speaker 7: have five K in credit card debt that I want cleared,

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Speaker 7: but I'm struggling to make any progress on my eighty

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Speaker 7: a second income stream, but am at a loss what

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Speaker 7: to do? Do you have any suggestions on side hustles

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Speaker 7: for a personal assistant slash admin professional. I have twenty

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Speaker 7: I think about what skills I have to offer and

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I want to hugue you.

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Speaker 4: That makes my heart sad that you're doubting yourself and

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Speaker 4: your skills, and you've obviously got so many years of

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Speaker 4: So if they can do it, so can you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Like, that's basically the entire segment. Thank you for coming. Like,

443
00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:33,640
Speaker 2: there is a quote, and it's not a nice quote,

444
00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:35,400
Speaker 2: but we're going to put it on the podcast anyway.

445
00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:38,280
Speaker 2: There are dumber people doing smarter things than you are. Yeah,

446
00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:41,280
Speaker 2: there go literally and it always motivates me. I'm like, yeah,

447
00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:45,200
Speaker 2: you're right, there's no reason why I couldn't do anything

448
00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:47,439
Speaker 2: that I'm putting my mind to because I feel like

449
00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:50,080
Speaker 2: so many of the skills the employers look for are

450
00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:54,359
Speaker 2: not something that is I guess as measurable as I

451
00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:56,879
Speaker 2: guess a technical skill. So like, I want you to

452
00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:58,679
Speaker 2: be on time, I want you to be polite, I

453
00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:00,359
Speaker 2: want you to be kind, I want you to have

454
00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:03,320
Speaker 2: a really high attention to detail. None of those things

455
00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:06,479
Speaker 2: come from your level of intelligence, but more from your

456
00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:09,240
Speaker 2: ability to apply yourself. And I feel like this is

457
00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:10,680
Speaker 2: the theme of the week, so I'm going to repeat

458
00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:12,879
Speaker 2: it again because I basically want to drill it into

459
00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:16,000
Speaker 2: everybody's brains. But Beck and I were recording earlier this

460
00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:18,080
Speaker 2: week a deep dive, and I said it on there,

461
00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:19,680
Speaker 2: so we're going to say it again. That will come

462
00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:20,959
Speaker 2: out in a couple of weeks and it will make

463
00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:24,679
Speaker 2: sense to you. But having a low opinion of yourself

464
00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:29,000
Speaker 2: is not humble. It is actually self destruction. And I

465
00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:32,880
Speaker 2: think that by reframing our thoughts, you could change yourself

466
00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:36,320
Speaker 2: into anyone you want to be. You stay at home, mum, Jess, great,

467
00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:38,800
Speaker 2: you're out of the workforce for twenty years. You're probably

468
00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:41,600
Speaker 2: looking at that going far out. I have no tangible skills.

469
00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:45,640
Speaker 2: Your project management skills illite. Your time management, oh my gosh, amazing.

470
00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:49,960
Speaker 2: You can manage multiple priorities. That's fantastic. There are so

471
00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:53,040
Speaker 2: many things that you do that you need to be

472
00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 2: able to see to get other people to see. And

473
00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:58,720
Speaker 2: if you can't see your own value, it clouds the

474
00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:01,439
Speaker 2: value that other people able to see in you. So

475
00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:04,560
Speaker 2: it is really at your own detriment if you're not

476
00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:08,159
Speaker 2: seeing yourself as valuable, because I promise you are. Like,

477
00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:12,800
Speaker 2: reframing things is so important, But sitting down and going well,

478
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,919
Speaker 2: what do I do? And your job description might be

479
00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:19,320
Speaker 2: a little bit helpful. But I guarantee it's not about

480
00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:21,320
Speaker 2: what's on the list. It's about the things that go

481
00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:25,200
Speaker 2: beyond that that are the selling points, right Like Jess,

482
00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:28,159
Speaker 2: for example, if I take your job descriptions for Partnerships

483
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,640
Speaker 2: manager at She's on the money. There are all these

484
00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:34,400
Speaker 2: tick boxes. But if you then flipped it and said, Victoria,

485
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Speaker 2: what do you like about what I do it, she's

486
00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:43,080
Speaker 2: on the money you already know, but tell me anyway, absolutely,

487
00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:46,640
Speaker 2: but it's not that you fulfill your job description. It's

488
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:48,840
Speaker 2: that you're a client human and that our clients really

489
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:51,280
Speaker 2: like interacting with you. And you've got the ability to

490
00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 2: manage multiple priorities and still maintain a head about you.

491
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Speaker 2: There are so many different things that to me are

492
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Speaker 2: really important and the reason you have the job, Yeah,

493
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 2: you do the job like that's you know, let's say

494
00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 2: a hygiene factor. But I think to be able to

495
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:09,200
Speaker 2: see these things about yourself, that's when you are able

496
00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:11,560
Speaker 2: to reframe your skills and put yourself out there a

497
00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,880
Speaker 2: bit more. And I guess you know there are those

498
00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:16,679
Speaker 2: silly quotes where you know, sillier people are doing smarter

499
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 2: things like yes, because do you know what silly people

500
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:21,600
Speaker 2: have audacity.

501
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:22,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure.

502
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,080
Speaker 2: In a while, I'm gonna throw my own dad under

503
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 2: the bus literally right now, guys, Dad, I love you.

504
00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:31,640
Speaker 2: But this is just a really good example. Guys. Look

505
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Speaker 2: at this screenshot of a text message that my dad

506
00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:39,960
Speaker 2: sent inspirational messages from eric device today. It's a picture

507
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:43,399
Speaker 2: of an old guy. It's a painting, and it says

508
00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:46,160
Speaker 2: on it, when you're dead, you know that you're dead.

509
00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 2: The pain it's felt by others, the same thing happens

510
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:50,960
Speaker 2: when you're stupid.

511
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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, Dad, that's a very dad esque.

512
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 2: But it's I'm not calling anybody stupid. I just think

513
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:03,679
Speaker 2: it's all about reframing, like, you're a smart human being

514
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 2: and we need to see ourselves as such. Like you

515
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 2: have so much value I promise you do at the

516
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 2: end of the day. Like you genuinely are smarter than

517
00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:17,200
Speaker 2: most people that do your job because you've been doing

518
00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:19,280
Speaker 2: it for so long and there's so much value in

519
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:21,800
Speaker 2: that as well. You've seen the peaks and the truughs

520
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:26,440
Speaker 2: of your industry. You have experienced lots of different challenging circumstances.

521
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:29,920
Speaker 2: You've probably had to manage multiple priorities you've probably had

522
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 2: to go through a lot to get where you are today,

523
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Speaker 2: and I think it's just so important to be able

524
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 2: to point that out. I think from my perspective, that

525
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:41,680
Speaker 2: feels like a lot to swallow. So if I were you,

526
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 2: and that's what my ultimate goal was to, I guess,

527
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:47,119
Speaker 2: put myself out there and get more work and you know,

528
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 2: change things, I would actually start with so fluffy, but

529
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:53,000
Speaker 2: a little bit of self work, like how don't you

530
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 2: sit down and talk to yourself about this, Like write

531
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Speaker 2: a list of the things that you think you're good at.

532
00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:59,199
Speaker 2: Like you can burn the list later because you might

533
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,240
Speaker 2: be embarrassed of all things that you're writing down because

534
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 2: you're like, oh my gosh, I feel like I've got

535
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,880
Speaker 2: so many tickets for myself by writing this. But write

536
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 2: a list of the things that you're good at. Are

537
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,640
Speaker 2: you good at communicating? Are you really good at project

538
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,239
Speaker 2: management and time management? Are you really good at, you know,

539
00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 2: maybe whipping together in Excel spreadsheet. It depends on who

540
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:19,000
Speaker 2: you are and what you do. But write down all

541
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 2: of those things so that you can see them. Because

542
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:25,160
Speaker 2: the more you believe in yourself, the easier it is

543
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 2: for other people to buy into that belief. Yeah, for sure.

544
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Speaker 2: What are the tips and tricks have you guys got

545
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Speaker 2: I would.

546
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Speaker 4: Say, just to her question about what side hustle she

547
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:36,800
Speaker 4: could do that were kind of admin based or focused,

548
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:41,440
Speaker 4: I would suggest getting on platforms like fiver or air tasker,

549
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 4: because you can pick up really simple once off tasks.

550
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 4: I think, especially if you're just starting to side hustle

551
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 4: and you're fitting it in around a full time job,

552
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,440
Speaker 4: it can be tricky to juggle priorities, especially when you've

553
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 4: got other just life general things that you have to

554
00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 4: attend to. So taking on once off jobs here and

555
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,159
Speaker 4: there when you've got the time and the capacity is

556
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:02,400
Speaker 4: a really straightforward way to kind of make it work

557
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,679
Speaker 4: for you. And those platforms are really great. Like I

558
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:06,840
Speaker 4: remember once someone had paid me five bucks to save

559
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 4: something to a PDF, like there is some no they

560
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 4: didn't like, you know, And if you have any skills

561
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 4: like video editing, I've done a lot of just like

562
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:18,160
Speaker 4: thank you ble no, but it's you know, people who

563
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 4: need just a video cut together, and it's a really

564
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 4: straightforward thing if you've got the skill set or lots

565
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:24,640
Speaker 4: of times there'll be people who just need a little

566
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 4: bit of assistance. With maybe some admin management, some email management,

567
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 4: templating for resumes and copywriting very frequently asked for, so

568
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:33,440
Speaker 4: you can pick up once off jobs and then maybe

569
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 4: once you build a bit of momentum up, you can

570
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 4: offer it as a niche skill. Maybe you set up

571
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 4: a website, but obviously that's a bit more investment and time.

572
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 4: So getting on platforms that already exist makes it easy.

573
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:44,439
Speaker 4: You can pick and choose what you do. You can

574
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 4: build up a bit of an existing client base and

575
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 4: some recommendations, and then down the track if you want

576
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 4: to do more, you can kind of leverage off of that.

577
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you can kind of price yourself cheaper at

578
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 2: the start to get some reviews, and as you get

579
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:58,639
Speaker 2: better and better reviews, you can increase your process because

580
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 2: you become a trusted member of that platform. Like so

581
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 2: many times I'll be like, oh, they're charging X for

582
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 2: that and they have no reviews. No, But if you

583
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,119
Speaker 2: get a few reviews behind you, you're more likely to

584
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:12,199
Speaker 2: get that momentum in I guess picking up clients, and

585
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 2: it's a very smart way of I guess side hustling

586
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 2: and bringing in a little bit of extra income. And

587
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 2: also it can build your confidence as well, because if

588
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 2: you price yourself at a point where you go, yeah,

589
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 2: I know that job is providing value to somebody else.

590
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 2: I'm getting a little bit of income from it. It's

591
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 2: going to give me a really good review. They give

592
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,399
Speaker 2: you a review. You're increasing your confidence and wow, like

593
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 2: I can do that. I'm going to charge five dollars more,

594
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 2: and over time that compounds and then you're charging exactly

595
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:43,920
Speaker 2: what every other freelancer would and you're feeling confident about it.

596
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 2: So I think that that's really smart. Beck. Where would

597
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:47,439
Speaker 2: you start? What would you do?

598
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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's a really tough one and such a struggle

599
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:53,360
Speaker 6: that I feel like everyone you know a lot, well

600
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 6: not everyone, but I feel like a lot of people

601
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 6: can relate to right now. And it's very sad that

602
00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 6: that's the situation, having to, you know, take more time

603
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 6: out of your regular life that you want to live

604
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 6: because you can't afford to pay for mortgage or rental

605
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 6: or whatever the case may be. But honestly, I would

606
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 6: just say hang in there. It's really really poor advice,

607
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 6: Like I don't have advice on how to start a

608
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 6: side hustle and kind of like get back into an

609
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 6: industry or into an industry, but I just as.

610
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,920
Speaker 5: A little confidence boost. You can do this, and.

611
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 6: You got this and it's really, really, really sucks, and

612
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 6: I'm proud of you for being like, you know, I

613
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 6: will just get a side hustle, and you know that

614
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 6: it's going to take a lot a chunk out of

615
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 6: your free spare time. But proud of you if you're

616
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:42,920
Speaker 6: doing that. And I think that hopefully eventually everything will

617
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:44,160
Speaker 6: be okay.

618
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, that's very useless.

619
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Speaker 2: Good pep talk back. I think that that hits the

620
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 2: nail on the head. I think just getting started. Just

621
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 2: try it out, just try it out. I mean, at

622
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:56,680
Speaker 2: the end of the day, I feel like you're right back.

623
00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 2: Lots of people in our community are struggling with paying

624
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 2: their mortgage, the spiraling cost of living, and I think,

625
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 2: just put yourself out there, like you're clearly a well articulated,

626
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 2: smart person and I can tell that just from a

627
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:10,119
Speaker 2: voicemail you left us, so I have no doubt that

628
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 2: your clients would be really happy to hear from you.

629
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,119
Speaker 2: It's honestly, it's about confidence.

630
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 6: Hopefully someone reaches out after listening to this and be like, hey,

631
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:17,919
Speaker 6: I've got this little thing that you can do or

632
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:19,680
Speaker 6: you know, I agree.

633
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 2: All right, speaking of a little thing you can do.

634
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,639
Speaker 2: We had a community dilemma this week that was a

635
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 2: little bit spicy and very one sided when it came

636
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 2: to the responses from our community, which I thought was

637
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 2: really funny because twenty percent of you said yes to

638
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 2: this and eighty percent said absolutely not. So here is

639
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 2: our community dilemma. This week. We got a message and

640
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 2: it sounded a little like this, Hey, girls, I really

641
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 2: need your opinion. My friend had a big group of

642
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 2: girls over to her house for drinks on the weekend.

643
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 2: There were about fifteen to twenty of us, which was

644
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 2: super fun. However, she's now messaged everyone asking us to

645
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 2: transfer her money in brackets immediately to help hire a

646
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 2: professional to clean her house. She said that there were

647
00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 2: drinks built on the carpet and in the kitchen, and

648
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 2: that the living area and the bathroom are now really

649
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 2: dirty and she felt like we didn't respect her space.

650
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 2: I don't think I should have to pay, as it

651
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 2: was her choice to host us all knowing the consequences

652
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 2: of the house getting dirty, and I low key feel

653
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:20,840
Speaker 2: like she's using this to get a free house clean.

654
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 2: It's not really in my budget for this week to

655
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 2: pay her. But a lot of my friends have said

656
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 2: they're happy to transfer, and now I feel like I'm

657
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 2: being the bad guy. What do I do? How do

658
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 2: I say I would rather not without making this friendship awkward?

659
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 2: Vacon Jess, what are your thoughts? What happens if I

660
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 2: hosted a little house party and then sent you a

661
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 2: message after and said, hey, Jess, ho bet, can you

662
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 2: please transfer me thirty bucks because you used my house

663
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 2: and now it's messy, and yeah, I would like to

664
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 2: hire a professional cleaner instead of cleaning it myself.

665
00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 6: This is really a tough one because if there is

666
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 6: genuine like red wine stains on a white rug or

667
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 6: something in like someone just like really came in and

668
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 6: didn't respect your house and like broke some glasses and

669
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 6: did all this stuff, like really destroyed it or several people,

670
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 6: I guess it's hard to kind of narrow down who

671
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:13,400
Speaker 6: the person was or the people were that kind of

672
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:13,960
Speaker 6: did this, But.

673
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 5: It still feels a bit like not Okay, I don't know,

674
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 5: I don't know.

675
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 6: I guess if they just came in and made a mess,

676
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 6: a regular normal mess, one that you might find after

677
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 6: any gathero or house party or whatever, then definitely don't

678
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 6: pay for that, just clean it. I don't know, it

679
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 6: does get a little bit complicated if there's like real

680
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 6: stains on, like really expensive furniture and things.

681
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 4: I just feel like if I went to a party

682
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 4: and I was respectful of the space and I did

683
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 4: all the right things, and then someone expected me to

684
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 4: cover someone else's damage, I'd be pissed off. Like if

685
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 4: you're like, if if one person in the group got

686
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 4: real messy, really drunk.

687
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 2: You need to take it up with them.

688
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, do you know what I mean? And as Beck said,

689
00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 4: I know that it's hard to narrow it down, but

690
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 4: I would kind of being well, if I did all

691
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 4: of the right things, why on earth should I be

692
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 4: held responsible for the actions of somebody else? And I

693
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 4: feel like from what she said, you know, mess in

694
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 4: the bathroom, mess in the kitchen, that is a very

695
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 4: standard thing if you're hosting, you know, an evening where

696
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 4: people are perhaps partaking in a beverage, a bee or yeah,

697
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 4: you know, stuff spilled on the carpet is another thing.

698
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 4: But I also think that there are ways to clean

699
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 4: that as well, Like have you said, hey, like, have

700
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 4: you just tried cleaning it. Have you, Stane rub have

701
00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 4: you maybe messaged the group and said, hey, guys, like

702
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 4: someone spilled something on the floor, did anyone have any

703
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 4: ideas on how I could clean it? Maybe someone you

704
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:35,479
Speaker 4: would hope if they're good people, would they someone would say, oh,

705
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 4: it was me, I'm so sorry. Let me help you.

706
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 4: I can pay for it. Like, I just don't think

707
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 4: it's reasonable to put that expectation on everybody unless everyone

708
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 4: was going crazy and as Beck said, like absolutely trashing

709
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:50,440
Speaker 4: the place. But in that case, why would you kind

710
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 4: of host to begin with? I don't know. I don't

711
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 4: want a victim blame here, but I just think that

712
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:57,480
Speaker 4: there's probably better ways to go around it than just

713
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 4: immediately saying, hey, everybody, you have to put in for

714
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 4: this expect that you didn't expect, when on some level,

715
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 4: cleanup is an expected part of hosting.

716
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 2: I feel icky about this one because obviously it's an

717
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 2: unexpected cost that if I hosted a house party and

718
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 2: then you messed up my house, I think it's on me,

719
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 2: not on you. But also, what friends are you having over?

720
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 2: Did you know that they would act like this?

721
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 1: Like?

722
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a fair few different friends from lots

723
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 2: of different walks of life. And there are a few

724
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 2: friends that I would be like, absolutely not are they

725
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 2: coming to my house to have a house party, because

726
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 2: they will trash this place if they, you know, have

727
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 2: a few too many bevrashiash And by me offering to

728
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 2: host them, I'm opening myself up to that risk. And

729
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 2: if you don't want to host, and you don't want

730
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 2: to have your house essentially trashed, one why you're hosting

731
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 2: a party where that could get so out of hand,

732
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 2: Like maybe don't offer your space to do that, or maybe.

733
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 4: Call out the behavior, like if someone's being out that

734
00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 4: was really really truc and they're there and you're like,

735
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 4: oh my gosh, I can see things happening. I can

736
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 4: see that you're going crazy. Maybe just nicely says them, Hey,

737
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 4: can I get you a cab to get you home?

738
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 4: Like I'm just a bit worried about you, or I

739
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 4: just think maybe you need to sleep it off. Can

740
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 4: I organize a lift for you or help you get

741
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 4: home in some way?

742
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 2: I totally agree with you. I also feel like the

743
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 2: way this read to me was like fifteen to twenty people,

744
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 2: that's a pretty well sized house party, Like you were

745
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 2: planning on having a house party where everyone was drinking.

746
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 2: I'm assuming it wasn't like a quaint dinner party where

747
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 2: we're all sitting around the table having out bevraginos with

748
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 2: a like cheese platter right like by the way she

749
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 2: was like, oh, there was like drinks on the carpet

750
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 2: in the kitchen, in the living area and the bathroom,

751
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 2: Like yeah, I don't know what type of like dinner

752
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 2: party or a house party you're having where the bathroom

753
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 2: gets absolutely filthy, Like I've never had that. And as

754
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 2: you know, Beck and Jess note, I love entertaining, like

755
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 2: I love having people over, and I feel like everyone's

756
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 2: always respected my space, like I've never been like, yeah,

757
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 2: in the bathroom's disgusting, Like what are you doing in

758
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 2: the bathroom of somebody else house to make it disgusting?

759
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 2: So I feel like you kind of do open yourself

760
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 2: up to that again, if it was completely out of hand,

761
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 2: I think approaching it in the same way that you

762
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 2: did Jess, where you're like, maybe you should take the

763
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 2: conversation to the group, not make the decision, and then

764
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,399
Speaker 2: go by the way you owe me money, Because if

765
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:23,160
Speaker 2: you're young, it's very unlikely that having the amount of

766
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 2: money in your bank account to share in a professional

767
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 2: cleaner is a fair assumption. Like, you're probably having house

768
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 2: parties because if you're anything like young Victoria, you had

769
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:34,319
Speaker 2: a house parties because you couldn't afford to go out.

770
00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 8: Yeah, Like, if you're over at my house, it's usually

771
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 8: a budget decision, Jess, Yeah, for sure, Like it's not Yeah, like,

772
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 8: I mean, I also love having people over for dinner parties,

773
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:45,880
Speaker 8: but it's if we're having house party.

774
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 2: It's because it's way too expensive to like go to

775
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 2: a venue per se. Anyway, do we have any thoughts

776
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:53,280
Speaker 2: before we go to what the community said?

777
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 4: No, I want to hear what everybody else had to say,

778
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 4: because we've all been very one sided.

779
00:34:57,600 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 2: Yeah. So that eighty twenty split that I dropped before

780
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 2: that was to the question do you think it's reasonable

781
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 2: for the host to ask people to transfer her Twenty

782
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 2: percent said yes, eighty percent of you said no.

783
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:08,120
Speaker 4: Yep.

784
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:11,280
Speaker 2: We asked, whose responsibility is it to pay for the cleaning?

785
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 2: A ninety one percent of you said the person who

786
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 2: hosted the drinks agreed. Then we asked, if you were

787
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 2: in this situation, would you be happy to pay twenty

788
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:24,320
Speaker 2: four percent of you said yeah, and seventy six percent

789
00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 2: of you said no, absolutely not.

790
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 4: Twenty four percent of you are better people than I am.

791
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 4: Just to be like get in the bin, I'd be like,

792
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:33,319
Speaker 4: I'll come and scrub on my hands and knees and

793
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 4: help you.

794
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:36,239
Speaker 2: But if I would actually offered them, if I like,

795
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:38,919
Speaker 2: help you clean up, I don't want to pay. Yeah,

796
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 2: Like if that happened in a group chat and they

797
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 2: were like, hey, the house is literally a bomb site.

798
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 2: It's so much worse than i'd ever anticipated. Is anyone

799
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 2: free to help me? I'll be there. That was jop

800
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 2: me to bring my dyson. I've got a Dyson. Yeah,

801
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 2: really like showing it off, like I'll be there. I

802
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:57,919
Speaker 2: have done that for friends in the past where they're

803
00:35:57,920 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 2: like moving into a house and it wasn't as clean

804
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 2: as they thought it was going to be. And I

805
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 2: was like, oh, I got your girl. I'm really good

806
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:03,839
Speaker 2: with a toothbrush.

807
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 4: You took the toilet seed off. I remember that.

808
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm very good at that. Anyway, moving forward to

809
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 2: what the community said, someone said, ask for picks of

810
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 2: the mess and offer to help her clean, which rank

811
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:18,880
Speaker 2: is good? Someone said, I've hosted parties and had plenty

812
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 2: of mess to clean up. That's the risk you're taking

813
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,799
Speaker 2: when you decide to host. Someone said, if it's a

814
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 2: really reasonable amount, I don't see the issue in paying.

815
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 2: Demanding it, though, is not an okay thing to do.

816
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 2: Someone said, I've had parties and accepted cleanup is just

817
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:34,440
Speaker 2: a part of it. My friends helped tardy on the

818
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:37,319
Speaker 2: night of though, after a finished partying, which was more

819
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 2: than enough help.

820
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, my friends do that too.

821
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 2: I feel like I would never leave somebody's home without

822
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 2: being like, oh, let me help stuck the dishwasher, let

823
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 2: me like wipe down the venture. Like, I don't know,

824
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 2: maybe we're just different people cut from it.

825
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 4: I mean again, maybe if you're trashed, like I'm thinking

826
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 4: back to like nineteen twenty, when you're like stumbling out

827
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:56,319
Speaker 4: of a house party and you don't know, yeah, you

828
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:58,200
Speaker 4: know if you're an Arthur or a Martha. But like,

829
00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 4: it's one of those things where I think that if

830
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 4: that's the case, again, there's just a nicer way to

831
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 4: go about it like this, it feels very aggressive.

832
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 2: It does feel aggressive.

833
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 4: Yeah.

834
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 2: Someone said, if you're hosting and then expecting any type

835
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:13,760
Speaker 2: of compensation, you need to be clear to everybody before

836
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,279
Speaker 2: you invite them and they turn up to your house. Yep.

837
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 2: A few other people said, no way host pays. Someone

838
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:22,920
Speaker 2: else said it sounds like the guests were completely disrespectful

839
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 2: to warrant a cleaning, which is totally fair. Girl, that

840
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:29,239
Speaker 2: friend needs to pull their head in, is what someone

841
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 2: else is. Honestly, if you're disrespecting someone's space when you

842
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 2: go into it, what are you doing? Like I get

843
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 2: getting really drunk, but like drunk me, Yeah, she's not

844
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:41,760
Speaker 2: messing up your house.

845
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 6: I've never been so drunk that I've forgotten all my

846
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 6: morals and no, yeah, like I would definitely still be

847
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:50,840
Speaker 6: cleaning up after myself. Well, if it's a house party,

848
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 6: I certainly bounce, but yeah, I would never be, you know,

849
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 6: trying to disrespect someone's space.

850
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,320
Speaker 2: I get that. And someone else said, if I was

851
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:00,359
Speaker 2: the one who spelled alcohol in a carp I would

852
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 2: one hundred percent offer to pay for cleaning the carpet.

853
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 2: And I guess that goes the flip way where it's like,

854
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:09,879
Speaker 2: if you know that that person is the one that's

855
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 2: spilled the red wine, I feel like that's who you

856
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 2: should be having a chat to, not necessarily Jess and Beck,

857
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 2: who were very respectful of your space and didn't do

858
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 2: anything and were therefore like going to be a bit like, oh,

859
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 2: I don't want to come to your next house party.

860
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 2: That was a really awkward, weird situation, Like, yeah, I'd

861
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 2: prefer to not be involved next time, like, which I

862
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 2: think would be a fair outcome, Like if I bill

863
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 2: you after coming to my house party, you're gonna be

864
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 2: like come back and not coming back. Let's probably end

865
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 2: it there, because I feel like this is a done

866
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 2: and dusted topic.

867
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:41,800
Speaker 4: Everyone seems to be an agreement.

868
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 2: In agreement, but also a bit like we needed more context.

869
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,760
Speaker 2: In more context, I don't know. Between fifteen to twenty people,

870
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 2: is it five bucks per head or is it fifty

871
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 2: dollars per yere?

872
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 4: I don't know. She's a person. A professional clean would

873
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 4: run you between one hundred and fifty and three hundred dollars,

874
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Speaker 4: I would say for an average like carpet clean, depending

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Speaker 4: on the space.

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Speaker 2: It would be such a good star hustle.

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Speaker 4: It would be a really good side hustle. There, you

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Speaker 4: got one away for later the person who read it earlier.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Junior, so cleanup after your party for three hundred bucks.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely money win. All right, that is me. I am done.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to spend the weekend planning my new side hustles. Guys,

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