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Speaker 1: And Amanda gam Nation.

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Speaker 2: The Jersey Demand of Arms for the PUB test. Living

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Speaker 2: with your ex? Does it pass the pub test?

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Speaker 3: Well? One in five Australians are living with an X

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Speaker 3: because they can't afford to move out. Gen Z is

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Speaker 3: leading the pack of ex cohabitation thirty three percent, admitting

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Speaker 3: they've bunked in with an ex to save cash. But

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Speaker 3: that's very hard way to get on with your life,

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Speaker 3: isn't it. I can see why for the cost of

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Speaker 3: living you do it, But emotionally, how do you ever recover?

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Speaker 2: Divorce is very expensive?

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Speaker 3: Living with your ex as it passed the PUB test?

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Speaker 4: No, I don't think so. I don't think it ever

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Speaker 4: works out. Oh look, I think it depends on the

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Speaker 4: individual situation. I know I have a girlfriend who had

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Speaker 4: to live with her ex and it got quite abusive.

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Speaker 4: So there's nose, but then there's extras who are still friends.

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Speaker 1: No, it doesn't pass the PUB test. I had to

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Speaker 1: live with my ex wife for three years and basically

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Speaker 1: I had to move out once her new partner had

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Speaker 1: moved in. We did it originally because the kids were

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Speaker 1: too young. It was too hard for us to have

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Speaker 1: two places.

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Speaker 5: We did it for about two and a half years

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Speaker 5: and it actually makes you really decide that, yes, you've

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Speaker 5: made the right decision to divorce them, but financially you've

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Speaker 5: got to kind of like wing yourself, I guess, or

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Speaker 5: more on the death of that divorce. And then eventually

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Speaker 5: they still make you so mad that you want to

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Speaker 5: get divorced in the end.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, Wow, but that is tough.

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Speaker 2: That is amazing insight.

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Speaker 1: That's hard.

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Speaker 3: And for kids growing up in that environment too, to

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Speaker 3: have mum and dad not getting along but you're all

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Speaker 3: living under the same roof, that's tough.

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Speaker 2: Maybe just take a breath. Everyone just said take a breath,

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Speaker 2: and then and then what, and then what? And then

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Speaker 2: just take a breath, you know, just before you start

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Speaker 2: to rush into stuff, is all I'm saying.