WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Laura had a VERY confronting question about how babies are born

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<v Speaker 3>And Laura Ben Radio work our windows down.

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<v Speaker 2>all down.

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<v Speaker 1>I've done much, but yeah, I know I'll big bit

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<v Speaker 1>and what I want. It don't matter where.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the pickup.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, guys, you're listening to the Pickup with Britt Hockey

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<v Speaker 1>and Laura Ben. Big week coming up, Laura, do you

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<v Speaker 1>know what? I'm just giggling it because I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so bad.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a week week No, not Yeah, it's August coming.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but this is the thing we've been talking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>We're like, it's coming. Couldn't have told you what date

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<v Speaker 1>it was? Couldn't have told you the week?

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's half the problem, right because did you know

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<v Speaker 2>the week?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? What is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Oddest? What one?

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<v Speaker 1>Be fair? I was pretty good. It's August sixteen to

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<v Speaker 1>twenty third.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so twenty one falls into the week. I knew

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<v Speaker 2>I would.

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<v Speaker 1>Does it always fall around your birthday? Is that? Why

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<v Speaker 1>is it the same? It must be the same week

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<v Speaker 1>every year?

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<v Speaker 2>I dress up as myself for a book Week.

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<v Speaker 1>You did write a book once upon a time. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's look bookwek is coming. It is true.

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<v Speaker 2>Why can't your kids go as.

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<v Speaker 1>You and me? We have a book and last time

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<v Speaker 1>they went as Matt. So my husband's written a kid's book.

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<v Speaker 1>He managed to after two weeks of trying to convince him,

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<v Speaker 1>he managed to convince Laula to dress up as dad.

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<v Speaker 1>So she went to book Week kindergarten in like a Hawaiian.

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<v Speaker 2>Shew, Well, next week it's you and me.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, guys, this is your reminder. Bookweek is coming. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>be like me and forget, because every single year I forget,

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<v Speaker 1>and this year I've put it into my calendar with

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<v Speaker 1>a one week reminders that I can't forget about it.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, just to double down on that, what Laura

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<v Speaker 3>does is wakes up, remembers on the morning, grabs like

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<v Speaker 3>a cowboy hat on the way out the door, throws

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<v Speaker 3>it on, and she goes, you're a cowboy.

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<v Speaker 1>No, because it's like unjustifiable. In preschool, if your kids

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<v Speaker 1>go to preschool, it is book week every single day

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<v Speaker 1>of that week. So if your kid is in preschool

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<v Speaker 1>for four days a week, that's four costumes.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess that does, like it is book week, not Bookeday.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know, but it's a lot anyway now. And

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<v Speaker 1>also we want to see your costume. So all you've

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<v Speaker 1>got to do is go and upload a photo on

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<v Speaker 1>our wind page for your chance to win a five

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<v Speaker 1>hundred dollars Spotlight voucher, which will come in very handy

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<v Speaker 1>if you've got preschools. You've got to make four costumes.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a very relatable thing for parents. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that you reach a destination earlier than you expect to

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<v Speaker 1>get there when it comes to kids, right, Like they

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<v Speaker 1>ask questions and then sometimes they flow you and like hold.

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<v Speaker 2>Out and what's Pythago's theory?

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<v Speaker 1>No, like things that you're just not ready to answer,

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<v Speaker 1>Like little kids ask big world questions, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>have to try and navigate, like how am I going

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<v Speaker 1>to answer that in a way that pitch is accurate

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<v Speaker 1>but is also grated and appropriate for your age. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>it's about the birds and the bees. Sometimes it's about

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<v Speaker 1>babies and how they got into your belly, like whatever

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<v Speaker 1>it is.

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<v Speaker 3>It's funny because when we were kids, I think that

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<v Speaker 3>we used to go and ask our parents whatever, right,

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<v Speaker 3>and even if they didn't know the answer. They could

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<v Speaker 3>lie because there was no Google. We couldn't go and

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<v Speaker 3>look it up, like we had to take.

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<v Speaker 2>Their word for whatever they said. But you can't do

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<v Speaker 2>that now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so true. But I mean to be fair, my

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<v Speaker 1>kids are too young. They don't have phones. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>like they can go on Google it. But Marley, anytime

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<v Speaker 1>Marlly asks a question, I don't know the answer to it,

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<v Speaker 1>she just goes, Mom, why don't you just spotify it?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like close, but not quite the same thing. So, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm nine weeks away from having this baby. It's happening

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<v Speaker 1>very soon, and it's it's been an interesting journey because

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<v Speaker 1>like Mally, who's six, is now old enough to really

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<v Speaker 1>understand that there's a baby in my belly, But then

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<v Speaker 1>you can just see the cogs. There's questions, how did

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<v Speaker 1>the baby get into your belly? Mum, what's the baby

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<v Speaker 1>doing in there? Like what's happening? So she really want

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<v Speaker 1>how does the baby come out of your belly? Like

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<v Speaker 1>all of these questions we have kind of hit at

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<v Speaker 1>different milestones. Right the first one was like I understand

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<v Speaker 1>there's a baby in your belly, but how did it

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<v Speaker 1>get in your belly, and so you know, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I navigated that. Okay, I'm laying in bed the other

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<v Speaker 1>morning and Molly walks in dead pan like she's on

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<v Speaker 1>a mission, and she really seriously. She comes out and

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<v Speaker 1>she gives me a cuddle, and she like starts rubbing

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<v Speaker 1>my belly like I'm a Buddha, which she does every morning,

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<v Speaker 1>and she goes, mom, I've been thinking, And I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and she goes, is Poppy, that's the name that we've

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<v Speaker 1>given the baby. Is Poppy gonna come out the same

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<v Speaker 1>way that I came out.

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<v Speaker 2>Out of the same canal?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I And she had this real look of concern

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<v Speaker 1>on her face. And she's my little sensitive soul, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so she looked really concerned, and you like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>how much do I tell her?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? And also I'm of the opinion that you want

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<v Speaker 1>to be kind of accurate with your kids, right like

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<v Speaker 1>you want to be you want to call things by

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<v Speaker 1>their proper names. You want to give them as much

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<v Speaker 1>but also as little information as possible. So she says,

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<v Speaker 1>is it's gonna come out the same way? And I said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>do you do you mean out of my vagina? And

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<v Speaker 1>she looked at me horrified, horrified, and she goes.

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<v Speaker 2>No, oh, bald, She physically look the same.

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<v Speaker 1>She's so worried that the baby's gonna come out bald.

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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't care about my vagina. The kid doesn't care

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<v Speaker 1>if mummy's in pain. In fact, I didn't know how they

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<v Speaker 1>came out, but she does now. Oh no, she kind

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<v Speaker 1>of did. And that's why I thought that maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>was worried that I was going to be in pain

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<v Speaker 1>like that it was going to cause me some sort

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<v Speaker 1>of turmoil. She could not care less. She doesn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to have a bald sister. She's worried old kids. You

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<v Speaker 1>have bald kids.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe this one will come out with heaps of hair.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you seen it on the ultrasound yet?

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<v Speaker 1>My run so far would suggest that it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be a totally.

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<v Speaker 3>Bald child, because you know, you can see hair on ultrasound,

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<v Speaker 3>can you yep?

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<v Speaker 2>If you have like a head of hair, you can

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<v Speaker 2>see it.

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<v Speaker 4>No.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, no one's told me that the kid has a

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<v Speaker 1>head of hair. That's definitely not been said. And Marley's

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<v Speaker 1>just so concerned because she wants it to look like

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<v Speaker 1>a girl. And I was like, it's gonna look like

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<v Speaker 1>a baby, and she's like like a princess baby, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, it's gonna look like a baby.

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<v Speaker 3>My sister's baby, Maya, she's ten months old now, but

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<v Speaker 3>she was not born with any hair either, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>been quite slow growing. And even if Sherry dresses her

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<v Speaker 3>in pink, no matter what she does, she could be

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<v Speaker 3>in a pink little thing with love.

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<v Speaker 2>Hearts and frills and someone comes up and says what's

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<v Speaker 2>his name?

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<v Speaker 3>All the time show It's like, goddamn it, what have

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<v Speaker 3>I got to do to say?

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<v Speaker 1>As a girl. That was the same thing with Lola.

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<v Speaker 1>Lola was just baled until she was two and a half,

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<v Speaker 1>completely bald, and I was like, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>this kid's ever going to grow hair. But the problem

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<v Speaker 1>is my dad went bald at twenty four, So I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that we've got good genetics when it comes

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<v Speaker 1>to hair density.

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<v Speaker 2>Yours is thinning.

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<v Speaker 1>Shut up, No, hang.

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<v Speaker 3>On anyone listening that doesn't have the backstory the things.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Laura Lauri speaks about her hairs all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm gonna say.

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<v Speaker 1>Fair, she's always picking on me. It's won't plays harassment.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, look, I have a double crown, my hair sitting too.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, sure, dig up. So, Laura, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>alarm you, but.

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<v Speaker 2>I am thinking of a little bit of a career change.

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<v Speaker 4>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not by it's not by choice.

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<v Speaker 3>It has been thrust upon me. I may have found

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<v Speaker 3>my calling if you.

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<v Speaker 1>Say that after Dancing with the Stars, I'm going off

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<v Speaker 1>to join some sort of dance because I honestly, what

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<v Speaker 1>would you do if you weren't doing this?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, can I tell you something that you

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<v Speaker 3>can Okay, Okay, I forget that I'm on.

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<v Speaker 2>Dancing with the Stars right now. But this is not

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<v Speaker 2>this is not the story.

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<v Speaker 3>But I just segued I'm on Dancing with the Stars

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<v Speaker 3>as we speak. And so my husband Ben lives over

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<v Speaker 3>in Italy and a teammate, one of his teammates yesterday

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<v Speaker 3>came up to him and he must have been looking

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<v Speaker 3>on Ben's page, seen me, clicked on me how to

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<v Speaker 3>look at me?

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, his teammate came up to him and says, wait,

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<v Speaker 2>is your wife on Dancing with the Stars? And Ben

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<v Speaker 2>was like yeah, and he's like wow, I didn't know

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<v Speaker 2>she was a professional dancer. She's really good, and I.

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<v Speaker 3>Thought, what if he's like, she's not the dancer.

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<v Speaker 2>He thought that I was the dancer. So I just

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<v Speaker 2>needed to him. He must have looked at like a

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<v Speaker 2>two second cliff.

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<v Speaker 1>To be fair, you have done amazing like you do

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<v Speaker 1>look like a professional dancer on there. Stop it and

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<v Speaker 1>then stop it got slade.

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<v Speaker 3>She got slade like a dragon. In fact to what

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<v Speaker 3>I was talking about. I mean my like health and

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<v Speaker 3>Wellness era. I've been in it for a while, but

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<v Speaker 3>I love the sauna.

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<v Speaker 2>It was my sacred place.

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<v Speaker 3>I would sauna probably four times a week, maybe five

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<v Speaker 3>if I can. And it's not an individual sauna. It's

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<v Speaker 3>like a group sauna, but I would go at different times,

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<v Speaker 3>and quite often i'd be on my own. And I

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<v Speaker 3>imagine it's like the escape that mums feel when they

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<v Speaker 3>get a bit of time away.

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<v Speaker 2>Like headphones in, lay down and just like just zen out.

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<v Speaker 1>So you lay down in a group sauna.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I've fallen asleep in this sauna.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how I feel about groups saunas, like

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<v Speaker 1>I've done it a couple of times, but I just

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<v Speaker 1>feel like there's other people's sweat is so close to

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<v Speaker 1>me and I feel encased in other people's ill.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah I get that too, but we wear a towel and

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<v Speaker 3>it's cleaned. But my point is, like I often got

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<v Speaker 3>times to the day. I know we're quite quiet.

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<v Speaker 1>So I can like have that moment, not peak hour.

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<v Speaker 3>But what has happened is loads of the people at

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<v Speaker 3>the gym and this wellness center know what I do

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<v Speaker 3>for a living. They know that we have Life Uncut

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<v Speaker 3>the podcast, and they know we do ask on Cut

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<v Speaker 3>and that it's like relationship based. They know who you

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<v Speaker 3>ask and cut in the radio. And it started to

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<v Speaker 3>become like a therapy session. So people come in now

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<v Speaker 3>and they'll see me in there, and then they come

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<v Speaker 3>in and they guys, not girls, I'm talking men, And

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<v Speaker 3>then they start to ask me relationship advice.

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<v Speaker 1>Are they trauma dumping in the sauna.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they're trauma dumping, but it's not necessarily trauma dumping.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm actually so fascinated by it. And it is literally

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<v Speaker 3>like you could take bookings. I could be a psychologist

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<v Speaker 3>therapist in the sauna.

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<v Speaker 2>They come in one on one.

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<v Speaker 3>Not intentionally, I'm not like wait outside everyone, but then

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<v Speaker 3>they ask me all of their deepest darkest relationship questions,

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<v Speaker 3>and I have to give them advice and then they

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<v Speaker 3>literally say, Okay, I'll update you next week, and they

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<v Speaker 3>circle back in a week to give me the update

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<v Speaker 3>on the advice that I've given them in this sauna.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a question for you. Have you told any

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<v Speaker 1>of them that you're actually not qualified?

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<v Speaker 3>They think, well, I haven't specifically said that. No, maybe

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<v Speaker 3>they think that I am. I've not said I'm qualified.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that they know I'm not. I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>what it is. Maybe have a hard time asking their

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<v Speaker 3>friends for certain advice, or maybe maybe it's different getting

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<v Speaker 3>advice from like the opposite sex. I often ask guys'

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<v Speaker 3>advice when I want a male's perspective, but it's sort

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<v Speaker 3>of just become who I am in the sorda.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, what's an example I need to know, like an

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<v Speaker 1>example of something you've been asked recently?

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<v Speaker 2>Yesterday?

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<v Speaker 3>Yesterday's one was really really nice guy that his therapy

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<v Speaker 3>session has been going on for quite a while. He

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<v Speaker 3>hasn't been able to find the right person, and I've

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<v Speaker 3>been guiding him and encourage him to date because he

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<v Speaker 3>was giving up on dating.

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<v Speaker 2>So this has been like going on for quite a while,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, you're such a catch.

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<v Speaker 1>Get out there.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not going to come and find you in your

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<v Speaker 2>house kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 3>And so we got the update recently that he in

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<v Speaker 3>fact met someone amazing, et cetera, et cetera.

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<v Speaker 2>And then it's turning into long distance.

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<v Speaker 3>So you know, she's going to chase her dreams. And

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<v Speaker 3>we had to unpack because he let her go chase

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<v Speaker 3>her dreams. And we had to unpack like why he

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<v Speaker 3>just let her go if he's constantly thinking about her

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<v Speaker 3>now and wants to work it out and like wants

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<v Speaker 3>that to be a thing. And then so we spent

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<v Speaker 3>that session trying to work out like if he and

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<v Speaker 3>go and voice to her how he really feels.

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<v Speaker 2>And like chase it down and make something of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you need to charge for this. This

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<v Speaker 1>is lovely. It sounds like too much mental load. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go home and take on anymore. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to go home and have a nap.

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<v Speaker 2>And I can put one of those.

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<v Speaker 3>You know when you go to the deli there's a

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<v Speaker 3>ticket machine and you like, you take a ticket off

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<v Speaker 3>the Delhi and get some ham and then you can

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<v Speaker 3>troll my dumb I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And it is time for our little wins of the week.

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<v Speaker 1>This is where you guys have a chance to win

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<v Speaker 1>five hundred dollars spend a Chemists warehouse when you call

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<v Speaker 1>up with your little win. And we're not talking about

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<v Speaker 1>the big celebrations, not the birthdays, not the marriages, not

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<v Speaker 1>the anniversaries. We're like, you know, when something just went

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<v Speaker 1>okay and you kind of made it through the week.

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<v Speaker 2>Like maybe you remembered it was book weik.

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<v Speaker 1>That's great, yep, and you got your costume done early.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you made a fantastic bolonnaise. I want to hear

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<v Speaker 1>about it. Give us a call now we've got Tasha

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<v Speaker 1>on the line. Tasha, what was your little win of

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<v Speaker 1>the week. Oh, it felt so good to finally beat

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<v Speaker 1>my son in Connect four. Yes, every time I smash

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<v Speaker 1>my six year old at Uno, I'm so proud of myself.

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<v Speaker 1>So I feel the sun. He's three and he beats

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<v Speaker 1>you every week.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I taught him the game and then I swear with

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<v Speaker 1>the fluke, the pieces just magically land in the right spots.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds like a child genius is like rain man.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's so embarrassing. Also, though, Tasha, I think

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<v Speaker 1>the true test of like a kid's spirit is how

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<v Speaker 1>did he take the loss? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>She cried, and I really rubbed it in. I rubbed

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<v Speaker 3>it in so hard it was great brutal.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait there a minute. Oh, kids are never good, They're

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<v Speaker 1>terrible losers.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, well, let's go to Matt.

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<v Speaker 1>Matt, what's your little winner of the week. I finally

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<v Speaker 1>tamed the wild tupper. Weir draw every match.

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<v Speaker 4>No mystery tubs, and the drawer actually shuts like I'm

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<v Speaker 4>on top of the wheel.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a true fat It's so annoying.

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<v Speaker 2>Just this morning, I was trying to all my work.

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<v Speaker 3>I was trying to find a lid to a shake

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<v Speaker 3>so I could take a protein shake.

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<v Speaker 2>Could not, for the life of me, find it. It

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<v Speaker 2>has gone.

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<v Speaker 1>How you're about to come over to come to a

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<v Speaker 1>picture mood? It did cleaning your top wears or fixes

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<v Speaker 1>your mood? Is that what you just said?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, the picture mood if it's not all organized because

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<v Speaker 4>you can't find what you want when you need it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the accent. Sorry, Matt. I thought you said

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<v Speaker 1>it'll fix your mood, but you said it affects your

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<v Speaker 1>mood and I yeah, I feel I think.

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<v Speaker 2>Both are true.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm originally from South Australia.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the accent, it's the kiwe wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah all right, that hold the line, Jess. What's your

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<v Speaker 1>little end of the week.

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<v Speaker 4>My little win is I got my dog Gary d

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<v Speaker 4>sex or d nutted, and instead of him having to

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<v Speaker 4>wear the cone of shame, I repurposed my ten year

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<v Speaker 4>old son's undies into some little shorts.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh well, Darry, but we got a win of heaven

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<v Speaker 3>a laugh and he didn't have to wear the cone

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<v Speaker 3>of shame.

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<v Speaker 4>Really funny, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think wearing a kid's underwear as a shame for was

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<v Speaker 1>he a humper?

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<v Speaker 4>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Was he the one of those hum everything?

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<v Speaker 4>Not? Yeah, but we have caught them doing it, which

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<v Speaker 4>is a bit disturbing. But you know, hopefully this diner

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<v Speaker 4>thing will help that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel sorry. I mean, I know it's a

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<v Speaker 1>win for you, Jess, but I do feel like it's

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<v Speaker 1>a bit of a loss for Gary. He's lost two

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<v Speaker 1>things to the dog. Okay, hold there for one second,

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<v Speaker 1>we have to deliberate. We've got connect four, we've got

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<v Speaker 1>tup ofware, and we've got Gary the dog.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I hate to do this to you, Laura,

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<v Speaker 3>I pitched last week.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to hand it over to you. Is there

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<v Speaker 2>anything that like tugs at your soul?

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<v Speaker 3>There?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what took? To be fair? All of

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<v Speaker 1>them are pretty deserving winners this week, unfortunately, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to give it to Matt. I'm Matt Tupaware, toup Aware. Firstly,

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<v Speaker 1>we got your location wrong, so I feel like we've

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<v Speaker 1>got to dig up a little bit from that. But Matt, congratulations,

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<v Speaker 1>five hundred dollars house.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you so much. Guy.

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<v Speaker 3>That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>That's an awesome price.

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<v Speaker 3>Can I just ask, are you, like, are you limited

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<v Speaker 3>to the toup Aware container area or are you cleaning

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<v Speaker 3>the rest of the house as well?

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<v Speaker 4>I think next I'm going to go with my frank

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<v Speaker 4>green lids and water bottle. Okay, So I always get

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<v Speaker 4>sarcting with the mystery boxes.

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<v Speaker 1>I really get you don't. The real problem is how

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<v Speaker 1>much did you throw away? That's the real question, because

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<v Speaker 1>you usually get well done, well done.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's what is impressed by. I think he's

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<v Speaker 3>impressed by the fact that he found all the matches.

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<v Speaker 4>I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I do think it's important. It really is a little

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<v Speaker 1>winner of the week, that one. But we're proud of you, Matt.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a good job well, and that is it for

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<v Speaker 1>us today, guys.