WEBVTT - #93 Do Dads Ever Feel "Dad Guilt"?

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<v Speaker 1>Big breath. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, I do want to say thank you for taking

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<v Speaker 2>a video in my vulnerable state.

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<v Speaker 1>Can't tell if you're annoyed by that.

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<v Speaker 2>I might hand down my pants and I was snoring

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<v Speaker 2>on your couch, so will you tell me.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was a very cute little video. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you were snoring. Your hand like it wasn't in the

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<v Speaker 1>front of your pants, it was down the side. It

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<v Speaker 1>was very endearing. People loved it because my cock's on

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<v Speaker 1>my hip. Welcome back to two doting dads. I am

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<v Speaker 1>Maddie Jay and I'm Ash and this is a podcast

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<v Speaker 1>all about parenting. It is the good, it is a bad.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's my line and relatable. Yes, that's miss And

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<v Speaker 1>if you've come for advice, not from us, sorry to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you not to day, but if you've come to

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<v Speaker 1>listen to two idiots, well welcome, Welcome a boar ash

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<v Speaker 1>before we get into this. Yeah, fantastic episode.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to be a fair I can feel it.

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<v Speaker 1>We do for a good one. We're both well.

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<v Speaker 2>I am very tired all the time, so I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like it's going to be good.

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<v Speaker 1>How many hours did you get last night? The last

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<v Speaker 1>night was good? How many to find hours. That's too much.

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<v Speaker 2>You know I needed it from the previous night, which

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<v Speaker 2>we will talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll get into that very shortly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know I needed it, but I'm still tired.

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<v Speaker 1>Ash. Yes, I have something very special for you, a gift,

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<v Speaker 1>if you will, Matthew, you are the only gift I need.

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<v Speaker 1>That's very sweet. Thank you. Do you remember we had

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<v Speaker 1>a segment a few weeks ago it was apparenting hacker fucked.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what is it? Tron? I don't know why? It

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<v Speaker 1>says Tron. This is the disposable potty, the magic hat?

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<v Speaker 1>Am I going to poop? Yes on this podcast? Absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>give me a look. Don't don't withhold it from me.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so many years in that all the way three pack.

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<v Speaker 1>It is, Tron. It's more than that three pay reusable.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I open it?

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<v Speaker 3>I thought you'd never asked, Oh where's this from?

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<v Speaker 1>Just one for me thinks this is all the way

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<v Speaker 1>from the UK. Okay, so we're just currently unwrapping. So

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<v Speaker 1>this is for those of you wondering. We I found

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<v Speaker 1>this onliners on social media. It was a portable potty.

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine a cardboard magician's hat that you would bring with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Have it stored in the car, and if your child

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<v Speaker 1>needs to do a number two and you're in the car,

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<v Speaker 1>you can then pop this like the floor of the

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<v Speaker 1>back of the car. Did you say hat they quite

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<v Speaker 1>old design? Yeah? Wa wa wa wa wa wait wait,

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<v Speaker 1>let's let's let's try it on the floor. Maybe ash's

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<v Speaker 1>currently opening up the disposable potty, very quick to set up.

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<v Speaker 1>I might just add it's got a little absorbent people done, mate,

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<v Speaker 1>plastic lining with a little pattern side. Take pants off,

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<v Speaker 1>Take pans off. It's going to cost you more than that. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>are your pants off and we line it up? Fuck

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<v Speaker 1>you sat on the end. He didn't sit in a flush.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's built for adults. I'm still going

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<v Speaker 1>to go. Just do it in the bush. Was it

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<v Speaker 1>worth spending forty dollars to get that delivered all the

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<v Speaker 1>way from what he do? How much was it, Jess?

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<v Speaker 1>Eighty eighty bucks? Eighty dollars that's coming out of your

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<v Speaker 1>pay Holy yeah, Okay, I thought I would give it

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<v Speaker 1>a second chance. I think, look for the environment. Just

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<v Speaker 1>do it in a bush. Yeah, I agree, I agree, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't bury I think of that seven two dollars about

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<v Speaker 1>sixty two of that was for postage to get an

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<v Speaker 1>express shipped over here. That's crazy and it does say

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<v Speaker 1>one to six year olds. Yeah, we're obviously too heavy,

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<v Speaker 1>but like like dig a hole, Dig a hole, please,

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<v Speaker 1>who's got time to dig a hole on the side

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<v Speaker 1>of the road with a toddler? Not me, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>any parent.

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<v Speaker 2>Just bend him over, like my mate, Mike, his kid.

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<v Speaker 1>Shout out to Mike. Handsome Mike. That's what I called him,

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<v Speaker 1>handsome Mic hot chippies.

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<v Speaker 2>We're at the skatepark and then a kid needs to

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<v Speaker 2>do a bush pooh.

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<v Speaker 1>I was going on to watch.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, and concerning mate, the shot out like a cannon.

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<v Speaker 2>It made a noise like a straight to the bush

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<v Speaker 2>quick wife. I want to get that checked out. He's

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<v Speaker 2>the anal PSI on that boy. He's going to give

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<v Speaker 2>me impressive of prolapse.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Probably.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't want of those audi assholes times. He's an adult.

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<v Speaker 1>Goodness, speaking of oudy assholes, how are you? Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good, I'm very good. I'm You're just mate, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, holding down the fort and I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to I just want to say ash. I mean this

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<v Speaker 1>with every fiber in my body. You were doing an

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<v Speaker 1>amazing job right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, thank you. I am battling on. I'm soldiering on.

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<v Speaker 2>Just for context, my wife is very sick. She's some

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<v Speaker 2>would call a bedridden. And look she's trying to like

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<v Speaker 2>get on with it and not act like she's not sick,

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<v Speaker 2>but like trying to think that she needs to be

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<v Speaker 2>the hero to keep the house going, which is true.

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<v Speaker 1>This family only needs one hero and that hero is Ashwear.

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<v Speaker 1>It's me at the moment.

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<v Speaker 2>So she is at home, hopefully she's not working, and

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<v Speaker 2>hopefully because I can't watch her all the time, I

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<v Speaker 2>was like her when I left, just watch you look

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<v Speaker 2>after her?

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<v Speaker 1>Get some rest? Would you like shut the curtains. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't watch you can't watch her all the time. How

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<v Speaker 1>do you? How do you look? After April?

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<v Speaker 2>Just watching her in the corner of the room has

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<v Speaker 2>pinned out, as are you rest? I just I know

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<v Speaker 2>that she wouldn't be in bed with the you know,

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<v Speaker 2>trying to get some round.

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<v Speaker 1>I know she'd be sending emails right now.

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<v Speaker 2>She would be she'd be yeah, she'd be sending emails, DMS.

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<v Speaker 2>She'd be doing washing, and she'd be absolutely battling because

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<v Speaker 2>you know, women soldier on us men. No, I'm straight

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<v Speaker 2>to sleep. Sorry, I'm just a carrier and now I'm

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<v Speaker 2>carrying on to you. But yeah, that's very tired. We

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<v Speaker 2>did have and we were lucky enough the other night

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<v Speaker 2>to be invited to Manly see Eagles Awards night.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how we got there, but we did.

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<v Speaker 1>They love you over there. It was It was very nigh.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a beautiful effect.

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<v Speaker 2>The food was amazing and like I said, I never

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<v Speaker 2>really eat the event and more of a drinker.

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<v Speaker 1>But you said, and I quote, that's the first function

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever been to where I've eaten something for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>One time I was at a wedding and I ate

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<v Speaker 2>a whole bowl of potatoes and that's.

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<v Speaker 1>The only other part.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, it was a lovely affair, lots of really

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<v Speaker 2>nice people for dreams.

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<v Speaker 1>But also I feel like it's the first time you've

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<v Speaker 1>been invited to something as prestigious as that you do.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you would take a bullet for mainly

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<v Speaker 1>the NRL team for those wondering. And you went to

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<v Speaker 1>that event and you had a couple of cheeky beers

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<v Speaker 1>and you were home at a very reasonable hour which

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<v Speaker 1>is unlike you.

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<v Speaker 2>You were like, it's concerning to you because of how

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<v Speaker 2>much fuel you probably have left in the tank, And

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<v Speaker 2>honestly I was. I was fatigued then, so like I

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<v Speaker 2>was like happy to get home before midnight.

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<v Speaker 1>I do want to let the listeners know about something

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<v Speaker 1>in particular that was a standout for me at the event. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there is one manly player who was very well known.

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<v Speaker 1>He's now retired, one of the most famous manly players.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Steve Menzies. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>that one player happens to be the only player that

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<v Speaker 1>you've had to run in with yeah a while ago. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And you were like, God, I wonder if I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to see Steve Menzi.

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<v Speaker 2>We saw him in the lobby and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>let's avoid Steve.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you just inform the listeners why you and Steve

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<v Speaker 1>Menzies may not like each other?

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, we said let's avoid Steve Menzi's. Then

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<v Speaker 2>we got shown to our table and guess who was

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<v Speaker 2>sitting next to saying on the same table and you

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<v Speaker 2>took a bullet straight up.

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<v Speaker 1>And sat right next to my messaged manly and said,

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<v Speaker 1>can we can we request to see need to write

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<v Speaker 1>manly people together again.

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<v Speaker 2>So we were sat right next to him, and he

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<v Speaker 2>didn't at first.

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<v Speaker 1>We were it was fine.

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<v Speaker 2>It was you know, he's a lovely guy, and I

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<v Speaker 2>just want to just set this up. He is one

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<v Speaker 2>of the greatest players to ever be produced.

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<v Speaker 1>He is.

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<v Speaker 2>He is a lovely man and a beautiful wife, and

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<v Speaker 2>wife is to see that everyone of.

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<v Speaker 1>The man in the organization. If you're listening, you're very lovely.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, I went on to say to Steve, you don't

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<v Speaker 2>remember me? Do And it was a few years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>And you said that I think we'd had four awards,

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<v Speaker 1>we had the entrees, and it was lovely. There was

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<v Speaker 1>no tension at the table, and I thought, hey, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you won't bring it up because there's no need

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<v Speaker 1>to because everyone's having a great time. Everyone's been polite.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I'm going to bring it up. And you're like, Steve,

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<v Speaker 1>you do you remember me. I did leave a part out.

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<v Speaker 2>Of the story to him that I recalled that I'll

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<v Speaker 2>say here, but I did say, Steve, do you remember me?

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<v Speaker 2>And he was He was kind of like, and look,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm older, I have way more tattoos.

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<v Speaker 1>Now. Some would say my crow's feet are way more

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<v Speaker 1>obvious now. I was just a child, and Steve would

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<v Speaker 1>also meet a lot of people everywhere he goes people

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<v Speaker 1>he did ask him for a photo.

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<v Speaker 2>We won this competition through a friend of mine. It

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<v Speaker 2>was four of us who would get to be go

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<v Speaker 2>and watch a Sunday afternoon game down at Brook Valley,

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<v Speaker 2>the Fortress as we call it, and to sit in

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<v Speaker 2>the back of a ute and watch the game. So

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<v Speaker 2>we're a bit higher on the hill. Free beers, free food,

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<v Speaker 2>the whole bit. But also Steve Menzies picks you up,

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<v Speaker 2>take you there personally, which is.

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<v Speaker 1>A lovely touch, lovely gesture. He's picked us up.

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<v Speaker 2>I was already pierced when he picked me up. And

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<v Speaker 2>he picked me up and he had his kids in

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<v Speaker 2>the car, and you know what, I'm my grandkids. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't hold my tongue whatsoever. So I'm like fucking tag

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<v Speaker 2>lashing around the place.

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<v Speaker 1>Also gonna to say that's on Steve. Yeah, that's his

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<v Speaker 1>fault for reading the kids. Obviously forgot that he had

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<v Speaker 1>the kids that afternoon. And yeah, and then his wife's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm off to see the girls. He's like, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>picking up these boys, and he's said, we'll bring the kids,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's like, what's the worst could happen? Yeahsh is

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<v Speaker 1>the worst that could happen, exactly right.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was a forty degree day and we flogged

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<v Speaker 2>Parah and he was like, I do remember the game.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember the game. And we had photos and stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>which were nice photos. He was like, fuck, I really

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<v Speaker 2>want to find the photo. But the thing that at

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<v Speaker 2>the time, which really annoyed Steve was and look he

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<v Speaker 2>gets pulled left, right and center when he goes. Everyone

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<v Speaker 2>wants a photo with Steve Men because he's a cult hero.

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<v Speaker 2>But I wanted to be the point of different. So

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<v Speaker 2>I actually, and I didn't tell you this through the

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<v Speaker 2>whole day, called him my closer personal friend Steve Man.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how I referred to him the whole day. So

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<v Speaker 2>he had that I spewed up a couple of times

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<v Speaker 2>during the day because it was very hot.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I ask you mentioned free food? Did you have

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<v Speaker 1>any food? And I did.

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<v Speaker 2>I did take it for myself, just be up in

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<v Speaker 2>the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>Just so that everybody knows.

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<v Speaker 2>It was one time in Steve's car, But what really

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<v Speaker 2>happened was where I said to him, we had it.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you remember we had a stoush because this is

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<v Speaker 2>how it wasn't how the afternoon ended, but we had

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<v Speaker 2>a stoush of sorts and we went to the league's

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<v Speaker 2>club afterwards, all of us because it was to finish

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<v Speaker 2>the day. You go to this function, which I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>get into the function because of this situation. I everyone

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<v Speaker 2>that day who stopped Steve. He was given autographs out.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a lovely guy. Like I said, he was just

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<v Speaker 2>had enough of me. And then at this lease, I've

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<v Speaker 2>got to sign in. He signed me in with sm

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<v Speaker 2>only and I was like, oh, so everyone else gets

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<v Speaker 2>a signature and I just get the initials. And we

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<v Speaker 2>had a bit of a stoush in that moment. And

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<v Speaker 2>then I'd pay, stumbled out and gone home because I

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<v Speaker 2>was just cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Co involment, cot involvement and cook.

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<v Speaker 2>And then a little while later he actually because he's

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<v Speaker 2>he works in nine to five. Now he's a broke,

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<v Speaker 2>he's a algage broken. And he actually used to get

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<v Speaker 2>on sometimes we get on the bus that I was

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<v Speaker 2>on in the morning, and I remember one time it

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<v Speaker 2>was a big bendy bus and I was at the front.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no other seats he walked on. And this was

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<v Speaker 2>close to the time this all happened not long after,

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<v Speaker 2>and he got on the bus and I was my

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<v Speaker 2>seat and nose you're on next to me. Only the

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<v Speaker 2>bus was full. He took one look at it and

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<v Speaker 2>got off the bus.

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<v Speaker 1>No joke, And.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm talking about this might be ten years ago now.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he just realized if he got his wallet, it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't end there.

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<v Speaker 2>My friend, Okay, I used to go to the league's

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<v Speaker 2>club gym, and I remember there was the what do

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<v Speaker 2>they call this press machine, chest press, just say chest

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<v Speaker 2>press machine that faced the door, so when you're walking in,

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<v Speaker 2>you just lock eyes with that person. I was on

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<v Speaker 2>that machine.

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<v Speaker 1>Steve walks into the leg's club gym, seize me, We

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<v Speaker 1>lock eyes. He turns around and he walked out. That's twice.

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<v Speaker 1>That was ten years ago. Again. Could have forgotten his wallet,

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<v Speaker 1>could have.

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<v Speaker 2>Could have been and he's gone on coincidence.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I don't know, but I mean, who could stay

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<v Speaker 1>angry at that face?

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<v Speaker 2>No one, no one care, not even Steve men not

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<v Speaker 2>even Steve Men's was forgotten about it, obviously, and then

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<v Speaker 2>he knew.

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<v Speaker 1>I reckon, he knew you're like you like, Steve, do

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<v Speaker 1>you remember this face? And he was like ooh, And

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<v Speaker 1>then his wife was like, that's that guy who you

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<v Speaker 1>always said you fucking want to avoid it and he's.

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<v Speaker 2>Sitting next to you at the Manly Awards. But thankfully,

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<v Speaker 2>look water over the bridge. We had a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>fun with Steve's So thank you, Steve Man, and you

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<v Speaker 2>are forgiven.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the biggest rivalries in Manly has now been resolved.

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<v Speaker 1>People can sleep at night knowing that Ashwicks no longer

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<v Speaker 1>has any enemies where he's born. It was my only enemy,

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<v Speaker 1>I think. I don't know. There could be more. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if you are an enemy of Ashwicks, please write in

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<v Speaker 1>and tell us what happened.

0:14:20.160 --> 0:14:22.640
<v Speaker 2>To be Actually there is an enemy with someone I

0:14:22.640 --> 0:14:24.360
<v Speaker 2>had a stout or someone on a golf course.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, but it was a good night and you went

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<v Speaker 1>home at a very reasonable hour with steak in your belly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that was nice as well as a.

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<v Speaker 2>Few beers, only a few very well behaved and I

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<v Speaker 2>could have I could have easily, but look I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I went home. I was playing the role of April,

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<v Speaker 1>where you were like one more drink and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think that's a wise idea. I did.

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<v Speaker 2>God, April, I did have a set of keys. So

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<v Speaker 2>get home, new house, still working out. The King's must

0:14:57.240 --> 0:15:01.200
<v Speaker 2>be nice. It's a rental, so it just relates a

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<v Speaker 2>bit rich. And I get home and the screen door

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<v Speaker 2>is locked, and I don't have a key for the

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<v Speaker 2>screen door.

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<v Speaker 1>Great, I don't want to wake everyone up. How did

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<v Speaker 1>you go getting down that driveway?

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<v Speaker 2>After a few beers, I slid a few times and

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<v Speaker 2>then I thought, I'm going to get in the house

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<v Speaker 2>and the back door doesn't lock, and it's but it's

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<v Speaker 2>up on like a two story back andy. So there's

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<v Speaker 2>me eleven thirty at nights, scowling the side of the.

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<v Speaker 1>Brand new suit, brand new MJ Baales suit.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, I sneak in, I go have a shower, come

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<v Speaker 2>out of the shower, and Macey's crying.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>It's midnight at this point, and I'm like, got her

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<v Speaker 2>back to sleep, okay, I go off to bed, and

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<v Speaker 2>then of course she starts to cough, and she coughed

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<v Speaker 2>for two hours before she went back to sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>And then, yeah, how do you get back to sleep?

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<v Speaker 2>Just lay with her, I said, lay with her and

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<v Speaker 2>let a cough into my mouth nice pretty much because

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<v Speaker 2>she doesn't understand. She's like, ah, I don't. And I

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<v Speaker 2>could just feel the breath on my face every time

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<v Speaker 2>for two hours and then yeh got three hours sleep

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<v Speaker 2>and came here yesterday and fell asleep on the couch.

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<v Speaker 1>And here we are and here we are and I'm tired.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>How was the weekend? Actually, I'm we're going to let

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<v Speaker 2>that one slide.

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<v Speaker 1>The weekend was good, thanks mate. The weekend was good.

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<v Speaker 1>Was down in Aladullah, because it must be nice. We

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<v Speaker 1>have purchased a house down going must be We are

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<v Speaker 1>currently two months in to a Renno. That is just

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<v Speaker 1>getting bigger and more complicated. How did the terminite situation go?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the deal with that? Look, it's it's actually, it's

0:16:48.760 --> 0:16:52.880
<v Speaker 1>all right. Termites have resolved themselves. Well they've been killed.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like they found us.

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<v Speaker 1>We love the South Coast. I will just got married

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<v Speaker 1>down there, and we go down there for like, if

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<v Speaker 1>we go away somewhere, no disrespect to up North Northern Beaches,

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<v Speaker 1>Central Coast, lovely players up there. We normally go down south.

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<v Speaker 1>We look south, you're on south side of Sydney.

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<v Speaker 2>Well it makes more sense, like why would you go

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<v Speaker 2>like we would go north. The problem is just going

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<v Speaker 2>north when you already live north. If you want to

0:17:19.280 --> 0:17:21.200
<v Speaker 2>go further north, you've got to go south to go north.

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<v Speaker 1>In Sydney. It's weird. It's a fucking nightmare. But we

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<v Speaker 1>had a little sniff, as you do sometimes, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you just like go to real estate dot com put

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<v Speaker 1>in a different suburb and you're like, see what's around.

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<v Speaker 1>We saw this place, like fuck, that is epic, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're going down anyway. So we thought we'll just go

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<v Speaker 1>to the open house because it just so happens at

0:17:40.680 --> 0:17:42.199
<v Speaker 1>the open home was the same time as we were

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<v Speaker 1>down there. This is months ago, and Laura was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this place is fucking magic. Imagine like eventually we get

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<v Speaker 1>to move down here to the coast with the kids,

0:17:50.119 --> 0:17:52.399
<v Speaker 1>won't that be amazing? And I was like, eh, the

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<v Speaker 1>place had been there for three years. Homeowner Lovely Vail.

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<v Speaker 1>She's passed away, so the house was just like she

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't in the house too. It was no I was

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to say, like when are we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to try and guess where she died. She passed away

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<v Speaker 1>in the nursing home, rest in peace. But the house

0:18:09.960 --> 0:18:12.800
<v Speaker 1>is everything we peel back is there's just more and

0:18:12.840 --> 0:18:16.040
<v Speaker 1>more damage, like everything that we'll hope in to say, like.

0:18:16.040 --> 0:18:17.399
<v Speaker 2>A poorly washed force kin.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything. Sorry, but yeah, and then that includes you know

0:18:22.960 --> 0:18:25.919
<v Speaker 1>as well, we pulled off from jip Rock and then

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<v Speaker 1>they are fu termitess like, oh my god. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's been a lot bigger than we anticipated. And

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<v Speaker 1>also a couple of arguments here.

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<v Speaker 2>In the ash I can imagine.

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<v Speaker 1>We The biggest argument we've had so far was over

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<v Speaker 1>a French cream white, which is an off white for

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<v Speaker 1>those wondering, versus a white wool white. You've worked ash

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<v Speaker 1>in in construction before. I feel like you've got a

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<v Speaker 1>great eye for detail. Should I get into character now? Please? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I say, Laura, that was a lovely spot of shaving paint.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I please see the colors that you wish for

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<v Speaker 2>me to have an opinion?

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<v Speaker 1>Not okay, this is this is a white wave white wave, yep,

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<v Speaker 1>this is tormentor Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a huge difference. There's a massive difference.

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<v Speaker 1>In those two. Yeah, are you fucking high? No?

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<v Speaker 2>I wish you got to think that's very bright white.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a dull white. It's a bit more of a

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<v Speaker 2>tan white. Wow, got the others? You want to run

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<v Speaker 2>by me?

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<v Speaker 1>Give me, give me? You and Laura should be running

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<v Speaker 1>this house.

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<v Speaker 2>I sat down with her and went through the tile stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you really? Yeah? So fleeting with my wife your

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<v Speaker 1>own home.

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<v Speaker 2>But we both were wearing clothes. It's all good, Thank you,

0:19:45.240 --> 0:19:46.560
<v Speaker 2>thank you the heavens.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, currently kindly discussing all the details of including

0:19:52.640 --> 0:19:55.920
<v Speaker 1>the paint colors, which ash on top of everything else.

0:19:55.960 --> 0:19:58.159
<v Speaker 1>When it's ten o'clock at night and you want to

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<v Speaker 1>go to bed and you got to go through and

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta p out colors of things. I don't I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care. My words were. My words were, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>care enough about these colors to have an argument with you.

0:20:13.160 --> 0:20:16.080
<v Speaker 1>And then that was responded with, so you don't care

0:20:16.119 --> 0:20:19.960
<v Speaker 1>about this house? Oh yeah, yeah, it's one extreme to

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<v Speaker 1>the other. And I was like, yeah, but anything I

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<v Speaker 1>pick you're not going to like, so let's just go

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<v Speaker 1>with what you like. And then that's how the argument

0:20:26.119 --> 0:20:26.679
<v Speaker 1>I'm fold here.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's like, if you're not interested in something that

0:20:29.560 --> 0:20:33.080
<v Speaker 2>there might be slightly interested in, you've insulted them and

0:20:33.160 --> 0:20:36.439
<v Speaker 2>everything about it so like, for example, if April's like

0:20:36.520 --> 0:20:40.040
<v Speaker 2>watching a TV show, I'm like, this TV show is garbage,

0:20:40.440 --> 0:20:41.960
<v Speaker 2>and it's literal garbage.

0:20:42.080 --> 0:20:44.040
<v Speaker 1>She'd be like, oh, what do you just hate me?

0:20:44.160 --> 0:20:46.720
<v Speaker 1>Do you? You didn't make the TV show?

0:20:47.320 --> 0:20:50.000
<v Speaker 2>She takes offense like she's the producing director or something.

0:20:50.040 --> 0:20:52.679
<v Speaker 1>But Laura said, look, there's there's one little part of

0:20:52.680 --> 0:20:55.000
<v Speaker 1>the house that you can have whatever you want. I

0:20:55.000 --> 0:20:56.560
<v Speaker 1>don't care, like whatever you want to have in there.

0:20:56.720 --> 0:21:00.720
<v Speaker 1>The basement. It was a little bit through the on

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<v Speaker 1>sweet She's like, whatever tiles you want, go nuts, And

0:21:04.160 --> 0:21:07.640
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I was like, cool, i want like stripes,

0:21:07.920 --> 0:21:09.160
<v Speaker 1>green and white stripes.

0:21:09.359 --> 0:21:11.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm just thinking that once Orne goes in there and

0:21:11.480 --> 0:21:12.560
<v Speaker 2>it's a cinema room.

0:21:15.000 --> 0:21:18.359
<v Speaker 1>Just a toilet and a big screen, like perfect. And

0:21:18.400 --> 0:21:21.879
<v Speaker 1>so Laura's got great eye for design, you have to

0:21:21.880 --> 0:21:27.080
<v Speaker 1>say that though. She's very very talented and beautiful and funny.

0:21:27.640 --> 0:21:29.760
<v Speaker 1>And she was like, whatever you want, babe, you can

0:21:29.840 --> 0:21:33.480
<v Speaker 1>eat that bathroom. It's your project. It's yours trap, bro okay.

0:21:33.600 --> 0:21:35.560
<v Speaker 1>And so then I was like, great, lock it in

0:21:35.920 --> 0:21:39.320
<v Speaker 1>green and green and white stripe. Let's go green white stripe.

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<v Speaker 1>That's lovely. Thank you, thank you anyway, so I'm about

0:21:44.440 --> 0:21:48.359
<v Speaker 1>to place the order and Laura is like, are you

0:21:48.400 --> 0:21:52.080
<v Speaker 1>are you sure you definitely want the green and white

0:21:52.080 --> 0:21:54.320
<v Speaker 1>stripe And I was like, yeah, work, what work? What's

0:21:54.359 --> 0:21:58.400
<v Speaker 1>not to love? It's it's great, it's punchy, it's yeah,

0:21:58.400 --> 0:22:01.359
<v Speaker 1>it's why it's Chris beachy. And she was like okay.

0:22:01.359 --> 0:22:03.000
<v Speaker 2>But also, this wouldn't have been the first time that

0:22:03.000 --> 0:22:03.520
<v Speaker 2>she's heard.

0:22:03.400 --> 0:22:05.760
<v Speaker 1>About this idea. No, no, no, she's had exactly. It was

0:22:05.760 --> 0:22:06.959
<v Speaker 1>like one of the first I locked in.

0:22:07.240 --> 0:22:10.159
<v Speaker 2>Don't don't stop me when I'm about to lock it in,

0:22:10.240 --> 0:22:11.680
<v Speaker 2>stop me when I suggest it.

0:22:12.080 --> 0:22:14.800
<v Speaker 1>And so then Laura's like, okay, look, if you're happy

0:22:14.800 --> 0:22:16.480
<v Speaker 1>with it, we'll lock it in. I was like great.

0:22:16.880 --> 0:22:19.800
<v Speaker 1>And then she went to work. This morning she called

0:22:19.800 --> 0:22:22.320
<v Speaker 1>me and I'm like, hey, where are you And she goes, well,

0:22:22.359 --> 0:22:25.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm just I'm just at the tile shop. Oh god.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like okay, and she's like, I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to send you something. Greenish shripe are no longer

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<v Speaker 1>happening at She was like, and I did send you

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<v Speaker 1>something and tell me if you like it. And it

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<v Speaker 1>does look better. It does look much better, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to say it. It looks a lot better. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>it looks a lot better. Yeah, that's what that's what

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<v Speaker 1>you told me to say. I just want to say

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<v Speaker 1>that Laura's decision making has been second to none, and

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to see the finished product. She's just

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<v Speaker 1>I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>Laura blink twice, Matt blink twice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so we're getting their mate, we get Actually, I

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<v Speaker 1>need your help. I do need your help with something,

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<v Speaker 1>okay right now? No, no, no, not right now, not

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<v Speaker 1>the second because I know you have to go back

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<v Speaker 1>to your sick family. I do, and know it's a

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<v Speaker 1>big ass because I didn't help you move your house.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, absolutely not, no, absolutely. I just need help

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<v Speaker 2>with some of the gardening down there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So are you offering me a weekend away like

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<v Speaker 1>you me it's your weekend? Yeah. No, kids, hard labor,

0:23:31.680 --> 0:23:34.840
<v Speaker 1>hard labor. All we need to do is just rip

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<v Speaker 1>out a heap of plants. It'll be fun. Just an idea.

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<v Speaker 1>I know what's a long way to drive, and I

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<v Speaker 1>know that where will we say? Well, books are where? Nice?

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<v Speaker 2>Would you say it would be romantic?

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I mean you had me, and you had me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, in a few weeks time. I just need to

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<v Speaker 1>come down, because you know I'm not that manly Ash. You, however,

0:23:59.160 --> 0:24:02.480
<v Speaker 1>you're so masculine, so strong, and you know you know

0:24:02.520 --> 0:24:05.280
<v Speaker 1>your way around a set of tuls, Thanks God. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I need you there.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, all right, I'll do it because if

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<v Speaker 2>I don't do it, you'll end up with Falcon.

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<v Speaker 1>For those of you who don't know, my good friend,

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<v Speaker 1>Falcon is a lovely young man. He would take a

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<v Speaker 1>bullet for you. He would take a bullet for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Not the best in the garden knocking my hands on.

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<v Speaker 2>No, he's more like, throw your party sort of guy. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>well list do that list of that Ash.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's almost lunchtime, so I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>make you even hungrier than what you are right now.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, when you're near a subway and your

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<v Speaker 1>nose is just a little bit tickled by the smell

0:24:40.280 --> 0:24:45.800
<v Speaker 1>of warm bread, I'm like a dog. I can sniff

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<v Speaker 1>my way to a store.

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<v Speaker 2>I could actually go for a subway, now, I bet.

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<v Speaker 1>You could, big guy. You know who gets to take

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<v Speaker 1>full advantage of the subway treatment. Ash?

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<v Speaker 4>You know who have a guess trades as tradies whom

0:24:57.960 --> 0:25:01.760
<v Speaker 4>must be nice Ashes someone who's just entered the trading

0:25:01.800 --> 0:25:04.679
<v Speaker 4>world for the first time recently with the renaults down South.

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<v Speaker 1>There's an important date coming up that only US trades

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<v Speaker 1>would know about, Matthew.

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<v Speaker 2>That is National Trade's Day this Friday, the twentieth September.

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<v Speaker 1>However, sir, I do not believe you are a trade now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's marked in the calendar as my second favorite day

0:25:17.200 --> 0:25:20.840
<v Speaker 1>only second to Christmas. And Subway is very specially are

0:25:20.840 --> 0:25:25.160
<v Speaker 1>celebrating US trades by offering free delivery with Subway delivers

0:25:25.280 --> 0:25:28.600
<v Speaker 1>on the Subway up from Friday, September twenty until September

0:25:28.640 --> 0:25:30.359
<v Speaker 1>twenty sixth. Terms and conditions apply.

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<v Speaker 2>You keep referencing US Tradees, Matthew.

0:25:32.840 --> 0:25:35.600
<v Speaker 1>Yes, US trades ASH. We need to stick together anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>Subway's got this limited edition menu item, the Subdog, perfect

0:25:39.680 --> 0:25:40.800
<v Speaker 2>for Tradees Day lunch.

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<v Speaker 1>I always get the subdog ash as a trade myself.

0:25:43.880 --> 0:25:46.359
<v Speaker 1>That's what I enjoy most eating with my trading friends.

0:25:46.640 --> 0:25:48.760
<v Speaker 1>It's like a cym and hot Dog had a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>You get it, No, I get it. I Maybe there's

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<v Speaker 1>no better way to show some up to your favorite trade.

0:25:52.640 --> 0:25:55.280
<v Speaker 1>Just swap out the toolbox for a subdog or your

0:25:55.280 --> 0:25:57.800
<v Speaker 1>favorite sub make sure you check out the Subway app

0:25:57.840 --> 0:25:59.760
<v Speaker 1>to get that free delivery.

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<v Speaker 2>Hit up the app, grab yourself a subdog, maybe even

0:26:02.480 --> 0:26:05.159
<v Speaker 2>a cheeky cookie, and celebrate Trade's.

0:26:04.840 --> 0:26:05.720
<v Speaker 1>Day with Subway.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to just quickly talk about something very quickly

0:26:09.200 --> 0:26:16.280
<v Speaker 2>which has come across my desk that I cannot go

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<v Speaker 2>on without just asking you, like, what your thoughts are

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<v Speaker 2>on this please. So friends of mine have a three

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<v Speaker 2>year old daughter, and you've got daughters.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got a daughter and around that age. My daughters

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<v Speaker 1>are also three, one of the and you know, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Just swimming, you can get your kids like Oscar you

0:26:37.760 --> 0:26:41.880
<v Speaker 2>did rugby. And so their daughter took up dancing.

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<v Speaker 1>I loved that. I've thought about getting mole in the

0:26:45.000 --> 0:26:49.080
<v Speaker 1>dance and you know, and just just three, just keep

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<v Speaker 1>that in mind, just three, three years three, innocent. My

0:26:51.960 --> 0:26:57.560
<v Speaker 1>friends of this child have received an email from the

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<v Speaker 1>from the dance school about this particular child. I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to know what your thoughts are on the email.

0:27:04.200 --> 0:27:06.720
<v Speaker 2>Or read it out offering her a scholarship so to

0:27:06.760 --> 0:27:09.040
<v Speaker 2>whom it may concern, which is the parents, of course,

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<v Speaker 2>I hope this will hang on a second.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, just before you continue, that was just me saying.

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<v Speaker 2>It's only directed to that to the parents. Very informal. Yeah,

0:27:22.560 --> 0:27:25.280
<v Speaker 2>I hope this message finds you well. I wanted to

0:27:25.320 --> 0:27:29.639
<v Speaker 2>reach out to discuss Ziggy's behavior in our Tiny Tots class.

0:27:29.800 --> 0:27:35.240
<v Speaker 2>Tiny Tots, come on now. We value presence in our

0:27:35.280 --> 0:27:38.520
<v Speaker 2>program and are committed to ensuring that every child has

0:27:38.560 --> 0:27:43.840
<v Speaker 2>a positive and productive learning environment. However, we've noticed that

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<v Speaker 2>she has been struggling to stay engaged during lessons, which

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<v Speaker 2>has led to some disruptions in class. While we understand

0:27:50.920 --> 0:27:54.280
<v Speaker 2>that this age group can be challenging, it's important for

0:27:54.320 --> 0:27:57.479
<v Speaker 2>the benefit of all students that everyone is able to

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<v Speaker 2>follow instructions and participate appropriately.

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<v Speaker 1>She's fucking three, bro, Yes we continue, Let's go on.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, but I'm with you next paragraph. Unfortunately, the current

0:28:11.840 --> 0:28:17.040
<v Speaker 2>situation is affecting the overall learning environment not only but

0:28:17.119 --> 0:28:20.440
<v Speaker 2>also for the other students in the class. We feel

0:28:20.480 --> 0:28:23.960
<v Speaker 2>that she may not be fully benefiting from the lessons

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<v Speaker 2>at this time. It might be helpful to consider taking

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<v Speaker 2>a short break from the classes until she is more

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<v Speaker 2>comfortable following the instructor of the lessons.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me know what you think. I can credit your

0:28:37.200 --> 0:28:42.000
<v Speaker 1>account that they no there is for when she is

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<v Speaker 1>to return. Please feel free to reach out if you'd

0:28:44.200 --> 0:28:46.880
<v Speaker 1>like to discuss any further where anything we can help

0:28:46.880 --> 0:28:49.040
<v Speaker 1>to support. We're here to help and want to ensure

0:28:49.080 --> 0:28:53.200
<v Speaker 1>the best outcome for everyone involved. So that's been written

0:28:53.200 --> 0:28:57.320
<v Speaker 1>by a lawyer. Bro This also nice touch. The email

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<v Speaker 1>finds you well to her makes sense.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a three year old getting booted out of a

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<v Speaker 2>dance class.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're not learning like backflips and pirouettes, like, they're

0:29:07.480 --> 0:29:11.320
<v Speaker 1>probably just there going like that's what level of dance

0:29:11.320 --> 0:29:11.880
<v Speaker 1>are they learning?

0:29:11.920 --> 0:29:14.760
<v Speaker 2>What is this Dallas cow Dallas cheerleaders or whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you just didn't make.

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<v Speaker 2>The cut, sweetheart, get out, get out?

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<v Speaker 1>She's three?

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<v Speaker 2>What do they do twel that is, Look, she's not

0:29:23.600 --> 0:29:24.760
<v Speaker 2>twirling fast enough.

0:29:25.320 --> 0:29:28.880
<v Speaker 1>Just losing. That's absurd, it's absurd, And like what three

0:29:29.000 --> 0:29:32.360
<v Speaker 1>year old has an attention span that's like longer than

0:29:32.440 --> 0:29:35.400
<v Speaker 1>thirty seconds? Like their kids, dude, the kids just put

0:29:35.440 --> 0:29:38.040
<v Speaker 1>the music on and let them run around and have fun. Yeah,

0:29:38.200 --> 0:29:42.640
<v Speaker 1>so essentially they're not welcome back. Wow, can I ask?

0:29:42.840 --> 0:29:44.560
<v Speaker 1>I do have to ask, because you know there's some

0:29:44.680 --> 0:29:48.960
<v Speaker 1>kids can be very naughty, like you know she is

0:29:49.000 --> 0:29:51.240
<v Speaker 1>she in there like wielding a crowbar, and she's.

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<v Speaker 2>No, she is such a sweet little girl. She's the

0:29:55.080 --> 0:29:57.240
<v Speaker 2>sort of little girl who will come up to me

0:29:57.920 --> 0:30:01.200
<v Speaker 2>and go, oh, cuddle, just give me a cuddle straight up.

0:30:01.240 --> 0:30:03.240
<v Speaker 2>Maybe I'm in sort of some sort of emotional tumol,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, but she'll still come up and say,

0:30:05.680 --> 0:30:07.080
<v Speaker 2>you know, she's a sweet.

0:30:06.840 --> 0:30:10.520
<v Speaker 1>You're you're quite the tormental. So maybe she she like

0:30:10.600 --> 0:30:17.040
<v Speaker 1>knows her own she's like, what, no, that she so?

0:30:17.040 --> 0:30:17.120
<v Speaker 3>So?

0:30:17.160 --> 0:30:21.720
<v Speaker 1>What do they say back where it's still pending? But

0:30:21.760 --> 0:30:22.720
<v Speaker 1>obviously you just they're not.

0:30:22.760 --> 0:30:26.320
<v Speaker 2>They're actually and this is the sad part about it,

0:30:26.320 --> 0:30:28.000
<v Speaker 2>they're too too embarrassed to go back.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, you wouldn't go back. You couldn't. That's fucked.

0:30:31.960 --> 0:30:32.640
<v Speaker 1>That's no good.

0:30:33.040 --> 0:30:36.520
<v Speaker 2>I know, like we were as as parents of young kids.

0:30:36.880 --> 0:30:39.280
<v Speaker 2>Our kids aren't going to be behaved all the time.

0:30:39.440 --> 0:30:42.080
<v Speaker 2>They're gonna be doing silly. And it's hard enough to

0:30:42.120 --> 0:30:45.040
<v Speaker 2>even say to another parent that your kids accidentally hurt them. Look,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so sorry, like or.

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<v Speaker 1>Like is she on a scholarship? Can we just know

0:30:50.160 --> 0:30:55.080
<v Speaker 1>so paying? They're paying paying? Dude. There have been so

0:30:55.240 --> 0:30:58.640
<v Speaker 1>many times like every second swimming lesson my kid is

0:30:58.680 --> 0:31:01.080
<v Speaker 1>like screaming bloody merd because she doesn't want to get

0:31:01.080 --> 0:31:04.000
<v Speaker 1>in the water with a teacher I'm paying dude.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my response to that would be, suck it up

0:31:07.880 --> 0:31:10.600
<v Speaker 2>and do your job better. How about that? How about

0:31:10.640 --> 0:31:13.880
<v Speaker 2>you keep them engaged? How about that one? Or maybe

0:31:13.960 --> 0:31:16.240
<v Speaker 2>hire someone that can or maybe I'm moving to a

0:31:16.280 --> 0:31:17.480
<v Speaker 2>dance school that know what they're doing.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's very ridiculous, and I'm sorry to the

0:31:19.920 --> 0:31:21.960
<v Speaker 1>parents out there that are currently dealing with the situation.

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<v Speaker 1>If you or if.

0:31:23.880 --> 0:31:26.560
<v Speaker 2>You are dealing with a similar situation, is this I

0:31:26.560 --> 0:31:28.760
<v Speaker 2>don't know. Look, this is the first time I've encountered this.

0:31:28.960 --> 0:31:29.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm still pretty new.

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<v Speaker 1>If anyone was to get kicked out of a lesson,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it might be yourself. Ash, did you

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<v Speaker 1>ever get removed from classes?

0:31:40.400 --> 0:31:42.280
<v Speaker 2>Removed from classes on a daily basis?

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<v Speaker 1>From what age? Since the daughter very early on? Oh

0:31:54.160 --> 0:31:58.600
<v Speaker 1>when mom is your teacher said that you very early on?

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<v Speaker 1>It was very early on. I was very disruptive in class,

0:32:01.720 --> 0:32:05.240
<v Speaker 1>But from what age? But I think, like, I think.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, this is where I'm going to throw an opinion

0:32:08.000 --> 0:32:10.320
<v Speaker 2>on what this class should have done. Go on, they

0:32:10.360 --> 0:32:14.239
<v Speaker 2>should have said, hey, there's some problems, she's disruptive or

0:32:14.280 --> 0:32:17.880
<v Speaker 2>like she's not engaged. Instead of going we feel you

0:32:17.880 --> 0:32:21.080
<v Speaker 2>should take a break, they're like, hey, is there anything

0:32:21.120 --> 0:32:22.280
<v Speaker 2>that like we can.

0:32:22.160 --> 0:32:25.000
<v Speaker 1>Help or is maybe you should come.

0:32:25.080 --> 0:32:28.520
<v Speaker 2>Sit in in the classes a little bit more, offer something.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't just be like you're fucking out.

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<v Speaker 2>Three year old, get the fuck out of here, Like literally,

0:32:34.800 --> 0:32:35.640
<v Speaker 2>that's what's happened.

0:32:36.360 --> 0:32:39.320
<v Speaker 1>Although we shouldn't pass judgment without having to sit through

0:32:39.320 --> 0:32:40.800
<v Speaker 1>a whole lesson with this said child.

0:32:42.080 --> 0:32:46.920
<v Speaker 2>Very true, but three year old, I think in general,

0:32:46.920 --> 0:32:49.280
<v Speaker 2>three year old, don't think that's fair. I love a

0:32:49.400 --> 0:32:53.440
<v Speaker 2>passionate I will get an update on the situation, please please,

0:32:54.200 --> 0:32:59.440
<v Speaker 2>I actually hang one, I need to yell right here.

0:32:59.480 --> 0:33:01.120
<v Speaker 1>You're raising voice and it's not needed.

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<v Speaker 2>Two days ago I had to help them out and

0:33:06.320 --> 0:33:09.440
<v Speaker 2>babysit this child for a little while, in between one

0:33:09.440 --> 0:33:11.080
<v Speaker 2>finishing work and the other starting work.

0:33:11.200 --> 0:33:14.840
<v Speaker 1>Fucking this guy because mother Theresa over here, ladies and

0:33:14.840 --> 0:33:20.680
<v Speaker 1>gentlemen in Halo looking after his We not only his kids,

0:33:21.440 --> 0:33:26.400
<v Speaker 1>left my sick family to them. That's literal. April's like, ash,

0:33:26.760 --> 0:33:31.320
<v Speaker 1>where's that where's the neurofin in that bottle of water? Yeah?

0:33:31.360 --> 0:33:35.800
<v Speaker 2>And absolute delight with me. Both kids were so I

0:33:35.840 --> 0:33:38.200
<v Speaker 2>don't see, I don't I.

0:33:38.200 --> 0:33:40.880
<v Speaker 1>Don't buy it. Was this whole story just an opportunity

0:33:40.880 --> 0:33:45.640
<v Speaker 1>for you to talk about the fact that you're No.

0:33:46.120 --> 0:33:50.600
<v Speaker 1>I agree with you. I think it's I agree with you. Hey, Ash,

0:33:50.760 --> 0:33:54.960
<v Speaker 1>it's time for parenting hack or that. Oh yes, I

0:33:55.000 --> 0:33:57.720
<v Speaker 1>think I have a great parenting hack that you will love,

0:33:57.800 --> 0:34:01.320
<v Speaker 1>that everyone will love. Parents'll be the all around the world.

0:34:01.480 --> 0:34:04.000
<v Speaker 1>We'll get on board with this parenting hack. Late on

0:34:04.040 --> 0:34:06.920
<v Speaker 1>me big Does anyone else eat dinner at four twenty

0:34:06.960 --> 0:34:10.000
<v Speaker 1>five pm? Because your kids ask for a snack and

0:34:10.040 --> 0:34:12.480
<v Speaker 1>if they had a snack, they wouldn't eat dinner. So

0:34:12.600 --> 0:34:17.839
<v Speaker 1>you just have dinner. Yes, I do it, But then

0:34:17.880 --> 0:34:20.280
<v Speaker 1>they don't eat that and you do the old classic.

0:34:20.360 --> 0:34:23.959
<v Speaker 1>Well you couldn't have been that hungry. Then I think,

0:34:24.160 --> 0:34:24.759
<v Speaker 1>great hack.

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<v Speaker 2>That's bang on, thank you, because also then you can

0:34:28.320 --> 0:34:30.359
<v Speaker 2>bring the whole night forward and they're in bed by

0:34:30.400 --> 0:34:30.719
<v Speaker 2>like five.

0:34:32.320 --> 0:34:34.719
<v Speaker 1>Because I don't know the concept of time. I don't

0:34:34.760 --> 0:34:36.960
<v Speaker 1>know if it's just my kids. But if they look

0:34:37.400 --> 0:34:40.200
<v Speaker 1>at a rice thin, a rice cracker, just look at it,

0:34:40.280 --> 0:34:43.239
<v Speaker 1>have a slither, do they're not eating anything for two days?

0:34:43.280 --> 0:34:46.240
<v Speaker 1>I know? I know, Ma, She hasn't eaten anything in days,

0:34:46.360 --> 0:34:51.759
<v Speaker 1>and I'm over it, and like she is happy and healthy. Yeah,

0:34:51.880 --> 0:34:56.640
<v Speaker 1>let's just yeah, caveat that might sound terrible anyway, she's

0:34:56.680 --> 0:34:59.120
<v Speaker 1>locked in a cage, so she should be fun. I've

0:34:59.120 --> 0:35:02.160
<v Speaker 1>got one for you it believe it or not.

0:35:02.400 --> 0:35:05.080
<v Speaker 2>It's just look it. It's pretty silly, this one. I

0:35:05.200 --> 0:35:10.759
<v Speaker 2>just thought I was never no, never, okay, so.

0:35:11.040 --> 0:35:18.360
<v Speaker 1>Just scroll he's scrolling. I don't scroll my history. It's amazing.

0:35:18.600 --> 0:35:19.279
<v Speaker 1>That's very good.

0:35:21.280 --> 0:35:23.719
<v Speaker 2>When Oscar was a baby, he used to love a

0:35:23.800 --> 0:35:25.800
<v Speaker 2>butt tap, like when he was like one one and

0:35:25.880 --> 0:35:28.920
<v Speaker 2>a half, when he was like, how you see the child?

0:35:29.040 --> 0:35:29.279
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:35:29.400 --> 0:35:32.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So to the fact where when we stopped doing it,

0:35:32.400 --> 0:35:35.040
<v Speaker 2>we were like, no, I'm not sitting in here for

0:35:35.120 --> 0:35:37.960
<v Speaker 2>twenty minutes, patnyr butt, I'm getting Carple Tunnel on my rear.

0:35:38.160 --> 0:35:47.319
<v Speaker 1>Can you not? Bro Just going through Ash's phone. But

0:35:47.480 --> 0:35:50.680
<v Speaker 1>for those wondering, it's it's it's one of those mulletfish,

0:35:50.760 --> 0:35:57.920
<v Speaker 1>like the robotic mulletfish that like in between inappropriate content

0:36:00.080 --> 0:36:04.279
<v Speaker 1>of future ideas. Someone's roped with rope attached this fish

0:36:04.320 --> 0:36:07.000
<v Speaker 1>to the child, a newborn child, and it's just like

0:36:08.800 --> 0:36:10.920
<v Speaker 1>but very good, very good, so oscar.

0:36:11.400 --> 0:36:13.920
<v Speaker 2>When we started to withhold the butt pack because of

0:36:13.960 --> 0:36:16.960
<v Speaker 2>my wrist started to hurt a lot, and because of that,

0:36:19.520 --> 0:36:21.440
<v Speaker 2>he used to I used to catch him on the

0:36:21.480 --> 0:36:25.640
<v Speaker 2>monitor going like, there is himself.

0:36:27.520 --> 0:36:29.960
<v Speaker 1>The same. I know he's just like and then he

0:36:30.000 --> 0:36:37.360
<v Speaker 1>crimes off to sleep. Just give the man what he wants.

0:36:38.040 --> 0:36:45.760
<v Speaker 1>Is it time for tell me loud? Tell me little live?

0:36:48.320 --> 0:36:51.080
<v Speaker 1>Lauren says. This week the power went out at home,

0:36:51.120 --> 0:36:54.600
<v Speaker 1>which meant the kids couldn't watch TV. Once the power

0:36:54.640 --> 0:36:57.000
<v Speaker 1>came back on, I told them only normal TV works

0:36:57.000 --> 0:37:00.280
<v Speaker 1>from now on, and they can only watch ABC Kids.

0:37:00.320 --> 0:37:03.560
<v Speaker 1>None of the other streaming services are working anymore. It's

0:37:03.560 --> 0:37:06.880
<v Speaker 1>said a lot of arguments. Yeah, okay, good.

0:37:07.040 --> 0:37:09.040
<v Speaker 2>Can I just comment on it quickly before you add

0:37:09.040 --> 0:37:13.000
<v Speaker 2>you absolutely? I agree smart, because when they have no

0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:15.400
<v Speaker 2>other options, they'll just suck it up and get on

0:37:15.440 --> 0:37:15.759
<v Speaker 2>with it.

0:37:16.200 --> 0:37:20.360
<v Speaker 1>Love that go very good? But also like how I

0:37:20.400 --> 0:37:22.759
<v Speaker 1>wricked my pants? Oh no, sorry, I think that was

0:37:22.800 --> 0:37:28.080
<v Speaker 1>me before give me your pants? Isn't it wild though

0:37:28.400 --> 0:37:31.680
<v Speaker 1>that in this day and age, punishment is just watching

0:37:31.719 --> 0:37:35.640
<v Speaker 1>ABC Kids, Like that's theirs to.

0:37:35.560 --> 0:37:37.520
<v Speaker 2>Be hard labor back in the day.

0:37:37.560 --> 0:37:39.880
<v Speaker 1>Get back to sewing. Okay, what I think Lauren should

0:37:39.880 --> 0:37:43.280
<v Speaker 1>have done is she should have said. That is Santa

0:37:43.280 --> 0:37:49.279
<v Speaker 1>Claus turning off the power when you're misbehaving and he's

0:37:49.320 --> 0:37:51.600
<v Speaker 1>always watching. So if you don't want to get the

0:37:51.600 --> 0:37:55.799
<v Speaker 1>TV turned off, behave better and apologize the sounder right now.

0:37:55.880 --> 0:37:58.040
<v Speaker 2>And I think what you're alluding to, Matthew, it is

0:37:58.280 --> 0:38:02.120
<v Speaker 2>the most wonderful time of the year where you can

0:38:02.640 --> 0:38:06.960
<v Speaker 2>lie through every one of your teeth to your children

0:38:07.040 --> 0:38:09.560
<v Speaker 2>about what Santa.

0:38:09.520 --> 0:38:12.600
<v Speaker 1>You don't want any presents for Christmas in control of.

0:38:12.760 --> 0:38:16.080
<v Speaker 1>And it's remarkable how many things Santa is in control of.

0:38:16.600 --> 0:38:19.840
<v Speaker 1>Parents need to shift right now and start like moving

0:38:19.880 --> 0:38:22.920
<v Speaker 1>all their lives to be Christmas factor now. Act yeah,

0:38:22.920 --> 0:38:25.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm just just a word of warning. Act now, and

0:38:25.440 --> 0:38:28.399
<v Speaker 1>then after Christmas you can always say he'll come back.

0:38:29.320 --> 0:38:32.279
<v Speaker 2>He'll come back for it. You know what, you know

0:38:32.280 --> 0:38:34.480
<v Speaker 2>what Santa gave you, He'll come.

0:38:34.360 --> 0:38:38.040
<v Speaker 1>Back for the Christmas is fun on Christmas Day for kids,

0:38:39.200 --> 0:38:41.279
<v Speaker 1>but we now know as parents that it's really just

0:38:41.360 --> 0:38:46.160
<v Speaker 1>six months of pure fucking anxiety for kids and so

0:38:46.280 --> 0:38:49.560
<v Speaker 1>much fun for you. Do you want anything for Christmas?

0:38:49.680 --> 0:38:51.080
<v Speaker 1>You want to be the one kid on Christmas Day?

0:38:51.080 --> 0:38:57.120
<v Speaker 1>Because nothing Your call, your call to me. I'm just

0:38:57.120 --> 0:38:59.920
<v Speaker 1>getting child with flashbacks. It is.

0:39:00.000 --> 0:39:02.600
<v Speaker 2>It's great and it's so fun for us because honestly,

0:39:02.640 --> 0:39:07.200
<v Speaker 2>I'll use it. I will use doubt that for anything.

0:39:07.640 --> 0:39:08.120
<v Speaker 1>Questions.

0:39:08.400 --> 0:39:11.040
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I have a really quick question for you, please,

0:39:11.680 --> 0:39:13.200
<v Speaker 2>very quick one very recent.

0:39:13.200 --> 0:39:14.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking this week.

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<v Speaker 2>Over fresh Oscar Overnight has become afraid of the family dog.

0:39:21.680 --> 0:39:24.680
<v Speaker 2>And my question is because you have quite a big dog.

0:39:25.400 --> 0:39:28.000
<v Speaker 2>It's not a full dog, but it's a big dog.

0:39:28.080 --> 0:39:30.280
<v Speaker 2>What I mean by full dog is only three legs,

0:39:30.960 --> 0:39:33.719
<v Speaker 2>so it's only three quarters of a dog, but it's big.

0:39:33.840 --> 0:39:38.400
<v Speaker 2>Have the girls ever they ever just got scared? Like

0:39:38.440 --> 0:39:42.920
<v Speaker 2>he is petrified, Like won't go near the dog. The

0:39:42.960 --> 0:39:44.520
<v Speaker 2>dog just know us up. It's confused, like.

0:39:45.960 --> 0:39:48.920
<v Speaker 1>Did the dog do something? No, just woke up one day.

0:39:48.960 --> 0:39:51.719
<v Speaker 1>Did he watch something? I don't know. You can't explain it,

0:39:51.760 --> 0:39:53.759
<v Speaker 1>like it wasn't like we spoke about the other day

0:39:53.840 --> 0:39:57.719
<v Speaker 1>at the football the dogs police dog's attacking people, like

0:39:58.960 --> 0:40:02.880
<v Speaker 1>Oscar hasn't some I watched something showing dogs being violent.

0:40:03.360 --> 0:40:05.880
<v Speaker 1>Maybe he's witnessed an attack in public. I think he

0:40:05.880 --> 0:40:09.920
<v Speaker 1>would tell me something. Have you asked him why he's afraid?

0:40:09.920 --> 0:40:12.200
<v Speaker 1>Because I mean, yeah, he won't give me an answer.

0:40:12.280 --> 0:40:15.560
<v Speaker 1>Won't because it was after a night that he wasn't

0:40:15.560 --> 0:40:18.960
<v Speaker 1>at home. He stayed at Papa's house, and Hubert, does

0:40:19.000 --> 0:40:21.880
<v Speaker 1>Papa have a dog? He was saying.

0:40:22.840 --> 0:40:25.280
<v Speaker 2>The only things he could mutter to me about it were,

0:40:26.080 --> 0:40:28.560
<v Speaker 2>it's because she hasn't seen me in a while.

0:40:29.400 --> 0:40:33.520
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, what, it's a bit strange. The kids.

0:40:33.760 --> 0:40:36.239
<v Speaker 1>The kids sometimes disliked the cat. The cat does this

0:40:36.320 --> 0:40:40.239
<v Speaker 1>thing where he doesn't cats suck, not Raspberry. I love you.

0:40:41.360 --> 0:40:44.279
<v Speaker 1>I think she's speaking English. She will sit on the

0:40:44.320 --> 0:40:49.400
<v Speaker 1>stools and she crouches below and she swipes. She's a swiper.

0:40:50.320 --> 0:40:53.400
<v Speaker 1>And sometimes the kids and it's more just them being startled.

0:40:53.400 --> 0:40:57.800
<v Speaker 1>They're not actually getting like scratched and not bleeding. But

0:40:58.040 --> 0:41:01.640
<v Speaker 1>I was attacked by Raspberry, and then from that moment

0:41:01.680 --> 0:41:03.120
<v Speaker 1>on for the rest of the night that I wanted

0:41:03.120 --> 0:41:06.960
<v Speaker 1>anything to do with Raspberry. But my sister, okay, my

0:41:07.080 --> 0:41:11.080
<v Speaker 1>sister who also hates Raspberry, also hates Raspberry. She became

0:41:11.600 --> 0:41:15.840
<v Speaker 1>petrified of dogs. Oh, just like just as an adult

0:41:15.920 --> 0:41:18.840
<v Speaker 1>or a child. I as a child, she used to

0:41:18.880 --> 0:41:22.960
<v Speaker 1>love dogs. I wasn't there. This is going back now

0:41:23.960 --> 0:41:27.840
<v Speaker 1>thirty odd years. Who are old, but apparently when she

0:41:28.000 --> 0:41:31.200
<v Speaker 1>was a young child. There was a dog. Not sure

0:41:31.200 --> 0:41:34.000
<v Speaker 1>if it was just excited and jumping up to be like, hey,

0:41:34.080 --> 0:41:37.759
<v Speaker 1>what's up. But the dog had like broken free from

0:41:37.760 --> 0:41:42.560
<v Speaker 1>the owner, had run up and had jumped on my sister. Again,

0:41:42.880 --> 0:41:45.560
<v Speaker 1>was it a police dog. Cannot be sure if it

0:41:45.640 --> 0:41:47.640
<v Speaker 1>was like a and I wouldn't say she didn't like

0:41:47.640 --> 0:41:50.799
<v Speaker 1>it attack. She wasn't like bitten, but it was it

0:41:50.840 --> 0:41:53.320
<v Speaker 1>was a scene. It was a scene. Yeah, yeah, of course.

0:41:53.480 --> 0:41:56.200
<v Speaker 1>And from that moment on, I remember like walking to

0:41:56.280 --> 0:41:59.080
<v Speaker 1>school with my sister and if we saw any type

0:41:59.120 --> 0:42:01.359
<v Speaker 1>of dog, regardless of the bread I'm not just talking

0:42:01.360 --> 0:42:04.960
<v Speaker 1>about like the scary dogs, like a Golden Retriever, right,

0:42:05.040 --> 0:42:08.320
<v Speaker 1>who's scared of a Golden Retriever? My sister she would

0:42:08.320 --> 0:42:08.759
<v Speaker 1>be like.

0:42:10.880 --> 0:42:15.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. Yeah, fear is a strange thing, isn't that.

0:42:15.239 --> 0:42:17.480
<v Speaker 1>Maybe he was maybe like he had an interaction with

0:42:17.520 --> 0:42:20.319
<v Speaker 1>the dog. The dog's tiny. No, not with that dog

0:42:20.360 --> 0:42:20.919
<v Speaker 1>any other dog.

0:42:21.600 --> 0:42:24.640
<v Speaker 2>Need to get to the bottom of this, need to

0:42:24.640 --> 0:42:27.480
<v Speaker 2>get but also it's hard to be like, I'm like, bro,

0:42:27.640 --> 0:42:30.000
<v Speaker 2>there's this been your dog your whole life.

0:42:30.280 --> 0:42:31.600
<v Speaker 1>That's why I don't think it was that dog was

0:42:31.600 --> 0:42:34.640
<v Speaker 1>another dog just saying, okay, not that I'm going to

0:42:34.719 --> 0:42:37.439
<v Speaker 1>take anyone has any suggestions of what it might be,

0:42:37.760 --> 0:42:39.080
<v Speaker 1>It'll just be the same thing. There's been a bunch

0:42:39.120 --> 0:42:40.920
<v Speaker 1>of people right in and go now simply must have

0:42:40.920 --> 0:42:44.000
<v Speaker 1>happened with another dog. No shit, I want more psychology

0:42:44.040 --> 0:42:50.160
<v Speaker 1>than that, do they? Instead of paying for professional help? Listeners?

0:42:50.360 --> 0:42:53.760
<v Speaker 2>Please way more, way more experience.

0:42:54.880 --> 0:42:56.680
<v Speaker 1>What do you got for me? I have a question

0:42:56.719 --> 0:42:58.880
<v Speaker 1>for you. This one is from one of our good listeners.

0:42:58.880 --> 0:43:02.200
<v Speaker 1>Her name is Jesse. Hello Jesse, Jesse, hope you're well

0:43:03.280 --> 0:43:06.239
<v Speaker 1>submitted on the Instagram page. For those playing at home,

0:43:06.560 --> 0:43:08.919
<v Speaker 1>you can DM the Instagram page. Please use your question.

0:43:09.120 --> 0:43:13.360
<v Speaker 1>Please dm us anytime you wish. We're always open, always welcoming.

0:43:13.600 --> 0:43:17.759
<v Speaker 1>Jesse says, asks Even we know mum guild is a thing,

0:43:17.800 --> 0:43:21.520
<v Speaker 1>but what about dad guilt? When do you feel at most?

0:43:21.760 --> 0:43:24.960
<v Speaker 1>Very good question? Do you get guilt? Ash? Are you

0:43:25.080 --> 0:43:27.120
<v Speaker 1>capable of feeling guilt?

0:43:27.520 --> 0:43:32.000
<v Speaker 2>Surprisingly enough? Yes, I am apparently to.

0:43:31.960 --> 0:43:34.840
<v Speaker 1>Me apparently know what Steve Menzie is. No, I did

0:43:34.920 --> 0:43:37.200
<v Speaker 1>avoid you for a long time. Yeah, but do you

0:43:37.200 --> 0:43:40.160
<v Speaker 1>get parent guild? Yeah? When do you get it?

0:43:41.000 --> 0:43:43.920
<v Speaker 2>I get it when I feel like I've reacted to

0:43:43.960 --> 0:43:46.240
<v Speaker 2>something I've just knee jerk reacted.

0:43:46.320 --> 0:43:49.560
<v Speaker 1>So, for example, this whole scared thing Oscar scared, I got.

0:43:49.880 --> 0:43:53.799
<v Speaker 2>I got angry about it because I was frustrated to

0:43:53.840 --> 0:43:58.000
<v Speaker 2>not because I didn't know why. But then after after

0:43:58.880 --> 0:44:02.319
<v Speaker 2>the reaction, and you know, I think time has gone

0:44:02.360 --> 0:44:05.839
<v Speaker 2>by the react. My reaction was wrong and I felt

0:44:05.880 --> 0:44:07.680
<v Speaker 2>guilty about that, and I did speak to Oscar, but

0:44:07.680 --> 0:44:11.160
<v Speaker 2>I said, look, sorry, it's you shouldn't get in trouble

0:44:11.200 --> 0:44:12.440
<v Speaker 2>for feeling fear.

0:44:13.480 --> 0:44:16.279
<v Speaker 1>Yes, because as irrational as it may be.

0:44:16.880 --> 0:44:19.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like I needed to be more patient in

0:44:19.920 --> 0:44:23.200
<v Speaker 2>that situation and try and understand why instead of just kneed.

0:44:24.040 --> 0:44:26.040
<v Speaker 1>She's been a fucking dog for five years, bro.

0:44:26.840 --> 0:44:29.440
<v Speaker 2>Which is wrong. And I did feel guilty about that.

0:44:29.920 --> 0:44:35.280
<v Speaker 2>Had the chat with Oscar, we mended with mended, mended,

0:44:35.360 --> 0:44:39.160
<v Speaker 2>and I have acknowledged that it's okay to be scared,

0:44:39.280 --> 0:44:41.120
<v Speaker 2>it's okay to feel fear.

0:44:44.960 --> 0:44:47.480
<v Speaker 1>I want to say, that's a great approach to the situation.

0:44:48.000 --> 0:44:49.040
<v Speaker 1>Very mature of you.

0:44:49.160 --> 0:44:51.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm growing. I'm scared of that.

0:44:53.440 --> 0:44:54.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel it. I feel it, I reckon I

0:44:55.000 --> 0:44:59.759
<v Speaker 1>feel it now more than ever. I think why. I

0:44:59.760 --> 0:45:03.759
<v Speaker 1>think when so my kids five and three, it's a

0:45:03.800 --> 0:45:06.360
<v Speaker 1>great age and it's a great time of parenting because

0:45:06.400 --> 0:45:10.239
<v Speaker 1>the kids can be a bit more autonomous. Yeah, they

0:45:10.280 --> 0:45:12.279
<v Speaker 1>can kind of play with themselves a little bit more.

0:45:12.400 --> 0:45:16.080
<v Speaker 1>They don't require Laura and myself to watching over them

0:45:16.120 --> 0:45:19.600
<v Speaker 1>every second, and especially right now, because you know, we're

0:45:19.600 --> 0:45:24.480
<v Speaker 1>trying to juggle work amongst this bloody house and I

0:45:24.520 --> 0:45:28.160
<v Speaker 1>we're really really stretched and any spare time has been

0:45:28.200 --> 0:45:31.399
<v Speaker 1>put into other things that aren't the kids. And it's

0:45:31.400 --> 0:45:33.799
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of a case of we're in the

0:45:33.880 --> 0:45:37.479
<v Speaker 1>routine of picking the kids up from daycare and kind

0:45:37.480 --> 0:45:40.879
<v Speaker 1>of just trying to get to that finish line that's

0:45:40.920 --> 0:45:44.319
<v Speaker 1>seven o'clock bedtime, you know, get them home, get them fed,

0:45:44.360 --> 0:45:47.279
<v Speaker 1>get them bars, put them into bed, not really having

0:45:47.320 --> 0:45:48.040
<v Speaker 1>quality time.

0:45:48.239 --> 0:45:51.080
<v Speaker 2>And also you take you sort of take any inconvenience

0:45:51.120 --> 0:45:52.800
<v Speaker 2>in that to bring things forward.

0:45:52.880 --> 0:45:55.399
<v Speaker 1>Right, So that's it. I'm starting the bath, yeah, do

0:45:55.400 --> 0:45:57.080
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? And it's like it's just

0:45:57.120 --> 0:45:59.040
<v Speaker 1>to get you through and then once it's like, oh

0:45:59.080 --> 0:46:01.399
<v Speaker 1>they're in bed, Oh fuck, I do it as well.

0:46:01.400 --> 0:46:02.719
<v Speaker 1>You know what you know we did the other night,

0:46:02.920 --> 0:46:07.320
<v Speaker 1>which just was a stupid thing to do. It's sweet,

0:46:07.400 --> 0:46:10.200
<v Speaker 1>but stupid. Is then going through and looking at photos

0:46:10.200 --> 0:46:13.040
<v Speaker 1>of when they were younger. Yeah, and then you just

0:46:13.320 --> 0:46:17.200
<v Speaker 1>what I think fuels the guilt more than anything is

0:46:17.239 --> 0:46:19.799
<v Speaker 1>when you start to realize how much they've grown up

0:46:20.200 --> 0:46:24.080
<v Speaker 1>and how quickly time is going, and you're like, I'm

0:46:24.080 --> 0:46:27.240
<v Speaker 1>not fucking loving every second of parenting. I'm a shit parent.

0:46:27.560 --> 0:46:30.400
<v Speaker 2>And you're like, ah, you've also got a like And

0:46:30.520 --> 0:46:33.680
<v Speaker 2>for any parent with young kid out there that feels guilt,

0:46:33.800 --> 0:46:35.960
<v Speaker 2>whether it's on a small scale or a large scale,

0:46:35.960 --> 0:46:38.279
<v Speaker 2>I think you're allowed to give yourself an opportunity to

0:46:38.360 --> 0:46:41.640
<v Speaker 2>like feel that way so that you can go, all right, well,

0:46:41.680 --> 0:46:44.800
<v Speaker 2>how do I change that behavior or like, it's also

0:46:44.840 --> 0:46:46.040
<v Speaker 2>okay to feel guilty.

0:46:46.320 --> 0:46:46.840
<v Speaker 1>You can't.

0:46:47.200 --> 0:46:50.000
<v Speaker 2>You shouldn't have to be made to feel like you're

0:46:50.040 --> 0:46:52.040
<v Speaker 2>doing a bad thing for feeling guilty, because if you

0:46:52.040 --> 0:46:54.600
<v Speaker 2>feel guilty, then you realize that, Okay, well there's better

0:46:54.640 --> 0:46:56.399
<v Speaker 2>ways that I could do that, and then next time

0:46:56.440 --> 0:46:57.040
<v Speaker 2>you could do it.

0:46:57.760 --> 0:47:00.000
<v Speaker 1>That makes sense, it does in a way, But yeah,

0:47:00.040 --> 0:47:02.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm feeling it more now than ever before.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And like I'm saying, like they you sort of

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<v Speaker 2>go into that.

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<v Speaker 1>Auto pilot because the quality time, the quality time with

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<v Speaker 1>the three and five year old is a lot more

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<v Speaker 1>like I find it a lot richer if you will

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<v Speaker 1>then with like a like a one year old, because

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<v Speaker 1>you get to interact more, you get to play games,

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<v Speaker 1>you get to like you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Even if you're playing the games incorrectly. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like Ann next four Mass Just like.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just don't feel like I'm getting that quality term,

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<v Speaker 1>especially on the weekends as well, because weekends we're just

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<v Speaker 1>focus on other things. So yeah, dads get it, dads

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<v Speaker 1>get it good all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think, like I said to, I think you're

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<v Speaker 2>allowed to feel guilty. You don't feel like it's a

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<v Speaker 2>bad thing because it could be turned into a good thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, thank you, as that's okay. We're here to help

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, or jump on the Facebook group. So just go

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<v Speaker 1>I think people know how Facebook works, but I could

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<v Speaker 2>We pay our respects to their elders past and present

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<v Speaker 2>and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres straight

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<v Speaker 2>on the People's Today.

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<v Speaker 1>This episode was recorded on Gadigal Land