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Speaker 2: a video in my vulnerable state.

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Speaker 1: Can't tell if you're annoyed by that.

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Speaker 2: I might hand down my pants and I was snoring

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Speaker 1: I thought it was a very cute little video. Yes,

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Speaker 1: front of your pants, it was down the side. It

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Speaker 1: was very endearing. People loved it because my cock's on

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Speaker 1: my hip. Welcome back to two doting dads. I am

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Speaker 1: Maddie Jay and I'm Ash and this is a podcast

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Speaker 1: all about parenting. It is the good, it is a bad.

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Speaker 1: So that's my line and relatable. Yes, that's miss And

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Speaker 1: if you've come for advice, not from us, sorry to

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Speaker 1: tell you not to day, but if you've come to

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Speaker 1: listen to two idiots, well welcome, Welcome a boar ash

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Speaker 1: before we get into this. Yeah, fantastic episode.

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Speaker 2: It's going to be a fair I can feel it.

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Speaker 1: We do for a good one. We're both well.

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Speaker 2: I am very tired all the time, so I feel

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Speaker 2: like it's going to be good.

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Speaker 1: How many hours did you get last night? The last

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Speaker 1: night was good? How many to find hours. That's too much.

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Speaker 2: You know I needed it from the previous night, which

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Speaker 2: we will talk about.

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Speaker 1: We'll get into that very shortly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know I needed it, but I'm still tired.

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Speaker 1: Ash. Yes, I have something very special for you, a gift,

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Speaker 1: if you will, Matthew, you are the only gift I need.

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Speaker 1: That's very sweet. Thank you. Do you remember we had

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Speaker 1: a segment a few weeks ago it was apparenting hacker fucked.

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Speaker 1: Oh what is it? Tron? I don't know why? It

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Speaker 1: says Tron. This is the disposable potty, the magic hat?

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Speaker 1: Am I going to poop? Yes on this podcast? Absolutely

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Speaker 1: give me a look. Don't don't withhold it from me.

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Speaker 2: That's so many years in that all the way three pack.

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Speaker 1: It is, Tron. It's more than that three pay reusable.

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Speaker 1: Can I open it?

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Speaker 3: I thought you'd never asked, Oh where's this from?

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Speaker 1: Just one for me thinks this is all the way

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Speaker 1: from the UK. Okay, so we're just currently unwrapping. So

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Speaker 1: this is for those of you wondering. We I found

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Speaker 1: this onliners on social media. It was a portable potty.

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Speaker 1: Imagine a cardboard magician's hat that you would bring with you.

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Speaker 1: Have it stored in the car, and if your child

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Speaker 1: back of the car. Did you say hat they quite

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Speaker 1: old design? Yeah? Wa wa wa wa wa wait wait,

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Speaker 1: let's let's let's try it on the floor. Maybe ash's

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Speaker 1: currently opening up the disposable potty, very quick to set up.

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Speaker 1: I might just add it's got a little absorbent people done, mate,

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Speaker 1: plastic lining with a little pattern side. Take pants off,

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Speaker 1: Take pans off. It's going to cost you more than that. Man,

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Speaker 1: Eighty eighty bucks? Eighty dollars that's coming out of your

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Speaker 1: I don't know how we got there, but we did.

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Speaker 2: And he was He was kind of like, and look,

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Speaker 2: We won this competition through a friend of mine. It

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Speaker 2: I was already pierced when he picked me up. And

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Speaker 2: Parah and he was like, I do remember the game.

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Speaker 1: I reckon, he knew you're like you like, Steve, do

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Speaker 1: Anyway, but it was a good night and you went

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Speaker 2: How was the weekend? Actually, I'm we're going to let

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Speaker 1: The weekend was good, thanks mate. The weekend was good.

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Speaker 1: In those two. Yeah, are you fucking high? No?

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Speaker 2: I wish you got to think that's very bright white.

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Speaker 1: Give me, give me? You and Laura should be running

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Speaker 1: Did you really? Yeah? So fleeting with my wife your

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Speaker 2: But we both were wearing clothes. It's all good, Thank you,

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Speaker 2: And it's like, if you're not interested in something that

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Speaker 1: But Laura said, look, there's there's one little part of

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Speaker 1: The basement. It was a little bit through the on

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Speaker 1: say that though. She's very very talented and beautiful and funny.

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00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:29,760
Speaker 1: And she was like, whatever you want, babe, you can

438
00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:33,480
Speaker 1: eat that bathroom. It's your project. It's yours trap, bro okay.

439
00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:35,560
Speaker 1: And so then I was like, great, lock it in

440
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:39,320
Speaker 1: green and green and white stripe. Let's go green white stripe.

441
00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:44,400
Speaker 1: That's lovely. Thank you, thank you anyway, so I'm about

442
00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:48,359
Speaker 1: to place the order and Laura is like, are you

443
00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 1: are you sure you definitely want the green and white

444
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 1: stripe And I was like, yeah, work, what work? What's

445
00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:58,400
Speaker 1: not to love? It's it's great, it's punchy, it's yeah,

446
00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:01,359
Speaker 1: it's why it's Chris beachy. And she was like okay.

447
00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,000
Speaker 2: But also, this wouldn't have been the first time that

448
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 2: she's heard.

449
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 1: About this idea. No, no, no, she's had exactly. It was

450
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:06,959
Speaker 1: like one of the first I locked in.

451
00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:10,159
Speaker 2: Don't don't stop me when I'm about to lock it in,

452
00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:11,680
Speaker 2: stop me when I suggest it.

453
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,800
Speaker 1: And so then Laura's like, okay, look, if you're happy

454
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Speaker 1: with it, we'll lock it in. I was like great.

455
00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 1: And then she went to work. This morning she called

456
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,320
Speaker 1: me and I'm like, hey, where are you And she goes, well,

457
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:25,359
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just at the tile shop. Oh god.

458
00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 1: And I was like okay, and she's like, I just

459
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 1: want to send you something. Greenish shripe are no longer

460
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:36,560
Speaker 1: happening at She was like, and I did send you

461
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:39,439
Speaker 1: something and tell me if you like it. And it

462
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,159
Speaker 1: does look better. It does look much better, I have

463
00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:45,399
Speaker 1: to say it. It looks a lot better. He's like,

464
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,920
Speaker 1: it looks a lot better. Yeah, that's what that's what

465
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 1: you told me to say. I just want to say

466
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:54,679
Speaker 1: that Laura's decision making has been second to none, and

467
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Speaker 1: I can't wait to see the finished product. She's just

468
00:22:58,080 --> 00:22:58,639
Speaker 1: I love it.

469
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Speaker 2: Laura blink twice, Matt blink twice.

470
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:05,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're getting their mate, we get Actually, I

471
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 1: need your help. I do need your help with something,

472
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:10,720
Speaker 1: okay right now? No, no, no, not right now, not

473
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Speaker 1: the second because I know you have to go back

474
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 1: to your sick family. I do, and know it's a

475
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:16,639
Speaker 1: big ass because I didn't help you move your house.

476
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:21,119
Speaker 2: Oh no, absolutely not, no, absolutely. I just need help

477
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 2: with some of the gardening down there.

478
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 1: Yeah. So are you offering me a weekend away like

479
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 1: you me it's your weekend? Yeah. No, kids, hard labor,

480
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 1: hard labor. All we need to do is just rip

481
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:39,639
Speaker 1: out a heap of plants. It'll be fun. Just an idea.

482
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:41,679
Speaker 1: I know what's a long way to drive, and I

483
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:45,760
Speaker 1: know that where will we say? Well, books are where? Nice?

484
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:48,959
Speaker 2: Would you say it would be romantic?

485
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 1: Absolutely?

486
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 2: I mean I mean you had me, and you had me.

487
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 1: Okay, in a few weeks time. I just need to

488
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 1: come down, because you know I'm not that manly Ash. You, however,

489
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 1: you're so masculine, so strong, and you know you know

490
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 1: your way around a set of tuls, Thanks God. So

491
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 1: that's why I need you there.

492
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,719
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, all right, I'll do it because if

493
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 2: I don't do it, you'll end up with Falcon.

494
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,400
Speaker 1: For those of you who don't know, my good friend,

495
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:17,920
Speaker 1: Falcon is a lovely young man. He would take a

496
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 1: bullet for you. He would take a bullet for me.

497
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 1: Not the best in the garden knocking my hands on.

498
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 2: No, he's more like, throw your party sort of guy. Yeah, okay,

499
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 2: well list do that list of that Ash.

500
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:32,919
Speaker 1: I know it's almost lunchtime, so I don't want to

501
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 1: make you even hungrier than what you are right now.

502
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 1: But you know, when you're near a subway and your

503
00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 1: nose is just a little bit tickled by the smell

504
00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: of warm bread, I'm like a dog. I can sniff

505
00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:46,800
Speaker 1: my way to a store.

506
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:50,120
Speaker 2: I could actually go for a subway, now, I bet.

507
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 1: You could, big guy. You know who gets to take

508
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:54,440
Speaker 1: full advantage of the subway treatment. Ash?

509
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 4: You know who have a guess trades as tradies whom

510
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:01,760
Speaker 4: must be nice Ashes someone who's just entered the trading

511
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:04,679
Speaker 4: world for the first time recently with the renaults down South.

512
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:07,359
Speaker 1: There's an important date coming up that only US trades

513
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 1: would know about, Matthew.

514
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,440
Speaker 2: That is National Trade's Day this Friday, the twentieth September.

515
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 1: However, sir, I do not believe you are a trade now.

516
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 1: It's marked in the calendar as my second favorite day

517
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,840
Speaker 1: only second to Christmas. And Subway is very specially are

518
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:25,160
Speaker 1: celebrating US trades by offering free delivery with Subway delivers

519
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 1: on the Subway up from Friday, September twenty until September

520
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 1: twenty sixth. Terms and conditions apply.

521
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:33,159
Speaker 2: You keep referencing US Tradees, Matthew.

522
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 1: Yes, US trades ASH. We need to stick together anyway.

523
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:39,640
Speaker 2: Subway's got this limited edition menu item, the Subdog, perfect

524
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:40,800
Speaker 2: for Tradees Day lunch.

525
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:43,840
Speaker 1: I always get the subdog ash as a trade myself.

526
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,359
Speaker 1: That's what I enjoy most eating with my trading friends.

527
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 1: It's like a cym and hot Dog had a baby.

528
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:50,400
Speaker 1: You get it, No, I get it. I Maybe there's

529
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 1: no better way to show some up to your favorite trade.

530
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 1: Just swap out the toolbox for a subdog or your

531
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 1: favorite sub make sure you check out the Subway app

532
00:25:57,840 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: to get that free delivery.

533
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 2: Hit up the app, grab yourself a subdog, maybe even

534
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,159
Speaker 2: a cheeky cookie, and celebrate Trade's.

535
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:05,720
Speaker 1: Day with Subway.

536
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:09,159
Speaker 2: I want to just quickly talk about something very quickly

537
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 2: which has come across my desk that I cannot go

538
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 2: on without just asking you, like, what your thoughts are

539
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 2: on this please. So friends of mine have a three

540
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 2: year old daughter, and you've got daughters.

541
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 1: I've got a daughter and around that age. My daughters

542
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:33,399
Speaker 1: are also three, one of the and you know, you.

543
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 2: Just swimming, you can get your kids like Oscar you

544
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:41,880
Speaker 2: did rugby. And so their daughter took up dancing.

545
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:44,879
Speaker 1: I loved that. I've thought about getting mole in the

546
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 1: dance and you know, and just just three, just keep

547
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:51,919
Speaker 1: that in mind, just three, three years three, innocent. My

548
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 1: friends of this child have received an email from the

549
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 1: from the dance school about this particular child. I just

550
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 1: want to know what your thoughts are on the email.

551
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:06,720
Speaker 2: Or read it out offering her a scholarship so to

552
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 2: whom it may concern, which is the parents, of course,

553
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 2: I hope this will hang on a second.

554
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 1: Sorry, just before you continue, that was just me saying.

555
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 2: It's only directed to that to the parents. Very informal. Yeah,

556
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 2: I hope this message finds you well. I wanted to

557
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 2: reach out to discuss Ziggy's behavior in our Tiny Tots class.

558
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 2: Tiny Tots, come on now. We value presence in our

559
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 2: program and are committed to ensuring that every child has

560
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 2: a positive and productive learning environment. However, we've noticed that

561
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 2: she has been struggling to stay engaged during lessons, which

562
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 2: has led to some disruptions in class. While we understand

563
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 2: that this age group can be challenging, it's important for

564
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:57,479
Speaker 2: the benefit of all students that everyone is able to

565
00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 2: follow instructions and participate appropriately.

566
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: She's fucking three, bro, Yes we continue, Let's go on.

567
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 2: Sorry, but I'm with you next paragraph. Unfortunately, the current

568
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 2: situation is affecting the overall learning environment not only but

569
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:20,440
Speaker 2: also for the other students in the class. We feel

570
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 2: that she may not be fully benefiting from the lessons

571
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,919
Speaker 2: at this time. It might be helpful to consider taking

572
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 2: a short break from the classes until she is more

573
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 2: comfortable following the instructor of the lessons.

574
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 1: Let me know what you think. I can credit your

575
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 1: account that they no there is for when she is

576
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 1: to return. Please feel free to reach out if you'd

577
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 1: like to discuss any further where anything we can help

578
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 1: to support. We're here to help and want to ensure

579
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 1: the best outcome for everyone involved. So that's been written

580
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 1: by a lawyer. Bro This also nice touch. The email

581
00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 1: finds you well to her makes sense.

582
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 2: It's a three year old getting booted out of a

583
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 2: dance class.

584
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're not learning like backflips and pirouettes, like, they're

585
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 1: probably just there going like that's what level of dance

586
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: are they learning?

587
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 2: What is this Dallas cow Dallas cheerleaders or whatever it is.

588
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 1: It's like you just didn't make.

589
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 2: The cut, sweetheart, get out, get out?

590
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 1: She's three?

591
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 2: What do they do twel that is, Look, she's not

592
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 2: twirling fast enough.

593
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 1: Just losing. That's absurd, it's absurd, And like what three

594
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 1: year old has an attention span that's like longer than

595
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 1: thirty seconds? Like their kids, dude, the kids just put

596
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 1: the music on and let them run around and have fun. Yeah,

597
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 1: so essentially they're not welcome back. Wow, can I ask?

598
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: I do have to ask, because you know there's some

599
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 1: kids can be very naughty, like you know she is

600
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 1: she in there like wielding a crowbar, and she's.

601
00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 2: No, she is such a sweet little girl. She's the

602
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 2: sort of little girl who will come up to me

603
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 2: and go, oh, cuddle, just give me a cuddle straight up.

604
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 2: Maybe I'm in sort of some sort of emotional tumol,

605
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 2: I don't know, but she'll still come up and say,

606
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:07,080
Speaker 2: you know, she's a sweet.

607
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 1: You're you're quite the tormental. So maybe she she like

608
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 1: knows her own she's like, what, no, that she so?

609
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 3: So?

610
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 1: What do they say back where it's still pending? But

611
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 1: obviously you just they're not.

612
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 2: They're actually and this is the sad part about it,

613
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 2: they're too too embarrassed to go back.

614
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you wouldn't go back. You couldn't. That's fucked.

615
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 1: That's no good.

616
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 2: I know, like we were as as parents of young kids.

617
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 2: Our kids aren't going to be behaved all the time.

618
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 2: They're gonna be doing silly. And it's hard enough to

619
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 2: even say to another parent that your kids accidentally hurt them. Look,

620
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, like or.

621
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Speaker 1: Like is she on a scholarship? Can we just know

622
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 1: so paying? They're paying paying? Dude. There have been so

623
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Speaker 1: many times like every second swimming lesson my kid is

624
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 1: like screaming bloody merd because she doesn't want to get

625
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: in the water with a teacher I'm paying dude.

626
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, my response to that would be, suck it up

627
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 2: and do your job better. How about that? How about

628
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 2: you keep them engaged? How about that one? Or maybe

629
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 2: hire someone that can or maybe I'm moving to a

630
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 2: dance school that know what they're doing.

631
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Speaker 1: I think that's very ridiculous, and I'm sorry to the

632
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 1: parents out there that are currently dealing with the situation.

633
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Speaker 1: If you or if.

634
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 2: You are dealing with a similar situation, is this I

635
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 2: don't know. Look, this is the first time I've encountered this.

636
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:29,719
Speaker 2: I'm still pretty new.

637
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 1: If anyone was to get kicked out of a lesson,

638
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Speaker 1: I feel like it might be yourself. Ash, did you

639
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 1: ever get removed from classes?

640
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 2: Removed from classes on a daily basis?

641
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 1: From what age? Since the daughter very early on? Oh

642
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 1: when mom is your teacher said that you very early on?

643
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 1: It was very early on. I was very disruptive in class,

644
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 1: But from what age? But I think, like, I think.

645
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 2: Look, this is where I'm going to throw an opinion

646
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 2: on what this class should have done. Go on, they

647
00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:14,239
Speaker 2: should have said, hey, there's some problems, she's disruptive or

648
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 2: like she's not engaged. Instead of going we feel you

649
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 2: should take a break, they're like, hey, is there anything

650
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 2: that like we can.

651
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 1: Help or is maybe you should come.

652
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:28,520
Speaker 2: Sit in in the classes a little bit more, offer something.

653
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: Don't just be like you're fucking out.

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Speaker 2: Three year old, get the fuck out of here, Like literally,

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Speaker 2: that's what's happened.

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00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 1: Although we shouldn't pass judgment without having to sit through

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Speaker 1: a whole lesson with this said child.

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Speaker 2: Very true, but three year old, I think in general,

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Speaker 2: three year old, don't think that's fair. I love a

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Speaker 2: passionate I will get an update on the situation, please please,

661
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 2: I actually hang one, I need to yell right here.

662
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 1: You're raising voice and it's not needed.

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Speaker 2: Two days ago I had to help them out and

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Speaker 2: babysit this child for a little while, in between one

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Speaker 2: finishing work and the other starting work.

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Speaker 1: Fucking this guy because mother Theresa over here, ladies and

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Speaker 1: gentlemen in Halo looking after his We not only his kids,

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Speaker 1: left my sick family to them. That's literal. April's like, ash,

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Speaker 1: where's that where's the neurofin in that bottle of water? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And absolute delight with me. Both kids were so I

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Speaker 2: don't see, I don't I.

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Speaker 1: Don't buy it. Was this whole story just an opportunity

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Speaker 1: for you to talk about the fact that you're No.

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Speaker 1: I agree with you. I think it's I agree with you. Hey, Ash,

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Speaker 1: it's time for parenting hack or that. Oh yes, I

676
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Speaker 1: think I have a great parenting hack that you will love,

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Speaker 1: that everyone will love. Parents'll be the all around the world.

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Speaker 1: We'll get on board with this parenting hack. Late on

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Speaker 1: me big Does anyone else eat dinner at four twenty

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00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 1: five pm? Because your kids ask for a snack and

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00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 1: if they had a snack, they wouldn't eat dinner. So

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00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:17,839
Speaker 1: you just have dinner. Yes, I do it, But then

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Speaker 1: they don't eat that and you do the old classic.

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Speaker 1: Well you couldn't have been that hungry. Then I think,

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Speaker 1: great hack.

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00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 2: That's bang on, thank you, because also then you can

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Speaker 2: bring the whole night forward and they're in bed by

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Speaker 2: like five.

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Speaker 1: Because I don't know the concept of time. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if it's just my kids. But if they look

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Speaker 1: at a rice thin, a rice cracker, just look at it,

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Speaker 1: have a slither, do they're not eating anything for two days?

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Speaker 1: I know? I know, Ma, She hasn't eaten anything in days,

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Speaker 1: and I'm over it, and like she is happy and healthy. Yeah,

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00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: let's just yeah, caveat that might sound terrible anyway, she's

696
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Speaker 1: locked in a cage, so she should be fun. I've

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Speaker 1: got one for you it believe it or not.

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Speaker 2: It's just look it. It's pretty silly, this one. I

699
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Speaker 2: just thought I was never no, never, okay, so.

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Speaker 1: Just scroll he's scrolling. I don't scroll my history. It's amazing.

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00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 1: That's very good.

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00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:23,719
Speaker 2: When Oscar was a baby, he used to love a

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00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:25,800
Speaker 2: butt tap, like when he was like one one and

704
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 2: a half, when he was like, how you see the child?

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00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 3: Yeah?

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00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:32,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, So to the fact where when we stopped doing it,

707
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:35,040
Speaker 2: we were like, no, I'm not sitting in here for

708
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 2: twenty minutes, patnyr butt, I'm getting Carple Tunnel on my rear.

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00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 1: Can you not? Bro Just going through Ash's phone. But

710
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 1: for those wondering, it's it's it's one of those mulletfish,

711
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 1: like the robotic mulletfish that like in between inappropriate content

712
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 1: of future ideas. Someone's roped with rope attached this fish

713
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 1: to the child, a newborn child, and it's just like

714
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:10,920
Speaker 1: but very good, very good, so oscar.

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Speaker 2: When we started to withhold the butt pack because of

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00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 2: my wrist started to hurt a lot, and because of that,

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00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 2: he used to I used to catch him on the

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00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 2: monitor going like, there is himself.

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Speaker 1: The same. I know he's just like and then he

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00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 1: crimes off to sleep. Just give the man what he wants.

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00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:45,760
Speaker 1: Is it time for tell me loud? Tell me little live?

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00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 1: Lauren says. This week the power went out at home,

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Speaker 1: which meant the kids couldn't watch TV. Once the power

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00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 1: came back on, I told them only normal TV works

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00:36:57,000 --> 00:37:00,280
Speaker 1: from now on, and they can only watch ABC Kids.

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00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 1: None of the other streaming services are working anymore. It's

727
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:06,880
Speaker 1: said a lot of arguments. Yeah, okay, good.

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Speaker 2: Can I just comment on it quickly before you add

729
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 2: you absolutely? I agree smart, because when they have no

730
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,400
Speaker 2: other options, they'll just suck it up and get on

731
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 2: with it.

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Speaker 1: Love that go very good? But also like how I

733
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Speaker 1: wricked my pants? Oh no, sorry, I think that was

734
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 1: me before give me your pants? Isn't it wild though

735
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:31,680
Speaker 1: that in this day and age, punishment is just watching

736
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Speaker 1: ABC Kids, Like that's theirs to.

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Speaker 2: Be hard labor back in the day.

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Speaker 1: Get back to sewing. Okay, what I think Lauren should

739
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:43,280
Speaker 1: have done is she should have said. That is Santa

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00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:49,279
Speaker 1: Claus turning off the power when you're misbehaving and he's

741
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 1: always watching. So if you don't want to get the

742
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:55,799
Speaker 1: TV turned off, behave better and apologize the sounder right now.

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00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 2: And I think what you're alluding to, Matthew, it is

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00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 2: the most wonderful time of the year where you can

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00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 2: lie through every one of your teeth to your children

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Speaker 2: about what Santa.

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00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 1: You don't want any presents for Christmas in control of.

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00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 1: And it's remarkable how many things Santa is in control of.

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00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,840
Speaker 1: Parents need to shift right now and start like moving

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Speaker 1: all their lives to be Christmas factor now. Act yeah,

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00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:25,440
Speaker 1: I'm just just a word of warning. Act now, and

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00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:28,399
Speaker 1: then after Christmas you can always say he'll come back.

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00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:32,279
Speaker 2: He'll come back for it. You know what, you know

754
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 2: what Santa gave you, He'll come.

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00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 1: Back for the Christmas is fun on Christmas Day for kids,

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00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,279
Speaker 1: but we now know as parents that it's really just

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00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 1: six months of pure fucking anxiety for kids and so

758
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 1: much fun for you. Do you want anything for Christmas?

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00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 1: You want to be the one kid on Christmas Day?

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00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 1: Because nothing Your call, your call to me. I'm just

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00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 1: getting child with flashbacks. It is.

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Speaker 2: It's great and it's so fun for us because honestly,

763
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 2: I'll use it. I will use doubt that for anything.

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Speaker 1: Questions.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I have a really quick question for you, please,

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Speaker 2: very quick one very recent.

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00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: I'm talking this week.

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Speaker 2: Over fresh Oscar Overnight has become afraid of the family dog.

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Speaker 2: And my question is because you have quite a big dog.

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Speaker 2: It's not a full dog, but it's a big dog.

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00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,280
Speaker 2: What I mean by full dog is only three legs,

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00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 2: so it's only three quarters of a dog, but it's big.

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Speaker 2: Have the girls ever they ever just got scared? Like

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Speaker 2: he is petrified, Like won't go near the dog. The

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00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 2: dog just know us up. It's confused, like.

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00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:48,920
Speaker 1: Did the dog do something? No, just woke up one day.

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00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 1: Did he watch something? I don't know. You can't explain it,

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00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 1: like it wasn't like we spoke about the other day

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00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 1: at the football the dogs police dog's attacking people, like

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00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 1: Oscar hasn't some I watched something showing dogs being violent.

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00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,880
Speaker 1: Maybe he's witnessed an attack in public. I think he

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00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:09,920
Speaker 1: would tell me something. Have you asked him why he's afraid?

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Speaker 1: Because I mean, yeah, he won't give me an answer.

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00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 1: Won't because it was after a night that he wasn't

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Speaker 1: at home. He stayed at Papa's house, and Hubert, does

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Speaker 1: Papa have a dog? He was saying.

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Speaker 2: The only things he could mutter to me about it were,

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00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 2: it's because she hasn't seen me in a while.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, what, it's a bit strange. The kids.

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00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 1: The kids sometimes disliked the cat. The cat does this

791
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:40,239
Speaker 1: thing where he doesn't cats suck, not Raspberry. I love you.

792
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:44,279
Speaker 1: I think she's speaking English. She will sit on the

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Speaker 1: stools and she crouches below and she swipes. She's a swiper.

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Speaker 1: And sometimes the kids and it's more just them being startled.

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00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:57,800
Speaker 1: They're not actually getting like scratched and not bleeding. But

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Speaker 1: I was attacked by Raspberry, and then from that moment

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Speaker 1: on for the rest of the night that I wanted

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00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 1: anything to do with Raspberry. But my sister, okay, my

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00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:11,080
Speaker 1: sister who also hates Raspberry, also hates Raspberry. She became

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Speaker 1: petrified of dogs. Oh, just like just as an adult

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00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 1: or a child. I as a child, she used to

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00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 1: love dogs. I wasn't there. This is going back now

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00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 1: thirty odd years. Who are old, but apparently when she

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00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 1: was a young child. There was a dog. Not sure

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00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 1: if it was just excited and jumping up to be like, hey,

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00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:37,759
Speaker 1: what's up. But the dog had like broken free from

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Speaker 1: the owner, had run up and had jumped on my sister. Again,

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00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 1: was it a police dog. Cannot be sure if it

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00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 1: was like a and I wouldn't say she didn't like

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00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:50,799
Speaker 1: it attack. She wasn't like bitten, but it was it

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Speaker 1: was a scene. It was a scene. Yeah, yeah, of course.

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Speaker 1: And from that moment on, I remember like walking to

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00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 1: school with my sister and if we saw any type

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00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:01,359
Speaker 1: of dog, regardless of the bread I'm not just talking

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00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 1: about like the scary dogs, like a Golden Retriever, right,

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00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:08,320
Speaker 1: who's scared of a Golden Retriever? My sister she would

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00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 1: be like.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. Yeah, fear is a strange thing, isn't that.

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00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 1: Maybe he was maybe like he had an interaction with

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00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:20,319
Speaker 1: the dog. The dog's tiny. No, not with that dog

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00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:20,919
Speaker 1: any other dog.

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Speaker 2: Need to get to the bottom of this, need to

823
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 2: get but also it's hard to be like, I'm like, bro,

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00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 2: there's this been your dog your whole life.

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00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 1: That's why I don't think it was that dog was

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Speaker 1: another dog just saying, okay, not that I'm going to

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Speaker 1: take anyone has any suggestions of what it might be,

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00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 1: It'll just be the same thing. There's been a bunch

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Speaker 1: of people right in and go now simply must have

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00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 1: happened with another dog. No shit, I want more psychology

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00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 1: than that, do they? Instead of paying for professional help? Listeners?

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00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:53,760
Speaker 2: Please way more, way more experience.

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00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 1: What do you got for me? I have a question

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Speaker 1: for you. This one is from one of our good listeners.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Jesse. Hello Jesse, Jesse, hope you're well

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Speaker 1: submitted on the Instagram page. For those playing at home,

837
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:08,919
Speaker 1: you can DM the Instagram page. Please use your question.

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00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:13,360
Speaker 1: Please dm us anytime you wish. We're always open, always welcoming.

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Speaker 1: Jesse says, asks Even we know mum guild is a thing,

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Speaker 1: but what about dad guilt? When do you feel at most?

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00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 1: Very good question? Do you get guilt? Ash? Are you

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00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 1: capable of feeling guilt?

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00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 2: Surprisingly enough? Yes, I am apparently to.

844
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Speaker 1: Me apparently know what Steve Menzie is. No, I did

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00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 1: avoid you for a long time. Yeah, but do you

846
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 1: get parent guild? Yeah? When do you get it?

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00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 2: I get it when I feel like I've reacted to

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00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:46,240
Speaker 2: something I've just knee jerk reacted.

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Speaker 1: So, for example, this whole scared thing Oscar scared, I got.

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00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:53,799
Speaker 2: I got angry about it because I was frustrated to

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00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 2: not because I didn't know why. But then after after

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00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:02,319
Speaker 2: the reaction, and you know, I think time has gone

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00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:05,839
Speaker 2: by the react. My reaction was wrong and I felt

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00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 2: guilty about that, and I did speak to Oscar, but

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00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 2: I said, look, sorry, it's you shouldn't get in trouble

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00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 2: for feeling fear.

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00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 1: Yes, because as irrational as it may be.

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00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:19,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like I needed to be more patient in

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00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 2: that situation and try and understand why instead of just kneed.

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00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 1: She's been a fucking dog for five years, bro.

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00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:29,440
Speaker 2: Which is wrong. And I did feel guilty about that.

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00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:35,280
Speaker 2: Had the chat with Oscar, we mended with mended, mended,

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Speaker 2: and I have acknowledged that it's okay to be scared,

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00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 2: it's okay to feel fear.

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Speaker 1: I want to say, that's a great approach to the situation.

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Speaker 1: Very mature of you.

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Speaker 2: I'm growing. I'm scared of that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel it. I feel it, I reckon I

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Speaker 1: feel it now more than ever. I think why. I

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00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 1: think when so my kids five and three, it's a

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Speaker 1: great age and it's a great time of parenting because

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Speaker 1: the kids can be a bit more autonomous. Yeah, they

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Speaker 1: can kind of play with themselves a little bit more.

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Speaker 1: They don't require Laura and myself to watching over them

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Speaker 1: every second, and especially right now, because you know, we're

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Speaker 1: trying to juggle work amongst this bloody house and I

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00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: we're really really stretched and any spare time has been

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00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:31,399
Speaker 1: put into other things that aren't the kids. And it's

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00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:33,799
Speaker 1: a little bit of a case of we're in the

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Speaker 1: routine of picking the kids up from daycare and kind

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Speaker 1: of just trying to get to that finish line that's

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00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:44,319
Speaker 1: seven o'clock bedtime, you know, get them home, get them fed,

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Speaker 1: get them bars, put them into bed, not really having

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Speaker 1: quality time.

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Speaker 2: And also you take you sort of take any inconvenience

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Speaker 2: in that to bring things forward.

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Speaker 1: Right, So that's it. I'm starting the bath, yeah, do

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00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And it's like it's just

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00:45:57,120 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 1: to get you through and then once it's like, oh

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Speaker 1: they're in bed, Oh fuck, I do it as well.

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Speaker 1: You know what you know we did the other night,

892
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Speaker 1: which just was a stupid thing to do. It's sweet,

893
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Speaker 1: but stupid. Is then going through and looking at photos

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Speaker 1: of when they were younger. Yeah, and then you just

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Speaker 1: what I think fuels the guilt more than anything is

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Speaker 1: when you start to realize how much they've grown up

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Speaker 1: and how quickly time is going, and you're like, I'm

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Speaker 1: not fucking loving every second of parenting. I'm a shit parent.

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Speaker 2: And you're like, ah, you've also got a like And

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Speaker 2: for any parent with young kid out there that feels guilt,

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Speaker 2: whether it's on a small scale or a large scale,

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Speaker 2: I think you're allowed to give yourself an opportunity to

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00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:41,640
Speaker 2: like feel that way so that you can go, all right, well,

904
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Speaker 2: how do I change that behavior or like, it's also

905
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Speaker 2: okay to feel guilty.

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Speaker 1: You can't.

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Speaker 2: You shouldn't have to be made to feel like you're

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00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 2: doing a bad thing for feeling guilty, because if you

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00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 2: feel guilty, then you realize that, Okay, well there's better

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00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:56,399
Speaker 2: ways that I could do that, and then next time

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00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 2: you could do it.

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Speaker 1: That makes sense, it does in a way, But yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling it more now than ever before.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And like I'm saying, like they you sort of

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Speaker 2: go into that.

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Speaker 1: Auto pilot because the quality time, the quality time with

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Speaker 1: the three and five year old is a lot more

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Speaker 1: like I find it a lot richer if you will

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Speaker 1: then with like a like a one year old, because

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Speaker 1: you get to interact more, you get to play games,

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Speaker 1: you get to like you know.

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Speaker 2: Even if you're playing the games incorrectly. Yeah, you know,

923
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:23,839
Speaker 2: like Ann next four Mass Just like.

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Speaker 1: So I just don't feel like I'm getting that quality term,

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00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:29,840
Speaker 1: especially on the weekends as well, because weekends we're just

926
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:33,759
Speaker 1: focus on other things. So yeah, dads get it, dads

927
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:34,759
Speaker 1: get it good all the time.

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Speaker 2: But I think, like I said to, I think you're

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00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 2: allowed to feel guilty. You don't feel like it's a

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00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 2: bad thing because it could be turned into a good thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, as that's okay. We're here to help

932
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Speaker 1: love you and I you all right, let's get out

933
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00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:06,759
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00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:09,040
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00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 2: Yes, or jump on the Facebook group. So just go

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942
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Speaker 1: I think people know how Facebook works, but I could

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