WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: Married At First Sight & The Telepathy Tapes 0:00:01.320 --> 0:00:06.240 Are the pickup with Brittley and Laura Ben Brady or 0:00:06.360 --> 0:00:08.640 what our windows done? 0:00:08.840 --> 0:00:12.559 That's my world reason the dust only good, babs all down. 0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:16.439 I don't much, but yeah I'm not. 0:00:16.880 --> 0:00:18.599 I'll beget and what I want. 0:00:18.880 --> 0:00:21.360 It don't matter where that does. This is the. 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:23.919 Pick up, Hi, guys, it's the pick up with Brett 0:00:23.920 --> 0:00:24.840 Hackley and Laura Ben. 0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:26.920 You know, I was just thinking when I listen and 0:00:26.960 --> 0:00:30.400 singing my head to our opener, what it does matter 0:00:30.400 --> 0:00:32.159 where you get it? It says it doesn't matter where 0:00:32.200 --> 0:00:33.559 you get it? It does you get it from the 0:00:33.600 --> 0:00:33.960 pick up? 0:00:34.360 --> 0:00:36.879 Okay, I'm so glad that after two weeks you've just 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:37.479 realized that. 0:00:37.600 --> 0:00:39.880 No, I'm not the first time you've actually listened to him. 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:41.960 I've thought it since I heard it, but I'm like, 0:00:42.400 --> 0:00:43.280 just listened again, and I was. 0:00:43.280 --> 0:00:44.120 Like, it does matter. 0:00:44.320 --> 0:00:46.879 Okay, Well maybe you can raise that with management after this, 0:00:47.360 --> 0:00:47.680 do you know? 0:00:47.800 --> 0:00:48.080 Okay? 0:00:48.280 --> 0:00:52.360 I'm deep in turmoil everyone, I've been split down the middle? 0:00:53.320 --> 0:00:55.920 How have you been splipped? I wish I've been broken 0:00:55.960 --> 0:01:01.040 in two and that is because my husband. 0:01:00.800 --> 0:01:03.240 Is currently You can't just brush over a joke when 0:01:04.120 --> 0:01:07.240 I had to, I had to. My husband is currently 0:01:07.280 --> 0:01:09.280 on I'm a celebrity, get me out of here. But 0:01:09.360 --> 0:01:12.119 something else now is taking my attention. Married at First 0:01:12.160 --> 0:01:15.160 Sight has just started and the times overlap, and I 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:17.840 need to show support for him, but I also deeply 0:01:17.880 --> 0:01:18.520 love Married. 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:19.040 At First Site. 0:01:19.120 --> 0:01:21.320 Okay, I'm not gonna lie. I watched Married at First 0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:25.000 Site last night, but voted for Matt without watching, so 0:01:25.040 --> 0:01:27.200 like I voted for him, but I didn't see the episode, 0:01:27.200 --> 0:01:27.800 but I watched Matt. 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:28.000 Well. 0:01:28.000 --> 0:01:30.040 I appreciate the votes because tonight he's in Tucker Trial, 0:01:30.080 --> 0:01:31.319 So I'm pretty stoked about that. 0:01:32.120 --> 0:01:33.280 We have a great show. 0:01:33.040 --> 0:01:36.160 For you guys today and someone who's joining us Michelle Mitchell. Now, 0:01:36.240 --> 0:01:39.880 Michelle Mitchell is a parenting expert, and I have been 0:01:39.920 --> 0:01:43.720 having a lot of problems with Lola and her starting 0:01:43.760 --> 0:01:46.560 at a new daycare. This conversation for anyone who has 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:49.360 kids going to school or if you're in that sort 0:01:49.360 --> 0:01:52.480 of like really tricky transition with little kids, I think 0:01:52.480 --> 0:01:53.960 you're going to get so much out of this chat 0:01:54.000 --> 0:01:54.280 with her. 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:56.520 Yeah, she's amazing, isn't she? And you do need a 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:59.280 lot of help right now. Thanks, And we're always than one, 0:01:59.400 --> 0:02:01.720 all right, get the show going to kick it off? 0:02:01.760 --> 0:02:03.520 It is time for our pick me up song and 0:02:03.640 --> 0:02:06.720 absolutely classic one more time Daft Punk? 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:08.480 Do you know when this song came out? 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:09.799 If it is going to. 0:02:09.880 --> 0:02:10.840 Blow your balls off? 0:02:10.919 --> 0:02:14.799 Nineteen ninety nine came out in twenty twenty five years ago. 0:02:15.200 --> 0:02:16.520 I got it and it was pretty impressive. 0:02:16.520 --> 0:02:17.840 That's amazing. I'm amazed. 0:02:18.080 --> 0:02:19.560 Well, your balls can stay intact? 0:02:19.800 --> 0:02:20.840 Oh, so how old aren't we? 0:02:23.160 --> 0:02:25.000 You might have heard that I was speaking about my 0:02:25.120 --> 0:02:27.679 daughter Lola, who's just started at a new daycare and 0:02:27.760 --> 0:02:31.800 she is having a truly horrible time transitioning to a 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:34.000 new daycare. Not only is she having a hard time, 0:02:34.040 --> 0:02:36.359 but as a parent, I am having a horrible, horrible time. 0:02:36.520 --> 0:02:38.880 And there's a parent's friend and business partner. 0:02:39.840 --> 0:02:44.040 Well, there's nothing worse as a parent leaving your child 0:02:44.080 --> 0:02:46.919 somewhere and having them be sad and cry for you. 0:02:46.960 --> 0:02:50.000 And with school coming up very soon, there's going to 0:02:50.000 --> 0:02:50.160 be a. 0:02:50.160 --> 0:02:51.720 Lot of parents across the country who are going to 0:02:51.720 --> 0:02:53.359 be dropping their kids off for school in the very 0:02:53.360 --> 0:02:56.040 first day. And we have Michelle Mitchell with us now. 0:02:56.080 --> 0:02:57.799 She is a child expert. With had her on the 0:02:57.800 --> 0:03:00.640 show many times and she's written an incredible book around 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:03.640 building resilience in children, And the big question is is 0:03:03.639 --> 0:03:05.800 this resilience building or is it a time when a 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:07.480 parent needs to swoop in and help them? 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:09.000 Michelle, welcome back to the show. 0:03:09.600 --> 0:03:11.720 Oh thanks for having me, Laura. And it's such a 0:03:11.840 --> 0:03:13.280 privilege to talk about. 0:03:13.040 --> 0:03:14.360 Your little four year old. 0:03:14.600 --> 0:03:17.280 I mean, aren't they so precious at this age? 0:03:17.440 --> 0:03:21.359 No, she's the best. You almost four county down to 0:03:21.440 --> 0:03:22.000 a birthday? 0:03:22.200 --> 0:03:23.840 Or Michelle, what do you think? I mean, do you 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:27.080 think this is relatively normal to be this excessively upset 0:03:27.120 --> 0:03:28.959 like all night after and all morning. 0:03:29.960 --> 0:03:33.160 It can be, Okay, it can be, And only Laura 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:37.080 can really answer this. So if you'll step into my office, Laura, 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:39.960 I have three questions for you. Will you answer these 0:03:40.000 --> 0:03:40.360 for me? 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:41.280 Absolutely? 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:43.520 I think the first question. 0:03:43.280 --> 0:03:45.480 You want to ask yourself is how big does this 0:03:45.600 --> 0:03:48.880 feel for you? Because that's normally a mirror of how 0:03:48.920 --> 0:03:51.600 big that feels for our kids. So if our kids 0:03:51.600 --> 0:03:55.040 were leaving high school or leaving school or getting married, 0:03:55.160 --> 0:03:57.120 you know it would pull on our heart strings in 0:03:57.240 --> 0:04:00.680 exactly the same way. So let's not minimize it because 0:04:00.680 --> 0:04:03.960 there's three going on four. So how big does it 0:04:03.960 --> 0:04:06.080 feel for you? Give me a number between one and 0:04:06.240 --> 0:04:08.760 ten being like I can't cope with this anymore. 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:11.760 Oh, It's it's funny you say that, Michelle, because when 0:04:11.800 --> 0:04:14.680 we left, like I think any mum kind of knows, 0:04:14.720 --> 0:04:17.880 that you become very close with the daycare or the 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:20.599 place that your kids are at. And the last day 0:04:20.640 --> 0:04:23.000 that we had at her old daycare, I was in 0:04:23.040 --> 0:04:25.600 tears because I didn't I don't want her to change. 0:04:25.600 --> 0:04:27.760 It was more a decision that Matt had made. And 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:31.919 I think potentially she has seen how upset I have 0:04:32.000 --> 0:04:35.000 gotten over the process, and I probably haven't set her 0:04:35.120 --> 0:04:37.560 up for being I think we did everything right to 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:37.919 start with. 0:04:37.960 --> 0:04:39.120 We were trying to be excited. 0:04:39.440 --> 0:04:42.080 But now as she's getting distressed, I'm getting more distressed 0:04:42.080 --> 0:04:44.640 about it, and so I think it's just escalating each other. 0:04:45.320 --> 0:04:48.159 So you would be almost better off vocalizing those things 0:04:48.200 --> 0:04:51.640 like I'm really missing your old daycare teachers right now? 0:04:51.680 --> 0:04:54.200 Are you missing them? Because I think you. 0:04:54.120 --> 0:04:57.240 And your daughter are mirroring some of those feelings. So 0:04:57.480 --> 0:05:00.640 my next question for you would be in your gut 0:05:00.760 --> 0:05:03.240 and to the best of your knowledge, is she safe 0:05:03.279 --> 0:05:06.640 where she is? Does that KINDI have checks and balances 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:09.680 in place? And do you think it's a good place. 0:05:09.680 --> 0:05:12.400 Yeah, it's no, it's a fantastic daycare, like it is 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:15.560 a fantastic, fantastic school. I think I'm just so used 0:05:15.600 --> 0:05:17.599 to the familiarity that even for me, I was like, 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:20.040 I hate change. Now she's so little and she has 0:05:20.080 --> 0:05:21.360 to go through that change herself. 0:05:21.400 --> 0:05:23.360 You do hate change, That's true. 0:05:23.440 --> 0:05:25.680 That's really easy to blame ourself for everything. So we 0:05:25.720 --> 0:05:28.520 don't want to get too sort of like internally focused 0:05:28.520 --> 0:05:32.080 with it. And I taught grade one a long time ago, 0:05:32.360 --> 0:05:34.640 but I'd always say to parents, don't tell your kids 0:05:34.640 --> 0:05:37.000 that you are going to leave them now or drop 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:40.640 them off. You aren't leaving them, You're not dropping them anywhere. 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:45.440 You're actually deliberately intentionally transferring them to me. So you 0:05:45.520 --> 0:05:48.279 say something like your teachers are going to look after you. Now, 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:50.279 I'm going to be at work and I'm going to 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:51.599 be right here at three o'clock. 0:05:51.720 --> 0:05:54.400 Michelle, The question is like Laura is trying to decide 0:05:54.880 --> 0:05:57.760 if she's stuck it out for a couple of weeks, now, 0:05:58.279 --> 0:06:00.560 does she think is it going to change for is 0:06:00.560 --> 0:06:02.760 she going to ease in eventually or if she stood 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:05.080 this upset after this couple of weeks, should Laura be 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:07.840 taking her back to the old daycare, you. 0:06:07.760 --> 0:06:10.480 Can introduce some strategies like leave a heart in her 0:06:10.480 --> 0:06:12.880 pocket strategy. So let me tell you about this one. 0:06:13.080 --> 0:06:15.240 So when you drop her off, Laura, have a little 0:06:15.279 --> 0:06:18.600 red love heart piece of paper cut up and give 0:06:18.640 --> 0:06:21.160 it to her and say to her, sweet, I want 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:23.279 you to put this in your pocket. And anytime you 0:06:23.320 --> 0:06:26.000 feel unsure, or anytime you feel a little bit like 0:06:26.040 --> 0:06:27.960 you're missing mommy, I want you to put your heart 0:06:28.000 --> 0:06:30.880 in hand in your pocket, and I want to remember 0:06:30.880 --> 0:06:32.040 that I'll be thinking of. 0:06:31.960 --> 0:06:33.600 You all day. 0:06:34.960 --> 0:06:38.039 But what that does if it gives your teacher a 0:06:38.200 --> 0:06:41.440 chance to loop into that. And so your teacher, if 0:06:41.680 --> 0:06:43.440 she knows your daughter's like. 0:06:43.440 --> 0:06:45.520 Feeling anxious, she can go to her and say, put 0:06:45.520 --> 0:06:48.200 your heart hand in your pocket. Honey, what's your mommy 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:51.800 doing right now? Thinking about you? She's loving me. 0:06:52.040 --> 0:06:54.839 Michelle wonderful. Oh my god. 0:06:56.920 --> 0:06:59.120 Okay, so we're going to try the hard thing before 0:06:59.120 --> 0:06:59.720 we pull her out. 0:06:59.800 --> 0:07:02.200 Law. Yeah, yeah, I'm. 0:07:02.040 --> 0:07:04.640 Gonna have to take over the at home now. Everyone, 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:06.960 Laura just quit. Thanks for shoe, Laura quit. 0:07:09.600 --> 0:07:11.960 Like I said, it's something that so many parents go through. 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:15.120 I think it's something that hits working parents particularly hard 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:19.200 because you don't have an option and the whole you know, 0:07:19.280 --> 0:07:21.600 like maybe take them in later or pick them up 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:23.120 earlier and make the days shorter. 0:07:23.160 --> 0:07:25.440 And it's like great, all that's great in theory. 0:07:25.160 --> 0:07:26.480 But when you have a job that you have to 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:28.440 be out that doesn't allow you to do those things, 0:07:28.560 --> 0:07:30.880 you just feel like you're such a crap parent and 0:07:30.920 --> 0:07:33.840 you're not doing a good job, and it's it's really 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:34.720 hard to navigate. 0:07:34.840 --> 0:07:37.880 You are doing a bloody good job. You are. Hopefully 0:07:37.920 --> 0:07:40.800 those kids turn out okay a couple of years, we'll 0:07:40.800 --> 0:07:41.240 find out. 0:07:41.680 --> 0:07:43.760 Well, if anyone wants to get more of Michelle, she's 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:46.640 written some incredible books, every Day Resilience Journal, and she 0:07:46.720 --> 0:07:48.880 sold her one hundred thousand copies worldwide, So go and 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:49.320 pick that up. 0:07:49.560 --> 0:07:50.560 This is so cute. 0:07:50.840 --> 0:07:52.720 Hey, you know someone else that's probably going to be 0:07:52.720 --> 0:07:56.760 crying pretty soon. The Bride's on Maths. It's that time 0:07:56.800 --> 0:07:59.120 of year again. It has kicked off last night, and 0:07:59.240 --> 0:08:01.600 I want to talk about one of the couples. What 0:08:01.680 --> 0:08:03.360 would you do if you got onto a show like 0:08:03.400 --> 0:08:05.680 that and you were paired with an X Because that 0:08:05.840 --> 0:08:08.480 has happened. Don't forget to head into chemist's warehouse and 0:08:08.480 --> 0:08:10.920 say more money every year on your regular medication and 0:08:11.040 --> 0:08:14.480 discounted prescriptions in every store every day. We're going to 0:08:14.480 --> 0:08:17.960 be talking about it next. It is that time of 0:08:18.040 --> 0:08:20.760 year again where you need to strap in and be 0:08:20.880 --> 0:08:22.840 ready for the d drama. 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:25.400 I'm not ready for my life to be taken over 0:08:25.440 --> 0:08:26.000 by Maths. 0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:29.200 Maths has started. It kicked off last night. I watched it, 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:31.760 which is shocking because I don't often watch it. 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:34.000 You don't like it. I'm the one in this duo 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:35.040 that's sick for Maths. 0:08:35.200 --> 0:08:37.400 It's true, but I'm glad I did watch it. In 0:08:37.400 --> 0:08:41.760 an Australian first, they have paired two people that already dated. 0:08:42.200 --> 0:08:43.320 We're going to get a different guy. 0:08:43.480 --> 0:08:47.200 What well, they make a gorgeous looking couple. Put it 0:08:47.200 --> 0:09:03.199 that way, option, I think you fell in love already. 0:09:03.400 --> 0:09:04.160 She ghosted me. 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:10.600 Yeah. So, in an Australian first, Karina and Paul were 0:09:10.640 --> 0:09:13.840 matched together and the bombshell was dropped that they in 0:09:13.920 --> 0:09:17.439 fact have already dated. And not only did they date, 0:09:17.640 --> 0:09:20.920 but Paul completely ghosted it. They went on this amazing date. 0:09:21.240 --> 0:09:22.920 She thought she killed it. She thought it was going 0:09:22.960 --> 0:09:25.960 to be like hot property, and then he just never 0:09:25.960 --> 0:09:29.199 messaged her again until they see each other at the 0:09:29.280 --> 0:09:31.160 end of an aisle and A'm marrying each other on 0:09:31.280 --> 0:09:32.400 national television. 0:09:32.520 --> 0:09:36.360 It just seems too coincidental for me, Like, how does 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:36.960 this happen? 0:09:37.800 --> 0:09:39.920 And I mean, look, on one hand, the. 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:43.960 Skeptic in me says that this was completely fabricated and produced. 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:46.400 But on the other hand, I was like, how would 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:49.600 you find two people who one person has ghosted? Like 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:51.360 how would you actually find them to be able to 0:09:51.360 --> 0:09:52.880 match them together in the first place? 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:55.959 The producers one hundred percent, I'm sorry, is someone that's 0:09:55.960 --> 0:09:59.319 a bit of unfortunately a reality TV veteran. The producers 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:02.679 one hundred percent knew that they knew each other. Did 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:05.520 they know that they dated and ghosted? I'm not convinced, 0:10:05.600 --> 0:10:07.280 but they knew that they knew each other, they would 0:10:07.280 --> 0:10:09.720 have done their due diligence in some capacity. Maybe they're 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:12.800 following each other on Instagram. Maybe they've got a huge 0:10:12.800 --> 0:10:15.959 group of mutual friends. Like producers on reality shows, they 0:10:16.080 --> 0:10:18.520 check that when they decide that you're on or if 0:10:18.520 --> 0:10:20.520 you're going to be on, they check your followers list. 0:10:20.520 --> 0:10:22.360 They've crosschecked to see if you're following any of the 0:10:22.400 --> 0:10:24.720 other contestants. Or if there's any kind of connection. 0:10:24.960 --> 0:10:27.760 But do you think the ghosting was serendipitous like a 0:10:27.800 --> 0:10:30.720 producer's dream, or do you think that the producers knew 0:10:31.080 --> 0:10:32.800 that he had ghosted her before the show. 0:10:33.240 --> 0:10:36.400 I don't know, but my spidery senses aren't giving me 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:40.280 enough tingles for that yet. But I think it's interesting 0:10:40.400 --> 0:10:43.240 to see what happens because in real life, would you 0:10:43.360 --> 0:10:46.199 give somebody else another go if you had gone on 0:10:46.280 --> 0:10:48.600 a date and they completely ghosted you, blanked, you don't 0:10:48.600 --> 0:10:49.880 want to speak to you again, then all of a 0:10:49.880 --> 0:10:50.960 sudden you were marrying them. 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:52.319 Would you have walked out? 0:10:52.400 --> 0:10:53.920 Or would you have just been like, oh shit, I'm 0:10:53.920 --> 0:10:55.320 just going to pretend me now. 0:10:55.440 --> 0:10:57.200 Or twenty year old me who liked to date toxic 0:10:57.240 --> 0:11:00.360 men me back in my twenties. I think I do 0:11:00.440 --> 0:11:02.319 that I didn marry them with that the altar, but 0:11:02.360 --> 0:11:04.280 I would have given guys a second chance because I 0:11:04.280 --> 0:11:04.840 was like, they. 0:11:04.679 --> 0:11:07.200 Can change for me, I can make them better. 0:11:08.160 --> 0:11:09.960 I think it's so unfair for the girl, Like, I 0:11:10.000 --> 0:11:12.199 haven't seen this, but imagine if you've signed up for 0:11:12.240 --> 0:11:15.400 this show, obviously you know that it's drama and there's 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:17.840 you know, potentially gonna get some Instagram followers and everything else. 0:11:17.880 --> 0:11:19.440 But you do hope you're gonna get paired with a 0:11:19.440 --> 0:11:22.960 decent bloke. You'd be pretty damn sad that the only 0:11:23.040 --> 0:11:25.080 person you were paired with was a guy who goes 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:28.280 to do so. Now she has no option other than 0:11:28.360 --> 0:11:31.040 to walk out or to give this guy a second chance. 0:11:31.200 --> 0:11:33.839 The thing here is, though she has agreed to give 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:35.839 him a second chance. Good on her because I think, 0:11:35.920 --> 0:11:37.600 you know, it's not the end of the world. 0:11:37.880 --> 0:11:40.240 She could see the potential in him, Whilst I think 0:11:40.240 --> 0:11:41.120 it's a red flag. 0:11:41.160 --> 0:11:43.480 He really doubled down on his red flagginess. 0:11:43.480 --> 0:11:46.880 Listen, I'm so grateful that she is open to you 0:11:47.040 --> 0:11:48.320 to give me a second chance. 0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:49.120 Guy. 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:52.800 Just feel so relieved. Honestly, I'm over the moon, Like 0:11:52.800 --> 0:11:54.719 I'm just I'm more egli. I just feel like I 0:11:54.760 --> 0:11:59.800 feel like a little kid. To be honestly, I can 0:12:00.000 --> 0:12:03.080 surely already pictured life with him. That's how crazy it is. 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:08.360 Oh, I'm pro he goes to her and now he 0:12:08.400 --> 0:12:11.000 says he can see his life with her after seeing 0:12:11.000 --> 0:12:13.720 her for two seconds, after ghosting her for eight months. 0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:15.640 What is wrong with this guy? 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:18.880 I just think he's someone who's well versed in reality TV. 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:21.680 I think he knows and he also knows how to 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:24.800 do the dance and like and like get people on side. So, 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:26.720 like I said, I haven't seen it yet, but I 0:12:26.720 --> 0:12:28.880 have read a lot about this already today. It's weird 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:30.360 how deep in it I am for someone who hasn't 0:12:30.360 --> 0:12:33.480 seen the show yet. But he apparently went up to 0:12:33.520 --> 0:12:36.920 the family and kind of like explained to the family 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:39.480 that he had ghosted her, but he was going through 0:12:39.520 --> 0:12:41.960 a lot at the time and managed to get the 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:44.320 parents on board to say, like, what an upstanding guy 0:12:44.320 --> 0:12:45.880 he is. So he's managed to go from being a 0:12:45.880 --> 0:12:48.160 guy that goes to their daughter to them thinking that 0:12:48.200 --> 0:12:51.040 he's an amazing person. And to me, I think he 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:54.160 is just someone who is very, very reality TV literate, 0:12:54.440 --> 0:12:56.480 and he knew that this is all going to come out. 0:12:56.480 --> 0:12:58.199 There's no other way to get around it. 0:12:58.400 --> 0:13:01.320 So the best way is to attack up front on 0:13:01.760 --> 0:13:03.800 be sorry, and to try and be this like, you know, 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:04.640 we're gonna love each other. 0:13:04.679 --> 0:13:05.400 It's gonna be amazing. 0:13:05.520 --> 0:13:07.400 I think for there be the master manipulator of the 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:09.959 show married at first sight, master manipulator. That's what it 0:13:09.960 --> 0:13:10.480 should be. Cooled. 0:13:10.520 --> 0:13:13.040 Well, let's see but also look, who knows they could 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:14.600 end up being a happy couple at the end of it. 0:13:14.960 --> 0:13:15.920 All right, well, coming up. 0:13:15.800 --> 0:13:17.640 Next, we have our vibes and unsubscribed to the week 0:13:17.720 --> 0:13:20.199 and Britt something about telepathy. 0:13:20.360 --> 0:13:22.439 You think that this might be the next big thing. 0:13:23.679 --> 0:13:25.120 Sorry, did you get that? I was just trying to 0:13:25.120 --> 0:13:29.360 send you my answer. Okay, this is a new segment 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:31.439 that we've brought onto the Pickup that Laura and I 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:34.520 do on our podcast Life on Cut podcast. It's vibes 0:13:34.520 --> 0:13:37.959 in unsubscribed something that this week has really got our attention, 0:13:38.080 --> 0:13:40.320 or that we're like frothing, or maybe it's something that 0:13:40.360 --> 0:13:44.040 we're hating. All I am frothing something so hard this week. 0:13:44.080 --> 0:13:47.840 So my vibe this week is a podcast series. Now 0:13:47.880 --> 0:13:50.560 before you come for me, hear me out. It's not 0:13:50.800 --> 0:13:53.720 my normal vibe. But it is a podcast series called 0:13:53.760 --> 0:13:55.040 Telepathy Tapes. 0:13:55.440 --> 0:13:57.640 When you first mentioned this to me and you were like, 0:13:57.679 --> 0:14:01.319 I'm really into telepathy, now, I I did take the piece, 0:14:01.360 --> 0:14:03.080 and now that I know more about it, I'd take 0:14:03.080 --> 0:14:03.480 that back. 0:14:03.800 --> 0:14:08.280 So basically, we all know the autism spectrum varies greatly. 0:14:09.080 --> 0:14:13.600 There are non speaking autistic people that only can communicate 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:18.520 by a typing machine basically. And since they've started doing this, 0:14:18.600 --> 0:14:21.920 there's been this investigative journalist neuroscientists as doing all these 0:14:21.960 --> 0:14:26.800 studies and they're basically proven that these kids are talking 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:30.040 to each other in their mind. They can read their parents' minds, 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:32.800 they can read their family's minds. It's truly gives me 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:34.040 goose swamps. Have I listened to this? 0:14:34.400 --> 0:14:39.040 I'm working with children who have been reported by a 0:14:39.160 --> 0:14:42.120 parent to be able to read their mind. The data 0:14:42.280 --> 0:14:45.040 was so compelling and accurate that I had to follow it, 0:14:45.440 --> 0:14:48.479 even though I knew I was missing my scientific reputation. 0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:51.400 I started testing them and I found that they were 0:14:51.440 --> 0:14:55.480 exceedingly accurate. After the medical board took my license away, 0:14:55.800 --> 0:14:59.120 I had to prove my sanity Once I did, said 0:14:59.120 --> 0:15:01.400 I'm going to prove that ESP is real. 0:15:02.320 --> 0:15:03.720 So but did he prove it? 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:04.520 That's the question. 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:06.400 Did she prove it? 0:15:07.200 --> 0:15:07.400 Well? 0:15:07.520 --> 0:15:10.200 Yes, this is what the series is. There's videos like 0:15:10.600 --> 0:15:14.360 I cannot explain the goosebumps that I get, where a 0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:17.080 mother and a son are sitting there being filmed from 0:15:17.160 --> 0:15:20.480 multiple angles. Sometimes the child's in another room. The mother 0:15:21.080 --> 0:15:23.720 is shown, for example, a number, and it could be 0:15:23.840 --> 0:15:26.840 any number like a rand, someone else independent has put 0:15:26.920 --> 0:15:29.680 two numbers in a calculator thirty five times nine hundred 0:15:29.680 --> 0:15:33.040 and seventy two. They show the mom the answer, and 0:15:33.400 --> 0:15:37.120 the second that she reads it in her mind. In 0:15:37.160 --> 0:15:40.720 the other room, the child is putting that number into 0:15:40.840 --> 0:15:43.200 it and it is accurate every time. It is like 0:15:43.280 --> 0:15:44.520 nothing you've ever seen? 0:15:44.760 --> 0:15:46.920 How can this be real? Though it's kind of this 0:15:47.000 --> 0:15:47.640 reminds me of it. 0:15:47.520 --> 0:15:49.760 It reminds me of it is very different, but are 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:52.080 also similar in some ways. You know the stories of 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:55.080 little kids who have memories from past lives and things, 0:15:55.160 --> 0:15:57.920 and there's this really famous story of this little boy 0:15:58.000 --> 0:16:01.560 who had vivid memory of being like an actor from 0:16:01.600 --> 0:16:03.800 many years ago who had kids, and they followed it 0:16:03.920 --> 0:16:05.400 back and the stories all aligned. 0:16:05.480 --> 0:16:07.040 You think, like, how does this exist? 0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:10.440 But you cannot, you cannot listen to this series and 0:16:10.480 --> 0:16:12.560 not question. That's what I'm saying. I'm not so necessarily 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:14.520 saying you have to believe it, but it will make 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:18.000 you question what you think you know. Please go and listen. 0:16:18.120 --> 0:16:20.040 Well, I also have a vibe this week that will 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:25.600 make you question everything too. It's also very highbrow, deep introspective. 0:16:26.240 --> 0:16:27.800 It's I'm a celebrity, get me out of here. 0:16:27.840 --> 0:16:29.520 And that is just night's episode. 0:16:29.520 --> 0:16:31.720 And the reason for that is because my husband, Maddy 0:16:31.800 --> 0:16:35.000 Jay has made it into the Tucker Trial and I 0:16:35.120 --> 0:16:37.200 just cannot wait to watch him eat some sort of 0:16:37.200 --> 0:16:38.880 pig asshole or something disgusting. 0:16:39.080 --> 0:16:42.040 I want him to be tortured live on National TV. 0:16:43.000 --> 0:16:43.600 I'm thrilled. 0:16:43.720 --> 0:16:44.720 Wow, you're so I do. 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:46.720 I love him, I love him so much. He's the 0:16:46.760 --> 0:16:49.000 love of my life. But like torture him, Robert, I 0:16:49.040 --> 0:16:49.760 won't go for gold. 0:16:49.880 --> 0:16:51.960 You will have to kiss those same lips that kissed 0:16:51.960 --> 0:16:52.640 a button. 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:56.240 I'm sure he's kissed a butte before mine. 0:16:56.280 --> 0:17:01.160 Actually, it's okay, Hey, is someone that did the show 0:17:01.240 --> 0:17:04.359 last year? I have been in the Tucker Trial. I 0:17:04.400 --> 0:17:06.399 can say that here one hundred percent is going to 0:17:06.440 --> 0:17:08.320