1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: Time. So who me, so won no need to feel 2 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 1: sad and bloom. 3 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:10,719 Speaker 2: Let Josie and the man to find love for he 4 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 2: married at first. 5 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 1: I left us all scarred about what true love is? 6 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 1: Is it about getting an Instagram following? Is it about 7 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 1: being on only fans? No, it's not, No, it's not. 8 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: There are sincere people and we're really tapping into a 9 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 1: rich seam of them who are looking for love. Lots 10 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:26,720 Speaker 1: of people have been treated really badly, and men and women, 11 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: so let's find let's hook them all up. Let's meet 12 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: Kate today. 13 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,519 Speaker 2: Hello Kate, Good morning guys. 14 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: Now, Kate, you're forty years old, says here that you're 15 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 1: a single mum of two by choice. But you have 16 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: been married. So tell us what happened. 17 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 2: Oh, well, my ex husband, who we would be married 18 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 2: twenty years if could have been through this year, but 19 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:52,320 Speaker 2: he accidentally had an oral accident where he fell into 20 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 2: someone else's at our work party, and so that was 21 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 2: it that. 22 00:00:56,840 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 1: So, yeah, you were married and then your husband had 23 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 1: it off at the work part, had an affair and 24 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 1: was it just an affair and it all ended? 25 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:09,479 Speaker 2: Then yeah, I went Yeah, that's said, I'm out, I'm done, 26 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 2: I'm fair enough and thought, you know, that's that's okay, 27 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 2: I'll find someone else Olliver. And it turns out I 28 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 2: actually have shocking taste in men, where though they all 29 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:18,119 Speaker 2: just turn out to be married. 30 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:20,400 Speaker 1: So what else happened? 31 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 2: So I was in a long term relationship for a 32 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 2: couple of years, thinking okay, this is the one. We're 33 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:27,559 Speaker 2: going to have kids, We're going to have a family, 34 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 2: and so yeah, it turns out he was also married 35 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 2: and I didn't know about it until right at the end. 36 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 2: So okay, okay, well that's terrible. 37 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 1: So then how did you come to have children? 38 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:45,320 Speaker 2: So I then decided that I wanted to I've always 39 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 2: wanted to have kids, or kids, as it turned on, 40 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 2: now toured that kids and I called IVS Australia and 41 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 2: I went, I want to be a mum, and they went, 42 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 2: let's help you. And five years later I've had my 43 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 2: daughter who's now five, and then two a half years 44 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 2: later I had my son who's now. 45 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: With a donor who's not part of your life, no, not. 46 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 2: At all, just just his DNA. 47 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 1: I can't I like how you said here. Your hobbies 48 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 1: range from washing the sheets and vacuuming to watching Netflix 49 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: and reading books. You sound like a really good catch 50 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:22,239 Speaker 1: that you are. You actually have a nesting instinct in there. 51 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, you would think by what I do with my 52 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 2: spare time that I just really enjoy washing and cleaning 53 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:32,800 Speaker 2: and vacuuming, but don't get a lot of spare time, 54 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 2: hence the need for Tinder, which has turned out to 55 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:35,920 Speaker 2: be a. 56 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: Sail and tell us about tinder because a manner and 57 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: I well, I don't know about Amanda, but I have 58 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 1: no idea about that. I have no idea about tinder. 59 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: So how does it work for you on Tinder? 60 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 2: Look? A lot of I guess because I'm a woman, 61 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 2: I a lot of interest, but a lot of that 62 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 2: interest in so you know, you know, high Hi, how 63 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 2: are you for the thing? And the ext qression is 64 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:04,239 Speaker 2: what's your favorite? Really? Really? That's all we go. 65 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:07,639 Speaker 1: Wow, So that's like your follow up question to how 66 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 1: I am? 67 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 2: So how are you? 68 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 1: What's your favorite position? 69 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? It's great. 70 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 1: So you're looking for something more than just sexual. 71 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 2: Yeah that would be great, but I, you know, just 72 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:19,920 Speaker 2: to get to know someone and go out with someone 73 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 2: and just you know, I have a nice, a good 74 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 2: social life. I have plenty of friends, but just no 75 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 2: one to share those happy moments with it. Something happens 76 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 2: with the kids, I want to tell someone about it, 77 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 2: you know, I want to share that with someone and 78 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 2: go to a movie or go to a show and 79 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 2: not go from myself. 80 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 1: But so you want someone that's not married with three kids. Well, Kate, 81 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: you sound lovely, so you're in the midst. We are 82 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 1: loving meeting all of you, and if you'd like to join, 83 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 1: please go to our website to get all the information 84 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: and tell us about yourself. Good on you, Kate. We're 85 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 1: on the case.