Speaker 1: Flex and Frooms, Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex
Speaker 1: and Frooms catch up podcast. Flex.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you need to stop speaking to me in that way.
Speaker 2: You're being very mean.
Speaker 1: You could. You're an actress, babe, you can deliver it
Speaker 1: better than that.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Sorry, sorry, Okay, you're so good at believable bits. You
Speaker 1: can do better.
Speaker 2: No, because FLEXI, as you say, the things you say
Speaker 2: turn into real life. So I don't want to I
Speaker 2: don't want to be mean. I don't want to say
Speaker 2: you're being mean beefing Daily Mail. I don't know if
Speaker 2: daily I don't know if we're Daily Mail's target audience.
Speaker 2: They love me, Oh oh yeah, when I brought the
Speaker 2: fucking nipple story, let's get it.
Speaker 1: Let's get into that.
Speaker 3: We remember the nipple story, right. Free Me tells this
Speaker 3: amazing and horrendous nipple story.
Speaker 1: But I saw she saw it on a weekend. She researched,
Speaker 1: she delivered. She was talking the bulk of the break
Speaker 1: about this nipple story. We get some press about it.
Speaker 3: We love going viral, we love getting pressedians is used.
Speaker 3: Daily moilth picks up the story. Why have we got
Speaker 3: two of my pictures my bust, my face, my full
Speaker 3: body in the headline insaying that it was my nipple
Speaker 3: every piece, no.
Speaker 2: No FLEXI The only time I've been on the dad
Speaker 2: email was in Sydney's second really fucked up lockdown and
Speaker 2: I was.
Speaker 1: On board, like oh no, I remember.
Speaker 2: So I was down at bunder Beach like eight thirty am.
Speaker 2: Everyone knows the story, but no, I like had my
Speaker 2: mask on right. But it was the time when like
Speaker 2: you couldn't leave that. I was to get exercised for
Speaker 2: one hour, went out exercised for an hour.
Speaker 1: I'm walking home.
Speaker 2: Why do I feel like there's a camera, but like
Speaker 2: I just gas, like myself, someone's taking s photography.
Speaker 1: You're in A man came out. I was.
Speaker 2: Then literally i get like I'm walking through the door
Speaker 2: and I get a flourry of messages, like a flurry,
Speaker 2: like ten messages every thirty seconds, and I'm like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, oh my god, oh my god. Front page
Speaker 2: of the Daily Mail. And obviously it was lockdown, so
Speaker 2: we didn't have nothing to do but read the Daily Mail.
Speaker 1: COVID like on the loose. It's just a massive photo.
Speaker 2: For me, like I'm the sender image and it's like
Speaker 2: half it's like the full screen.
Speaker 1: It was bad.
Speaker 2: That was the funniest shit ever. I could not believe it.
Speaker 2: I could not believe my lap.
Speaker 1: Surprised you didn't do an iphot apology.
Speaker 3: Hey everyone, I am aware of the news that's currently circulating.
Speaker 3: I'm listening, I'm learning, and I'm committed to doing better.
Speaker 1: You know what to be in the notes up though,
Speaker 1: Let's get to the podcast you're listening to Flex and
Speaker 1: Rooms on Kater.
Speaker 3: It's Kata's first birthday, which means it's actually Flex and Frooms'
Speaker 3: first birthday. Congratulations on infancy. According to the little chart
Speaker 3: of our development, we should be walking by now hopefully
Speaker 3: hey no and learning to talk.
Speaker 1: No pressure, We'll get there. So I add this.
Speaker 3: I would say it's an ingenious idea to do Kata's
Speaker 3: birth chart. Why because we haven't and we can. And
Speaker 3: it's also nice to get a bit of information. I
Speaker 3: would have done Kata's personality test, but who would answer
Speaker 3: on behalf of cater? You would need to be collaborative
Speaker 3: and we just don't have time for that. So I
Speaker 3: plugged in the information. If you're playing at home, Kata's
Speaker 3: birthday is March the thirty first, twenty twenty two, at
Speaker 3: four pm.
Speaker 2: Yes, I remember the day.
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, so this means cata is an aries sun
Speaker 3: Pisce's moon, Leo Rising aries, Mercury aquarius, Venus aquarius Mars.
Speaker 3: To people who aren't spooky bitches spooky binches as I
Speaker 3: like to call them, that means nothing to people that are.
Speaker 3: I would summarize it by saying that on the surface,
Speaker 3: cater would be seen as this really exciting, transformative, like
Speaker 3: fast paced person. Let's describe as a person, right, But
Speaker 3: on the surface, they have these big dreams, like these
Speaker 3: big ideas about who they want to be and why
Speaker 3: they want to be there and how they're going to
Speaker 3: get there, and it's almost like this fantastical, imaginative thing.
Speaker 1: But then with their Leo.
Speaker 3: Rising attention hale, you know it's not about like you know,
Speaker 3: they want to be able to know that everyone knows
Speaker 3: they have these big dreams and these big ideas, and
Speaker 3: they want you to watch and they want you to
Speaker 3: see them. They want you to validate them for who
Speaker 3: they are and what they're doing, which is amazing because
Speaker 3: now I'm like, let's do a birth chart for every business,
Speaker 3: every brand obsessed. I'm smiling, I'm cheesing because I just
Speaker 3: love getting souch. So I love data mining. I love information.
Speaker 3: It's such a little trick to be like what do
Speaker 3: the words tell us about the thing? And also people
Speaker 3: don't know cater. They know the shows that make up cater.
Speaker 3: But it's like you're getting to know the big dog,
Speaker 3: the overlor the execs, like.
Speaker 1: What is she talking about? What is she talking about? Anyway?
Speaker 1: So I'm an air sun. Kita's an airy sun.
Speaker 3: I can resonate like people often say, and I would
Speaker 3: say on the surface and very stereotypical aries, bold, loud,
Speaker 3: look at me, I've got something to say, opinionated.
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah. Fine.
Speaker 3: I think that's like a cool thing to be, especially
Speaker 3: for a business, you know, like it makes sense.
Speaker 1: Why would you make it an ad it an ad
Speaker 1: an ad Yeah in what way? Just like so in depth?
Speaker 3: Yeah, well we can do it for anything, you know,
Speaker 3: you can do like for example, some like really hectic
Speaker 3: astrologers like Channey Nicholas, who's an amazing astrologer. She and
Speaker 3: her wife signed their wedding certificates at a very specific
Speaker 3: time and date because it was like auspicious for the
Speaker 3: way the planets were at the time. As a babe,
Speaker 3: you can really do this for everything. Like some really
Speaker 3: spooky musicians will release things that are aligned with what
Speaker 3: is all spicious in, like the social calendar. It's amazing.
Speaker 3: Now you're a Pisces sun. I'm a Pisces rising, Pisces Mercury,
Speaker 3: Pisces Mars, which is really fascinating too, because it's nice
Speaker 3: to see how these planets show up in different people.
Speaker 3: That's why we can't just be doing sun sign some
Speaker 3: sign and sunshign, because, as you know, and as you
Speaker 3: said before, under the aris layer of FLEXI is little
Speaker 3: baby emotional.
Speaker 1: She's feeling baby.
Speaker 3: And it's interesting because the contradiction between like loud forward,
Speaker 3: everybody look at me, and then.
Speaker 1: It's like, but don't look too hard. I mean time
Speaker 1: alone to cry. I've got big dreams.
Speaker 2: And quite a few days ago in the studio.
Speaker 1: I did, but that was kind of like, that's a
Speaker 1: really emotional time. I feel like brooking up, were manipulated
Speaker 1: into tears by you.
Speaker 2: I'm an amazing actor.
Speaker 1: Do you think you're good at lying.
Speaker 2: When it's really required of me? I will say I'll swear.
Speaker 1: You'll do whatever. Oh you'll pull that out.
Speaker 2: I can't swear I considered pulling it out the other
Speaker 2: day about something real juicy, but I wasn't.
Speaker 1: Damn, what are you gonna lie about that desperately?
Speaker 2: You don't want to know.
Speaker 3: It's so funny because there's this saying that, like you've
Speaker 3: got to be careful. When people are on a high
Speaker 3: horse about something and they feel really strongly about something,
Speaker 3: you gotta be careful because they're calling it. They're like
Speaker 3: trying to hide, right. And I used to be so
Speaker 3: on my high horse about secret keepers. I was like,
Speaker 3: don't keep secrets, don't keep secrets, gonna be open because
Speaker 3: I was the biggest secret keeper. I was like, I'm
Speaker 3: I don't want to know that you're all keeping secrets,
Speaker 3: you know, or you have people on their high horse
Speaker 3: about social issues.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, now I'm looking close to babe again.
Speaker 2: I don't know though about that.
Speaker 3: I'm I see it with everything because I often think
Speaker 3: it's one thing, like there are things I really really
Speaker 3: really care about, but I'm not projecting it right, Like
Speaker 3: you didn't know I was religious until a couple of weeks.
Speaker 3: Because it's like it's just a thing. I don't need
Speaker 3: to be putting it in my bio in my signature
Speaker 3: or whatever. But sometimes you like you're like, oh, you're
Speaker 3: trying to draw attention for a reason, or you're trying
Speaker 3: to repel me. Those people who are always like I'm
Speaker 3: in such a great relationship, I wouldn't change a thing.
Speaker 3: It's amazing. Like it's like we never we never find
Speaker 3: like there's nothing here, and then six weeks later, well,
Speaker 3: you know, we did break up.
Speaker 1: You know, every relationship has its issues.
Speaker 2: You can never know what goes on behind closed doors, ladies,
Speaker 2: and you don't.
Speaker 1: But people always telling themselves, that's a hard one. Flexee, Nah,
Speaker 1: I think people telling themselves. Yeah, I guess so. I
Speaker 1: think that's why I.
Speaker 3: Feel like language is like not even language, but listening
Speaker 3: to the way people speak about things Like I remember
Speaker 3: I was talking to a friend about her job experience
Speaker 3: and she said something like.
Speaker 1: I just feel powerless.
Speaker 3: And I was like, interesting, for the dynamic you're in
Speaker 3: and for the career in because you're the boss, so like,
Speaker 3: who have you given your power away too?
Speaker 1: She's like, what are you talking about? And I was like,
Speaker 1: you just said you feel.
Speaker 3: Powerless, Like that's a very specific word. You could have said,
Speaker 3: like I feel like I don't have support. I feel
Speaker 3: like I don't have the resources. I feel like I
Speaker 3: don't have the tools. You said powerless. And even if
Speaker 3: she didn't intend to say that, she's like, I don't
Speaker 3: want you said it, and so now let's talk about that.
Speaker 3: And then because she was in denial about it, I
Speaker 3: was like, Okay, then what's this thing with the power?
Speaker 2: Why are you a psychologist because.
Speaker 3: I don't want to study? You don't like academia?
Speaker 2: Well this was very insightful.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it always is. Still should we cry again?
Speaker 2: Question?
Speaker 1: But we'll leave them for another time. We're going to
Speaker 1: answer them off there. Oh my god, what should we do?
Speaker 1: Another birth? Chat about? Who knows it'll come to us
Speaker 1: in a vision? Who always does flex and frooms?
Speaker 3: They're the best?
Speaker 1: What did you?
Speaker 3: I'm always very skeptical and people claim to have found
Speaker 3: something that will like change your life or improve your
Speaker 3: life drastically, because as we know, you really can't take shortcuts.
Speaker 3: Everything that's quite good for you is going to take
Speaker 3: time and considered habit building. But this person is convinced otherwise.
Speaker 3: It's called the life deck. This is what it's about.
Speaker 4: But my husband and I got married, we made something
Speaker 4: called the life deck, or rather I made it because
Speaker 4: I'm insane, but the life deck is crucial to everything
Speaker 4: running smoothly. What is the life deck for? Please see
Speaker 4: the following Please reference if you don't know what the
Speaker 4: fork is going on when we were like merging everything. Honestly,
Speaker 4: I started making this for myself before they got married,
Speaker 4: and then I just kind of finished it when we
Speaker 4: got married because we had to merge everything. But anybody
Speaker 4: can use this, whether you are single or you have
Speaker 4: joint finances or joint housing like whatever in a joint thing,
Speaker 4: this is helpful. So I'm gonna go over like what's
Speaker 4: in it? And then I also want your suggestions of
Speaker 4: what else should be added to this. As you can tell,
Speaker 4: this is bare bones. I haven't even made it pretty
Speaker 4: because this is just kind of what we use internally.
Speaker 4: But I was like, this is too good not to share.
Speaker 4: So first way of your financial goals. Anybody has any
Speaker 4: questions wondering what we're saving for, we don't know. It's here,
Speaker 4: always here. I put some DOBE numbers in here. Do
Speaker 4: whatever works best for you. All your income streams go here.
Speaker 4: If you're a two person income household W two one two,
Speaker 4: any side hustles that you have. And next we go
Speaker 4: into account oh review, so all of our bank accounts
Speaker 4: and the last four of those bank accounts just in
Speaker 4: case I need the reference anything that I've ever thought,
Speaker 4: Oh man, I really need to look this up.
Speaker 1: Oh I need it.
Speaker 3: It's in the life Dey, basically a PowerPoint slide of
Speaker 3: all the information you need to probably don't have access to.
Speaker 3: What's your insurance number, what's your policy like how much?
Speaker 3: What's your savings goals. I think it's cool in theory,
Speaker 3: but as someone who's graduated from putting my passwords in
Speaker 3: my note to getting like a password manager, I think
Speaker 3: this is like moving back a thousand steps. You're giving
Speaker 3: everyone this like really amazing character profile to hack you,
Speaker 3: and I just can't understand. I get it, Like put
Speaker 3: it in a convenient place. Maybe having it like not
Speaker 3: digital would be safer. Yeah, put it in a safe perhaps,
Speaker 3: And like old school, I don't know what I do.
Speaker 1: With my crypto.
Speaker 2: So like with crypto, you have one master master master password,
Speaker 2: which is twenty five word.
Speaker 3: That a random gonna start rattling it off, twenty five
Speaker 3: dog alpha.
Speaker 2: And that's like the absolute Like if you forget your password.
Speaker 2: Then you use that code and that's in payper form
Speaker 2: because anyone who's fudging with your crypto knows your way
Speaker 2: into your computer. Un do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: I will say your password manager changed my life. It
Speaker 2: took the stress out of it. I won't say what
Speaker 2: one I use, but just check any password manager. It
Speaker 2: sounds like the first little bit of using it where
Speaker 2: you've got to add in all your password it's tedios.
Speaker 2: But then it will tell you when your passwords are compromised.
Speaker 2: And it's this little tiny app you can get on
Speaker 2: any phone or more computer advice. Yeah, yeah, that's good
Speaker 2: to know. Flexi flex and Frims flex and fromes cater
Speaker 2: never miss a beat Flexi. Do you wear air pods?
Speaker 1: I don't? Actually did you ever? No, I've not made
Speaker 1: the transition. What do you wear? I wear over ear headphones?
Speaker 3: Right? My ears are too petit for in ears, like
Speaker 3: very petit is generally, but the canal tiny nothing.
Speaker 1: Fits joke, you know how it is? So yeah I didn't,
Speaker 1: And even now I'm like, how we all got AirPod money?
Speaker 2: I was gonna say I lost my AirPods last year
Speaker 2: and it just really hit different just that Nah, search
Speaker 2: for them everywhere. They were just gone, so they get
Speaker 2: you anyway. I was feeling really upset about it until
Speaker 2: I saw this TikTok of a chic who apparently grew
Speaker 2: mushrooms inner air pods.
Speaker 1: Now this was so graphic that it was deleted off TikTok.
Speaker 2: But I've seen something quite similar, which is at a TikTok,
Speaker 2: I found that ear fungus caused my AirPod overuse made
Speaker 2: them very sick. And it's a thing called oto mycosis,
Speaker 2: which is a fungal infection that can affect one or
Speaker 2: both ears. And this what's called doctor Sena who removes
Speaker 2: ear wax and stuff. Put a video up removing fungus
Speaker 2: and ear wax mixture from a patient's ear. And that's
Speaker 2: because they were wearing air pods constantly.
Speaker 3: And what it is like mill jew and like the heat,
Speaker 3: like perfect conditions.
Speaker 1: I just showed flexy visual.
Speaker 2: It looks disgusting. He said that oto mycosis occurs in
Speaker 2: high humidity environments summer months, or when the ear has
Speaker 2: been traumatized by a Q tip. Think of that wet
Speaker 2: log you lift off the grassy forest floor and notice
Speaker 2: a growth of mushrooms it's not so dissimilar to that.
Speaker 2: So basically, if you put anything in your ears for
Speaker 2: an extended period of time, you risk raising the humidity
Speaker 2: in your ears and causing otoe mycosis. And he said
Speaker 2: that depending on where your country is, it can be
Speaker 2: as little as five percent to as high as eighty
Speaker 2: one percent of people that can get it. So if
Speaker 2: you've been in Sydney for the last few weeks and
Speaker 2: you're dealing with this one hundred percent humidity, just lay
Speaker 2: off the ear pads, play off the air pods, or
Speaker 2: I'll it be good for you.
Speaker 1: It can't, can it.
Speaker 3: So I don't think that's like a consideration for most things,
Speaker 3: like eating preservatives can't be good for me, and yet
Speaker 3: here I am applying plus religiously can't be good for me,
Speaker 3: but here I am vaping can't be good for you,
Speaker 3: But here they are, and here we are.
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