WEBVTT - LIFE UNCUT RADIO SHOW - 6th August 0:00:00.880 --> 0:00:05.280 Life Uncut podcast acknowledges the traditional custodians of country throughout 0:00:05.320 --> 0:00:09.080 Australia and their connections to land, sea and community. We 0:00:09.160 --> 0:00:11.920 pay our respect to their elders past and present and 0:00:12.039 --> 0:00:15.360 extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander 0:00:15.360 --> 0:00:18.759 peoples today. This episode is recorded on gaddigal Land of 0:00:18.760 --> 0:00:39.760 the Aurora Nation, the. 0:00:39.760 --> 0:00:42.040 Life on Cut radio show Pretty Hotly Laura Burn right 0:00:42.040 --> 0:00:44.559 around Australia. Hi everybody, Hi girls. 0:00:44.479 --> 0:00:47.640 Hi Mitch, the guys on Hi, don't I just don't 0:00:47.640 --> 0:00:48.479 want to fluff around here. 0:00:48.479 --> 0:00:50.280 I've got a problem. I have a problem with the 0:00:50.280 --> 0:00:51.239 men in Australia right now. 0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:53.840 No, look, not all the men. There are some good 0:00:53.880 --> 0:00:56.280 men left in Australia. It's the men that you choose. 0:00:56.120 --> 0:00:57.320 At this point is fault. 0:00:57.600 --> 0:01:01.200 I also, I'm at. 0:01:01.040 --> 0:01:03.080 The point where I think we need to stage an 0:01:03.080 --> 0:01:06.480 intervention for the men that you're attracted to. Okay, Well, 0:01:06.480 --> 0:01:07.800 I just want to tell you a story. And I 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:10.479 guess this is what happens when the dating pool gets 0:01:10.480 --> 0:01:12.680 smaller you hit your thirties. You know, there's that awkward 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:14.679 time where people are already married, they haven't figured out 0:01:14.680 --> 0:01:16.200 that they want a divorce yet, so. 0:01:16.240 --> 0:01:19.319 There's like there's this time that's even people. There's not 0:01:19.440 --> 0:01:20.280 a lot of people out. 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:22.600 There, like the good men eventually come back on the market, 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:25.400 but they'll comfort sir. But I was not there, so 0:01:25.760 --> 0:01:27.640 I I mean in the Eastern Beaches too. It's a 0:01:27.640 --> 0:01:29.120 bit of a bubble. So I'm in Sydney in the 0:01:29.200 --> 0:01:32.480 Eastern Beaches now produce a Keisha. She's the one of 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:35.759 my really good friends. She produces the podcast. We're both single, 0:01:35.840 --> 0:01:38.440 we're both online dating, so we we never match with 0:01:38.480 --> 0:01:40.679 anyone because the Slim Pickings. We were down at the 0:01:40.720 --> 0:01:44.000 park two weeks ago now maybe, and I was like, 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:47.680 I finally matched with one person. I find I'm someone's decent. 0:01:47.760 --> 0:01:49.279 He was, I mean, had some topless photos. 0:01:49.320 --> 0:01:50.000 It's pretty cute. 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:52.960 I hate a topless photos. He's so beautiful. I'll show 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:53.920 him he is. 0:01:53.960 --> 0:01:56.360 I'll show you Tobe. It's you'll appreciate it more So. 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:59.160 He was divine with the some bands and I was like, 0:01:59.200 --> 0:02:01.440 it's been great weeks of chat. She's like, oh my god, 0:02:01.480 --> 0:02:04.080 I matched with someone too, and I was like, no way. 0:02:04.880 --> 0:02:08.120 The bands start with her double match and then she's 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:09.679 like but he stopped talking to me a couple of 0:02:09.720 --> 0:02:11.480 days ago. Now went cold and I was like, oh, 0:02:11.800 --> 0:02:14.440 so did my guy. We're like, oh no, so we 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:17.280 swap phones when like, we've been talking to the same guy. 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:19.040 This is not the end of the world, okay, but. 0:02:19.000 --> 0:02:21.840 We're like, well, it's a bit deep into conversation. Did 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:24.240 you get with the same guy? Though we were a 0:02:24.280 --> 0:02:26.640 few weeks deep of bans like it was, it was 0:02:26.720 --> 0:02:28.360 going really well. 0:02:28.400 --> 0:02:30.880 I had said, let's meet up. We've got to that point, right, Yeah, 0:02:30.919 --> 0:02:33.000 the bands might one day get in your pants. Well 0:02:33.000 --> 0:02:36.399 that was the plan. Then nothing, so we go cold. 0:02:36.480 --> 0:02:37.240 We forget about it. 0:02:37.280 --> 0:02:39.560 Then Keisha and I a couple of nights later, we're 0:02:39.639 --> 0:02:42.760 out at the pub having some drinks. In walks this guy, 0:02:42.960 --> 0:02:44.160 he's a meter away from us. 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:44.880 We've never met him. 0:02:45.600 --> 0:02:47.639 I look at him, he looks at me, he looks 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:49.440 at Keisha. Keisha looks at him. Keisha looks at me. 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:51.680 I look at Keisha. There's an awkward love triangle. He 0:02:51.720 --> 0:02:53.800 doesn't say a word, and then he walked to the 0:02:53.800 --> 0:02:55.920 other end of the bar. Yeah, so you think he 0:02:55.960 --> 0:02:57.359 clocked it and he was like, oh, that's both the 0:02:57.480 --> 0:02:59.560 girls together. Didn't speak, it would. 0:02:59.320 --> 0:03:00.720 Have sunk he would have gone, God, they've got they've 0:03:00.760 --> 0:03:01.640 teamed up. How do they know? 0:03:01.960 --> 0:03:04.120 But I think this is a good thing, Like he's fine. 0:03:04.160 --> 0:03:06.560 You don't need if you've been chatting to a guy, 0:03:06.680 --> 0:03:08.840 he's talking to someone who you're friends with. There's plenty 0:03:08.880 --> 0:03:11.360 of other fish. I mean, that might be debatable, but 0:03:11.400 --> 0:03:13.960 there's a lot of other fish in this sa. It 0:03:14.000 --> 0:03:15.680 doesn't need to be the same person that your friend 0:03:15.720 --> 0:03:16.440 is also chatting to. 0:03:16.560 --> 0:03:16.720 Yeah. 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:19.080 Right, So this is the moment where you let it slide, right, 0:03:19.120 --> 0:03:21.320 You're like, this is he's not a great guy. 0:03:21.400 --> 0:03:22.800 It's not going well, let's let it go. 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:24.919 Well, I mean, he hasn't done anything wrong, but also 0:03:25.000 --> 0:03:28.000 just the yeah true and then didn't speak to you 0:03:28.000 --> 0:03:29.520 and yeah, look, I mean I think that there's other 0:03:29.520 --> 0:03:30.359 people you could pick. 0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:31.840 Yeah cute. So I went on a date with him 0:03:31.880 --> 0:03:32.320 last night. 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:35.040 Okay, all right? 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:37.200 I mean the girl does love a red flag? How 0:03:37.200 --> 0:03:40.120 did that go? And my wait? A more important question 0:03:40.280 --> 0:03:42.160 is have you told produced Akisha yet? 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:42.480 Yes? 0:03:42.560 --> 0:03:45.040 I have. We think this is funny. There's no secret 0:03:45.120 --> 0:03:45.240 to you. 0:03:45.280 --> 0:03:46.880 Did he call you kish? Did he get the names 0:03:46.920 --> 0:03:47.400 mixed up? 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:49.400 And how many other girls is he talking to on 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:49.960 Tinder right now? 0:03:49.960 --> 0:03:51.080 Okay, so you know what he told me. 0:03:51.440 --> 0:03:56.280 He said a lie. He told me he did not 0:03:56.880 --> 0:04:00.800 recognize either as the other one. 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:02.119 He had a red flag on his head. 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:04.200 Brittany, how did the date go? 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:04.880 Reeling? 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:07.680 Well, I'm definitely gonna see him again. 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:11.520 But the terrible apparently, well, I just want to finish on. 0:04:12.280 --> 0:04:13.960 I went to drop him home. I was like the 0:04:13.960 --> 0:04:15.760 boy because I was driving. I want to drop him home. 0:04:15.840 --> 0:04:17.360 We stopped at the traffic lights. 0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:19.920 I can't believe this is I stopped at. 0:04:19.800 --> 0:04:20.560 The traffic lights. 0:04:20.560 --> 0:04:22.440 Go on, high pitch, it must be good. We stopped 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:24.400 at the traffic lights that were close to his house, 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:26.480 and he goes, okay, think you guys so much, I'm 0:04:26.480 --> 0:04:28.240 gonna run, got out of the car, close it all 0:04:28.360 --> 0:04:28.880 and ran. 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:29.520 He ran. 0:04:30.360 --> 0:04:32.200 Tell you why because he still lives with his girlfriend. 0:04:32.480 --> 0:04:35.600 That's why. That's why he ran while the car was 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:36.279 still moving. 0:04:36.440 --> 0:04:39.880 Anyway, I'm going to see him again, and ladies. 0:04:39.600 --> 0:04:43.120 And gentlemen, is the reason why Brittany Hockley is still single. Terrible. 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:45.800 Hey, this is pretty fun. If you're not in the 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:48.880 lifeun Cut radio show Facebook group, you have to. It's 0:04:48.880 --> 0:04:50.039 like it's own little sub word. 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:53.640 It's called the life on cut discussion not the group, 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:56.720 but if you're from the radio land, you can come 0:04:56.800 --> 0:04:59.160 join us. We don't discriminate. We love everybody there. 0:04:59.640 --> 0:05:01.360 We had a what interesting conversation in there. 0:05:01.400 --> 0:05:04.640 Recently, a few questions going around about house sitting. Well, 0:05:04.680 --> 0:05:07.000 I think because everybody's going away on holidays at the moment. 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:08.840 People have got dogs, you've got plants, You've got all 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:10.800 these things you got to take care of. Now, there 0:05:10.880 --> 0:05:13.360 was one girl who had written in the Facebook discussion 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:16.880 group and she was asking the question. So her boss 0:05:17.040 --> 0:05:19.360 had said, can you come over and hou sit while 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:21.839 we're away? So she said, yeah, no problem, I'll come 0:05:21.880 --> 0:05:25.120 and I'll house it. But he didn't actually specify whether 0:05:25.240 --> 0:05:27.039 or not he was going to pay her to come 0:05:27.040 --> 0:05:29.000 over and house sit for the three weeks that he 0:05:29.040 --> 0:05:31.800 was off on holidays. Now, this was the conversation she 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:34.839 wanted to know. Is it assumed that you get paid 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:37.400 for house sitting, especially if it's your boss asking you, 0:05:37.960 --> 0:05:40.039 or do you just house sit out of the goodness 0:05:40.040 --> 0:05:41.680 of your own heart because you get a roof over 0:05:41.720 --> 0:05:44.400 your head and I guess some leftover food in the fridge. 0:05:44.680 --> 0:05:47.440 I think the idea is a no. It shouldn't be assumed. 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:50.159 But I think that the idea around this is I've 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:52.640 done a lot of house sitting in my time overseas, 0:05:52.680 --> 0:05:54.680 and I did it as a way to save money. 0:05:54.880 --> 0:05:57.120 You don't get paid for it overseas, but you get 0:05:57.120 --> 0:05:58.560 free accommodations' pay rent. 0:05:58.800 --> 0:06:01.000 And if it's a like a lot of. 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:03.520 People that get housed as living these big beautiful houses. 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:04.680 So the idea is you. 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:06.320 Get to live in luxury for a couple of weeks, 0:06:06.360 --> 0:06:07.760 like we don't pay you, but look at the house 0:06:07.800 --> 0:06:09.960 you live in. So I think you definitely need to 0:06:09.960 --> 0:06:12.520 have the conversation. It cannot be assumed. Yeah, but all 0:06:12.560 --> 0:06:14.800 find if you're a backpacker in another country. But if 0:06:14.800 --> 0:06:17.280 you've got to pay rent in your own house, that's like, 0:06:17.440 --> 0:06:19.480 you know, five hundred meters down the road or in 0:06:19.680 --> 0:06:23.000 another suburb. It's just annoying staying at someone else's house 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:24.120 because then you've got to go home. 0:06:24.000 --> 0:06:25.479 And get a mansion on Dover Heights. 0:06:26.400 --> 0:06:29.120 I don't know. I think if you're going to have 0:06:29.160 --> 0:06:31.880 someone house it and it's not saving them any money 0:06:31.920 --> 0:06:33.720 because they've still got to pay rent in their own home, 0:06:34.040 --> 0:06:35.239 then I think you've got to pay. 0:06:35.040 --> 0:06:37.440 Them especially if it's a boss. You can't get your 0:06:37.440 --> 0:06:39.040 employee in your house and not pay them. 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:42.279 Absolutely. On top of that too, it's not just that 0:06:42.320 --> 0:06:44.400 you're come into staying this nice house. If you've actually 0:06:44.480 --> 0:06:46.560 asked someone to come and do the work. You're walking 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:48.960 in the dog, you're feeding the cat, you're taking them 0:06:48.960 --> 0:06:51.159 out to go to it like you're doing extra. Then yeah, 0:06:51.160 --> 0:06:53.400 there definitely needs to be a conversation about the money. 0:06:53.440 --> 0:06:55.680 And that's annoying because like, if you're there and you're 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:57.680 taking care of their pets or whatever, you've got to 0:06:57.720 --> 0:06:59.680 be on their schedule. You've got to make sure you 0:06:59.680 --> 0:07:01.680 take I fell out for his afternoon poop. You've got 0:07:01.720 --> 0:07:04.280 a feat Like, there's responsibilities there. Do you know when 0:07:04.320 --> 0:07:06.200 I was house sitting over in England This is a 0:07:06.240 --> 0:07:09.360 true story. I was house sitting for this really rich family, 0:07:09.400 --> 0:07:11.680 a beautiful mansion in the woods. 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:13.320 The dog died. 0:07:14.680 --> 0:07:17.720 While you were house sitting. Well, I'm going to guess 0:07:17.760 --> 0:07:18.680 they didn't pay you. 0:07:19.120 --> 0:07:22.520 They definitely did not. He went out into the woods 0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:23.920 and he was the prized possession. 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:25.480 He never came. 0:07:25.360 --> 0:07:28.120 Back all that. He disliked you that much. He ran 0:07:28.160 --> 0:07:30.760 away and died, but they found him though they found 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:33.200 they found him, and they won't even they won't anger 0:07:33.280 --> 0:07:35.400 at me. It turns out that he had They did 0:07:35.440 --> 0:07:37.080 some checks, you know, they paid the extra money for 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:38.800 the cat skins. He had like a heart murmur, and 0:07:38.800 --> 0:07:40.760 he just passed away at eight. It was just very 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:43.280 this bad timing. I mean, cause you have a profile 0:07:43.280 --> 0:07:45.080 when you house sits, so people can go and comment 0:07:45.520 --> 0:07:49.640 this is that is traumatic. That is traumatizing for you. 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:53.520 Case having a pet die when you're the house sitter. 0:07:53.960 --> 0:07:54.960 I can't even imagine. 0:07:55.000 --> 0:07:56.200 I wanted to run away. I was like, how do 0:07:56.200 --> 0:07:57.560 I even tell them? How do I say? Hey, I 0:07:57.560 --> 0:07:58.840 know I had one job here I. 0:07:58.920 --> 0:08:00.760 House set for a friend in was a haunted house 0:08:00.800 --> 0:08:02.720 and I ended up paying for sage to do a 0:08:02.760 --> 0:08:03.200 sale or not. 0:08:04.000 --> 0:08:05.440 Yes, my good friend. 0:08:05.720 --> 0:08:07.640 I said, hey, there's scratch marks on the wall. They went, 0:08:07.680 --> 0:08:09.400 this is true story. They went, they weren't scratch marks. 0:08:09.640 --> 0:08:11.040 When they got back, they went, there were scratch marks. 0:08:11.080 --> 0:08:13.920 I didn't do them. Another did we A ghul scratched 0:08:13.920 --> 0:08:15.680 the walls. So I got saved, and I saved the 0:08:15.680 --> 0:08:16.080 whole house. 0:08:16.120 --> 0:08:17.720 You just made me feel physically ill. I get to 0:08:17.760 --> 0:08:19.680 his my eydes because I believe in goes. I think 0:08:19.680 --> 0:08:21.280 there were something in that house. Okay, I'm going to 0:08:21.440 --> 0:08:23.559 getting back to whether or not people need to pay. 0:08:23.880 --> 0:08:25.960 This is we I've gotten off track and stuff has 0:08:25.960 --> 0:08:28.320 gotten wild. We want to know if you've got someone 0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:30.720 staying in your house, do you pay them or is 0:08:30.720 --> 0:08:32.840 it just the kindness of your own heart? Yes, that 0:08:32.880 --> 0:08:33.720 you're doing your house citting. 0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:35.280 Well, there's something we do here on the show. Five 0:08:35.320 --> 0:08:38.200 calls says it all. We get five calls and we 0:08:38.200 --> 0:08:40.439 see where the tally lies. At the end, it's either 0:08:40.440 --> 0:08:41.560 going to be yes, or it's either going to be 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:42.760 no pay or you do it for free. 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:43.640 Just don't kill the dog. 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:46.440 Yeah, taking your calls to the lifephone cart radio show. 0:08:46.600 --> 0:08:51.240 Right around Australia, we're in the middle of a very 0:08:51.280 --> 0:08:51.839 heated debate. 0:08:52.200 --> 0:08:54.679 Oh yeah, that was very dramatic music listen. 0:08:54.720 --> 0:08:56.800 Someone posted in the life Phone Cut discussion group on 0:08:56.800 --> 0:08:59.400 Facebook they were asked a house sit their home by 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:01.720 their boss and they weren't paid. So the discussion is, 0:09:02.040 --> 0:09:03.720 should you be paid if you were house sitting a 0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:05.679 house for a friend, for a boss, whoever it may be, 0:09:05.760 --> 0:09:07.160 Should you be paid for your services? 0:09:07.200 --> 0:09:07.400 Laura? 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:07.760 You think? 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:11.000 And it was very divided. It was a heated, heated discussion, 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:13.920 and I think you should absolutely be paid. It's a job. 0:09:14.080 --> 0:09:15.240 Keeping a dog alive as a job. 0:09:15.400 --> 0:09:16.920 I think it's dependent on the situation. 0:09:17.120 --> 0:09:19.200 I think if it's got to say yes or no, 0:09:19.240 --> 0:09:22.000 it's a beautiful big mansion, yes or no, baby, yes, 0:09:22.000 --> 0:09:22.760 with considerations. 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:27.120 We're making the calls of the Australian public. Five calls 0:09:27.240 --> 0:09:28.920 says it all, and by the end we will have 0:09:28.960 --> 0:09:31.959 a result. Let's go to the phone. It's extra drama. 0:09:31.960 --> 0:09:35.520 I'm starting that again. There's a lot Gina on thirteen 0:09:35.559 --> 0:09:38.080 one sixty five. Gina to be paid or not to 0:09:38.120 --> 0:09:39.480 be paid for house sitting. Hello. 0:09:40.960 --> 0:09:43.920 I think it's kind of depending on the relationship you 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:45.960 have with them, Like if it's a bit of a 0:09:46.000 --> 0:09:49.400 working relationship, then yeah, you probably should be paid, Gina. 0:09:49.440 --> 0:09:53.040 We need a yes or no. Yeah, take a side, 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:56.160 get off that fence, Gina. It's a yes, yes, yes, 0:09:56.200 --> 0:09:58.080 a lot to pay them. Yes, we love it. 0:09:58.200 --> 0:10:00.560 Thank you, Gena, you got there in the end. Crystal 0:10:00.600 --> 0:10:02.959 thirteen one o six five is it yeay or is 0:10:03.000 --> 0:10:03.360 it may? 0:10:03.880 --> 0:10:07.840 It's a may? You did expect to be paid. I 0:10:07.960 --> 0:10:10.839 just think that you should expect them to return the 0:10:10.920 --> 0:10:11.600 fame for you. 0:10:11.640 --> 0:10:14.440 Interesting, Okay, I don't want my boss coming to my house. No, 0:10:14.920 --> 0:10:16.480 tell the head of around they can't come stay at 0:10:16.520 --> 0:10:16.840 my house. 0:10:19.600 --> 0:10:22.280 Thank you, Crystal. Let's move on, so it's one one each, 0:10:22.640 --> 0:10:24.959 Dear Paula, Hello, Paula. 0:10:25.200 --> 0:10:28.600 Yes or no, Paula, you feel like a yes absolutely? 0:10:28.840 --> 0:10:29.080 Yes? 0:10:30.960 --> 0:10:32.080 I got that vibe, Paula. 0:10:32.600 --> 0:10:38.560 Good absolutely responsibility, Like you're looking after your house animals. 0:10:38.679 --> 0:10:41.040 If you're doing you're doing a job basically, so you 0:10:41.040 --> 0:10:42.000 should be getting paid. 0:10:42.200 --> 0:10:42.400 Yes. 0:10:42.440 --> 0:10:44.040 And I killed my own plants, so if I have 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:45.400 to be responsible for someone. 0:10:45.240 --> 0:10:49.040 Else, I would never get everything would be dead. 0:10:49.160 --> 0:10:49.760 Thank you, Paula. 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:53.640 Harriet, Yes or no? Should you be paid if you 0:10:53.679 --> 0:10:54.600 were asked to house sit? 0:10:55.120 --> 0:10:55.920 I don't think so. 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:56.360 No. 0:10:56.600 --> 0:10:59.080 I used to do it all the time when I 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:02.760 was younger, Like I just finished school. I was, you know, 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:03.640 at UNI. 0:11:03.960 --> 0:11:05.520 It wasn't my job. I had a job. 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:07.600 I went to UNI. It was just a fun way 0:11:07.640 --> 0:11:10.520 to get out and have my own space, like I 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:11.760 was playing Bill Barry. 0:11:11.960 --> 0:11:13.600 Did a dog die on your watch too? 0:11:14.920 --> 0:11:18.080 No, a dog did not die on more responsible than 0:11:18.120 --> 0:11:18.520 all of us. 0:11:18.640 --> 0:11:21.000 You've got one up, all right, ladies and gentlemen. 0:11:21.160 --> 0:11:21.760 Time, breakup. 0:11:21.800 --> 0:11:24.040 The nose have to the yeses have too. I'm going 0:11:24.080 --> 0:11:27.439 to do it again. This is a final call. Five calls. 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:29.199 Does everyone have anxiety from this year? 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:30.680 Anxiety in general? 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:34.760 Yes, I see yes, life, something terrible, bad and foreboding 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:39.760 is about to happen here, bitch. 0:11:39.800 --> 0:11:40.319 What's it going to be? 0:11:40.360 --> 0:11:41.040 A yes or no? Gees? 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:41.240 Yes? 0:11:41.280 --> 0:11:47.160 No, No, let's find out. Gemma in Harris Park. Hello, 0:11:47.480 --> 0:11:50.160 ended for us? Should you be paid to house it? 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:52.040 Yes or no? 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:53.200 Big yes? 0:11:53.559 --> 0:11:58.600 Yes? Yes, Well show me the money, honey, that's laurl 0:11:58.640 --> 0:12:00.719 about here. Yeah, I've said it all. 0:12:00.800 --> 0:12:02.720 It is a yes, So you should be paid to 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:03.240 house suit. 0:12:03.320 --> 0:12:05.559 No. One should be doing anything for free these days. 0:12:05.800 --> 0:12:08.199 Like it's a mansion, I will do it for free. 0:12:08.280 --> 0:12:10.079 Yeah, unless I can come to live in your mansion 0:12:10.120 --> 0:12:11.400 with zero responsibilities. 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:13.320 I will do it. Yeah yeah. Or you kill their 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:15.000 dog and then pay for the vet bills in the cremation. 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:15.560 Ho would do that now? 0:12:15.559 --> 0:12:17.600 It is a thirty four year old in your mansion. 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:21.360 A democracy lives on here at the lifelun Cut Radio show. 0:12:21.520 --> 0:12:23.520 I mean it's not really the high end democracies. 0:12:23.679 --> 0:12:27.720 It it's like a small Italian village. We're doing an 0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:28.400 ask uncut. 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:31.600 This is ask uncut. This is one of our favorite segments. 0:12:31.640 --> 0:12:34.200 You guys, we write in questions to us your deepest, 0:12:34.280 --> 0:12:36.480 darkest dilemmas well, some of them actually aren't that deep 0:12:36.520 --> 0:12:39.240 and dark, and we do our best to give you 0:12:39.480 --> 0:12:43.400 our advice. Now, we're not overly qualified, but we're very passionate. 0:12:43.440 --> 0:12:46.439 And Laura, you have a question in your hot little hand. 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:49.240 I do Hi, girls, I've just found out that my 0:12:49.320 --> 0:12:52.320 partner of over a year has an app in his phone, 0:12:52.440 --> 0:12:55.120 one of those vault type apps that has nude photos 0:12:55.160 --> 0:12:57.600 of every girl that has ever sent him a spicy pig. 0:12:58.040 --> 0:13:00.120 He said that he doesn't really look at them, but 0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:02.760 I feel so uncomfortable about it. Why would he still 0:13:02.800 --> 0:13:05.640 have them? Am I completely crazy to think this isn't okay? 0:13:06.040 --> 0:13:08.439 Do you keep old nudes? Please help? 0:13:08.600 --> 0:13:11.680 He one hundred looks at them? 0:13:11.920 --> 0:13:14.800 You don't have a secret photo vault app that you 0:13:14.920 --> 0:13:16.959 keep every nude in and then say I don't actually 0:13:17.000 --> 0:13:19.479 really look at them though? Why do you have the photovolt? 0:13:19.600 --> 0:13:21.600 Have you ever been in this situation? Have you ever 0:13:21.679 --> 0:13:23.520 dated a guy and then found out that he had 0:13:23.720 --> 0:13:28.240 nudes of his ex? I don't think I have But 0:13:28.320 --> 0:13:30.840 I have a friend who this happened to literally like 0:13:30.880 --> 0:13:34.080 a month ago. She's in a relationship. She found a 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:37.040 vault on his phone. This actually probably written in by her, 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:37.840 who knows. 0:13:37.760 --> 0:13:38.360 She had a vault. 0:13:38.360 --> 0:13:41.200 He had a vault with his ex girlfriends, just one 0:13:42.320 --> 0:13:44.600 all her nudes in it, and I think some sex 0:13:44.640 --> 0:13:48.160 tapes as well. Now this doesn't sit right with me 0:13:48.240 --> 0:13:51.160 because I don't think if you're in a relationship and 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:53.160 you love each other and it's committed, I don't think 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:57.400 you should have access to a plethora of nude photos 0:13:57.400 --> 0:13:59.600 from every person you have ever been with in your life. 0:13:59.720 --> 0:14:01.680 I mean, do you have to delete them entirely or 0:14:01.679 --> 0:14:03.320 can you just put them on a computer somewhere that 0:14:03.360 --> 0:14:05.520 you don't look at them very often? Okay, hell, why 0:14:05.559 --> 0:14:07.480 are carrying them around on your phone? 0:14:07.679 --> 0:14:09.680 I'm getting a vibe that maybe you'd still. 0:14:09.440 --> 0:14:10.400 Got some news on your phone. 0:14:12.640 --> 0:14:13.880 This was you. You have to. 0:14:13.920 --> 0:14:16.600 Actually completely delete them from your life. This question came 0:14:16.640 --> 0:14:19.680 in from Maddie Jay. No, I've been in this situation. 0:14:19.800 --> 0:14:22.240 I actually dated a guy who had a secret app 0:14:22.280 --> 0:14:24.520 in his phone. It was a calculator and it was 0:14:24.560 --> 0:14:26.840 only that I found out that this calculator app if 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:29.240 you put in a special code into the calculator, it 0:14:29.400 --> 0:14:31.320 opened up as a photo vault. 0:14:31.480 --> 0:14:34.120 How did you even discover that we're trying to do 0:14:34.120 --> 0:14:37.440 some mathematics? One day in the vault opened THO I 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:38.680 was actually I was. 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:41.400 I was away on holidays. I had read an article, 0:14:41.480 --> 0:14:43.600 a tech article about this app and how kids were 0:14:43.680 --> 0:14:46.360 using it to fool their parents. And my boyfriend at 0:14:46.400 --> 0:14:47.960 the time was a bit look, he was a bit 0:14:48.040 --> 0:14:50.320 crap and I thought, you know what, I bet he 0:14:50.360 --> 0:14:52.840 has that app? And I picked up his phone. I 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:56.440 did he buddy had the app. Anyway, it caused many fights. 0:14:56.480 --> 0:14:58.760 He would never show me what was in it, but 0:14:58.840 --> 0:15:00.400 I did find out eventually, and yeah, it was a 0:15:00.440 --> 0:15:02.120 lot of photos of his ex I don't recommend it. 0:15:02.320 --> 0:15:05.120 I think that if your boyfriend's saying that it's okay 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:07.240 because he only looks at them sometimes, you probably should 0:15:07.240 --> 0:15:08.000 get a new boyfriend. 0:15:08.160 --> 0:15:10.120 I would recommend that you delete. 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:12.040 You get him to delete that app, and if he's 0:15:12.240 --> 0:15:13.760 arguing the point with you, if he says that he 0:15:13.760 --> 0:15:15.600 doesn't want to delete, that he needs it for some 0:15:15.640 --> 0:15:17.920 sort of resource or back up, then I would be 0:15:18.080 --> 0:15:20.320 leaving that relationship very quickly. 0:15:20.560 --> 0:15:22.280 Get a subscription to porn Hub. 0:15:22.480 --> 0:15:24.200 If you guys have a question that you want us 0:15:24.240 --> 0:15:26.520