1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: This is jam Nayson. I'm excited to start because this 2 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 1: film was funny, confronting, familiar, all of it, all of it. 3 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:18,320 Speaker 1: And let's talk about Nancy. Emma. 4 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 2: Hello, good Dame Memma Thompson. 5 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 3: And you're just going. 6 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:25,080 Speaker 4: Straight into we've already. 7 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: Seen a film in such a long time that has 8 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 1: just stayed with me like this. So we meet Nancy. 9 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:35,160 Speaker 1: And Nancy's husband's passed away, and she's a woman who's 10 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 1: never allowed herself to put her pleasure first, so she 11 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: hires a sex worker and that's where we first meet Nancy. 12 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 1: What an incredible character, and there's so much to love here. Nancy, 13 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 1: like so many of us, stands in front of the 14 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: mirror and doesn't like her body. We're so hard on ourselves, 15 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 1: aren't we. 16 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 3: Absolutely? I mean it's hardly our fault. I mean we 17 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 3: are surrounded by a kind of of an iconography body 18 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 3: iconography that's completely relentless and unforgiving and punishing. And why 19 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 3: don't you look like this? And here's how you can 20 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 3: look like this, And we'll tell you this and tell 21 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 3: you that, and this thing to do to your body 22 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:16,039 Speaker 3: and this thing to take you know, we've been brainwashed 23 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 3: since we were very little. There are eight year olds 24 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:21,120 Speaker 3: out there right now saying that they don't like their thighs, 25 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:23,479 Speaker 3: which is one of the reasons why, you know, I'll 26 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 3: travel around the world with this movie saying we've got 27 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 3: to stop this. And you would have thought that the 28 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 3: advent of something like social media might have somehow allowed 29 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 3: a younger generation to be more accepting of themselves, but 30 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 3: in fact the opposite has happened, and they've taken the 31 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 3: opportunities given to them to improve the way they look 32 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 3: so that they then become something that is acceptable in 33 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 3: the iconography that we've created for ourselves. And it's somehow 34 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 3: even worse now. Our level of self loathing and body 35 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 3: hatred and body dysmorphia is even worse. So you know, 36 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 3: it's a huge, huge issue. And as for Nancy, I 37 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 3: don't think she's unusual as a woman in not interrogating 38 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 3: herself on any level about what she might want. No, 39 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 3: you talk to most women and say what do you want? 40 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 3: To say what do you mean? What do I want? 41 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 3: Because it's not the top of anybody's list, And because 42 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 3: we're encouraged right from the beginning to be good, and 43 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 3: being good often doesn't relate or correlate with what's acceptable 44 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 3: and what you want to do with your life, you know, 45 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 3: to the point of do you actually want to have 46 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 3: children or are you going to be completely unnatural and 47 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 3: choose to live a life unencumbered by that. It's it's 48 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 3: really that's why the film goes so do all of 49 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 3: the questions about being a woman, what it means, and 50 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 3: you're unexamined life absolutely and how you look at yourself. 51 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 2: You could almost fantasize about this as far as this 52 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 2: is your character from from Love. Actually, it's almost like 53 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 2: Karen has moved morphed into Nancy. She was a teacher, 54 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 2: she had two kids some years down the track, and 55 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 2: there was a moment that I thought, obviously not the 56 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:20,359 Speaker 2: same character. 57 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 3: But there is no no, that would be sad. 58 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 2: But that is a step like yeah. 59 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:26,920 Speaker 3: I mean you know, you're right, Yeah, absolutely, that's a 60 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 3: woman who's done everything right and then finds herself thinking 61 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 3: why did I follow that whom? Yeah? Yeah, it's I 62 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 3: think she probably had better sex though, yeah, Nancy with 63 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 3: Alan Rickman. 64 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, oh you think in her marriage? 65 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 3: In her marriage, I think so, Yes. I think Nancy 66 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 3: has had a particularly rough ride in that regard, I 67 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 3: mean deeply Victorian practically and nighty with a hole in it. 68 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 2: Actually, that's kind of sex. 69 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 3: The title of your new book. Yeah, now that's probably 70 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:58,119 Speaker 3: an actual king. 71 00:03:58,320 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 2: Stop talking about. 72 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 3: Where's the whole? Don't even so? 73 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 2: And with that, with that, because this like there's no 74 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 2: holds barred when it comes to nudity and also discussion 75 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 2: about sex. How far are you removed from Nancy in that? 76 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 3: Oh, this film isn't about me. No, no, no, it 77 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 3: just isn't. It doesn't. And as for no holds barred, 78 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 3: just for your listeners, this is not a film full 79 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:33,480 Speaker 3: of sex and nudity. It's mostly fully clothed and a 80 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 3: lot of chat. It's two people really connecting with one another. 81 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:42,719 Speaker 3: You know, it's about real intimacy. But what I find 82 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 3: so fantastically interesting is that it's intimacy that's not romantic. 83 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:49,839 Speaker 3: It's a man and a woman in a room. Yes, 84 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 3: and sex is involved, or you know, dancing around the 85 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 3: idea of possibly maybe at some point, managing to do 86 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:03,160 Speaker 3: something that she's so scared of. That's what's so fantastic 87 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 3: about Nancy. Couldn't be further from me. But I'm not 88 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 3: going to talk about my sex if that's okay. But yeah, 89 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 3: she's so so frightened, but there's something inside her that's saying, 90 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:24,160 Speaker 3: I absolutely have to do this. I can't die like this. 91 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:25,719 Speaker 2: It's like going on a roller coaster. 92 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it is like that for her. And 93 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 3: it's a good analogy actually, because you know that feeling 94 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 3: as you get well I do, as you're in that 95 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 3: roller coaster. It makes that to get to this is 96 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 3: it going up to the top and I'm thinking, what 97 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 3: have I done? I'm going to die. I'm going to 98 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 3: die if not actually, but then a fright and that's 99 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 3: how Nancy's feeling. And then she goes over the edge 100 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 3: and you know, you watch this woman plunging into the flume. 101 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 1: Do you think we discussed this, and without giving too 102 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 1: much away in the film, you thought that Nancy fell 103 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 1: in love with Leah. I felt and I could be 104 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:06,039 Speaker 1: wrong too, me saying you're wrong that she wanted within 105 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: all that she was paying him, but she still wanted 106 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:12,039 Speaker 1: to find that there was some mutual work going on there. 107 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 1: And that's what's so liberating at the end, where she 108 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 1: feels we just see them with mutual pleasure and what 109 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: that meant to her. 110 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:20,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think she does fall in love with him. 111 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 3: I think that the generation gap is too wide. And 112 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 3: she's a person who uses her mind, uses her words, 113 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 3: loves her words. She's not but she does slightly lose 114 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 3: her mind, and she says, I weren't mad. I was 115 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 3: mad with I don't know what with maybe with lust 116 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 3: with it. But she wanted it to be real. She 117 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:45,919 Speaker 3: wanted it to be real in the sense that she 118 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 3: wanted to be able to say, you know, well, we 119 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 3: met and it was a business thing, but then it 120 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 3: turned into something else. Maybe she might have had projected 121 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 3: ideas of what it could have become. But she also 122 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 3: wants to sort of make his life better. She's got 123 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 3: that teacher maternal thing and going, I could talk to 124 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 3: your mom about it. 125 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:04,719 Speaker 2: She's a fixer, she's. 126 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:08,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, she's a caretaker. And she doesn't realize that 127 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 3: that's completely inappropriate. It is not for her to do that. 128 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 3: And she learns so many new boundaries with Leo about 129 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 3: how to honor. Are the people's boundaries, you know, are 130 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 3: the people's choices? Absolutely? The schoolgirls. The skirt length that 131 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 3: we still hear now, it's your fault. You wore the 132 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 3: wrong thing, and that's why the man lost control. You know, 133 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 3: it's always the woman's fault, everything's our fault. You just 134 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 3: have to remember that everything's are fauled and then proceed 135 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 3: from there. But don't assume that anyone's going to understand that. 136 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 3: In fact, it's literally the other way around. 137 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 1: What do you hope the discussions will be for people 138 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 1: who've seen this film? What the What are the you 139 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 1: hope people will talk about when they leave the cinema? 140 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 3: I well, first of all, I hope that people just 141 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 3: feel enormous pleasure and have a great time watching it, 142 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 3: because it's very, very funny. It is funny, and it's 143 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 3: very moving, and it's all the things that I want. 144 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 3: I want things to be funny, bittersweet, you know, a 145 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 3: little bit of a little bit sad, but also just hilarious. 146 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 3: I can give you examples of what people have said 147 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 3: to me. I remember a couple of twenty two to 148 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 3: twenty three year old girls saying, well, I didn't have 149 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 3: an orgasm until I was my I didn't know how, 150 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 3: I didn't know how to masturbate. Nobody talks about it. 151 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 3: It's absolutely to be that an eighty year old man 152 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 3: who said, I went home and talked to my wife 153 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 3: about what she might want, whether or our sex life 154 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 3: was Another older man, a grandfather, saying, you know, my 155 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,320 Speaker 3: friends brag about having good sex. I'm not sure that 156 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 3: they really are. I think they're lying. Another woman who said, 157 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 3: you know, I went to sleep with my husband and 158 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 3: I didn't want to laugh too loud because then I 159 00:08:57,040 --> 00:09:01,959 Speaker 3: thought he might know sad things. But also there was 160 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 3: a gay couple in the audience last night. Male gay 161 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 3: couple who have said that the body image, the dysmorphia, 162 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 3: and the dissatisfaction and unhappiness with one body really really 163 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 3: help them to let go of their own sense of 164 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 3: because how can you experience pleasure in After all, our 165 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:25,840 Speaker 3: only home, our body is the only place we're going 166 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 3: to be able to live. Unless you know you're in 167 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:33,439 Speaker 3: a sci fi movie, this is where we live. So 168 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 3: if we hate it, if we can't deal with it, 169 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 3: if we're dysmorphic about it and look at it with 170 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 3: dissatisfaction and negative feelings, how is it possible for us 171 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 3: to feel pleasure true within it? 172 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:46,959 Speaker 1: But when in popular culture do we ever see real skin, 173 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:50,199 Speaker 1: real bodies? That was what I found so wonderful about 174 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 1: this film. We never see someone over the age of 175 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 1: twenty five have an orgasm, live a life, be nude. 176 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:00,120 Speaker 3: We just don't see it, so we can pa. So 177 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 3: that's why we're so you know, we're so stark in 178 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 3: this kind of it's got to be perfect because that's 179 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 3: all we're shown. And until we see regularly lots and 180 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 3: lots of different stories about different kinds of bodies, will 181 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 3: will will continue to have this response to somebody like 182 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 3: Nancy taking her clothes off, which is, oh my god, 183 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 3: what happened? We've just seen a real body. Ah panic 184 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 3: in the streets. On a wait a minute, now I 185 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 3: feel better. I don't know why, on a wed a minute, yes, 186 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:26,439 Speaker 3: I do. 187 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:28,959 Speaker 4: You know, there's this huge sort of response to it, 188 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 4: which just shows you how little we see ourselves and 189 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 4: one another on a regular basis in stories, stories, and 190 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 4: also the oral sex scene has been lauded as one 191 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 4: of the best scene cinematic oral sex scenes. 192 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 3: It really has. I didn't even know that. 193 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:49,959 Speaker 2: Hang in a list of oral sex scenes or is 194 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 2: this like so out of like great movies like Her? 195 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:57,199 Speaker 3: Did you miss the oral sex scene? You know in 196 00:10:57,240 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 3: the Chariot's a metaphor, don it so ended up on 197 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 3: the floor. 198 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 1: But the fact that it's funny and it's real and 199 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:09,439 Speaker 1: you talk through it. We don't see that either popular culture. 200 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 3: And also she's sort of a bit of an idiot 201 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 3: sometimes and dogmatic and sometimes a bit bigoted. She says 202 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 3: stupid things. You will take it on with it, Yeah, absolutely, 203 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 3: I mean an extraordinary thing to say about, well, what 204 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 3: you young men need is a war, and my general because 205 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 3: and then you think, well, she's been trying to sort 206 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 3: of interrogate her own past and her own husband, who 207 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 3: perhaps was did have exactly that. She's got a good mind, 208 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:39,960 Speaker 3: but she has She's spent all her life with the 209 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 3: same kind of people, and suddenly she meets someone who's 210 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 3: completely different. And what I like very much about that 211 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 3: woman is that she's willing to learn. She's willing to 212 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 3: to be humble in the face of his wisdom, and 213 00:11:57,320 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 3: he's willing to accept the kind of affirmation that she 214 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 3: offers him, a kind of maternal affirmation that he hasn't had. 215 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 3: And so when they leave one another, they are deeply changed. 216 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 3: And I think we often surround ourselves, don't we, with 217 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:19,079 Speaker 3: the same kind of people because of course, that's how 218 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:21,440 Speaker 3: we are. We're humans. We like to be with people 219 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 3: who think the same way as we do, like the 220 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 3: same things we do. And I think we're losing the 221 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 3: capacity to talk really to people who have very, very 222 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 3: different opinions. And it's one of the only ways of 223 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 3: discovering what you really think and also learning tolerance. 224 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 1: And I imagine at the end of this film, Nancy 225 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: has a very different relationship or would try to forge 226 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 1: a different relationship with her children. 227 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:52,080 Speaker 3: Absolutely, I couldn't agree with you more. I think that's 228 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 3: a really you're the first person to point that out, 229 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 3: and I think it's a great truth. I think she'll 230 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:02,440 Speaker 3: go off to Barcelona and you know, perhaps find somebody there, 231 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 3: but it doesn't matter about whether she finds anybody or not, 232 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 3: because she's found herself. That this woman who has been 233 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 3: a stranger in a sense in her own country, you know, 234 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 3: this man has unlocked the door, and that when you 235 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:21,079 Speaker 3: see her in the mirror, she's walking through that mirror, 236 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 3: you know, into a completely new life. 237 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 1: I think goosebumps hearing that. That scene was very powerful. 238 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:28,840 Speaker 2: I do like when Leo put your andies back on, that's. 239 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 1: Made himself. 240 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:35,080 Speaker 2: I don't want to ruin it all this spoiler. That's 241 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:38,719 Speaker 2: one of the best putting andies back on scenes I've 242 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:42,079 Speaker 2: seen since been her, Yeah, since put the loin cloth 243 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 2: back on one of the horses. Well, Dame Emma Thompson, 244 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 2: this has been great. Do we call it? 245 00:13:50,640 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 3: Do you? 246 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 2: I always think with because I was instantly just not Emma. 247 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 2: But is it? Is it an a front if we 248 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 2: don't call you dame? 249 00:13:57,720 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 3: No, no, what d T or something like that. It 250 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 3: is quite good. But I always find myself of VT 251 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:08,199 Speaker 3: right of course, of course, no. No. Mostly people say 252 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 3: if they use the the D the D word, it's 253 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 3: often Dame Thompson, which is so funny. What's nice about 254 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 3: it is it's Dame memmur, Dame Judy, Jame Maggie. It's 255 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 3: a nice little name. Thompson's hilarious. 256 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 2: Well, we look forward to the movie. I've seen it, 257 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 2: has seen it. It's coming out August eighteen. I'm looking 258 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 2: forward to the range of nineties with a strategic hole. 259 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 3: This could be a bit of merchant. I think merch. 260 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 3: The Nancy will call it. That was such fun. Thanks, 261 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 3: thank you lovely to be here.