Speaker 1: So I guess go I'm saying is if you're currently
Speaker 1: feeling lost or not confident, just know when you get
Speaker 1: back to your authentic self, when you find your confidence
Speaker 1: and accept yourself just as you are, your most authentic self,
Speaker 1: that's where the good shit happens. That's where the magic happens.
Speaker 1: That's when alignment happens.
Speaker 2: Welcome back to.
Speaker 1: The Rise and Conquered Podcast. I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson,
Speaker 1: former lawyer turned entrepreneur, social media personality and personal development junkie.
Speaker 1: This podcast is for my girl gang who want to
Speaker 1: feed their mind with positive and expansive thoughts to help
Speaker 1: them step into their power and live their most authentic life.
Speaker 1: Which had a variety of topics including mindset, business, relationships, health,
Speaker 1: and so much more. Basically, wherever you are on your journey,
Speaker 1: I want to help you feel inspired and empowered to
Speaker 1: rise up and conquer your next bold move. I know
Speaker 1: that's going to look different for everyone, but just no,
Speaker 1: I'm right here by your side and that you have
Speaker 1: the rn C community behind you.
Speaker 2: Let's do this.
Speaker 1: Hello Anna, Welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcast.
Speaker 2: It's a Friday EP.
Speaker 1: So you know it's a solo episode from Yours Truly
Speaker 1: It's your host Georgie Stevenson and guys. Today, I did
Speaker 1: a little question thing on my Instagram was like, what solo.
Speaker 2: Pep talk do you want?
Speaker 1: I was going in between which topic I should talk
Speaker 1: about today, and the ones that came up most were
Speaker 1: about confidence, which I have definitely chatted about, and then
Speaker 1: also about surrendering in regards to a manifestation practice. So
Speaker 1: I think I've been talking a lot about manifestation and
Speaker 1: I bloody love too. And I think it's because my
Speaker 1: Rise and Conker project around three is currently happening, and
Speaker 1: oh my god, it's weak two. The energy in there
Speaker 1: is just electric. Everyone is feeling it and doing so well.
Speaker 1: So I'm like all in that world. But I did
Speaker 1: do some card pulling this morning, and this is a
Speaker 1: little practice that I do, whether it's you know, giving
Speaker 1: me some inspiration.
Speaker 2: For the day to journal about.
Speaker 1: Or today, I kind of, you know, held the cards
Speaker 1: to my heart and honestly, guys, like card pulling, it's
Speaker 1: not like this, well, I guess it is, we woo,
Speaker 1: but it's more of like an intuition sort of strengthening
Speaker 1: exercise where you can just like tap into kind of
Speaker 1: how you're feeling what you connect because really it's all
Speaker 1: about when you see the card and when you read
Speaker 1: the description.
Speaker 2: Of like how you feel what you connect it to.
Speaker 1: If you think about it, someone else that pulled that
Speaker 1: exact same card is going to connect it to something different.
Speaker 1: And that's why people find that cards work so well
Speaker 1: and give you know, clarity and stuff like that, is
Speaker 1: because it's all about tapping into your intuition. It's almost
Speaker 1: like a helpful hand. So I like just doing it's
Speaker 1: almost like a mindful practice for me as well. And
Speaker 1: I pull a card and I'm like, you know what
Speaker 1: comes up for me? What do I on a journal
Speaker 1: about or just what are the thoughts? So today my
Speaker 1: card pulling practice, I'm you know, having my coffee, I've
Speaker 1: got my crystals, the stage, my deck, and then I
Speaker 1: was like, what does the RNC fam want me to
Speaker 1: chat about? What should I riff on? And this is
Speaker 1: the card I got. So this deck is called the
Speaker 1: gr Oracle Guide, sorry, the GA Oracle Deck.
Speaker 2: Tony Carmen and Mel got.
Speaker 1: This for me for Christmas, which was bloody cute of her,
Speaker 1: and so literally the card I poured. It's number forty
Speaker 1: one and it is amethyst, which is also name of
Speaker 1: a crystal. It's the purple crystal. But the card is beautiful.
Speaker 1: I will put the photo on the R and C
Speaker 1: Instagram if you want to go look at it. But
Speaker 1: it's this woman and she's like, I don't know. In
Speaker 1: this like purple water, there's a sun, there's like this
Speaker 1: gold wave, there's this like star symbol, and the words
Speaker 1: related to this are transformation, certainty, and confidence. So I
Speaker 1: was like, clear it up, we're talking about confidence today.
Speaker 1: So let me just read you out what this card said,
Speaker 1: because it's really beautiful and I truly believe if you're
Speaker 1: listening to this episode and this is resonating with you,
Speaker 1: then this card is for you. So the description of
Speaker 1: the card reads, A profound transformation is taking place in
Speaker 1: your life. After much soul searching, you are now back
Speaker 1: in control. A new you is emerging, poised, and with
Speaker 1: a renewed sense of confidence. You can now move forward
Speaker 1: with certainty. The pass is now behind you. The hard
Speaker 1: work has been done. All you have to do is
Speaker 1: decide what is that you truly want. All is now possible.
Speaker 1: Listen to your heart and don't settle for second best,
Speaker 1: set your course, then go for it, be certain, be confident,
Speaker 1: and all is yours.
Speaker 2: For the taking.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I read that and I'm just like
Speaker 1: smiling because also I think this going to resonate with
Speaker 1: a lot of my rn C girls because Week one
Speaker 1: is all about getting clear and really stepping into that
Speaker 1: next level you, and then week two we're talking about
Speaker 1: limiting beliefs and like letting them go and transforming into
Speaker 1: the next sho. So this card is so on point,
Speaker 1: and the affirmation is I give thanks for the transformation
Speaker 1: and the healing that has taken place. I moved through
Speaker 1: life with gratitude. I moved through life with certainty. I
Speaker 1: move through life with confidence. I achieve my goals. What
Speaker 1: I focus on, I create. Oh I literally got like
Speaker 1: shivers reading that, and it's such a beautiful card, makes
Speaker 1: you go look at it. And then I actually also
Speaker 1: picked another card from another beautiful desk that deck, sorry
Speaker 1: that I just bought from Dreamy Moons, and I'll do
Speaker 1: that one at the end because it was so one
Speaker 1: point as well. It was like actually a bit I
Speaker 1: don't want to say creepy, but just yeah, it was amazing. Guys,
Speaker 1: when you tap into your intuition, like things just like
Speaker 1: make sense and line up and I bloody love it.
Speaker 1: So guys, let's chat confidence now. I also did an
Speaker 1: episode on this. It was a bonus episode that I released.
Speaker 1: I think it was like the first of January. So
Speaker 1: if you haven't listened to that, it's cutally like fifteen minutes.
Speaker 1: I would go back and listen to that too, because
Speaker 1: if this is resonating with you, you will love that episode.
Speaker 1: But something I've said before and when I define what
Speaker 1: confidence is for me, Confidence isn't you know, walking into
Speaker 1: a room thinking you're better than someone or prettier or
Speaker 1: more successful or you know, got your shit together more
Speaker 1: than someone else. Confidence is walking into a room and
Speaker 1: being confident in who you are, like knowing your strengths
Speaker 1: and weaknesses and not comparing yourself to others.
Speaker 2: So to know, if you're kind of not as confident.
Speaker 1: As you could be, it would be staff like you
Speaker 1: put yourself down, You put others down for being different.
Speaker 1: You think you need to you know, look a certain
Speaker 1: way or be a certain way. That isn't your true
Speaker 1: authentic self. So like almost like you know, fake it
Speaker 1: to you make it and show up a certain way
Speaker 1: that actually doesn't align with you.
Speaker 2: It's like, even if you think you need.
Speaker 1: To just be some other way that's not yourself, or
Speaker 1: if you think others need to be a certain way.
Speaker 1: I think a really bad kind of like loop and
Speaker 1: mental sort of thing we can get in is judging
Speaker 1: others because they are different to us, or you know,
Speaker 1: there's something about their life that you don't agree with.
Speaker 1: You know, whether it's anything from how they look, or
Speaker 1: their job, or how they treat others.
Speaker 2: Or anything like that.
Speaker 1: Like any time that you are judging someone else is
Speaker 1: a huge kind of thing of you. Yeah, like it's
Speaker 1: a huge Actually it's a huge sign of like lack
Speaker 1: of confidence because you think other people need to be
Speaker 1: a certain way. Which, if you think about it, like
Speaker 1: if we just stopped judging everyone and stopped thinking we
Speaker 1: all needed to be the same.
Speaker 2: Because we are all so different.
Speaker 1: Like it's so cliche, but we are all perfectly imperfect.
Speaker 1: We are not meant to be the same. We're not
Speaker 1: meant to look the same, we're not meant to have
Speaker 1: the same personality. And I think if someone is different
Speaker 1: or you know, polar opposite to you, we think it's
Speaker 1: bad or we think you know, someone polar opposite to
Speaker 1: you is good and you're bad, and guys, it's just
Speaker 1: not the case. Like, stop all that right now. And
Speaker 1: I get it. Society has completely fucked us. And you know,
Speaker 1: I do not usually swear on this podcast, but this
Speaker 1: is I'm feeling fired up. I'm feeling ready to.
Speaker 2: Chat about this.
Speaker 1: And yeah, like society, our parents like. And that's when
Speaker 1: I say our parents, But it's like the way we
Speaker 1: grew up our parents like, which they always did in
Speaker 1: cases the best they can with what they had.
Speaker 2: And it's because of you know, their parents.
Speaker 1: But the way we're brought up, the way that society
Speaker 1: really imprints this thing of there is a certain way
Speaker 1: to do things, there's a certain way to address there's
Speaker 1: a certain way to be.
Speaker 2: You should fit in this box.
Speaker 1: And we're very you know, we're taught that from a
Speaker 1: very young age, you know.
Speaker 2: In school.
Speaker 1: So I completely get it. If you are someone who
Speaker 1: you're kind of nodding your head and realizing that maybe
Speaker 1: you are a bit judgy or maybe you're not confident
Speaker 1: in yourself, and it's like, I just want to say,
Speaker 1: I feel for you.
Speaker 2: It is so normal.
Speaker 1: We are almost conditioned to be that way with how
Speaker 1: the world is. But also I'm telling you now you
Speaker 1: can change, you can be different. You have a responsibility
Speaker 1: now being aware of these limiting beliefs and these things
Speaker 1: around my voice, correct around how you're thinking, can actually
Speaker 1: be different. And you have a responsibility you know, if
Speaker 1: you want to change that. So me personally, like right
Speaker 1: now at the moment, you guys can probably tell and
Speaker 1: stuff like I am so confident in who I am,
Speaker 1: how I show up my strengths, my weaknesses, what I
Speaker 1: bring to the table that I don't often get rocked.
Speaker 1: I do, like sometimes one hundred percent. There's certain stuff
Speaker 1: that will trigger me or make me feel you know,
Speaker 1: in adequate and stuff, and I've got to do the
Speaker 1: inner work around that. But I am kind of at
Speaker 1: a place now where I have done a lot of
Speaker 1: the inner work. I've done a lot of retraining my brain,
Speaker 1: rewriting stories where I'm now at a point where I'm
Speaker 1: kind of like and also really stepped into myself, into
Speaker 1: my authentic self, and really accepted myself that I'm like,
Speaker 1: if you don't like me, cool, Like you're not my
Speaker 1: human and that is fine, Like I'm not going to
Speaker 1: get and I think sometimes, you know, we try and
Speaker 1: act a certain way, and we try and be this
Speaker 1: certain person to be accepted, to be liked, but in
Speaker 1: that we are not being authentic to ourself, which therefore
Speaker 1: we do not feel confident. So honestly, I feel my
Speaker 1: most confident when I am being my most authentic, when
Speaker 1: I am honoring my intuition, when I am stepping into
Speaker 1: my power of Georgie. You know, I'm gonna say it.
Speaker 1: I say it probably every episode, but no one is you.
Speaker 2: That is your power every single time.
Speaker 1: So like it's just like a huge thing of like
Speaker 1: accepting yourself being who you are, and then you can
Speaker 1: feel confident. So I want to tell you a story
Speaker 1: of my confidence because you know me saying, guys, I'm
Speaker 1: so confident blah blah blah. You're probably thinking, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: typical Georgia. Of course you're confident, Like you know, you've
Speaker 1: got two businesses, You've really stepped into yourself blah blah blah.
Speaker 2: But like, I actually, like I have a.
Speaker 1: Bit of a transformational journey with being confident. So my
Speaker 1: mom tells me, like when I was young, like when
Speaker 1: I was three, She's like, and I've always been a
Speaker 1: very upfront, like outspoken person, where I know what I want,
Speaker 1: where I know who I am in regards to Like,
Speaker 1: even when I was a child, mom has Mom has
Speaker 1: stories of me like, you know, dressing myself and dressing
Speaker 1: really crazy and like and Mom being like, are you sure.
Speaker 2: You want to wear that?
Speaker 1: I mean being like, yeah, this is what I'm wearing
Speaker 1: to the shops and going to the shops and looking
Speaker 1: ridiculous but like loving it. And then also when I
Speaker 1: first started school, so I would have been like five
Speaker 1: or six in grade one, and she would be like,
Speaker 1: I have three older brothers who are all like two
Speaker 1: years apart in front of me, and so they used
Speaker 1: to want mom to like take them to their classes.
Speaker 1: You know, your mom used to drop you off at
Speaker 1: your class in primary school. So they used to do
Speaker 1: that and like, you know, be super anxious and whatnot.
Speaker 1: And so we used to take the boys first and
Speaker 1: then she would take me last because obviously year one
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter as much. And She's like it used
Speaker 1: to get to the point where you're like, like the
Speaker 1: boys would be like, you know, crying or feeling really
Speaker 1: like insecure about going to the class and nervous, and
Speaker 1: I'd be like, Mom, I'm just gonna go to the
Speaker 1: class myself. And she's like, you would literally then walk
Speaker 1: off and take yourself to class and just be like
Speaker 1: why is this such.
Speaker 2: A big deal?
Speaker 1: And she would be like, my mom is like a
Speaker 1: big like you know, softy and EmPATH and bit of
Speaker 1: a like can be an emotional person. So she was
Speaker 1: like shocked because she's got these like boys who are
Speaker 1: like that. And then I'm like, mom, I can make
Speaker 1: my own way sort of thing. So obviously when I
Speaker 1: was younger, like, and I think we all when we're younger,
Speaker 1: like we know what we want. We're super confident, like
Speaker 1: if you think about it, when we're born, we are
Speaker 1: born perfection. We cry when we want something, you know,
Speaker 1: we tell it at it how it is. And it's
Speaker 1: not till we do get older when we start picking
Speaker 1: up these stories from you know, friends or family or
Speaker 1: society where we think we have to be different or
Speaker 1: we think we have to be a certain way. So
Speaker 1: that was me when I was like, you know, three
Speaker 1: to five, and then I remember kind of like my
Speaker 1: first memories of like even like you know, towards late
Speaker 1: primary school, high school, and I think we may all
Speaker 1: be able to resonate with this is all I wanted
Speaker 1: to do was fit in. I remember, like I actually
Speaker 1: have this memory of being in year eight, and.
Speaker 2: I don't know if you guys will think this.
Speaker 1: I'm sure if you're my age, you might like know this,
Speaker 1: But does anyone remember that, Like, does anyone remember that
Speaker 1: like phase of primary sorry, high school when everyone used
Speaker 1: to wear like children's bags, like a backpack, but it
Speaker 1: would be a child's backpack, like it would have a
Speaker 1: character on it or something. I think it was like
Speaker 1: that bit of that emo stage, like I had a
Speaker 1: full side fringe and.
Speaker 2: You would like wear a backpack that it's a child's backpack.
Speaker 1: I don't know if this is making sense, but I
Speaker 1: remember like sitting in bed thinking, okay, so to be
Speaker 1: cool to fit in, I need to get this character
Speaker 1: backpack from Kmart. I need to cut my hair into
Speaker 1: a fringe. I need to do this and this and
Speaker 1: this and all these things were like you know, outside
Speaker 1: things to make me, you know, feel confident, but also
Speaker 1: to make me fit in. Because I remember, that's all
Speaker 1: I wanted to do so much, like you know, maybe
Speaker 1: you in primary school or high school or maybe even
Speaker 1: still now, I really lost myself. And honestly, when we
Speaker 1: kind of lose ourselves and we're not confident in who
Speaker 1: we are, we make decisions from that, you know, lost self,
Speaker 1: And honestly, that's why I did my law degree. I didn't,
Speaker 1: you know, like I was interested in law and I
Speaker 1: could see myself doing that, but it very much came
Speaker 1: from a place of this is what I should do,
Speaker 1: do fit in society and tick off this certain box.
Speaker 1: It did not come from an aligned place, which is
Speaker 1: why I did, you know, six years of study and
Speaker 1: then when it did something completely different. And so if
Speaker 1: I was confident in myself from that beginning, like who
Speaker 1: knows where I am, I still think I'd be doing
Speaker 1: something similar. Maybe I would have got here sooner, like
Speaker 1: anything like that. So I guess I go. I'm saying
Speaker 1: is if you're currently feeling lost or not confident, just
Speaker 1: know when you get back to your authentic self, when
Speaker 1: you find your confidence and accept yourself just as you are,
Speaker 1: your most authentic self, that's where the good shit happens.
Speaker 1: That's where the magic happens. That's when alignment happens. That's
Speaker 1: when you get that feeling of I'm in the right place.
Speaker 1: This is exactly what I'm meant to be doing with
Speaker 1: my life. Like I had that like a bit of
Speaker 1: an epiphany with when I had just filled all my
Speaker 1: spots my Rising Conker project. You know, we had just
Speaker 1: increased our numbers. It was all very exciting. We filled
Speaker 1: the spots, and I had this like moment when I
Speaker 1: sat there and I was like, holy crap, like helping
Speaker 1: women step into their power, realizing their potential and really
Speaker 1: like disarming these limiting beliefs that are getting in the way,
Speaker 1: Like this is my sole purpose, Like this is what
Speaker 1: I was put on this earth to do. And it's
Speaker 1: honestly a feeling like no other. And you cannot get
Speaker 1: there if you cannot accept your most authentic self, which
Speaker 1: goes with being confident with who you are naturally just
Speaker 1: you know, that inner sort of person. So that's what
Speaker 1: I mean. Like, don't think it's just I'm confident because
Speaker 1: I've got this or that or a big following or
Speaker 1: businesses or anything like that. Yeah, I'm not gonna lie,
Speaker 1: Like that does increase my confidence. Honestly, confidence comes from within.
Speaker 1: Confidence comes from accepting yourself. And it's why I keep
Speaker 1: saying accepting yourself is there's this philosopher or like he
Speaker 1: was like a psychologist back in the day. And his
Speaker 1: name is Karl Jung or Young. Actually let me just
Speaker 1: quickly live google this because I'm horrible names.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so Carl Jung.
Speaker 1: So he was a Swiss Swiss Swiss psychiatrists and psychologists
Speaker 1: who founded so many of these like you know, principles
Speaker 1: to do with our mindset and stuff. And yeah, he's
Speaker 1: really cool. I definitely recommend looking into him. It's like
Speaker 1: some of the stuff's like a little bit hard to
Speaker 1: absorb because it's like kind of complex. But anyway, something
Speaker 1: that I love from him. And I've probably spoken about
Speaker 1: this before, but he said, the curious paradox of wanting
Speaker 1: to change, you know, wanting to get to that next level,
Speaker 1: is you first must accept where you currently are, who
Speaker 1: you are, and like, you know, accept yourself, and then
Speaker 1: you can change. So I think a lot of people
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, but I don't want to, you know,
Speaker 1: like settle, I don't want to be happy with who
Speaker 1: I am or what I've got or how I look
Speaker 1: because I want these other things. And I'm not saying
Speaker 1: that's that's actually not how it is one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: It is so okay to want different things. It's okay
Speaker 1: to you know, have these desires for things to be different,
Speaker 1: like amazing. I have those desires too. But if you
Speaker 1: cannot accept and meet yourself where you currently are, you
Speaker 1: cannot get there. And I know that's like I'm even
Speaker 1: saying it now. I'm like, does that.
Speaker 2: Even make sense, Georgia? But it does. I'm sure.
Speaker 1: I'm sure you kind of recognize that. He also has
Speaker 1: some cool quote quotes like we cannot change anything unless
Speaker 1: we first accept it, so not even yourself, but the scenario.
Speaker 1: And then also he has this famous quote that it's
Speaker 1: like the most terrifying thing you can do is accept yourself.
Speaker 1: And isn't that crazy but almost so true? Like when
Speaker 1: we really accept ourselves, we accept how we look, we
Speaker 1: accept our personality and all that sort of thing, you
Speaker 1: kind of become invincible because no one can rock you,
Speaker 1: no one can upset you, no one can tear you
Speaker 1: down because you're like, this is me. I've accepted it.
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Speaker 1: let's get back into the episode. And that's like a
Speaker 1: big kind of thing for me, which really was the
Speaker 1: catalyst of stepping into my power finding alignment, you know,
Speaker 1: tapping into my intuition. So, like I said, when I
Speaker 1: was like, you know, three and five, I knew what
Speaker 1: I wanted, I knew how I wanted to dress. I
Speaker 1: was very loud and proud and very kind of like outspoken.
Speaker 1: So I kind of have memories of when I was younger,
Speaker 1: and I remember, like my brothers used to call me
Speaker 1: a foghorn. I remember, you know, Mom and Dad used
Speaker 1: to say I'm so loud, I'm so you know, like outspoken,
Speaker 1: but they would kind of say it in a negative way.
Speaker 1: So I remember like you know, when I was younger too,
Speaker 1: I did drama, like I loved, I loved being you
Speaker 1: know those things.
Speaker 2: And then it's like a.
Speaker 1: Switch kind of flipped and I was like, oh no,
Speaker 1: it's actually not good to be you know, outspoken and
Speaker 1: to be vocal about things. Oh my god, guys, I
Speaker 1: was so vocal about things, and so you may be
Speaker 1: able to resonate where there was something in childhood where
Speaker 1: you kind of, you know, were a certain way and
Speaker 1: then like I said, like society, your parents, family friends
Speaker 1: kind of told you that it wasn't that's not like
Speaker 1: a positive thing, so you try to change it. I
Speaker 1: remember thinking, oh, if I can just be not as loud,
Speaker 1: if I can just kind of you know, listen to
Speaker 1: people and not be as you know, out there and whatnot, like,
Speaker 1: that's that's what I need to be.
Speaker 2: That's going to be better.
Speaker 1: And that's just like it makes me so sad to
Speaker 1: think about that because when I found that again, like
Speaker 1: or not even like you know, four or five years ago,
Speaker 1: like I said, that's when I fully stepped into myself.
Speaker 1: And like, I think what you don't realize is being
Speaker 1: authentically you is so magnetizing and you will attract the
Speaker 1: right opportunities, the right people. Like I'm sure there's people
Speaker 1: who listen to my podcasts, who watch my stories, watch
Speaker 1: my content who just don't like what I do, who
Speaker 1: don't gel with me. And that is so fine, because
Speaker 1: we're not supposed to be liked by other one. If
Speaker 1: we were liked by our own wou'd be like the
Speaker 1: most vanilla person. So don't be worried about, you know,
Speaker 1: pushing people away or being different, because trust me when
Speaker 1: I say you find the right people, you find the
Speaker 1: right opportunities for you that are perfect for you, and
Speaker 1: anything else just falls away. So a little exercise you
Speaker 1: can do with your confidence that I want to give
Speaker 1: you guys, you know, I like some actionable things is realizing.
Speaker 1: Like I said, where in your childhood were you really
Speaker 1: in your power? Were you really authentically you? And then
Speaker 1: somewhere along the way you were told that it was negative?
Speaker 1: And then so what I want you to do with
Speaker 1: that is I want you to rewrite the story. I
Speaker 1: want you to really forgive you know, the person or
Speaker 1: whatever that gave you that, and decide that you're no
Speaker 1: longer going to hold that limiting belief. So this is
Speaker 1: kind of called shadow work. I'm going through it very quick.
Speaker 1: We go through it so much more in depth in
Speaker 1: the Rise and Conquer Project.
Speaker 2: We're actually currently going it going through it a module too.
Speaker 1: So obviously you know, like I'm not going to give
Speaker 1: you the most extensive thing, because that would be quite
Speaker 1: rude for all the people who you know, have paid
Speaker 1: for the course material and who were doing the work.
Speaker 1: So this is like really quick skimming the surface sort
Speaker 1: of exercise. And if you do want to go deeper
Speaker 1: than this, come and join the Rice and Conquer project.
Speaker 1: We're currently closed, but it is probably going to be
Speaker 1: reopened like mid year, and it's really like life change
Speaker 1: and stuff, but just really quickly something you know you
Speaker 1: can do, Like I said, pick up that sort of
Speaker 1: thing used to be but you were told was negative.
Speaker 1: So for example, I'll do me and it will make
Speaker 1: a lot more sense. So when I was younger, I
Speaker 1: was very loud, outspoken, and you know, confidently me along
Speaker 1: the way, I was told that I was too loud.
Speaker 1: I was a too you know, a fog horn, and
Speaker 1: it wasn't a good thing. So I tried to keep
Speaker 1: myself smaller. I tried to be quieter. So long a way,
Speaker 1: I pick up that that was negative. So that was
Speaker 1: really probably you know, from my family, my parents, And
Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, my parents are the best you know,
Speaker 1: parents ever, And honestly, I was like talking to someone
Speaker 1: the other day, but if you are a parent, I
Speaker 1: think there's honestly no way you cannot give your child
Speaker 1: a limiting belief or something like I guarantee what I'm
Speaker 1: saying now, if my you know, mom and dad were
Speaker 1: to listen to this podcast, which they do listen to
Speaker 1: my podcast, So if you're listening, mom and dad, I
Speaker 1: love you.
Speaker 2: We're the best parents.
Speaker 1: But I'm sure they weren't even saying it in a
Speaker 1: bad way, Like I'm sure they're just like, oh, Georgia,
Speaker 1: you're a foghorn. But when we're younger, we take things
Speaker 1: in different ways.
Speaker 2: So this is my experience.
Speaker 1: It may not be you know, my parents' experience or
Speaker 1: you know whatnot. And I actually have this clear memory
Speaker 1: of my mom kind of saying it and being like Georgia,
Speaker 1: you know you so loud, like you know, blah blah blah,
Speaker 1: and kind of saying in a negative tone. So whether
Speaker 1: or not that's like actually correct in her memory, Honestly,
Speaker 1: doesn't matter because it's what I've picked up. So to
Speaker 1: rewrite that story, I would go, it is not you know, negative,
Speaker 1: to be loud, to be myself, to be upspoken, This
Speaker 1: is a positive.
Speaker 2: This is who I am.
Speaker 1: This is one of my strengths, this is one of
Speaker 1: my powers. I forgive you know, my parents or my
Speaker 1: mom forgiving me this negative story for whatever reason. And honestly,
Speaker 1: it's because my mom is the opposite to what I am.
Speaker 1: So she is quite reserved, quite quiet, you know, very
Speaker 1: much thinks before she speaks. So in her mind it's
Speaker 1: probably just because I was opposite to her, which is
Speaker 1: not you know, not bad at all. But so I
Speaker 1: forgive my mom, you know, or my parents forgiving me
Speaker 1: this negative story. But I do not have to carry
Speaker 1: this anymore. I can be loud, I can be you know, outspoken.
Speaker 1: That is authentically me, and this is my new story.
Speaker 2: So you'd just do.
Speaker 1: Something simple like that, feel into it, give yourself the
Speaker 1: news story. So that's just like a very simple exercise
Speaker 1: you can really do to like kind of step in
Speaker 1: your into your confidence. Also realize, like if there's someone
Speaker 1: else who triggers you. So let's just say a very
Speaker 1: good example. You know, Let's say there's this girl and
Speaker 1: maybe she wears a red lip, maybe you know, she
Speaker 1: wears revealing clothes, and you're like, who was she to
Speaker 1: you know, be so confidence, to be so sexual, to
Speaker 1: be you know, really in her power, because I'm guessing
Speaker 1: that's really authentic for her. If you were triggered by
Speaker 1: something like that, it probably means you wish you were
Speaker 1: more confident in that aspect of yourself. And I'm honestly
Speaker 1: saying this from personal experience. I grew up at Jehovah's
Speaker 1: witness where it was like no sex before marriage. So
Speaker 1: I actually had to do a lot of like trauma
Speaker 1: work and inner work around being okay with being a
Speaker 1: sexual person because I literally was told growing up that
Speaker 1: you don't have sex before marriage and wasn't allowed of boyfriends.
Speaker 1: So you know, when and I to be very honest
Speaker 1: with you, like I had my first boyfriend when I
Speaker 1: was like fourteen, you know, we did have sex and whatnot,
Speaker 1: bit it was almost this like, oh, this is being
Speaker 1: sinful and I shouldn't be you know, having sex and
Speaker 1: all these sorts of things. So I actually had that
Speaker 1: a lot of like weird sort of things around that.
Speaker 2: That I had to do work on.
Speaker 1: And if someone was so like open about being sexual
Speaker 1: and you know, being into that.
Speaker 2: That would trigger me.
Speaker 1: And you know, I could go the whole route of like, oh,
Speaker 1: she's such a slut or this and that, but please
Speaker 1: do not do that. Guys, when you get triggered by someone,
Speaker 1: it is honestly because you have not accepted that side
Speaker 1: of yourself or you wish you could be more confident
Speaker 1: in that side of yourself. And so anytime that happens,
Speaker 1: like stop, can we all just stop being so fucking judgy,
Speaker 1: Stop being judgy, be observant. That's even Like, you know,
Speaker 1: when people get triggered when I talk about money or
Speaker 1: property or anything like that, I guarantee you it's because
Speaker 1: they have issues or work they need to do.
Speaker 2: Around their money story.
Speaker 1: So when they see me saying stuff like money just
Speaker 1: comes to me, like I've done so much work around
Speaker 1: my money story that honestly, like money literally just fucking
Speaker 1: flows to me. The way it comes up in my
Speaker 1: life is ridiculous because I have no blocks around money
Speaker 1: and no issues there where I previously did. So if
Speaker 1: that triggers you, it means you need to work on that,
Speaker 1: and that's exactly with confidence. So I've kind of gone
Speaker 1: off and rent here when haven't I also just looked
Speaker 1: and it's like thirty minutes supposed to be a quick episode,
Speaker 1: but just no guys like and this isn't even I
Speaker 1: was even gonna talk about like body confidence and whatnot.
Speaker 1: But honestly, it's the same. And like I said, you
Speaker 1: can still desire to be different but accept yourself and
Speaker 1: be happy with how you are simultaneously like at the
Speaker 1: same time. That is honestly, you know what I used
Speaker 1: to do in regards to when I had certain like
Speaker 1: fitness goals and whatnot. And I think it's just so important.
Speaker 1: Stop putting yourself down, stop belitting yourself, stop keeping yourself small.
Speaker 1: You need to accept yourself, your authentic self, and that will,
Speaker 1: honestly like put you in alignment. When we're like really
Speaker 1: stepping into our power as you know, our authentic self
Speaker 1: and we accept ourselves and we therefore feel more confident,
Speaker 1: that's where the magic happens. That's when you know, the
Speaker 1: right people get attracted, that's when the right opportunities and
Speaker 1: all that sort of thing. And like I said, it's
Speaker 1: about stepping into that room. And being like, no one
Speaker 1: can and shake me because I know who I am,
Speaker 1: I know what I bring to the table, I know
Speaker 1: you know my strengths, I know my weaknesses, and I'm
Speaker 1: okay with it. So you know, that's even like I've
Speaker 1: noticed a huge trend currently in the group, which is
Speaker 1: so normal for week two where people are like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, but I'm worried about what other people say
Speaker 1: about my desires or the business I want to create,
Speaker 1: or you know, posting on social media and this and that.
Speaker 1: And my thing is always like, who fucking cares what
Speaker 1: other people think? And I know that's like so much
Speaker 1: easier to say, but that honestly comes from when you're
Speaker 1: confident in yourself and everything you're doing. You don't care
Speaker 1: what other people say. You don't you know, you're not
Speaker 1: worried about that sort of thing because you're staying in
Speaker 1: your own land. You're focusing on yourself. And also being
Speaker 1: confident is like if there is someone who you know
Speaker 1: is maybe where you want to be, or they're more
Speaker 1: successful quote unquote, or you know any think like that,
Speaker 1: be happy for that person and be like that's inspiring
Speaker 1: because if that person got there, so can I. Instead
Speaker 1: of trying to put that person down and going oh,
Speaker 1: well they probably got help for this, and that they're
Speaker 1: only there because of this and that, and again been
Speaker 1: judging me, been a judge, little bitch, don't do that,
Speaker 1: and be like, holy shit, if that person can do that,
Speaker 1: so can I, and be like, honestly like send that
Speaker 1: person gratitude and be like fucking well done.
Speaker 2: Good on you. You have just.
Speaker 1: Made me realize my potential and what I can do
Speaker 1: because one hundred percent, if someone does it, so can you.
Speaker 1: So again went off on a rant there, but I
Speaker 1: just felt super cold to do this. I've got to
Speaker 1: read you that last card. And also, guys, so something
Speaker 1: I want to do and this has just come from
Speaker 1: me and Tim did a Q and A in the
Speaker 1: last episode. We literally got the best feedback.
Speaker 2: It was charting.
Speaker 1: It was it was clear a fun episode. So if
Speaker 1: you haven't listened to that, go back an episode. Listen
Speaker 1: to me and Tim chat relationship, sex, everything very raw
Speaker 1: and real. But someone messaged me and was like, I
Speaker 1: would absolutely love if you did almost like an advice
Speaker 1: column on this podcast where you send in like you know,
Speaker 1: an email full scenario and I give you advice. So
Speaker 1: This is actually what I do in the Rise and
Speaker 1: Conquer podcast. I answer questions, but obviously it's very focused
Speaker 1: on what we learn about, so this would be more
Speaker 1: of like a broader thing, like literally any scenario in life.
Speaker 1: And obviously I'm not a health practitioner. I'm not a
Speaker 1: mental health practitioner, Like I'm not going to be answering
Speaker 1: stuff where you know you should be seeing a professional
Speaker 1: or anything like that. I'm just talking more like life
Speaker 1: sort of yeah, advice column sort of stuff. So I'm
Speaker 1: going to do that in the next couple of episodes.
Speaker 1: So if you have any questions for me, literally anything,
Speaker 1: send me an email at Georgie at Georgie Stevenson dot
Speaker 1: I will put this in the show notes. Jamie, please
Speaker 1: put this in the show notes. Send send us an email,
Speaker 1: put the subject line as advice question for Georgie. Makes
Speaker 1: you put that so Jamie can organize them in a folder,
Speaker 1: And in the next couple of episodes, I will do
Speaker 1: that and just answer some of your questions because I
Speaker 1: was thinking, you know, do I do like a Q
Speaker 1: and A and stuff, But it's like I don't want
Speaker 1: to answer questions about myself. I'm sure you guys know everything.
Speaker 1: I'd rather answer your questions about your life and give you,
Speaker 1: you know, advice, and maybe you just need to see
Speaker 1: a scenario or a different way, and I just need
Speaker 1: to shed a bit of light. I thought it would
Speaker 1: be a bit of fun, change up some content. So yeah,
Speaker 1: it makes you send me an email. But to finish
Speaker 1: the podcast, it's a long eat today?
Speaker 2: Is it a long ee? I feel like it's always
Speaker 2: this long, all right?
Speaker 1: So literally the card that I pulled, and this is
Speaker 1: from the Dreamy Moon Cosmic Guidance Oracle deck, it says
Speaker 1: the card is member who you are, returned to the roots.
Speaker 1: Is that not the most fitting thing ever about talking
Speaker 1: about confidence and being your most authentic self? So, guys,
Speaker 1: to leave you, to leave you? This is what the
Speaker 1: So there's a little quote and it says, stop acting small.
Speaker 1: You are the universe in estatic motion.
Speaker 2: Beautiful.
Speaker 1: So the meaning of this card who are you? Not
Speaker 1: your name or nationality or age, not your occupation, social
Speaker 1: status or labels? Who are you underneath all of that?
Speaker 1: Or I just got shivers because that's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: Like confidence, It's nothing fucking to do with how you
Speaker 1: look or your job or who you know. It's like,
Speaker 1: who are you at a soul level? Let's accept that,
Speaker 1: Let's get comfortable with that, and I promise you you'll
Speaker 1: have all the.
Speaker 2: Confidence in the world.
Speaker 1: So it then goes on. You can lose sight of
Speaker 1: your true self if you are surrounded by those who
Speaker 1: are already lost sight of their true self. Instead of
Speaker 1: encouraging you to embrace your individuality and uniqueness, the society
Speaker 1: can mold you into something you're not. It can make
Speaker 1: you believe things about yourself that are untrue, or make
Speaker 1: your self conscious about your true passions and interests. Remember
Speaker 1: what once brought you to joy, Remember all that you
Speaker 1: gave up in order to fit in. You are a
Speaker 1: physical manifestation of the universe itself. You are a powerful
Speaker 1: creator of your own reality. Remember that, and it says
Speaker 1: an exercise from this card because it gives you a
Speaker 1: cute little exercise. Open your journal and intuitively write everything
Speaker 1: that comes to your head when you ask yourself, who
Speaker 1: am I? And then also ask yourself slash journal, how
Speaker 1: can I be more true to myself?
Speaker 2: Ah? Was that not the most perfect card? Honestly, guys?
Speaker 1: And the affirmation is I am in alignment with my
Speaker 1: true self. I am the universe itself. And that's like
Speaker 1: just you know, that was like all kind of what
Speaker 1: I was talking about is like when you're a child,
Speaker 1: you know who you are, you know what you're interested in,
Speaker 1: you know your passions, and then along the way we
Speaker 1: kind of get a bit fucked up because of society
Speaker 1: and whatnot. So it's like, let's get back to those roots.
Speaker 1: Let's get back into alignment. Do that little exercise if
Speaker 1: you want to. And I just love this, Like I
Speaker 1: am the universe like you, like you, you as a
Speaker 1: person were manifested. You were meant to be here. You
Speaker 1: were always enough, you were guided, you were supported. This
Speaker 1: is not a mistake. You were meant to be here.
Speaker 1: You're meant to be listening to this episode. What you
Speaker 1: do next is up to you. Are you going to
Speaker 1: do the inner work? Are you going to you know,
Speaker 1: find that most authentic self so you can be confident,
Speaker 1: or are you going to continue listen to people who
Speaker 1: put you down, listen to your negative thoughts and not
Speaker 1: change your court rn C, fam, I love you, but
Speaker 1: you know I've got to give you some tough love
Speaker 1: every now and again. All right, guys, I'm going to
Speaker 1: leave you with that, Thank you so much for listening.
Speaker 1: I felt so in tune of this episode. I really
Speaker 1: hope you liked it. If you did like it, guys,
Speaker 1: make sure you share it with a girlfriend or someone
Speaker 1: who might think will benefit from that. You know, it's
Speaker 1: just me and Jamie who run this podcast, and the
Speaker 1: fact that we're on the charts and all that, and
Speaker 1: I literally record in my office very makeshift is honestly incredible,
Speaker 1: and you sharing it to your stories and tagging us
Speaker 1: or your friends is how we get more people to
Speaker 1: listen and how I can help other.
Speaker 2: Women and people. So I really appreciate if you do that.
Speaker 1: Love you so much, excited to do the advice column
Speaker 1: makes you send in a question. But yeah, I'll chat
Speaker 1: to you guys in the next episode.
Speaker 2: Bye.
Speaker 1: Thank you for listening for another R and C episode.
Speaker 1: I really appreciate taking the time to be here with me,
Speaker 1: and also for taking the time for your If you
Speaker 1: found this episode helpful, it would be so amazing if
Speaker 1: you shared it on your stories and tagged us, or
Speaker 1: simply just send it on to a girlfriend or family
Speaker 1: member who would benefit from listening. We are an independent
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Speaker 1: it would mean the world to us if you left
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Speaker 1: vibing this podcast and the concepts we're chatting about, and
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Speaker 2: To chat to you until next time.
Speaker 1: Didn't anything to