WEBVTT - Confidence can become your superpower 🧚‍♀️ 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:02.960 So I guess go I'm saying is if you're currently 0:00:03.240 --> 0:00:07.480 feeling lost or not confident, just know when you get 0:00:07.520 --> 0:00:10.800 back to your authentic self, when you find your confidence 0:00:10.960 --> 0:00:16.160 and accept yourself just as you are, your most authentic self, 0:00:16.640 --> 0:00:20.360 that's where the good shit happens. That's where the magic happens. 0:00:20.480 --> 0:00:31.160 That's when alignment happens. 0:00:34.080 --> 0:00:35.040 Welcome back to. 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:38.720 The Rise and Conquered Podcast. I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson, 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:45.440 former lawyer turned entrepreneur, social media personality and personal development junkie. 0:00:45.440 --> 0:00:47.920 This podcast is for my girl gang who want to 0:00:48.000 --> 0:00:52.040 feed their mind with positive and expansive thoughts to help 0:00:52.080 --> 0:00:55.840 them step into their power and live their most authentic life. 0:00:56.280 --> 0:01:01.280 Which had a variety of topics including mindset, business, relationships, health, 0:01:01.400 --> 0:01:05.720 and so much more. Basically, wherever you are on your journey, 0:01:05.840 --> 0:01:08.920 I want to help you feel inspired and empowered to 0:01:09.080 --> 0:01:12.280 rise up and conquer your next bold move. I know 0:01:12.360 --> 0:01:15.000 that's going to look different for everyone, but just no, 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:17.800 I'm right here by your side and that you have 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:19.679 the rn C community behind you. 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:21.160 Let's do this. 0:01:29.200 --> 0:01:33.039 Hello Anna, Welcome back to the Rise and Conquer Podcast. 0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:35.360 It's a Friday EP. 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:38.520 So you know it's a solo episode from Yours Truly 0:01:38.680 --> 0:01:44.399 It's your host Georgie Stevenson and guys. Today, I did 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:48.920 a little question thing on my Instagram was like, what solo. 0:01:48.720 --> 0:01:49.800 Pep talk do you want? 0:01:50.440 --> 0:01:53.880 I was going in between which topic I should talk 0:01:53.880 --> 0:01:57.400 about today, and the ones that came up most were 0:01:57.520 --> 0:02:01.360 about confidence, which I have definitely chatted about, and then 0:02:01.600 --> 0:02:06.480 also about surrendering in regards to a manifestation practice. So 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:10.120 I think I've been talking a lot about manifestation and 0:02:10.160 --> 0:02:14.280 I bloody love too. And I think it's because my 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:18.440 Rise and Conker project around three is currently happening, and 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:21.480 oh my god, it's weak two. The energy in there 0:02:21.680 --> 0:02:26.440 is just electric. Everyone is feeling it and doing so well. 0:02:26.520 --> 0:02:29.600 So I'm like all in that world. But I did 0:02:29.840 --> 0:02:32.280 do some card pulling this morning, and this is a 0:02:32.320 --> 0:02:36.520 little practice that I do, whether it's you know, giving 0:02:36.520 --> 0:02:38.400 me some inspiration. 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:40.160 For the day to journal about. 0:02:41.440 --> 0:02:44.280 Or today, I kind of, you know, held the cards 0:02:44.320 --> 0:02:48.160 to my heart and honestly, guys, like card pulling, it's 0:02:48.200 --> 0:02:50.280 not like this, well, I guess it is, we woo, 0:02:50.560 --> 0:02:53.839 but it's more of like an intuition sort of strengthening 0:02:54.000 --> 0:02:57.800 exercise where you can just like tap into kind of 0:02:57.840 --> 0:03:01.440 how you're feeling what you connect because really it's all 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:03.920 about when you see the card and when you read 0:03:03.960 --> 0:03:05.160 the description. 0:03:04.960 --> 0:03:08.200 Of like how you feel what you connect it to. 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:11.720 If you think about it, someone else that pulled that 0:03:11.880 --> 0:03:14.800 exact same card is going to connect it to something different. 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:18.079 And that's why people find that cards work so well 0:03:18.120 --> 0:03:20.240 and give you know, clarity and stuff like that, is 0:03:20.280 --> 0:03:23.680 because it's all about tapping into your intuition. It's almost 0:03:23.720 --> 0:03:27.440 like a helpful hand. So I like just doing it's 0:03:27.440 --> 0:03:30.400 almost like a mindful practice for me as well. And 0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:32.240 I pull a card and I'm like, you know what 0:03:32.440 --> 0:03:34.440 comes up for me? What do I on a journal 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:37.520 about or just what are the thoughts? So today my 0:03:37.680 --> 0:03:40.760 card pulling practice, I'm you know, having my coffee, I've 0:03:40.800 --> 0:03:45.119 got my crystals, the stage, my deck, and then I 0:03:45.160 --> 0:03:48.160 was like, what does the RNC fam want me to 0:03:48.240 --> 0:03:51.720 chat about? What should I riff on? And this is 0:03:51.760 --> 0:03:55.520 the card I got. So this deck is called the 0:03:55.680 --> 0:03:59.800 gr Oracle Guide, sorry, the GA Oracle Deck. 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:03.880 Tony Carmen and Mel got. 0:04:03.640 --> 0:04:06.640 This for me for Christmas, which was bloody cute of her, 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:10.200 and so literally the card I poured. It's number forty 0:04:10.240 --> 0:04:14.480 one and it is amethyst, which is also name of 0:04:14.480 --> 0:04:17.919 a crystal. It's the purple crystal. But the card is beautiful. 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:20.440 I will put the photo on the R and C 0:04:20.640 --> 0:04:22.400 Instagram if you want to go look at it. But 0:04:22.960 --> 0:04:26.359 it's this woman and she's like, I don't know. In 0:04:26.400 --> 0:04:30.080 this like purple water, there's a sun, there's like this 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:34.800 gold wave, there's this like star symbol, and the words 0:04:34.839 --> 0:04:41.400 related to this are transformation, certainty, and confidence. So I 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:44.600 was like, clear it up, we're talking about confidence today. 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:48.280 So let me just read you out what this card said, 0:04:48.320 --> 0:04:51.320 because it's really beautiful and I truly believe if you're 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:55.160 listening to this episode and this is resonating with you, 0:04:55.839 --> 0:04:58.760 then this card is for you. So the description of 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:03.800 the card reads, A profound transformation is taking place in 0:05:03.839 --> 0:05:08.080 your life. After much soul searching, you are now back 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:12.880 in control. A new you is emerging, poised, and with 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:17.520 a renewed sense of confidence. You can now move forward 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:21.559 with certainty. The pass is now behind you. The hard 0:05:21.600 --> 0:05:24.359 work has been done. All you have to do is 0:05:24.440 --> 0:05:29.080 decide what is that you truly want. All is now possible. 0:05:29.640 --> 0:05:33.720 Listen to your heart and don't settle for second best, 0:05:34.160 --> 0:05:38.440 set your course, then go for it, be certain, be confident, 0:05:38.600 --> 0:05:39.960 and all is yours. 0:05:39.640 --> 0:05:40.240 For the taking. 0:05:42.000 --> 0:05:43.839 Oh my god, I read that and I'm just like 0:05:43.920 --> 0:05:47.440 smiling because also I think this going to resonate with 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:50.360 a lot of my rn C girls because Week one 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:54.120 is all about getting clear and really stepping into that 0:05:54.160 --> 0:05:57.440 next level you, and then week two we're talking about 0:05:57.440 --> 0:06:01.159 limiting beliefs and like letting them go and transforming into 0:06:01.200 --> 0:06:04.080 the next sho. So this card is so on point, 0:06:04.240 --> 0:06:09.320 and the affirmation is I give thanks for the transformation 0:06:09.720 --> 0:06:13.000 and the healing that has taken place. I moved through 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:17.240 life with gratitude. I moved through life with certainty. I 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:21.680 move through life with confidence. I achieve my goals. What 0:06:21.880 --> 0:06:26.039 I focus on, I create. Oh I literally got like 0:06:26.120 --> 0:06:28.760 shivers reading that, and it's such a beautiful card, makes 0:06:28.880 --> 0:06:31.239 you go look at it. And then I actually also 0:06:31.320 --> 0:06:34.919 picked another card from another beautiful desk that deck, sorry 0:06:34.920 --> 0:06:38.200 that I just bought from Dreamy Moons, and I'll do 0:06:38.279 --> 0:06:40.000 that one at the end because it was so one 0:06:40.080 --> 0:06:42.360 point as well. It was like actually a bit I 0:06:42.400 --> 0:06:46.440 don't want to say creepy, but just yeah, it was amazing. Guys, 0:06:46.440 --> 0:06:49.360 when you tap into your intuition, like things just like 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:52.640 make sense and line up and I bloody love it. 0:06:52.839 --> 0:06:57.160 So guys, let's chat confidence now. I also did an 0:06:57.200 --> 0:07:00.880 episode on this. It was a bonus episode that I released. 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:03.280 I think it was like the first of January. So 0:07:03.440 --> 0:07:06.320 if you haven't listened to that, it's cutally like fifteen minutes. 0:07:07.240 --> 0:07:09.200 I would go back and listen to that too, because 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:12.880 if this is resonating with you, you will love that episode. 0:07:12.960 --> 0:07:17.600 But something I've said before and when I define what 0:07:17.760 --> 0:07:22.920 confidence is for me, Confidence isn't you know, walking into 0:07:22.960 --> 0:07:26.160 a room thinking you're better than someone or prettier or 0:07:26.200 --> 0:07:29.560 more successful or you know, got your shit together more 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:33.560 than someone else. Confidence is walking into a room and 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:38.280 being confident in who you are, like knowing your strengths 0:07:38.360 --> 0:07:41.960 and weaknesses and not comparing yourself to others. 0:07:42.800 --> 0:07:46.360 So to know, if you're kind of not as confident. 0:07:45.960 --> 0:07:49.320 As you could be, it would be staff like you 0:07:49.360 --> 0:07:53.800 put yourself down, You put others down for being different. 0:07:54.440 --> 0:07:56.920 You think you need to you know, look a certain 0:07:56.960 --> 0:07:59.960 way or be a certain way. That isn't your true 0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:03.080 authentic self. So like almost like you know, fake it 0:08:03.120 --> 0:08:05.520 to you make it and show up a certain way 0:08:05.560 --> 0:08:07.280 that actually doesn't align with you. 0:08:09.320 --> 0:08:11.080 It's like, even if you think you need. 0:08:11.000 --> 0:08:14.720 To just be some other way that's not yourself, or 0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:17.600 if you think others need to be a certain way. 0:08:18.080 --> 0:08:21.480 I think a really bad kind of like loop and 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:25.000 mental sort of thing we can get in is judging 0:08:25.200 --> 0:08:29.240 others because they are different to us, or you know, 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:32.440 there's something about their life that you don't agree with. 0:08:33.720 --> 0:08:37.000 You know, whether it's anything from how they look, or 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:39.880 their job, or how they treat others. 0:08:39.679 --> 0:08:40.800 Or anything like that. 0:08:40.880 --> 0:08:45.960 Like any time that you are judging someone else is 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:49.800 a huge kind of thing of you. Yeah, like it's 0:08:49.840 --> 0:08:53.760 a huge Actually it's a huge sign of like lack 0:08:53.920 --> 0:08:57.240 of confidence because you think other people need to be 0:08:57.280 --> 0:08:59.839 a certain way. Which, if you think about it, like 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:04.000 if we just stopped judging everyone and stopped thinking we 0:09:04.080 --> 0:09:05.480 all needed to be the same. 0:09:05.320 --> 0:09:08.160 Because we are all so different. 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:13.120 Like it's so cliche, but we are all perfectly imperfect. 0:09:13.800 --> 0:09:15.680 We are not meant to be the same. We're not 0:09:15.760 --> 0:09:17.600 meant to look the same, we're not meant to have 0:09:17.679 --> 0:09:21.760 the same personality. And I think if someone is different 0:09:21.920 --> 0:09:24.960 or you know, polar opposite to you, we think it's 0:09:25.080 --> 0:09:29.640 bad or we think you know, someone polar opposite to 0:09:29.720 --> 0:09:33.760 you is good and you're bad, and guys, it's just 0:09:34.200 --> 0:09:37.720 not the case. Like, stop all that right now. And 0:09:37.760 --> 0:09:42.600 I get it. Society has completely fucked us. And you know, 0:09:42.679 --> 0:09:45.280 I do not usually swear on this podcast, but this 0:09:45.360 --> 0:09:47.480 is I'm feeling fired up. I'm feeling ready to. 0:09:47.520 --> 0:09:48.160 Chat about this. 0:09:48.760 --> 0:09:53.760 And yeah, like society, our parents like. And that's when 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:55.720 I say our parents, But it's like the way we 0:09:55.720 --> 0:09:59.720 grew up our parents like, which they always did in 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:02.679 cases the best they can with what they had. 0:10:02.720 --> 0:10:04.640 And it's because of you know, their parents. 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:07.000 But the way we're brought up, the way that society 0:10:07.040 --> 0:10:10.640 really imprints this thing of there is a certain way 0:10:10.679 --> 0:10:13.360 to do things, there's a certain way to address there's 0:10:13.440 --> 0:10:14.400 a certain way to be. 0:10:14.880 --> 0:10:16.280 You should fit in this box. 0:10:16.400 --> 0:10:19.440 And we're very you know, we're taught that from a 0:10:19.600 --> 0:10:22.000 very young age, you know. 0:10:22.000 --> 0:10:22.559 In school. 0:10:23.120 --> 0:10:27.280 So I completely get it. If you are someone who 0:10:27.280 --> 0:10:30.880 you're kind of nodding your head and realizing that maybe 0:10:30.880 --> 0:10:33.320 you are a bit judgy or maybe you're not confident 0:10:33.400 --> 0:10:35.520 in yourself, and it's like, I just want to say, 0:10:36.320 --> 0:10:37.200 I feel for you. 0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:38.640 It is so normal. 0:10:38.960 --> 0:10:42.880 We are almost conditioned to be that way with how 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:48.079 the world is. But also I'm telling you now you 0:10:48.120 --> 0:10:52.000 can change, you can be different. You have a responsibility 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:55.840 now being aware of these limiting beliefs and these things 0:10:55.880 --> 0:11:00.720 around my voice, correct around how you're thinking, can actually 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:04.760 be different. And you have a responsibility you know, if 0:11:04.800 --> 0:11:08.800 you want to change that. So me personally, like right 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:10.760 now at the moment, you guys can probably tell and 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:15.959 stuff like I am so confident in who I am, 0:11:16.320 --> 0:11:19.760 how I show up my strengths, my weaknesses, what I 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:24.080 bring to the table that I don't often get rocked. 0:11:24.200 --> 0:11:27.000 I do, like sometimes one hundred percent. There's certain stuff 0:11:27.000 --> 0:11:29.240 that will trigger me or make me feel you know, 0:11:29.320 --> 0:11:32.120 in adequate and stuff, and I've got to do the 0:11:32.160 --> 0:11:35.040 inner work around that. But I am kind of at 0:11:35.040 --> 0:11:37.760 a place now where I have done a lot of 0:11:37.760 --> 0:11:40.839 the inner work. I've done a lot of retraining my brain, 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:44.160 rewriting stories where I'm now at a point where I'm 0:11:44.240 --> 0:11:49.800 kind of like and also really stepped into myself, into 0:11:49.880 --> 0:11:53.440 my authentic self, and really accepted myself that I'm like, 0:11:53.600 --> 0:11:56.200 if you don't like me, cool, Like you're not my 0:11:56.280 --> 0:11:59.160 human and that is fine, Like I'm not going to 0:11:59.559 --> 0:12:02.600 get and I think sometimes, you know, we try and 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:04.240 act a certain way, and we try and be this 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:08.080 certain person to be accepted, to be liked, but in 0:12:08.160 --> 0:12:12.400 that we are not being authentic to ourself, which therefore 0:12:12.600 --> 0:12:16.520 we do not feel confident. So honestly, I feel my 0:12:16.840 --> 0:12:21.640 most confident when I am being my most authentic, when 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:25.400 I am honoring my intuition, when I am stepping into 0:12:25.440 --> 0:12:28.400 my power of Georgie. You know, I'm gonna say it. 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:31.520 I say it probably every episode, but no one is you. 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:35.720 That is your power every single time. 0:12:36.880 --> 0:12:40.440 So like it's just like a huge thing of like 0:12:41.200 --> 0:12:45.000 accepting yourself being who you are, and then you can 0:12:45.040 --> 0:12:48.000 feel confident. So I want to tell you a story 0:12:48.040 --> 0:12:50.880 of my confidence because you know me saying, guys, I'm 0:12:50.920 --> 0:12:53.080 so confident blah blah blah. You're probably thinking, oh, yeah, 0:12:53.120 --> 0:12:56.480 typical Georgia. Of course you're confident, Like you know, you've 0:12:56.520 --> 0:12:59.640 got two businesses, You've really stepped into yourself blah blah blah. 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:04.280 But like, I actually, like I have a. 0:13:04.200 --> 0:13:07.760 Bit of a transformational journey with being confident. So my 0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:11.520 mom tells me, like when I was young, like when 0:13:11.520 --> 0:13:15.520 I was three, She's like, and I've always been a 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:22.480 very upfront, like outspoken person, where I know what I want, 0:13:23.040 --> 0:13:26.240 where I know who I am in regards to Like, 0:13:26.280 --> 0:13:28.560 even when I was a child, mom has Mom has 0:13:28.600 --> 0:13:31.920 stories of me like, you know, dressing myself and dressing 0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:35.840 really crazy and like and Mom being like, are you sure. 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:36.240 You want to wear that? 0:13:36.640 --> 0:13:38.440 I mean being like, yeah, this is what I'm wearing 0:13:38.480 --> 0:13:40.000 to the shops and going to the shops and looking 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:44.040 ridiculous but like loving it. And then also when I 0:13:44.120 --> 0:13:46.400 first started school, so I would have been like five 0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:49.640 or six in grade one, and she would be like, 0:13:50.280 --> 0:13:52.760 I have three older brothers who are all like two 0:13:52.840 --> 0:13:57.360 years apart in front of me, and so they used 0:13:57.400 --> 0:13:59.680 to want mom to like take them to their classes. 0:13:59.720 --> 0:14:02.080 You know, your mom used to drop you off at 0:14:02.120 --> 0:14:04.600 your class in primary school. So they used to do 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:07.400 that and like, you know, be super anxious and whatnot. 0:14:07.960 --> 0:14:10.560 And so we used to take the boys first and 0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:12.920 then she would take me last because obviously year one 0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:15.640 it doesn't matter as much. And She's like it used 0:14:15.640 --> 0:14:17.640 to get to the point where you're like, like the 0:14:17.720 --> 0:14:20.120 boys would be like, you know, crying or feeling really 0:14:20.120 --> 0:14:23.640 like insecure about going to the class and nervous, and 0:14:23.760 --> 0:14:25.720 I'd be like, Mom, I'm just gonna go to the 0:14:25.760 --> 0:14:28.920 class myself. And she's like, you would literally then walk 0:14:29.000 --> 0:14:31.600 off and take yourself to class and just be like 0:14:32.160 --> 0:14:33.040 why is this such. 0:14:32.920 --> 0:14:33.520 A big deal? 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:36.320 And she would be like, my mom is like a 0:14:36.320 --> 0:14:39.240 big like you know, softy and EmPATH and bit of 0:14:39.240 --> 0:14:42.280 a like can be an emotional person. So she was 0:14:42.320 --> 0:14:45.760 like shocked because she's got these like boys who are 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:47.600 like that. And then I'm like, mom, I can make 0:14:47.640 --> 0:14:51.000 my own way sort of thing. So obviously when I 0:14:51.040 --> 0:14:54.200 was younger, like, and I think we all when we're younger, 0:14:54.320 --> 0:14:57.000 like we know what we want. We're super confident, like 0:14:57.040 --> 0:14:59.920 if you think about it, when we're born, we are 0:15:00.120 --> 0:15:04.280 born perfection. We cry when we want something, you know, 0:15:04.360 --> 0:15:06.680 we tell it at it how it is. And it's 0:15:06.720 --> 0:15:09.040 not till we do get older when we start picking 0:15:09.120 --> 0:15:13.200 up these stories from you know, friends or family or 0:15:13.280 --> 0:15:15.720 society where we think we have to be different or 0:15:15.720 --> 0:15:17.920 we think we have to be a certain way. So 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:19.640 that was me when I was like, you know, three 0:15:19.680 --> 0:15:22.400 to five, and then I remember kind of like my 0:15:22.520 --> 0:15:27.360 first memories of like even like you know, towards late 0:15:27.400 --> 0:15:30.560 primary school, high school, and I think we may all 0:15:30.600 --> 0:15:33.640 be able to resonate with this is all I wanted 0:15:33.640 --> 0:15:37.960 to do was fit in. I remember, like I actually 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:41.040 have this memory of being in year eight, and. 0:15:41.760 --> 0:15:43.200 I don't know if you guys will think this. 0:15:43.760 --> 0:15:46.080 I'm sure if you're my age, you might like know this, 0:15:46.160 --> 0:15:49.560 But does anyone remember that, Like, does anyone remember that 0:15:49.680 --> 0:15:54.080 like phase of primary sorry, high school when everyone used 0:15:54.080 --> 0:15:58.160 to wear like children's bags, like a backpack, but it 0:15:58.200 --> 0:16:01.440 would be a child's backpack, like it would have a 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:03.240 character on it or something. I think it was like 0:16:03.280 --> 0:16:05.720 that bit of that emo stage, like I had a 0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:07.400 full side fringe and. 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:11.160 You would like wear a backpack that it's a child's backpack. 0:16:11.200 --> 0:16:13.160 I don't know if this is making sense, but I 0:16:13.160 --> 0:16:16.320 remember like sitting in bed thinking, okay, so to be 0:16:16.480 --> 0:16:19.800 cool to fit in, I need to get this character 0:16:19.880 --> 0:16:22.800 backpack from Kmart. I need to cut my hair into 0:16:22.800 --> 0:16:25.040 a fringe. I need to do this and this and 0:16:25.080 --> 0:16:28.840 this and all these things were like you know, outside 0:16:28.920 --> 0:16:32.960 things to make me, you know, feel confident, but also 0:16:33.040 --> 0:16:35.200 to make me fit in. Because I remember, that's all 0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:39.800 I wanted to do so much, like you know, maybe 0:16:39.840 --> 0:16:43.040 you in primary school or high school or maybe even 0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:48.360 still now, I really lost myself. And honestly, when we 0:16:48.480 --> 0:16:50.800 kind of lose ourselves and we're not confident in who 0:16:50.840 --> 0:16:54.960 we are, we make decisions from that, you know, lost self, 0:16:55.320 --> 0:16:57.960 And honestly, that's why I did my law degree. I didn't, 0:16:58.320 --> 0:17:00.920 you know, like I was interested in law and I 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:04.160 could see myself doing that, but it very much came 0:17:04.200 --> 0:17:06.679 from a place of this is what I should do, 0:17:06.680 --> 0:17:09.800 do fit in society and tick off this certain box. 0:17:10.240 --> 0:17:12.680 It did not come from an aligned place, which is 0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:15.639 why I did, you know, six years of study and 0:17:15.680 --> 0:17:19.440 then when it did something completely different. And so if 0:17:19.520 --> 0:17:23.200 I was confident in myself from that beginning, like who 0:17:23.280 --> 0:17:25.320 knows where I am, I still think I'd be doing 0:17:25.359 --> 0:17:28.239 something similar. Maybe I would have got here sooner, like 0:17:28.320 --> 0:17:31.720 anything like that. So I guess I go. I'm saying 0:17:31.880 --> 0:17:35.520 is if you're currently feeling lost or not confident, just 0:17:35.800 --> 0:17:39.600 know when you get back to your authentic self, when 0:17:39.640 --> 0:17:44.200 you find your confidence and accept yourself just as you are, 0:17:44.800 --> 0:17:49.000 your most authentic self, that's where the good shit happens. 0:17:49.119 --> 0:17:53.040 That's where the magic happens. That's when alignment happens. That's 0:17:53.160 --> 0:17:57.199 when you get that feeling of I'm in the right place. 0:17:57.400 --> 0:17:59.439 This is exactly what I'm meant to be doing with 0:17:59.440 --> 0:18:02.359 my life. Like I had that like a bit of 0:18:02.400 --> 0:18:05.399 an epiphany with when I had just filled all my 0:18:05.440 --> 0:18:08.439 spots my Rising Conker project. You know, we had just 0:18:08.520 --> 0:18:11.240 increased our numbers. It was all very exciting. We filled 0:18:11.280 --> 0:18:14.080 the spots, and I had this like moment when I 0:18:14.119 --> 0:18:17.840 sat there and I was like, holy crap, like helping 0:18:17.920 --> 0:18:21.760 women step into their power, realizing their potential and really 0:18:21.840 --> 0:18:24.520 like disarming these limiting beliefs that are getting in the way, 0:18:24.600 --> 0:18:28.480 Like this is my sole purpose, Like this is what 0:18:28.560 --> 0:18:31.760 I was put on this earth to do. And it's 0:18:31.840 --> 0:18:36.120 honestly a feeling like no other. And you cannot get 0:18:36.160 --> 0:18:40.879 there if you cannot accept your most authentic self, which 0:18:40.960 --> 0:18:45.159 goes with being confident with who you are naturally just 0:18:45.280 --> 0:18:49.320 you know, that inner sort of person. So that's what 0:18:49.359 --> 0:18:52.080 I mean. Like, don't think it's just I'm confident because 0:18:52.080 --> 0:18:54.600 I've got this or that or a big following or 0:18:54.640 --> 0:18:57.880 businesses or anything like that. Yeah, I'm not gonna lie, 0:18:57.960 --> 0:19:03.360 Like that does increase my confidence. Honestly, confidence comes from within. 0:19:03.920 --> 0:19:07.800 Confidence comes from accepting yourself. And it's why I keep 0:19:07.840 --> 0:19:14.119 saying accepting yourself is there's this philosopher or like he 0:19:14.240 --> 0:19:16.159 was like a psychologist back in the day. And his 0:19:16.280 --> 0:19:20.840 name is Karl Jung or Young. Actually let me just 0:19:20.920 --> 0:19:24.040 quickly live google this because I'm horrible names. 0:19:24.280 --> 0:19:25.840 Yeah, so Carl Jung. 0:19:26.240 --> 0:19:32.400 So he was a Swiss Swiss Swiss psychiatrists and psychologists 0:19:32.440 --> 0:19:37.399 who founded so many of these like you know, principles 0:19:37.440 --> 0:19:40.440 to do with our mindset and stuff. And yeah, he's 0:19:40.480 --> 0:19:43.119 really cool. I definitely recommend looking into him. It's like 0:19:43.359 --> 0:19:44.960 some of the stuff's like a little bit hard to 0:19:45.040 --> 0:19:48.440 absorb because it's like kind of complex. But anyway, something 0:19:48.440 --> 0:19:50.600 that I love from him. And I've probably spoken about 0:19:50.640 --> 0:19:56.160 this before, but he said, the curious paradox of wanting 0:19:56.200 --> 0:19:59.080 to change, you know, wanting to get to that next level, 0:19:59.760 --> 0:20:05.200 is you first must accept where you currently are, who 0:20:05.280 --> 0:20:10.160 you are, and like, you know, accept yourself, and then 0:20:10.240 --> 0:20:12.520 you can change. So I think a lot of people 0:20:12.520 --> 0:20:14.159 they're like, oh, but I don't want to, you know, 0:20:14.280 --> 0:20:16.840 like settle, I don't want to be happy with who 0:20:16.880 --> 0:20:19.119 I am or what I've got or how I look 0:20:19.480 --> 0:20:22.960 because I want these other things. And I'm not saying 0:20:23.040 --> 0:20:26.359 that's that's actually not how it is one hundred percent. 0:20:26.480 --> 0:20:30.360 It is so okay to want different things. It's okay 0:20:30.560 --> 0:20:34.760 to you know, have these desires for things to be different, 0:20:35.119 --> 0:20:39.159 like amazing. I have those desires too. But if you 0:20:39.240 --> 0:20:44.040 cannot accept and meet yourself where you currently are, you 0:20:44.119 --> 0:20:47.119 cannot get there. And I know that's like I'm even 0:20:47.320 --> 0:20:48.720 saying it now. I'm like, does that. 0:20:48.680 --> 0:20:51.320 Even make sense, Georgia? But it does. I'm sure. 0:20:51.400 --> 0:20:54.239 I'm sure you kind of recognize that. He also has 0:20:54.280 --> 0:20:57.919 some cool quote quotes like we cannot change anything unless 0:20:57.960 --> 0:21:01.400 we first accept it, so not even yourself, but the scenario. 0:21:02.440 --> 0:21:04.720 And then also he has this famous quote that it's 0:21:04.760 --> 0:21:08.960 like the most terrifying thing you can do is accept yourself. 0:21:09.640 --> 0:21:13.160 And isn't that crazy but almost so true? 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