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Speaker 1: The Rise and Conquered Podcast. I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson,

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Speaker 2: It's a Friday EP.

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Speaker 1: So you know it's a solo episode from Yours Truly

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Speaker 1: a positive thing, so you try to change it. I

436
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 1: remember thinking, oh, if I can just be not as loud,

437
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 1: if I can just kind of you know, listen to

438
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:11,160
Speaker 1: people and not be as you know, out there and whatnot, like,

439
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 1: that's that's what I need to be.

440
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 2: That's going to be better.

441
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 1: And that's just like it makes me so sad to

442
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 1: think about that because when I found that again, like

443
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 1: or not even like you know, four or five years ago,

444
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 1: like I said, that's when I fully stepped into myself.

445
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 1: And like, I think what you don't realize is being

446
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 1: authentically you is so magnetizing and you will attract the

447
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:44,679
Speaker 1: right opportunities, the right people. Like I'm sure there's people

448
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 1: who listen to my podcasts, who watch my stories, watch

449
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:51,120
Speaker 1: my content who just don't like what I do, who

450
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: don't gel with me. And that is so fine, because

451
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,200
Speaker 1: we're not supposed to be liked by other one. If

452
00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 1: we were liked by our own wou'd be like the

453
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 1: most vanilla person. So don't be worried about, you know,

454
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 1: pushing people away or being different, because trust me when

455
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:09,119
Speaker 1: I say you find the right people, you find the

456
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 1: right opportunities for you that are perfect for you, and

457
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 1: anything else just falls away. So a little exercise you

458
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 1: can do with your confidence that I want to give

459
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 1: you guys, you know, I like some actionable things is realizing.

460
00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 1: Like I said, where in your childhood were you really

461
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 1: in your power? Were you really authentically you? And then

462
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 1: somewhere along the way you were told that it was negative?

463
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 1: And then so what I want you to do with

464
00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 1: that is I want you to rewrite the story. I

465
00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 1: want you to really forgive you know, the person or

466
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:46,400
Speaker 1: whatever that gave you that, and decide that you're no

467
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 1: longer going to hold that limiting belief. So this is

468
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 1: kind of called shadow work. I'm going through it very quick.

469
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 1: We go through it so much more in depth in

470
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:56,400
Speaker 1: the Rise and Conquer Project.

471
00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 2: We're actually currently going it going through it a module too.

472
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:03,400
Speaker 1: So obviously you know, like I'm not going to give

473
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 1: you the most extensive thing, because that would be quite

474
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 1: rude for all the people who you know, have paid

475
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 1: for the course material and who were doing the work.

476
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:15,440
Speaker 1: So this is like really quick skimming the surface sort

477
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:17,679
Speaker 1: of exercise. And if you do want to go deeper

478
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,400
Speaker 1: than this, come and join the Rice and Conquer project.

479
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 1: We're currently closed, but it is probably going to be

480
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:27,399
Speaker 1: reopened like mid year, and it's really like life change

481
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 1: and stuff, but just really quickly something you know you

482
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:34,239
Speaker 1: can do, Like I said, pick up that sort of

483
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 1: thing used to be but you were told was negative.

484
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,920
Speaker 1: So for example, I'll do me and it will make

485
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,439
Speaker 1: a lot more sense. So when I was younger, I

486
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 1: was very loud, outspoken, and you know, confidently me along

487
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:50,359
Speaker 1: the way, I was told that I was too loud.

488
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:53,199
Speaker 1: I was a too you know, a fog horn, and

489
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 1: it wasn't a good thing. So I tried to keep

490
00:27:56,640 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 1: myself smaller. I tried to be quieter. So long a way,

491
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 1: I pick up that that was negative. So that was

492
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 1: really probably you know, from my family, my parents, And

493
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:09,719
Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, my parents are the best you know,

494
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:13,160
Speaker 1: parents ever, And honestly, I was like talking to someone

495
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,359
Speaker 1: the other day, but if you are a parent, I

496
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 1: think there's honestly no way you cannot give your child

497
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 1: a limiting belief or something like I guarantee what I'm

498
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,680
Speaker 1: saying now, if my you know, mom and dad were

499
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:29,159
Speaker 1: to listen to this podcast, which they do listen to

500
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 1: my podcast, So if you're listening, mom and dad, I

501
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 1: love you.

502
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 2: We're the best parents.

503
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 1: But I'm sure they weren't even saying it in a

504
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 1: bad way, Like I'm sure they're just like, oh, Georgia,

505
00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 1: you're a foghorn. But when we're younger, we take things

506
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 1: in different ways.

507
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 2: So this is my experience.

508
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 1: It may not be you know, my parents' experience or

509
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: you know whatnot. And I actually have this clear memory

510
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 1: of my mom kind of saying it and being like Georgia,

511
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: you know you so loud, like you know, blah blah blah,

512
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 1: and kind of saying in a negative tone. So whether

513
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 1: or not that's like actually correct in her memory, Honestly,

514
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 1: doesn't matter because it's what I've picked up. So to

515
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 1: rewrite that story, I would go, it is not you know, negative,

516
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 1: to be loud, to be myself, to be upspoken, This

517
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 1: is a positive.

518
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 2: This is who I am.

519
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 1: This is one of my strengths, this is one of

520
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 1: my powers. I forgive you know, my parents or my

521
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 1: mom forgiving me this negative story for whatever reason. And honestly,

522
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 1: it's because my mom is the opposite to what I am.

523
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 1: So she is quite reserved, quite quiet, you know, very

524
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 1: much thinks before she speaks. So in her mind it's

525
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 1: probably just because I was opposite to her, which is

526
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 1: not you know, not bad at all. But so I

527
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 1: forgive my mom, you know, or my parents forgiving me

528
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: this negative story. But I do not have to carry

529
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 1: this anymore. I can be loud, I can be you know, outspoken.

530
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 1: That is authentically me, and this is my new story.

531
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 2: So you'd just do.

532
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 1: Something simple like that, feel into it, give yourself the

533
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 1: news story. So that's just like a very simple exercise

534
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 1: you can really do to like kind of step in

535
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 1: your into your confidence. Also realize, like if there's someone

536
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 1: else who triggers you. So let's just say a very

537
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: good example. You know, Let's say there's this girl and

538
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 1: maybe she wears a red lip, maybe you know, she

539
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 1: wears revealing clothes, and you're like, who was she to

540
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 1: you know, be so confidence, to be so sexual, to

541
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 1: be you know, really in her power, because I'm guessing

542
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 1: that's really authentic for her. If you were triggered by

543
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 1: something like that, it probably means you wish you were

544
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 1: more confident in that aspect of yourself. And I'm honestly

545
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 1: saying this from personal experience. I grew up at Jehovah's

546
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 1: witness where it was like no sex before marriage. So

547
00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 1: I actually had to do a lot of like trauma

548
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 1: work and inner work around being okay with being a

549
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 1: sexual person because I literally was told growing up that

550
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 1: you don't have sex before marriage and wasn't allowed of boyfriends.

551
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 1: So you know, when and I to be very honest

552
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 1: with you, like I had my first boyfriend when I

553
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: was like fourteen, you know, we did have sex and whatnot,

554
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 1: bit it was almost this like, oh, this is being

555
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 1: sinful and I shouldn't be you know, having sex and

556
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 1: all these sorts of things. So I actually had that

557
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 1: a lot of like weird sort of things around that.

558
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 2: That I had to do work on.

559
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 1: And if someone was so like open about being sexual

560
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 1: and you know, being into that.

561
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 2: That would trigger me.

562
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 1: And you know, I could go the whole route of like, oh,

563
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 1: she's such a slut or this and that, but please

564
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 1: do not do that. Guys, when you get triggered by someone,

565
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 1: it is honestly because you have not accepted that side

566
00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: of yourself or you wish you could be more confident

567
00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 1: in that side of yourself. And so anytime that happens,

568
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 1: like stop, can we all just stop being so fucking judgy,

569
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 1: Stop being judgy, be observant. That's even Like, you know,

570
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 1: when people get triggered when I talk about money or

571
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 1: property or anything like that, I guarantee you it's because

572
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 1: they have issues or work they need to do.

573
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 2: Around their money story.

574
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,520
Speaker 1: So when they see me saying stuff like money just

575
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: comes to me, like I've done so much work around

576
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:34,959
Speaker 1: my money story that honestly, like money literally just fucking

577
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 1: flows to me. The way it comes up in my

578
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 1: life is ridiculous because I have no blocks around money

579
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 1: and no issues there where I previously did. So if

580
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: that triggers you, it means you need to work on that,

581
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 1: and that's exactly with confidence. So I've kind of gone

582
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 1: off and rent here when haven't I also just looked

583
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 1: and it's like thirty minutes supposed to be a quick episode,

584
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 1: but just no guys like and this isn't even I

585
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 1: was even gonna talk about like body confidence and whatnot.

586
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 1: But honestly, it's the same. And like I said, you

587
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:10,920
Speaker 1: can still desire to be different but accept yourself and

588
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 1: be happy with how you are simultaneously like at the

589
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 1: same time. That is honestly, you know what I used

590
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 1: to do in regards to when I had certain like

591
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 1: fitness goals and whatnot. And I think it's just so important.

592
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: Stop putting yourself down, stop belitting yourself, stop keeping yourself small.

593
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 1: You need to accept yourself, your authentic self, and that will,

594
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 1: honestly like put you in alignment. When we're like really

595
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 1: stepping into our power as you know, our authentic self

596
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:47,040
Speaker 1: and we accept ourselves and we therefore feel more confident,

597
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 1: that's where the magic happens. That's when you know, the

598
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 1: right people get attracted, that's when the right opportunities and

599
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 1: all that sort of thing. And like I said, it's

600
00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 1: about stepping into that room. And being like, no one

601
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 1: can and shake me because I know who I am,

602
00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 1: I know what I bring to the table, I know

603
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 1: you know my strengths, I know my weaknesses, and I'm

604
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:10,439
Speaker 1: okay with it. So you know, that's even like I've

605
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:13,759
Speaker 1: noticed a huge trend currently in the group, which is

606
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 1: so normal for week two where people are like, oh,

607
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 1: you know, but I'm worried about what other people say

608
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:22,240
Speaker 1: about my desires or the business I want to create,

609
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 1: or you know, posting on social media and this and that.

610
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:29,399
Speaker 1: And my thing is always like, who fucking cares what

611
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: other people think? And I know that's like so much

612
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 1: easier to say, but that honestly comes from when you're

613
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 1: confident in yourself and everything you're doing. You don't care

614
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 1: what other people say. You don't you know, you're not

615
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 1: worried about that sort of thing because you're staying in

616
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:50,839
Speaker 1: your own land. You're focusing on yourself. And also being

617
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 1: confident is like if there is someone who you know

618
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 1: is maybe where you want to be, or they're more

619
00:34:56,800 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 1: successful quote unquote, or you know any think like that,

620
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 1: be happy for that person and be like that's inspiring

621
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 1: because if that person got there, so can I. Instead

622
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:13,320
Speaker 1: of trying to put that person down and going oh,

623
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 1: well they probably got help for this, and that they're

624
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,239
Speaker 1: only there because of this and that, and again been

625
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 1: judging me, been a judge, little bitch, don't do that,

626
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:24,359
Speaker 1: and be like, holy shit, if that person can do that,

627
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:27,839
Speaker 1: so can I, and be like, honestly like send that

628
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: person gratitude and be like fucking well done.

629
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 2: Good on you. You have just.

630
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 1: Made me realize my potential and what I can do

631
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:38,799
Speaker 1: because one hundred percent, if someone does it, so can you.

632
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 1: So again went off on a rant there, but I

633
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 1: just felt super cold to do this. I've got to

634
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 1: read you that last card. And also, guys, so something

635
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: I want to do and this has just come from

636
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 1: me and Tim did a Q and A in the

637
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 1: last episode. We literally got the best feedback.

638
00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 2: It was charting.

639
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 1: It was it was clear a fun episode. So if

640
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: you haven't listened to that, go back an episode. Listen

641
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 1: to me and Tim chat relationship, sex, everything very raw

642
00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 1: and real. But someone messaged me and was like, I

643
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:13,800
Speaker 1: would absolutely love if you did almost like an advice

644
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:17,440
Speaker 1: column on this podcast where you send in like you know,

645
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 1: an email full scenario and I give you advice. So

646
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 1: This is actually what I do in the Rise and

647
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:26,280
Speaker 1: Conquer podcast. I answer questions, but obviously it's very focused

648
00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:28,839
Speaker 1: on what we learn about, so this would be more

649
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,839
Speaker 1: of like a broader thing, like literally any scenario in life.

650
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:35,440
Speaker 1: And obviously I'm not a health practitioner. I'm not a

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Speaker 1: mental health practitioner, Like I'm not going to be answering

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Speaker 1: stuff where you know you should be seeing a professional

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Speaker 1: or anything like that. I'm just talking more like life

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Speaker 1: sort of yeah, advice column sort of stuff. So I'm

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Speaker 1: going to do that in the next couple of episodes.

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Speaker 1: So if you have any questions for me, literally anything,

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Speaker 1: send me an email at Georgie at Georgie Stevenson dot

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Speaker 1: I will put this in the show notes. Jamie, please

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Speaker 1: put this in the show notes. Send send us an email,

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Speaker 1: put the subject line as advice question for Georgie. Makes

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Speaker 1: you put that so Jamie can organize them in a folder,

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Speaker 1: And in the next couple of episodes, I will do

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Speaker 1: that and just answer some of your questions because I

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Speaker 1: was thinking, you know, do I do like a Q

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Speaker 1: and A and stuff, But it's like I don't want

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Speaker 1: to answer questions about myself. I'm sure you guys know everything.

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Speaker 1: I'd rather answer your questions about your life and give you,

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Speaker 1: you know, advice, and maybe you just need to see

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Speaker 1: a scenario or a different way, and I just need

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Speaker 1: to shed a bit of light. I thought it would

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Speaker 1: be a bit of fun, change up some content. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: it makes you send me an email. But to finish

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Speaker 1: the podcast, it's a long eat today?

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Speaker 2: Is it a long ee? I feel like it's always

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Speaker 2: this long, all right?

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Speaker 1: So literally the card that I pulled, and this is

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Speaker 1: from the Dreamy Moon Cosmic Guidance Oracle deck, it says

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Speaker 1: the card is member who you are, returned to the roots.

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Speaker 1: Is that not the most fitting thing ever about talking

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Speaker 1: about confidence and being your most authentic self? So, guys,

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Speaker 1: to leave you, to leave you? This is what the

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Speaker 1: So there's a little quote and it says, stop acting small.

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Speaker 1: You are the universe in estatic motion.

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Speaker 2: Beautiful.

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Speaker 1: So the meaning of this card who are you? Not

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Speaker 1: your name or nationality or age, not your occupation, social

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Speaker 1: status or labels? Who are you underneath all of that?

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Speaker 1: Or I just got shivers because that's what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 1: Like confidence, It's nothing fucking to do with how you

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Speaker 1: look or your job or who you know. It's like,

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Speaker 1: who are you at a soul level? Let's accept that,

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Speaker 1: Let's get comfortable with that, and I promise you you'll

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Speaker 1: have all the.

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Speaker 2: Confidence in the world.

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Speaker 1: So it then goes on. You can lose sight of

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Speaker 1: your true self if you are surrounded by those who

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Speaker 1: are already lost sight of their true self. Instead of

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Speaker 1: encouraging you to embrace your individuality and uniqueness, the society

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Speaker 1: can mold you into something you're not. It can make

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Speaker 1: you believe things about yourself that are untrue, or make

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Speaker 1: your self conscious about your true passions and interests. Remember

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Speaker 1: what once brought you to joy, Remember all that you

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Speaker 1: gave up in order to fit in. You are a

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Speaker 1: physical manifestation of the universe itself. You are a powerful

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Speaker 1: creator of your own reality. Remember that, and it says

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Speaker 1: an exercise from this card because it gives you a

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Speaker 1: cute little exercise. Open your journal and intuitively write everything

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Speaker 1: that comes to your head when you ask yourself, who

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Speaker 1: am I? And then also ask yourself slash journal, how

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Speaker 1: can I be more true to myself?

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Speaker 2: Ah? Was that not the most perfect card? Honestly, guys?

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Speaker 1: And the affirmation is I am in alignment with my

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Speaker 1: true self. I am the universe itself. And that's like

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Speaker 1: just you know, that was like all kind of what

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Speaker 1: I was talking about is like when you're a child,

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Speaker 1: you know who you are, you know what you're interested in,

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Speaker 1: you know your passions, and then along the way we

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Speaker 1: kind of get a bit fucked up because of society

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Speaker 1: and whatnot. So it's like, let's get back to those roots.

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Speaker 1: Let's get back into alignment. Do that little exercise if

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Speaker 1: you want to. And I just love this, Like I

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Speaker 1: am the universe like you, like you, you as a

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Speaker 1: person were manifested. You were meant to be here. You

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Speaker 1: were always enough, you were guided, you were supported. This

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Speaker 1: is not a mistake. You were meant to be here.

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Speaker 1: You're meant to be listening to this episode. What you

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Speaker 1: do next is up to you. Are you going to

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Speaker 1: do the inner work? Are you going to you know,

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Speaker 1: find that most authentic self so you can be confident,

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Speaker 1: or are you going to continue listen to people who

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Speaker 1: put you down, listen to your negative thoughts and not

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Speaker 1: change your court rn C, fam, I love you, but

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Speaker 1: you know I've got to give you some tough love

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Speaker 1: every now and again. All right, guys, I'm going to

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Speaker 1: leave you with that, Thank you so much for listening.

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Speaker 1: I felt so in tune of this episode. I really

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Speaker 1: hope you liked it. If you did like it, guys,

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Speaker 1: make sure you share it with a girlfriend or someone

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Speaker 1: who might think will benefit from that. You know, it's

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Speaker 1: just me and Jamie who run this podcast, and the

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Speaker 1: fact that we're on the charts and all that, and

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Speaker 1: I literally record in my office very makeshift is honestly incredible,

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Speaker 1: and you sharing it to your stories and tagging us

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Speaker 1: or your friends is how we get more people to

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Speaker 1: listen and how I can help other.

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Speaker 2: Women and people. So I really appreciate if you do that.

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Speaker 1: Love you so much, excited to do the advice column

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Speaker 1: makes you send in a question. But yeah, I'll chat

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Speaker 1: to you guys in the next episode.

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Speaker 2: Bye.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for listening for another R and C episode.

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Speaker 1: I really appreciate taking the time to be here with me,

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Speaker 1: and also for taking the time for your If you

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Speaker 1: found this episode helpful, it would be so amazing if

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Speaker 1: you shared it on your stories and tagged us, or

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Speaker 1: simply just send it on to a girlfriend or family

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Speaker 1: member who would benefit from listening. We are an independent

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Speaker 1: podcast run by me and my amazing podcast manager, so

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Speaker 1: it would mean the world to us if you left

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Speaker 1: a review on the Apple podcast app. Also, if you're

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Speaker 1: vibing this podcast and the concepts we're chatting about, and

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Speaker 1: your craving community, please come and join us over at

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Speaker 1: the RNC podcast community Facebook group. Just search Rise and

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Speaker 1: Conquer podcast community on Facebook and I will be in there.

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Speaker 2: To chat to you until next time.

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Speaker 1: Didn't anything to